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No and no. No offense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:26 PM
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I don’t see posts of men asking “where are the hot girls” or “I rarely see attractive women when I go out”. But they do 💀 You’ll see posts saying how American women were fat and unattractive which obviously is not true, but men still say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:36 PM
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When did I say those were the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:01 PM
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Not true. I’ve seen men call objectively pretty/beautiful women “mid”. Men don’t have high standards when it comes to hooking up, but who they want to date is a different ballgame. Men are just not as diverse with their tastes as they like to make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:00 PM
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Some do. But a lot don’t cause if they knew then they wouldn’t hate women for picking “Chad” over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:12 PM
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Yess. What I mean is men don’t understand why they don’t have the same options as “Chad”. And yes it’s because they’re out of their league but men haven’t made that connection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:39 PM
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Yup. Men date who they can, not who they want. I think a lot of them are with women they don’t truly desire, which is why I feel like women have no choice but to be selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:07 PM
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100% agree. The default woman for men is already attractive in the first place. I think that’s why so many men have a skewed view of beauty and are unsure of what they “deserve”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:00 PM
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Those stats just show that people are pickier online. I didn’t say that women aren’t picky, just that they’re more likely to look past looks as long as you bring something else to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:16 PM
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Women are not as shallow and will try to give someone who isn’t their type on paper a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:13 PM
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Because you’re assuming my appearance over a comment lmao so what else would it be besides projection? And your username doesn’t help either. I’m pretty because I get compliments and that’s actually my point. I’m not even ugly but that’s not good enough for men because they’re picky or desperate which is what you see in the photos you’ve linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:50 PM
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Desperate men don’t count. And Lmao keep projecting! Not everyone’s hideous like you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:36 PM
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Lmaoo I’m not ugly. Also, how does having 200 likes on a Facebook photo prove my point. Did it oever cross your mind that they could be from friends and family?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:05 AM
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Mmm I don’t know. If you’re not a man’s dream girl you’re cooked. He will always seek out what he truly desires, so what is the point of giving your all to a man when you will never be enough for them??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:09 PM
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Bro who wants to date a man who finds them unattractive like what lmaoo. The things men say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:25 PM
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Wholeheartedly disagree especially with the attractiveness. Look at the type of women men follow on IG. It speaks for itself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:48 PM
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And if men want something they should be better off taking appropriate actions to get it, so once again everything you say about women applies to men. And that’s hilarious because I would not date men older than 30. Not every young woman wants an older man and not every woman care about status. Women generally tend to prefer that sweet spot where their partner is 2-4 years older, not men who are 15 years older, unless they’re loaded. Women generally want someone who has something going for them …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:28 PM
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Yup. They will view women as worthless regardless so this is why we should do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:16 PM
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Okay so what? It doesn’t mean that dogs who are not in that age group aren’t deserving of being given a home or being loved. Both men and women fundamentally want the same things so once again more made up bs for restricting women. Also, everyone’s options will decrease as they age because lots of the good ones will get snatched up sooner, and believe it or not, that includes men!!! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:11 PM
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How does bonding with a dog relate to human dynamics?? And even if we’re going by that analogy, people can adopt a dog who is 10 years old and still form a wonderful bond with them. But most importantly why do these restrictions only conveniently apply to women? If my value as a woman decreases on the “open market”, then what incentive do I have to get married? Because if they leave me when I’m 40, then I’m on the market again with “no value”, so why does it matter if I settle down now? I might …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:41 PM
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And people tell women to give the ugly guy a chance… bahahah 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:30 PM
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Someone told me I was expired because I’m 24 😂 Women are constantly told their value decreases with every second so it’s not like we have no reason to think men would drop them in a heartbeat for a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:16 PM
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I got out of a 5 year relationship where I did all of that, so I’m definitely not lazy. I’m obviously not talking about dating, I’m talking about the stage before a date even happens. If a woman still has to ask a man out on a date after she has already signaled interest then that man doesn’t like her like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:34 PM
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So did you not read where I said I do talk to them? I’m talking about signaling interest. I do converse with them text them and if I feel like they’re being dry then I stop, because why am I begging someone who isn’t that interested because once again the point is if men wanted to they would’ve initiated from the beginning. Men don’t play hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:22 PM
