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| – | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenAre you gonna pretend that you can't find selfish people who are in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 07:05 PM |
| – | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenThey're bad people because they are selfish, and they are not alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 07:01 PM |
| – | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenBad people are only good to themselves. That's why they're bad. You lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:58 PM |
| -4 | Women have more friends than men because men need less attention than womenI guess it can't be refuted if you ignore all the bad people who are in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:55 PM |
| – | Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring.produce something What is this even supposed to mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Men should not approach without obvious signalsThe red pill would just say that he was a doormat and didn't hold masculine frame, his fault basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:13 PM |
| 16 | Men should not approach without obvious signalsWrong. Men are more intimidating than bears, so I doubt most women will have the gall to make a scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroadit will be criticized Sugar daddies get women transactionally and nobody really cares about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 12:32 AM |
| – | “Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented womenCool, so you just showed that society is fearmongering about nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 05:28 PM |
| – | “Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented womenYou have cited no evidence indicating that violent criminals are disproportionately lonely men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 05:24 PM |
| – | Nothing is worse then men claiming women are hypergamous and useless meanwhile married to a millionare wifes.Can't really blame them when men with bachelor degrees are more unlikely to be unemployed than men with just a high school diploma. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2XZUe2T96h4&t=17s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 08:53 PM |
| – | Current dating is unfair for men because of woman have rid themselves of the responsibility that comes with the privileges they have, while men still have to still take on the responsibilities of theirsThis is just toxic masculinity. Men are socialized to follow strict gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?There is no all else equal because there are so many factors you can't control for. You are presenting a false dichotomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.You didn't say that those women are turned off by nontoxic men, you said that they're turned off by "weak men." And you didn't say that those women think that "safe" men are "weak." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.Toxic masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Women and pick and choose when the universal appropriate places are appropriate for men to approach them.No, they said it's weird to join a hobby solely to meet women And that's just your opinion that nobody has to agree with because it's not based on anything factual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 04:15 PM |
| -1 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksRed pill and the manosphere are just fringe minorities and most people date just fine yet they are now somehow ruining dating for women. Pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 07:09 PM |
| – | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"There are cheat codes. Prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:22 PM |
| – | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismso sometimes hard rules have to be made. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismI didn't realize that approaching women makes men desperate. So much for being confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:44 PM |
| – | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismJustifying forced conscription is a bad look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismThe mere act of approaching may make someone uncomfortable, and people say that men shouldn't do that under any circumstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:16 PM |
| 15 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismYou're not gonna learn anything about somebody until you approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:13 PM |
| 48 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismMen are complaining about approaching because they have been told to stop doing it unless they do it "the correct way," which is just someone's subjective opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:09 PM |
| -1 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.They don't unless they have children. Everybody living on their own already has bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 11 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.You're acting as if having a mortgage is still somehow achievable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factI guess if you're talking about vague traits like assertiveness and independence, but women who are assertive and independent don't want to be thought of as masculine in any way. All that's left are the disposable "masculine" traits, like being willing to work 80 hours a week or die in a war for no reason. You haven't explained what masculine traits are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 24 | Too many men see selfishness as normal masculine behavior and it results in loneliness (amongst other things).good means being good without expecting an award. Explain how you're going to incentive people to do this in a secular, individualistic society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:34 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.Your view is only consistent if you think that girls with behavioral problems should be told to "shut up and do the work." Otherwise, you are giving leeway to girls and not boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:43 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.Yes, and you are promoting toxic masculinity. Not even kids are safe from your wrath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:25 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.They may not have anybody to raise them better. Why do you assume that they have a stable home life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:09 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.So what? Prisoners behave way worse yet many people still believe that we should rehabilitate them, not punish. Dismissing boys as being inherently problematic and that they should be quiet is just punishment for being a boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:01 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.Teach boys that they have to sit down and shut up too. There is no empathy in that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 03:50 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.I'm not sure that they do because they have done nothing to address the poor performance of boys in schools other than blaming the boys themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 03:38 PM |
| -1 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!Classic redpill is only dumbass shit. Stuff like "masculine frame" and "wait 4 hours before texting back to make it seem like you're busy." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere.Your post doesn't give any reason for why a guy in the manosphere should leave. They only care about making money and getting women, so unless you have advice for that ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere.Because they form habits while they're young, and there is nothing incentivizing them to become emotionally mature as an adult. If you want the manosphere to stop, you need the young ones to stop going into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere.I disagree because there are many young boys going into the manosphere. They won't have emotional maturity and there are also too few good role models for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 08:25 PM |
| 11 | “Personally” is not a synonym for “nice meek pushover”Extroversion is by far the largest multiplier of dating suscess. Then the people here should stop shaming men for cold approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:57 PM |
