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How would this work? My friends have no idea who I swiped left on on Tinder, much less why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:48 PM
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What’s the alternative to everyone being entitled to say “no” to what they don’t choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:28 PM
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And you can get taller by paying to have your legs broken and extended. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:52 AM
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More content that includes zero indication that being short is the “HARDEST.” The premise we’re debating is not whether “height matters,” but whether height matters THE MOST, more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:48 AM
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But you are just basing this on your feelings, right? You are not referencing any data that reinforces this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:34 AM
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There’s nothing in your post that supports your premise being short is the “hardest.” Nothing in your post indicates that it’s harder than being bald, harder than being obese, harder than having a high-pitched voice, or any other characteristic that isn’t a “disability.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:12 AM
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My question is that couldn't this problem be solved with same gender support networks? Which problem? Struggling to find a partner for marriage =/= lonely. Struggling to find a partner for marriage isn’t even necessarily = unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:32 AM
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Me neither. I was super selective in swiping, so I never got more messages than I could handle, even though I got some messages from Premium members I hadn’t swiped right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:39 PM
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So is that your experience? You are overwhelmed by messages from men you never swiped right on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:32 PM
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And this post isn’t about them. Question for women regarding online dating and too many MATCHES
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:57 PM
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So, not relevant to the post or the question being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:51 PM
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But were you using a matching app? The question is why someone would swipe right on enough people to result in having so many people that CAN message you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:46 PM
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How would I know? Some guys might say sex is part of having peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:53 PM
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We’re talking about a bad relationship. How is leverage relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:18 PM
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So, the divorce rates prove your theory because it’s your theory. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:09 PM
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The ones who adjust the most are less likely to be separated. But how did you come to this conclusion? Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:01 PM
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men adjust way more in relationships. Take the divorce stats of gays vs lesbians vs heterosexuals. How does that follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:47 PM
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Men like access to sex, even from women they don’t like very much. Men don’t have as many close social connections, so the end of a relationship causes more loneliness. Men have a harder time finding new sources of sex and new relationships, so they are more likely to drag things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:45 PM
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I don’t see anything gendered. What am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:37 PM
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family courts automatically side with the mothers. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:59 PM
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Your friend never sees his child? He’s not in their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:41 PM
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the presence of a father figure is crucial in a child's development, thus highlighting that women filing for divorce do it at the cost of their children's well-being? Weird, my parents divorced, and my father didn’t disappear in a puff of smoke…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:37 PM
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He doesn’t need anyone’s permission to prioritize his dream. I don’t date or marry people who stand in the way of my dreams. He shouldn’t have married someone whose priorities conflicted with his, and he can still leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:27 PM
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Not doing sex acts you know you don’t like (because you tried them) isn’t a power play. Relationships where the sex makes you feel gross typically don’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:23 PM
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how to flirt and express attraction without being creepy? Your post implies that men only learn this by practicing on women, which is false. I think men have an obligation to do some homework before using random women for target practice. I’m more than happy to talk to male relatives, male friends, and even men on online forums about what behavior I find creepy or appropriate. There are many many online resources where women talk about what behavior they find creepy or appropriate. But if a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:28 PM
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Because of what I already said: The debate is whether it’s OK for a woman to dump the guy who doesn’t trust her. Many men don’t trust their partners and want paternity tests, but want to keep dating these women if the kid is theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:52 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re asking. Most people think couples should break up if the woman cheated and lied about the paternity of a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:04 PM
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The debate about paternity tests is not whether they should exist, or whether men should get them. The debate is whether it’s OK for a woman to dump the guy who doesn’t trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:28 PM
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“Care about guys getting paternity tests” usually means, thinks that relationships without trust should end. Presumably you broke up with the woman you had an instinct was cheating cheating on you. That’s what most people are suggesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:59 PM
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And that would make it a weapon because??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:40 PM
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Your assertion that equality “has become weapon” is not addressed, much less substantiated, in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:34 PM
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But what are the “outside factors??”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:47 AM
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You are describing unplanned pregnancy after unprotected sex as outside factors forcing you to be ‘lucky’??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:27 AM
