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Red Pill ExampleVenenarium/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:41 AM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP02/06/16 03:17 PM
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Venenarium/r/MGTOW05/03/16 09:34 AM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:18 AM
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Red Pill TheoryVenenarium/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:55 AM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:47 PM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP05/09/18 10:46 AM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:41 AM
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Field ReportVenenarium/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 11:00 AM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:29 AM
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Venenarium/r/askTRP15/09/16 10:26 AM
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Solid advice, thanks
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:59 AM
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So this morning she' told me that she's decided not to go, as she sees the points I've raised before and it truly didn't seem fair to her. We haven't talked about this issue at all except for the first time, today she brought it up all by herself. She's gold
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:22 AM
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48 laws of power is rubbish. The book contradicts itself in many places and all of the so called 'laws' are really just one dude's opinions based on like 3-4 situatioins, cherry-picked from the entire human history. ​ In the same manner as the book is written, you could write 48 completely different "laws" that would directly conradict the original 48 laws. You'd just need to cherry-pick different 3-4 events from the history. ​ It was an entertaining read but calling anything in it a 'law' is bo…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:06 PM
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Not yet. We haven't talked about it since, I too am curious about how will this wound up eventually. My guess is whe won't do it but we'll see
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:24 AM
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In simplest terms, my personal belief is that a girl who's ONS/same day laying you has likely done that with many guys before. Probably. What's wrong with that? I'd do it too if I were a girl. Like honestly dude, wouldn't you? You're on a TRP subreddit trying to get laid as much as possible, why is it wrong when a girl does the same? Why the double-standad? The alternative is that your SMV is way higher - in that case why would you LTR anyway? The same reason why do most PUAs with unreal SMVs ev…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:22 AM
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I'd say you're overthinking things
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:15 AM
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Every girl would be a ONS/Plate for the right guy. Why do you have a problem with it/what's wrong with that?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 12:25 PM
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You're focusing on the wrong question. But sometimes women fake niceness to get something from you Then stop giving them stuff just for being nice :) instead give them stuff only if you want to or if they deserve it. Have you read 'No more Mr. Nice Guy'?
/r/askTRP15/02/19 04:33 PM
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You're always gonna need some time to recharge and relax (or to maintain your P/PC balance, If you've read 7 habits of highly effective people) If video games do that for you, great. If not then you'll find something else. But nobody can be productive 100% time.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 04:30 PM
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TL;DR
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:26 PM
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You'll see
/r/askTRP22/01/19 10:18 AM
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I'd suggest to take her advice and not take it personally. Why do you even giv a fuck?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:13 PM
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You're not making any sense. For the next time, could you read what you've typed before hitting that submit button?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:37 PM
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Her bestie is in France, they're going to visit her. Anyway I find what you suggest to be highly retarded :| A petite revenge fantasy plans like I don't have more other important/meaningful stuff to do
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:49 AM
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She'd wanted to go with or without Chad, it's about her girlfriend who she's friends with
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:08 AM
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You know I used to be at a similar point to where you are now. You'll grow from it once your traumas are healed
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:06 AM
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I think I see what you mean. Gonna phrase it in my own way but basically follow the advice Thx for the extensive reply
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:34 PM
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Ah, that sounds awfully selfish. I can't imagine downgrading her to a plate without it leaving any psychological trauma on her. Honestly I'd rather just simply find someone else or go celibate for a while
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:29 PM
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It bothers you enough that you have to make a post about it, maybe not a lot but I’d be bothered too. Exactly :) It bothers me enough to make a post about it. “I’m in a serious relationship with Venenarium now, I really shouldn’t be doing this” I'm quite sure what's going through her mind is something like "I'm going to enjoy the attention but never ever cheat because I'd never do that" Now the question is if she can actually live up to that decision once Chad turns on the charms. I would let he…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:56 PM
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I haven't decided if it bothers me yet and didn't voice my concerns about it to her so I see no disrespect on her part, hard next would be jumping the trigger as the situation is right now. You had, however, a very good point with me going to France with a bunch of other girls tho. I'll probably bring that up when talking to her
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:01 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:55 PM
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OP here. Thanks for the reply Vasilliy, makes a lot of sense
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:52 PM
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I'll hard next your advice as its awfully bold of you to give it without actually reading the post
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:48 PM
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Ask yourself: What made you automatically reject that idea? Why did you feel such a strong sense of disagreement upon reading it? Could TRP be programming you now in the same way that TBP has programmed you in the past?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:37 PM
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Good one
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:31 PM
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You've pedestalized your ex to an imaginary level and now you're comparing other real people to an imagined persona. Of course you'll never find anyone as good :) The "I will never love like that again" is only a problem if you allow it to be a problem. Who says being able to relate to people on a real level is bad? In an unrelated case: Now you have a perfect chance to see what being an alpha widow feels like for women.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:31 PM
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She should have been a plate from day one with that many men as close friends You keen two? Sheesh turn down the cringe a bit dude
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:23 PM
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Nono they're flying together from here to see a different friend of theirs. Well the guy did disrespect me but I have no bees with him :/ For her it's only flattering I guess. Like I have other girls hitting on me and I don't cut the lines with them for it either, I just don't reciprocate their advances
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:19 PM
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That's an interesting point. Guess it makes sense tho it feels weird. thank you anyway
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:13 PM
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Would be more fair to end it before so that she can at least enjoy it more no?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:10 PM
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Can't remember, if she did I probably told her I dont t want to. Because theyre planning this for a long time and I don't really want to Im sure she doesn't want to cheat. However I'm not sure how much should I trust she doesn't change her mind if it starts feeling right in the moment
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:53 PM
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Good points. I haven't verbalized my displeasingness since I'm not yet sure I should be displeased. (Is why I'm asking here) Would yiu recommend me telling her her that I don't really force her to do anything, but that I also don't like the idea? Like not verbalize any consequences but kinda hint there might be some?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:52 PM
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That's a valid point, thank you
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:49 PM
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Yes, I see you've only read the title. I realize the text is tl;dr and I don't really expect you to read it if you don't feel like, but giving advice based solely on the title is awfully bold of you.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:24 PM
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These are all good and valid points (except the first one, they talk about it a lot). Thank you for the reply
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:16 PM
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Not really no :|
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:15 PM
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Thank you for the reply, I'm inclined to go this way but wanted to double-check if I'm missing something fundamental
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:14 PM
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Thanks for the tip, problem is I'm not sure what to think, honestly I'm completely puzzled :/ I considered it but it doesn't feel right - feels like mate guarding + I'd rather spend my time and vacation by doing something that actually matters to me - 2 weeks sounds like too much time to waste.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:12 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I'm worried that what you suggest would be a setback for me: I'm mostly interested in progressing in my mission. Having a LTR that respects my time helps in that so that I can have my needs for companionship/sex met without having to waste time by chasing tail. I'm ok at game but it doesn't come effortlessly yet. ​ I dunno if this is a BP rationalization. I realize that the standard Red Pill response is that every man should become a PUA TRP Superhero but I soomehow don't b…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:46 PM
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the title is a bit of a click bait but I get where you're coming from
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:40 PM
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It just won't rustle my Jimmies when it happens, if you know what I mean. I literally always have a million other things to do I can switch to instantly
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:56 PM
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> Me becoming more redpilled makes her become less feminine (probably as a form of protection). ​ Are you sure you're doing this correctly? We don't have the entire context here so it's impossible to tell, but don't rule out the possibility that you're just becoming a dick ​ Take a hard look before deciding it's her and not you. If you're sure, /u/rDiothe gave a solid chunk of advice
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:57 AM
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I think you've overreacted - girls are going to flake you like it or not. ​ If you have little tolerance for that then you could have waited for her to reschedule/pick a new date-venue.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:07 PM
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Good job OP, keep it up
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:23 PM
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Good one thank you
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:20 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWcfI3T_7zY&t=910s ​ cheers
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:31 PM
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Souds like you found Ms. Unicorn Not-Like-The-Others™ My advice to you is: wait and see. Keep having boring sex and maybe it'll get better once you get to know each other more. And maybe it won't. Since, by your own words, you don't care about sex then this shouldn't be an issue for you. ​ Don't worry about trying to figure out if its even possible to MAKE it work in the future in case you ever plan to go after this chick for real as this is standard BP bullshit. If you're not planning on having…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:44 PM
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God one :D
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:24 PM
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Habit Loop
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:21 PM
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Such cringe
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:56 AM
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Only major problem, she’s spoilt to the point that her personality really sucks... and I’m already losing attraction... There you go. Seems like you already know the answer to your own question. for the first time in my life I feel like life is presenting me with an opportunity to be a gold digger... And an opportunity to cut off your own balls and become her bitch. Not worth it be stuck with this hoe and quit the the working class Temporarily, as long as it's your turn. How would you play it? M…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:54 AM
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You know what, I thought about it and you're right. It's a reason as good as any other. I change my opinion.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:46 AM
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Fair enough ​ I liked your original answer tho
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:42 AM
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> I feel like my main motivation were girls. So I have awesome physique and got myself a girlfriend and now losing motivation. ​ That's a shit motivation. Shows you have more issues to work on.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:31 PM
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Imagine that instead of LTR, you're in an open relationship with this girl. At any moment, on a whim, she can decide to dissappear forever. Any time that you spend together is because both of you want to spend time together, not because of any obligations or rules you have to each other. You can not manipulate nor force her to be with you and she can spend the time she's not with you however she wants and with whoever she wants. ​ How does this make you feel? Given the conditions, could you imag…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:26 PM
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" Love to me is worth it if it's reciprocated. If not, it's just a waste of time. " ​ This isn't Love in neither blue-pill nor red-pill understanding of the word. Perhaps you should sort-out what exactly is it you're looking for?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:18 PM
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Used to have a similar problem after moving abroad to study. Felt super lonely at first, developed a skillset in making friends over a year. I can now create new social circles super fast anywhere. Here's a TL;DR version: Join a club/course in an activity you enjoy (Anything really - martial arts, drawing, hiking, chess.. Doesn't matter) Be patient. Show up, go along your bussiness, go home. Repeat for a few weeks. Let people get used to you - familiarity is safe. You'll automatically make frien…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:05 PM
