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Question For MenVegetable-Cupcake-12/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:55 PM
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There’s a lid for every pot. Chances are that a woman you think is “ugly” won’t be drawn to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:22 PM
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At least in the US, most couples earn about the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:21 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:19 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:32 PM
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Because who wants a self-described “ugly” mate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:41 AM
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No, why would I say that. Everyone is different and has different needs and desires. Some women want taller, some prefer shorter and some don’t care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:38 AM
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YES! life your best life 👑king! I want everyone to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:34 PM
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Applaud the confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:28 PM
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No one said it was biological, but if my thing is Athletic black guys above 6’2, it is what it is, no matter how I got there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:27 PM
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He should not, no one should settle. We all deserve to be happy and fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:26 PM
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He’s also an angry drunk and seemingly awful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:25 PM
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I’m above average looking, check profile 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:24 PM
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Were you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:35 AM
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So they want to gaslight women into likening things they don’t like? Like tricking a toddler into eating broccoli?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:34 AM
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This standard level ideology is so strange to me. Attraction is inherently subjective. There are no levels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:33 AM
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Not saying any of that. I’m saying this isn’t a Freddy Prince Junior movie. If you are ugly to me now, you’ll make a great BFF in six months, but the attraction won’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:30 AM
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Did you get assigned a level somewhere? Can you break this down like I’m 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:28 AM
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That’s the ADHD, can’t help it, takes too much trouble to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:26 AM
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They are not married and many women do and always have married repulsive men for money, comfort, and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:25 AM
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Those women are settling. They don’t tell you, but group chat knows
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:24 AM
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Yikes! It’s one thing to eat slop if you’re starving, another to become comfortable in muck. That’s the definition of settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:23 AM
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How is changing standards NOT settling. I prefer five star French cuisine, but I am broke then I will settle for McDonald’s. That does not mean that once I’m in the dough again, my taste won’t revert back to escargot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:10 PM
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No, I asked about the in-between that you mentioned. Where is the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:08 PM
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I’d tell that woman to get therapy. The very last thing she needs is a relationship. She probably needs lithium
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:07 PM
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I thought he’d be a good father, our values aligned and I wanted to give my daughter siblings. He had enough wealth to raise any in the same why I raised my daughter, while my career took a backseat to childbearing and bearing. That he was 32 years older and kinda gross meant he wouldn’t bug me too much or be around for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:06 PM
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That’s fair, to a point. The difference is that women simply avoid the men they don’t desire. Men will fuck, date or even marry her and criticize her for not being Betty Boop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:02 PM
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Ask Noor and Al Pacino. You think she’s turned on by ratty hair and liver spots?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:15 PM
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Parents probably loved you unconditionally. I personally do not think any adult relationship should involve “unconditional” love. You should always have conditions, standards, boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:14 PM
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You don’t have to check boxes to feel privileged and lucky in your partner. It can be someone that you liked, who then proved themselves so loyal and loving and dependable that you can’t imagine life without him. Perhaps they are strong where you are less strong and together you all have endured and built beautiful things. That’s what I mean, not a weird dating list.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:12 PM
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And are you okay with being any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:10 PM
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Oh no, she’ll tolerate sex with you, she just doesn’t enjoy it, never initiates and sometimes asks how long until you’re done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:10 PM
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Thanks for being honest 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:08 PM
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I’ve dated at least one man who disgusted me physically and would have married him, but he didn’t like that I didn’t like him. I’ve dated several that I had as much attraction for as I had for my cat. While only twice have I dated men based on physical and sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:07 PM
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Same friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:04 PM
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I’ve never counted. But I have witnessed it a few times at least
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:04 PM
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What’s wrong with divorce? Happily so. I’ll share something ppl won’t like and that even my mom thought was delusional: I was very sheltered growing up. I really thought being a very pretty woman was enough. And that I was smart and pleasant - I had it made. I thought men wanted to be around beautiful women, in the same way that a fan may want to just breathe in Beyoncé’s rarified air. (I know, I know). I am 35 and I was almost 33 when I realized that all of the things I expected from men in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:59 PM
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Do you really think that telling people that their dreams are unattainable or unlikely will make them more appreciative of less?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:53 PM
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Delusional makes sense here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:44 PM
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Even casually, you want someone who thinks you’re kinda gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:09 PM
