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Velvet_power/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 08:43 PM
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Velvet_power/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 09:28 PM
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Wow. Yea this is not an example of vetting. It’s not even required here. It’s an entertaining post about a guy that needs more sleep. Stop taking shit so goddamn seriously. I mean c’mon!
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:44 PM
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Oh don’t be do mightier than thou. It‘ll help you realize your nature as a woman. Please. That’s not only condescending but also completely misguided. At the end of the day we‘re all human and you too have your share of flaws. Perhaps empathy is something you can work on.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 05:59 PM
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Yes there are negative psychological consequences especially for women. Then again my n count is two because I want to protect myself for being used. It’s not because I think low n count will attract men because i’ve never seen proof of that. I mean I don’t wear a sign with my n count on it and none of the guys I’ve dated even asked about my number. The only time I’ve seen guys obsess over it is on TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 02:21 PM
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Of course you’re not forever a plate. In real life a lot of guys don’t care as much as the men on these forums. Personally mine is 2 and no one has ever cared. I’ve also got friends in successful relationships with half a dozen. One friend is 23 n count 25 and very much in love with her boyfriend. It’s not your n count it’s your attitude and personality
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 01:04 PM
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Maybe he’s small down there and has anxiety about getting sexual. Check out r/smalldickproblems - a lot of them mention delaying escalation because of fear of judgment - it’s heartbreaking
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 05:08 PM
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“Guess it’s your lucky day. Come to such and such at 8pm”
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:35 PM
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Your behavior is disgusting. Why post a personal Facebook page? Wtf is wrong with you dude? Reported.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:50 PM
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Kitten d’Amour! They have simply gorgeous dresses, blouses, skirts and shoes. Vintage inspired and beautifully feminine. I’ve been to the Sydney store and pretty sure there’s one in Melbourne too. https://kittendamour.com
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 01:25 PM
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If you stay my guess is you will definitely regret it. Do you really want to spend your lifetime with this man? Your ONE life?? I think your gut is screaming with all it’s might and I would heed its warning. Personally my gut has never been wrong. In your shoes I would already be out the door and starting fresh. Read up a bit on failed marriages. Most people had that guttural reaction at least the night before, if not months before. Even princess Diana found a letter from Camilla on her pillow t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 06:39 AM
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Hey OP, please don’t take this as patronizing! I want to say that I can see how intelligent you are from your writing and it honestly sounds like your partner might have a significantly lower IQ than you. You are too smart to still be living that sort of life. I don’t like to be ‘classist’ but in your case, I’m gonna say it because I think your self-esteem issues have prevented you from seeing it yourself. He’s not on your level. Do you really want to have kids with a guy who’s mind you don’t fi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 03:47 PM
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Yes that’s why the US president has always been married. You’re never going to have a single guy become President. They’re not seen as trustworthy enough by the public. It’s also why the Clintons stayed together.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:36 AM
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Amazing piece! Very helpful thank you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:07 PM
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From what OP wrote in her post I can already list attributes that she brings to the table: • she’s aware of RP principals and attempts to incorporate them into her life • she’s educated • she’s intelligent • she’s cultured • at 30 even if she’s ‘plain’, she’ll still look youthful. Perhaps the most important thing that you could do OP, is gain some self-confidence. Never call yourself a loser. Always, always back yourself! Believing in yourself is one’s primary job in life and it’s a requirement …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 01:53 PM
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He’s 42 and can’t keep a job, let alone have a career. He still lives on his mother’s property and doesn’t sound like he has ever grown up. My sense is you made a less than ideal pick when it came to choosing a mate. When I look at my mother I can see she is very happy. She made a very good choice. My father has a top profession, he is European, came from a very good family and my mother has been a wonderful homemaker Then I see some of my mom’s friends. They’re not so well off. They didn’t pick…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:15 AM
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This sounds wonderfully fun! A weekend you’ll remember. From what you describe I definitely think there’s more there. He sounds like he was drinking in your eyes & face - that’s intimacy. For me true intimacy is something that happens at the beginnings of love because it involves vulnerability. If this was a casual hookup I would have expected it to be a much more rudimentary. I suggest you give it a go! P.s. apparently if you stare into someone’s eyes for four mins you’re scientifically guarant…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 07:10 PM
