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Vespe50/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 02:03 PM
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Vespe50/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:24 AM
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Vespe50/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:34 AM
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Meditation
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:38 PM
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Because it's online...
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:38 PM
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Oh please, he probably cheated
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:29 PM
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Majority of them are in jail for sexual crimes, I suppose...
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:01 PM
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I'm not gonna lie, I won't read what you wrote, i entered in this subreddit with good intentions but know I see that majority of people here are not "purple" pill, just red.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:55 PM
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???? What?? ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:59 PM
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You stayed the same during your life, but it's not uncommon for young people to let other people bully them or their partner mistreated them, then they become stronger with age and learn to be selfish in a good way. It's not an excuse, this is kinda common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:35 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:22 PM
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Sorry for my eng. Narnia don't listen to these guys, you know better now and you won't permit to be treated bad the next time. If you don't tell something nobody will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:18 PM
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No, It probably means that she become stronger and she doesn't behave like a doormat. Do you permit to other people to treat you the same way you did when you were younger? (Sorry for my eng)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:15 PM
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Second things, you are really an ignorant person, you have a lot of prejudices, this is the age of first marriage in Europe, look at it and the next time think twice before write nonsense https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.worldatlas.com/amp/articles/the-nations-of-europe-by-the-average-age-at-first-marriage.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:53 PM
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All your husband have mistresses ???? Ahahahhahahahahhahahahah oh my God this Is the first time someone said this to me, once i listened this phrase in a american TV show but i didn t belive americans actually belive this nonsense, watch less tv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:50 PM
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This is exactly what i was thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:32 PM
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They are perfect just at the beginning, the first months, the honeymoon phase, lovebombing phase, then they show plenty of red flags, you can spot them after that, read about lovebombing a lot and maybe you will be able to spot them in the lovebombing phase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:03 AM
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How ugly is he? If he is ugly don t do It. If he Is good lookin give It a try, the attraction may grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:55 AM
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I m sorry, it's a very difficult situation, I have no good advice to give you, I hope your situation improves !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:26 PM
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Why wait? Why do you need more time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:56 PM
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It s not porn!!!!! He said that to make his wife lose confidence!!!!! It s negging, he want make her feel bad about herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 08:23 AM
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What Is the stereotype? Just explain It to me. Maybe they teached you boundaries and self love, but this doesn t mean they are right about other things. Twenty Is too much. Maybe you can love 3 different men, they will love 3 women, but your time is also limited. You work and come back home and divide your time between 3 men? Maybe they also work and have 3 women. A bunch of people had a lover in every century, polyamory It s not very different, maybe you think it s more honest but are you sure?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:23 AM
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this is sophism, you hide behind the concept that I cannot understand, I repeat it, you cannot love twenty people, for me you are only frightened by the banality of everyday life. This is your escape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:31 PM
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Polyamory makes no sense! There are plenty of people you can connected with, if you continue to fuck others you will find a better match with another man, and your man will find a better woman, this will never end. He will fall in love with other 10 women. What sense does this make?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:23 PM
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Just tell him with calm! explain your reasons and the way you feel, if he is a good guy he will change his behaviour, if he Is a bad guy he will find excuses to his actions or he will make you promises and than nothing will change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:09 AM
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I don t laugh at all, this poor women incapable to defend themself, they will kill their self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:05 AM
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Exactly! They teach men to be better narcisists and better abusers. I don t understand why this is considered social acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:03 AM
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When men are in front of women they find really attractive they show off, it s just their instinct, it not a logical process
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:08 PM
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you can just venmo me the money ????? What bastard!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:04 PM
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What a great man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:10 PM
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To make you feel obligated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:37 AM
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I really love the clown face!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:58 PM