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K thanks for your opinion. I'm fairly certain I could put it in such a way that it wouldn't stir shit up, guess it depends on more than just content tho.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:31 PM
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an asshole for snooping through her phone He is an asshole for snooping through her phone. I'm not suggesting he should admit to doing it. bff was a bitch for telling "private stuff" She was. How is this his problem? Then OP is a dick for never telling that he knew He wouldn't have known for sure if he didn't snoop through her phone.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:42 AM
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It's a shit test. I would tell her that maybe her subconsciousnes is trying to tell her something. I'd then propose that we can go open relationship if she wants, but that she needs to tell me before going hunting for someone new, not after. ​ Based on how she reacts and how you'll feel about her reaction you'd know how to proceed next. ​ That's what I would do though, don't necessarily take my word from it.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:34 AM
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dampened the mood a bit No need to feel sorry about anything that happened here. She was eiter hunting for orbiters from the start or gave you the perfect feedback on what to work on. Learn, calibrate, next.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:25 AM
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1.75m cca. it literally comes with her her height; just like if short guys work out they get muscular and are buffed quicker. I do not observe this in my experience. I know girls shorter than she (a lot actually) who are much slimer/thinner. Do you not? Could it be geographically distinguished or just a matter of chance? The theory makes sense from a psychological perspective because I recall an animation which said that... What animation? Sounds like the angry side of TRP from that single out-o…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:19 AM
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Hi man, thanks a lot for the detailed comment, and for reading though the whole discussion in this post, much appreciated. most likely, she's been traumatized In her childhood, yes. She even told me about it. At the same time, it doesn't sound like you have the real level of deep love and tenderness for her that can empathetically really "hold space" for her demons to come out. As in, you have sympathy but not real empathy or compassion. And that's fine. You got shit to do. And she's not your so…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:55 PM
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Does she have big tits and/ or nice womanly hips? ​ Tits not too large but very thicc hips. Think Doja the Cat: https://youtu.be/TLiGA_wrNp0?t=1m4s ​ Nice theory, would sure be nice to get a statistically relevant sample on it :)
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:39 PM
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Golden
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:36 PM
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Standard agree & amplify, like all shit tests.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:35 PM
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This is one of those situations where it's allright. Might actually even be better to show here you have a humane side. Don't worry about it, you'll be allright. Sorry for your loss.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:56 AM
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Ah, that sound like she just slipped her tongue like drunk people oftenly do. That's even better tbh, no toxic people around :) Maybe no need to even confront your LTR about the whole thing in that case, just let her keep her secrets. She might tell you about it eventually and when she does you can pull this super cool attitude/frame (yeah, I know, your bestie told me long time ago. I don't care). Free bonus points.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:52 AM
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Nice to hear that, thanks :) Any idea why all of this is coming to light now? Hmm, I think we've made a serious step in our relationship recently (she was being insecure that I'm going to leave her. I told here that she's actually the best girlfriend I've had so far, which is true, and we shared a very romantic/passionate moment after that). So now she feels more comfortable to share her demons with me/open herself. Either that or the persona fatigure is finally getting to her and she can no lon…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:47 AM
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So you haven’t specified what it is that you want. So the red pill can’t tell you what to do. What do you want? I'm looking for a prediction of what will happen next, similar to those found in 'preventive medicine' by R. Tomassi. If girls with extremely low self-esteem are a common pattern (which seems probable to me) then I want to know what to prepare for.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:43 AM
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Sucks to hear that. I don't think so. I think it's only natural you start sharing your dark sides with your SO gradually over time. If anything I'm glad it's not something worse, we're all broken in one way or another :) Personally I dated a girl who did the same, it drove me crazy. I'm handling it pretty well so far but yeah, I can also totally relate to that :D Talk with her about it and try to comfort her Tried that twice. She insists it's because she feels like she's not good at anything, sh…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:36 AM
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Thanks for sharing the experience. What do you do when she has her crying spells/melt downs? Tried to talk about it with her twice, made sure she knows I'm here for her and open to listen should she require my assistance. Other than that I just go around my bussiness (yep, even with her crying beside me). Sometimes I hug her to let her know I see it but then I return back to my bees. I consider this to be a challenge for her to overcome, not for me to solve for her. I know I could make her feel …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:33 AM
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Thanks for the detailed answer! Possibly I didn't make myself clear in the original post so let me expand on that: ​ It's not really affecting me much. I don't consider it to be drama since it isn't directed on me. What I'm asking is that if a low self-esteem on LTRs part is a pattern reckognizable by TRP framework and if there's a standard way of going about it (as there is with many other problems which TRP suggests standard soultions for). ​ Anyway I agree with you. Way of the superior man/si…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:29 AM
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That's a very understandable behaviour on her part. Makes sense she's not very happy to share such news with the world. She lied to you about it because she's scared of your reaction, not because she disrespects you. How would you have behaved were you in her shoes? ​ Don't worry about it. If anything these are good news for you (considering you're pro-choice) - it means she'll be up for an abortion should you have an accident. ​ However there might be a different issue for you to investigate: w…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:25 AM
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Nope, she seemed a generally happy person. She decided to share this side of her personality with me only in recent days. Anyway, even if she did: does it change anything? Should it affect me somehow? She's not throwing any drama at me so I'm actually fine with it (unless it implies something bad will happen in the future, that's why I'm asking).
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:11 AM
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And if you Threaten her she doesn’t fuck you that you will fuck someone else it’s wrong ​ Where did she get that idea from? Did you actually verbally threaten her with that in the past? If yes then you've misunderstood a cardinal rule. The threats of you finding someone else should always be implied, never verbal. If you actually did say something as stupid as that in the past then consider this to be a comfort test. Therefore agree with it, let her know that indeed she's her own person and you …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:07 AM
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Thanks for the advice, sounds like a good one. She's temporarily staying at my place until her school starts unfortunately :/ but I might encourage her to go visit her parents for a few days
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:01 AM
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If you can grow a beard then that's definitively a go to. Also getting ripped/lean should be the next best thing. I'd have to see the photo but I don't think smile is a problem here - basically you're choosing between a happy kid face and a sad/spoiled kid face, so the first one is a lesser evil. Other than that: don't let it worry you more than it has to. We all have to play with the cards we've been given.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 10:56 AM
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with a smirk at me implicating I might not be her only one What do you mean her only one? She's not fucking you so you're not even one of her ones :) But if you want to call it like that: yep, you're not "her only one" and it's painfully obvious.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 03:14 PM
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That's a correlation, not a causation. Kids from divorced families might do worse not because they're growing up with only one parent, but because of the drama and emotional trauma that the process of divorce leaves on them. Or maybe not. Or maybe it's something completely else. About the second thing: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/12/the-myth-of-the-lonely-old-man/
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:35 AM
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"NO, I don't want to be friends with you because you are smart and pretty and personable and I want more than that or else nothing" This is a terrible idea. OP, if you decide to try it anyway, do it for the science. See if it works and if (when) it doesn't then start thinking about why.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:22 PM
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Here's another possible alternative to consider: She actually wants you to be her boyfriend but you were ignoring her and that drove her crazy. She wants to instill jealousy in you by dating her ex and making you see that she has options which should make you attracted (because that's what works on girls so girls sometimes think that it also works the other way around - same mistake that beta males do).
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:18 PM
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Why are you asking a question that you already know an answer to?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:11 PM
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Most girls find it hard to initiate a chat with me Girls almost never initiate a chat with you, you whould initiate a chat with girls.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:11 PM
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How do you guys deal with increasingly high divorce rates and a culture that is heading towards flings and short term relationships? Why do you think that's a problem? No actually seriously think about it. Where did the thought come from? What made you see this as a bad thing? Why do you think that that relationships should be forever or, if the concept didn't even come from withing you, who made you think it in the first place?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:07 PM
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No, she isn't a virgin. Ok enough internet for you, maybe try to get away from your computer for a while ;)
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:33 AM
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I'll try this, thanks!
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:17 PM
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Not sure, I'll try to find out ;) Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:16 PM
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If you can't get your LTR to orgasm then be prepared to get dumped or cheated on. Shouldn't you be prepared for that to happen anyway?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:16 PM
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I will, thanks!
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:14 PM
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I wouldn't take the advice on here banging on about how it's not important to make your gf have orgasms. When women orgasm they essentially get an overdose of oxytocin hormone, the bonding hormone they produce when they have children. Obviously this means she will bond to you. Exactly. Plus I like it when she's happy because that makes me happy. A fun part of relationships that everybody on TRP seems to forget for some reason.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:14 PM
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I disagree.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:11 PM
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Thanks, already did a few years back but perhaps I should refresh my memory
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:10 PM
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Thanks for the tip, already considered it I'm but not sure how weird would she consider it to be :/ + I don't want her to feel like there's any pressure on the matter
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:10 PM
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I don't want to get her arrested for fucking underage boys and you're obviously 12
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:09 PM
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Wow you must be the life of every party huh
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:03 PM
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Friendly roasting is awesome, it's just gossip that is not.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:11 PM
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What was (is?) your mission? And what was the worst period of your life, the one that forced your mission to manifest itself? I'm asking because I'm interests in what led you to come to the conclusions that you came to in this post. I believe it may turn into a quite inspiraional story :)
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 11:24 AM
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Dude, most people don't get to the point you're at. Maidens spread the world about your superior skillz, how can you be dissatisfied? Be humble :) Also, write a post about your technique, we're going to need details :D
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:08 AM
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Funny right? Considering that we started with game, continued through with RSD and then finally branched out to TRP, I wonder what we will evolve to next. A solid school of philosphy may yet emerge from these online spaces someday in the future.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 07:44 PM
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By saying "don't bullshit me, I suck" you're attacking the person's oinions and idea - therefore, attacking the person's itself. If you want to make friends, doing this is a sure way to fail. Instead, accept ilthe complimenting with a humbleness:"Thanks! I sill have a lot to learn though". Better yet, return the spotlight back on the person complimenting you: "Thanks! I'm working hard to be as good as you are some day"
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 01:06 PM
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Pretty good overall, here are some of my insights: ME! ME! ME! You acted indifferently on the outside (well done), but judging from the way you write this, there might have been some butthurt internally. How could she let ME waiting, and then she brags in MY face, she was playing games with ME... You take this too personally man, it's a game, just enjoy the ride. Don't let the outcome define your self-esteem. There might be another man in the picture. Soft next her for a few days, she'll be back…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 08:36 AM
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I disagree. While I do believe that VR porn will be fantastic, you forget that there is a lot more to having a real-life girlfriend. For example, the social validation, which many men strive for. In other words: VR porn will be really realistic, but the society will still consider you to be a loser without a real-life GF. Men will want to feel validated, so not much will change.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 12:36 AM
1