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My father (doc in Obstetrics & genealogy at the time) actually handled the birth for my siblings and I. As a child I loved hearing stories growing up of just how involved and important my dad was during our births. It’s definitely a vital part of parenthood that I will share with my future husband.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 08:58 PM
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perfect in each and every way. Except for the fact he has: • initiated incest • been physically and sexually abused his entire life • disrespected the vows of marriage • paid for sex • fucked a transgender • all WITHOUT protection Do you even hear yourself? These are not small mistakes. He could have AIDS for all you know. How can someone with absolutely zero regard for himself or his own body respect a partner? He doesn’t value himself, how can he value you?! Honestly I have never even met a pe…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 12:07 PM
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He doesn’t want sex he wants a relationship
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:04 PM
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How does posting memes show that she’s low value? They’re fucking memes lol how do they carry this much weight?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:50 PM
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Yes, beauty is power. That’s what I love about femininity - I feel it taps into the inner strength of all those women before us. When someone desires you, they are yours. Fortunately Esther used her power for good and we should always endeavor to do the same.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 07:43 PM
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But what’s threatening about memes? I’m not trying to be rude literally don’t understand. Is it because other guys comment?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:53 PM
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She wants to see if you’ll bite. Swipe left and don’t look back.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:19 PM
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Post on RedpillWives
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:04 PM
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Why on earth does her posting MEMES irritate you??
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:15 AM
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Worked like a charm for me thus far :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 09:45 AM
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How old are you? Why are you still living with your mother??
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:52 AM
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Why are you to weak to tell her it’s over?? Honestly that sort of weakness is gross.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:49 AM
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Well it’s wonderful all that stuff is now behind you and you can move on to creating the life you want. Perhaps you can start again in a new city? In any case as everyone said cut him from your life completely. I’ve always done this with exes. When you do eventually start dating again after being celibate for however long it takes you to really heal, the guy will genuinely appreciate that you’re not in contact with your exes. Maybe you can also get a dog to have something to love while you’re in…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 09:08 PM
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Put concealer under your eyes! Works like a charm and it’ll get you through til you have a more reasonable job hours
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 08:00 PM
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You’re welcome
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:08 PM
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Of course her family would bear the primary responsibility - as they should and would in a court of law. The truth though is OP would be placing her in unnecessary risk: Say you have a dog. You leave the dog with friends to look after. Friends kill the dog. Are you responsible? No, not directly. However if you hadn’t left the dog with them it wouldn’t be dead. Same sort of thing.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:33 AM
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They often do virginity tests on Muslim girls before marriage. Sick fucks but it is what it is.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:51 AM
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Are you dense? Not directly but definitely indirectly responsible if she gets killed because he fucked her. If he wants to live with that completely up to him. Personally I’d feel uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:45 AM
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Also honour killing is a thing in Muslim communities - you wouldn’t want to be responsible for her being killed.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:09 AM
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You need to work on your self control. Even if you’re attracted to someone don’t fuck them. Only sleep with them once they’ve committed to you. Neither of these men were intelligent choices on your behalf. Perhaps it’s time for some introspection on exactly why you had an affair with a married man and chose to believe what he told you. Go into nun mode, stay single and celibate for a least a year. Then make a healthy choice, perhaps someone closer to your own age! The truth is that he’s right fo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 06:28 AM
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He’s a child so the most important thing is to just allow him to play and discover the world in his own time. Don’t talk to him about anything to do with RP till he’s at least 16. Do anything before then and you’re brainwashing a child. Teach him to think for himself and just let him be a kid. It sounds like he’s loved and cared for and I think that’s fine for now. Don’t stress about girls at his school - a lot of kids learn really important social instincts naturally and if you intellectualize …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 08:03 PM
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Due to the amount of hamstering you’re doing to qualify yourself to us you now appear thoroughlylow value. To clarify you are definitely not the type of man redpill women would even give a second look. Your advice is dubious at best and clearly unwanted.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 06:08 PM
