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I know a girl who hits the trifecta of crazy , loves horses ( used to hang out at a tack shop) , into high horsepower muscle cars , and 3 kids with 3 different guys .... Fucks like a pornstar though , good thing I got away from her ...
/r/askTRP26/06/17 07:30 PM
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This was probably the best idea - should have done this from the beginning. If this was a normal workday i would have done what u\man_in_the_world said and just left for work. But this being Saturday morning i had plans as well that i couldn't just leave at that point. The rest of the day went along , but i was just distant and didn't really want to deal with her. we did end up going to dinner , but what was gonna be just the 2 of us , turned into 3, came home , watched a movie, bed and shes sno…
/r/askMRP11/06/17 05:07 AM
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haha , yea I should have a throwaway... but I'd like to think its a combo of 1 and 2.. I have been trying to get "redder" , and 2 yes, she was off the charts horny when pregnant.. so I can see that being part of it..
/r/askMRP08/02/17 07:13 PM
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No, she's pissed that she has to constantly make a decision. She wants you to make a decision with no input from her. Did you ask your kids about dinner, or did you just make it. Same thing. well we went through what the options were.. kids all decided on what I made.. she had the options to speak up , or accept what what chosen.. I'm not making different meals for everyone.. she could have asked nicely , or worked an alternative out.
/r/askMRP07/02/17 06:04 PM
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i have no idea if shes monitoring , but I do monitor to make sure we don't have another kid, and using the clue app , I have tags for every ache and pain I see.. we had one kid together ( she didn't take her pills , one drunk night , boom kid 9 months later) now I get her pill every night , and usually pop it in her mouth to make sure its taken.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 02:29 PM
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i actually kinda like my life , with the exception of the no sex thing.. i have a beautiful 2 year old , and she is the world to me. I do enjoy my work, though id like to move up the ladder there. to be happer id like to have a wider social circle , and have more things to do outside of the house it seems lately she has no problem doing chores when she wants to .. notibly 6 am on a saturday , where we used to lay in bed and spend a little time together, now she's up at the crack of dawn to do a …
/r/askMRP24/08/16 11:09 PM
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bottom line like most things is money.. i left a job a year ago , where i was making ~37K no benefits , no PTO . Found a better job ~50 K a year , benefits , 3 weeks vacation , this summer went for a couple interviews to get north of 60K.. and so far didnt fly.. but still trying . I need to be working closer to where i live , so im not spending 3 hours a day in the car not doing anything productive. Need to make more $$ to lead this family in a financially sound way. She wont leave her job ( mad…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 10:44 PM
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i'm doing what i can do under the conditions that i have.. working hard at the office to make more $$ , been on a few interviews to make even more . i hear everyone say lifting/gym.. and yes i want to do it.. just cant find the hours.. already geting up at 5:30 am.. cant say im just fucking off at the range.. i go maybe twice a year.. spent most of the summer trying to keep up with the shit around the house and making repairs on our cars.. spent time with guys doing that shit , went to a few rac…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 10:31 PM
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thats it .i know its all bullshit.. im not getting drawn into it..
/r/askMRP24/08/16 10:00 PM
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You need to lead your woman, maybe she doesn't know how to parent? This.. im not sure what it is, I look at it as the GF says " I work 10 hour days" that's all I can do.. my Point of View is hey kids are hard work, sometimes ya gotta sacrifice , not work the hours, go to their events, bring them places , and raise them. I've recently started saing " sorry mommy's playing the game she cant help you now" when the 2 year old wants something and is going to mommy for it.. It pisses her off, but the …
/r/askMRP04/02/16 08:03 PM
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I'm not 100% sure on it , the reason for the Trust or Blind trust was to stay anonymous in claiming the prize , it was just a quick google search however, the state im in does not allow the winner to stay anonymous unless there is a trust of some sort
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:24 PM
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Eh.. I may have to disagree on this one.. for myself I frame is as entertainment.. spending $100 on a slot machine vs spending $100 go to see a MMA fight vs $100 to go see a nascar race.. its all entertainment.. im not gaining anything , except to be entertained , I know im not gonna hit the jackpot.. not gonna fight Conor McGregor , and not gonna Drive with Dale Jr.. still enjoy it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:28 PM
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Bingo.. Pissed me off , but I then realized its just words.. words for an impossible scenario.. the absurdity of It actually make me laugh. if/when I work hard enough and make the money to buy the things I want.. she will have no say , and again she wants to really pull something like that , we can go our separate ways
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:22 PM
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I made my investment back.. then again it was only $4 .. I don't Gamble all the time.. maybe a $1 scratch off once a month.. a little entertainment ..