| 2 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.hair loss That's an adult man hairline. I guess you just don't like the way adult men look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 4 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?So back then, were there less men who wouldn't take no for an answer? That's the reason women give for why they don't just say no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?Don't people always talk about how dangerous men are and that it's very hard to identify a bad man (they say women can't identify an abuser and that's why they avoid many men)? Why would men who aren't dangerous seek out male friendship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badDo you think that lonely women are trash, too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 10:00 PM |
| -3 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.Then why do liberal women get upset when conservative men hit on them? Incompatible lifestyle? I guess it's okay to disagree but only on things that don't affect anything, unlike politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:09 PM |
| 0 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.No, voicing your opinion is only okay if the other person agrees with you. Otherwise, that's when they think you're a control freak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:00 PM |
| 4 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hastePhilosophically, we’re not. You can't think that unless you're religious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Weird, my original comment was replying to the one person who was generalizing and here you are saying that I'm talking to "feminists." Get better gaslighting material next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:04 PM |
| 4 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Saying that a specific demographic does something is saying that most or all people in that demographic do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:49 PM |
| – | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Maybe everyone (both men and women) could start by not making excuses for misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:35 PM |
| 4 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Because people who say "X demographic does Y" are generalizing. Now share that energy when someone says, "I'm afraid we hold women responsible for X, Y, Z because they're the ones doing it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:20 PM |
| 4 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Just ignore the part where I said not even most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:11 PM |
| 7 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.because women have it worse under patriarchy People can work on two issues at the same time. This pivot is no different from people who bring up "muh starving children in Africa." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:00 PM |
| 7 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Not all men. Not even most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:55 PM |
| – | It's okay to be a passport bro as traditional manPeople who use the term loser back home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:13 PM |
| – | The only one who is following patriarchy are women not men and it has devastating effects on datingDo you think most men do not like being associated with masculinity? No, because it gives them mental health issues and they are not rewarded even when they achieve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Is it true that pair bonding is affected much more in one gender than the other?Then why does the red pill tell dudes to fuck around with different women and not settle down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:28 PM |
| -3 | Your "league" is what can be expected given your attributes, not what you can getWow, a small group said something. He should listen to them because they somehow reflect the opinion of billions of humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Men should be douchebags to find loveAnd you do? Enlighten me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Men should be douchebags to find loveLol. Do you think gang members in the hood are struggling to find women? Or do you think they're actually nice people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Men should be douchebags to find lovePost the evidence that bad people never get into relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Yeah, men should just give greedy landlords more money because you got the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.What point are you trying to make other than that men should have kids as soon as possible? I'm not sure that there'll be many woman who are okay with men wanting to impulsively have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:46 PM |
| 2 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.It does matter because something that's considered off-putting to one woman may be attractive to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.I am giving an example of what I just said. there are subtle things that can cause someone to be rejected by some people and not others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:14 PM |
| 4 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.Very basic social skills like lack of eye contact and bad hygiene may be off-putting to most people, yes, but lacking a social media presence is something considered off-putting to only some groups of people. So no, there are subtle things that can cause someone to be rejected by some people and not others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:07 PM |
| 7 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.acting socially off-putting is genuinely a sexual turn off What's considered socially off-putting is not completely objective, it varies from culture to culture. It's subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Is being a "passportbros" really a bad thing?And those are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Is being a "passportbros" really a bad thing?Do you think that every woman in the world is attracted to the same type of man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:22 AM |
| 8 | Is being a "passportbros" really a bad thing?Nothing inherently wrong, no. Two people could randomly meet while travelling and "naturally" develop a relationship and no one will complain. People just throw a fit when someone tries to apply a direct strategy to relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Men are shallow as wellWho are you even talking about? So many men have low standards and will take the first woman that doesn't reject them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Why Shame and Social Pressure Aren’t Always Bad ThingsSocial pressure is irrelevant because society encourages individualism. Additionally, shame and social pressure are easily ignored by just meeting new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:49 PM |
| -1 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.It disproves that confidence and social skills are all that's needed to be attractive (personality wise). Anyone who says that is clearly wrong based on your comments. Unless you think that having social skills means that someone is not anti-fun, but that's subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.If being confident is attractive and interesting, then being "anti-fun" shouldn't matter. Your TLDR suggests that being "anti-fun" is a problem for getting short-term interest and attraction. Too bad for the idea that people "shouldn't care about what others think so much." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:43 PM |