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The point still stands. If a man is interested in getting to you know, then he will still try make it known period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:56 AM
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So talking to someone is not approaching now? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:50 AM
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How else do you approach someone??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:05 AM
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Men’s definition of taking what they can get is most likely still above them. That’s what I’ve seen online and in real life. That’s why there’s so many lonely men. They don’t think anyone is good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:04 AM
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I make eye contact with them several times and smile. If it was a social setting I tried talking to them or engaging in whatever they were doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:51 PM
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I know I’m just specifying because a lot of people confuse men’s desperation to have sex with attraction. Also yea it doesn’t change the fact that men have unrealistic standards. I’m not saying women aren’t picky, just that men are more unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:54 PM
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It is. Men aren’t picky when it comes to sex and that’s what people get confused by. If we’re talking about actual relationships, women get the short end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:38 PM
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Men are pickier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:23 PM
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Yea men on average do approach women less nowadays, but they still approach them everywhere like at coffee shops, parks, gyms, social activities, etc. Women never had an issue with men approaching, it was how the approach was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:55 PM
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There’s no strategy behind me not approaching. It’s knowing that men are not shy about expressing their interests in the women they want. So why would I set myself up for failure approaching someone who if wanted me would’ve made it known. If a man wants to get to know you, he will likely find a way to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:30 PM
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I’m not against women pursuing men, I’m just saying it usually ends in a dynamic where women end up carrying the weight of the emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:07 PM
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I no longer initiate because I feel like I end up being more interested in them than they are in me. If a man truly desires you, then I feel like he would find a way to make his interest known. I’m tired of being the obsessed one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:56 PM
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I agree. Men are simple, so it’s never about women not understanding men’s behavior. It’s just a cover-up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:06 PM
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Idc about passport bros. If you have to travel 10,000 miles to get pussy, then okay so be it lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:46 PM
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I agree like why do people automatically assume the ugly guy is a sweetheart. Some of those mfers are just as ruthless as the attractive ones, if not worse 😂The reverse halo effect is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:22 PM
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No, the problem is women are held to a high beauty standard meaning men have high physical standards for women. So a lot of what men consider settling is probably women in their league. I know it’s a tough pill to swallow as men don’t know what place they fall into. And either way that doesn’t address my point. Why nitpick and analyze the actions of women you will never have access to? The women you want will never want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:03 AM
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Don’t you guys always say you’ll be with a short, balding, unemployed… Hmm nah I wouldn’t say all of that 😂. Women aren’t as picky as men, that’s true, but most of us still want to come home to a cute face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:34 AM
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That’s actually a good point. Why do men lose sleep and excessively obsess over women they’re never going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:05 AM
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I won’t lie, I think women do find a small % of men attractive (so do men btw), but the point is not every women’s 20% is going to look the same. The men in my 20% are not going to look like the next women’s 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:00 AM
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It’s not the same but it’s the best alternative you have. And no not really your brain does not require sex or else you’ll have a headache. You’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:22 PM
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How? Reality does not prove that most men are highly desirable to women. If it did then why do so many men complain about finding a partner. If they were desirable they would’ve had it by now. Why would 80% of divorces be initiated by women? Why do women constantly find 10-20% of men attractive? It’s not adding up. You’re not as desirable as you think you are, sorry it’s just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:33 PM
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Let me hold your hand when I say this, men are not as attractive to women as they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:32 PM
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I’m confused, how do y'all have to suppress anything, when you can just masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:07 PM
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Adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:45 PM
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Women use the pencil and sharpener analogy because they were tired of being compared to a lock. I don’t think you understand that I’m not disagreeing with the fact women don’t want a guy with a high body count. My argument is that the “backlash” men get for being promiscuous is nonexistent compared to the shit women face. Women are expected to be pure, men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:48 PM
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I’m in my 20’s too and not really like what’s the worst they’re called, a fuckboy? And even then people think it’s a compliment. I do agree there are more women refusing community peen, but they still don’t face the same backlash women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:41 PM
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As I said you can recognize someone is physically attractive without wanting to have sex with them. There is no bad news because no one is talking about acknowledging attractiveness, it’s about lusting and wanting to bang other people. Yes people actually have self-control and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:12 AM