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Matthew hussey dating advice coach said to tell him "i m waiting for the right person" (this means maybe you are not the one) go check his video Another youtuber mark rosenfed made a video how to refuse sex https://youtu.be/z0kHcJBSgjI Watch them both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 07:57 AM
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Doubt? Impossible! He should write a fantasy book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:58 PM
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I don t belive in "do this for yourself", i don t enjoy sport, i enjoy stay on the couch and i don t care being flabby but i know that i don t like flabby men neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:47 PM
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More good looking you are, more good looking men will desire you. If you are 100kg find a good looking man is difficult. It s simple, i don t think we need to discuss how to become more good looking everybody know how: Be fit Dress well Ect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:50 AM
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Download the app Lifesum for diet Follow on instgram fit model for inspiration Join a subreddit to lose weight like r/loseit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:38 AM
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"my primary love language is fucking. I can't feel connection any other way!" = ahahahhahahhahaahhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:20 AM
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Remember his words dont matter!! Maybe he will tell you really sweet things, he will admit his mistakes, maybe he will be tender this time. If you give him a chance maybe for a month he will be the perfect boyfriend. This is all a lie, like an actor in a romantic comedy. He is the way he behaved, you alredy know him well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:18 AM
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I didn t like carrie, charlotte, Samantha neither she is basically just a man mind in a woman body. I liked Miranda but she was too much cinic, and i never liked steve. I loved Aiden, even if he was really naive. The show instead was really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:10 AM
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YES!!! "The way people treat you is a statement of who they are as a human being. It s not a statement about you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:02 PM
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I'm sure this normal, average man was a great son and a good friend No, i m not so sure, if he lack of empathy to understand your pain, he doesn t understand other people pain in general. Maybe your want to belive he is a good person after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:34 PM
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Because she is a fool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:32 AM
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He did the right thing, he is 71, his child would be an orphan of father before the age of 15
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 05:32 PM
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In Europe female doctors are +80%, and female nurse are almost 100%, men are not natural caregiver, doctors earn less in Eu because it s a national system so men are less interested in it, also work hours are less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:49 AM
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Aguilera - can t hold us down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:53 PM
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"He was, apparently, wrapping my birthday present and was late because of it. I was conflicted, I was physically shaking from the shock of being screamed at, and at the same time he presents me with an expensive down jacket that I’d talked about wanting. I couldn’t understand how to feel." = this is classic cognitive dissonance, you have at the same time thougth that he is both good and bad because he fake kind gesture but deep down you know his true personality. The rest is Lovebombing. And kin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 07:02 AM
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The cycle end at 40/45, after there is menstruation but without egg, he refer at the fact that newborn female have a lot of eggs, but they are selected by nature, and the majority die during childhood, he use this scientific fact but use it as a lie, it true that+95% of her eggs are dead but it doesn t mean her fertility decrease 95%, bad eggs got killed througt life even during childhood (i studied it in biology class, i m not sure to remember correctly)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:16 PM
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:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:54 PM
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I personally don t know exactly how many psychologist are trained well, but i have a couple of friends who did couple session with their abusive partners and she told me it was a nightmare because the narcisist convince the therapist he was the good guy and she was the crazy one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 08:00 PM
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A bunch of licensed psychologist don t know how to recognise abusive people because they are training to be on the side of the patient and emphatize with them and because they lie to the psychologist to seem like the victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:44 PM
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I dont like Perel in general, i have not listen to this, only 5 minutes and i alredy hate the guy. I just want tell you what Lundy Bancroft wrote = it s very dangerous to take the abusive man to therapy because he will learn and find more sofisticated excuse in his past to be the bad guy, also abusive people love to talk about themself and their past trauma, he exactly seem like this. Listen to him i dont think he has such trouble of self esteem, for me he belives he is the king of the world des…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:40 PM
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Life expectancy is a statistical measure, the majority of people follow this rule, the majority of women will die after their husband, older he is, longer she will stay alone. Just wacht your old neighborhood or your grandparents, i bet women outlive their husband in the majority of cases. Almost all the old women of my family outlived them, so my old neighborhoods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:38 PM
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I alredy wrote this comment, women live 5 years more than men, if you chose a man 10 years older 5+10=15 you will outlive him 15 years, all these years you will spend old and alone. This is not a good investment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:37 PM
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He is 12 older, women live 5 years more than men, statistically you outlive him about 17 years, so you will spend the last 17 years of your life alone... numbers don t lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 07:38 AM