| -2 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.If you don't do what I say, then you're anti-fun! Why should a confident and disagreeable person do these things just to appear "fun"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The best thing about modern world is that as a woman I can choose to have a job that pays meWell, this means you can't believe that the wage gap is due to institutional barriers and sexism. If the wage gap is due to sexism, how are women freely able to "choose the kind of path they partake on"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Male lonliness is self inflictedShouldn't have labeled men as so dangerous. Guys who aren't dangerous can't identify men who are dangerous so who are they supposed to befriend? Women can't identify dangerous guys in advance either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Men have to take responsibility for feminism<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:46 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?How dare men use their confidence to go after what they want! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:44 PM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really areIt's not always that simple. The social skills and confidence needed to approach average women consistently doesn't change when approaching very attractive women. At that point, it costs nothing to approach every woman you fancy. If some men have to fake an act each time, then they won't be able to approach any women at all, at least not consistently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 10:52 PM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really areMen have no reason not to be highly confident in themselves, even if it makes them "delusional." What incentive is there for a man to worry about leagues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeWhy does it being voluntary make it any better? The fact that men dominate representation in dangerous jobs is listed as an example of male disposability despite those jobs being voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsThey are until people figure out that men are going there just to hit on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:04 AM |
| 3 | A world without men would be calmer, safer, and more harmonious<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 08:07 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.Sorry, but I don't understand the point you're trying to make in the last two paragraphs about whose job it is to fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:56 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.First of all, "natural" doesn't mean anything in this context because hunter gatherers living in "natural" conditions don't have the strict gender roles that we do. Second, you're right that patriarchy wasn't just made for men to be evil to women, it was also made for men to be evil to other men. All of men's problems come from how men enforce rigid masculinity standards onto each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:23 PM |
| -4 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.If a guy is going around and constantly approaching women because he wants to hook up, who is he leading? The woman he attracts? At most, that's leadership in the bedroom and not leadership in a general social context. Such a guy may not care about leading other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 0 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.It's not important. If a confident and assertive guy is not automatically alpha, then it's a meaningless term. I suppose you can say alpha males are leaders and that's desirable, but most men can't be leaders and plenty of men don't want to be leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 8 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.a man must be contextual alpha Why would a man who's confident, assertive, and disagreeable worry if he's "alpha" or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | You can be straight up with a girl who actually likes and respects you.And why wouldn't being able to stand your ground not automatically prevent those mistakes? Nothing he'll do at that point will result in him putting her on a pedestal. So unless the mistakes you're talking about are basic social skills, why does he need to have anything more than a backbone and some confidence to make moves on her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:01 AM |
| 5 | You can be straight up with a girl who actually likes and respects you.Why do you need to learn game instead of just standing your ground? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.By this logic, it's okay for men to leave children behind by saying, "he can just pay child support." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 04:51 PM |
| 0 | There actually are government mandated solutions to datingThat doesn't mean that they want to be asked out by multiple men back to back, especially when they don't know what his intentions are. If they did, women wouldn't complain about dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:27 PM |
| 6 | There actually are government mandated solutions to datinghost dating related events Men will just ask every women out who goes to them and then those women will stop going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Single Men have better mental health than married men nowadaysThis is just an association unless you want to say that married men have an easier time running businesses or getting hired/promoted, which would also be blatant bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 03:25 AM |
| -1 | Single Men have better mental health than married men nowadaysA strong correlation still does not automatically imply causation. It could be reversed and better mental health is what leads men to marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Single Men have better mental health than married men nowadaysCorrelation does not imply causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 12:03 AM |
| – | CMV: Women's poor romantic decisions are part of natural selectionNeither. A subset of violent men is having the children while others die or get thrown in jail while having no children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:51 PM |
| – | CMV: Women's poor romantic decisions are part of natural selectionOne is incel, the other is in cell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:35 PM |
| – | CMV: Women's poor romantic decisions are part of natural selectionemotional Antisocial and violent men do what they do because they can't control their emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:28 PM |
| – | CMV: Women's poor romantic decisions are part of natural selectionHunter gatherers don't have the strict gender roles that we currently do. Men in those societies don't worry about "stoicism" unlike modern men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | If a good personality is not about morality but about sociability, then why are unsuccessful men automatically classified as misogynists?No. She also said this. Those who are more condescending than hateful, they like to lead, like to take charge and that’s attractive to some women Being condescending is socially awkward, nothing skillful about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Actually, both are expensive, because you can't populate society with just a few men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 06:08 PM |
| – | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.I think everything is a social construct and I don't have anything in my bio. What say you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.Is a woman masculine if she has muscles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 05:01 PM |
| -1 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.There is no rule. If masculinity was biologically predetermined, then a group of people living in "natural" conditions wouldn't be able to go against it. Besides, you don't have a reason for men to be masculine other than for trying to get their pp touched, making masculinity nothing but a performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:58 PM |
| -2 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.Standards for men vary from culture to culture. Men in the Bodi tribe from Ethiopia are considered more attractive when they get fatter and have large stomachs. Here, they would be belittled as being "unmasculine." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:47 PM |
| -1 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.Cops and firefighters aren't masculine because women also do those jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills Desirethere’s also a positive assumption baked in: competence. Yes, men should just pretend that they know what they're doing. Fake it until you make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:27 AM |
| 26 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?Huh. Based on this thread, I guess all those people who were talking about how they know an ugly guy who gets all the women because he's funny and confident were lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphereWonderful. Now, with that out of the way and assuming that the Pew Research study about single men and women is accurate, I see no other possible explanation for it other than the women dating older men. If you have another one, I'd like to see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphereMen are more likely to overestimate their attractiveness. You cited this in response to the idea that women are delusional about their looks, instead claiming that men are delusional. The problem here is that there is nothing wrong with overestimating one's attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 06:47 PM |