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It is, there’s always talk about how a man who sleeps with a bunch of women is a good thing because it’s an indicator of how desirable they are. Why do you think the master key/bad lock analogy is so popular? Men are encouraged to sleep around and usually leave unscathed when doing the same things that get women crucified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:08 PM
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And I don’t control anything. I just happened to end up with someone who didn’t consume that content, and discovered how great it feels to be in a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:18 PM
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Did you not read the part where I said I don’t care about recognizing and admiring other people’s beauty? I’m specifically talking about fantasizing and lusting. You can find someone attractive and not want to have sex with them. Hope that helps!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:16 PM
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Not wanting your bf to jerk off to other women is perfectly reasonable and not insecure. Most women don’t care about men admiring women, but fantasizing is different. Men would feel the same if they knew their gf’s were thinking about banging other men. I don’t think any of it should matter. As I said before, to each their own. It’s just funny how people act like not wanting someone who watches porn is some crazy extreme demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:07 PM
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Regardless, I'd see a woman caring about my porn consumption as a huge red flag, so I think I'll avoid bringing it up bc it might get me unwanted attention. How is that a red flag? Watching porn is becoming a dealbreaker for many women and they’re 100% entitled to set that boundary. It’s better to find that out sooner than 2-3 years in. We're not exactly hard to find. Y’all are though. Probably a little over half of men watch porn, and keep in mind most are already in relationships so probably f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:29 PM
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To each their own. Either way you won’t have a hard time finding a gf. Men like you are in demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:10 PM
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Lol he doesnt because I was the one who watched porn as I had no issue with it at the time.There’d be no reason to hide it. Sorry not all men are degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:48 PM
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Whether or not you can achieve that is a conversation for another day. The point is it’s not impossible and, when they do it they are not shamed. Men are practically rewarded for degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:43 PM
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I agree. My bf is the first guy I've ever met to not watch porn. It’s an amazing feeling to know that he's not salivating or lusting over other women. Idk why women settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:38 PM
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Men can date and sleep with as many women as they want to without being shamed. They can wear what they want without having to fear being sexually assaulted. Women are expected to be attractive at all times while men can get away with being ugly. Men can have children up into their 90’s (not good quality sperm but still), whereas women can’t starting their mid 40’s. There’s always a million excuses for men’s behavior, just say men are biologically wired to do so and so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:02 AM
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I do think life is easier for men as there are less restrictions for them. However I’d still prefer being a woman despite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:29 PM
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Any women can get attention from men so that proves nothing. You’re correct but not all attention is equal. There’s a difference between receiving attention from someone who wants to spoil and take care of you, and someone who’s only doing it because they’re sad and horny. It’s about the quality. How it is possible that most men are ugly/unattractive when most are average? Because it’s overblown. Women only say that because guys don’t take care of themselves, and that does affect appearance. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:57 PM
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Some women really cannot believe that men prefer thing out of the norm because they rarely do themselves. No it’s because we have eyes and we see the specific type of women that get the attention from guys. Guys have a very skewed sense of beauty. It is way easier for a woman to be considered attractive than it is for a man to be seen as attractive. Women put more effort into their appearance like invest in their hair, skin, body care, clothes, etc, but men can literally do the same. Women also …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:55 PM
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They’re simply not as I said don’t let their desperation fool you. Men have insanely high beauty standards, that’s why they’re called visual creatures. There are very few women into fat or short men. Yet I see plenty of fat and short men in relationships so clearly it’s not as serious as people think. Yes height can add a crazy advantage, but it is not the be-all and end-all. Women have a more holistic approach. Typically the most attractive men. That doesn’t happen but even if that were the cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:33 PM
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Men are more accepting of women. They’re not. They’re accepting of height so I’ll give you that, but other than that they find the same type of women attractive. Look at the women who get the most attention from men on social media. They look the same. chatted with the profiles for a good amount of time. Yea that doesn’t really prove anything because they can just be playing nice until they meet up. A woman matching us does not necessarily mean she is interested romantically. The point is it’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:01 PM
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You should be asking how much men is she attracted to. Probably the same as men attracted to women. As I said men play a numbers game so that gives the illusion of men being more accepting of women. They’re not, they’re just more desperate. Men would swipe on a single digit of women if they could, they just don’t because they can’t afford to. who were kind, good profiles Yea sorry but we don’t know their intentions. If a guy reaches out, it’s a good chance he’s just lonely and horny. At least if…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:43 AM
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It’s basically the same for women. Women get more matches but how many of those guys are genuinely interested or attracted to her? Probably not that many since it’s mainly a numbers game for men. Both sides have their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:56 AM