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Whether or not you think her value is overinflated, it is what it is and to date below that would be settling to her and the man would have a partner who doesn’t really like or love him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:08 PM
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Whether or not you think her value is overinflated, it is what it is and to date below that would be settling to her and the man would have a partner who doesn’t really like of love him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:08 PM
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Certainly, he’s okay with it or has an unreal level of delusion. See also - Al Pacino and his liver spots and orthopedic shoes, and Leo DiCaprio and his gut and trailer park haircut. They are not dating models in their 20’s based on looks. They are buying companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:07 PM
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Yep, married my HS sweetheart🥰 at 21. Divorced at 31, separated at 28. Mostly because I was raised as a Christian and scared of going to hell if I didn’t marry. Nope, by his own admission nope. I think she’s the far more desirable partner. Anyone who has met them and law professors report that she’s the smarter of the pair and one who is friendly and easy going. She’s more fit and never had bad habits like Berry and reportedly did more of the parenting. He is reportedly somewhat difficult and al…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:05 PM
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Thanks for your honesty and for sharing your prospective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:56 PM
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What is nit picky to you can be important to another. For example: I dated a guy for a year who was great on paper. Couple years older, Princeton Harvard lawyer, while I’m Duke and Michigan. We got along well, had fun together, and even practiced the same, highly specific area of law. He was a gentleman, great family and we wanted the same thing. He wasn’t repulsive, but any touch from him would never feel different than the touch of a best friend. To me, this sounds like the give a good guy a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:39 PM
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You have obviously never met happily married couples. There are people for whom there is no better choice - even if others are objectively better. Look at Augustas Cesar - he could have had anyone, but remained loyal to his, reportedly opinionated and average looking, second wife. I doubt the Regan’s or Obama feel they are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:29 PM
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It’s fairly straightforward forward - I want to understand what men who complain about dating leagues, market values, walls, and chads actually want. Because in my head I hear that they want women to be with men they don’t like and I just can’t believe that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:27 PM
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That is 1000% going to happen. You can’t underestimate how much great sex and physical attraction can temper one’s mood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:24 PM
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That makes sense. I can accept if someone says he is okay with a transactional marriage, but it seems many men think life is a 90s RomCom and given time, any woman will love the protagonist, even though he looks like “it”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:23 PM
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Interesting, last choice is okay as long as it grows? What if it doesn’t but she does the math and decides: I’m not particularly attracted to him but he can provide and be a good dad, so I’ll struggle through with a smile. Is that ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:19 PM
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But how does that work. If a woman doesn’t like you already, being desperate and demanding she change isn’t going to help. She may give you a chance, but for reasons other than love or physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:16 PM
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Of course you might not be checking all the boxes, but anyone who has to be convinced to date you has more disdain for you than merely accepting that you aren’t perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:15 PM
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You are wrong, there are relationships where people are totally fulfilled and do not feel as though they are missing out. Not filling my HS checklist is different from - I cringe at his touch and think of hot guys during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:14 PM
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Agree sounds awful. I like my guy to be obsessed with me, but I also wouldn’t encourage men who don’t like me to stop being picky and give it a try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:13 PM
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Nope, not at all true - it is absolutely possible to be in a relationship with someone who feels like a win and with whom you feel privileged to be in a relationship. That’s not settling. But going for an older, balding, short dude with money is settling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:11 PM
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I’m not sure that gets to the meat of the question. There is no amount of improvement that will make a woman attracted to a short men if she doesn’t like short men, same with fat men or bald men. What is the expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:09 PM
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That’s what I’m trying to understand. When I hear men say that women are too picky, all women like the same thing, there are only so many six pack men —- what I hear is men wanting women who don’t like them or aren’t attracted to them to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:08 PM
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Why do men “have to”? What happens if they just don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:02 AM
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No body asked men to do this and most of us in the female coalition would welcome men calming the fuck down!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:23 AM
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You want women to approach men we don’t like just to fuck with them? Odd request, but I’m game 🤷🏽‍♀️😈
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:22 AM
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Exactly, just the idea of a hot trainer gets me wet😅🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:21 AM
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Perhaps those women just don’t like YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:20 AM
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Women do make the first move on men they like, IF given the time to do so. Stop pressuring women to be physical so quickly and wait for the women who actually like you to engage with you. Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:20 AM
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No one is actively working oppressing a man because he can’t get laid. When women can’t be hired in certain position, it’s because of social barriers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:18 AM
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Bro🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:17 AM
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That makes no sense given that in most marriages the parties make within a couple thousand dollars of each other. Maybe give up the provider fallacy and promote policies to equalize women’s pay and workplace opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:10 PM
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Agree with the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:07 PM
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Tell that to the millions of men who are gay only while in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:54 AM
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What data can you site to support this point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:18 AM
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I think OPs point is that most women don’t want that and if men are unhappy with the state of affairs, it’s up to men to find a solution that doesn’t involve trying to control or change the behaviors of others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:12 AM