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They know, but they dont care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:15 PM
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Cuddling at his place = sex "It seems like he really likes me" = why do you think that? Low effort men are not that interested, he likes sex, he likes your company for a while, he gives you little. You can find better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:11 PM
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This is hell on heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:27 AM
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Genetics + bad parenting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:26 PM
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he admitted he’s 48 but feels young at heart = aahahahhahaha, also avoid this liar! There is a lot of love-bombing and future-planning = i hate it, it's so dishonest, truly disgusting Thank you, this is really interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:33 AM
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As italian, this totally true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:50 AM
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Men always come back, it s a lot more easy to convince a woman to sleep with you if she already did. Minimal effort, maximum achievment. Bread crumbing is when a woman put 100% in a relationship and the men give the 10% (eg a little gesture of kindness) to make her belive he loves her and he can change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:27 PM
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I m losing hope so it is always pleasant to read that a woman is in a happy marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:53 AM
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If he has an ugly personality he is replaceable even if he make 4 times more than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:20 PM
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A man know how serious he is alredy in the first two months, i asked this to several male acquaintances and they agreed on this, so don t lose 6 months of your life, also , probably if you have to ask him, it s mean you have doubts about his intentions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:47 AM
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https://youtu.be/xPAat-T1uhE he knew it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:12 PM
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For me, if you are not interested in a man, it s better just stay with yourself and improve, don t waste your precious time, try to meet new men or stay by yourself, i think that the constant attention from men is like a drug, you get used to it and you start to build your self esteem on that, it s dangerous. (sorry for my eng)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:07 PM
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They have no idea that women are actually human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:22 PM
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Keep yourself busy, but also try to ask and see if he change behaviour, tell him something specific that you want him do, do not be vague (eg this weekend i want you to plan this date...) see if he want to make you happy with his actions or he doesn t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:39 AM
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look, another female liked me so you should too!! = exactly! LVM do this, stay away from them especially if they are mean with their ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:41 PM
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These men only live for beauty and status, this is sad but also scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:46 PM
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I follow matthe hussey advice, i don t know if i can post here his channel but look in youtube for hussey - get any guy to approach you (he made 3/4 videos how to make a guy approach, i also had a male friend who told me to use the same trick ), basically not make a move, but say something friendly and give him the chance to approach, so he have to make the effort but before that you have to give him hope to be succesfull. (sorry for my eng) or the video "i hired a love coach with matthew hussey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:39 AM
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For me, if a woman was raised with kindness and her parents teached her how to make herself respected, she will choose a man who treat her right. If her parents were angry, bitter or negletful she will choose bad men (sorry for my eng) i think is totally a imitative behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:31 AM
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Be a little bit clingy is cute!! Make men turn on their protective instincts. But if you want to be more strong or have more control just find a hobby especially a sport, you will be more relaxed,more strong, have less time to be worried and he will ask himself "what is she doing right now?" (Swimming, climbing, bodybuilding make you feel stronger physically and mentally)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:25 PM
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we didn’t talk again and it’s been a week = he is dead. Hi don’t forget about me = he want to fuck you again, when he is bored, he is also vain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:27 PM
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Nex time it will be : "..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:50 AM
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"Very affectionate physically" = a lot of men enjoy cuddles, even from prostitutes, it means nothing! "thought this man was of high value to me by these following reasons..." = some men at the beginning of the relationship do stuff so YOU fall in love with them, their intention is to stop after you are in love "He cares for you" = this are nice words, but his actions mean he doesn t care , he is using you, he keeps you hook, he gives you false hope, and he makes you waste your precious time. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 12:43 PM
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What he do for keeping your love? For keeping your sexual attraction? Your mindset is wrong, you think that if you give him everything he will never leave , but this will drain your energy and after that he will leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:42 AM
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Wow this is very interesting!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:39 AM
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Be polite and cold, if he was really interested in you he would not risk you to find another guy and he wouldn t waste this opportunity with you. He s not that interested but for sure he is happy to have your attention and he probably enjoy the fantasy to have sex with you later. (sorry for my english)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:59 PM
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This is so funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 06:54 PM
