Verygoodcheese Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I think all men are the same, tbh 100%	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 09:12 PM
5	I think all men are the same, tbh Nah we were friends for years before we took that step. He wasn’t my type and there was zero chemistry or tension between us till late year 2. It was me who made the first move, he was afraid it would ruin our friendship but worked out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 09:11 PM
17	I think all men are the same, tbh I appreciate your pst and honesty and spelling out your thoughts for me. It’s really sad you guys believe that about all men but I do understand it. I have guy friends because of work so I see and hear the gross crap some men say. I can garuntee my husband isn’t like that, so it’s safe to say he’s not the only one. I was practically a prude even after we got together due to sexual violence as a kid I hadn’t delt with. Maybe that’s how I ended up with him I just couldn’t handle anything that made…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 08:22 PM
21	I think all men are the same, tbh Well I guess that’s the difference. I met him to be a friend with no intention to date, and maybe if more people did that on both sides this hook up culture wouldn’t be a thing. We’d know if we were even possible matches before the first date. I don’t know why the age old advice about meeting people doing things you enjoy is not pursued but that is where you will most often meet like minded people. Volunteer, play sports, purse hobbies and interests.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:58 PM
27	I think all men are the same, tbh Honestly because I got stupidly lucky with my husband. I still need to hear how other people handle the crap women are expected to deal with in daily life. I work around all men. I deal with negging or having inappropriate moves made by men I work with or that are supposed to be friends. Sure primary this place is about dating but the forum also contains a lot of helpful stuff that role models good responses to jerky men in general. I’m really not great at that. I do not have much practice and t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:51 PM
46	I think all men are the same, tbh Eh my husbands awesome so at least one guy isn’t like that. Don’t lose hope. Btw my husband was my best friend for years before we got together so perhaps that is the distinguishing characteristic. Only date guys who see women as people first, and are wanting to hang out even if it’s platonic till you build an actual relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 07:11 PM
4	Westworld - Gross or no! lol no worries. I really did love the show though and I hate pornography, flinched at the nudity myself. Especially rape but it’s one of those stories where it’s to make you feel repelled so you can determine good guy from bad guy. Porn is so normalized that it draws people in then yeah they have to admit objectification of women is wrong. The women are treated so bad, then they kick ass and end up being the two powerful main characters that change “the world”. I actually made my male friends wa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 11:08 PM
3	Westworld - Gross or no! Sweetie that’s a song lyric. I was quoting a song that the guy talks about his destruction of women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 10:51 PM
6	Westworld - Gross or no! I’m a woman lol Furthermore wtf assuming I’m a guy?! Because I can have a balanced view that’s different than yours I must be a guy? If you look at post history I mention many times being a woman. Even on this forum.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 10:45 PM
9	Westworld - Gross or no! It’s really not. They do it to de humanize them. Once people start seeing them as “people” subconsciously they start clothing them or covering them up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 09:42 PM
5	Westworld - Gross or no! It’s actually a pretty deep show and there is a parallel between the robots development of consiousness and humanities. Most humans playing a role they were cast in, following societies ideals and not really thinking for themselves. (Like robots) Until they do. It’s a pretty great series to be honest. The nudity rape/murder/prostitution is part of people figuring out which path they are on “good guy” or “bad guy” the ones screwing prostitutes, raping and murdering are not the good guys. I would …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 09:40 PM
1	After 6 months of no contact The wild narcissist appears. 5 years of nothing but sacrifice for a man. It feels good to know he’s upset his power is gone. “You deserve, but I probably can’t” lmao I know. Always that making a negative seem positive. (You ladies have done wonders showing me the light) I appreciate you taking the time to write that out. I agree there are times it is used as a slur but it is actually the scientific term for our sex. It is the descriptor that fits in language of technical nature. It seems a generational thing. There is nothing inherently dehumanizing about the term. Some people choose to use it that way. Allowing it to be taken like that and made into a slur is sad in my opinion. Sure some people are asshole bigots but the word survived centuries without the wor…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/20 12:57 PM