| -6 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.Seems like a median income isn't enough to attract more male teachers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 14 | Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system.follow orders more easily Plenty of men are willing to follow orders in the military, and the military is way more strict than school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:59 PM |
| 0 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?LOL. Why are you asking this question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:52 PM |
| 0 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Because he's doing a high paid, essential job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:47 PM |
| 8 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How exactly should men need to hold other men accountable?I wouldn't be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:20 PM |
| -1 | How exactly should men need to hold other men accountable?Men threaten and attack each other for minor things all the time. We have no way of knowing who is potentially dangerous or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | How exactly should men need to hold other men accountable?It's too dangerous to call out other men. Better to avoid and report them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesautomatically socially conform and naturally understand how to navigate dating/romantic relationships Oversimplification. Neurotypical men struggle, too. So many women who are in the dating market are complaining now that men have these traits: Bad hygiene, rude, arrogant, not asking questions, no humor, no intelligence, no emotional intelligence, too pushy and sexual, misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 12:31 AM |
| 16 | When you think women’s lives revolve around men, you’re projecting. Here is why.Men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 03:24 PM |
| 10 | When you think women’s lives revolve around men, you’re projecting. Here is why.these men fully revolve their lives around how to attract women, how women perceive them Society told them to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 02:42 PM |
| 8 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?with an average job People always say that people just need a "normal" or "average" job. What even is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 02:38 PM |
| – | Masculinity is determined by women, Femininity determined by men.So do you agree that men and women are only masculine and feminine respectively because society tells them to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 12:41 AM |
| 3 | If a guy uses terms like “dance monkey” and “beta bucks”, he despises relationships. (Even if he claims to want one)actually impress a person There is no need to do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?I like how people flip flop from "rejection is normal" to "if you get rejected too much, then nature is saying something is wrong with you." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?You brought up those men as proof that men can care about status. Those specific men are into doing something morally wrong, so they're not a good example for your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Maybe they were getting off to her because they were doing something illegal. Isn't there a theory that men do immoral things to women because they enjoy having power over them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:25 PM |
| 17 | Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% manin a good career or working towards it There aren't enough of these for everyone to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 09:40 PM |
| 7 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)The men will feel more important and they will be more confident as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:28 PM |
| 0 | The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the worldMore males than females tend to be disagreeable and rebel against social cohesion Masculinity tells men to be disagreeable and that if you aren't constantly standing up for yourself, then you're a spineless pushover. It is not "evolutionarily baked." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:26 PM |
| 6 | There are tons of attractive men alone, very few attractive women are alone as well, and average men have no problem pairing with womenIf they think that they'll be approched by too many random men, then it's not surprising at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:22 PM |
| 8 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)I think men getting in for free would be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:13 PM |
| 3 | There are tons of attractive men alone, very few attractive women are alone as well, and average men have no problem pairing with womenSure, and people will hear the advice that says "just get a decent job" and wonder what that even means now. There might be transition phase going on now and people are still figuring it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:06 PM |
| 16 | There are tons of attractive men alone, very few attractive women are alone as well, and average men have no problem pairing with womengood career trajectory I don't think average people have that anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:50 PM |
| – | You have no excuses for dating failures if you aren’t putting in 100%very strong instagram women will love It would be easier to just have AI generate photos for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:34 PM |
| – | Women preferring to date tall men is not a bad thing. It's actually somewhat selfless.How is your hypothesis supposed to work if a tall guy gets rejected but a short guy does not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Men are the Workhorses of Modern RelationshipsIt's still helping people, though. https://gitnux.org/body-positivity-movement-statistics/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Men are the Workhorses of Modern RelationshipsTrue, but see what happens if you tell that to women who complain about unrealistic beauty standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:45 PM |
| 7 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerI think the problem is that they feel that they can't get the woman to say yes to their plans, not that they need to have plans at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:32 PM |
| 8 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAlmost everyone cares about N-Counts, illustrated by how virgins of both genders are treated with suspicion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Women would like to meet a guy who didn't see them as romantic prospect first, but will get annoyed if he isn't hot enoughWhy is the man a mentally ill asshole if he rejects the friendship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Women would like to meet a guy who didn't see them as romantic prospect first, but will get annoyed if he isn't hot enoughThe attraction could have came after he became friends with her. Men can be attracted to personality, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Women would like to meet a guy who didn't see them as romantic prospect first, but will get annoyed if he isn't hot enoughSure, but someone continuing to be friends with someone else when they don't want to only makes things worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Women would like to meet a guy who didn't see them as romantic prospect first, but will get annoyed if he isn't hot enoughWhat if he doesn't get mad but ends the friendship anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themYou're right. They should stop looking and approach instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.It's not a problem because there is no solution that doesn't involve coercion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 10:01 PM |
| 12 | The more bitter you are about the dating landscape, the further you’ll remain single.Why is your post only targeted towards bitter men? Bitter women behave the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?You just agreed with what I said, that a guy who works hard at his low wage job and stays there won't ever be seen as an ambitious person. Working hard is only valuable in this society if it gives you money and status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?ambition is synonymous with masculinity Not true at all. A guy who is ambitious in a low status, low-paying job will be seen as a chump unless he is trying to get a better job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:07 PM |