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 05:09 PM
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i didnt really let it go , just laughed at her.. the sheer absurdity of it as we arent married.. the money would be mine only , and if she wants to freak out over something like that , so be it. we can go our seperate ways. but i think its a deeper issue of her resenting my past . i used to be really into the car scene , different meet every weekend , big shows in the summer. and as she puts it " whatever little whore ended up in your car that night" lets face it , hot cars and pretty girls go t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 04:55 PM
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Just an update for everyone.. Another weekend and another Cold. I can tell she's Legit sick ( stuffed up, Coughing) but no fever. She's at work today , and she will most likely go in all week , but with a 3 day weekend coming up , we'll see if she gets any better.
/r/askMRP11/01/16 02:38 PM
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Hey man , Great post.. I think your point of our lives sucking may have been correct a year ago , when I was working a contract job with no benefits or time off. Now I have a better job , better pay ,Med/Vision/Dental/401k and 4 weeks PTO . She has a decent job.. but make around 30% less than me.. but standard 2 weeks PTO , medical/vision/dental coverage, boss is flexible Money is still tight , but its just due to the fact that I cant seem to get a clear idea of her finances. Currently I pay mos…
/r/askMRP07/01/16 04:27 PM
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maybe ignoring is the wrong word. im just too busy getting the kids , dinner made , cleaned up, homework done , kids showered and in bed, all so i can finish up my 8 hrs of "work" time by remoting in for a few hours , i have to leave early to get the kids and all that so here i am at 11:40 at night , i still have 3-4 hours of cleaning to do . LTR came home around 8 PM and was ok , 10 mins later needs 2 advil and a advil PM.. now shes snoring on the couch next to me , and im just exhausted , so i…
/r/askMRP07/01/16 04:42 AM
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If there were not kids in the equation, i would . But i don't think i can just leave her sleeping , and kids without supervision
/r/askMRP06/01/16 08:50 PM
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Thanks man.. that's kind of what I was looking for.. I also feel its a way out of me trying to get close to her and trying to initiate. I got to the point before Christmas of just saying straight up , im sure you'll be fine on Dec 26th...and lo and behold that day she was fine. Jump to New Years eve and she's passed out on the couch by 11:30 I gotta just take your advice and not get resentful when she's "sick" forever.. just gotta be the Captain and do it all, cause it wont get done if I don't d…
/r/askMRP06/01/16 04:30 PM
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Thanks everyone for the replies. Basically this is where I am now. The Relationship is stale and on life support. its the same shit every day , I'm shouldering the workload , while she gets to sit around and do nothing , watch some Mindless Kardashian shit , or play games on her phone. There are a couple of Glaring issues that stick out at me. Number 1 , and I think the biggest is her decision to work the hours she works. She generally gets in around 9, and leaves between 6:30 and 7 PM , getting…
/r/askMRP10/11/15 02:23 PM
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I hear ya.. I wouldn't ever say get YOUR kids in line to her. However she isn't a SAHM , she works.. I am Generally the one who takes the oldest to school , picks up all the kids from school/daycare, does homework , makes dinner , cleans , and tries to get them set for bed , so she can get home around 7:30- 8PM , sit down eat , send them to bed. as for Dinner.. she may have not been feeling great ,but was upset about staying home to get better as well.. figured a good dinner and a cocktail would…
/r/askMRP09/11/15 08:39 PM
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I think it could the the second. she's pushing the Engagement thing hard , but im not there yet.. I wont do it until things are better in our relationship IE: Sex and Finances those are the 2 biggest sticking points. What I do know , is going further in Debt just to get her a Diamond isn't gonna change anything long term.
