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| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.Feminist theory was happening before Marx even was born, my dude. And some feminist stances do also include Marxist and Foucaultian angles, yes. AND you're also ignoring all of the original feminist frameworks by people like Simone du Beauvoir, bell hooks and like 10 others that came after. AND you're ignoring the work that other feminists did to recover the intellectual and artistic contributions of women that were erased by men like you are trying to do now. It's sad that the only way for you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 08:36 PM |
| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.What doesn't seem to exist is your ability to Google before opening your mouth. So, let's just do a quick GPT, shall we? I asked for just 20 examples of breakthrough innovations developed or led by women: 1. Wi-Fi & Bluetooth Technology 2. Computer Programming – Ada Lovelace 3. COBOL Programming Language 4. Stem Cell Isolation 5. Monopoly 6. Home Security System 7. Solar Energy 8. Circular Saw 9. DNA Research Bulletproof Vest Materials 11. Computer Programming 12. Nuclear Fission 13. Medical Syr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 08:10 PM |
| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.The "screaming like children", in your lovely, reasoned phrasing, might include the Seneca Convention, the entire suffrage movement, the entire rise of feminism - both first, second, and third waves. ME on this fucking thread right now. YOU WILL NOT erase women's advancements (which are the advancements of ALL THE WOMEN in YOUR FAMILY) no matter how hard men like you try -- you are too weak, too disorganized, too hateful, and too unintelligent. Too driven by base, animal urges. Too irrational. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:51 PM |
| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.Right? Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:40 PM |
| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:40 PM |
| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.You're goddamned right I'm angry. I'm so angry that I'm willing to fucking FIGHT his ass because I'm tired of weak, stupid, irrational men who belong outside with animals instead of inside with women and good men. I'm tired of these men talking shit about shit they understand nothing about. I'm TIRED of being spoken about as if I'm sub-human, a second-class citizen, my rights and freedom to do as I like being debated. My nature debated. You're even debating whether I want to be submissive. Stati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill Lies: Non-Custodial Fathers and Child SupportNah, the whole deadbeat PARENTHOOD convo looks bad on men because they are the ones overwhelmingly that skip out on their kids. Moms stick around to raise them, taking the bad rep of single moms, doing the hard, thankless work that these deadbeat dads just ain't about. Cuz they ain't about it. It's charming that you're clinging to this tiny little branch in the absolute TORRENTIAL FLOOD of deadbeat dad-ism, and that this is the only little foothold you can find in that flood of bad dad behavior … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:11 PM |
| – | Men are the most sociobiologically variable gender, the patriarchy was created by women to suit their relative gender rigidity.Damn. What a flaming dumpster fire of drivel. You're not just wrong. You're spectacularly, embarrassingly wrong-What is this pathetic attempt to rewrite history through some fake "biological determinism"? Shit so flawed an actual scientist or anthropologist would point and laugh. "Patriarchy was made by women"? So women haven't been fighting our oppression in the U.S. alone for over a hundred years? And you think we WANT to be subordinate to knuckle-dragging cum-obsessed mouth-breathing barn ani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill Lies: Non-Custodial Fathers and Child SupportHey, so the numbers and percentages about child support can be really misleading without the right context. Dads are almost always the non-custodial parents - so like even if the stats make it look like non custodial moms are failing to pay at a higher rate percentage wise, the actual number of people not paying is still mostly dads. Cuz population size is basically everything here. Moms without custody? That's a very small group. When you have a small sample size, the percentages can look reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 02:26 PM |
| – | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Except I work in brand and growth and guess what? You're wrong. The bottom line is god to these corporations and they will never abandon women because women spend. So, cope harder, you're delicious when you're mad :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 05:28 PM |
| 10 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Except, sucks for men like you, but companies pursue growth at all costs. They don't want to miss out on half of their addressable audience. Sorry that you hate that women should be able to do fun things like enjoy, like video games. Sorry that you hate that women gamers ALSO have character styles they prefer. AND that companies, again, cuz they value paying audiences, will try to deliver on these preferences, too. Die mad, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 05:06 PM |