Be careful about talking the comment here too seriously through. This is a subreddit, which means everybody can post here. Moderating the quality of the comment s is next to impossible. However, the sidebar is a good stuff! I would suggested starting with The Rational Male
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:04 AM
2

I don't get it, if your life was better before getting married, what keeps you from divorcing your wife?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:12 PM
1

Women are not capable of emotionally supporting you. If you open your vulnerabilities to them, it will only lead to your SMV lowering and to them resenting you. In order for them to love you, you need to be a stoic motherfucker, an unmovable rock. There's nothing wrong with needing emotional support. However, that's what your bros are for. Either that, or find a therapist. Never emotionally open to your woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 09:17 AM
4

Brilliant move, this is how the game is played :D
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:01 AM
2

You can not negotiate desire. I'm not sure what you're expecting from "the talk", but you can't talk her into being attracted to you. This post reeks of neediness and beta.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:56 PM
3

I have been chatting this girl for 4 months right? Wrong. 4 months. Dude. Seriously? O.o Try to build some self-respect next!
/r/askTRP29/06/16 11:56 AM
1

This reminds me of the Blackdragon's distinction between the Alpha 1.0 and Alpha 2.0 However, I would add that while women are not stupid, women are neither mind-readers. Unless she does something obviously shitty (cheat on you, etc), then just walking away and hoping she'll "just get it" is as naive as it is feminne. It's like when a LTR is giving a shitty attitude to her beta and when he asks her what's wrong, she replies with "nothing". There are differences, obviously, but you get the point.…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:32 PM
3

This. I can only recommend this. Go hiking and go alone. The state usually appears after two or three hours, for me at least.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:28 PM
2

Whatever floats your boat man, there's no right or wrong in this matter :p
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:27 PM
1

Thanks for recommending, I haven't got into A New Earth yet, but will do so asap!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:25 PM
6

Oh dont worry, you'll fuck up many more things in the upcoming years ;) It's how we learm, don't be too hard on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 12:46 PM
6

You're in a deep friend-zone. By being patient and a good friend, you're only sawing the branch you're sitting on. I would say that this battle is lost and you're better of spending the energy elsewhere. If you still insist on gaming this girl, then don't respond to her texts except for a one-line sentences and after a long period after receiving them. Don't give her any of that boyfriend behaviour unless she's intimate with you. Of course, don't explain it like this to her! She'll know what's u…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:28 AM
1

I didn't mean to justify any of that by her "feminine nature", sorry if it came out that way. What I'm just saying is that revenge never brings any good. What OP did was much better, not only for her well-being, but for his as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:18 AM
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I would give you some advice, but this post reeks of beta so much that I'm actually thinking that you're just trolling :p Read the sidebar. Then read it again. Then read some of the better Red Pill literature and blogs, like the Rational Male or the blackdragon blog. Or continue what you're doing and learn from your mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:13 AM
10

Check out the book "The power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I think you'll love it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:05 AM
1

Chill out man. You don't have to kick anyone, nor would it achieve anything good. Get over your anger phase soon, for the sake of everyone around you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 10:33 AM
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Dude :/ I'd like to believe that ideas like these stem from your anger phase and you'll get over them eventually. She's a woman. She does what she's programmed to do and gave our friends here a valuable lesson about the feminine nature. However, this doesn't make her any less human. The emotions she feels are real. Doing what you're proposing could hurt her more than you realize.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 10:31 AM
1

Congratulations! I imagine it must have been super hard to hold frame like this, but you managed to do the the right thing anyway! Once you demote a woman from the status of a GF, she is never to be promoted again. Doing so would only show her how optionless you are and she would ultimately despise you even more. I honestly believe she feels like shit now. Both of her branches (the branch she held onto and the branch she intended to swing on) have broken and she has found herself on the ground, …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 10:19 AM
1

These are all sound points, but they require some proof-reading. For example: remember that our culture and our grandparent's culture are not the only cultures there ever were. There were many cultures, Pompeys, ancient Greek city states, Mesopotamians... Can we be absolutely sure that what we're dealing with here is historically unique? Cultures come and go. Perhaps in the past, somewhere, there was a culture that suffered from the feminization of men and emasculation of women just like we do. …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:39 PM
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Blue-pillers are not hopeless, most of us have been blue-pill at some point. You can't change someone's view over a campfire conversation. The process takes tíme. Just remember how much time it took you to unplug, go through all the phases and destroy old beliefs and disney fantasies. As others have suggested - cut these friends out of your life, or don't soend too much time with them. They will drag you down.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 05:46 PM
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What makes you think europe is aby different? Just based on that comment alone I know for certain that you've never lived here :D Im from eastern europe. There are no triggrypuffs and women are of usually of higher SMV in the terms of looks, but trust me, the feminine imperative is as strong in here as in the rest of the western world. Women dont have to compete for men, since most men are wimpy betas.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 02:38 PM
1

