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| 1 | Men admit they can't meet any standards. There is a website I won’t bother linking to that alleges to show how "delusional" a woman is by having any standards whatsoever. I put in the barest of minimums to see how many men in the US meet them. I cannot stop laughing at this self own. What failures. | ROAST-A-SCROTE | Vector_4_Food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Thanks for helping 911! | FDS HUMOR | Vector_4_Food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:49 AM |
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| 37 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?When my mom died, my brother went to jail at the same time. I was grieving the loss of my family. He flew to California to help (one of) his side pieces have an abortion and I found the airline receipts. I was in the depths of despair and didn't get out immediately. Took 8 more months to crawl out of my emotional pit and divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How police officers cheat and vetting strategies to get the truth.Having been married to a cop, they will ramp up the abuse when you expose their cheating. Just. Don't join that circus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 134 | The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women doThis isn't just a pet he's asking her to give up. This is clearly her lifestyle. Please let this woman throw this trash away and go back to being happy in the stables with her friends and horse. Hope she finds a cowboy or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 96 | Tell us about the PickMe friend(s) you ditched!My friend started her 3rd, very contentious divorce. It was from a dude who wasn't divorced when they met and moved in together. She obviously ignored everyone who said this was a bad idea. She texted me during the split " OMG I NEED A GIRLS' VACAY. I need to get back out there." Not a chance girl. Blocked and deleted. She's in her mid 40s. She's never changing and I'm not getting dragged into her BS anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼♀️ (repost!)Nothing says true love like trying to secretly ruin your partner financially. Who even comes up with this shit... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:07 AM |
| 62 | We're not doing it anymoreWe never needed them. They just beat us up and brainwashed us until we didn't have a choice. There's not a living creature on earth where the female requires a male's presence to survive. We simply got sick of being forced to their whims. It's easier now with our advanced technology and communication to live comfortably and spread awareness between ourselves of our value and our capabilities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | FDS users with little to no family, what keeps you going?Most of my family is dead, and I (thankfully!) never had kids with my abusive x-hoesband. When I find something that makes me fuzzy inside I do that as much as possible. Usually it's charity, gifts for and time spent with my lifelong friends, and spending time with animals. Find your warm fuzzy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Am I on a different planet? 🙃If you hang out with 4 thieves you'll be the 5th. If you hang out with 4 philosophers you'll be the 5th. People are social creatures. There's an unreasonable amount of pressure to conform to our social environment. The one you are in doesn't align with your values. Finding a better fit will initially be uncomfortable but well worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a financial contract. Many IRL examples are showing it does not protect us the way we think it does. If knowledgeable please advise. (CF)Married for 4 years in US. I received nothing. I could have pursued an "at-fault" divorce in my state since I had copious amounts of proof of his numerous affairs and abortions. At the time I just wanted his trash ass out of my life so I took the path of least resistance to get him to sign the papers. So, even if you CAN financially benefit after a divorce, your mental health and free time may not be worth the trade of a protracted legal battle. I have no argument how it would benefit someone wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on dating a man whose dad is a serial cheater?If you ain't happy with the way you feel, ✌ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 14 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itSex addiction frequently is a symptom of other disorders. My diagnosed NPD ex was a sex addict cause what better way to get attention and exert control. Sex addiction wasn't even the worst of his behavior. (I'll never do that again, you can't save these dudes 🤡) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 05:33 PM |
| 546 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.My mother was a college professor (70's-2000's) She told me about the endless predatory behavior found in academia. It was nauseating. She had to move jobs a couple times because her mentors or superiors expected sex in exchange for her promotion/consideration/publication. There has to be somewhere you can report this behavior to. He'll keep doing it and worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:27 PM |
| 16 | Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requestedI'm only early 40s but I've noticed this: Women in a public platform are far more likely to loudly call out BS. For example, when an actress is quizzed on what underwear they wore on set. Yay. Do not engage in that bdsm crap. I was married to a dude that was into it. I enjoy a few things like dressing up but very quickly he showed his true colors. He was physically and sexually amd emotionally abusive and anyone we met in those circles was deeply injured-compulsive liars, traumatized, abusive, e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:49 PM |
| 20 | What made you finally decenter men from your life?Omg so cliche but I had just gotten out of a marriage with a diagnosed narcissist (rare they get diagnosed at all but hey, I "bullied" him into gOiNg tO tHeRaPy). Two months later I had a heart attack and a near death experience. Cheesy as hell but the love, peace and expansiveness I felt while dying was the first time I felt love since my mom died. The relationships I had with men were a life destroying slog that I got nothing in return for. And I now know that I can create that feeling of love… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 10:33 PM |
| 20 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I can't imagine "making it work" with a scrote who's so dangerously insecure he's threatened by a dead guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:35 PM |
| 180 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...My brother spends his time either homeless or in jail. My family did our best to treat his antisocial personality disorder but those things are nearly untreatable. Destroyed our family though. After some time on the streets and doing God knows what drugs I think he might have developed other mental conditions. He's definitely violent and deserves to be in jail. I also have limited sympathy for single homeless men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:38 AM |
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