| 16 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?I think there are a lot of reasons why women are suspicious of male sexuality, but primarily because women have been exploited for sexual gratification for as long as there have been women, it feels like. CONSTANT focus on our breasts, our hips, our asses, whether we have on too much makeup or not enough. There are whole movements (PUA/RP) designed to trick women into sex, it's a long established trope that men will lie and manipulate you for sex, will pretend to be interested and exclusive and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Dude millions of people don't exercise. They don't all die early. And some studies show that being active only increases life span by 5 years. That is not universal. Sorry you're struggling intellectually to land a clumsy attempt at a rhetorical debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.But not universally. Lots of people don't exercise AT ALL and do not die early. My family tree for the last few generations supports this. You're still a strawman and you're dishonest intellectually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.No, we only require a few things: food, water, air, and shelter from exposure to the elements. It's not arbitrary at all. You're trying to make a want the same thing as a need. It's just not. It won't ever be. So we can do this all day if you want, but your rhetorical premise is flawed. You will always be the strawman. Sorry, bud. But thanks for playing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.You said, "We acknowledge that a need can exist, but also not be a requirement." That is not true. If it is a need, it is a requirement. Without blood, humans die. So it is a requirement for life. So your foundational premise is incorrect. Now, because life-sustaining needs like blood, food, water, and air exist, it still does NOT create the conditions for mandatory fulfillment of said need. However by labeling them AS needs, society is encouraged heavily to try and prevent the deaths and health… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 10:49 PM |
| 5 | You can't justify loneliness by saying that some people are okay being lonely.I don't think anyone is justifying loneliness (do you mean "justify" as in "making it okay to be lonely"?) I think the entire world knows that social isolation and loneliness is a problem that harms people. There are programs, PSAs, and campaigns to try and address it. There's also social loneliness and romantic loneliness, and they are two separate things and discussions. Romantic loneliness only refers to the longing for a significant other, a romantic partner. Which can even happen when you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 09:21 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.It is not universal for the species as a whole. I do not need or desire sex at all. I know many many people like that. Many thousands upon thousands of women, for instance, could go for the rest of their lives and never fuck again. Many thousands upon thousands of men could do the same, and countless thousands upon thousands have do so for all of millennia. Elevating sex to be a universal need is just inaccurate. For millions, it is part of what makes a relationship feel fulfilling. Great. For m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Your premise is indeed flawed. Because in the US, we've had campaigns and PSAs and coordinated efforts for blood drives; it's now ingrained into our culture so deeply that it's also a way for people to make money from donating plasma, for instance. Those efforts are there precisely because it is a need, one we don't even have to label because of the critical life-or-death nature of blood, so elevating it from a want or an urge to a need, something physical you have to have in your body, is lingu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.I don't think you can state sex is a need without stating that someone should be obligated to meet it. That's what's actually intellectually dishonest. Because that's the literal point of using the word "need" -- is to create a sense of greater importance, urgency, and responsibility, if not imperative, to meet it. That's the entire reason for using the word "need" versus "desire" or "lust" or "urge." Also, what you're trying to imply with The primary reason women say that sex isn’t a need for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone noticed a rise in older female/younger male relationships?I mean, I'm 50 and my partner is 25 so, sure, if I'm a hag, I'm maxxin it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 04:58 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?If she is low-effort in terms of things like not asking about him, his day, and his interests, not planning dates, not sending sweet texts, not taking an active interest in his life, not giving compliments and not remembering to flirt with him and he is actively the reverse, then they should break up. If it's about how much or what kind of sex he gets --- sex he was previously happy with until finding out that she did more or different kinds of sex with previous relationships -- then he is being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:58 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?How does grateful or ungrateful come into this at all? So you should be grateful for basic human decency in a relationship and show that gratefulness with your body, even if it's something you don't want to do with your body? Sex, if that's what we're discussing, is a reward for showing gratefulness? It's not a shared experience between two people that want to feel pleasure together? Do you think sex from a woman is owed you just for being a decent partner? Also, do you think a woman's vagina or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:47 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Be specific. What is "less passionate" behavior? What acts or behaviors did she do then that she is not doing now, and