That's a good point. I must admit that this didn't cross my mind. Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 04:10 PM
1

-Her not drinking is usually a bad sign I thought this as well. She may be a cocktease. She may have gone out with you because she wanted to make her BF jealous, another guy jealous, brag to her friends, or generally just feel good about herself. I feel that the cocktease might be the case - she even told me some stories about how she used to cocktease in the past. Anyway, I didn't know the term, thanks for expanding my vocabulary :D In short, disengage. Blow her off for a week or two, then floa…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 04:10 PM
1

It's a possibility. Thanks for the reply!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 04:07 PM
1

Great videos man! Thanks, I will take notes!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 04:06 PM
1

While I agree with basically everything you say, I would argue that when people complain that "TRP is wrong!", they almost never mean to say "The method that you used to get to the conclusions which you present is wrong!". Seriously, they almost always mean to say "the conclusions which you present are wrong!" So you have basically made a strawman argument here and then you shot it down. Anyway, it was a nice read so I don't really mind that much :)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:16 PM
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I've been hearing that for years now, so it didn't strike ma as a surprise. I wanted to write my view on this, but then I remembered that Rollo has already made an excelent post on exactly this topic, so I'd rather refer you to him. Check it out, it has the answer you're looking for. You'll like it :)
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:07 AM
3

Is it that bad in Poland too? I've been looking at divorce ratates of various countries and, according to wikipedia, Poland has only around 27% (which is really good, considering the rest of the world is above 50%). The statistic is 6 years old tho. Did the westernization hit you as hard as it hit us? (I'm from Slovakia, currently living in Czech Republic. There's no point to marriage in either of these)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 11:35 AM
1

Should I ask her why she is withholding it? I she says she doesn't want it, I think there has to be a reason and she could explain it. This is why. You're trying to communicate with a woman on a rational level - you're trying to reason with her. Women are creatures of the emotion, reasoning is a male approach to things. By trying to rationalize with her, you're forcing her into a masculine role, which is a huge turn off. Of course, you would eventually get a reason from her, but it would be some…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 08:16 AM
10

"I found a pair of socks in my drawer I'd never seen before. I can't figure out where they came from!" :D :D How did you manage to keep yourself from bursting in laughter? :D
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 08:40 AM
2

If a woman do this to me, I would ask her, why You indeed are new to the red pill :)
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:31 AM
5

Absolutely, according to the calendar on her iPhone (which she has shown me), she's in her fertile days.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:06 PM
2

spending the whole day with her after she withdrew. Again, say you need to get some work done or run errands It wasn't ideal, but we had the whole day planned already. I feared that disappearing mysteriously after having been denied the sex would make me look affected by the whole thing.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:03 PM
1

It's depressing to think about It is, for some time. It'll stop being depressing once your eyes stop hurting.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 07:42 PM
1

I know man, it's fucked up. I wish it wasn't true.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 07:31 PM
6

No. Find somebody else to talk to. Your friends, your parents, a professional...
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:54 PM
3

Legend says that you can enjoy the romantic gestures if you manage to hold an aplha frame at all time. Women will love you for it then. I might write a post on this later. Of course, this is hard to achieve, because we all have the beta cringe moments from time to time. If you find yourself in a beta position, restrain from romantic gestures until you rebuild the frame, or else you'll be sawing off the branch you're sitting on. I've found out that the worse I treat them, the better they treat me…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 06:30 PM
1

Dude I would read the shit out of that post because it sounds really interesting. Please consider writing it :D
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:57 AM
2

But why do those things matter? As long as I'm content with myself, why should I bother by achieving fit body, women, money, etc? What can I gain from those things if I'm already content?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:56 AM
2

That sounds interesting. Have you considered writing a whole post on this topic? Having scientific reasons/explanations behind why to do certain things could help many guys get motivated to actually do them. That's actually the premise behind TRP I guess. At least I would definitively read the fuck out of that post man.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:55 AM
2

Your post is lacking the why. Stop for a moment, think and understand this concept and avoid falling to this trap. Lift weights and eat healthy. Why?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:56 PM
1

I cannot explain in one reply Please try! This sounds interesting.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 07:57 PM
3

I wanted to spark a discussion, but here are some of my own theories/takeaways: She does not have a social circle of her own. Women are dream killers (She wanted me to give up my passions just so that I could lay on the couch with her). All of the revenge theories proposed in this thread seem probable to me. She has fully transitioned into the hunt mode. She's trying desperately to lock someone down because she can't live with herself. That's explains the sudden change in her behaviour. Several …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:09 AM
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Thanks for sharing! Seems like you have her figured out by now. How did it feel to seeing her walk around with her new BF? Did you get over it eventually, or does it still struck a note when you see them?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:55 PM
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They've been hanging with her even when we were together + I see no reason why it should bother me. If they really desire to get in her pants then I may actually even give them some advice as to what works on her. Still, I would not recommend her to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 01:22 PM
3

Great article, thanks for writting it!
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:36 AM
1

Of course, but that's for another debate :)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:34 AM
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Indeed, the AF/BB has been going rampage lately because it most suits women's interest. However, the strategy has not evolved recently. It's just that it was repressed by the society until recently. I've enlisted in a course on Anthropology of Sexuality on my uni last semester, just for the kicks. Turns out that hypergamy has always been with us, it's not even exclusive for humans as a species (For example, most of Gibbon males don't raise their own children, the Chad of Apes usually fucks most …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:12 AM
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she decided that going to the bar with her friends while I was out of town was acceptable Dude, wtf? How insecure are you? You break up with a girlfriend of 9 months because she went out with her friends? Really? Is this level of beta-jealousy even possible? Dear god I hope you're trolling.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 07:22 AM
3

You misunderstood me. I agree with everything you said. However, what /u/Sir_Distic tries to claim is that the 18 - 22 year olds wants your money and commitment, while the 30 - 40 year olds only want your dick and an "quality conversation", which is a straight up bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 11:42 AM
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WTF? Do you honestly think than an 18 years old chick, who was provided for by her parents all of her life and never really had to provide for herself, gives two shits about your commitment? These are the party years you are talking about. A girl in this age wants nothing from you but your dick, along with all of the others on the CC. Provided you can give her the tingles that is, which I highly doubt considering your deep BP ideas.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 11:24 AM
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I share your point of view. However, I believe that what's considered sexy has always been an artificially pushed image.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 11:05 AM
2

All too common :C Thanks for sharing this!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:58 AM
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You already know the answer, you're just seeking for comfirmation here. Which isn't bad so let me provide it ofr you :3 Yup. You've been making the right choices up to the point of having second thoughts. Nexting her is the right choice. Just spending the rest of the night on Tinder, trying to arrange other dates would be a time better spent.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 09:29 AM
2

^ This.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 09:22 AM
2

Awesome post! This compilation should be sticky! A lot of work must've gone into this. One thing thou: However, recent research suggests that LD romantic relationships are of equal or even more trust and satisfaction than their geographically close (GC) counterparts Har har har
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 08:45 AM
2

Remember that the word "love" is just that, a word. The definition of it, the meaning of it, seems to be a particularly subjective thing. When a woman says "I love you", there is no internal monologue in her head narrating her actions as "Well, this guy satisfies my needs for the moment, so I'm going to tell him I love him to keep him around until I find someone else to leech onto". If you honestly believe that this is what usually happens then it's possible that you're not completely past the a…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 12:29 AM
1

Female love isn't love It all depends on how you define the word. However, they can love you, in their own way. Their love is just not as long lasting or as loyal, and always conditioned upon something, but remember that women are creatures of the moment. And if you meet the alpha qualities/pass all of her shittests, then in that moment, their love can be very real.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 10:50 PM
1

you believe women can love you the same way you love them. You misunderstand me. I never suggested that women love you in the same way you love them. I actually said that women are capable of loving you, in their own way
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 10:39 PM
1

What exactly are you hoping to achieve from doing so?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:02 PM
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I believed love is real Love is real, just not in the way you imagined it to be at first. Women are capable of loving you, in their own way. Once you start to understand them better then it won't seem as terrible as it may seem now. From what I can conclude from your post, you're currently in the anger phase. It's normal, it has happened to most of us and, don't worry, it will pass. Your life will be much better once your eyes stop hurting ;) Welcome to TRP!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 02:13 PM
3

