Venerria Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What relationship advice will protect young women in places where female bodily-autonomy is being (or risks being) legislated away? Fortunately not everyone is polarised. You don't have to do that, not unless that's what you really want. We are here for a blip, and then we are gone. Make the most of it!	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/24 11:13 AM
1	How do I keep a woman? I was going to pen a response and read this post, perfectly described.	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/24 11:33 AM
1	How many women actually have more than 5 sexual partners? Sounds she had some underlying issues which enabled her to behave in a morally reprehensible and dysfunctional manner which did more to hurt her than the guys... Maybe that kind of sexual activity isn't so good for people. Cause and effect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 02:26 AM
2	How many women actually have more than 5 sexual partners? I would wager it is not so much the partner count but more to do with the trivialisation of sexual activity in the current era. In addition to that, also the disparity in life experience in general. The other person may fantasise and explore that mentally, whereas the other partner may have already experienced all that but with the notion of commitment the curious person cannot explore that. Obviously that is variable, perhaps that is a conversation to have with your partner. I mean that general…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 02:24 AM
1	How many women actually have more than 5 sexual partners? Probably because it appears more calculated and less organic. What is the man to them then? It could appear cognitively dissonant if they had trivialised sexual interaction before and assigned a "casual" preface to it, which it is not a casual interaction by definition... Sex is not trivial, the reason it is such a hot topic is proof of that. Just some thoughts, you may want to consider? Edit: I refer to if the woman has trivialised it but it applies both ways of course!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 02:21 AM
1	How many women actually have more than 5 sexual partners? It is nothing to do with a better sex life, the other person is disgruntled that their prospective partner and someone they began to invest in had trivialised something with ease (sexual intercourse) and the other person doesn't have the mental framework to "think" their way out of all the potential ways they could view or think of that potential partner in those acts, their motives or the how and why... Obviously this is very condensed but I think it's something to consider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 02:20 AM
4	How is black pill and hypergamy false. The internet will make it seem like it's more prevalent than it really is... It happens with echo-chambers. I suggest you join the Discord server we have for the sub-reddit for like-minded people.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/21 10:44 PM
1	Red pill people to stay away from Add Donovan Sharpe to the list. Egregious. If you're going to add JP to the list, you better understand his work first and or what he talks about. You have more in common than you realise... He did practice (psych), you know. He is very well-rounded. The fear surrounding JP is only because he mentions certain traits which do and don't cross over due to sex differences, that is actually a biological fact of life... BUT. We are also human, so there is that overlap! His insights apart from mentioni…	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/21 10:48 PM
1	Is it me or... They probably speak in favour because they want to get a piece of the pie (ad revenue, plus being a woman talking about the topic) or are those kinds of "pick me" girls... It could even be derived from some sort of complex developed in childhood - unbeknownst to themselves. That happens more often than we realise...	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/21 10:43 PM
4	What do you guys think about the manosphere going after Amy Horton? I'll add that because some people become so far embedded in their false belief system which is NOT representative of reality, they either let that part die off which is painful, the part that breeds a sense of insufficiency - or they double-down into the ideology. We aren't entirely rational creatures but I'd say it's better to consult your brain. I'd say it's also because anything that confirms their belief system is an immediate form of gratification, so people would latch onto it and perpetua…	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/21 09:43 PM
1	Vulnerability in relationships For sure. One of the primary complaints from my previous partner was that I never opened up about anything, kept everything to myself. This was consistent across even platonic friendships... It's definitely something I'm working on, just as an example. Yeah, opening up is generally what a healthy person would actually enjoy. The counter to that is employing RP principles and not doing that at all because it's taught that being real and honest is "weak" and will cause attraction to be lost. I use…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/21 03:32 AM
5	It's been 3 months since I've spat out the red pill and also gotten over my ex, what now?? You need to choose a trajectory which provides meaning and delayed gratification. What do you want to become? Where do you want to be in 1, 2, 5 or even 10 years? What do you want to focus your attention on? Essentially, go out and experience the world. Let go of the ideology that is TRP and actually form human attachments, the experience will shape and refine your character. Red pill tactics only really work on people who are pathological or have some form of personality disorder, this is becau…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/21 09:10 PM
1	Vulnerability in relationships It's how you exhibit the vulnerability that makes the difference. Not the action itself, but how it's done. I'd say it shows a type of refined and focused confidence.	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 07:50 AM
1	Why do redpill men hate when they see a successful man date or marry a single mother Why? Because it fractures their belief system with a physical example of the opposite to their belief system. It's based within a religious-like structure, that kind of thinking is myopic in of itself and leads people to a type of tribalism that if no one else follows, they must be demonised. The ideology ignores individual circumstance and the complexities of life. They want to view themselves as successful men and seeing a figure they demonise as getting benefited, it fractures their belief sy…	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 02:53 AM