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Communication is a form of negotiation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:27 PM
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Look, he made you belive you had a connection, he s dishonest but if you revenge you become the crazy girl, this is an over reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:24 PM
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I have a stategie, it works 95% of the time!!! Write a 10 list of his best qualities and than write in what occasions he proved to have that qualities (usually those qualities are immaginary so he never proved to have them) also write a list of 10 faults he had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 07:07 PM
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Yea sure, so explain why gay men are a lot more promiscuous than gay women, men want occasional sex far more than women, so they are more polygamist than women. Marriage is monogamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:22 PM
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Reading (more than 10 years) And Drawing (i started few months ago but i m not very good at it) Swimming (4 Years ago) I want to learn to Cook well but for now i m not good at all I want also to learn sew my own skirt and dress, but i think maybe i will start in summer If you don t have any hobby go for a sport and books, the are the best thing you can do for yourself. (I considered also learning piano, climbing, jogging but i chose swimming and drawing, but unfortunatly i think that climbing gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 11:37 AM
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Probably the US laws are different than EU, in Italy usually women recive alimony (low but pretty constantly) also marriage gives you the right to take the health decisions for him, money if he dies working etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 10:06 PM
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Letberealforamoment, what are you talking about? A lot of women benefit from the marriage in terms of money if they divorce, if you stay with the same men for 15 years without marriage you got the same disadvantages of marriage without the protections marriage offers, what are you suggesting women do? Stay alone forever? Don t marriage but stay with the same men for 15 Years? This alternative are worse than marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:50 PM
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What s the alternative to marriage?? Be his girlfriend for 15 years?? But in this way you have the same disadvantages of marriage without the financial protection, you are not the heir if he dies, you also have no rights in case he is sick and unconscious (i m referring to the laws in my country, i don t know the US law, in my country if you are not married you can t have informations about his health)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:38 PM
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Don t reply, for me he is lost, too busy and not interested enough. Find another guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:26 PM
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This is a nonsense. Polygamy benefit men, monogamy benefit women. If marriage is a disadvandage for a woman, why women have to convince men to do it?? Chose the right man, discard peter pan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:41 PM
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Astrology????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:36 PM
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I will give it a try!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:56 PM
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You are thinking like a woman, a woman feel worse after getting used for sex, a man feel worse when he is rejected, the worst spite you can do to a womanizer is never sleep with him, tell him is like other men and his tactics are patetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:24 AM
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Don t get angry. Everybody is entitled to have shallow standards, i have them too,i don t like bald guys, for every man who doesn t want you there is a man you want you. Just don t think about too much, you only need one man, not a collection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:56 PM
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You know him , i don t, the problem is not if his family pay for your house, if they are rich it s good for you! the problem is if he is reliable as partner, sometimes people who define themeself as artist are just people with superiority complex but other times are people with passion for what they do, just ask yourself what kind of guy he is deep down.if you belive he have a wonderful personality there is no problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:45 PM
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He is an artist???? How many hours he work per day? A lot of people can make a living with illustrations, there are a lot of jobs you can do if you know how to draw. Is he lazy? Is he too pretentious to accept some jobs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:22 PM
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Some men are more social awkward than the main character of Taxi Driver
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 01:40 PM
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The idea they are the "prize"is a the cornerstone idea of TRP. One of their motto is literally "you are the prize"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:32 PM
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For me he is not so honest, this is a word salad to confuse you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:30 PM
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Ahhahaha in my country prenup are not legally valid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:09 PM
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Next time ask him a tantra massage, so he work for you too, every time he make a request to you, you make a request to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:07 PM
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Maybe you are still attract to hotandcold kind of guys? A little bit clingy is good, maybe you have made a good impression to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:04 PM
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No, it s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:02 PM
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I really don t belive you should upgrade to a different man if you have one who is worth it, this is a TRP idea. What subreddit he read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:03 PM
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you are not an idiot, don t blame yourself, if you are honest you expect that other people are honest, and liars know that. Every man who is a good player pretend to be interested in the woman, so they ask questions about family, passions, politic, how you see yourself in the future and talk about himself, normal people ask this questions to know the other person and create a connection, players ask these questions to fake a connection, they just fake empathy!! Only time will tell you the truth.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:53 PM