| 1 | The issue with the whole dating advice world online: dating is treated as a series of hacks and decision treesit becomes about winning a numbers game. It is a numbers game, because most people will reject you along with there being certain behaviors that almost guarantee rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men shouldn't be preoccupied with spreading their genes or sowing their oats. It seems weird and grotesque to me.Why not teach? Women with education degress are less likely to be childless. Men who want kids should become teachers and date teachers. Men will be able to have kids and satisfy OP's demand for altruism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Its fairly obvious that a lot, if not most, of the men on ppd are autistic. You have no evidence and you aren't qualified to diagnose anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Surveys of incels (not that much of PPD are incels) found 18 – 32% had an official Autism diagnosis This is not a majority, and it only applies to a fringe minority. You have no evidence that the majority of struggling men are autistic. Armchair psychology isn't going to reveal anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 10:05 PM |
| 8 | “Who are you to tell others how they feel” because people with victim complexes lie. There should be gatekeeping.Are women who complain about a lack of physical intimacy allowed to say they're lonely? Or are they just whiny too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | “Who are you to tell others how they feel” because people with victim complexes lie. There should be gatekeeping.Are very unlikable. Unlikable carries a negative connotation. Where is the evidence that all the lonely people are doing something wrong? You think there are two different groups, right? But you don't know which is which unless you know them first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual dataJust because they give up early doesn't mean that they're happy. They can remain unhappy while choosing to remain single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:36 PM |
| 0 | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual dataThat's not compatible with the idea that women are better at forming friendships than men. Women can't be just socially lonely as men if they have more friends. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1m9uhsn/women_manage_feelings_of_loneliness_better/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 03:04 PM |
| 0 | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual dataThen how is there a loneliness epidemic that affects both genders? Are people just socially lonely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingThe comments on the tiktok are racially charged. It's just a group of men who think they've found one of the "good ones." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 08:33 PM |
| – | It’s incredibly freeing for a man to give up on datingHow does this work when so many bad and abusive men have no problem with approaching women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:41 PM |
| -2 | Being horny is not being lonely.Are you saying men can't be romantically lonely? Why can't men feel what's described here? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1m9uhsn/comment/n5aewja/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 02:07 AM |
| 2 | If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and bloodThen you should approach more women. You can use the fact that you've been rejected so much to motivate yourself more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.Yes, and the factors that affect men encourage antisocial behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.There are social factors that only affect men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.Purely socioeconomic factors. We can fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.male violence Which is due to socioeconomic factors. We need to raise the wages for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in menTakes them months to hire people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The types of men who would be successful dating 100 years ago are not the same as those successful todayI don't think a guy who can't make difficult decisions or defend his family will be good at showing his intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:47 PM |
| 6 | The types of men who would be successful dating 100 years ago are not the same as those successful todayThey are also condemned for being pushovers and for not being assertive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:42 PM |
| 5 | The types of men who would be successful dating 100 years ago are not the same as those successful todayThe guys who are probably going to be happier with their marriages today are going to be a lot closer to a golden retriever. They would be bad at working a dangerous job, or defending their family, or making tough decisions in a difficult environment. It sounds like you're telling men that they should be kind and have no backbone, which is what nice guys are condemned for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in menYeah, but those altruistic jobs require college degrees. Are lower paying, essential jobs that don't require a degree or education viewed that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 04:52 PM |
| 19 | Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in meninstead of apply for jobs There are jobs to apply for? In this economy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.without you thinking that makes it ok to objectify her People in this post were talking about how it's okay to objectify people if they consent to it: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1mdzvrt/people_who_moralize_around_sexual_objectification/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 03:03 AM |
| -2 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.Why do you need to give in to the pressure? Disagreeable, confident, and assertive people don't give in to the demands of other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 12:44 AM |
| -1 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.Yeah, and you can just refuse to cooperate with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.But if those women don't care what men think, why would they feel pressure from beauty standards that were created by men? Is it because other women enforce those standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)The desire to actively moralize age gaps and justify the constant targeting of them. That’s why such men are called creepy. Shouldn't have said that men who justify age gaps are creepy then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)Sounds like you're admitting that it's okay to seek out age gap relationships if both people make both an affrimative and informative decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)By that logic, "guys who actively blabber about age gaps" aren't doing anything wrong if the woman is enthusiastic about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)There's nothing wrong with some people intentionally seeking out age gap relationships, at least according to a society that says anything goes as long as there's consent. You're going to have to change societal moral standards because your creep shaming isn't going to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)If age gap relationships are detrimental to the younger person, then that person can't make a reasonable and informed choice about being in that relationship. It's why we don't allow people under 21 to drink alcohol, because they can't make an informed decision to drink it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)Sounds like they can't consent then. Raise the age of consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)It would be if the socioeconomic factors were accounted for. Solve men's issues, raise their wages, and the crime rate will go down significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)women are objectively less dangerous No, it is not "objectively" true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many conservative men try to get with liberal women and change them? Why not just pursue conservative women from the jump ?Because conservative women don't conserve anything other than demanding that the man pay for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 02:12 PM |