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So really it’s still pointless to rely on that On what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:23 AM
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So which is it? Not “using your brain” is a “wasted opportunity and “not thinking hard” is “literally the dumbest thing you can do?” OR You can succeed just as easily by luck and not even knowing about the formula?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:18 AM
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Following the truth will lead to higher rates% of success Want to have offspring? You can’t be “kinda” pregnant. If you’re trying to have offspring, you’re either 0% successful or 100% successful. using formulas and following truth and planning/thinking is the way to achieve success in sex/relationships/dating/sexual dynamics Almost half of pregnancies are unplanned. Just as many people “succeed” in having offspring without using formulas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:00 AM
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Check all you want. But that doesn’t erase the massive difference between not trusting your partner now, and acknowledging that they may become untrustworthy within the next 50 years. And if you think your partner may be mentally ill or suffering from a head injury, I would suggest not fucking her till you figure it out (as opposed to having unprotected sex with her).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:29 AM
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Of course. But no one is getting a paternity test because they’re worried about future infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:16 AM
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“don’t start a relationship with him if you don’t trust him.” No one knows how a person may change over 50+ years. I’ve never met the person I will be in a relationship with in the future… even if it’s the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:27 PM
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Totally different. One is forward-looking: “I do not know that I can trust you, in the future. You may have a mental illness or head injury that drastically changes your personality, making you unsafe to be around.” The other is backwards-looking: “I do not trust you NOW, and think you may have betrayed me within the last year. I am actively encouraging you to trust me (by having a baby with me), but do not return your trust.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:19 PM
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Why just don't spin a plate and get a free food, free gift and free sex from several guys? I’m not paying for sex when I’m in a committed relationship, so “free sex” isn’t exactly a selling point of casual dating… all the sex I have is free. As far as free gifts and food… I make enough to buy myself the gifts and food that I want. But ultimately, I have a limited social battery. If I’m going out to dinner, I’d rather spend the time and energy with someone who I’m investing in, whether it’s a rom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:13 PM
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Why is “sympathy from complete strangers after you are raped or murdered” the way you measure value?? I couldn’t care less who reads a newspaper article about my death and says, “oh that’s terrible.” Who gives a shit? A ton of fat non-chaste women are loved by their friends and partners. They’re appreciated at work and in their community. A lot of drop-out blue collar men are loved by their friends and partners. They’re appreciated at work and in their community. That matters a lot more than som…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:37 AM
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Of course it doesn’t help? It makes no sense at all. If taking care of kids is intrinsically rewarding, why wouldn’t it be the best part of his day? If it’s not difficult, why does it matter that he’s tired? You literally described it as leisure!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:43 PM
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how difficult it is, how demanding it is, how it's a "24/7 job and working husbands are lucky they can clock out at 5". If it isn’t difficult, isn’t demanding, and isn’t work, then there’s no reason the dad can’t take over from 5pm till he goes to work the next morning. Why isn’t that happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:31 PM
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That's not emotional blackmail, it’s pointing out the same fact that YOU already agree with: If he doesn’t trust her, the marriage is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah sure, thinking it’s normal to be in a single relationship once a decade reeks of desperation /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:36 AM
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Of course? Anyone can be single instead of settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:04 AM
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Because it’s impossible for a man to say he wants to commit, even believe he wants to commit, but be emotionally unable to follow through? I certainly don’t think so. He doesn’t even know what a committed relationship is like!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:56 AM
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You may know women who have spent a decade dating a lot of men but never getting into a relationship with a single one because of their standards. I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:52 AM
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Yes, it sounds like they’ve chosen to have “standards” that no one can meet so they can avoid ever being in a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:43 AM
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What does A DECADE without being interested in a relationship have to do with standards or desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:36 AM
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If testing his children is a requirement the man has, he should be sharing it early in the relationship, well before any planned pregnancy. This is like any other relationship requirement. If he did not know he’d want to test his children until some unique situation happened, he should still be discussing his intention to take the child’s DNA and share it with a third party with the coparent of that child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:31 AM
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then I don't see why a lack of relationship experience is often seen as such a red flag or a dealbreaker. To be clear, your position is entirely speculative? You are not saying, “I have dated people with and without relationship experience, and I couldn’t tell any difference.” guys in their late 20s who have never had a long term relationship they just haven't met anyone who they wanted to commit to dating and not through lack of options. Why isn’t it reasonable to interpret this as avoidant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:16 AM
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The majority of your post is about people who are NOT in relationships. You’re referring to two extremely different dynamics, where the participants have extremely different concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:40 AM
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actually looking for a companion, someone to grow together and accomplish and go places with, with which you grow a strong bond and have all those memories and experiences as opposed to having someone who's already accomplished and done it all by themselves. What are you suggesting? That “good” men aren’t bettering themselves on their own because they want to do it with a partner? It’s the “bad” men who are intrinsically motivated to accomplish things and experience life, even if they don’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:16 PM
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