VermillionSun Archive

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1	young boys swinging to the right. let’s talk about it. Fear and hopelessness is my guess, that’s what usually drives people conservative right?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/08/23 03:54 AM
4	How do I escape the “blackpill” if it has done irreversible damage to how I view the world? Some people genuinely want a partner and connection and friendship. It isn’t as simple as love your life as a single person when your very biology is telling you that you crave human closeness and relationships	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/04/23 05:44 PM
2	Has the field of psychology failed men? Yes I agree with this we have offloaded giving a shit or even an ear for someone else who’s going through something. It’s just to easy to say go see a therapist who’s “qualified” to listen to help. I think, weirdly that therapists maybe unintentionally placed themselves in the qualified to handle emotions territory in western peoples minds and regular people now believe themselves to be incompetent when really many people just need to be heard and seen and empathized with. Obviously some people …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/23 03:49 AM
4	why do women dominate teaching? This is one of those multi complex issues. There isn’t any one thing it’s just how a variety of issues has caused momentum towards a certain outcome - men leaving teaching and women dominating which continually reinforces itself	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/23 07:50 AM
3	Note written by MSU shooter asked 'why,' outlined other targets Yeah, like suicide notes are "excuses" to commit suicide. These people have a major lack of empathy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/23 04:42 AM
2	Note written by MSU shooter asked 'why,' outlined other targets True mental health care is community and modern life has disintegrated true community. Psychology and therapy are not helpful to meet the needs of these lonely and isolated people. The best medicine is to not get sick in the first place and we are creating a sicker and sicker world. Mental health is not individual, mental health is communal.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/23 04:40 AM
1	How do deal with people denying reality? You never convince with rational arguments. Why is it so hard for dems and leftists to pick up steam in politics, It's about emotional arguments. Arguments that feel good and feel right and hit that alarm bell in peoples mind. It's why people vote the way they do and think the way they do. Feminist arguments hit the danger alarm bell in womens mind. And some men pay it lip service because they know it works in their favor to do so. And many men and women seeing the negativity still lobbied again…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/23 04:35 AM
2	Can we please talk about the rest of the Left "waking up" to Men's issues?? And its still talked about under the guise of men needing to learn emotional intelligence	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/12/22 03:14 PM
2	Why is Misandry so Common on Female Dominated Forums/subreddits/pages Honestly it’s in both directions. I think this is why there’s a growing antagonism and distrust in each other. People build up straw man arguments of half the population and get paranoid about everyone. Once again the culprit seems to be the in group echoe chamber and isolation aspects of social media. All men are creep dogs that are a ok with rape and sexual coercion and don’t care when abortion rights are taken away, and all women are sluts for a chad and just want your money and will monkey b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/22 06:30 AM
117	Sexist body shaming like this is never aimed at women, so why does LeftBook think it acceptable to be blatantly sexist and body shame and think that this kind of shit is okay? I’ve been thinking similar things about the roe ruling. Everyone is pointing at the male politicians that put these justices up there and the men that vote for the politicians but there are women politicians that did the same AND there’s a huge voting block of women that vote Republican so why are they never brought up or shamed? Why are the women who “vote against their own interest” brought up as often as men that “vote against their own interest”? It’s a weird form of idealization of women an…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/07/22 05:16 AM
1	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" Really I wish we could get away from this beautiful thing belief. Like everything else,sex is many things. Beautiful ugly sexy weird destructive creative masochistic giving silly carnal drudgery… and on and on. Sometimes it sucks sometimes it’s great. Saying it’s beautiful is reducing it so much	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 11:55 AM
3	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" So the woman is doing guys a favor by fuckng them how nice of her 😊	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 11:51 AM
1	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" Humans are manipulative	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 11:47 AM
1	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" I think it has to do with both inner insecurities - a need to be so good with women that they could pull anyone (and if the person is willing and open to others it makes him less special) but also a biological desire to be certain of paternity (Even if the the relationship doesn’t end up producing any offspring). I don’t think any humans can move past the fact that the reason why any of us desire a romantic sexual relationship is because of our biological drive to reproduce.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 11:43 AM
1	Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulative Unless you looked into his posting history how did you get all that from what this guy said here? He didn’t say anything like your first paragraph	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 01:06 PM
