VeryHappyYoungGirl Archive

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6	Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not? mehh. I’ve had relationships that end cleanly. I’ve had relationships that turn into non sexual friendships. I’ve had relationships that end but we still get together and bang when we don’t have anything else happening. Every relationship is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 01:54 AM
11	The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only". 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 09:01 PM
1	How true is the claim "more men want casual sex than women"? Mostly in agreement I guess. I just think the difference in demand is less than the raw numbers might suggest. Let’s say we had a world with 900 women looking to get laid and 1000 men looking for the same, then everybody mostly partnered off…with your usual shifting partner flux. In this world, Tinder may wind up with 50 women on it, and 150 men. That would make you ‘feel’ like there were 300% as many men looking for sex. But really the difference is more like 10%	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 05:14 PM
1	How true is the claim "more men want casual sex than women"? Well… sometimes. I’m not above a one night stand. But if it’s good you go back for seconds and thirds… So I wind up in a situationship easily, because I am a woman. The guy I like spending time with may have a higher sex drive than me and be with multiple women. And the guy I didn’t like as much is out on tinder still fishing for puss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 04:45 PM
1	How true is the claim "more men want casual sex than women"? I guess we are having trouble with definitions, I definitely count FWB as casual sex, and assume that this is where most women get it. They find a guy they like and stick with him. I know I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:56 PM
1	How true is the claim "more men want casual sex than women"? No. Women don’t need to be constantly trolling bars either. Men do have higher sex drives and women marginally control when casual and semicasual sex is had. Your 10-1 ration on tinder isn’t saying 10X the number of men are having casual sex, it is just saying 10x are having trouble finding the partners they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:49 PM
3	How true is the claim "more men want casual sex than women"? That’s not exactly scientific. Women may not use tinder because they simply dont need it. Any reasonably attractive woman can walk into a bar and get casual sex that night, reliably. Similarly attractive men cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:30 PM
2	Is being married to a person you do not love anymore really that bad? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 12:29 AM
6	Q4W - Would you date a man who did this? I constantly change small details about my life on here too, to make me less identifiable, not because I love lying so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 01:55 AM
1	CMV: Dating for hetrosexual men isn't about getting a girl it's about finding someone who you are compatible it If you say so. My experience tells me volleyball guys score a lot easier than Counterstrike heroes But I have nothing to back it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:34 AM
12	CMV: Dating for hetrosexual men isn't about getting a girl it's about finding someone who you are compatible it This is two sided. You want someone to fall for you, not who you are pretending to be. But you also may be repulsive so that isn’t gonna work. I think men need to actively develop attractive traits, while at the same time peacocking their best real traits. Faking who you are may get you laid, but if it gets you married you will end up regretting it. In other words, If you live in a shithole and play videogames 60 hours a week, being honest about who you are isn’t going to pull in the ladies. But…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 04:51 PM
1	Most men should work on looks, money, and status when it comes to getting women instead of game and cold approach. But a woman just looking to get dicked down only needs looks. One climbing a social ladder mainly cares about status. One looking to marry may emphasize money. Few guys hit the trifecta and women settle for one all the time. Also, don’t forget “funny.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 12:58 AM
4	Most men should work on looks, money, and status when it comes to getting women instead of game and cold approach. Everybody projects their desires onto others. Player/Game approach is great if you are looking for shallow encounters. Security/Status is great for longer term relationships. Both can can still be helpful in the other’s wheelhouse. Looking better helps everyone. Really it is a long checklist of items ranging from whether you open a door to what shoes you wear to how she likes the smell of your sweat. The more boxes you check, the better your odds. AND NOT EVERY WOMAN WANTS THE SAME THINGS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 03:36 AM
12	What's the difference between men and women who do enjoy dating, and those who don't? About 30 lbs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 05:22 PM
5	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread I’ll answer that if you answer how strict gun control worked out for 10s of thousands of the children of Cambodia. You all hyperfocus on one type of threat while ignoring the other. What is even crazier is the hyperfocus is what is causing this. The buffalo shooter specifically said in his manifesto he was a leftist trying to inflame the fight about gun control. These asshole terrorists are almost all copy cats. They continue to do it because it continues to make them famous. Why don’t you stop …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 03:13 PM