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But does it really matter. If men have more in common with other men and resent feminism and perceived “double standards” then it seems logical to seek physical relations and emotional intimacy from similar others - men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:10 AM
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Marriage is a dead institution. Governments should have never been involved in formalizing a religious institution. The sole purpose was to control women and property rights. Since the elimination of bastardy laws, there is no reason for state sanctioned domestic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:36 PM
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I’m a touchy and engaging person, maybe because one of 5 girls in my family of origin. I’ll laugh, touch, hug, make eye contact even when there is zero chemistry - just my personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:24 PM
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Ask your mom, kid😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:57 PM
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No worries. I’ve been studying the Bible a lot recently and listen to lots of Bible study. It happens a lot - like when Elijah is hiding from Bathsheba and God asks - “what are thou doing here” the question is for Elijah to remind him of his purpose Similarly, when God calls a name twice, it creates a covenant between the individual and God - ex - when he says Moses, Moses at the bush I think of it as next-level Socratic parenting of naughty kids ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:53 PM
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You take that out of context. If you study the Bible and related text, you’d know that God only asks questions for emphasis - he knows the answer. God asked Cain where his brother is b/c he knows he’d killed him out of jealousy. Cain’s response is that of a mouthy child - it has absolutely nothing to do with “fixing” anyone. The Bible teaches to accept, to love, and not to judge. How does one fix a person without first judging them as broken. If we need fixing, the Bible instructs us to cast our…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:21 PM
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As a Christian, the Bible teaches us to love others. It says nothing about “fixing” them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:09 PM
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There’s a difference between providing medical treatment and imposing an individual obligation to fix others
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:00 PM
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👍 ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:40 AM
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And if they choose not to, don’t show up to their deathbed and laugh. Sure the onus is on them IF the person wants the changes, but they need not change for anyone else’s benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:04 AM
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A heart attack is also a subject internal experience with various triggers. But there are biological markers for it and medicinal and lifestyle treatment — JUST LIKE ANXIETY
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:44 PM
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Absolutely, no one is obligated to fix or save anyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:32 PM
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I actually don’t think about it at all since it’s not a ME problem! But good luck out there boys Also, is it really a loneliness epidemic or a “I can’t get the sex I want, from the women I want, on the terms I want” epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:31 PM
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If someone is saying something disgusting and I’m part of the conversation, why would I not speak up? If a hot guy says it’s okay for him to have sex with multiple women because he can-he’s trash and I’d happily tell him that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:29 PM
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I think any weirdo looking to use women and therapist, slaves and sex dolls is 🤮, successful or not. In fact, I like a successful manipulator much less than I like an unsuccessful one, same with criminals .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:18 PM
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What is the name for accepting romance without commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:15 PM
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I mean…. Its happened before 😅☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:15 PM
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What in the word salad is this, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:07 PM
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Nah - like a horn dog who’s spent his entire life cockblocking himself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:06 PM
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Yes!! I don’t have any commitment or obligation to the guy - but he woos me, buys me stuff, and takes me places - YES, PLEASE 🤗🥰😍😍- I don’t care what he’s doing when he isn’t around, and I don’t really care for relationships, as obligations and commitments go both ways and I don’t have the time or level of interest for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:05 PM
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Judge for yourself. When is the last time you’ve been in regular attendance at church services?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:16 PM
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No, you just misunderstand the distinction. Yes everyone sins, but not all live in sin. However, people who are drunks, who live with an unmarried romantic partner, who make a living taking advantage of other or similar activities - those ppl live in sin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:59 PM
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What about the other question. Data would refute the assumptions. What precisely are you seeking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:40 PM
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No, but to commit your life to Christ and then continue a life of sin is sacrilege
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:39 PM
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You couldn’t possibly know what I think. Thanks for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:44 PM
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Singing? Idk about that, but plenty attend out of habit or tradition or for appearances
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:43 PM
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Why not clarify your intentions? What is it that you want? Can you describe which actual behaviors or words or experiences you feel are missing from your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:18 PM
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I assumed nothing! I LITERALLY used your words and asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:16 PM
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No - it’s more like going to church and still sinning. Which happens quite a lot where beliefs don’t match actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:15 PM
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Like in a neurotransmitter kinda way or what??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:14 PM
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If she gives me a dead bedroom for WEEKS. 😕😮 Have you had a relationship with a woman? No one owes you sex just because your dating. SMDH
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:55 PM
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I think it would help if you all stopped saying romance when you mean sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:52 PM
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It’s not “shameful” in the right context and I think ppl appreciate and respect honesty. But what men get wrong sometimes is believing that acceptance means they will get what you want. You have a right to want what you want and to be open and honest about your desires. That’s doesn’t mean anyone is obligated to help fulfill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:48 PM