3	Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulative If you were truly a narcissist you wouldn’t care. So maybe you have tendencies you would label narcissistic and manipulative that you need to work on but an actual narcissist? Nope. Besides that it’s good that you see the need to change. First step is figuring out where this need to manipulate comes from. Is it fear and needing to be in control? Is it genuine lack of empathy and putting your needs over anyone else’s? Figure it out and with in the underlying shit, and then work on the behaviors o…	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 01:04 PM
1	Breaking news: Looks aren't that important to the majority of girls Maybe not looks in terms of facial or body beauty but women definitely have height preferences that they usually don’t think about when the subject of attractiveness comes up.	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/21 09:14 PM
5	We're mostly all female...sort of I don’t know if I’m going off on some weird tangent here... But of course the amounts of testosterone and estrogen and such contributes a great deal to sex differences. So I’m not sure I’m down with the idea that most of everything else is a “construct”. Like a trans female to male will feel much different after taking testosterone. I’ve found it very interesting to hear trans experiences after taking testosterone or whatever hormones they use to transition. The way they relate to their emotions…	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/21 09:29 PM
1	Should we be worried? I think I’ll stay blissfully ignorant on that one. Reality sucks enough.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/21 06:02 AM
3	Are single women past 30 really damaged goods? I think it’s broken logic. The assumption is every woman must want and value a romantic relationship above all else and so when someone is single past thirty especially without kids people question it. Also, I do think it goes both ways. Women get way way way more questions but it is still a question that gets asked of men. Culture and society has certain rules spoken and unspoken and most people follow the rules. It doesn’t mean the rules are right. Life is complicated and everyone has a story.…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/21 08:22 AM
2	I don't know how I got notifications for this group. I don’t think youhave to be exredpill to post here. I read and post and have never considered myself redpill or mgtow or anything. I am just interested in all the dialogue of these social ideas and dating/gender/sex ideas of that makes any sense. I’ve had struggles with dating and sex and figuring out what my version of masculinity is so That’s what got me interested in hearing from others in all these spaces.	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/21 10:47 PM
1	I know this sub disagrees with a lot of stuff on theredpill but does this not seem like great advice? Just as long as they consider me a Charmander	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 04:10 AM
1	Should we be worried? Woah, really? I don’t know why you imagine that to be the truth. Not every guy is evil. Not every guy that would find a younger wife over there is evil but of course not every guy that would do that is an angel either. This is all very black and white thinking.	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 03:34 AM
0	Should we be worried? I guess if they were trying to bring them over in mass like starting some freaky cult community. But, just one guy marrying one girl and brining her to whatever country he’s in? this really does happen in all countries. If it works for both the man and the woman than it is what it is. It might people feel uncomfortable but I have no right to tell them what to do.	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/21 11:21 PM
2	Who do you know a men:women is redpilled? I figure most everyone is not “redpilled” or a part of any other cult like way of thinking. I think some of the red pill is just what the average person thinks and then parts of them think something very opposite of redpill. Unless they are spending copious amounts of time talking about something that seems like he or she’s parroting back words they did not come up with then I try and think of them as individuals and I’ve found it’s best not to overanalyze or psychoanalyze people too much. It’s …	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/21 10:34 PM
1	For ex red pill women: Nobody's coming, and nobody gives a fuck Did you use to be redpilled?	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/21 10:29 PM
1	Should we be worried? I don’t see what’s crazy about this. Guys have gotten women any way they could. I watch a couple YouTube channels that are just guys living in the Phillipines and besides cost of living and laid back lifestyle/culture they always talk about the availability of women. Although it’s kind of dumb to call yourself MGTOW and then figure out ways of getting a woman. Isn’t the idea to not do that?	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/21 10:27 PM
2	Twenty year old chicks do not want forty year old guys...even if they are rich Ok, I was reading into your words a bit. The original post you made felt to me, as a reader, depressed and down a bit. I’m glad that’s not the case.	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/21 12:52 AM
2	Twenty year old chicks do not want forty year old guys...even if they are rich I agree that’s part of it. obviously most like guys only typically a few years older. Some won’t date even a guy a year or two younger though I think past age 25 that loosens up as well. But there are at least some that have, for whatever reason, a desire for a guy not just older but 10+ years older.	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/21 12:49 AM
1	If I have to self-improve to get a girl then I would not want her It’s difficult because some people genuinely need that self improvement. I remember a long time ago reading about a girl in college who took control of her life. Began to work out lost weight ate right, learned to do her makeup. And she had to deal with the after effects, guys wanted her, she gained confidence, girls who were nice before saw her as competition and became vicious, and she began to look at girls that were overweight with scorn and judgement because it reminded her of her past self…	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/21 08:54 AM
