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Nope, nothing wrong at all with being part of this group. If the people criticizing you actually believed in equality, they wouldn’t be using it against you.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:54 PM
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These article exist because it isn't obvious to some people. I posted this in here because I believe it's relevant to gender roles and why some men might avoid dating and relationships. Edit: I'm not trying to say that men are too dumb to realize this. Just that we are conditioned growing up to believe that it's our job to please women.
/r/MGTOW25/06/15 03:01 PM
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I thought this was somewhat relevant as I've experienced this numerous times in my dating / hookup life. Not feeling desired turns me off and I think there's a lot of men out there that aren't getting this need met.
/r/MGTOW25/06/15 01:13 PM
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You can still have sex with women. Just try to get to a point where you don't need to have sex with a woman to be happy.
/r/MGTOW19/06/15 03:00 PM
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This is very powerful indeed. A true partnership is one where both partners trust and appreciate each other. I haven't seen too much of that these days but I guess there is hope.
/r/MGTOW04/02/15 05:16 PM
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I really don't care. As others have mentioned, I'm just doing my own thing. If a collapse happens, I'll deal with it the best I can just like everything else in life.
/r/MGTOW30/01/15 04:12 PM
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I love how the article's conclusion is basically "well raising a kid that isn't yours sucks but guys should probably just deal with it". Fuck that. It's basically saying that women aren't responsible for their actions and shouldn't be held accountable. Some countries (aka France) have even gone so far as to ban paternity testing for the good of society. It's just wrong. Either way, it's the kid who suffers the most from bad decisions.
/r/MGTOW17/01/15 04:15 PM
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Except in the real world you end up meeting lots of toxic people who take advantage of your niceness. The game theory was good but they lost me when they tried to use the real world analogy. There's only one way to respond to people like that: get them out of your life.
/r/MGTOW08/01/15 07:58 PM
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Interesting read. I'm more of the type to pursue a little if a girl catches my eye or approaches / contacts me but I won't chase endlessly. I've found that it works pretty well for me. It's kinda funny seeing how some girls react to me not chasing when they go radio silent or try to play hard to get. The way I see it is, if they really want to spend time with me, they'll put some effort in too. Isn't this the age of eroding gender roles?
/r/MGTOW07/01/15 03:13 PM
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I talk to people about this all the time. I've seen the vicious cycle by observing my friends (guys and girls) and reflecting on past girls I've dated. It's why I try so hard to give everyone a fair chance and not let past experiences ruin the next opportunity. The socially isolated guy you described in this post was me pretty much down to a T. I didn't like what I saw when I looked at relationships and the way people treated each other, so I just didn't really bother for the longest time. Most …
/r/MGTOW07/01/15 03:03 PM
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Online dating has its benefits. I use mainly OKC and Tinder. Just practice picking up girls online and you'll eventually be able to get dates. I date enough to have casual sex when I really want it. Other times, masturbation is more than enough. There are plenty of good sex toys out there; specifically on Amazon (just make sure you read reviews). As long as you don't become a slave to your sex drive, you're good.
/r/MGTOW31/12/14 06:39 AM
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You've evolved beyond the simple "I need to get pussy for validation" which is what TRP seems to be turning into. I came to the same realization. It's nice to get laid, especially after having gone a long time without, but at the end of the day, it's just sex. Finding a girl who actually cares about you on a higher level is more difficult but much more meaningful. My search continues but I suppose I have been following the MGTOW path all along. The recent TRP post about how it's ok for guys to c…
/r/MGTOW28/12/14 03:37 PM
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This post comes across as male hamstering. I believe sexual strategy at its core is amoral but how we choose to apply it is another story. I don't believe in pursuing taken women. If I don't know and they mislead me, that's their fault. In regards to the other guy, whatever happened to bros before hos? My 2 cents; ban if you feel like stifling legit discussion.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:03 PM
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Yes, extreme nerdiness and social isolation will clearly limit a man's options. No girl worth pursuing will want anything to do with a sweaty basement dweller; no argument there. I doubt most people fall within that extreme though.
/r/MGTOW24/12/14 05:00 PM
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I agree that everyone should strive for self improvement. And yes, its a good idea to get out of your comfort zone and push boundaries. My point is, you can still be a nerd, live a positive life and have relations with women. I get where you're coming from but I'd recommend changing your message a little if you truly want to give helpful advice. Saying nerds are unhealthy just because of some stereotype isn't helping anyone. One of my friends is a gamer with nerdy interests and he's the most soc…
/r/MGTOW24/12/14 04:15 PM
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This is a pretty condescending post. Fuck off with the nerd shaming dude. Obviously, talking like a nerd can turn girls off for sure. But others find it attractive. So what if some of the MGTOW don't have a great track record with women? They can do what they want. There's no right or wrong way to be MGTOW, that's the beauty of it.
