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| 3 | Do you prefer traditional men or modern men?Both are about as garbage as the other; I don't really care. Every culture that ever existed or will exist is shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there a middle ground between casual sex and commitment?I once had a discussion on r/askmen where it eventually became clear that to them "friends with benefits" meant "acquaintance one does not meet outside of having sex"; I asked "What would you call it if you were actually friends then?" and the reply was "a mistake". I've occasionally had sex with most of my friends; I can't say I see what would be going wrong from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | People have to distinguish between "sexy body" and "practical body"Muscular definition is not caused by working out as much as it's caused by diet; in fact one can easily get a sixpack without working out at all by severely limiting fat intake; it will look like a scrawny sixpack but a sixpack all the same. And should one maintain a normal diet but work out one isn't left with a sixpack but the "strongman look". Visible sixpack is mostly about lowering body fat, which isn't healthiest thing ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | People have to distinguish between "sexy body" and "practical body"Women prefer men who are ripped and buffed (without looking like a steroids-filled bodybuilder). Dad bods and otter bods are more practical, but not sexier. Where do you base this on? I think most females, most human beings in fact, find "ripped and buffed" to just look gross. It's a niche appeal that is only liked in a very small, select circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on /FemaleDatingStrategy/?If you take away the widow's peak it becomes really apparent how misshapen its head is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on /FemaleDatingStrategy/?Seems to be more politics than actual strategy, to be honest. That's what this stuff often devolves to, I feel. Kind of like how r/mgtow is mostly just politics and bitching, rather than going one's own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 03:34 PM |
| 3 | For those of you who don't / didn't want kids . How hard was/is dating for you?I have scarcely met these mythical human beings that want to reproduce with you, especially the type that doesn't just want your genes but also wants you to spend time caring for the offspring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Q4W Would you date a man in poverty?I never mix finances with another individual anyway so I don't care. You're not getting any of my money though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | PSA for the ladiesI like this response; it's a rare case of nuance in a sea of unnecessary absolutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 06:19 PM |
| 0 | PSA for the ladiesYes, I know; I also know that stealing is illegal and that jumping out of my window round now would almost certainly result into my death. Fascinating things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female sexuality is dysgenic and incompatible with civilization regardless of the pill you subscribe to.So let's say it was not restricted to mating: France continued to thrive thereafter The French revolution was most certainly a civil war between the commoners and the nobility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female sexuality is dysgenic and incompatible with civilization regardless of the pill you subscribe to.France seemed to do very well after the French revolution, and are you suggesting that the French revolution was caused by mating preferences instead of the commoners getting mad at the nobility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Female sexuality is dysgenic and incompatible with civilization regardless of the pill you subscribe to.Yeah dude, it was related to mating preferences that a bunch of Europeans with superior technology and germs they had no immunity for set foot on the Americas and proceeded to conquer their arses; it was related to mating preferences that some US states like a century later than the rest of the world realized that maybe, just maybe, slavery is utterly barbaric and decided to civil war the rest of the states into freeing their slaves; it was the superior mating preferences of the French and not t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:39 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Female sexuality is dysgenic and incompatible with civilization regardless of the pill you subscribe to.Can you name me a single example of a society that just "collapsed" without being conquered or some civil war or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female sexuality is dysgenic and incompatible with civilization regardless of the pill you subscribe to.You know what's also incompatible with civilization by the way? Wanting to be a baker: if every single human being wanted to be a baker, and became a baker, society would collapse because there would be a vast surplus of bread, and nothing else being produced. And this is exactly why these things would both lead to the collapse of society; human society relies on specialization and pluriformity; if every individual wanted the same thing society would certainly collapse. And yet society has endur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 02:34 PM |
| 9 | Do straight males feel envy of gay guys?A user on r/askmen once said something along the lines of "You often hear people say that they don't understand the other sex; I'm pretty sure what they mean is "I don't understand love.", as a bisexual: I understand all my friends just fine, just not my lovers—love is complicated." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfNetherlands, I guess that's a place noted for its lack of sensitivity and rudedirect population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it creepy if a guy is standing alone at a nightlcub?If it's standing alone: the thought wouldn't even cross my mind that it's doing it with the purpose of picking others up. If it's approaching others for conversations that it doesn't know: I think it's a total loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 10:25 AM |