/r/askMRP09/11/15 08:31 PM
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Would your parents not watch the older 2 children also? My Parents are older , and feel that watching 3 kids was too much for them to handle. so no Did you cum inside of her or not? Your wording isn't clear. You cum too early, how do you think your LTR feels about that? I came on her. not thrilled about it , not happy with the outcome , an I know she's disappointed as well. Basically I attribute it to the fact that I don't masturbate anymore, so waiting 2-3 weeks or whatever puts me on a hair tr…
/r/askMRP09/11/15 08:01 PM
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Ding Ding , I think this is the winner.. I think its the Need for something to happen , 95% of our time is driving to and from work, come home , dinner, kids to bed , go to bed. Same shit every day, it gets boring.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 02:05 PM
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you see her often, what do you expect is happening that you're trying to bullshit away? That's the thing , im not really sure.. personally I feel its a hybrid Shit/Comfort Test IE : "Look what happened to me today , and you weren't there to save me" the other possibility is cheating.. If she's gonna do it , its gonna happen , but it does explain the working late / loss of sex drive with me, and phone always with her. Edit: The dark version of her actions is she's pinging you to see if you know h…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 06:39 PM
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I do try some A&A on her with the pulled over stories.. im like Oh , so how are those hard plastic seats on your knees.. or did he use his nightstick.. shit like that.. she just laughs.. So she's either working off speeding with every cop for 4 towns , or its all just BS
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:16 PM
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I'm not really trying to prove anything.. I just don't understand if its small lies or something bigger... I understand im still new to this , and trying to make the gains. however this lying thing has me thinking not like I run to my desk and hit " last calls" but there is red light if you miss a call . its pretty obvious , I check my calls everyday to see if I missed any work related ones.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:06 PM
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So I'm not done swallowing the pill here ( or some will say I haven't started) , but I have to share the story of what GNO's became with an ex-gf of mine I'll admit to being super beta back then. and didn't fight the fact that over a few months she turned GNO from a once a year kind of thing , to " Friday night is girls night , every week" , to top it off , we lived together . So I remember one of these GNO's that had been going on for a few weeks , I was at home, had her middle teen son there. …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 01:44 PM
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just an update here.. maybe I've been going about things , and our sex life in the wrong way.. so we'd been flirting back and forth most of the day.. get home , both a little sick.. get kids in bed.. we go to bed.. I initiate , she's ok with it , but isn't really into it.. falls "asleep" a few mins later as I was rubbing her ass.. so I keep going.. and 10 mins later she's all turned on and we have a great session. feels like I have to push off her LMR, and it works fine.. didn't used to be like …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 02:44 PM
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I hear you on that.. in fact that thought's been running through my head pretty much for the last 3 days. like I've read before , if she wanted me , she'd make the time , and the issues wouldn't be there. But its pretty out in the open , should Kyle Busch , Daryl Dixon or Channing Tatum walk in the door , she'd be a waterfall in 3 seconds. now , obv im not any of those guys... and she's falling asleep in 3 seconds , or any number of other reasons..
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 02:56 PM
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well it was better than a annoyed GF who doesn't want you touching her. she was open and ready to go for it. But babies do what they do. I felt that my just getting up and leaving when she initially shut me down helped , instead of just rolling over and going to sleep, which is what I've been doing
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 01:23 PM
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that's the thing.. I've been initiating for like 15 days straight , and haven't gotten anywhere, There always seems to be some reason why its not good.. headache , backache , cramps, etc , bla bla , whatever the excuse of the day is I was kinda taken aback by her coming out to me , and she was dripping when we got back in bed and there was no resistance. I tried to push through the screaming baby , but there's something to be said about trying to pound your lady , while the one year old is screa…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 01:08 PM
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hey /u/0kool74 yea its been a while since I updated... been through a shitty few weeks.. money is still horrible, gonna take a month or 2 to get out of this , and I want to get my finances straighted up and start saving I have plans for the future just not sure if she's part of them
/r/askMRP21/09/15 05:57 PM
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And this is what im getting at.. first of all , paying $400 a week for childcare is stupid when you barely make that much. But it goes back to a deeper lack of forward thinking or planning. Why is the Electric getting shut off , because she isnt paying it for months on end. the bill is max 100 bucks a month in the summer.. but when it doesnt get paid , its a lot harder to pay off $1000, same thing with the Gas.. What i really want to do is take total control of the finances in the house. I Have …
/r/askMRP02/09/15 10:25 PM
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Wow , this is a great post , esp the part about her kids , and all that.. I'll go back 5 years. I got into this and treated her kids as my own. Over time that stopped working. Her son ran away one night , lied to the Police telling them I beat him. At that point I wasn't able to go back to the same relationship with him. She understands this, I feel we all need some level of consuling to get this family on the right track. Adding to this is the baby. Feelings of family taking sides and all that …
/r/askMRP02/09/15 07:32 PM
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This is where I want to get , I know bills 1st , play after. and based on our income's and pay schedules we have money coming in every week.. I don't see why we're struggling to make ends meet . Well I do see why , poor choices and even poorer communication.