how does that equate to more or less passion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:30 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Because it's her body, dude. What act are we talking about that you refuse to detail here? Doing something with her own body doesn't value OR devalue her partner -- unless her partner is viewing her vagina/orifices as a product to be used OR unless her partner views her body as something men are entitled to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:26 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Yes, it's a great option. Do it respectfully, though, and without shaming that person for what they're willing to do with, be penetrated by, or otherwise experience or share with their own body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | When people say men’s issues are “mental health,” what exactly do men need to get mentally healthy that’s different from what women need?Also autistic, and my need for logic is killing me these days as none of the things we do as a society seem to make logical sense. I 100% agree that we no longer have purpose and meaning, that friendships are hard to come by, and that we've wasted our entire species thus far on greed and capitalism. I also agree 10000000% that social media has ruined people. I think a few things are needed: - We need to kill the digital real-time commenting feature on social and digital media. We don't need this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:35 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Then he should respectfully end the relationship and find someone willing to do whatever things he wants to do. There are no concessions to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:13 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?If dude feels like he'd like a less restricted and more passionate person than the one he is with, or he feels he'd like to experience sexual or passionate or romantic experiences that he's not experiencing, and she doesn't want to, then he needs to decide whether those acts are deal-breakers and, if so, respectfully end the relationship and find a person who will do said things with him. It's not complicated. If he want her to do something she's done in the past and she refuses and that makes h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)"I'll continue holding women to the same standards I hold myself" - This is the only answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)The existence of the clitoris, the only organ on any human body whose only function is sexual pleasure--and which it seems you may have never encountered by your response here -- debunks your claim, as does the biological fact that both men and women experience desire and arousal. This argument also leaves you open to the implication that no woman to date has enjoyed sex with you or worse: if you believe such nonsense, you're good with using a female body for your pleasure KNOWING that she doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)Those are super common ideas, but they've been disproven. Here's the thing - studies show that while oxytocin is released during sex and other activities, it's not some magical super glue. Oxytocin is released in all kinds of scenarios for men and women alike (e.g., physical touch, cuddling, other nonsexual interactions) and does not automatically “lock in” a permanent emotional attachment. (Carter, C. S. (2014). Oxytocin pathways and the evolution of human behavior. Annual Review of Psychology,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)These men know they're being morally and ethically reprehensible. That's why they use a manipulative and predatory set of tactics (e.g., RP, PUA, etc) to get what they want. It's also why women think men are animalistic, terrible beings without self-control who are driven by their base urges and will say and do literally terrible things just to stimulate their sex organs and ejaculate like monkeys; they're literally proving why the backlash against men exists. No RP/PUA man could ever be "high v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?You can go on 100 dates - plenty of below average, unconventionally attractive, overweight, or single moms out there. Unless wading through thousands of matches from them doesn't sound like a good time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 0 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageWouldn't have the need to HAVE feminism if men had behaved like true kings instead of selfish, violent, sex-crazed despots. But go off, I guess! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Keep thinking that, I guess. We can't stop you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:52 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?I've never spent any time wondering about a partner's exes; that has no bearing on the present relationship. But if someone told me a current partner did all that, I might raise my eyebrows because that, to me, feels like overfunctioning to gain approval and yeah, a little desperate. Because I don't care about expensive items, trips (homebody), and whatnot. And I'm a terrible texter, so if my guy was texting me all day, all night, I'd be like dude, get off me, I got shit to do haha. At any rate,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:41 PM |
| -3 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageCrazy that he's out here admitting to being a forgettable, sub par lover -- and would rather his wife just be deceived and subject to a life of forgettable, sub par sex versus be satisfied. As long as he gets to enjoy penetrating her vagina for his own pleasure, her pleasure is negligible...and it's HER vagina. I'm so glad women are choosing to stay single in ever increasing numbers. Men are making themselves sexually irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:46 AM |