| 2 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfI have never in my life encountered this mythical "never ask a woman for her age" maxim; it's something sometimes seen in fiction. In general if you ask, you'll get an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Question to the women who say they'd never date a RP manI wouldn't date a "bluepill man" either; I would in fact not even much appreciate the social company of either. I hang out with friends to cool down and escape from all the gender and other such nonsense—I don't like to feel like my gender matters when I'm cooling down with friends; it ruins the experience. From where I stand: redpill, bluepill, feminism, MRA, incels, TERFs, the entire "gendersphere"; it'all the same shit in different buckets—it's something to get angry over in reddit debates, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do women keep their bastard children?I'm a bastard; that was the plan from the start. My parent wasn't interested in a relationship at the time and certainly not in marriage. My biological paternal parent was essentially a sperm donor but I was conceived "the old fashioned way"; obviously I was not aborted because that's what my parent wanted. Men don't want their bastard babies. They won't support them and they won't love them like the mothers do. What makes you think that? Nothing in my family ever married and many are happily to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How did your parents' relationship(s) affect your own views on love?How would I know? Anything that answers this question isn't being self-critical; there's no way to tell how I would have ended up if it would've been different. Having said that I have a very different opinion regarding relationships and love than my parent has in that my parent believes in relationships and that romantic love is a meaningful word and that I believe that both are meaningless labels and buzzwords and that I have no interest in wondering whether I am "in a relationship" with anoth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Again: The research you linked says that 25% of cats tested fall outside of 200% of the mean; if you don't want to call that "high" then your own definition of "high" is just a weird standard. You were the one that claimed your beliefs were so "scientific"; I never made such a claim that mine where; the burden of proof is yours to come with actual scientific research that the variance is low which you never did and the first research you came with indicates it is high (again, shitty sample size) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?So you have nothing to suggest the mating strategies of mammals are infinitely indivisible? I never claimed they are; I claimed the variance was high. https://news.janegoodall.org/2018/07/10/top-bottom-chimpanzee-social-hierarchy-amazing/ Nothing in this article in any way, shape, or form, discusses how high the variance is. Prove that mammal mating strategies are infinitely indivisible as you claim. You are aware that I never used the words "infinite" and "indivisible" and whatever not you seem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 05:19 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Yeah, your study has a low sample size hence any proof would come with a massively high uncertainty but the thing is that you are reversing the burden here. I challenged you to come with a study that proved the variance in cats was low; you triumphantly came with one that prima facie does the opposite despite having a super low sample size and now I'm supposed to do basic maths on a subjective definition of "high" to you? The numbers are in the study, 2 of the 8 female cats accepted only 3, one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?I never said there were "outliers" which implies that a large percentage follows the same pattern and a small percentage a different one. I said there is large individual variance which this study shows. There are multiple cats (again, in this very small sample size of 8) that only accepted 3 and 1 that accepted 9. I said the variance is high which this study affirms, not that there are outliers. The standard deviation is very high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Okay? So female cats have the tendency to accept three times as many male partners. What’s your point? My point is that if some female cats accept three times as many as others then that obviously means that the variance between individual female cats is "high" by any reasonable definition of the word "high". Female cats are still capable of being studied and quantified. They aren’t infinitely divisible into individual proclivities as you are claiming. Where did I say they can't be studied? I sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Your own linked paper quantified it with numbers. The variance was that some cats were three times as likely to accept a particular male than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Great but we weren't talking about that; we were talking about the level of individual variance in how many males each female of a species is willing to accept and you study with cats showed that not only the variance with female cats is very high, but even manages to find plausible causes that indicate such variety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Then what were you even debating all this time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?What makes you think that mammals have no instinctual breeding nature? I never said they don't; I said there is much variance per individual and ironically the paper you posted not only affirms this but also attempts to explain the factors that might contribute to this variance. Literally no biologist believes this. It’s no different than being anti-science in any other way. Quite right—luckily I never said such a thing anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?The females were courted by between nine and 19 males, but copulated with only three to nine of them. So let me get this clear? A difference in magnitude of 1/3 (in this obscenely small sample size of 8) is not a lot of individual difference in your book? They even find an explanation for the difference: Females with a shorter oestrous duration and a lighter body weight tended to accept mounts more frequently than the females with a longer oestrous duration and a higher body weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Female cats are quite similar to each other in mating proclivities. You say so: show it, because that article does not. It doesn't talk about the similarities between female cats, only the differences between male and female cats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?To be fair, if you can stomach most nature documentaries without getting very annoyed at the inaccuracies you don't know much about biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?And what exactly does the difference between male and female cats have to do with how much difference there is between individual female cats? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Ehhh... have you ever looked at how diverse the behaviour of other mammals is? One of my cats lets itself be petted by total strangers; the other runs away like a scared idiot at the sight of one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 12:26 PM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Why not? How exactly does one win by reproducing? What's in it for you to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | So does the red pill ideology say that women only want Chad?Women aren’t gay men. Women don’t go into parks at night to get blown by strangers they’ve never talked to, nor do they suck dicks through glory holes. Women aren’t gay men. Some do; some don't. Of course, the revolutionary theory that human beings for the most part just have their own personal preferences is hard to swallow in these waters. I swear: at some point this forum is going to seriously debate "what hair colour do women have?". "All my exes were blond; they clearly have blond hair!", "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you trade all the struggles of your sex with the struggles of the opposite sex?I do not experience most of the so-called "struggles of my sex [female]"; I kind of feel that those that experience it the most are probably acting and behaving in a way that invites it. So if I were to trade, would I also get a similarly low level of "struggles of the sex"? Because likewise I gain the distinct impression that the males that face the "struggles of their sex" are acting in a way that invites it. As in "I feel so much pressure to act like a big strong man... now I bitch about how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I never said you were angry? I said OP's friend was angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what qualities do you consider a Good Man to have?I'm indifferent to kind and truthful myself; it doesn't offer me any benefits, funny does however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what qualities do you consider a Good Man to have?My theory is that "ladies" as you call it actually each have their own opinion and subjective preferences. This whole holy grail search of "what $gender wants" would have been settled millennia back if there actually was such a thing. The problem with this search is that it's searching for something that doesn't exist; it's like trying to search for "What is the favourite past time of Germans... how annoying, every time I think I found it a German comes along and says "nope, that is not my favou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Why do some of the men in the manosphere go out of their way to shame men who date/ marry single moms and adopt the lady’s kid(s)?Why would dating a single parent mean that you suddenly have to become a parental figure to the former's offspring? My own single parent had two relationships during the two decades spent on raising me and I barely knew either. Strangely enough I have some degree of contact with the relationship my parent had before I was conceived and my parent doesn't as far as I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I'm just saying that you can't really claim the apathy argument if you were angry; if you were angry you clearly weren't apathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is being friends with someone before dating them a good way to develop a healthy relationship?Yeah no shit it had. There's obviously a clear difference between "No, we're just friends, totally not my type, just not sexually attracted in any way." and "Yeah, we're friends, and I consider it attractive." That's hardly a revelation, some consider some of their friends physically attractive; it can often still take like 2 years before they develop feelings for each other because they never realized how much they had in common before or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 07:25 AM |
| 1 | What's the evolutionary reason men care about facial beauty?"symmetry" is the only one of the few beauty things and all thise evo psych shit of which I can accept there to be a genetic reason. Most other things are completely cultural and differ so much from place to place. All that shit is like "genetic reasons for liking square jaws", meanwhile all those kpop stars have super round faces and it's also blowing over to the west and affecting their tastes. The "ideal of beauty" a century back really doesn't look that good any more through today's lens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?Evidently OP's friend was quite serious though as it got angry at OP. I can respect the mentality of not putting in the effort for what one doesn't really desire but getting angry for not getting it when one didn't put in the work is quite another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Girls, why is it on me to escalate?I didn't invent weird social conventions nor do I live my life hampered by them. The thing about social conventions is that they have no rhyme nor reason behind them, they just are as they are; why do you have to shake hands? You just have to because it's a social convention? Why is it customary even amongst Japanese twins that the younger one address the older one with a honorific but the older one addresses the younger one by first name? That's just how it is and the Japanese are mad obsessed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on r/theredpill closing?I always felt a simple way to do this is if platforms like reddit censor on content that judges declare them publishers because they filter already. As in if you filter you become personally liable for the content that the users post and you can no longer use the defence of "this is the content users posted, we are not responsible"; you make yourself responsible evidently by removing some of it. So companies can have their choice: either be content aggregators or be publishers with all the perks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Should /r/TheRedPill be banned? Looks like Reddit admin think so...You said it was about rules, not about politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Should /r/TheRedPill be banned? Looks like Reddit admin think so...I agree; I think this should be interpreted way more strictly by the courts. Essentially, I believe that websites like reddit and youtube should become personally liable for copyright violation and all that stuff the moment they start being publishers and censor things based on their own ideology or commercial interests. The moment youtube does things like censor nipples or certain content because it hurts their ad revenue they become publishers because they clearly already decide what is and