/r/askMRP02/09/15 06:31 PM
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I think it was more of a concerned neighbor not wanting their quiet neighborhood disturbed by loud fights.. and 600 ft burnouts down the street with kids around and stuff.. I still regret lightin em up like that and making a bad situation worse , and possibly a lot worse. but whatever , it happened
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 09:18 PM
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LOL, this one happened to me.. GF at the time finally pushed me to far , and that was it I was done.. walked out to my car ( 04 GTO for you car guys), Car was backed into the driveway , she gets in front of my car , screaming " you cant leave ,you will have to run me over first".. I proceed to back up and then go around her.. she smashes my driver side rear view mirror off the car , and I leave in a cloud of tire smoke.. calls me 30 seconds later says the cops are coming for me as I ran her foot…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:25 PM
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Hmm I didn't know this was possible. my GF loves when I use my finger around her cervix , and her reason for not getting the IUD is the loss of that. Over our vacation last week she missed 2-3 pills , and we had sex last night, right around ovulation time (thanks clue app) ... hope we're good ...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/15 08:28 PM
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I did this when I was 25 and my dumb ass paid for my GF at the time to get a set of DD's ( already had nice B/C's) and our relationship died a slow painful death about a year later. I'm pretty sure I only got to play with them twice . You know your Wife best , but from what I remember going through it, her boobs became their own person , everyone ( including all her GF's ) wanted to see them , and feel them ,and they were always on display. My only Solace in this is she basically no longer has f…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/15 01:31 PM
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I agree for sure , here we are , and I feel like she has respect issues all over the place.. and this seems to be the crux of the issue
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 02:48 PM
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This is my plan going forward , i'll have to do the things that need to be done , The issue blew up after the baby shower, when she did purchase the thank you cards , and had a list of who gave what , but only filled out and mailed about 1/4 of the ones that needed to go out.. people who didn't get them ,were very hurt by then , esp. since certain others did get them. Also my parents were hurt that she didn't send a card , or call to say thanks for the gifts and having the party at their house.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 02:29 PM
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I'd like to think so , but its been 2 years since the baby , and almost 5 years in total.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 02:22 PM
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I cant say it all changed after the baby , she was always a lil rough around the edges , but generally pleasant and it wasn't a crazy amount of disrespect with the family. But now that we're seeing them more , and spending extended amounts of time there , its gotten worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 01:54 PM
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Honestly I don't know for sure, Though we generally get along pretty well in our day to day lives. Things like this make me wonder if its going to work. on the other hand , I want to try everything I can before I say Fuck it.. and become Every other weekend dad to my child. Though I will say the most egregious things happen when I'm not around , If I'm off with dad or whatever and its just the GF and my mom or other family members i'll hear back about a look , or comment , or something that was …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 01:47 PM
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I gotta try this one ... all week I've been getting " your a sex addict" and " all you think about / want Is sex " looking at my Clue app we've had sex 3 times since July 9th , 14 days of " headache" :/
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 07:55 PM
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This is the crux of the issues , im not sure where it went off the rails, yes she is calling me a fag to my face.. im still formulating a response to this... we had similar issues a few months ago at my old job. I had gotten comfortable at the old job.. working like 5 hrs a day.. getting paid for 8... management allowed it. then Management says no more. I tell her I cant do the things I did before (child pick up and drop off from school and daycare) because its going to cost me my job. again wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 02:06 PM
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So what happened? I assume you paid the water bill? Did the landlord reimburse you? Was she the one that had to deal with getting in contact with him and getting the reimbursement? Well to make a long story short , Landlord had other issues in the house he decided to not resolve. We called the Board of health , Landlord tried to evict after BoH was called, we went to court , cut a deal with Landlords Lawyer that he would make repair , and we'd pay the rent we withheld on account of the housing i…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 01:59 PM
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Damn man , someone finally hit the nail on the head. and based off how you presented it .. yes we do have those kind of issues a lot. I see a lot of this " its not fair" stuff.. yet its usually fair.. just not in her favor . For example landlord didn't pay the water bill. we got a letter saying the water would be turned off in 2 days.. she flips out.. rightfully so , Landlord is not returning calls. I tell her , we have to pay something on the bill to continue living here.. no water and we're fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 01:31 PM
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Sorry man I don't totally agree.. up here , the sticker expires the last day of the month.. in this case the car was legal up until Fri 7/31, yea I forgot to remind her , or get it done on Friday , so I did it Saturday 8/1... so at most it was 12 hours of not being legal , not a month.. I got up on Saturday , and was like oh shit we forgot to get it done.. i'll go do it now, I do the majority of the vehichle maintance anyway.. not like im telling her to take it to the mechanic every time it make…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 09:23 PM
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in theory this is great.. everyone does their own thing.. and no one helps the other.. but in reality that isn't part of it.. while she was cleaning for a couple to come over later in the day , this needed to be done , as the captain , you do what needs to be done, not to just make it easier to sit there. I don't need the ticket that comes along with her not getting it done. I cant even call it " male hamster-ing" as I can logically look at what needs to get done , and get it done.. saying fuck …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 06:40 PM
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Yea , this isn't my car. Although I did get her a few basic hand tools to leave in the car , just for shit like this.. I was unable to find it (when I looked later , the screwdriver was in the house.) Inspection guy initially said no.. but I was holding up his line, by taking them off when a key.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 03:26 PM
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Already got the app..