/r/MGTOW24/12/14 02:28 PM
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It is possible to draw from both. As others have mentioned, TRP is sexual strategy. Mgtow is more of a personal philosophy. I've learned and read from many sources, not just TRP and mgtow, and I do whatever I feel like. I don't mistreat people and I give people respect as long as they respect me. I still relate to women and date a little but I will never force anything or succumb to pressure to marry or do anything I don't want to do. Remember, your personal happiness is your own responsibility,…
/r/MGTOW23/12/14 10:53 PM
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You're right. It doesn't necessarily mean giving up in that sense. It's giving up on what society wants people to conform to. The pressure to conform can be tough. Being free to live whatever life you want certainly is liberating. Personally, I could give 2 shits about society. I treat people how I like to be treated and just live my life. I'm not purposefully trying to show up society, I just refuse to live by someone else's demands.
/r/MGTOW12/12/14 05:35 AM
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It's society. Human nature hasn't changed drastically. What we're seeing now is simply the adjustment of response to the current societal demands and incentives.
/r/MGTOW11/12/14 02:29 AM
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I was eagerly anticipating part 2 of this. Nice to know that the sentiment expressed in these articles is being shared and discussed. Something is wrong with the society we live in. When a significant part of any society gives up and feels like they don't matter, that society is doomed. I'm interested to see how this plays out over the next 20 years.
/r/MGTOW09/12/14 11:03 PM
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Good article. Pretty much summarized my thought process and lack of a dating life in my early 20s lol.
/r/MGTOW04/12/14 10:14 PM
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Although it's easier said than done, you need to learn to love yourself. I also used to seek validation from others. I still do to a degree, it's a natural human trait, but I've been focusing on what makes me happy. I still date but if things don't work out, it's all good. I just move on and keep doing my thing. What do you like about yourself? What are you most proud of in your life? Start there. What helps me too is burying myself in my hobbies and having good close friends you can count on. T…
/r/MGTOW24/11/14 06:38 PM
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Casual sex can be risky. I used to think the way you do, but I would recommend trying to experience sex. That way, you know the score and if a future situation arises, you have a better idea of what to do. Just find someone with a little experience to help you out. The internet is a godsend. I found a woman who was turned on by taking a guy's virginity; was a fun night for me lol. Now I don't need sex, but I won't turn down a good opportunity.
/r/MGTOW24/11/14 05:46 AM
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I'm 28 years old. I've also gravitated between TRP and mgtow. Here's the advice I will give you: Don't be afraid to go after what you want. Connect with people, explore your interests. Also, learn how to manage and save money. Saving money at a young age will pay off huge dividends later on, trust me. Most importantly, discover what's important to you and never let anyone, especially women, take that away from you. If you compromise your values, you won't be truly happy.
/r/MGTOW17/11/14 02:58 PM
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I was brought here by a girl I was dating. She was of the feminist mindset and a regular redditor who told me how horrible theredpill was and how if I subscribed to any of their views, she'd stop talking to me. As fate would have it, we stopped seeing each other anyways and I checked this place out from curiosity. I've been subbed ever since and my dating life improved as a result; no coincidence ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:43 PM
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I know exactly what you feel like man. I went through the same thing about a year ago and I was older than you. I was a hardcore gamer who didn't really care about meeting women and playing the dating game. I thought that a wonderful woman would just appear out of nowhere and we'd have a happy life together. I eventually realized that nothing was going to happen if I didn't get off my ass and do something. I was also the classic nice guy who wouldn't stand up for himself and let women walk all o…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:00 PM
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I was in the same boat as you so I can share some insight. In my experience, it would be wise not to tell girls you are a virgin if you just want to get it over with. I was rejected outright multiple times simply because I was a virgin; that's the truth. Looking online might work for you. It worked for me but it took awhile to find someone. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't happen right away, with enough time and effort it will happen. Also realize that if your first time isn't great, it's ok. …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:49 PM
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She'd been reading TRP or some articles linked on the TRP sub and was bitching about it. She didn't think I was a red piller.
/r/ThankTRP03/07/14 01:26 PM
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I've always had a suspicion that the destruction of the family unit was the main goal behind everything. All the new laws and movements today have been doing a pretty good job of that. Just look at divorce rates, single moms, children growing up without positive family role models who then propagate the lack of family values. Incorporating some of those traditional values would go a long way to turning things around. If you want to see our future, look at the fall of Rome.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 04:26 PM
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