| -6 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageThat's because there are no kings anymore. They're an extinct species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:37 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?No. More garbage is not privilege. Having the same vast heap of trash but having it somehow be on your doorstep is not privilege. No one wants to dumpster dive -- that's the point. It's all garbage for everyone. It's exhausting and demoralizing for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:34 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?I definitely don't believe that either. I believe the facts, which are that both genders overwhelmingly face low-quality matches and little long-term, viable success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:26 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?And then there are traditionally blue collar fields, or STEM fields, or gaming, or military or police careers -- where women face staggering amounts of sexual harassment, bullying, and sexism that push them right back OUT of those fields. Or even when she's back home and trying to unwind by playing a video game -- she's harassed, bullied, taunted, and verbally abused then. It's exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:24 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?I've sat on hiring committees for the last nine years straight. And now that I'm on hiring committees for SENIOR leadership and C-suite roles? Nothing but men. Women with better credentials are questioned, scrutinized, and held to a completely different standard--and STILL don't get hired at the same rates, don't get paid at the same rates, don't get promoted at the same rates, don't make it from entry level to manager at the same rates, don't ascend to the C-suite at the same rates, and aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:28 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?This whole "women have it so easy on dating apps" is a crazy misconception. Like it's a myth. It's basically like saying, "Wow, you got a TON of spam emails - you must be super popular!" Imagine scrolling through hundreds of matches where: 50% are overweight, criminal, polyamorous, use drugs, are elderly or predatory 30% show no real interest in meaningful conversation but skip right to what you can do for them or have nothing on their profile 10% are narcissists or sociopaths/psychopaths Maybe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:20 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?None of those are true. You're either ignorant or outright lying because you don't want to rise to any challenge but rather drag women down with you. It's not easier for women to get into university -- girls study harder, pay attention, and are socialized to sit still and be responsible. There's no disparity among gay or Asian men in terms of enrollment. Straight, white American men are choosing not to work hard as their female, Asian, and gay male counterparts. It's also patently untrue that it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsYour original comment where you brought up the OKCupid study said, "The overwhelming majority of OLD studies - here's one, but there are several more - show a ridiculous amount of congregation amongst only the top 5-10% of men. At EOD, it's proven that women are at least just as shallow as men, and way more brutal about it. And inb4 "well that's online dating" - OLD is done in the privacy of one's own device, with no repercussions of any decisions made. Thus, it is a very truth-telling example o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsThat study even goes so far as to say: On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable. But with the basic ratings so out-of-whack, the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsNo, the part I'm referencing: "Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-rated females, while plenty of potentially charming, even cute, girls go unwritten. The medical term for this is male pattern madness." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsWe have to change this expectation and narrative -- men can be totally fine and healthy being alone! They have to stop seeing themselves as incomplete without a woman. They can exist just to exist and be happy -- not to provide, not to chase sex, not to be the muscle or the brawn. They can just exist, work on shit that makes them happy. We have to reframe this harmful narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:13 PM |
| 5 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsIf it's the same OKCupid study that gets trotted out all the time, it also showed that, yep, while women rated 80% of men as below average -- women sent more messages to men they rated as below average than men sent to women they rated below average. So men are just as shallow but ACT on that shallowness more than women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.You mean if human autonomy was left untainted by government and domestication wasn't as rampant. None of us ever had total autonomy, and women were FAR more restricted in their autonomy than men. Who are still leading governments today. Who are trying to domesticate WOMEN as they always have. What are you even on about with this revisionist history and anthropology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 09:34 PM |