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 02:53 PM
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Hey , yea I have started Tracking , with the Clue app , but it hasn't been a full month , App shows she wont get it for about 10 days. where based on her BC pill.. I'm pretty sure it will happen by Fri or Sat I think she's just super sensitive about her car, its nothing special , just another mainstream Japanese 2 door , Hell the only reason I did it was to avoid her flipping out like happened a couple years ago. She got the car , had to get the inspection within 7 days ,so we head over to the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 02:47 PM
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Thanks for all the replies , but just to clarify , this isn't a constant thing happening either.. really we only go out for dinner once a week if that. and as a rule the parents decide where we're going and we go.. just the few times we've been out all day , waited too long to eat everyone is crabby I always tell the kids.. this is what the adults have decided on , you don't like it fine, don't eat. They haven't gone hungry yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 01:02 PM
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I can agree with it to a point , I can see where your right as this particular guy his nickname is "asshole" to anyone that knows both of them.. its just common now " hey has asshole called the kids today" yea a couple arrests, I can see where that's attractive.. and I also agree with the success aspect , this dude is the opposite of successful bottom line to me at least , im the one railing her at night (no matter how frequent or infrequent it is) Yet he's still paying CS(if and when it happens…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 08:38 PM
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Hey , it happens , I thought it was just a fling (before our child came along) but it got serious , and I cant say im completely unhappy with it. there are parts that need working on (and yes I am one of them) . The book thing , while the lack of any communication does kinda suck . it is what it is.. im not freaking out over it. me and her kids.. the relationship is strained at best. I have had to essentially "unplug" from them and come at it from a different angle to end the constant fighting b…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:05 PM
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Change is the only way things will get better.. I've told myself from the beginning.. im not putting a ring on it.. until im happy with where things are.. currently im not there. in case your wondering.. yes the Ring question is coming up all the time..its the right time for her... not for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:49 PM
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well I get home about an hour later than her now. far as I can tell she's doing more things around the house . Older kids are in the other room watching tv, baby is generally with them playing quietly or walking back and forth. I have my hand on her upper thigh all the time she doesn't recoil.. no sex lately due to period (gonna be initiating every night for the next while) , so I guess its no big deal.. like you said.. just quietly reading a book.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:32 PM
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yea.. grammar isn't my strong suit. and yes Twilight sucks !
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:09 PM
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/u/[deleted] , you have some of it right. I'm used to putting 100% of me into everything. I sacrifice what I want , for what the family needs. and I do feel guilty at times for saying no. but that im working on. I guess what im getting at , is that I come home , and i'll be honest I don't think we said 10 words to each other all night.. that has me concerned,
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:00 PM
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yea , that's kind of where I'm stuck , and im not really faulting her for reading , I know you can get sucked into that world. I guess maybe she has earned the down time , things were done ( not 100% done , but acceptable) I guess its like one distraction to another.. went from CandyCrush and other like games on her phone , to the books . Though I will admit that I like her reading more than her looking at engagement rings non stop.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 01:58 PM
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I hear ya man .. I think she's become lazy.. gotten used to me doing the work , trying to be the "nice guy" by dropping the kids off, working all day , getting out early , getting the kids , doing the housework, making dinner, cleaning up after dinner and all that. She could just sit at work (and i'm not saying she doesn't work while she's there) and come home to a clean house , dinner made, hang with the kids for an hour and they're off to bed. As for the last job I had.. I still made more , an…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 02:01 PM
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I get it.. everything below is true.. and esp. that I have created it.. back when she wasn't working till 7 or 8 PM.. she was home by 5:45 the latest , and we'd make dinner together.. Clean up together. Over the years, the getting home time pushed further and further back. more and more of the work was laid on me. Her 2 kids.. aren't the best , and neither is our relationship, so them getting anything done is difficult at best. I had a feeling that there maybe a Chad or something at work with he…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 06:15 PM
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1.Whose house is it? - Currently Renting- want to be out by end of year, would like to buy a house 2.Whose kids are they? 3 kids total. 2 are hers from previous ( 9/f and 12/m) and we have a 2 year old girl together 3.Does she work? - She does - full time with benefits ~30K per year 4.What is your financial situation -- how much do you have saved and where do you spend your money?- Finances suck at the moment , hence the new job - nothing saved.. most of my money goes toward bills, she pays for …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 05:43 PM
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