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I find it funny that they are attacking FDS and claiming that it’s going to ruin the western world but in reality the western world was ruined before FDS even existed. Leftism isn’t ruining the US, liberalism is and MGTOW, red pill, and incel subs are filled with extreme misogyny that talks about emotionally abusing women yet they aren’t lifting a finger over it. A little note: Preying on people 20 years your junior isn’t an accomplishment and admitting that you date your younger partner because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:24 AM
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Any man who refers to his wife as a b!tch has no respect for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:28 AM
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Why is she more worried about "attacking" him than the possibility of permanent damage to her child? Is he abusing her? Parents are supposed to care about their children's well being so I don't know why he would be mad about her concern for their child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:23 AM
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Why do they automatically assume just because someone likes both genders that we are hypersexual or non-monogamous? In my experience most bisexual women are in monogamous relationships and just because we like women as well doesn't mean we are going to play a role in objectifying them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:08 AM
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Can't he make burner accounts and follow NSFW things? Overall great advice thank you I will be using this in the future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:00 AM
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Oh I’m sorry I was a bit inactive this week due to illness so I only scrolled a little bit down. Thanks for telling me I’ll delete my post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:02 AM
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I’m so sorry. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:05 AM
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Not all men may rpe but most if not all defend protentional rpist and victim blame with microaggressions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:03 PM
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Ducking agree! There has been another recent trend of the not all men trope, Mina made a post about it reading from Andrea Dworkin maybe I’ll post it tomorrow since I don’t think I can post multiple posts in a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:57 PM
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I can’t believe people support buying women and call themselves feminists it only furthers the narrative that women are objects. Historically prostitution was made so men can continue their infidelity not because of women’s sxual empowerment. You know what’s *real sexual empowerment? When both people are being sxually satisfied instead of focusing on only one partners pleasure. How is prostitution sxual empowerment if you’re not even enjoying it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:46 PM
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Recently I’ve seen a lot of men fetishize women with mental health issues specifically bi girls. It’s so gross how men will find a way to sexualize anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:29 PM
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Equality solution my a$$ letting children misbehave isn’t good regardless of the gender. I don’t know why anyone with a brain would be encouraging little girls to act wild we should hold young boys accountable as we do female children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:59 PM
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I’m not giving feminist a bad rep?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:35 PM
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I’m going to make a wild guess and say that your uncle ran with a very younger girl than him and his wife. I would never go tell my families abused that my partner is abusing me because most likely they’ll excuse the behavior and ignore it, same thing happened to my mom. I hope your auntie is doing better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:17 AM
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Congratulations on the pregnancy! Hoping for a safe delivery. 💕 Oh my god what? Children shouldn’t be calling their mothers or anyone else b1tch. I hope your sister gets rid of that internalized misogyny and leaves her boyfriend for her and her children’s sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:14 AM
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Well didn’t you know it’s impossible for my little Tommy to be a pervert? 🙄 /joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:10 AM
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Never thought about it this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:06 AM
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Maybe it’s just my experience but usually when I encounter Tradwives their husband is either overweight or super skinny like a pubescent child. There is nothing particularly wrong with being overweight of super skinny but it isn’t considered ‘masculine’ in terms of traditional roles. Most of the time the traditional wife is out of her husband’s league although I don’t find a lot of tradwives attractive perse. It’s disastrous that these women live to only please their man and are willing to let h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:02 AM
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My apologies, your parents shouldn’t be invalidating your gender identity and sexual orientation neither should they try to control your reproductive choices. Hope you get out from that toxic family soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:14 AM
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You’re right I don’t support pick meishas or women who defend r*pists. You sound like a libfem I’m not going to blindly support people but I’m going to support women as a class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:01 PM
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Girl- What is wrong with you? This post wasn’t supposed to be an informative statistic based post like others in the past it was more of a vent. You’re the problem, everyone needs to take accountability for their actions saying “oh well <insert person(s)> does it too” helps no one. Search “are sons more attached to their mothers” then look at the results. When did I say or imply that one bad MIL is a systematic issue? Obviously there are multiple factors in which patriarchal issues stem. I’m lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:53 PM
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Ah so you disagree with the MIL and DIL part? That’s exactly what I mean Internalized misogyny and this weird overbearing mommas boy affect. It’s like the point flew right over your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:42 PM
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“If men are horrible people that’s on them.” - I didn’t say it was anyone else’s fault for a man’s behavior. “The counter-parenting of fathers showing their sons how to dismiss and look down on women needs to be addressed first.” Should it be addressed? Yes however I wanted to make a post about mother’s inexcusable behavior with sons because I haven’t seen a post like this and many people seem to have experiences similar to the post via comments. Go make a post about it. “Of course mother’s prio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:33 PM
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Huh? Did you read my post? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:16 PM
