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Strongly agree here!
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:07 AM
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Yes I talked about value in the video because I also think it is crucial! True, it depends on the situation, but in the right moment it can raise your perceived value a lot while not actually changing much about yourself :)
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:06 AM
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Do you guys think it works - what's your stories? I definitely had some crazy experience by not being too available, not even on purpose!
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:26 PM
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Do you think it only works for good looking people?
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:21 PM
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well if you prefer complaining over trying stuff you maybe don't want to try I can't help you and noone else can
/r/seduction15/12/16 10:52 PM
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well so I guess you are halfway there now
/r/seduction15/12/16 06:59 PM
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Was it ever different when you were younger?
/r/seduction15/12/16 05:36 PM
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Wow you have a strong tunnelvision for who you are. Let's pretend you go out and enjoy it, that would still be you! Okay, we know you don't but have you tried other things? And apart from that, just going out or dancing alone doesn't make you more interesting, that is so far from the truth I can't even... Actually having hobbies like you do is what makes people interested in you, yet the problem lays elsewhere. I am for example interested in many things and have tried out a lot, but my hobbies a…
/r/seduction15/12/16 12:15 PM
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You say you are confident, good looking but boring, so you know what is holding you back, change that, try new things and get experience and you are gucci.
/r/seduction15/12/16 10:45 AM
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You just want me to confirm what you think even though I don't agree.
/r/seduction15/12/16 12:30 AM
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Well then it is because your choice of women is limited which makes me go back to the point of approaching them or going out, even starbucks are good places to meet people because they go there to be seen and see people, just like clubs but with a different vibe
/r/seduction13/12/16 08:14 PM
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because you are super negative, and that makes everything worse, there are two solutions either: you start being positive for not too many reasons, people like your for that, and you have a reason to be positive or: you hope for a reason to be positive, eventhough there are probabl enough, and then you are positive and people like you for that
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:58 PM
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and need to go out and practice if you want or not
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:22 PM
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They indicate that you have no idea what you are doing.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:22 PM
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Do you ever listen to yourself? Do you think you are the only special snowflake on earth that has no chance and everybody else is just lucky, gifted, better looking, more outgoing than you?
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:59 AM
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You have a really really strong victim mentality, if you ever want to make a change in your life, change that first!
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:22 AM
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Okay if you don't want to give it a shot at the tips that already helped many many people there is nothing else that helps you, stop looking for that magic pill that gives you girls, you need experience, go out there and get it man!
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:17 AM
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if you see it as bothering you should never talk to anyone anyway
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:03 PM
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Going out there gaining experience = makes you more comfortable because you know what's up = more interesting to girls = girls
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:23 PM
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Then you should start improving yourself. There are countless possibilities to do that out there.
/r/seduction12/12/16 06:16 PM
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You will not have success with all the girls in the world, and how many girls rejected you from your social circle? They are not necessarily representative for all others. Also, keep in mind that they might reject you simply because they are quite close to you and don't want to give up the friendship etc etc.
/r/seduction12/12/16 03:24 PM
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This situation reminds me of the guy that says: I can't lose weight, I am not willing to go to the gym or do cardio, I am not that fit kind of sports guy, I will just try to do what I already do and hope my kilos shed themselves. I am sure it doesn't work anyway. I went to the gym three times and didn't lose any weight. And my advice would be the same: Try it otherwise you will never know if it works. And now you are going to say: ye but the gym thing is proven that it makes you lose weight over…
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:22 AM
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If you get to know her she is not a stranger anymore, and apart from that stop seeing strangers as bad and not interesting! Imagine your friend introduces you to a woman from his social circle if that will ever happen. She would be a stranger too at first, but for whatever reason you decide in your head that that is just fine and she would care about you more than a woman from the street/club/bar/shops etc. Saying that you don't want to become loud and extroverted because you approach someone an…
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:54 AM
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Yes, we already talked on Skype for a longer time and I know he has potential, he reminds me of myself when I was younger even though he is a bit older than me haha I really know he could do well with girls if he just swallowed his ego and gave it a try, but thanks for your comment on that!
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:08 AM
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Yes you couldn't run a marathon if you can't even run 10k but with practice you could! Trying it right away you would fail but trying it over and over again you would eventually do it! And you gain confidence from knowing you did it anyway and eventually from your first successes. Yes you are not me but I was not too social, extroverted confident etc when I was younger too! Things change, a lot!