1	Regarding this sub I'd like to add that people also get stuck in their head and don't realise that the other person experiences life the same or similar way as they do, since they're also human. So yeah it is very interesting, we need to open the mind a bit more. None-the-less, I appreciate your input and find it valuable!	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 02:39 AM
3	red pill to me is like that "glasses are ugly" cliche. I think the truth of life pertains more to the awakening is more about the individual. The Red Pill is focused on bettering ones aspects in a way to maximise success with women (simultaneously proclaiming that's not the goal), it's such a distorted view of the world. The extreme polarisation being MGTOW then "Incel" culture... The individual matters, it's the core basis of western culture. So really sort yourself out, then you can help others and society. Yeah, life is complicated and so we shou…	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 02:29 AM
1	Love and Hate I meant Qui-Gon as being the father figure initially, since Kenobi said that he saw Anakin as a brother at the time of the downfall. I'm just realising it now that it seems like a Cain and Abel type situation but that's just a fleeting thought... There is probably some kind of multi-layered concept behind the fact he has no father but I can't think about it right now.	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 02:21 AM
3	Proof some of red pill isn’t completely right. Sexual attraction is likely influenced by early development in a process that we can't entirely understand - however I do know one component which is that it's definitely embedded in a type of disgust response and the sensitivity to that. You can probably think back to what piqued your interest during early development and how it became more focused and higher-resolution as you aged. Another thing to note is that we are also prone to mapping our parental figures character onto the opposite sex a…	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 01:59 AM
1	Love and Hate I experiences this with my own life, it destroyed my intimate relationship and self-sabotaged any future attempts. No, it isn't a matter of applying RP concepts in a "spergy" way, the concepts alone don't work. It's based in a distorted reality, embedded in a religious mode of being, mixed with a form of tribalism - bit of both, the dose makes the poison remember. ;) I became indifferent to that partner, although the issues were more complex and plagued on both sides, ingesting the RP and implem…	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 01:56 AM
1	Love and Hate They got together in Episode 2. Also it's funny that the reflection is that these concepts are present in life across multiple medias... It's almost like these issues can be exhibited in a multitude of ways. Look at how Anakin lost his father figure (Qui-Gon) and he was taken from his mother (Shmi) without understanding what would happen upstream in the future... Then the religious elements tied in too. I like the movies if you couldn't tell lol.	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/21 01:51 AM
1	What the RedPill Should be..... The irony is lost within the RP community because it's quite literally a contrast of "Extreme Feminism". It's difficult to cater to each individuals life complexities but a good start is going to be whatever you can immediately change that is good for yourself and the people around you. Just a good general piece of advice...	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/21 06:03 AM
1	People on YouTube whom helped detox me from the redpill nonsense. How did it help you then, can you elaborate? It will help others to understand the nuance of each creator.	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/21 11:49 PM
3	Very stange interactions I don't think the ideology really teaches people to become mass-shooters but instead to become complicit in using critical-thinking to solve their issues. The ideology really simplifies complex patterns of behaviour into easy-to-digest "IF-THEN" logic... Echo chambers create those kinds of hostile individuals. If you have questions then I'd suggest joining the Discord server (top of the subreddit pinned).	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/21 01:56 AM
1	Can someone explain to me what is the pink pill? Based on a wide set of assumptions which is heavily intertwined with a biased and skewed belief system. They go hand in hand, it's pure insanity to think we KNOW ALL THE ANSWERS. On another note, come join the Discord server. We're all friends! It's pinned at the top of the sub-reddit. :)	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/21 03:27 AM
1	Can someone explain to me what is the pink pill? It's likely due to a post-modernist-esque (type? mode?) of thinking, where we think we have all the answers but we're sorely wrong. These strategies are mal-adaptive and likely a sign of a trajectory that we shouldn't be headed. We are not built that way, we are not grand all-knowing beings. Yes, it is insane. That's why we're here. To undo that thinking.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/21 03:26 AM
3	Red Pill Coaches are not only TOXIC, but they are FRAUDS and here’s why Before I began to eject the red pill ideology, I would scrutinise the appearance of my female friends and prospective relationship interests. I did so based on the fact I should seek the pinnacle of what I can achieve in a partner, however life doesn't work this way and it's a silly idea to get caught up in a loop of anxiety over it. Personally I always found behaving as per above, to be quite odd and it felt wrong. As an individual I prefer an emotional bond with a human being, not some flaky a…	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/21 12:10 AM
13	Anyone here ex-Red Pill Women? Just found out that sub is moderated by mostly men Maybe they want to be women... That's a crazy inverse lol.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 11:43 PM
1	Anyone here ex-Red Pill Women? Just found out that sub is moderated by mostly men I challenge you to join the Discord server and see for yourself. Top of the sub-reddit, it's pinned.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 11:42 PM
2	Finding it hard to keep up the 'always happy, confident, on top of things and full of energy' facade No worries <3	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 03:30 AM
2	Finding it hard to keep up the 'always happy, confident, on top of things and full of energy' facade No worries, my friend! As long as the invite has an unlimited life-time then it ought to be fine unless someone with permission deletes the randomised link in Server Settings.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 03:12 AM