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What who does that? Sorry you had to deal with those deranged individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:49 PM
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My mother is the same way, she lets my brother get whatever he wants and he can misbehave without consequences. I was rushed to grow up too fast, my mother had higher expectations of me, gaslighted me, emotionally neglected me, and allowed me to be s*xually abused by my uncle. Luckily I’m out of that house but it disgusts me that she was blinded of this clear favoritism. I don’t know how parents can be so cruel or weak when it comes to children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:38 PM
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Mood 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:22 PM
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u/Phoenix__rising2018
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:06 PM
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Yeah sure thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:03 PM
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I clicked on ''view discussions in 1 other community'' and both anti feminists and anti hate community cross posted this. They had no valid points nor did they debunk your post, it just goes to show that men will be against women supporting other women including calling out men's misogyny. Saying men are dangerous isn't sexist when the vast majority of r@pist are men, men make up the majority of violent crimes, and most people who view porn are men. I am so tired of men playing victim all of sud…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:55 PM
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Poor men love talking about gold-diggers even though they don't have any gold to dig. If they have a desire for a female partner to cook and clean for him they disguise it as traditional roles but if a woman wants a man to financially provide for them she's a gold-digger yet men providing is a traditional role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:42 PM
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He thinks not being able to pay for a date is a flex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:31 PM
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Fuzzy love and book love! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:48 PM
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I saw their past posts and they’ve posted a lot in the teenagers community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:43 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:38 PM
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Yup! Older men go after younger women because they are easier to take advantage of due to lack of experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:47 AM
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Glad you left that company!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:45 AM
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I'm sorry you had to deal with immature men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:40 AM
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I’ve never liked Dr. Phil he’s so cold and never sees the humanity in his patients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:35 PM
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Oh sorry. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:14 PM
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Getting cranky, annoyed, or tired are all normal emotions that doesn’t make a person a burden or a problem it makes them human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:27 PM
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Men will call women crazy or emotional but will throw a tantrum and punch a wall when they loose a round at COD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:18 PM
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Women’s version of crazy is abusive disrespectful men while men’s version of crazy is women not tolerating disrespect. There’s a reason why men always talk about their crazy ex girlfriend but women rarely talk about their crazy ex boyfriend, it’s because she usually ends up dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:06 PM
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I am currently dealing with this issue because I try not to be seen as a burden in platonic and romantic relationships. What do you think are the best methods to get rid of this depressing mentality? I’m not the biggest fan of therapy due to past experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:50 PM
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“Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something 🥺” Boy - men aren’t loved unconditionally by society because they r@pe women, children, and other men, abuse women, harass women, and the vast majority are inactive fathers. Society may not love men unconditionally but it sure does cater and uplift men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:34 PM
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I find men who have sex dolls or sex robots to be peculiar. You must be a strange lad to have a fake woman, it only goes to show that no real woman wants you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:23 PM
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Who shares this information online? She shouldn’t be encouraging young women to be screwing their man/woman on the first date. I think you should try to know the person and their boundaries, men are only after their sexual pleasure on the first date. You could be banging a serial killer or s3x offender for all we know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:20 PM
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So he’s bad in bed and can’t get any pu$$y with his real personality... men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:13 PM
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His hand writing and use of language is so horrible it looks like a child wrote it. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that man-child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:46 PM
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Appreciating the artist my ass, he doesn’t give a f*ck about her feelings or whether the sex was consensual he just wants to get hard. Every woman that supports their boyfriends porn use ends up coming home to a limp d1ck greasy “man”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:35 PM
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Why are some of the mods of this community inactive? Like they haven’t posted or commented in a year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:28 PM
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He’s just using her for sex and food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:02 PM
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Right? 20 minutes a drive isn't long whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:09 AM
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She told me she would of left if she wasn't pregnant but she wants this family with him. She's 26 and so pretty. I can't compete with that. Okay first of all a fifty year old man has no business banging a twenty year old woman no matter the circumstances. The mistress is quite naïve if she believes that she can grow a family with a man that decided to throw his whole entire family away just to get his tiny little d1ck wet. Our son is adopted and I know he's always wanted bio children. I wouldn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:53 PM
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Lmao I'm sorry a lot of men expect their partner to like salty unwashed d1ck because it proves their manliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:24 PM
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Those titles are so gross, I’m absolutely disgusted with the Porn hub. They are tying to normalize this crap by throwing holiday themed videos...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:27 PM