43	Happy February 15th to newly single ladies ❤️💅 Or quality time if you aren’t into things. I recieved no flowers or gift but had a great valentines. My husband and I drove to montreal(6 hours away) sat in my favourite 70 year old cafe, had a great meal and enjoyed the people watching and ambiance over great conversations. Went to all the little places I love, had a great dinner and drove home. Held hands almost the entire 6 hour each way car ride. It was awesome though I know most would have wanted things and a hotel. I just wanted to hang ou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 07:18 PM
9	What I’ve been saying! I agree with you. I’m 43 have a very high sex drive when in an emotional connected relationship but have only ever had sexual desire for 2 men. I had deep emotional connection to them both. no attraction otherwise. I thought there was something wrong with me till I saw the Demi sexual thing. It might be a cop out description for many but for some of us there is literally no desire without that bond. I am basically asexuality unless I feel that deep connection then suddenly all engines firing. De…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 05:22 PM
3	this sub has opened my eyes to the lies that surround us and i just wanted to add to the pile an example that i have noticed. Just want to say I’m saving this entire thread. It feels like the old ways are changing and it’s awesome.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 05:04 PM
1	After 6 months of no contact The wild narcissist appears. 5 years of nothing but sacrifice for a man. It feels good to know he’s upset his power is gone. “You deserve, but I probably can’t” lmao I know. Always that making a negative seem positive. (You ladies have done wonders showing me the light) Yeah I’m a 42 year old woman. Female is an actual word, we can’t suddenly decide it’s a bad one just because some incels used it that way. it’s not a negative word unless you let people make it one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:52 PM
76	My husband worked at a sperm bank. The age cut off for donors was 34. Men are apparently delusional about their own biological clock lmao Did you post a rebuttal on that forum ? I love linking those people to online statements from the actual autism society about the link between older dads and increased risk of autism, and the research showing it increases risk of bipolar disorder and several other psychiatric disorders.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:06 PM
5	We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be cooler That was so smart of you. Well done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 03:53 PM
18	MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE. Horrible. First thought was one of anarchy but I’m sure we can’t speak of that on a subreddit. This stuff has to be stopped. I guess getting the word out is all we can do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 10:49 PM
18	MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE. Totally agree. Seems this should be part of an awareness campaign for the general public. I have a few male friends who would definitely change their perspective on porn if they new this. I believe even most men would be aghast this was happening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 10:47 PM
17	MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE. Is it still on porn hub? Sorry I couldn’t read the entire article as a sexual abuse survivor I just don’t trigger myself busy reading to much, but if it’s still on pornhub this seems like something we need to do something about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 06:53 PM
43	MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE. Is it still in porn hub? Sorry I couldn’t read the entire article as a sexual abuse survivor I just don’t trigger myself by reading to many details, but if it’s still on pornhub this seems like something we need to do something about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 06:53 PM
25	Man wants to abandon GF of 3 years after she was hospitalized for 2nd degree burns, finds her repulsive to look at. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!!!!!! With you 100%. Someone should tell him to dump her now so she doesn’t waste anymore if her life with such a shallow p.o.s.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 02:20 AM
30	The TRUTH is coming out. Study finds male ageing affects outcomes of IVF and ICSI treatments in couples where there is unexplained infertility, regardless of the woman’s age. If you think this is damming google the link between older dads and autism rates, as well as several psychological disorders.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 04:57 AM
4	How do you guys navigate aging ? Do you think your mane value is your age, and expect men to think so too. Maybe you need to get to know yourself better so you can see your true value. I am 43 and I feel more feminine and sexy than I ever have, and have a lot of male attention. Don’t worry so much. Take care of yourself, health and mental health, build a life you love and age becomes a non issue. I am married but still get admirers. They might like my looks but confidence and the knowing of who you are that comes with age makes…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 03:46 AM