| -4 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveSo what? He's not really going to find out anything about you until a date happens. Do you think men should talk to women for months before asking them out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Doing a masculine thing doesn’t make it toxic masculinity. Saying that any behavior is "masculine" is toxic masculinity. All attempts at defining "healthy masculinity" have thrown out the concept of gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.women run a huge risk of being used as a placeholder chick Men who do approach can just as easily use women as placeholder chicks. I will need a peer-reviewed study from a prestigious university to be convinced otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.There are all kinds of women complaining about men using and abusing them, and these are men who approached them first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadNo. I never said anything like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.If men treat women who approach them badly, wouldn't women who are approached by men also be treated badly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 05:28 PM |
| 13 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadThe point is men complain about “but but she got horny for Chad!!!” Well Chad made her feel horny. By that logic, fat and unattractive women can't complain about how their counterparts are treated better by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadIt's not a problem because men can just keep trying and approaching until they find that one woman that treats them like "Chad." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Everyone. All dating advice tells men that they must approach. It's like saying that women don't need to follow unrealistic beauty standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Why do you claim what those guys are doing is toxic? Only men are expected to do that. Behavior that is encouraged for only one gender is something that people have been criticizing in recent years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Women don't have to approach, which is toxic masculinity and it isn't going away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:30 PM |
| 11 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.They do have to, because otherwise they will be alone. It's like saying that no one has to work. Yeah, no one is holding a gun to your head and telling you to work, but you'll starve with no income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Do women have to be that way too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:46 PM |
| 7 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.That's a big claim. What does a "real" man look like then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:37 PM |
| 21 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.So it's because women would struggle to get what they want from the approaching? That's the same excuse men who don't approach give and they aren't taken seriously. So why are some gender roles okay but not others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:35 PM |
| 41 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Why do men have to approach? Isn't that the toxic masculinity that you complain about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:15 PM |
| 6 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.Who would their niche be? Hookers? Who are these women that consistently say yes to men who catcall and ask them out right away? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 12:08 AM |
| 6 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.You need 4, or 3 very good ones, or 2 exceptional ones. There are men who are exceptionally confident and assertive yet they are creepy because of the awkwardness they generate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 12:02 AM |
| 0 | TRP’s “just lift bro” was never meant to mean “lift and literally do nothing else”There’s not a single person, male or female, who looks worse by being in better shape. People were saying that this guy looks worse: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1kasjon/q4m_why_dont_men_believe_the_women_who_express/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menSaying that most men are unattractive is a waste of time for the same reasons when incels say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of men70% of guys aren’t holistically attractive No. Men can just find a different woman. Your attempt to find the number of attractive people at any given moment is wasting everyone's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 03:05 PM |
| 3 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.You very rarely see non looksmatched couples. Slavic couples don't worry about being "looksmatched". And there are plenty of these couples in America as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 10:36 PM |
| 5 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.They can’t all be settling. The ones who are worried about staying in their "league" are. There is no value in deny yourself opportunities. It can even hurt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Men want women to have LOW standards, not consistent standards.They probably hit on everyone, and don’t understand why it’s not working. It does work, it is the only strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 04:54 PM |
| 3 | The Tea App proved the vast majority of men are bad man, women have no choice but to accept polygamy/settle or stay single.You can't force anyone to do anything. There is no solution that doesn't involve coercion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | The Tea App proved the vast majority of men are bad man, women have no choice but to accept polygamy/settle or stay single.Women are at least trying to find equals but are struggling. That's not a problem that needs to be solved, because nobody has time to worry about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 01:57 PM |
| – | Yes women are attracted to hot men, just as much as men are attracted to hot women, stop being hypocrites.There's nothing wrong with overestimating your attractiveness as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 07:06 PM |
| – | Yes women are attracted to hot men, just as much as men are attracted to hot women, stop being hypocrites.I dont know why do people seem to make this specific topic of attraction so complex. Because reddit always talks about how they know some short ugly dude who gets all the women because he's funny and confident. Men want to be that guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 06:47 PM |
| 2 | (CMV) As a man, pursuing bisexual women is the only serious choice if you're interested in dismantling patriarchy in your relationshipYet men still have to approach them. How are they going to dismantle patriarchy when they can't even approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:15 PM |
| 3 | The internet has made dating easier, and not harderOr you can just vibe with them and see if there's chemistry Anti social shut ins won't be able to generate chemistry. Your advice only applies to people who are already successful at socializing in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 09:34 PM |
| 2 | The internet has made dating easier, and not harderYou can socialize online through social media, discord etc Sure, but the only strategies you can apply are messaging random women and messaging women after you participated in a post or discussion. I don't see how this is more efficient than approaching in real life and I've never heard of a guy who got a bunch of dates this way. Reddit has a bunch of dating subreddits that will almost always yield some female interests if you can write an ad This is the same as using a dating app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 08:57 PM |