2	Love isn't when somebody meets all your check boxes Look into pragma love style (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Color_wheel_theory_of_love#Pragma ) it’s not my way but I think it’s definitely one way to find and develop love and just as valid as the hyper romantic style that you seem to favor.	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/21 08:22 AM
-5	Twenty year old chicks do not want forty year old guys...even if they are rich Why are you putting down the people you are currently attracted to?	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/21 08:12 AM
-4	Twenty year old chicks do not want forty year old guys...even if they are rich Sounds like you’re depressed and going through some bitter shit . Back then you had “so much hope and life” now everyone’s dead your crushing on a guy who doesn’t want you and you enjoy that he won’t be able to get the girl he does want. Your patting yourself on the back for enjoying sex when you could you think guys should just want what you tell them? If they want to chase younger women and pay for it let ‘em. There are guys that didn’t get laid when they were younger and got older got money a…	/r/ExRedPill	20/01/21 08:06 AM
10	I have the same insecurities that led me to RedPill I love when I read someone is short and then it’s inches above me, it shows so much of this it really is mostly in your head and based on warped expectations. I haven’t read past that one sentence and I’ll get to it now, but I atleast wanted to say go to wikipedia, look up average height, at least for America you are average if not on the tall end of average. I’m 5’7” and I’m at the cutoff point of what “average male height in America” is. Maybe it’s just silly to even bring this up, but you nee…	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/21 03:21 AM
14	THE PICK UP AUTIST This type of stuff is pretty much what I wish this sub wasn’t. Everyone on every sub is just trying to figure out who to make fun of and put down. The internet really is just a cesspool of hatred. No one escapes.	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/20 09:23 AM
2	Still trying to leave the incel community because it's bad for my social anxiety for some reason, and finding it hard Yeah it’s a difficult thing to navigate I’m not ever sure when I try and contact someone. My humors always weird and I never know if the person will get that I’m joking. I know I’ve felt more awkward when I do it on Facebook where others can see. I feel like if it bombs with the person they might feel more uncomfortable since it’s a little more public and I post to try putting myself out there with someone and attempt a connection but then in my head I’m worried it is just an awkward weird thing…	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/20 02:52 AM
9	Red Pill advice is mediocre because it's the kind of advice that is as likely to succeed as it is to fail This is a bullshit way of thinking of it and honestly worrying about this type of thing kept me in a bad isolated place for a long time. The average therapist isn’t the place to learn communication. You learn communication be communicating and falling on your ass. The problem a lot of guys who didn’t get great socialization have is putting themselves out there and being an awkward fuck and not returning from the pain and humiliation and practicing self love and self forgiveness. The fear is that…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/20 12:26 AM
4	Red Pill advice is mediocre because it's the kind of advice that is as likely to succeed as it is to fail I feel like this true about most advice isnt it? You could act like a gentleman approach a girl in the club and be laugh at and humiliated or you could get a number though you probably won’t be banging the shit out of her in the bathroom. I agree a lot of the red pill is very do this and if you do it perfectly shit will be easy and life will just flow. I think that’s definitely the draw that some people have to it. But, really all advice is pretty suspect, you have to pick and choose what works …	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/20 11:48 PM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill (excuse my word vomit novel. I' have ADHD and it causes my mind to spew out thoughts. I"m always amazed at other peoples ability to be succinct.) So, I think your intuition that you wouldn't make a valuable mate is incorrect and I think that some girls would get with you and want the tall muscular tattooed dude and some wouldn't. I think you have taken one study /a few experiences and stretching it to fit an entire black and white world view with you as the worthless loser and this marine/guys l…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/20 09:05 AM
2	Still trying to leave the incel community because it's bad for my social anxiety for some reason, and finding it hard I’ve read some of the replies and I do agree with the person that said to let go of any of the subs involved with gender theory and stuff like that. For you right now it sounds like it’s become a black hole. Step away for at least a while and see how you feel. Also, I know your feeling bad but it sounds like you are at least on a good path. You’re a caring guy and maybe a little overcome with doing the morally “correct” thing. I think this kind of can become a trap. I remember when I was in coll…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/20 12:46 AM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill I'd suggest you are very much still over relying on your intuition. Your intuition tells you that you are not capable of making a desirable mate and you are finding reasons that prove your intuitive belief. The marine anecdote, the over reliance of the one study that proves to you that any girl that stays with you will be taking the lesser option. Someone forcing themselves to eat a salad instead of the burger they crave. I disagree completely with your intuition by the way.	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/20 08:27 AM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill Well part of me asking questions is to try and get you to think in a different way than you are cause I think you are stuck in a lot of negative thinking patterns. But also, yeah I think most people advice is fucking shit and wrong. Like when you date and people tell you to be yourself. But they are just using dumb throw away clichés that don’t help art all. I think all these idiots saying don’t worry girls will get sick of the bad boys and come for you. I agree that that’s not helpful. I don’t …	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 07:07 PM