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Well what’s considered decent might vary depending on the woman, but for the most part it's a nice smile, good lighting, full body shot, something outdoors, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:05 AM
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That is very strange considering you're tall so technically “in demand”. Are you facially ugly or average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:02 AM
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Thank youu. As a 23y/o idk where people get the idea that we like old guys. The average young woman is not salivating over a man 20 years her senior. Most of us date within our age range +/- 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:41 AM
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How tall are you? Maybe its your bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:34 AM
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I agree. People overestimate how hard it is for guys to match with women. Have an interesting bio and decent pictures, and you're set.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:33 AM
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I look up to no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:20 AM
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Men rob, brutalize, rape, and kill each other. They’re literally their own enemy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:13 PM
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Thank youuu. The issue here is men overestimate their desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:48 PM
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Brunettes getting some love 🤎🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:12 PM
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I agree and it’s all about relativity. A 35 year old woman would be the younger woman to a 50 year old. A 50 year old woman is considered a younger woman to a 65 year old, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:46 AM
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Can I ask what rating you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:18 PM
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Men genuinely don’t know their league and it’s hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:11 PM
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Men treat women they would never fuck nice or respectful all the time As I said, that’s not true. Talk to any woman who has had a glow up and they will tell you how differently they’re treated by men. And why I’m trying to stress to you how you are treated or if someone want to fuck you or etc doesn’t mean that man things you are sexually attractive And for the millionth time that’s why I said I don’t use sex as a metric. Everytime I’m out with guys they constantly call the same type of women at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:45 PM
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That's not true at all. When I was with my prettier friend, I was invisible and ignored by guys. I was an afterthought and they were not kind to me in her presence. But once I was with my heavier less attractive friend it was the opposite. I know it’s a tough pill to swallow but men are very shallow and will treat women differently based on how attracted they are to them. Society treats attractive people better. And as I said I’m not just talking about hooking up because everyone knows men are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:09 PM
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Don't worry, I don't use sex as a metric because I already know men are dogs and would bang anything. Male attention is meaningless you're 100% right. I say I'm not ugly because of how dudes have treated me in the presence of either a less attractive or more attractive person. I don't need some loser maidenless dude telling me I don't know how attractive I am. The women you want will never want you. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:46 PM
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Lmao I'm not ugly so that’s how I know it’s not vastly different. I've had friends less attractive and more attractive than men yet we still shared similar views of men. Obviously not identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:34 PM
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Lmao pulling the ugly feminist card. Attractive, mid, and ugly women have all dealt with the same type of men and have run into the same type of situations. Attractiveness doesn’t have much of an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:46 PM
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This. At the end of the day it’s more about transferable skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:10 PM
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Yup all the frat boys do business
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:08 PM
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My bf had a “useless” major (Anthropology). I was a Biology major (tbh still kind of useless lol), but you can still take classes in other majors. College is more than your class schedule. Lots of people meet through clubs, campus events, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:07 PM
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Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:01 PM
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I agree. It’s all about making the most of what YOU already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:57 PM
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Your observations and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:25 PM
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Lmaoo you wouldn’t be saying that if there was no proof of how rampant misogyny is. But ooh it’s men so there doesn’t have to be a source or evidence for that. It’s all in your head, sorry buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:24 PM
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There’s not going to be a source specifically on incels, but there’s a bunch about how rampant misogyny is online. You can’t even find one for misandry so that should you tell it’s not even common enough for there be research on. https://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/2024/feb/social-media-algorithms-amplify-misogynistic-content-teens https://theconversation.com/we-research-online-misogynist-radicalisation-heres-what-parents-of-boys-should-know-232901 https://time.com/6257188/disinformation-women-online-hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:50 PM
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Who is saying that? Because the average feminist is not saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:20 PM
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How do those leaders and icons hate men though? It seems like there’s confusion about what counts as hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:20 PM
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There’s more more incels than misandrists so there’s more reason to call them out, because they are everywhere. But even then, I don’t take them seriously. They’re fun to laugh at and I wouldn’t waste my breath on them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:19 PM