Check out this video. Being in a wheelchair will not be a disadvantage until you make it into one. Just keep your frame, be fun to be around, don't apologize for it and don't point it out more than necessary. You may get some standard shit tests regarding the wheelchair but these are easy to predict now. Difuse them with some Stephen Hawking kind of jokes or similar shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 09:58 AM
2

Format is ok, work on your story-telling. Afte reading your post, I have absolutely no idea what you were trying to describe. What exactly happened? Who was 99.99% talking to who?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:47 PM
1

Awesome! I'm happy for you, good luck man! I've always imagined the first 8 months of a marriage to have that romantic honeymoon afterglow, so enjoy it for as long as it's there ;) Also, it does not have to dim itself over the years at all. After all, Rollo is married too and he's one of the founding fathers of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:00 AM
1

Too soon for that. You're wasting mental energy by planning the details of a hypothetical "what if" plan. What's more, this suspicion you hold towards her will subconsciously alter your behaviour, which will poison your interactions, which will make her initially wonder what's wrong and ultimately resent you. This prophecy you have about her cheating may ultimately become self-fulfilling. As others have said, get your shit together first. This fear you have about her cheating on seem to stem fro…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 09:55 AM
1

It seems like you've overdosed on red pills brother. What makes you believe she's a cheat? How does she treat you?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:55 AM
2

unlike Boot Camp you've got a choice in an LTR. You can say no. You can say no in the Boot Camp as well. Just walk away, like you would from a LTR you've described above.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:13 AM
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and women still think they can come in here and have a say. They can, if what they say can stand on it's own merit. /u/odileLee has some fair points and her post doesn't seem to differ in anything from what I'm seeing here posted by other male users. We are men, we appeal to logic. If you disagree with anything she said, address that, don't address her gender. I would be careful with the NO GIRLS ALLOWED plank. We might end up like a male version of feminism if we hang such signs carelessly. And…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 08:03 PM
2

I do believe that she truly feels remorseful. This. This is the paradox of hypergamy, and one of the reasons why I don't envy women a thing. You don't think she actually feels remorse, because she doesn't feel it when she's with you. You just simply make her feel good. The moment she leaves your house however, the remorse kicks in and stays with her until she sees you again. Anyway, cool story. Find the pics please, sounds interesting :)
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:53 PM
2

Good response! Now go for radio silence.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:18 AM
2

Don't do this dude, it's a hoax. https://authoritynutrition.com/6-reasons-why-a-calorie-is-not-a-calorie/
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:56 PM
-2

In a funny manner: "I'm saving myself for the right one ;)"
/r/askTRP15/05/16 12:11 PM
1

You're over-doing it. Basically you've overdosed yourself on TRP - Too much of anything is never good for you. Go Monk Mode for a while. Pick up the hobbies you had 2.5 years ago and focus on them. Or find some new hobby altogether; hiking, traveling, religion, anything.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 12:09 PM
5

Maybe it's just me, but dude, your post makes no sense :/
/r/seduction15/05/16 10:45 AM
1

Interesting. How many times have you done it, and what exactly made you completely turn your opinion on the matter?
/r/seduction15/05/16 09:32 AM
1

There has always been one in every group I've been in I'm the shortest guy I know and I have never had this problem. Like really, not even in my childhood. My guess is that it's your behaviour that's starts it, not theirs. Try to audio-tape your next interaction and then analyze when exactly did they start to "Put you in your place"
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:18 PM
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Iron rule of Tomassi #2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. However, don't lie about it either. Read the article, it's short :3
/r/seduction14/05/16 07:28 PM
2

Yes and no. The thing is, people want to put you in a box. When people discover a new thing/meet a new person, they tend to make an opinion about it and then stick to it. This is why the first impression is so powerful. We can't help it, it's how our brains are wired - it's an optimization alghoritm that has evolved to keep us from thinking about everything too much and save energy (if you're interested about how this work on a neurological level, check out the book thinking - fast and slow. It'…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 07:14 PM
1

Check it out! I would recommend the book to anyone, it has changed the way I look at life greatly. It is not nihilistic though, it's a completely different philosophy. But nevertheless, it has a lot to offer.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 06:29 PM
3

How do you escape nihilism? Nihilism is widely misunderstood. Get into it more deeply, it's a beautiful and peaceful philosophy once you get to understand it. Also, there's a book called The Power of Now which helped me greatly.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 07:39 AM
1

I was VERY red-pill for most of the relatosphip. I fucked up in one month, but then gained back some power. Women are creatures of the present. You could have been good to her/manifested alpha all your life, but if you fuck up once, all your previous behaviour is forgotten in that moment. Sadly (or luckily?) it works the other way around too - you can be abusive to her through all of your relationship, all is forgotten if she feels good with you in the current moment. It is all a power struggle.…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:10 PM
3

dumped her many times only for her to beg me back Here's your first mistake. You don't dump them more than once. See the 7th iron rule of Tomassi I Dont want an LRT, just a plate. Be very honest about this with her. Despite what these subredits look like to strangers, women are still people, people have feelings. Don't be wishy-washy about this, it will poison your own mind as well as hers. I turned beta for a month (After she dumped me), and cried and begged Analyze how she reacted to this. Oh …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:18 PM
1

I doubt you'll find Baltic women to be much different on this matter, hypergamy is a global phenomenon mate. But good luck anyway!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:08 AM
2

Exactly! However, realize that the very reason why TRP advises men to NEXT their girlfriends is because their girlfriends would not for a moment hesitate to branch-swing. Men would love to commit to a woman, cherish her needs, see past her shortcomings and basically love unconditionally. Women are incapable of this. So basically, what you're saying is right, but you've flipped the order of things. It's not "you people are hypocrites, because women branch-swing when you fail to fulfil their needs…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:57 PM
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Dude, chill :D That was sent in a playful tone, you can comfortably respond in a BP manner. Perhaps try to relax and have a little fun while you're at it ;)
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:31 PM
3

From what I can tell from living in Slovakia for 20 years and in Czech Republic for 4 years: Nope. The westernization is strong in here and the European Union only strenghtens its influence. Maybe there still are some countries/cultures that resist it, but I doubt it'll stay like that for long. The numbers support this
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:43 AM
3

Yes, in these 25 years my father probably fucked other women and my mother a few other men. But she knows that she will not be able to find a man like my father now Dude, seriously? :D I wanted to point out everything that's wrong with this sentence, but if you don't see it for yourself then I guess you're beyond help.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:30 AM
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This made my day for some reason :D
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:06 AM
1

I'm sorry to hear that man, it must be really hard for you right now, even so considering the amount of work you have to deal with. Stay strong brother! The red pill always internalizes itself through hardship, but you'll come out stronger! Try to think about what you've avoided instead of what you've lost, which, as you'll realize over time, wasn't that much.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 06:42 PM
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When people integrate a certain belief system into their values, they make that belief system a part of their personality/ego. In a way, they make it a part of themselves. So when you attack these core belief systems in a person, it's like you're attacking the person physically. This is always met with resistance. This is not exclusive to BP thinking, it applies to every belief that people consider important, invested too much resources into or that has been with them for a long time. For exampl…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:29 PM
2

I live in a Czech Republic, there is 66% divorce rate here. What kind of deal is that?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:45 AM
1

I'm intruged, can I subscribe somewhere, so that I can be sure that I won't miss it once you release it?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:52 PM
2

That makes a lot of sense, thank you for your reply!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:16 PM
1

Wow, that was a really detailed and well explained reply! I'm bookmarking this. I actually believe that your reply was so thought-out that it could stand as a thread on its own, since many others may benefit from your wisdom besides me. But that's none of my concern :3 Anyway, I will try to put your teachings into practice. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:44 PM
1

While I agree, I'm curious if there's any other way besides MGTOW to live a life without dealing with womanly nags.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:33 PM
1

just tell her straight up you want to sleep with her and take it from there. There are better methods. For example: While making out, take her hand and put it on your dick. Make her move her hand with yours if she still doesn't get it. Or another: Leave the room and come back stark naked.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:27 PM
0

This is an excellent answer, thank you! ♂ What do you think is the right way of reacting when she starts being bitchy? Should you overtly tell her to stop saying what she's saying, or perhaps even scold her or demand an apology, like you would with a child? And will you not look butthurt by doing so?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:16 PM
1

Yup, but the question is: Is it me who's not self-centered enough to be bothered by their bitching (or who motivates the bitching in them), or is it them who are the bitches and I should seek calmer women instead?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:33 PM
3