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Why would we want a relationship with someone like you that only sees us as fuck toys? There are lots of men that offer more than their dick, including respecting us as individual human beings. Your strategy likely works best on low value women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 05:11 PM
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Not awalt. Low class.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:41 AM
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Hi girls, I’m Velvet_power, am 23 years old and single. I love RP because it has given me an edge in dating and provides many of the tools I need to create the life I want! Being feminine makes me happy. It also gives me a sense of power, both in the world and particularly in my interactions with men - hence my username :P My childhood was spent growing up on a farm in rural New Zealand and I have this year moved to Europe to pursue a Masters degree. I’m living near Vienna for the summer and lov…
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 08:13 AM
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Oh wow how lovely. Yes the first time I read it I was not a fan lol cause it seemed almost anti-marriage but it’s grown on me a lot. I love it now and have the same interpretation as you.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 06:32 AM
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One thing my mother always warned me of is not to seek happiness through a man and instead find it within myself. She said many times to me, “a man should never be the meaning to your life.” My mother adores my father and they are still very much in love after 35 years. RP style marriage. Still, they are NOT each other’s ultimate life purpose which I believe is the reason for their wonderful relationship. Here’s part of a poem that I think explains exactly what my mum meant: “But let there be sp…
/r/RedPillWives14/08/18 09:42 PM
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You’re right but only if a woman isn’t picky about the quality of the man she’s looking for... Personally I’m good looking, feminine and 23 years old. I can also bake and cook pretty well. Theoretically then, I could find a wealthy 40 year old and settle. But I’m intelligent so hope to be more than someone’s walking sex toy. For me inner development is the purpose of life and I want someone who can explore that part of the human condition with me. The men in my circles ALL married women who are …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 08:35 PM
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Most men want to marry a hot young wife that puts out and can cook. What a low quality man if sex and food are the limits of his intellectual facilities. High quality women have more to offer than dinner and a vagina.And no disrespect to you but high quality men want more than that too. My father is one of them. You show me a rich man who would prefer a rich 40 year old woman over a poor, fresh college grad with nice tits. How about George Clooney? His dating history includes lots of young model…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 08:15 PM
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I didn’t proclaim to be strong and independent at all. In fact I very much want a masculine man, as I’m very feminine myself. What I am saying is that whilst I plan on being an exceptional wife, my husband will never be the meaning of my life. The ultimate meaning of my life is my individual development as a human being (inner and outer). After all we all die alone.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 07:25 PM
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I’m a high quality woman, and I want a high quality man. You find that unattractive. Why? I want someone intelligent, open minded, ambitious, philosophical. Someone like my father who has a beautiful soul and is making a difference in the world. And yes, I have a lot to offer in return. Truth is, you can never make someone else responsible for your own happiness and those that do soon learn better.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 06:44 PM
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I guess that tells you everything.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 07:59 PM
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Those chairless women are not on this sub though. He’s preaching to the choir but is too tone deaf to even realize it’s the choir..
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 07:58 PM
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You forgot about Monica Lewinsky Kennedy was sleeping with Marilyn Munroe... They were all Alphas. You think the American people would elect a single guy spinning plates? Hell no. They needed a wife for the votes.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:11 PM
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The writing is for a general love of the content If that was the case why would he not tailor his posts a little more? Actually respond to at least one or two commentators? Honestly, I do not believe that it would devolve into a shouting match. I’ve never seen that here and most people on this sub are open to new ideas and happy to debate. Respect for each other is as important as empathy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 03:41 PM
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Well that’s easy, A professional attempt would mean that Rollo writes with the audience of this sub in mind, without the agenda of increasing his own online following and preferably not copying and pasting the same excerpts to MRP and TRP. Honestly it’s plainly disrespectful. To make it elegant, he could use a slight adjustment to his tone - more gentlemanly and less like he’s lecturing feminazis. It would be lovely if he could show even a basic understanding of the types of women that frequent …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 03:14 PM
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inability to see the world through any lense beyond their own. This is called frame. Standing to your opinion no matter the reaction, standing to yourself and who you are against the outside world; yes this is called frame. I find it very attractive. However the inability to understand or comprehend other perspectives shows an alarming lack of intelligence. Everything on earth has multiple angles from which it can be examined. Only understanding your own viewpoint shows a severe lack of mental f…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 12:44 PM