| 5 | The internet has made dating easier, and not harderI can tell you from experience, it's definitely a hell of a lot easier to get female attention online than from normie beckies and stacies irl. Could you explain how? Only advice I've seen for online dating says to have a top-tier profile and game. If you know how to get successful dates without doing that, I think you should tell everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Men's social role is limited by society's preference for "masculine" traitsMen who aren't confident and assertive are socially rejected by almost everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.Yes, and that means that you can't shame men into doing what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereNot really because many people in relationships don't meet any of the "growing standards." That's why it's not necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.Why is it a lie? When men do things that they don't want to do because someone else told them to, they're called doormats and pushovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.but really they will in order to have sex with you if you say no I've never heard of this, I've only heard that men get mad after rejection and try to push or coerce the woman into doing what he wants. If you're referring to my use of the word "negotiate," then I am saying that men will try to get people to their side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.Men are incentivized when you give them what they want. If you refuse to give them what they want, they may try to negotiate, but they won't cooperate with your demands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereDepends on what you mean by "develop." Self improvement is neither necessary nor sufficient for getting women and many men will be left demoralized after trying and failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Women: Calls out toxic masculinity "Healthy" masculinity is toxic too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not Therethen they need to develop themselves in order to meet their growing standards This sounds like blackpill doomerism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereReddit says that men struggle because they aren't kind and are bad people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereYou are admitting that goodness isn't necessary for attraction, because relationships aren't as rare as good people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereBut they are rare. I want to know if you think that good women are rare too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersUnless you're introduced by someone else, you're a stranger no matter where you approach, meaning that the success rate will still be "low". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersbuild an acquaintanceship and then ask them out after a period of time One-way ticket to the friendzone unless you flirt with them in the meantime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:34 PM |
| – | Online dating and the internet have not ruined dating, but only changed it for the betterYes, you can generate photorealistic ai photos of yourself in places you've never been to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:21 PM |
| – | Online dating and the internet have not ruined dating, but only changed it for the betterGuys who say that they have rich and high status lifestyles, usually by lying and using fake photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:12 PM |
| – | Online dating and the internet have not ruined dating, but only changed it for the betterI guess it is if you ignore the fact that tinder swindler types have the most success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Responsive desire is not sincere and is completely transactional, unlike spontaneous desire.No time to worry about that since women don't approach men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).Plenty of men get women for free and want it to stay that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).They do have control since they're the only ones that approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityPlease explain what healthy masculinity is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real. But what's wrong is saying that it's "women's fault." Or that women are "Sharing men."Those dudes aren't grinding to get women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real. But what's wrong is saying that it's "women's fault." Or that women are "Sharing men."Plenty of poor and uneducated people have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”Nothing stopping a man from approaching anyway. Why should anyone listen to this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:32 PM |
| -4 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menBeing pragmatic would mean approaching more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menCalls himself "White Pill Man" and posts defeatist shit like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 09:52 PM |
| 18 | People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted thereGetting doxxed on a shitty vibe-coded app is no big deal apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single?Sounds like that dreaded toxic masculinity that you people complain about, since I don't see you telling women to approach men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimPlenty of immature people in relationships. It means nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:45 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeNah, average women have the same experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimYou think just making small talk will make women attracted to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimOh, really? What should they grow into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:39 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeMost men want a top 20% woman yet so many women complain about their inbox being full. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single?Why do men have to approach, miss blue pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 02:57 PM |
| 17 | Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties betterMen who say that they're lonely because they don't have a romantic relationship are told by redditors that they can solve their issue by seeking friendship with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:38 PM |
| 37 | Women manage feelings of loneliness better because they maintain social ties betterWomen are just as lonely as men but they have better social connections at the same time? How can you say that you're lonely when you actually have good relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?What does it mean to be in tact educationally and economically? Having a degree and job that the other person likes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:00 PM |
| – | Incel? Try Tumblr!How exactly does Tumblr encourage people to meet each other? How is it any better than a hobby group or a meetup event? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 03:00 AM |
| 2 | The main people mentioning women’s intuition are men who victim blame women.It would if they were to show it too soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 01:14 PM |
| 2 | The main people mentioning women’s intuition are men who victim blame women.Someone can just dismiss these examples by saying that these men pretend to be good before they reveal their abusive nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 01:06 PM |
| 6 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingWhy should a man buy her a drink? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameWait, are we really criticizing job hopping now? Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?What is a misogynist persona? Are you mean to women that you just met or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't practicing true self-love make any self-improvement impossible?And they somehow still get relationships, which disproves the idea that you definitely need self love before having a relationship. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Doesn't practicing true self-love make any self-improvement impossible?By that logic, much of the US population clearly don't love themselves because of how obese they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 07:44 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menHow do you know that your standards aren't unrealistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The market depicts your value, not youNo such thing as "dating market value." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Let's say what it is, Men are in their princess era, and it's okay ❤️And why is this bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:07 PM |
| 2 | The market depicts your value, not youYou sound like a blackpiller, and you completely contradict the idea that men will find more success if they are confident. Worrying about this stupid idea of a market will tank your confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 01:49 PM |
| 5 | You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as men"I haven't seen them yet, so they don't exist." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 12:09 AM |
| 5 | You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as menI'm saying if you believe one, then you must believe the other. You literally just said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as menHow exactly does someone thinking that women engage in similar rates of deviancy imply that they also think that women are a hivemind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:26 PM |
