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Decentralizing men in general. Women are shamed for doing something for a man by other women. Seen as the wrong reasons. Also if a friend wanting more from you than her man and not being a good friend in return. She gets cut off. Why a lot of women in relationships don’t have friends. They can’t find that balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:42 PM
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Yeah misread. Still missing the criticism. Will say women just tend to avoid in the first place. Normally a sign the person has boundary or entitlement issues in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:29 PM
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Definitely missing the criticism. Can be seen a lot when someone has a kid with a man that already bashes his previous BM. Also simply being told to choose better and then one wouldn’t be a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:20 PM
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I can’t see how atomization is seen as a parasitic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:24 AM
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Then put effort into finding one that’s okay with that or be okay with being alone. Won’t say you wrong for having standards but don’t complain when standards don’t move for you. Going to be hard to find someone to have you in their life and you offer really nothing. Yeah, can try to get your money up but don’t complain that that’s all women want when you made it your only selling point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:36 AM
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Problem is mopping pertains to a shared environment. You being there means you have shared responsibility over it. Just because you don’t personally have the same cleaning standards doesn’t mean you can’t meet hers. A woman’s body is her own and hers only. If you want access, listen and act accordingly. Otherwise I hope you aren’t opposed to paying for it if getting your rocks off is that important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:26 AM
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Possibility for different is still there. Can’t deny that. Understand how that causes fear for you but if you have good character and decent discernment, you’ll be fine. While romance evolved from sex, no one has ever been entitled to it. Just because different criteria can be met, doesn’t mean the past criteria still can’t exist. Do see the commodification dangers, but if it can be done with healthcare, why not sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:39 PM
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Interesting view. Just because the culture leans towards separating the two doesn’t mean you personally have to. Wouldn’t be alone in that, just have to recognize one isn’t inherently the other to avoid hurt for yourself. Know the history surrounding prostitution. Interesting to think about how the internet has the possibility to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:06 PM
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Why is decoupling sex from romance and advocation of prostitution bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:33 PM
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The ceremony isn’t necessary for someone to be married by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:08 PM
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If they don’t know to do research before signing a legal document then worried. Can’t think of one legal document that someone can’t be taken advantage of like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:57 PM
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Difference between believing one will get divorce and knowing it’s always a possibility. Vows are made but one can’t know for certain if the other party is going to stick to them. Can feel the comfort knowing you will hold on to your vows and will be okay if that person decides to break theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:51 PM
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Fundamentally disagree that one can’t even think of the possibility of a relationship failing or understand the risks of marriage. If that’s true, they need better thinking skills. People can get blinded by emotions but divorce is the out for that. Up to individual to understand the risks in play and act accordingly. If all the risks are the ones associated with divorce, one is more likely to think they aren’t going to get divorced to be able to feel comfortable with their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:34 PM
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Both genders can have bad risk assessment skills when entering a marriage. Why not talk about that rather than reminding people what the risks are? Not saying they aren’t there, but that there will always be risks adding contracts to emotions. Up to the individual to decide if it’s the right decision though. Fear doesn’t really encourage those critical thinking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:07 PM
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You’ll always have the view of being a 5 and every woman is a liar. Really got to work on that. People can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:03 AM
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Everyone can lie and I worry with how much you’ve shown your distrust towards women, a man will be more likely and easier to manipulate you. Assuming someone will think every woman is a liar is a reflection of your character. Try to expand your views and maybe you will have a better time just relating to the women you are trying to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:55 PM
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Or or or teaching better critical thinking skills so people can see when another is lying to stop harm from happening in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:42 PM
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Yes, others can lie. Up to the other to proceed with caution. Not another’s woman fault, another party was wrong. The individual who makes that generalization is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:37 PM
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Up to the guy to know what the reason is. Called self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:31 PM
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You can’t have criteria for something you aren’t asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:28 PM
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This really made me think of astrology. It’s like a new version with less firm criteria to make someone fit. At least someone’s birthday doesn’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:16 PM
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Increased value will always be arbitrary. No one is owed a full explanation on why a relationship won’t work. Just have to be confident enough in the first place you are “on level”. If not, work to change it and you will find someone to match that energy. No one has to grow with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:08 PM
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Gotta remember this term.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:39 PM
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I see the approach of the OP being more successful than yours. Only really commenting to revisit the thread but by your method it is more likely to automatically put you in a bad light no matter how you are. The OP opens the door for the other to explore you further without those thoughts. If they think you are less for that, it’s an obvious compatibility problem stopped before started.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:51 AM
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