| 8 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.Because women are bullied and harassed out of those jobs at alarming rates. And somehow that doesn't completely deter them; we're still joining and showing up despite terrible male behavior in those work spaces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually meansThat's not how it happened though; most of the time in our grandfather's day, the man worked all day and came home and turned his money over to his wife who ran things. She was the authority, not the man, but not because she demanded it. She was the authority because she ran everything, knew everything, managed the house, the money, the bills, the kids, and HER HUSBAND. What is with men needing to be some authority? Why do you need to be in charge? Why does anyone need to be in charge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single?What a brilliant way to phrase that. Agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:54 PM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are"Thinking women having opportunity somehow degrades men is both a fucked up point of view and not true. It's not a zero sum game. We all benefit socially and economically when we all get to participate fully." Amen to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:23 PM |
| – | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityYou evidently would not recognize accountability if it stared you in the face. Which is why when you look at yourself in the mirror you see only an excuse. So you lash out and use slyly manipulative language like men are expendable. or used game or let abuse them to deflect what feels too painful for you to confront face on. The issue is you're spreading your hurt to other men and women, who have done nothing to you. When, in reality, you should be calling out the hurt other men who keep traumat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:49 AM |
| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.It's not even a cabinet at this point; it's a junk drawer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenLook up moral uprightness or strong moral principles. In your personal beliefs, what do strong moral principles or moral uprightness look like? Perhaps we can start from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenI'm sorry you don't understand. And you don't appear to realize that the attributes I listed (being truthful, fair, honest, doing the right thing every time, not hurting people, not using them, not taking advantage of them, etc) are the moral principles that define ethics and integrity -- from your own definitions. They reflect the behaviors and values that make up moral uprightness. Said another way, what do you think moral principles are, if not honesty, fairness, respect, compassion, kindness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 10:26 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenThe fact that it is such an alien concept to you is concerning. Being ethical just being truthful, fair, and honest. Integrity is simply doing the right thing every time, even if it doesn't benefit you, even if no one's around to see it. So not seeking to hurt people, to use them, to deceive them, to subjugate them, to take advantage of them. And in this specific instance, the right thing is referring to respecting consent, not using people, not exerting control over another person's body. I'm s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 08:04 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenAh, yes. You seem to believe that the integrity or ethics are relative. Therein lies the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 07:32 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenFunny that you consider respecting consent, being seen as a person, not being used, and autonomy over your own organism are "made up bullshit." Interesting. It's also interesting that you think those are "convenient" benefits for women. So given the choice, you think it's okay for people to not respect consent, so...they can just assault anyone. That it's okay to be used...so anyone should just use anyone. That it's okay to use someone else's body for whatever that may be, whether containing a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Then you're not serious about educating yourself. I gave you that list of specific names for a reason, you doubled down, called me a liar, then when you admitted I was right, you still say you refuse to read the very book of hers that criticizes anti-male rhetoric. If you are opposed to something, it's smart to read that opposing point of view to understand the issue more fully. But here, sure, let me do the work of educating you. LITERALLY the first link when I Googled is a blog by Bell Hooks. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.Read Bell Hooks' The Will to Change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsDefinitely true! I should have written that I wished there were more of a concerted push by dads, for dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:13 AM |
| 5 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.It's telling that you could have taken one second to google any of those names + "anti-male rhetoric" to educate yourself, but instead, you snidely assumed I was lying and that you were right. Without even checking. Ironic that your flair is about making facts matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.No, you are in fact, not right, and what I said is, in fact, true and easily verified. You could just Google them; why do you think I provided those specific names? My sources are their many articles, books and essays. Try Feminism is for Everyone or The Will to Change by Bell Hooks, especially the latter refutes anti-male sentiments very directly. Or Who Stole Feminism? by Christina Hoff Sommers, a work that also very directly condemns man-hating supposed feminists. Articles like this one, feat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:02 PM |
