VermeersPitcher Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	[deleted by user] I don't know. Every time I've had sex with a virgin, it was very sweet of course, but also super obvious. I think it's because first timers seem to forget the vagina is angled toward the woman's back. They're always trying to penetrate at 90 degrees. No darling. Not like that.	/r/seduction	09/02/22 02:42 AM
1	[deleted by user] What the heck did they do to you, boy? If course it's ok for my guy to cry. I don't always understand what's up, like when my husband started weeping uncontrollably when Keanu Reeves walked into the stage to advertise Cyberpunk 2077, but I totally accept it. Humans have feelings.	/r/seduction	13/01/22 02:35 AM
1	Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold Approach I would straight up try to connect about something meaningful. If he didn't turn me off in the first 5 minutes with some sort of terrible life philosophy, I'd ask him if he wanted to continue talking. If so we might go grab a coffee, and keep chatting. It always felt pretty natural. I mean, as a woman, picking up a dude is not really what conversations like this are geared towards though. Picking up a guy, provided he's single of course, isn't hard.	/r/seduction	13/01/22 02:31 AM
0	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? The only tool in pickup artistry/seduction/game that makes any sense to me is that you should talk to as many new people as possible, as often as possible. It really is a "numbers game" because the more people you meet, the more likely it is that any one of them is single and looking. Get over your shyness. Stop thinking that people ought to slap you for greeting them. All you need is a reason to greet. Join groups - lots of them. Sports groups, trivia groups, academic groups, reading groups, bo…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 05:20 PM
1	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? It's so odd how men think their behavior in this respect has anything to do with seducing women. The reason women sometimes want to have sex with a given man has nothing to do with his "game" and everything to do with what's happening in her life at that given moment. Is she recently single? Ovulating? Bored? Burnt out from work/school and looking for something crazy tonight to let off steam? She'll make that pretty clear. Otherwise, you don't have any control over the situation. Nothing you can…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 04:32 PM
1	Should Guys Try To Please Her First? I think for the first few times with a new relationship prospect/huge crush it doesn't matter at all. When I was single, I expected nothing awesome the first few times since there's a lot of pressure there for the guy to perform, and you're just launching into something that could be a big deal. OTOH if it's strictly casual and you don't expect sex to happen again, you should definitely make sure both parties get off. Doing anything less is kinda rude, since there won't be a chance to get back t…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 10:11 PM
3	[deleted by user] Woman here. The time tested cold intro is just eye contact, then a small smile. If she smiles back, you're officially permitted to say hi. If she's not making eye contact, she's not receptive, no matter how cute you think she is. Respect the earbuds, too. There are a lot of women who would like a natural, real life meeting with a guy. It can be creepy, or great. Example of how it can be great: One night I got a coffee at the shop and started studying. I saw a guy doing the same. He looked at me.…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 01:50 AM
1	Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold Approach As a reasonably attractive woman, I assure you, my cold approach worked close to 100% of the time when I was single	/r/seduction	30/12/21 09:48 PM
0	What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money? Totally agree. Earning money is an indicator of virtues like intelligence, patience and hard work. Simply having money, like from inheritance? Not interesting, because it implies nothing about the personal abilities needed to make marriage successful. When I was single, I wanted to find someone I could build a life with. Someone who wanted children, a home, etc. I married a man like myself. We both work, both parent, both save money, etc. Neither of us started out with much, but yes when we marr…	/r/seduction	29/12/21 07:54 PM
1	[deleted by user] A dude once lied that he wasn't a virgin. I even asked him point blank as things started to heat up because I sort of just...sensed it. After we had sex for the first time, I'm not sure how I was 109% sure? But I was very sure. I said so, and he confessed instantly. Because not only did I know, he KNEW I knew. We BOTH knew. Not that it mattered much. I knew why he lied and I didn't mind that sort of thing. We had a good laugh, had a lot more sex. It wasn't a super long relationship, but he was d…	/r/seduction	29/12/21 03:04 PM
1	Is 28 too late to have your first kiss? So many guys don't get there by age 24. It's certainly frustrating, but just nothing like unusual. Lots of girls are pretty inexperienced at such a young age too.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 03:29 AM