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The “kids are cool” tells me everything I need to know about this mans role as a father. This is a common outlook on fatherhood, the men see their children as friends and he only takes on the fun activities while he leaves the adult responsibilities to the mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:05 PM
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Most single dads just want to make their new partner take care of their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:00 PM
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I bet this “proud daddy” barely spends time with his children and when he does he forces the older ones to take care of the younger child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:59 PM
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What’s so unique about that man that this woman is completely okay with him paying nothing in terms of household expenses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:56 PM
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Huh? People don’t pay when they receive gifts. What world are they living in? Saying guys aren’t good with surprises is complete and utter bs, men are just too lazy to put effort into surprises not that they are bad with surprises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:51 PM
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Same it made me very sad, she seems to really love him only for him to put little to no effort into her birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:13 PM
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Yes I realized that too, especially the ending on the second slide. I think she invested this much time into a boyfriend because her love language is gift giving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:11 PM
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Damn those pancakes look bussin. 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:31 PM
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No surprise that most LVM look like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:30 PM
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He looks like a drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:55 PM
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I know you were smitten with him but anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries is someone you don’t want to keep. Focus on yourself for awhile before you become vulnerable to another person (partner). Do you have a supportive female friend group? When I’m feeling blue I like to treat myself with bubble baths, warm drinks, books, strawberries dipped in chocolate, and play with my kitten. Take this period of time as an opportunity to learn new hobbies or spend more time with your loved ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:11 PM
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Oh okay sorry I’m stupid lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:49 PM
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Short men get so furious when women say that they prefer taller men yet they are the same ones who have preference for tit size, ass size, waist size, thigh size, and height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:22 PM
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He horny asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:18 PM
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I don’t know why but male masturbation kind of disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:17 PM
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Wait so how does even go on dates or interact with her if he plays on his Xbox, surfs Facebook, and goes to his mom’s house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:16 PM
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I have to begin reading Dworkin’s writing and I really hope that the normalization of porn will end but I sadly don’t think it will. Recently a lot of people have been criticizing porn and ex sex workers have been speaking out about their devastating experiences. You have earned another follower as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:33 PM
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Huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:26 PM
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How can they relate to god someone they've never heard or seen before over women? It's so ignorant it makes me furious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:40 PM
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You should check out my post about porn in the 80's but obviously porn in modern times is worse than it was back in the old days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:36 PM
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How idiotic do you have to be to believe a whole entire gender is trying to lure you to sin by wearing booty shorts? If you can't control yourself when you view women wearing revealing clothing then what does that say about you? You're extremely weak minded and if you're willing to give into temptation so easily maybe you shouldn't be following your religion. I see absolutely no point in following a religion if you're going to continuously break the same rules over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:33 PM
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The same happened to Lizzo, she made aa body positive song for men yet men continue to body shame her and make disgusting comments towards her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:27 PM
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My apologies, I'm glad that you're out of that horrid situation. Often times men will r@pe, abuse, harass, and m0lest women and girls yet cry like babies when they get in trouble. They hate dealing with consequences because then they will have to take accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:25 PM
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Men will do everything but take accountability for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:22 PM
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In my experience male "feminists" aren't really feminists and they follow liberal feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:20 PM
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Women on only fans also get their nudes leaked all the time in places like Twitter and Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:31 PM
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They are so selfish and cold it breaks my heart. Women don't need convincing why men's mental health matters or how it will benefit us, we support it without question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:05 PM
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We constantly have to prove ourselves worthy of humanity then men have the audacity to claim that the patriarchy no longer exists today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:02 PM
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They’re only calling him a simp because they know he’s right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:20 AM
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What poor manners this man has and he went through all this trouble just for 35$ dollars. Imagine if she went on more dates with this weirdo, he’d charge her for every date he payed for if she decided that she no longer wanted to see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:25 PM
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Or they bring up the male s*icide rate after harassing gay men, women, and minorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:30 PM