| 22 | You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as menGoomba fallacy. Two different groups of men are saying these things until you prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are.Nothing wrong with overrating your attractiveness since it makes you more confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?Men ignoring their urge to flirt with and hit on women will do more harm than good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?What's wrong with going to these places just to hit on women? It's a nonissue if you're sucessful and if you're unsucessful, just find new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 04:21 PM |
| 6 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.So how do you differentiate those people from the lazy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:51 PM |
| 12 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.Do you share that same attitude for women who give up on trying to date men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:33 PM |
| 17 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.Outside of approaching more, it's really unhealthy to go into the dating world with a "work ethic." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive womenLiberal men don't do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Can’t believe this has to be said: yes, in order to date you need a social outletThat because you were able to do it that means it's somehow easy to befriend complete strangers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Can’t believe this has to be said: yes, in order to date you need a social outletSo? That doesn't refute anything I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Can’t believe this has to be said: yes, in order to date you need a social outletNo. The OP suggested that you can just simply socialize and find success. It's noticeably harder to socialize when no one knows you at all. OP failed to mention that caveat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:50 PM |
| 23 | Can’t believe this has to be said: yes, in order to date you need a social outletWhere are you getting the idea that there are all these social outlets that are eager to include men who are by themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 07:27 PM |
| 12 | Conservatives and Redpillers have come up with fantasies about what masculinity is like.If left wing men know their place in life, then what is that place? How were they able to figure out what "true" masculinity is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:44 PM |
| 6 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastThe distinction between kindness and niceness is irrelevant, because you won't have a situation where you even can stand up for yourself most of the time. At least when you're meeting new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.No argument. Don't know what's hard to understand when most of the population is overweight, obese, and diabetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 03:22 PM |
| 0 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.Why do people struggle with dating? Is it because they're too "negative?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.No, people have issues with dating and their mental health because they are malnourished from their diets. Not because they just happen to be "neurodivergent" and leave mean reddit comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.And what exactly has this research revealed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:53 PM |
| 3 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.Armchair psychology. You have provided no evidence for any of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:27 PM |
| 6 | People have issue even when men are happy being singleThey still aren't respected even if they work a low-wage job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | People have issue even when men are happy being singlePlenty of rich people don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysAre you going to give an example of what these "right things" to say are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | People have issue even when men are happy being singleYes, because being a slave for your boss is so much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy RisksMan-made rules that vary from culture to culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy RisksAnswer the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy RisksWhat do you mean by "grow up"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Political views are a mirror of one’s values and that’s why they matterPolitics don't matter because it's socially awkward to bring up politics unless you know the person very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?Hitting on and flirting don't require any comments on their appearance. And you can flirt with her while getting to know to her at the same time. Why do you think men shouldn't hit on random women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?Sure they can discard what many women are saying and approach everywhere. There will just be an influx of even more women complaining about being hit on all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 02:33 PM |
| 3 | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?A lot of women on this website are saying the complete opposite: that you should only approach in designated social places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameYet not ever man with high T is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameMen following their natural primal instincts would be completely direct about their intentions, they would not flirt or worry about asking women out on a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game"Primal hunter instincts" go against modern day dating rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Men only want power and sex, something most men should never have nor deserve.What determines if someone deserves these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.Money may not guarantee happiness, but it is still necessary to be happy in today's world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.Those are the things that will improve a man's mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.I guess men are lonely because they don't want to starve to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.How is any of that going to help men make more money and have meaningful relationships with the opposite sex? Women already do what you mentioned and many of them still have issues with income and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.So what are these solutions for men's issues that you're speaking of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:36 PM |
| – | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.Therapy isn't going to help you make more money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withMaybe. But a lot of men who try to achieve these vague platitudes will just become bitter and entitled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withSo you think it's easier for men to seduce women now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterWait, why is having a graduate degree so important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 04:18 PM |
| 0 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withThese are all subjective, unless you can name the objective ways of becoming interesting, handsome, and cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:49 PM |
| 5 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withWhat exactly are these traits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:44 PM |
| 3 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withIn what way is it getting easier? Elaborate please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:34 PM |
| 60 | It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships withThis would only make sense if the vast majority of men in relationships had all these traits. Plenty of them don't. Also, why do you insist on shaming struggling men so much, op? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.How is therapy supposed to help a depressed broke dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughYet not having any fear doesn't automatically mean that you'll have any success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Men trying to make connections should stop caring about potentially offending women.By this logic you should never ask women out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 07:30 PM |
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