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He's recently divorced. He's going to want to date and even sleep around if he has the opportunity. You CANNOT control his actions of who he's around. You can control yourself and how you handle your situation, though. Stay dignified and don't react. Infidelity? Honestly, are you two exclusive? I'd be ok if my husband was talking to cute girls, because I'm secure with the thought of being ok if we ever broke up. I'm in my hot af era and the confidence to match. I have a great job and feel like I…
/r/RedPillWives23/11/24 01:55 PM
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When I was dating, I'd literally ask the guys what their last name was so I could stalk them. If anything, it let them know I was interested in them, honest, and straight forward. No one I asked had a problem with it, either.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 01:43 PM
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Have you read "The Empowered Wife"? She says to either ask your husband to help you think of a solution. This could look like "Honey, I'm having a hard time getting all of our housework, laundry, lawn, child care done that really needs done each week. Could you help me figure out a way to solve this for me, please?" If you have a desire, state it in a way that inspires him. Start with "I would love....", then be open to your desire not being met. "I would love to have a house keeper help me catc…
/r/RedPillWives07/05/24 09:39 PM
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I'd read "Surrendered Singles" or "The Empowered Wife."
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/24 06:50 PM
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Make a joke! Or ask a question!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 01:51 AM
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My ex did this. I see my daughter doing it, too, and it seriously triggers me. I finally learned just to say "let's agree to disagree" and leave it at that. Then later I'd have to research the answer to verify my degree of correctness. 😅
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 12:58 AM
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I married a short tempered man. Nothing is fast enough for him. And I think you're right, my husband thinks extremely quickly, too. His expectations for himself are high and strives for perfection and efficiency. He owned a restaurant and was comfortable in that high pressure atmosphere. I give myself lots of grace and time and it frustrates him. A lot of my problem is that I'm not 100% in touch with what I want or what I'm feeling so I come off as apathetic, sometimes. However, I have high expe…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 01:42 PM
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Yes!!!! I feel like I'm in a pyramid scheme the way I push her information. 😂 Laura has seriously changed my life in the BEST way possible. I love her podcast and use it for self care when I need some reminders. This is my FAVORITE sub on Reddit and I'm so grateful to have like-minded women to talk with, because being a submissive wife is "controversial" with a lot of my friends.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 01:56 PM
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Lol, I know she is. OP, seriously read this book. Your husband will transform and so will you! My husband just told me he's the happiest he's ever been (we're in our 40s!).
/r/RedPillWives06/07/23 08:16 PM
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The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle. She teaches women skills that enable the man to take charge and be the hero we all need.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/23 07:29 PM
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I'm gonna be honest: I saw your age and didn't read your post. Dude, I wasn't even married until I was 25. Had two kids. Divorced at 33. Married at 38. Had a kid at 39. Life is what you make of it and you are truly at the very beginning. Relax. Find new ways to invest in you. Get new hobbies. Go on trips. Set a challenging goal for yourself. Do something wild or something you've secretly always wanted to do.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 10:37 PM
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Wow! We have very similar families. We're a family of 6, but we're blended, and we live 30 minutes from town, too! What are your family's favorite dinners?
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 12:36 PM
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Oh my goodness!!! This is genius! Id love to not go to the grocery store 3 or more times a week with a toddler.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 11:35 AM
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This is the best reply, OP, with actionable steps. Piggybacking off this amazing response, I'd like to suggest reading some books during nun mode. "Surrendered Single," by Laura Doyle, it'll help you learn how to be your best self, which will help attract and keep desirable men. "Attached," by Levine and Heller, it will open your eyes to how you connect with your partner or how to weed out potential partners with clashing attachment styles. Please, please, please, block him on all social media a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 06:01 PM
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I can't verify, but a mod, who is extremely wise and gives excellent advice, sounds what I'd imagine a LD coach sounds like.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 01:24 PM
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Yes!!! I absolutely love Laura Doyle. She changed my life for the better!!!! I think she wrote a book called "Surrendered Single." I haven't read it but I believe it's full of the same skills she teaches in her "Empowered Wife" and "Surrendered Wife" books. I believe a coach started the r/surrendered_wife sub.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 09:19 PM
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Have you read The Empowered Wife? Or The Surrendered Wife? They are seriously wonderful, with actionable tools
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 11:05 AM
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Search for a redpill article called The Girlfriend Experience. It makes a lot of sense.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 10:01 PM
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I've researched this question. Men wank off because it's easier, quicker. Porn is because they're visually stimulated. If you don't want him to change, if he's comfortable with his porn usage, then why bring it up at all? That's on his paper and he will view this confrontation as you trying to control him. Let him be. Focus on you right now. Go get a pedicure, go buy a cute outfit, take a walk outside, light a candle and read a book.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 09:58 PM
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First off; you did nothing wrong. What he did is a reflection of himself and not of you at all. It's him. My number one need was that I had to feel chemistry to continue dating someone. My second need was for him to show effort. It sounds like maybe he was nervous or intimidated, whatever it was it doesn't matter. He wasn't feeling the chemistry and he's definitely not showing effort. Thankfully this was quick. Honestly, he sounds like a low value man. Pick yourself up! Dust yourself off! Don't …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 08:34 PM
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Whoosh!!! My point was closer to you're acting like his mother, not his high value girlfriend. You're prioritizing his needs over yours. Of course you're beautiful, that's definitely not the issue. Try googling "the girlfriend experience" and add "redpill." This works, but you CANNOT be shy or insecure. Pretend you're someone else if you need to. You also have to be the one in control and you absolutely CANNOT lay there like a starfish.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 05:14 PM
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Ok. Seriously. Do NOT have a conversation about this with him. It will come off as attacking his ego and tear him down. Hurt ego = no sex. (We are in a red pill forum, after all.) As a married woman who struggled with this as well, my best advice is to 100% start focusing on you. Start a new exercise routine (I use milk jugs filled with water as weights at home), go out to meet your girlfriends out, start a new hobby that you've always wanted to try, get a face mask, hair mask, foot mask and enj…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 03:36 PM
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This is it, ladies. OP is giving you the premium info to get back to the honeymoon period. It seriously works. After reading The Empowered Wife, I apologized to my husband for being disrespectful after a fight and he returned home to me all warm and loving instead of cold and distant. That convinced me I had so much power on our relationship and it really boils down to RESPECT. I'm working on being in a happy mood when he comes home from work. I'll play music I love to sing to and jam out to get…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 02:13 PM
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I got rave reviews from chicken burritos I made. Put some chicken breasts in the slow cooker with some green enchilada sauce and whatever seasonings you like (Garlic, cumin, chili, etc). At dinner time, stir in some cubed cream cheese (4 to 8 oz, your preference). Serve with rice and black beans Edit to add: marinated artichoke hearts is my favorite side right now. Drain one jar of artichoke hearts. Cut chunks of veg. I used bell peppers, onions and manzanita olives. Drown in Italian dressing.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/23 01:38 PM
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This is coming from a twice married, once divorced, 39 year old mom of three. I had an awesome career in the medical field. I gained so much confidence from my career I got to the point of where I was telling Drs they were wrong (when they were). My second marriage brought about a baby and the opportunity to stay at home to raise him, which I took. It was extremely hard to figure out who I was after walking away from my job--that was my identity. It's been a year and a half and I'm so grateful I…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/23 04:35 PM
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