Velvethearth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	[deleted by user] I hope this is not a real inquiry into what you did wrong?.......But if it is......when she says "I'm not a toy" - and you utterly ignore it and continue.....you were out of the game at that moment.	/r/seduction	12/12/21 03:01 AM
7	[deleted by user] I don't know about you but I'm hardly ever near my phone. 23f here. I turn on "do not disturb" after about 9pm and don't respond to any message if I have them until about 9/10am the next day - throughout the day, I'm actively working and don't have time to check every 20 minutes, I'd base your response more on the content of the message rather than the time it took her to write.	/r/seduction	23/11/21 02:51 PM
-1	Do girls like guys that know alot of people? Well sir, I think acting as though you know what women want more than they do is probably one reason you aren't in that 20%.	/r/seduction	19/11/21 03:00 PM
2	Do girls like guys that know alot of people? 23f here - I'd say no because I'd rather spend quiet time with someone at home rather than have my partners attentions scattered in a million different ways or constantly out and about - then again, that's solely me, I'm a homebody and so I'd seek someone like that out. You could seek someone really social out and that may be a perfect match	/r/seduction	18/11/21 07:37 PM
2	19 What do I need to improve This is likely part of the reason men may have trouble "getting girls" if the mindset is that asking women what they'd want and what they go for and their responses are "absolutely terrible" 😂 Personally if I had trouble getting a date with a man, I'd reach out to men and get some feedback about what kinds of things their looking for.....and I wouldn't jump down their throats that their advice is terrible even if it's not something I agree with. For a gentleman with a masters degree you sure hav…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 03:57 PM
2	19 What do I need to improve This is an open comment section on a question he had - he's 19, I'm 22 and a woman so my personal opinion is the only thing I've to offer here and maybe it may assist him, that's why I commented in the first place. No, he isn't trying to date me but I'm technically within his target audience which is why I felt like throwing something out. I am not looking to change your mind about anything - I was just giving one viewpoint and that's just what you're doing as well so he can read both and see wh…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 03:29 PM
1	19 What do I need to improve And I also said nothing of being a good person - morality and attractiveness are not mutually exclusive and I'm not pretending they are. My dear - look, I can only vouch for myself. And all I was trying to tell the man was that there are people out there that aren't going to shoot him down immediately just because he may not look how he wishes he did. That's all	/r/seduction	19/10/20 03:07 PM
2	19 What do I need to improve I didn't say any of that actually. I didn't say anyone was an airhead nor did I say that staying in shape was somehow evil. I workout multiple times a week and I believe in doing your best to remain healthy but I also don't believe in sacrificing what might be a fantastic partnership with someone just because they aren't ripped and vain over their appearance. You can be educated and also attractive - some people have reached their zenith but that doesn't mean women must disregard all men that mi…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 03:06 PM
1	19 What do I need to improve Actually I do believe this shit thank you 😂 I've never used Tinder and I don't want some young punk. My partner is 26 years older than I am and honestly he's only gotten hotter and hotter over time to me because of who he is. Look, believe whatever you like - all I'm trying to say is that there are in fact some women out there whose first choice isn't some frat boy. Some. I didn't say all women. I'm sure there are plenty that will do just that but I personally want a ridiculously kinky sexual re…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 03:02 PM
2	19 What do I need to improve And honestly dude - if you don't believe a woman is going to want you for what you are, for what your mind has to offer, for what your care or compassion have to offer - then you evidently haven't found one for you yet. Sorry but it's true - if all you're searching for is pussy and an accommodating body then you're right and that's absolutely fine, but for anyone that wants to have someone to converse with, share themselves with, build safety and security and trust with - then you need to reeval…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 12:56 PM
1	19 What do I need to improve I'm not trying to be sexist love, all I am saying is that a one night stand is a one night thing - women can do whatever the hell they please and shouldn't be judged for it, but if someone is looking to have any kind of longer bond to one woman who IS going to give a damn about him and not how tall he is, or his jaw line, or some ridiculous fascination with a six pack - then one who is desiring a more casual thing isn't going to be what he needs. They're just at different points, or not as compa…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 12:53 PM
4	19 What do I need to improve I wouldn't call it shit.... If a man is only looking to get laid then sure, having an outwardly "hot" appearance is going to "get girls" - easy as that. But it this gent asking this question is looking for a woman that's going to understand, adore and value him.... Then he's got to offer far more in terms of his character and worth than mere "good looks" - and by "true woman" - I mean one that isn't looking for a quick good time and another lay to chit chat to her friends about.	/r/seduction	19/10/20 06:00 AM
2	19 What do I need to improve Not necessarily - I mean, I completely understand what you're speaking of and agree that many times this occurs but just because that might be the initial case... Doesn't make it the person you'll end up having a solid, long term attraction toward. I personally wouldn't gravitate towards conventionally "attractive" men simply because I look at that as meaning they likely have more options, more options meaning competition and competition meaning I don't want to play that shit and perhaps that in…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 05:56 AM
0	19 What do I need to improve There's a reasons she's your ex isn't there? Haha	/r/seduction	19/10/20 12:39 AM
4	19 What do I need to improve It may sound cliché but a man that can make a woman laugh or smile is going to be the one she's thinking of hours later - abs, height, commercially attractive physical features can't compare to humor, or even better - kindness.	/r/seduction	18/10/20 11:18 PM
20	19 What do I need to improve 22 year old female here - I think the first thing that is getting you down is that you have a mindset of "getting a girl" - I will let you in on a secret: no matter how "unattractive" you think your figure, all that a true woman will give a shit about is how attractive your mind and personality are. I'm serious. A man can go from average to the best looking gent a woman has ever laid eyes on if you have character. I swear to you there are plenty of women that will not give a damn how much you we…	/r/seduction	18/10/20 10:04 PM