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You’re not going to find a bunch of people who condemn feminist man-hating because, feminists who hate men are the minority so there’s not really a need to call out the outlier. The average feminist does not hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:05 PM
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They probably end up with other guys with a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:18 PM
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Lol I’m in that same group! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:02 PM
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Lol my bf has all of those traits and I see a lot of taken men with those traits so clearly women love that. There are lots of women who value looks over everything else but that's not all women so if those are the only women you notice, that’s on you. Also, that’s why women need to be picky and make sure they’re not getting with men who aren’t that into them. My bf is not “Chad” (very few men are) but he chose me because he’s attracted to me and interested in me. He adores and spoils me. He bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:57 PM
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Yes, women want their partners to have the fundamental traits of kindness, honesty, loyalty, etc. But everything else a woman wants in a guy will vary in interests, looks, personality, hobbies, etc. So not everyone is going for the same person. And maybe they weren’t talking to a bunch of girls, but they didn’t jump at the first option because there’s no reason to date someone you're not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:49 PM
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Life. I can take the subway and spot 10 attractive women in 5 minutes. You can’t do the same for men…. I’m not saying there aren’t attractive men out there but the ratio is far from equal. That’s why you’ll hear about women sharing the same guy because they know the chances of finding someone as attractive as their partner are slim. Not all women do this, but this sharing wouldn’t happen as much if there were more attractive men to pass around. And true, makeup can be deceiving but even taking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:56 AM
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No because there are way more attractive women than attractive men. There’s just not enough attractive men to go around so a good chunk of those women will have to date down in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:09 AM
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I didn’t contradict myself. Women don’t need their bf to have a million options to feel special because that would be unrealistic. But women also don’t want a guy who is only with them because they couldn’t find anyone else and they have every right to not want that. Those two concepts can coexist. Also yes there is. It’s so fascinating to me how y’all just see black and white. It’s either hot Chad drowning in pussy or non-Chad with zero. Meanwhile, I knew several average guys who were the love …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:04 PM
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No because we actually want to feel special. How are you going to tell women what they want. Women want to be adored. There’s a reason why 82% of romance readers are women. Women want affection and appreciation from their partners. And I’m not telling men to give up and accept being alone. It’s about teaching them how to function if they end up being alone. Not everyone is going to find themselves a partner like that’s just the truth and y’all are going to have accept it. And I won’t increase an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:21 PM
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No not really, I don’t think it’s about women wanting a man who has a myriad of options to feel special. It’s more that women don’t to be with a guy who is only with them because they have no choice like that’s pretty humiliating. Men need to stop jumping on every option that surfaces and learn how to be happy on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:47 PM
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Yes wanting affection, love, and sex is biological. I’m not going to dispute that, but the truth is not everyone is guaranteed that. The alternative is settling but whenever I hear of people settling, it always leads to resentment, bitterness, insecurities, dead beadrooms, etc. So it’s best be alone and people need to learn how to cope with that. And actually no I don’t think celibacy is the answer. I think it makes things worse because all it does is create sexual frustration. There are ways to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:38 AM
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I see what you’re saying, the reality is there is always going to be this imbalance. Most women don’t want to be settled for nor will they date a guy who is only with them out of desperation, women want to feel special. So we have women being picky with respect to this -> smaller pool -> more desperation in men -> pickier women. So it’s always going to be a positive feedback loop. What we need to do is normalize men being alone. Not every guy is going to be paired up and that’s okay! Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:33 AM
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I 100% agree. More men need to thug it out until they find their one because not only are they doing themselves a disservice, but they’re also doing it to those women who could be with someone who actually prefers them. Being lonely can suck but it’s better than being with someone you’re not that into, and this applies to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:34 AM
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Well the reality is most women don’t want to be with a guy who fantasizes about random women on the internet like a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:45 AM
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I used that word because most men genuinely believe they deserve a 10/10 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:41 AM
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Men still have a distorted view of beauty. They might not say no, but they’re still going to consider it settling and still fantasize about the other women they see online, even if their girl is pretty, if not, more attractive than what they deserve. This is why I say most men don’t know what their actual looks-match is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:28 AM
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Ofc. I don’t think all men are like this, but I do see an overwhelming amount of men becoming so hyper-fixated on these random internet women that it distorts their view of women. Pretty is the new average, and average is the new ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:12 PM
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Fr though like men have such a warped sense of beauty. If you don’t look like the typical Instagram baddie/TikTok dream girl, then you’re ugly or mid. It explains why they complain so much about not being paired with their “looks-match”. The women these guys consider their “looks-match” are probably leagues above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:56 PM