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:06 AM
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Approach them yourself, that solves all your problems: 1.) You get experience which is really needed in your case 2.) You might get to know cool people and even more through them 3.) You expand your comfort zone 4.) You learn to deal with rejection better 5.) You boost your confidence everytime you learn you can actually do it and be proud of yourself Just to make this clear, I shat my pants the first time I approached someone and was pretty sure I would fail and guess what: I failed. Well she s…
/r/seduction12/12/16 12:49 AM
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Dude, do you want to die alone but with a well preserved ego or do you want to risk getting your ego hurt at one point in order to maybe gain some experience and to get to know some girls? 1.) Get something to believe in and to make you more optimistic (potentially getting to know cool people etc) 2.) Start taking some sort of action (cold approaches, social interactions at work etc. and posting on reddit doesn't help if you don't follow the advices) And if I didn't know this advice would work f…
/r/seduction12/12/16 12:31 AM
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See so your current plan is not working, you can either keep doing what you do and "hope" for a miracle or you take chances and risk something in your life to get what you want. It sounds like an inspirational quote but it is true if you think about it!
/r/seduction12/12/16 12:16 AM
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Hm but how did that work out for you so far? Why not step out of your comfort zone and try it a couple of times? Did you read the post of this guy today how did his first approach and is now going on a date with a girl he found cute in a mall :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 11:22 PM
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To other people the women you might find interesting in your social circle are also just random women on the street, but you would totally date them. That could be the case for someone you just met when doing your groceries too! Why women would like that? They find it interesting, they are intrigued by the confidence it takes to approach someone like that etc.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:58 PM
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To be fair you will have to date multiple women to see who really matches you well. Otherwise you end up with the first that says yes anyway. Grab a number on the street, text and find out if you like her and then see what happens after that :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:12 PM
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There are so many people out there doing it successfully, why shouldn't you? It's all in your head, that is for sure.
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:44 PM
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Ever thought about approaching girls on the street? That makes you quite independent from your social circle :) Hm maybe it is not what girls mean when they talk about your hobbies, I have friends with zero hobbies apart from gaming and they are interesting to talk to.
/r/seduction11/12/16 08:36 PM
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I wouldn't lie to you man. Try to approach it a different way anyway, seek less for approval for your hobbies and instead just enjoy them. Why is there a need to have hobbies that are interesting to girls? That wouldn't be you if you were just playing american football or whatever girls find attractive.
/r/seduction11/12/16 08:01 PM
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What are your hobbies?
/r/seduction11/12/16 07:32 PM
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Well to be completely honest with you, all of that is totally in your control! I mean you can't change how interesting a certain hobby you have is to other people but you can change how passionately you talk about it and I am sure if you do it right you can get even them excited about it :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 07:12 PM
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Can you give examples?
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:33 PM
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Thank you! Indeed.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:17 PM
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Do you agree? What do you personally think about it?
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:01 PM
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In case some of you missed it. I heard it was quite helpful! :)
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:38 AM
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I even said it in English in that moment because pretty much everyone in Austria knows that phrase and translating it would have been weird :D
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:05 PM
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This is a special episode to celebrate 500 subscribers which is all thanks to you guys. I wanted to try something new and share personal stories that gave me many insights hoping it will help you too! Of course, this is not my average night out, but over time they got more and more like that. I really want everyone on this forum to be able to experience the same and that is why I create videos to support you on your journey. Hope you enjoy it, and let me know if you had a similar story in your l…
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:36 PM
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I figured I will try something new! In this video I will share a story that happened to me not too long ago. The main reason is to highlight three things I have learned from it: - Being open to adventures - Being positive - Being unreactive Hope you guys enjoy it! Did something like that happen to someone else here?
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:34 AM
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I will definitely consider it or maybe I will even partner up with a blogger to split up the work, otherwise it will be hard to keep it up alongside my studies etc.
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:19 PM
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Or what about putting the core information into the description box? Your comment definitely got me thinking and I want to include as much of the feedback as possible so let's see what I can come up with :)
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:28 AM
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Hm I see. The thing is, I am not autistic so it is hard for me to relate and know what your personal difficulties with that are. I don't want to create videos about things I don't have experience with, that wouldn't feel right to me. Personally, I think someone with autism that worked his way into social skills should create videos to help others because they would be more insightful in that case.
