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What i find the most bizarre about that argument is the sheer disconnect they have. They talk like women are the only ones performing "emotional labour" in a relationship. Whatever happened to men having to be a rock to lean on? Is that not performing emotional labour? We have to deal with their insecurity, mood swings, crying, stress, supporting them through emotional events. That's what you do as a partner in a relationship. I know they are just arguing in bad faith, but why go out of your way…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 04:29 PM
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Absolute truth in the western world. Less the case outside of it. But they for some reason act like they are just as oppressed. White women are the priviliged class in the western world but they act like they have it the worst, it's absolutly bonkers. Even women who dont identify as feminist have difficulty not going in full defensive mode when confronted with your arguments. It's really weird to me just how strong their in group bias is. Men get defensive too but we can call an asshole a asshol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/26 08:29 PM
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Depends on what you see as doing well. Mentally i'm great, having made it through my childhood and the coping mechanisms i learned make it so that there is not much that fases me anymore. On other metrics i'm not. Recently got dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years, am not in contact anymore with my mother since 6 months due to long standing issues reaching a boiling point. And my job is getting me nowhere and am looking for something else. But life is what you make of it, i have a very solid base i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 11:28 AM
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Sorry to hear that man. I entered puberty pretty quick and am naturally a wide set, strong dude. So my experiences have differed from yours. I got in plenty of fights i did not start, dont get me wrong. But i did manage to finish them in a way that they would not fuck with me again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 11:23 AM
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That's the main part for me. The self reliance it has taught me, i rather have that and not have anybody who gives a shit then not have that and have to rely on others constantly for my wellbeing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 11:20 AM
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I honestly dont feel that way. I'm happy to be born a man and would do it again if i had the choice. It definetly has it struggles and i can relate to the point that you're making. But i like my body, i like the power and physicality of it, it's usefull sometimes that people are wary or afraid of me. That way they leave me the fuck alone. I've found that most people cant empathise or relate to something unless they've experienced it themselves and with being a man, it has saved me from a lot of …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 08:35 AM
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Something that played a role in my case and i suspect in a lot of cases, is not realising that some acts are violence or things thay are worth being reported about. For example, as a child whenever i got hit by a girl and went to my parents or a teacher, the response was along the line of "what did you do" , "it does not hurt that much" , "girls are weaker". When i defended myself or hit a girl it created a shit storm cause the girl would start crying or go complain and it would be taken a lot m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/26 07:09 AM
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A couple of good comments here so i'm gonna throw in my 2 cents. I dont necessairily doubt that they have had bad experiences with men, but i've found that they are quick with labeling it sexual assault or rape. I've read a lot of their stories online and have talked with women about it in real life. Some of the situations they have described to me i would simply not register as assault myself. Some of it is me being a man and not feeling threatened, even though what happened to me was sexual as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/26 07:32 AM
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Regular men in america only got to vote from 1820 onwards. They still had to pay a tax and it took another 30 years before black men could also vote in most places. So that's 70 years ( a generation) between all men could vote and all women could vote. So yes i'm gonna deny there was ever a "patriarchy" in the current sense of the word. Yes men had at times a lot more legal possibilities then women in history but the difference is not as stark as it is thought of today. It's mostly the differenc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/26 06:24 AM
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People will suprise you and not always in a good way. There are a lot of callous and unfeeling people in the world. For some it's a coping mechanism for others it's cruelty. The more you encounter it, the better you end up dealing with it. Sometimes it's best to live your life in your way and let them live theirs in their way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 07:36 PM
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Hey, just putting it out there that it's ok to choose your battles. It's not you against the world, cause you aint gonna win that. The world will destroy you. Speaking from experience here. Stand for what you believe in but dont engage with every chance to have conflict. It's gonna wear out your mental something fierce and it's utterly exhausting. Most of those people are not gonna change their minds. It's just gonna make them uncomfortable in the moment. Sometimes it's definetly worth it, but i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 07:21 AM
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Good idea, the only thing i disagree with personally is that men should fear more. If there's one thing that's too much of in society it's fear. The news, the goverment, your family they always focus on bad things and try to sell you protection which in turn makes you feel scared. 99% of your days absolutly nothing is gonna happen to you while your out on the street. So why walk around with fear? In my opinion people should fear less instead of more. That's how we get intrusive goverment control…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 08:50 AM
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Just quessing, but maybe they did not register what happened to them as being assault? It took me reading stories from women about their assaults before i started realising that some of the stuff that happened to me was also assault by a legal definition. It definetly made me uncomfortable and pissed off when those moments happened. But i did not carry them with me either, life goes on. Maybe that's part of it? I feel for us men our fysical integrety is less important or something or we are less…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 08:43 AM
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For me personally it was cause i did not attribute what has happened to me as something illegal or abusive. Like it was just an unpleasant or uncomfortable situation, just stuff that happens in life. But when i read these stories from women how they were assaulted or harassed and i compare it to my experiences slowly realisation set in. I'm a bit unsure how to feel about it still. Cause is it assault by a legal definition? Yes. Do i still think that they overexagerate? Totally. What is for them …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 12:30 PM