At first I was thinking the same thing, but seeing my alpha roommate putting up with this has started a different thought train in my head (and inspired me to write this post). Theory T1: Things are negative only if you label them as such. For example, imagine an emotionally unstable man with low self-esteem. If such man approaches a girl in a bar and gets a cold reject, his self-esteem will lower even more because of that. He will ponder about the rejection all night, it will scare him from app…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:30 PM
2

The fear of getting cheated on stems from your insecurity and low self-worth. So how do you fix it? Increase your self-worth. Start lifting, talking to girls, getting one-night-stands, build a strong social circle, master a hobby, build yourself. The fear of getting cheated on will disappear alongside your low self-esteem.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 12:01 PM
4

Let's translate this from english to womanese: "I want to fuck other dudes and see if I can get someone better than you to commit, but I also kinda fear that I won't find anyone, so I would like to keep you as a Plan B in that case." Like many other men who come her asking for help, you already know the answer to your question, it's just not a pleasant one.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:51 PM
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Don't try to find logic in whatever she says, there mostly is none. Whenever she starts speaking in womanese, just ignore the unclear parts and proceed like whatever she said was exactly the thing you wanted to hear.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 08:19 AM
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Congratulations! You held your frame like a pro. she blows up about me not seeming to care. Going through a break-up is hard, no matter if it's you who's getting dumped or if it's you who's the dumpee. She probably went through a lot of pain (in her mind, this shit is never objective so don't think much of it) to finally break-up with you. So when she finally mustered enough courage to act on it, she (read: her ego) was hoping that the break-up would destroy you so that she would get some kind o…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:05 AM
1

Excellent post! I see a lot of men growing bitter on women here or in the MGTOW section, which is why I think that the iron rule of #6 is not pointed out enough. If you try to dictate what others should feel like, it's because you are narcissistic and lack empathy.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 12:05 AM
1

Perhaps. You will see. My first relationship was similar: I used to cuddle with my first girlfriend all the time, holding hands in public, stroking legs when sitting in a restaurant. She introduced me to her friends, I introduced her to mine... She treated me badly in many ways and often made me wait for sex, but I decided to overlook it all because I was so in love. I guess I was happy. I would never go back there tho, because after having other relationships, I saw everything I was missing and…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:26 PM
1

if she refuses to put out or not down to fuck should I bring up the fact that she used to fuck that douche more times a week than me in total? I would advise against it. To quote Tomassi once again: You cannot negotiate Desire. Basically it sounds a lot like emotional blackmailing, which would eventually backfire. Plus you would probably not like the sex anyway if she's not into it ;) By trying to 'convince' her into having sex with you, you're once again displaying that you're without options, …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:15 PM
5

Shit, I was unaware that common law marriage is a thing, thanks for pointing that out :S I live in an eastern-European country and our laws are not this retarded, or at least as far as I'm concerned. But I'll better check.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 05:10 PM
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Yup, this, the dread game, is exactly the reason why moving in together is detrimental to your sex life, as far as I understand it. I however fail to see any "social restrictions" that are biased against men in the case of moving in together. It's just all about the dread game. Of course, if breaking up fuck up different parts of your life, like the work, the lease, the hassle with moving out your stuff etc, then that's a bonus. But that does not have to be a rule, you just need to establish it …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 05:06 PM
2

What about an establishment where she moves in with you, but you still pay all the rent and the lease is on you, so that you can kick her out effortlessly when she fucks up too bad?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 04:36 PM
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You are right, of course, but that's unrelated. To clarify: I'm not trying to deny what the OP is saying, I even agree with his conclusion (tho I have different reasons for that than he does). I just don't understand the arguments that he provided and would like someone to explain them in more detail to me. Exactly what social restrictions in this example apply exclusively to men?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 04:06 PM
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That seems like a strawman argument, but perhaps I just don't fully understand what you're saying. Living with a girlfriend and having concerns about the amount of time she spends god-knows-where are two different things, no? Again, I always thought that living together is a bad thing because it hinders your dread game. That's why I agree with the conclusion of OP's post. I just don't fully understand the logic behind the reasons he and you provide (Yet. Again, I'm not denying that there is logi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 04:03 PM
1

While you could say that I agree, and I personally do think that moving in together is a terrible idea, here's what came to my mind after reading that: Doesn't it work both ways? Isn't she also giving him control over how quickly and feasibly she could leave him (lease, shared rent, etc.)? Isn't also she giving him access to her life? Doesn't the "girlfriend" label apply social restrictions to her as well?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:39 PM
1

Let me quote the third iron rule of tomassi: A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fuck the shit out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck. The girl who tells you she needs to be comfortable and wants a relationship first is the same girl who fucked the hot guy in the foam can…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:04 PM
10

You are in a LTR and you've only had sex once? Are you out of your mind? How long have you been together? What makes you think you're in a relationship?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:11 PM
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Withhold/distance yourself. One thing tho: once she asks what's wrong, make sure not to reply "nothing" or something vague like that. Be clear about what she did wrong and what you expect her to do now.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 08:01 AM
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Wow man, that's a tough situation, I feel you :/ You're going to have it a bit hard for a while but if you manage to pull through this now, you'll come out strong. Here are some tips I can give you: I feel like this plate is going to break simply because of my parents and that really irritates me Simply fearing that you'll lose this plate is making the process faster. It won't break because of your parents, it'll break because of you. YOU need to stop giving a fuck about what your parents do or …
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:57 AM
1

Perhaps you could also start by asking yourself what led him to search such materials on-line. You said that, from your perspective, the marriage was happy. But perhaps he didn't see it that way (people don't look up this stuff if they're in a perfect harmonic relationship) Try to ask him why he did it (genuinely, not in the I'm-gonna-scold-you-for-this-later manner, otherwise he might not answer you). Since he's a man, I'm guessing it's because he thinks that he doesn't get laid enough, but the…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/16 04:16 AM
1

I like it how all of the girls you see "come up" with a reason why they don't want to see you, so you logically deduced that it must be because there's something wrong with all women. There indeed are plenty of things wrong with women, but if ALL of them fail to see the amazing qualities which you claim to have, then maybe, just maybe it's because you're not such as awesome superhuman stud as you see yourself to be. Either that, or you hide you great qualities very well.
/r/MGTOW16/04/16 01:14 PM
1

Wait, didn't you say that you play SC2 in the original message? And now you just said that you are too old for SC2, then which one is it? Also, how can you say that you're too old for other games? One never gets too old for Rollercoaster Tycoon as far as I'm concerned.
/r/MGTOW13/04/16 04:54 PM
1

I'm too old for others. What makes you think so?
/r/MGTOW13/04/16 03:33 PM
1

Bro, her behaviour was just so plainly irrational that just reacting to it in any serious way becomes just as irrational as what she did in the first place. So once again, you should not have taken her seriously. You should have laughed about that too :) Women are children, take them as such.
/r/MGTOW08/04/16 10:27 PM
7

That was just a shit test, you should have laughed it off.
/r/MGTOW05/04/16 03:06 PM
2

overpopulation Intuitively this seem to be the case, but do a little research about it. You will find that actually, the very opposite is true.
/r/MGTOW03/04/16 07:39 AM
7

That's actually the very reason for going MGTOW. If you decide taht having to appeal to women's needs would be too much work and the profit is not worth for you, then welcome aboard! But if you want to get a taste of what you're abandoning before completely committing to the MGTOW philosophy, then know that being small or weird looking does not have to be detrimental if you have game. Check out this dude!
/r/MGTOW31/03/16 01:04 PM
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Congratulations! You got fucked over hard, but that's how life teaches it's lessons. Now you're free to do whatever you wish. Whatever you ever wanted to do but could not, now you can. You can learn to play a guitar, go hiking (with your son maybe?), learn pick-up, whatever! Make those wekends the best days of your sons life and the rest of the week the best days of your life.
/r/MGTOW31/03/16 11:01 AM
1