1	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? This is all really interesting, I wonder if it’s less anxieties and more disenchantment with the modern structure of raising a family. Like I know we always conceptualize the guy that goes through the middle age crisis going out buying a shiny car, getting a divorce and banging younger girls, but maybe they’re just bored? Need some excitement and have no way of fulfilling that itch in their family and modern day way of living life. Domesticity is pretty boring.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 06:49 PM
2	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? It sounds like, from the responses that I’m getting a lot of the guys attracted to this stuff were living basic average lives and didn’t really have any goals or interests. I wonder how many people are just bored and need a purpose? Like it seems like having this red pill mentality gives these guys like some weird self help hobby. Maximizing their (self perceived) manliness like leveling up in a video game.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 06:44 PM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill What happens when you meet a girl that turns on your monkey brain? If you are in a relationship that you value and you have self control you notice wow shes hot and then you say to yourself “wait, I’m taken. I value my girlfriend and I’m into monogamy anyways and I don’t want to ruin a relationship to get these carnal desires met with sex with someone else.” You talk about women like they are completely given to their animal emotional “carnal” senses and all it takes for them to become horny slu…	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 06:37 PM
12	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? What caused his interest in red pill I wonder, was he just hurting and insecure and kept it hidden to others during and before the wedding? It just seems a bit off that a stable happy guy would fall into it if he was living a satisfying life.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 06:14 AM
2	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill You know there are plenty of examples of girls being attracted to cute. Justin beaber Leonardo DiCaprio, both cute, both used their cuteness to their advantage and Leo’s still hooking up with anything no older than 25. I think you really need to try and remind yourself that you are moderately autistic and you are picking and choosing a world view that seems correct to you and let’s your worst fears run rampant. I actually see a lot of myself in the things you’ve written and it’s taken me a long …	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 03:57 AM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill What makes porn exciting to men? I’ve said this before but there is porn that I’ve watched that I would never really want to do in real life. It’s just my monkey brain getting turned on by the visuals. (Like I’m pretty vanilla in real life. If given the opportunity for a tiresome EDIT: threesome i wouldn’t take it. I just like one on one.) and women’s monkey brain gets turned on by the story. Doesn’t mean they would want the situation in real life.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 02:50 AM
4	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill Are you not certain that you just have very low self esteem and are using red pill as a crutch to keep yourself from addressing your internal issues. As long as you can prove with science that you are worthless you can protect your ego and not attempt and possibly fail at self improvement	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 02:41 AM
2	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill I disagree there is definitely stereotypes of a type of woman guys just want to fuck versus one they’d take home to mom and marry. Also, why do you need a study for everything?	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 02:39 AM
2	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill Is there a reason you don’t just do a steroid cycle, workout, get some muscles and get some tattoos?	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 02:37 AM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill I used to think tattoos on girls was hot. I think now that so many have them they don’t turn me on as much as they used to. You ever hear of suicide girls. There was an entire site dedicated to girls with that “look”.	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/20 04:49 AM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill Women read a lot of shit, romance novels aren’t well written but they sell a lot, and I want to concur with the person above that spoke of fantasy. Just because romance novels has the muscley jackass that overcome their heartlessness to fall for the woman doesn’t mean that’s what they would want in real life. There’s a lot of porn that i wouldn’t want in real life but I’ve jacked off to it	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/20 04:22 AM
1	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill Do you want to date and marry or do you want to fuck? Or both? If you believe that women want a bad boy do you care enough to try and become that guy? I’m fine if you do. No judgement, I’m just Asking. Sometimes I think that my personality is fixed but other times I think why not try and shift it a bit. My problem was that I was so sensitive and treated others like they were as sensitive as me. And as I’ve gotten older I’ve realized just how little other people really care. It’s made me feel a b…	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/20 03:36 AM
2	I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpill Whenever I start to think that way I remind myself that women have the same issue as well. You think the nice girl you settle down with and raise a family with (if that’s what you’d want) doesn’t worry about their guy stop being attracted to the hot dangerous stripper or the party girl or sexy Secretary? The fear of the guy cheating is there for a lot of women and they just deal with it as best they can. They might get incredibly angry and defensive and want their man to never look at another gi…	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/20 03:30 AM