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:07 AM
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I actually had a blog, but I thought people prefer visuals. Maybe I will start it again and publish each video as a blog post again!
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:05 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction20/11/16 09:15 PM
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What are your top priorities in your life? I wonder how that varies across age groups :)
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:11 PM
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Okay no worries. In case you feel like I can help you in any way, just send me a message!
/r/seduction13/11/16 11:17 PM
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Sounds like you have already achieved a really good foundation for yourself. I think there is a lot of potential you can build on. Is there anything in particular that makes you insecure? Once you know that it is much easier to solve the problem :)
/r/seduction13/11/16 10:43 PM
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Okay, I had the same problem so I think I can relate. What helped me the most was seeing it as trial and error. Even if I failed because of my own mistakes, I was still happy I tried it and learned from it than not even trying it. Hope that helps!
/r/seduction13/11/16 10:42 PM
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I see what you mean. With good height I refer to something I see as a good height for me now, eventhough I struggled to be happy with it earlier in my life.
/r/seduction13/11/16 10:41 PM
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Feel free to share your biggest insecurity and help each other deal with them! If you have other solutions on how to get rid of them, let me know :)
/r/seduction13/11/16 04:40 PM
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Personally the idea that struck me like a lightening was that you can definitely kiss a girl on the second date! See, if she didn't think about it, she wouldn't have gone on the first date. But okay maybe you met online etc. so she wasn't sure what you looked like. But on the second date, everything is already clear, she knows what you look like and how you are, this is 100% certain. Sometimes I asked girls I dated if I could have kissed them on the first date, which I sometimes did anyway, and …
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:19 PM
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Ah I see, thanks a lot!
/r/seduction07/11/16 04:18 PM
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Can you explain that further? :)
/r/seduction07/11/16 10:21 AM
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I get talked over way too much and sometimes I am scared to stand up for myself, any tips guys apart from the ones mentioned in this video?
/r/seduction06/11/16 04:47 PM
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I get talked over way too much and sometimes I am scared to stand up for myself, any tips guys apart from the ones mentioned in this video?
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:42 PM
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They might get tricked by appearance etc haha
/r/seduction31/10/16 10:34 AM
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Now that was an amazing comment! Thank you a lot. Kind of changed my perspective a bit eventhough most of it seems familiar to me.
/r/seduction31/10/16 01:28 AM
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And what is the best way to tell?
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:06 AM
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What do you consider a good relationship? I kind of want to go a little deeper than that. I want to understand what makes an amazing relationship, apart from the points in this video :)
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:59 PM
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Do you guys have more tips for me? Sometimes I am scared that someone will "steal" my girlfriend at one point. I think many here can relate.
/r/seduction30/10/16 08:53 PM
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Okay I will have a deeper look into it, sounds interesting!
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:24 PM
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Haha true, that was on point. You can be fake confident, but nothing beats real confidence with all the weaknesses. Being authentic is most important.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:59 AM
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Thank you appreciate it every single like and subscriber!! Much love to you guys :) I use VideoScribe
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:58 AM
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Ye I did it, usually I do this in clubs when I have times I am too much of a chicken to approach girls I like, usually works even better for me haha
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:58 AM
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Now that's pretty detailed. Appreciate your effort! About the mirroring part, while everything else kinda comes naturally to you without focusing too much on it I feel like mirroring out of all those might appear fake and on purpose, how do you overcome that?
/r/seduction25/10/16 06:45 AM
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Ah yes that sounds familiar. I tried this a couple of times, works like a magic pill, and sometimes you would even get to know some people haha
/r/seduction25/10/16 06:44 AM
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Music is a great topic, thank you for suggesting it!
/r/seduction25/10/16 06:43 AM
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Ye, I guess that is what the Amy Cuddy part is all about, I watched her Ted Talk and really believe it. I can tell these there a changes to my mood as soon as I do it myself :)
/r/seduction25/10/16 06:43 AM
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Guys, do you have other tips on how I could improve my body language to be and appear more confident?
/r/seduction24/10/16 07:26 PM
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