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There were a few guys who justified the anger, but I was pleasantly surprised that the most upvoted response didn't seem to justify it, as much as say why it is there, then goes on to say that it's unhealthy and they need to move past it. My theory is that if we can truly accept and empathize with one another’s sexual strategy, ‘live in the other shoe’ so to speak, there would be no anger at all. Understanding is the enemy of anger. I'm curious if you have thoughts on the ways men and women can …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 10:45 AM
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TRP doesn't want you to dislike the female biological imperatives. TRP wants you to understand their strategy and to embrace it. TRPer's understand that. However many of the newcomers don't. They are still in their anger phase. They have been burned. They have been by "The One". They have been burned by society. They have been burned by the media. This big lie masquerading as the truth is making them angry. Bullshit. This is exactly the problem with TRP. You’re apologists for the ‘newbie anger p…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:27 AM
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Very impressed with your TRP post and I wish more of those men thought like you. If we want any hope of successfully working together that’s exactly where we need to start: reasonable, open discussions with an ability to EMPATHIZE. Unfortunately I’ve seen a lot of the opposite: blatant misogyny combined with a shocking inability to see the world through any lense beyond their own. These men behave exactly as the feminists they so despise. As you say hypocrisy... Anyway I hope to see you on this …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 10:15 AM
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Yes I want to marry up. However I don’t want to dumb myself down in order to find any laborer or random Joe attractive. I’m gonna go as high as I can myself, then marry a man who has also had the ambition, talent and intellect to get there. You are suggesting I stunt my own growth as a human being in order to more easily find a man. No man is worth that. I would not hinder my own development for anyone on earth.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 06:11 AM
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Honestly it’s disgusting how u/RolloTomasi mass dumps these excerpts on RPW, TRP and MRP every couple weeks. It’s an awkward, weak and unprofessional attempt to desperately increase his readership. He has never even managed to engage in debating any of these ‘essays.’ He adds nothing of benefit to this sub and I’m wondering why his posts still appear here?
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 07:46 PM
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You’re sick in the head. You guys fuck, you’re exclusive and yet you can’t talk like two normal people? Is pride really that important to you? For her sake leave and let her find a more natural human being. This is honestly twisted and diseased behavior.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:56 AM
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Okay firstly, A woman in her 30s better be smoking hot with a banging body, a stellar career, no debt, no kids, very low N-Count to no N-Count, disease-free, a pleasant disposition, fully cooperative, outstanding cooking/cleaning and domestic skills, no emotional baggage, and a wonderfully amazing personality. These attributes are held by a lot of the ladies on this sub. Personally, I am all of the above and so are lots of my friends. In my own life I’m opposed to sex outside of exclusive commit…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 11:57 PM
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U/reiko57 I hope you see the irony in you calling women ‘angry’
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 04:55 PM
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Girls ask cause they’re worried you’re a Catfish. And they’re right - it is catfishing style behaviour. So get another photo. It’s not that hard to find a photo of yourself even without social media is it?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:23 PM
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Girl here, ask now. I personally think that’s more attractive & natural than waiting three days. Also do something soon - not next week :)
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:01 PM
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I like DJ
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:22 AM
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Dude, BC fails. She obviously doesn’t want a kid or an abortion for that matter. She’s being smart, you should too.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:28 PM
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Brilliant <3
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 11:44 AM
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Your writing is always so positive and more of what this sub needs! Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 08:19 AM
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Well I think you’re rightfully suspicious. How does watching one live performance make music any less ‘private’ for him? Super weird...I think your ‘hamster,’ is in fact common sense.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 11:49 AM
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Reading this alone is making me retch. No man on earth is worth this! Get some DIGNITY and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 11:46 AM
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Life will kick you till you find it in yourself to fight back. Are you really gonna roll over and submit? Come on, begin fighting and MOVE
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:42 PM
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I laughed, honestly think it’s pretty funny. Don’t be so sensitive about the kid and just enjoy these moments. A few jokes is not gonna hurt your kid
/r/RedPillWives02/08/18 11:32 AM