1	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread The right to defend yourself is a natural right. It is not given by the state, but can rather only be infringed by the state. Also, pages 3-7 of the Heller decision explain specifically (with references) why you are the one twisting the second amendment’s meaning. https://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/07pdf/07-290.pdf	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:36 PM
1	Is "stealth wealth" a bad idea for someone who wants love? I am going to go out on a limb here and say that anyone that follows FDS is a Low Value Woman. They think they are having high standards, but what they are actually doing is making sexual relationships transactional. They are literally prostitutes pimping themselves out. Frankly, how you should display wealth is really dependent on your goals. Do you want a partner of equal status? live non-flashily within your means and date equals. Want a huge power imbalance in your favor? be flashy and pea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 02:09 PM
1	The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a woman I feel for the short guys. It really sucks to get hit for the way you were born with nothing to do about it. all I can say is remember that it only rules out the superficial, shallow women. So it actually helps to filter for quality long term partners, at the cost of casual sex with shallow skanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:34 PM
2	The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a woman Absolutely. They also need to recognize diminishing returns. Going from bad shape to good shape is a huge increase. Good shape to great shape much less so. Great shape to bodybuilder even less (except for a small subset of women). Eventually putting the work into your body isn’t the easiest way to upgrade your attractiveness….but it is for a huge majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:31 PM
7	The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a woman Work with what you can. The easiest thing to work on is looks. if you aren’t in shape and you dress like garbage, you have a really simple (simple doesn’t mean easy) thing to attack. The funny thing is, improving your looks tends to slowly improve the other areas. If you look better, people will react to you better across all aspects of life. This leads eventually to more money and confidence. More confidence is the keystone in an attractive personality… So if you are serious about being more at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 03:20 AM
2	Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men today and plastic packaging….and personal computer ownership….and declining church attendance….and a million other things. Correlation is weak evidence of causation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 04:20 AM
7	Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men today The decline of the American physique is both real and well documented. Obesity rates are skyrocketing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 02:59 PM
2	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives Nope, no diseases. Thanks for caring. And yes they are preventative if you talk to your partner about your sexual health, and confirm their test before you sleep with them. Also, I very specifically stated I haven’t had “tons of casual partners.” Would you consider sleeping with someone you have been dating a month and stay with several months “casual?” Most wouldn’t. I have had very few short term partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:23 PM
1	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives Believe it or not, STD tests are a more accurate method to avoid those than a dick count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:04 PM
3	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives Your husband is a braver man than I. I’m certain most men are. It is interesting that you respond to my criticism of your numbers suggesting they are too low with a study that suggests that we should double the reported counts of women. And if I am in the 85th percentile for sexual partners, I’m not shamed by it as you think I ought to be. I haven’t spent my life shackled to poor matches because I am afraid to move on like most women I know. I view that as a positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 12:41 PM
5	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives Interesting. The peaks at 5, 10, 20, 30, 50 Show that an awful lot of people are estimating rather than counting. Women are going to estimate low. I stand by that I am not exceptionally promiscuous. I just have not spent as much time in LTR’s as my average peer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 12:16 PM
1	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives The last one I met was an 8th grade English teacher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 12:10 PM
2	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives 2 a year through your single life isn’t that many. It adds up for those of us that aren’t fortunate enough to find lasting love young. Like I said, I am a midwest office worker, not some coastal party girl. But you go ahead and believe women telling you they have had 3 partners in their mid thirties. I’m sure they are being honest to you, a person who is obviously uncomfortable with double digit numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:05 AM