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Would you accept romance without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:43 PM
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Yep, it’s because of social media. Comparison is the thief of joy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:27 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:25 PM
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Romance??😉 I think they want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:24 PM
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A huge difference is that often times women feel manipulated into accepting bad behavior or being in a relationship they would not have freely chosen. The conditions are what they are. Many women would happily be single, but then some guy comes along and pretend to be what she wants until the mask slips. For men, the manipulation doesn’t exist. Women aren’t out pursuing men and tricking them into thinking they genuinely share the same goals and values. The biggest gripe for men is I can’t get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:35 PM
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To an extent - yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:29 PM
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I’d have an issue with anyone hiding a part of them because they knew or believed that I would not stay in a relationship with them if I knew the information. Generally, I wouldn’t mind dating a man who wore skirts or dresses sometimes. What bothers me would be the lying, manipulation, and that he considered his actions shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:46 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:02 PM
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True - and they don’t even realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:18 PM
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Wrong - I’ve learned from your comments that you don’t understand the basics about female anatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:48 AM
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This proves nothing weirdo - like all good research papers, they introduce the abbreviations they are using, not just start tossing around letters like it’s alphabet day at preschool. Also, are you fucking French rams ?😳😳
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:46 AM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3894744/ Research for your half-erect wet dreams, where you satisfy women 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:43 AM
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I feel bad for the women you fuk. Orgasming from external stimulation of the clitoral numb and orgasms from stimulation of the internal clitoral stems are different and there is a scientific correlation between the distance of the clitoral numb from the vaginal opening and a woman’s ability to orgasm from penetration alone . Stop your weird, obsession with mansplaining to women about our bodies, our orgasms and our relationships - none of these concern you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:40 AM
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Again - i understand WORDS - not random abbreviations, specific to some weird subreddit, subculture
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:31 AM
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Not you weirdo - I AM LUCKY IN MY ANATOMY - if you knew anything about women or satisfying them, you’d understand why the anatomy of female sex organs impacts the ability to orgasm from PIV sex and why about half of all women aren’t able to and about 70% admit that they never or rarely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:30 AM
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That was a relevant solution to the pseudo problem that person presented. I really think this sub- thread is just a place for strange, unattractive men to whine about things that don’t concern them - you still haven’t said why you are so concerned about the orgasms of women who aren’t fuking you. Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:28 AM
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HL? - I know words, not random abbreviations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:15 AM
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Funny fantasy - I’m one of the rare women who can come, every single time during sex. Mostly because I only fuk hot, athletic, experienced men who value and are insanely attracted to me - and good luck in my anatomy — don’t believe this comment- check the history - I think the first time commenting on this app was about multi-orgasms and going all night long 😉😌 Your FWB is probably - Palmala and her 5 sisters 😂 - if you can even get it up, without your blue pill, gray man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:14 AM
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Just stating facts. As I said - VERY DIRECT!😌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:06 AM
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What are you, 15, I really hope you don’t think that’s a new word for anyone. Bro, I graduated from a top—10 law school with the children of ambassadors 🫠 - I also don’t have to complain on the internet that the ppl I want to fu*k, don’t want me🥴- you take care, buddy 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:05 AM
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True, true 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:57 AM
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Why are you, as a MAN, complaining about women’s sex lives?🤔 Super strange 😳 and not a problem anyone asked you to solve😑! I think you’re just mad more women won’t fuk you. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:55 AM
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No - actually I am a VERY direct, ADHD, lawyer. I hate liars. I say what I mean and communicate my needs and wants. I also refuse to try and interpret the moods, actions or words of an adult - if you say you’re cool, then you’re cool. I’ll help kids figure out bug feelings, but not a grown man. Communication has always been something I’ve received praise for in social, professional and academic settings. But also, some criticism, because I am direct in tone and language.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:53 AM
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I can’t take an adult using the word “simp” seriously. Use your big boy words to actually describe the actions or words that you believe are negative behaviors. Hint - use verbs 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:40 AM
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True, but also secure ppl prefer partners who treat them how they want to be treated. Insecure ppl are probably slightly more likely to pick ppl who treat them worse than they feel they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:38 AM
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This is an insecure person thing, not a woman thing, but way to try and Neg women into dating men they don’t like. Sounds like your personal version of “nice guys finish last” or “women don’t give good guys a chance” Ppl should date whoever they want. Perhaps for a particular person, managing insecurities is a primary measure of relationship quality and they place less value on “good communication” or whatever other subjective, virtue signaling, qualities that YOU describe as preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:36 AM
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I guess, for me it’s not as quick from possible to yes. I really value the intimacy part of intimacy and I can’t really get there without being extremely comfortable with you. Like I see all these questions asking “how do o ask for this or find out that from a guy” if I’m not fully comfortable asking for things or having hard convos - we can’t fuk 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:19 AM
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Well - often looks are all you have at the start (in person and online) - quick convo can rule out the big stuff (religion, profession, marital and parental status and goals) the rest - that’s what I’m assessing over time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:17 AM
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I’ll swipe based on initial impressions - looks and a quick pass for any dealbreakers that jump out / only wanting short term, smoker, partying in initial pic - then I go bad and read and block lots of them and respond to what’s left
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:15 AM
2