| 7 | Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning.That is not true though - feminist leaders from Gloria Steinham to Bell Hooks to Roxanne Gay to Camille Paglia to Christina Hoff Sommers to Germaine Greer to Betty Friedan have condemned, rebutted, and been VOCALLY outspoken against man-hating feminists and ideologies since the 1970s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsCompletely agree. Keep fighting the good fight and being a great role model to other men, too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsI think your take that fathers are the key is spot on. Wish there was a concerted push, PSA campaigns, etc to spotlight fatherhood, get them to create father groups, support and educate them, teach them to be caregivers and lead with empathy, etc etc, and stop abandoning their families when they divorce. It's telling that, of my son's large close friend group, only one guy was raised by his own father and is still in contact with him. NONE of the other dudes' dads stuck around. Dads are a huge k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is male flesh suddenly attractive when they have money?Research actually shows the opposite - patriarchal societies do not satisfy women's needs for security and safety. (And if you're not a woman, how can you speak for them in regards to whether we feel our needs are satisfied?) Ignoring the fact that you're setting up a false binary where patriarchy = stability, and egalitarianism = chaos, patriarchal norms actually coincide with greater rates of domestic partner violence and societal crime, while legal protections and societal norms more common t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenMid-market professional services | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Also think it's super funny that you edited your comment to add "and extremely well endowed" hahahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:44 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenRight? Ex-convict, punk, druggies. All of us. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?I'm sorry you have felt taken advantage of. You're still simply wrong and I know you cannot see it. Best wishes for a less angry life, my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?Too bad it's not true and that women are ignoring men in greater numbers than ever before. Sex and birth rate just tanking. You couldn't be farther from the truth. And you're simply misleading other males, which is quite irresponsible and harmful to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:21 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenThere is no "lifestyle". I have two sleeves, live in the burbs and I'm an executive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?This took me out, haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men?No, we take misogyny and classify it as misogyny, like yours. You hate that you feel powerless around women and have spun that into something evil that women are doing to you and to men. While not understanding women even a sliver of a percentage. I'm sorry you're so beaten down that you are now manipulating males with your misinformation because you want them to hate and fear women and female "power" like you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.(So fun watching y'all get shut out of academics, dating, and advancement in the meantime, and melting down. Birth rate is plummeting, and nearly 60% of young men are now single and sexless. We'll continue to choose the bear :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.You just admitted you can't identify truth and that you are devoid of intellect. Yes, please take the W! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.English must be rocket science to you -- what the hell was that garbled response even supposed to be articulating? Damn y'all are babbling idiots and wonder why we left y'all behind. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear."You mean the sayings and beliefs that have existed out in the open since victorian times across all races and cultures?" Ah, so inflammatory "sayings and beliefs" are fine as long as they've been out in the open for ages and ages. Then what the fuck are men like you mad at? All the negative "sayings and beliefs" that have been around since...almost since victorian times? Pick something real for once that is actually different then, clown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.You don't have a point, and we all see it. Way to prove us right a thousand fold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.Women are expressing themselves. You shouldn't try to control others feelings or lie about it. Stop lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear.https://news.yahoo.com/news/body-choice-emboldened-far-men-191536054.html https://www.teenvogue.com/story/emboldened-by-a-trump-win-misogyny-is-exploding-online https://www.wired.com/story/donald-trump-far-right-supporters-violent-memes/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Men’s reaction to the 4B movement is disgusting and justifies women picking the bear."Stop telling people what they should and shouldn't be offended by, that's controlling and insecure." Yet here you and a lot of men are trying to tell women they're not allowed to be vocal about what they find offensive in males. Are you controlling and insecure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.You really like painting your nails, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.More drivel. Women will just keep laughing at you as we keep advancing and y'all keep falling behind. Pathetic. Can't compete, can't keep up, can't support yourselves, can't get women, can't understand how to put your own programs together, can't figure out how not to be emotional, can't figure out how not to suck. I'm so glad women are just saying no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:37 PM |