is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Should /r/TheRedPill be banned? Looks like Reddit admin think so...I'm not a "libertarian"; I just hate pretentiousness, especially this corporate and/or legal kind where they pretend it's about consistent interpretation of "rules" but it's really super arbitrary and all about emotional response and money. Reddit can do whatever it wants; and I can criticize reddit for coming with sham excuses of "rules" which are just a pretext for "we decided we turn a higher profit if we ban this sub" which is the only reason behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Q2Women: Can you give me some examples of looksmatches between men and women?Even looking at the Mains Twins: the male one just has worse skin; I would assume this is because the female one uses some kind of makeup and the male one doesn't. They're identical twins by the way; one just takes female hormones which makes this comparison interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a Fuckboy to you?A buzzword that has a different meaning depending on what speaker uses it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How many purple pill/blue pill women here would want an open relationship/open marriage? What percent of women in today's new world wants it if it was completely destigmatized? All assuming your relationship is rock solid and you both love each other forever genuinely.Semantics, schmemantics—I don't care about this obsession with labels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 02:10 AM |
| 0 | How many purple pill/blue pill women here would want an open relationship/open marriage? What percent of women in today's new world wants it if it was completely destigmatized? All assuming your relationship is rock solid and you both love each other forever genuinely.The label? Like pretty much everything else on this so-called "dating market". That's why I can't take this world and the many other worlds that revolve around individuals giving waaay too much shit about "self-identified labels" seriously. Some "FWB" are also exclusive by the way but they choose to label it as such anyway; I can't take all that shit seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How many purple pill/blue pill women here would want an open relationship/open marriage? What percent of women in today's new world wants it if it was completely destigmatized? All assuming your relationship is rock solid and you both love each other forever genuinely.At that point "relationship" becomes just a label and I despise meaningless labels. Having said that; I don't do sexual exclusivity; but I'm not too concerned with all those labels and trying to wrangle feelings into all these social boxes as well either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | (Q4W) Can you vet a man, and what does that look like?Bodybuilders don't really work out the days before the competitions; they pretty much starve ad dehydrate themselves in the two weeks before it and stop working out. https://greatist.com/connect/truth-behind-fitness-photo-shoots#2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 07:45 AM |
| 6 | (Q4W) Can you vet a man, and what does that look like?A lot of bodybuilding comes pretty close to pro-ana in how unhealthy they are with reducing body fat: they just build muscle whilst reducing body fat. They're the same as pro-ana except with muscles so what you see is not bone-definition but muscle definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 06:56 AM |
| 8 | (Q4W) Can you vet a man, and what does that look like?Lol, the passive aggressiveness is strong with this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 05:32 AM |
| 4 | (Q4W) Can you vet a man, and what does that look like?Ever thought you should try to vet a man? Or do you have some kind of backup plan? No judgement going on here for real just curious. What backup plan would I need? I don't make myself financially dependent of another individual; that's not a "plan"; I just don't enjoy living with others. I am never in a position where I can't take a less important to nonexistent role in another's life. Also would you mind revealing your current dating/marriage situation? I guess I've been in love with two, maybe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 05:20 AM |
| 5 | (Q4W) Can you vet a man, and what does that look like?Nope, I don't "vet"; I have no "strategy"; I don't think much about anything; I just go with the flow and see where it takes me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock onlineReminds me of TotalBiscuit throwing a fit at how "toxic" reddit was because of the 99% supportive message 1% was critical and it completely forgot all the supportive ones after that. Some just can't live with the idea of a single individual that doesn't like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 07:34 PM |
| 2 | If in the future, Scientists found a way to change a straight persons sexuality and be able to commercialise their method, which gender do you think would be more likely turn themselves gay?To be fair 90% of 4chan is just attracted to "cute" and gives zero shits about "gender", or whether something is a live human or a drawing for that matter. AsToLfO iS a BoY anD tHat'S WhaT MaKeS HiM sO GoOd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, why don’t you ask men out as much as men ask women out?I have never been asked out, nor have I ever asked anything out. I am for the most part simply uninteresting in "going out", especially with something I don't really know yet; that's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Q4A: What is traditional masculinity to you?Whatever the speaker wants it to be—it's a useless buzzword that gets redefined to mean whatever the speaker wants it to mean; it is a word without meaning that only carries association. If you can reasonably make a topic like this asking "what does this word mean to you?" then you've—in all likelihood—stumbled upon one of such meaningless buzzwords that isn't used for their meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 11:09 PM |
| 4 | What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online...what extreme social pressure? The only thing I ever wore which I rarely do is some eyeliner; I can't say I face any "extreme social pressure". Like what...? Strangers or even friends are going to approach me and tell me I should and apply "pressure" to me to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 08:58 PM |
| 3 | What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online...do they? I have never heard of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 08:56 PM |
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