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Those laws have been there for decades, the current right wing politicians were not even born when those were put in place. It seems strange to me to apply blame for that to parties who did not even exist when those laws were voted in. The general public does not link those laws to those right wing parties in either case. The biggest right wing party only exist since 2001, the second biggest since 2004. A lot of the men who vote right see what the current right wing parties are voting in as more…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 07:59 AM
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The thing is in my country the right does not create issues that specifically hit men. They just screw everyone over equally, some laws hit women more proportionally. So i dont see how the left causes less harm to men. In my country they favour women while pushing men to the right. That is causing harm in my eyes. It is probably different in your country i guess. As to men choosing forces that abuse them, they choose the force that seems to represent them. The left abuses them too but does not s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 07:12 AM
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I dont fully get what you mean. The left pushes less for new laws that activly harm men, but they dont tackle the decades old laws that harm men either. Like conscription, harsher criminal sentencing, availability of social services specificaly for men as there are some for women. Even mothers being the primary caretakers are not being fought against that hard. At least not in my country (belgium). When it comes to gender imbalance they have mostly just put forth laws that benefit women. I would…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 06:55 AM
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With regards of speaking to objectification i would argue that women are looked at as human way more then men are. Women get sexually objectified a lot more then men but other then that they are more treated as individuals in online discourse. With men they quickly become a sum off all the other men or a sum of their qualities. Think of labour, violence, sexual tendensies, emotions. Men are looked at more as some kind of monolith, which is a form of objectification. Women get treated as a monoli…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/26 11:07 AM
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Well said, a partner must be a positive addition to your life. Not a life's goal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/26 10:27 AM
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Because everything needs to be around sex duh! In all seriousness i think the whole male loneliness is more about men wanting to feel desired for who they are and having someone who supports them. Not like friends do, but more in a partner sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/26 09:47 AM
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Not physically disabled but an older man with a long history of drug abuse. He was not using at that point in time. He was really struggeling with how much of his life he had wasted on drugs and how it prevented him from finding a relationship. My collega was not against sex work. I feel like most social workers go to work in the subjects that interest them, since most of them are women, they tend to be female oriented subjects or groups. Have not heard a lot of dislike for male groups personall…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 12:30 PM
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Left bias definetly, feminist one mostly in college students, less in the actual workfield altough it is present. The feminist rethoric does not seem as radical in my country from what i see coming from the usa. But most social workers are women, so they tend to have a big blind spot when it comes to male issues. But i've heard a female collega bring forth the idea to give a male client an allowance so he could visit prostitutes. So it really differs honestly. And uh with regards to your friend.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 11:52 AM
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I would be very suprised. I cant think of a society where men are viewed as less disposable then women. And it's that line of thinking that really influences how much support men recieve.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 11:28 AM
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Ok, but lets exclude statistic proof for a moment. Do you think there are places where there are more women who are homeless/houseless? Cause then i'm interested to know why you think that would be a possibility.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 11:25 AM
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It is a major difference and there is indeed no uniform way in which homelesness and type of homelesness is counted across the globe. But what is the point you're trying to make here? It's unclear to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 11:04 AM
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As a former male social worker i'd say the bias is just the same as mainstream society. You would assume they would be more aware of their bias due to the education we recieve but unfortunatly they are not. It gets a bit better when you are dealing with rougher client groups cause those draw in more male social workers and female social workers who are willing to look at the ugly side of life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 11:00 AM
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To add on to this, i used to work as a drugs social worker and for a significant section of our homeless clients they did not want to go to housing or shelters. For the simple reason that they were not allowed to use drugs there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 09:05 AM
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Let me give you my point of view as a man living in a european country. 1 we call those people houseless, not homeless. They are included in our statistics. 30% of the homeless are women and they usually are the ones who are houseless (so a lot better living conditions) and are homeless for a less longer period then men. Sex work amongst the homeless is mostly a thing amongst the homeless themselves. Prostitution is legal here, so very few men are going to have sex with a homeless woman. Homeles…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/26 08:42 AM
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You make a really good point in that a lot of men dont realise they have been sexually assaulted by definition. I myself did not even realise it untill i read more stories from what women describe as sexual assault. It truly is way more prevalent then is assumed. In fact from the talks i've had with my male friends, almost all of them have been sexually assaulted at one point in their lives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/26 10:16 PM
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I dont know man, this is the first time i encountered her cause i'm new here. But i read this like it was an obsessed rant. She means well but i think she just needs a break, that might be why she deleted her account.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 11:07 AM
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