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It’s so ludicrous that liberal feminists criticize every industry but the porn or sex industry. They will raise hell once you bring up statistics and logic as to why the porn/sex industry is harmful to society. I got called a SWERF because I said that sex work just gives men a higher advantage of women, a means to control, dehumanize, and objectify us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:57 PM
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The ones who do claim to enjoy sex work are a small percentage that are privileged white women in the U.S. It’s depressing that women have to prove themselves worthy of humanity, the only time men care about the porn industry is when their d1ck goes limp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:52 PM
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We see eye to eye! I don’t follow couples on TikTok most of what they do is scripted to make their life look more dramatic to appease to viewers. Prank TikToks consist of men doing immature pranks on their girlfriends. The female partner is outraged because he damaged something of value to her and the male partner attempts to soothe her and tell her it wasn’t him. Only possible outcomes of doing pranks on tik tok is a paycheck and embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:46 PM
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Right? Ah yes pondering on what s3xual violence you will perpetuate on an innocent barista, the peak of humor ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:36 PM
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I was surprised how many people were against the video he then disabled the comments but yes I completely agree with you. You should check out @fem1na_ on Tik Tok, it’s very educational and I agree with the vast majority of her points on the porn industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:33 PM
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They lack empathy, human compassion, and self awareness. Although sometimes men tell their partner that they daydream about f*cking other women so he can make her insecure and jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:19 PM
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Huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:36 PM
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She did see this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:00 PM
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I too love webcomics but some of the things under romance concern me. For example a common theme authors use is the abusive relationship turns into some romance, she excuses his behavior because he's broken inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:26 PM
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I never thought about it like this... I hate how society expects women to coddle men at every minute and continuously make excuses for men's abusive behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:23 PM
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Um what? What went through her head to think that this is normal or okay behavior? Sis needs to go to therapy....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:20 PM
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Have you seen the red pill sub? It's filled with manipulation, STI's, ultimatums, mistresses, and more. I saw one post or comment saying that if your wife won't have sex with you threaten to bang the side chick instead and have sex with multiple women until you find the perfect one with low body count of course. Not the best place to visit if you have anger issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:02 PM
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Or when they ask for a link when a victim of PH comes out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:56 PM
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Funny thing, men can get plastic surgery for their d1ck but western society doesn't have beauty standards for men so many don't get it. Their self-esteem is soothed with women and men telling them sweet little lies about c0ck size not mattering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:54 PM
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Men support other men performing sexual acts or m0lestation on tweens/teens because they view them as grown but they believe its wrong to m0lest young children. Their logic is so wicked it makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:45 PM
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That is a reason why I never told my family or friends that I was being m0lest3d by my uncle - victim blaming at it's finest. He needs to look up something called 'trauma bonding' most victims including me bonded with their abuser. A 22 year old has no business being around a 13 year old, they know better not do it so you can't blame an innocent child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:40 PM
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That’s why the majority of them hide their porn deep down inside they are aware what they are watching is cruel and wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:10 AM
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I’m begging to think that this post is to brag about this big d1ck, he mentioned it so many times it’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:07 AM
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It’s a lot easier to say that porn is just a fantasy than coming to terms that they are human too, because it makes you look at what’s actually happening... abuse and torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:12 PM
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What? My condolences, that’s so ducking disgusting I’m glad that they are your exes. This is a reason it’s hard for me to settle on porn because it’s so accessible and I don’t know what type of content they are watching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:51 PM
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I hope your friends have an amazing wedding! Yes, If you’re going to view marriage as loosing freedom then why are you getting married in the first place? Hell, men are happiest when they are married statistically speaking of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:48 PM
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You read my mind! Just because he comes back home to me after a night in the strip club doesn’t make me feel better he still flirted with other women and stuck money in their panties. I also have a lot of hatred for the “making your relationship stronger” mantra, what they mean by that is he will come home horny and you guys will bang... Yeah they’re horny from other women not me and he’s probably imagining f*cking them while we’re doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:22 PM
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It’s so hard for me to find a porn free man but I have hope that I’ll find one one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:14 PM
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Who's on their phone for 15 minutes on a date? Maybe it's his baby mama asking for CS. -/j
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:29 PM
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Kanye or any other man doesn't have the right to emotionally use a black woman just to be mentally stable. What he needs is a therapist not to damage other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:27 PM
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So many men will want youthful women with big booties, big titties, hourglass shape, short, and subservient. They excuse these standards with biology and traditionalism but when a woman desires a man who’s 6’0, muscular, big d1ck, rich, and veiny she’s a gold-digger and her standards are too high. Men only use biology and traditionalism when it benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:33 AM
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