As you should.
/r/MGTOW31/03/16 08:08 AM
1

I understand why you would think that and I acknowledge that it may seem that way. But in truth, I couldn't care less about validation from online community of random anonymous people. I just ask them to think before expressing themselves. It's not that what they post here is politically incorrect, it's that often it's just plain stupid.
/r/MGTOW31/03/16 08:07 AM
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You misunderstood me. I'm not trying to shame you into anything, feel free to express whatever you feel like. What I'm trying to is point you to logical flaws in the thinking of many people in here. I don't care if it's politically incorrect, what worries me is when it's just plain stupid. They may feel angry if they desire, what I ask them to do is to think whenever the anger is justified before expressing it.
/r/MGTOW31/03/16 08:04 AM
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1) Thanks for pointing that out, I've fixed the original post 2) That's what I thought I was doing :/ 3) The reason the online community (and basically, the whole manosphere - blogs, books, forums) exists in the first place is to unplug other men from social conditioning. Nobody forces you to care where an online community is heading and you don't have tho. It's an act of selflessness if you do something for others. I do it because it makes me happy. BTW: I just realized, did you post your comme…
/r/MGTOW30/03/16 02:08 PM
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Good points! But I believe that the hate is unnecessary and actually works against against you (not only in the eyes of outside people, but it also corrupts your mental health). Can't we be MGTOW without having to hate anyone?
/r/MGTOW30/03/16 01:01 PM
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I don't understand how we like feminism ? We are not using our influence to pass laws or supporting one cause or the another. We aren't actively trying to change the status quo. The actions we take are different, but the mindset is the same. "We are victims, the society is controlled by the opposite gender and so we're going to hate all of it's members!" Should we really care what people think of us ? Well, from purely alturistic reasons, as I've explained, we might save more people if we have a…
/r/MGTOW30/03/16 10:51 AM
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Yup, and here's once again where I see the parallel with feminism. Most of the landwhales there have similar mindset.
/r/MGTOW30/03/16 10:28 AM
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Thanks, will check it out! Anyway, literally no post in this thread rants about how it's unfair that the newspaper published that article. All of the posts rant about how stupid the women was, which seems just plain hateful to me, considering that men do similar shit.
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 09:35 PM
-2

That's an interesting figure, where did you get it from?
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 09:09 PM
0

Interesting. Where did you get that from tho? How do you know that girls don't kill themselves all the damn time as well?
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 09:09 PM
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You people are too rapid to condemn her. There are plenty of guys who commit suicide over their one-itis, but if you got an article with such headline in here, it would probably be the girls fault too, right?
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 06:50 PM
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that she get half of your assets and or a monthly payment. Child support is the idea that you're financially responsible for Not that I'm aware of, though I'm no lawyer so don't take my word on it. From what I've seen around, you only pay child support, and I've seen cases where fathers don't have to pay anything at all.
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 06:45 PM
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Slovakia and Czech Republic, the situation is the same here
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 06:38 PM
1

Frankly I don't understand the difference between the two :) There's alimony until the child reaches adulthood, which is 18 years of age in here.
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 12:44 PM
2

From what I can say (born in Slovakia, currently living in Czech Republic) the court and laws seem to be a bit more fair towards the males in here. Maybe because we have no feminists? (at least no feminists with any political power or social influence)). Might be a matter of time tho, because the society is just as gynocentric in here as it is in the US.
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 07:21 AM
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I have little interest in following society's perception of success. Excellent! You're on the right track! Your mindset is still following the society's perception of success though, which means trying to find something out there that would fulfil you. This is the society's greatest hoax. You can not gain lasting fulfilment from external forces. There is no long-term goal that could ever fulfil you. Even if there were such a goal, a while after achieving it, you would feel just as unfulfilled an…
/r/MGTOW29/03/16 04:48 AM
2

But I'm sure they are horrified when they discover the utility they gained via marriage is prone to the odd breakdown, unexpectedly human behavior or may require servicing outside of increasingly sparse service intervals. Talk about a rip-off. Exactly what I'm pointing out to!
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 12:29 PM
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Indeed! Just as blue-pill men are responsible for theirs. So basically, I agree with you completely. What I'm trying to propose is only that we should not hate the women and society for manipulating men through social conditioning and then forget that women get conditioned as well, even if the conditioning works in their favour.
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 12:28 PM
1

MGTOW And I would never propose anything different ;)
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 12:24 PM
2

OP trying to find at least one reasonably sounding explanation outside the very dark conclusion that simply many, MANY women like to fuck over their provider-male 'hosts'. Actually, yes! That is what I'm trying to do! To clear things a bit: I do not suggest we should put up with how most women today behave. I'm also not trying to defend or deny how unfavourable the marriage is for men. The women's behaviour is plain wrong and removing ourselves from its influence is the best thing we can do! Tha…
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 12:22 PM
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Indeed, but that does not change my point. What the girls you know are thinking is less like "I'm going to use this sod and then fuck with his life so hard!" and more like "I'm going to have kids and family with this guy and the life is going to be perfect for the both of us!" It turns out to be far from perfect, of course, but what I'm trying to say is that women are not evil puppet-masters carefully plotting an evil plan of how to use men through commitment, it's just that they lack the perspe…
/r/MGTOW27/03/16 11:56 AM
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Something similar is currently happening to me, but I see it as a good thing. Since I got into the red-pill and self-development, I started becoming more self-confident and assertive. Then I realized that some of my friends are toxic and/or disrespect me in some way, and I realized that I don't want to hang around with them anymore. I see it as a good thing because it took a lot of self-development to realize that I'm better off without them and I feel extremely proud on myself. Now I'm looking …
/r/MGTOW25/03/16 07:51 PM
3

Why do you make a victim out of yourself so much?
/r/MGTOW24/03/16 09:26 AM
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Thanks for the feedback and the time you took to write that post, we sincerely value it! To be honest, I sometimes get the same feeling from this community as well, but it's not always like that and I believe that you actually can find inspirational stories or knowledge in here. Since I consider myself a part of the MGTOW community, I'm going to try to defend some of the things you pointed, though I believe that most of it depends on the point of view you take. But I'm always open to new points …
/r/MGTOW23/03/16 10:15 AM
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Ah, so you label things as "ridiculous" before you actually get to know what they stand for? That's bold, please be careful with that :) I'm not really sure where did the categorizing originate from, but the definitions are not hard to google. Here's one, for example.
/r/MGTOW22/03/16 04:06 PM
1

What makes them more ridiculous than the rest of the Red-Pill terminology?
/r/MGTOW22/03/16 08:00 AM
1

I wasn't, that would make me a double-standard hypocrite. Had I the game to put my dick in > 20 vaginas by that age, I would have without a second thought :)
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 05:18 PM
1

So basically you believe that she is a non-conscious entity. Basically. We all are to some extent. That's the social conditioning in action. For example, the blue-pill men are more unconscious than we are. Women are just as unconscious as the blue-pill men, only the conditioning works in their favour. Oh, don't be too sure of that. In fact chances are she WILL succeed in finding someone(s) to become a "baby-daddy" and then she'll use the child(ren) to parasitically milk the men/system to sustain…
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 05:15 PM
1

this is NOT in fact a "lady" who somehow deserves "respect" from you... she's a slut hoe, and after the various crocodile tears are shown to NOT have worked, she will quickly enough move on to some other fool, and begin riding/sucking THEIR cock etc in order to try to gain yet another slave. You're not actually important to her as anything other than a resource to have been used. Indeed, I agree with you wholeheartedly and see the truth in your post. Nevertheless, I refuse to be the one to judge…
/r/MGTOW21/03/16 04:14 PM
3

Not yet, though I'm working towards it! Both of my past girlfriends have had a few hardly friendzoned orbiters tho (the first one had one and the latest had two). These guys had chronic one-itisis on them and anytime I "did something bad" (read: refused to sacriface some part of myself to do as is theirs bidding), my girlfriends met with these guys to use them as their emotional tampons and get some validation by having them pay for their coffee. I was ok with it. Actually I felt a little bad fo…
/r/MGTOW06/03/16 12:07 PM
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Good point! I believe the wall might come early with this particular girl someday (as Tomassi suggested could happen if the conditions are right), but I might have diagnosed it incorrectly. Here's what led me to it: Daddy issues (father not completely absent, but a heavy alcoholic) All of her friends and her sister are already married and with kids (pretty common in this demographic, I'm from Slovakia) She has a rare disease that would make childbirth difficult if she's too old (Von Willebrand d…
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 08:43 PM
1

How so? I was ok with the CC, most girls ride it in their youth anyway
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 08:07 PM
3

Thanks man, the vibe's only getting better now that I've had time to ponder about the thing. Now I'm feeling super hyped about the future!
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 04:26 PM
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Thanks for sharing! I'm glad for you and your fiance :) Fortunately, I had some space to ponder upon the whole thing with my GF and now even I don't believe it would end up like that between us. I don't remember her ever admitting to making a mistake, she has always been a victim and would have found a way to victimize herself in this matter as well.
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 04:24 PM
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Those are some wise words and I feel better after reading them. Thanks!
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 04:20 PM
3

Thanks man, I will do my best ;)
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 11:50 AM
3