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My father is 3 years, 8 months younger than my mother. They’re both very healthy - my dad still looks 10+ years younger than his age. In the ward next to my mum was an 18 year old that had delivered a tiny, thin and malnourished baby. My mum still remembers hearing that girl sobbing. My brother on the other hand came out a very round and healthy 10 lbs. He‘s now a pro athlete. I guess the point of my anecdote is that yes there is a bell curve but at the end of the day everyone is an individual a…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/18 08:10 AM
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False. My mother had three healthy children beginning age 36, with the last one 43. Growing up the mothers of my friends were a similar age. This is fear mongering and just plain ignorant.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/18 06:38 PM
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Wonderful piece, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/18 01:38 PM
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I’m 23f and in the exact same position as you except I now have an n count of 2 (both LTR) Unlike some of the other posters, I believe you. Some of us are born pretty sexual. I remember that even as virgin I had a very high libido and couldn’t wait to prove myself in bed. Like you, I’ve also always held out for LTRs and stay celibate when single. So in answer to your question: yes if you want an LTR you have to tone it down. Play the innocent, naive girl. Later on you can turn it up in the bedro…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 09:31 PM
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Thank you. This is the first bit of real sanity in this thread. I was starting to think I'm crazy. Excellent comment.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 08:08 PM
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u/Sunny_07 Try something by Ryuho Okawa or Rudolf Steiner. Both are very helpful in guiding a deeper inner purpose.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:12 PM
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Mission is improving your self mentally, physically and spiritually. Read philosophy, study and meditate. Work on your will power and sense of self. Personally I think the ultimate development of the human being is enlightenment- Buddhist concept. So embrace everything on the path towards that, be it wife/children, your work and your suffering/successes.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:47 AM
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Beautiful
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 07:23 AM
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I think you gave just solved it - this explains literally everything!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 02:36 PM
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Excellent points. My personal opinion is that the redpill is only correct on a very broad statistical level. Similarly to the way a general population stat can be correct without applying to you individually. Fundamentally we are all still human beings with free will and cannot be defined merely by trends. Redpill is a theory of nature, it is not 'Truth.' To your second point - yes I completely agree that a lot of redpill rhetoric drives men and women further apart. From what I've seen the 'redp…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 12:42 PM
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Exactly - the red pill for women is about self improvement with the long term goal being the creation of a happy family. The red pill for men seems to be aimed at self improvement with the long term goal of spinning plates and never committing to one woman. Yes you're right that those two goals completely contradict one another.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 11:44 AM
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Makes me wonder if they ever get over the anger phase at all...Rollo shows he's still in the thick of it by posting that 'essay' to RPW of all places.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 10:54 AM
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What's the reason for this post? To point out that none of us are actually 'Red Pill' or is it to make us grateful for any man 'Blue Pill' and 'stupid' enough to commit to us? Apparently as a 23 year old, Traditional - Conservative woman I don't exist because there is no incentive for me to exist. Well actually there is and it's simple, my incentive is 3 or 4 kids and a happy family. But perhaps that doesn't actually constitute a 'Red Pill' woman. In any case, the great takeaway of this post is …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 08:24 AM
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Dude, do you even hear yourself? Revenge fantasies like this are just mental masturbation. She broke your heart and your oneitis still exists, it's just become hate instead of love. As long as you are prepared to dedicate 4 years of your life to her, she holds the power because you hate her MORE than you love yourself! The opposite of love is apathy and you mate, are a long way away from feeling apathy towards her at this point. Stop lying to yourself, realise you're heartbroken and admit this p…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:22 PM
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A man's value is his and his alone to define. A woman's value to a man is her fertility and loyalty. So men have the right to self-determination but a women's worth is defined by her value to men? An unfortunate claim. Perhaps you could consider that people's value is independent of their sex...I think the fundamental value of all human beings is anchored in our inherent and infinite potential to grow as spiritual beings. I mean if the only point of existence is to reproduce like animals, what's…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 07:57 PM
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To me this is just a question of personal preference. Being 5'9 myself I've always felt pretty tall for a girl. I also got a lot of comments about being tall growing up, so for a long time it was something I was quite self-conscious about. To this day I have issues wearing proper stilettos etc. For me personally, I feel far more confident and feminine when I'm in the company of men that are either my height or taller. The fact my father is 6'6 and my brother is 6'4, could also have something to …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 03:34 PM
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