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My bf is short (5’7) and I think he’s perfect, so not everyone goes for tall. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:17 PM
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Lmao typical loser ass response. Okay wannabe victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:50 AM
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Obviously not, but it’s happens enough to debunk the bs idea that women hold all the power in a relationship. Women have so much power in relationships yet the percentage of females murdered by an intimate partner was 5 times higher than for males. Lmao please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:44 AM
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Lmaoo. I swear people don’t believe me when I say men genuinely think their presence is god’s gift to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:30 PM
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And how homicide is one of the leading causes of death among pregnant women (majority due to intimate partner violence). But oh the privilege 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:24 PM
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Yes, exactly, and unfortunately it seems like a lot of guys are like that which will only lead to women being pickier. Also yea.. hot people can get away with everything. Do you think men would pass up the opportunity to bang Adriana Lima if it was known that she gave bad blowjobs and was awful at sex?? Umm no, because she’s hot af. It goes both ways. And no, I think it should be a balancing act. People need to pick someone they are physically attracted to and someone who cares about their pleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:49 PM
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Okay and did you not read the part where I acknowledged that women have a harder time? Obviously women have a harder time orgasming but that doesn’t mean men shouldn’t try because if they did women wouldn’t be complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:12 PM
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If women have higher quality sex than men, then why do women orgasm significantly less than men? Yes, women have a harder time cumming than men, but it’s interesting how lesbians report more orgasms than straight women, so maybe men should try harder. And yeah that’s the point, a man can still orgasm even if the sex is awful, but women cannot which is why women choose carefully. And I’m talking about people who think a bunch of desperate horny dudes in your DMs is a gift from god and women are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:05 PM
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I agree, like yes women have an easier time getting sex, but that doesn’t mean they’re going to be compatible with those options, or even have quality sex. As you said most women don’t even orgasm unlike a man who is almost always going to finish, so ofc they think casual sex is a privilege because they’re viewing it from their lens. Also, it’s like no offense, but having sex with low-caliber desperate men is not the flex people think it is. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:43 PM
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It should be equal, but if someone has to be a little more obsessed it should be the guy because I think they’d be less likely to cheat/leave. I say this because men are more likely to date out of desperation due to their limited options. So a lot of women are left wondering if the guy they’re talking to is genuinely interested in them or only talking to them because they’re the only option they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:19 PM
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Yea I believe that the characteristics people look for in a partner are the same both online and offline. If a woman wants her partner to be pro-choice then that’s not going to change online. But people are just held to a higher standard online. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:28 PM
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The average woman on a dating app is not swiping right 1% of the time. That’s why I say they’re the minority both online and in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:55 PM
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It might be that way on dating apps where looks are the priority, but not in real life. And those women are the minority. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:47 AM
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Also, it's important to remember that 20% looks different for every woman. My friend and I used to tease each other about our crushes because we had such different tastes. I liked the cute nerdy guys, whereas she liked tattoed hood guys. Both were valid though because attractiveness can be subjective. It’s hard to be everyone’s type, but the secret is to be at least one person’s type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:19 AM
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Best comment here ☝️
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 08:57 PM
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52% of misogynistic Twitter tweets were by women. Maybe you don’t know this, but Twitter is not a good representation of the public. And even if it was, the rest is 48% male which is probably higher than the percentage of women who virgin shame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:09 PM
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Yup, just like they blame feminism for men’s issues, when it’s literally men who are assaulting, brutalizing, and killing each other. And they conveniently leave out how more men than women choose dangerous lifestyles and engage in criminal activity which leads to the issues they supposedly care about. But let’s resent women for something they didn’t create!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:42 PM
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If you look at the data, you will find that more men than women choose more dangerous lifestyles and engage in criminal activity. Gang violence, drug trafficking, burglary, etc. So it's no surprise that it’s skewed towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:37 AM
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That’s debatable. Sometimes the lifelong effects of traumatic experience(s) is worse than death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:27 AM
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Okay so this meme implies that being physically attractive is enough for a man to be interested. How is women being reduced to their appearance, a privilege? And it’s the same guys who complain about women being shallow. Maybe some women are shallow because they think their worth as a human comes from how fuckable they are. Why do you think so many women have eating disorders? Also, why are women blamed for men’s desperation? It makes to no sense to resent women for the standards men created. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:14 AM
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Most people who shame male virgins are other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:58 AM
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