1	About the “wall” It requires the base concept that age is tied to the concept of "Sexual Market Value" or "SMV", which is really just a way of condensing the selection process into a black/white thinking. Although the mating game is inherently discriminatory in nature, the Red Pill takes it to the next level. I don't recall caring about any of this non-sense until after I read about it in RP rhetoric. Take care of your health and you won't "age" in the way you expect. Take care of your joints and posture, arguab…	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 03:09 AM
2	Finding it hard to keep up the 'always happy, confident, on top of things and full of energy' facade Yeah it should do, I just checked the one pinned.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 03:01 AM
4	Red Pill Coaches are not only TOXIC, but they are FRAUDS and here’s why The people who don't want to communicate have never had a reason to do so, they never saw how it could function and think it's all about communicating their wants/needs when actually the inverse is just as important. Boundaries and compromise goes the same way. The definition of hypergamy has been mangled so much by the ideology that it's applied in scenarios that are outside its scope. I'd take it with a grain of salt.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 02:57 AM
13	Red Pill Coaches are not only TOXIC, but they are FRAUDS and here’s why It borders on psychopathy. The way they can keep the facade is pure narcissism.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 02:55 AM
3	Finding it hard to keep up the 'always happy, confident, on top of things and full of energy' facade You have the capability to accept your personal experience. There are numerous reasons for why you have brain fog and I doubt a woman is one of those. Are you sleeping properly, eating properly and exercising? Getting enough micro-nutrients? I personally felt a powerful dissociation when I was clinically severely-deficient in Vitamin D. People say to work on yourself before a relationship because you're minimising flaws and faults by doing so, however there are many things you can't actually unc…	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 02:53 AM
3	As a man you should not have to prove that you are safe You don't have enough of an edge to tell people to screw off when they need to go, part of that is learning how to be assertive, when and how to assert and be honest. You need a purpose in life besides just understanding the mating game. To really put it bluntly, you're looking in the wrong place for the wrong woman. That girl has issues and doesn't respect herself, such a thing as being young and naive, so she stays with that man. There are issues much deeper under the surface which you have no…	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 02:47 AM
2	WHAT IS AN ALTERNATIVE? Probably a good idea to abstract the ideas and apply them in that way, they require a specific context. That's the problem with ideologies is that they simplify complex social systems, easier to digest but misses out on the nuance. I can see how the rules of power could be used in a benevolent sense but I haven't read into it enough to specify. Just like with anything in life, there is a particular nuance that is applied with context and connotation.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 02:38 AM
3	Holy Moley It's at the top of the sub-reddit page, specifically pinned!	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/21 03:35 AM
5	Holy Moley Pretty sure you're the one that wrote that long post about it before and also made a video. If you haven't already, this sub-reddit also has a Discord server if you're interested. We're pretty open.	/r/ExRedPill	23/03/21 02:56 AM
1	Red Pill Dating Coaches Get EXPOSED It's brainwashing to get you to buy a product. To keep coming back for the product, you have to buy into the lifestyle and change your entire belief system for these parasites.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/21 01:34 AM
1	Red Pill Dating Coaches Get EXPOSED This dude is beyond obnoxious, seems like a grab for attention i.e. "Look my business exists too!". Who is to say that he doesn't pay women to pose with him too? Pure superficial nonsense.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/21 01:33 AM
1	Women dont care about a mans struggles I have and she liked it when I showed emotion because I almost never did. It's fine to be selective, I'm naturally not very emotional. There is also nothing wrong with showing emotion, it's a clear indicator of your HUMANITY.	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 09:51 AM
1	Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPD A woman is attracted to me, she has made motions to initiate a long term relationship with me. She is actually more well off than I am on an individual basis, I don't think that's hypergamous but it's also anecdote so take that for what you will. Maybe it's time to look within yourself and discover your insufficiencies. Evo Psych has a replication crisis, this is common in some fields and you should definitely look it up... Many studies are affected by this.	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 09:34 AM
8	About Briffault's law If you haven't already then please read the pinned detox at the top of the subreddit! Briffaults law doesn't really make sense because it's far too low resolution of a concept. Humans are very social creatures and it would make sense for us to form a social hierarchy more so than other species, in addition to that it wouldn't quite fit with the black and white application of the so called "law". I don't think it's taken very seriously in the scientific community either.	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 09:14 AM
1	FAKING APLHANESS Unapologetic. Doing what I needed to do, work and such. Not wasting time and also burying any emotion, which in general is NOT healthy. It made it very difficult to communicate with the people that cared, they did NOT stick around once they saw it wasn't going to be up for discussion.	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 08:56 AM
2	Is TRP changing their stance on cuckolding after discovering it can be used for awful eugenics purposes? I'd add onto that, most of the "poor genes" non-sense is attached to facial structure also, this can be changed with the correct posture and time. It's caused by a down-swung face and poor back and neck posture in addition to poor breathing habits.	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 06:43 AM