| -2 | Misandry hurts women.Sorry, misogyny is still rampant today. And women are vocal about how men are mistreating them TODAY. Not doing their half of labor, using women for sex, lying to women for sex but then ghosting, the wage gap, the orgasm gap, harassing women about body counts, calling them sluts, whores, saying we have no place in the workforce, can't desire freedom and autonomy, that their only use is to bear children. Women will continue to be vocal when we're oppressed and mistreated, simple as that. No one w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:27 PM |
| -1 | Misandry hurts women.Why is it okay for men's feelings to matter but not women's? Why aren't we allowed to be enraged at how we've been treated for centuries? Y'all see us catching up over the last couple decades only -- and you're angry that we're not FRIENDLY? It's time for men to take accountability for their actions, and stop spreading misinformation like feminists hate men. Why don't you focus on the other MEN who are costing you what you want? We demand men take responsibility and SUPPORT their own interests, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Misandry hurts women.Are you kidding me? Have you seen even one piece of manosphere content? Men like to act like women should NOT be upset for how LONG we've been second class citizens. But if men get mad, they can show it. Women get mad and it's you're hurting men's feelings. Why are yours the only feelings that matter? Why are you the only ones that get to be fucking angry and show it? Why can't you handle your own rage projected back at you -- the rage that MALES fucking caused? Why can't you see that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:58 PM |
| -2 | Misandry hurts women."If you expect your abusive treatment of others to never result in them losing any desire to enforce your rights when you need it most, enjoy the ruin you will make of your life. You will deserve it." But when women are vocal about not desiring to care about men who have for centuries oppressed and abused women...men get mad? Why are men only allowed to respond angrily or with hurt or disrespect? Doesn't really matter though because all this means is that the birth rate will continue falling. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Misandry hurts women.But men are behaving in ways women disapprove of, and we call it out, and men get butthurt and say were hurting their feelings. You also said earlier that men oppressed women because they could. So women should just get over that, smile, be polite, and worry about male feelings when they were oppressing women? We shouldn't be angry? So men should continue to be allowed to oppress? And by the way, the manosphere is insanely vocal about their hatred for women. Do you think it's because they're mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 05:51 PM |
| -1 | The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing MenThat's my point. What men think women want generally -- is generally incorrect. Even the way you're framing it -- women have minimums, men have maximums, is a very male way of looking at it. Stop talking about what women want and just DO YOUR BEST with individuals, and stop putting such pressure on yourselves. And, yes, some men won't be successful. Like some women. There isn't some mass strategy that's being hidden from any of us. We're talking individual people, contexts, luck, and numbers. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:47 PM |
| 4 | The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing MenWhat I don't understand is the unspoken implication in these kinds of top 10% debates that women should date men they're not attracted to--while men are super vocal about the kind of women THEY'RE not attracted to. Again, single moms and fat women top that list pretty routinely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:22 PM |
| 0 | The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing MenExactly! We're not a monolith. And of COURSE all of us humans would prefer to date our PERSONAL top 10%. Of course we would! What individuals find attractive is so incredibly varied that there is no universal top 10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:20 PM |
| 0 | The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing MenOnce again, a man thinking a woman doesn't know what she means. If I'd meant "no sex at all", that's what I'd have written. We love good sex, and most of my friends are the 1-2x/week average cadence. What we DON'T want are sex pests. Big difference. If you can't understand the difference between the two extremes of no sex and sex crazed, you probably shouldn't be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:14 PM |
| -5 | The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing MenI really hate the term "sexual selectors" because of COURSE we as women are the selectors...because the orifice you're looking to penetrate is housed within female bodies. Like what's the opposite of women being sexual selectors? Rape? And men are just as picky. Don't let a woman be fat, my god, she'll be questioned for even daring to breathe the same air as a fit man. Don't let her be ugly, have any visible body hair, be a single mother, have previous lovers, wear revealing clothes, wear clothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:00 PM |
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