9	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives lol. Not every day. All of our opinions are colored by our experiences. You apparently have lived a pretty sober life. I have less so. I'm a middle aged midwest suburbanite with an office job that lost her virginity in her early 20s. I'd never consider myself very slutty, but I had my wild streaks. My relationships usually last 2-6 months without a lot of space between. I was with one man exclusively for a decade. I have multiple acquaintances that are, at my age, regulars at orgies. I myself on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:05 AM
7	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives ...and there are plenty of women that often take several dicks in a day too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 12:32 AM
1	To what extent is society aware of how much drugs like birth control, weed, and antidepressants affect women's mate selection? Nurterer maybe? The dude that stays home and helps take care of the kids instead of picking fights with Sabretooths. I probably read that article 15 years ago. cut me some slack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 01:19 AM
1	To what extent is society aware of how much drugs like birth control, weed, and antidepressants affect women's mate selection? I think you have harlequin romance on the brain my friend. You are reading tumescence that isn’t even there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 12:52 AM
3	To what extent is society aware of how much drugs like birth control, weed, and antidepressants affect women's mate selection? The theory I have seen presented is that birth control works by tricking your body into believing it is pregnant, and sends your mind into “nesting” mode. So you stop chasing those rugged hunter types, and start wanting some nice gentle long term provider types. I don’t know it is true, but when I was younger I had several relationships fall apart within weeks of me getting comfortable enough with them to decide they were worth me starting the pill back up. I never felt like I changed…but someth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:36 PM
6	To what extent is society aware of how much drugs like birth control, weed, and antidepressants affect women's mate selection? Reeeeeee!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:31 PM
6	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America They are inside eating icecream. No, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 08:02 PM
2	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America BMI is a really shit indicator of corpulence for anybody that carries a lot of muscle. All it has going for it is ease of measurement, it is just a total garbage indicator. We should normalize using Waist to Hip ratios or 1 of 10 other things that are fairly easy and just better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 08:01 PM
1	Is it possible to love someone and cheat on them? Well, I guess if we have different definitions of what love is, we will never agree 🙂 For me, love is just liking something so much that it hurts when it is gone. Liking it so much that it has become a need instead of a desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/22 05:09 PM
12	Is it possible to love someone and cheat on them? Oh I very much disagree. I think selfish people are capable of love. They are just too selfish to give love the respect it deserves, and won’t deny themselves pleasure if they get the opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/22 02:02 PM
7	Do you care about a guy's "number" if so what ranges are do you prefer? So you think 1-2% of women is “not actually a thing.” It’s literally millions of women in this country that have had 4+ by your own numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 11:06 PM
6	Do you care about a guy's "number" if so what ranges are do you prefer? That is a totally groundless claim. 50% of American Abortions are repeats. Heres a story about a woman with 15: https://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/abortion-addict-admits-multiple-abortions-suicide-attempts/story?id=8594347	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 08:24 PM
6	Do you care about a guy's "number" if so what ranges are do you prefer? I must be older than most of you. I feel like 2 or 3 people per adult year single is reasonable. None of us want to wait a year into a relationship to find out the sexual compatibility sucks. By the time you hit 40+ years old, that can really add up even if you aren't a whore (and hey, I can admit to a couple of short but significant “whore” phases across my life). Personally I was married and faithful for a decade. But my “count,” if I actually kept track and knew it, would likely sound intimid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 08:13 PM
5	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Wait wait wait. Are you honestly claiming that a man donating to a sperm bank is a method of skipping child support?!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 12:13 AM
28	Are straight men attracted to women in a different way than lesbians are? I think men have less reason to focus on finger length lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 11:54 PM
1	“WhAt ThE heLl Is WroNg WiTh yOu” AND equal lefts.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/05/20 06:35 AM
11	Huffington Post writer blames male entitlement on an abrupt, anxiety-induced interview departure. Gets called out in Twitter comments. If you listen to NPR you have heard of her. So if your circle of people is similar to the microcosm that a huffpost writer is likely to inhabit, everyone you know certainly has listened to her.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/12/19 04:49 PM