This!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:01 AM
3

This is not true at all. In professional life or with friends - I don’t care and rarely notice, after the initial meeting, whether or not a person is good looking. It’s irreverent in that setting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:01 AM
6

This looks like a “do not date” list
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:57 AM
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Sure. Of course, it’s easier to quickly decide if I find someone repulsive. But it’s rare we’d get past an initial conversation or continue the date, if we somehow made it that far. The rest of the equation is more nuanced. Yeah, a guy that’s “my type” may have a lower threshold for “fuckability” but there is still a lot that goes into it. For me, a athletic, medium brown man, at least 4 inches taller than me, with defined arms and abs and voice deep enough to hear the vocal cords vibrate - with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:09 AM
1

Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:57 AM
3

Still no. There is a lot more that goes into this besides “you’re hot”! For ex - do I know you? Can I trust you not to kill, rob, or rape me or pressure things I’m not comfortable with. How does your breath and body smell. You’re unlikely to even get a kiss night one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:33 AM
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Yeah, an impression like “this person is smart” or “this person smells nice” NOT “I’d totally let this person be alone with me in a vulnerable and intimate state and have access to my body in a way that could potentially led to the creation of a pregnancy or a life altering disease” That’s not a 7 second kind of impression 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:08 AM
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Oh, wow! Ok - thanks for explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:48 PM
3

😂😂funny but super embarrassing story. What’s a “neck beard”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:38 PM
29

If I had to decide that in 30 seconds, I’d be a virgin 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:36 PM
1

Those are two different sets of women. Happily single women don’t complain about lack of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:59 AM
1

How is it failure if you simply don’t seek that out? Like I currently have no desire to even put in enough effort to talk to a man on a duly basis. My life is full and happy and busy. Not being in a relationship is a choice and having the ability to make that choice is a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:58 AM
1

Lies - don’t have sex without marriage, as was the case for most of human history and power imbalances disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:50 AM
2

Is this real 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:59 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:32 AM
17

You should be on a watchlist 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:09 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:12 PM
1

I’d still be happily single, I’d still practice law, but probably take riskier career moves. I’d probably have 2-3 more children, and have Gatsby style parties for every holiday. I’d buy lots of help (nanny, assistant, housekeeper, house manager, cook, driver) but who I am and what I enjoy would stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:07 AM
10

How is this working for you pal?! When is the last time you built something or mined or protected someone???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:22 PM
1

Heterosexual women, don’t really understand the pill colors No - absolutely only care about what I like and not what others think of how I look or what I do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:58 AM
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What material support do you provide to “these women”??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:58 PM
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Can you explain the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:57 PM
5

Kill all men is not something I’ve ever seen women say online 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:57 PM
1

Lies, children aren’t ever posted
/r/MensRights12/01/24 02:44 AM
1

As a woman, I’d love this if it didn’t put other women in danger. It’s like a screening tool against angry misogynist
/r/MensRights12/01/24 02:43 AM
1

You can have all the men only clubs you want
/r/MensRights12/01/24 02:42 AM
1

Real question: can anyone give real examples of how they have “Personally” (not like “the system”) been harmed by feminism
/r/MensRights03/07/23 12:18 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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