I don't think you need to know much more than that. How so? The fact that she at least considered changing her ways in order to keep me - doesn't mean that she might actually really love me and it's not just the programming doing the speaking? Her reaction made it harder for me, not the opposite. I almost didn't made it because of it :/
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 11:50 AM
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Will try, thanks!
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 11:47 AM
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Wow, that's a great question! Keeps me focused on the future, thanks for asking that! I'm going to gain some weight and start eating healthy again, get better at wall-climbing, art and programming and finish the indie game that I'm making in my free time. I'll also try to rekindle my past friendships and maybe throw a house party or two (I used to organize quite a few of those back in the day and they were always the bees knees). I'm also going to host a few Dungeons & Dragons nights and try to …
/r/MGTOW05/03/16 10:35 AM
1

Dude that's cruel :/ I don't want to marry her, but keeping her at arms distance and waiting for her to leave while "still having fun with her" would require a really heartless person. I mean, she is using me, but I don't believe she consciously realizes this, it's just how she's programmed to act. I couldn't toy with anyone like this, and certainly not with someone I love. Just by proposing me to do this tells me that you must really be a one bitter person. I don't know who hurt you in the past…
/r/MGTOW04/03/16 05:11 PM
2

Thanks for the wise advice. Hurting her is the last thing I want to do. She is a very nice person and I realize that none of it is her fault, it's how she's conditioned to act. And also it's a little bit of my fault, for not being able to stand against her bullshit and not being dominant enough. Now there are too many bad habits in our relationship and I let them all in. And I feel guilty. Extremely guilty, because I kept adding fuel into this fantasy of hers. Back when she didn't drain my energ…
/r/MGTOW02/03/16 10:18 PM
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Yep, that's kinda how I feel it. It feels nice to hear it from someone else as well though. Thanks for the book recommendation, I'll be sure to check it once I'm single and have my free time back ;)
/r/MGTOW02/03/16 08:45 PM
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I am a sexual being that is no different than your average person Actually, you're not just an avarage person, you are the coolest motherfucker out there bro! Girls daydream about you everyday before they fall asleep, wondering how awesome it would be if they could have you only for a weekend. Guys look up to you in envy, wishing they could swap their place with you. Change your mindset man, it'll do miracles.
/r/seduction28/05/15 09:10 PM
1

Also, you can always make yourself more beautiful. Work out. Dress good. If there is acne on your face, heal it ( /r/skincareaddiction ). Etc...
/r/seduction28/05/15 09:04 PM
4

Remember that nobody has to know anything about how you truly feel - they can only know what you tell them with your actions. What I'm trying to say is that yep, you're going to feel needy and clingy and there's no easy way out, but you don't have to scare the girl away if you can hide it/not act on it. Now if this is not about the girl but about your own well being, then you need to find other activities to focus on. If you're suspended from your social circle then find another one or get some …
/r/seduction12/03/15 09:14 AM
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Great question OP, I used to have similar stresses. The cure is simple: You'll eventually have to man up and just go for it. It's like trying to kino for the first time - once you do it, you realize that this thing is actually pretty simple, there was actually nothing real to worry about in the first place and that girls don't bite. Your insecurities will dissappear instantly in that moment, but you'll have to get over that first step. Some technique just to make this post complete (but which is…
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:44 PM
1

You're creating problems where there are none. You can be just genuinely interested in what has she been up to all those years since you last seen each other, which is exactly what you ask her after starting the conversation with a "hi" If you're romantically interested in her then know that building attraction through facebook is really hard unless you're a pro or have talent for this particular skill. So you'll eventually have to lure her out somehow. Anyway, goo luck :)
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:41 PM
1

Spamming her with more texts will not make her change her mind, it will only make you seem needy and actually hinder your chances. You did all you could, the rest is up to her now.
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:34 PM
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Don't hope she will be more enthusiastic, it's your responsibility as a man to make her feel that way. She was tired of you not escalating the situation, which is also your responsibility. Other than that: yup, it's a good sign, she's into you. You will have to escalate the situation over the course of the next date tho, or she may lose her patience. Don't feel nervous about it - she's actually waiting for it, wondering when will you finally make the move :)
/r/seduction09/02/15 11:16 AM
1

That's great man! Thanks for sharing, it indeed is inspiring to hear such stories :)
/r/seduction09/02/15 10:24 AM
1

There's never a point of no return, but it'll be much easier and much more effective to just move on and find another target. Know that she may now be in the point where she tells her girlfriends about this creepy guy who started texting her out of sudden and "what's his deal, right"? If you still insist on salvaging this situation then first of all: don't text her anymore. There is absolutely no way you'll make her like you by spamming her online so just don't. You may only allow yourself to do…
/r/seduction08/02/15 02:12 PM
2

She's uninterested. Sorry. There's also a solid chance that you're kind of creepy (I might be wrong here, I haven't seen the messages of course. But I would guess by what you wrote). Or in the words of PU theories: You have failed to build any kind of attraction prior to texting her. Now you're trying to skip right into the comfort phase.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:45 AM
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Thanks for posting this OP, I'll remember your tips if I ever decide to try Digi Game :) I'm sorry so many dudes here didn't get the #5, gives a wrong name to this subreddit. Anyway, I'll disagree with the "don't hide your height" part. Height doesn't matter that much to you because you're cool. Doesn't apply to everyone tho. Some girls can get discouraged by it, which is why so many men decide to hide it. Of course, you can't hide it in real life once you're on a real date, but you have a chanc…
/r/seduction07/02/15 08:12 PM
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Dude, can you imagine responding to a hundred "hey" messages a day? Of course she doesn't respond, and neither would you were you in her shoes.
/r/seduction07/02/15 08:08 PM
1

Not sure about your point about compliments though, a small compliment goes a long way imo. If you sincerely believe that complimenting girls is a good thing then, by all means, go for it. The game can be played in many ways and I'm sure that there are styles that incorporate compliments in them and make them work. The being said, compliments basically go against most of the pick-up theory and since you're already on this subreddit, I thought you would take that into consideration. I guess they …
/r/seduction07/02/15 03:58 PM
4

Possible explanation: They bring back the memory of your old self - the man that you were before all of the self-help books and confidence videos. This would not bother you if you felt comfortable in your new skin, but the 'confident alpha you' is not yet an internal part of your self. The memory of rejection shatters your newfound "I can do anything" attitude. It'll pass over time, once you get used to your new mindset/find a real girlfriend. Until then, try to repress it, since they will think…
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:43 PM
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About kino: The dicarlo escalation ladder is good stuff, so read it unless you did already :) Other than that: this thing is mostly learned in the field. I used to have huge problems with kino myself - just touching the girl was a big deal for me. How did I get over it? Well, ultimately, I got to the point when I just said to myself: "fuck it, I'm going to try to kino this girl right now and see what happens" - and what happened is that I realized that girls don't bite. This realization shifted …
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:29 PM
2

I feel you bro. It's a tough situation indeed. Still, I suggest you think it over thoroughly before texting her again. Ask yourself these questions: What can I gain from doing so? Will it motivate her to answer me, if I keep spamming her? What can I lose? It's not unheard of from girls to respond after a few weeks or so (especially girls from Tinder). Of course, you'll be long over her by then and probably in a much better relationship, but you'll never know ;)
/r/seduction06/02/15 03:25 PM
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Many things might have happened. She might be getting a buyers remorse, found some other dude, her dog might have died... The good news is that you don't have to worry about it, because from your perspective, it doesn't matter what happened. The steps you should take next are the same, neither situation changes the way you should react right now. And that is: Be patient, don't text her anymore! You must not text her before she does or you'll appear needy. Feel free to do it after she responds, b…
/r/seduction06/02/15 02:44 PM
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The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:38 PM
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Demand that she makes her mind and replies in a clear manner. Don't worry, she's already considering it and won't reply with 'no' when forced to choose.
/r/seduction26/01/15 05:29 PM
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This of course seems like a valid option, but I fear that it might be too sudden and surprising for her. Girls tend to unconsciously raise shields in such situations. I'm wondering if a smoother way can be found.
/r/seduction24/01/15 04:28 PM
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This could work, but isn't there a smoother way?
/r/seduction24/01/15 04:25 PM
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Indeed.
/r/seduction24/01/15 04:24 PM
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Wouldn't it feel weird tho? For example, if we're sitting in a bar with said friends, wouldn't they wonder where are the two of us going? And wouldn't she feel uncomfortable if I flirt with her in front of our friends?
/r/seduction24/01/15 04:24 PM
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