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It s very difficult, maybe you could try to make a deal, tell your sister that you will be nice with him if she read a book, and than you give her a book that show why women are attract to bad men hoping she understand her mistake, if he is a manipulator/abusive maybe you can give her "why does he do that" bancroft or "who s pulling your strings" braiker (you should read the book before to make sure it s right for her) also you could write in a diary all his misbehave and when she will be in a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 09:22 PM
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Because women are usually more kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:36 PM
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I really don t understand poligamy, i don t understand how you can be happy see your partner have sex with another woman, and also i don t understand why if you are bisexual you chose to date men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:19 PM
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1 i obviously read the book 2 when people don t have argument they start offending like you did, one of the basic rules of education is that you don t offend people when you discuss with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:45 PM
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No! He never say that caos is feminine, i am right you never actually listen to him! He say that traditional nature (which is caos) is represent by a woman, because women select the men who are deserving to pass their genes and nature select the individual, and old traditional stories know that well (so they chose a feminine figure) which is actually true. Do you even wacth more than 5 minutes????? You are right you don t have to prove me anything, i m not your teacher, but before judge somethin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:30 PM
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What videos did you watch specifically? What concept in his book was so offensive to say he is the worst? Be specific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:06 PM
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Be honest, you never listened jordan peterson, this is why you think he is worse than he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:33 AM
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I also follow old dating advice of Matthew Hussey (good but not the best, he is too nice) about Attraction Formula : 1 Visual chemestry (be fit, well dress, feminin, classy mannerism and also kino/slight physical touch) 2 Percived challenge (show you have standard to be you, don t fall in love too easy, don t give up too much of your time to him) 3 Percived value (talk about what you like of your life, about what you have passion for, your friends, family, adventure,hobby, sell yourself well) 4 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:28 AM
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I can relate, my trust issue were strong, so my friendships were superficial, therapy helped me (i did only 7 sessions in a couple of months), maybe it can help you too. You could give it a try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:50 AM
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I don t want to get shoot, but Jordan Peterson is not that bad, he tell a lot of things, some of them are less smart, other are more smart. I listened his psicology lesson on YouTube (personality and trasformation and also maps of the meaning) and that give me a lot of insight about my behaviour and other people behaviour. Part of his fanbase is toxic but the other part is sane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 07:51 PM
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I think you should stay with a man you value/respect. There are a ton of men with good job, maybe he is not the right guy for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:49 PM
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Lol he think spend time with you is a sacrifice! What a loser! next guy will be better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:28 PM
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No, we don t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:23 PM
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1)That man can be change by love, an angry, selfish man can become a prince. No, a good man is good from the beginning. 2) it s a bad moment, he is tired, he is under pressure but deep down he is a good, kind guy. No, people who mistreat others when they feel bad are just worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 04:50 PM
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Men are jealous of their friends...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:11 AM
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Storytelling = they made up a story to make you belive they are good or interesting person, there are 5 categories 1)preselection 2)leader of men 3) protector of love ones 4)willingness emote 5) sucessful risk taker. Basically they tell you a story, like how they help a friend to overcome a bad moment, or how they organize an adventure, or how they felt moved when they saw the northen lights, or that they made the most romantic gesture to an ex, to make you belive they have these qualities (good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 07:30 PM
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Tell her!!!! She deserve more!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 11:49 AM
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What should you ask? There is this proverb = never ask to the owner if the wine is good (mean the owner will always tell you the wine is good), manipulators are like politicians, they are great speakers, they know the difference between good and bad, they will tell you they will do the right thing, but after the election... Words don t mean anything, only actions have meaning (a brief change doesn t count). For me he behave in a good way ONLY to win you back, after that he will start to behave b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:31 PM
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Mmm, i read 3/4 of pua books that i found for free on the internet (you can just read some parts of the book) but there are a lot of things in the blogs, also you can learn their tactics from their field reports or forum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:51 PM
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Some of the things they say are true, some men (like all of them) only want younger women , but there are plenty of men who don t , my neighbor married few months ago at 50 with a man the same age, she also have two adult kids (he s a normal guy, she is a little bit ugly but she have a bubbly personality, really joyful ) men who want 20/26 years old will avoid you so you don t have to make an effort to exclude them (sorry for my english)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:51 PM
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I read their tactics (pushandpull, storytelling, demonstrate higer value, compliance test) so i know them, some of their tactics can be used by women too, like kino or hold the frame or how to respond to a shit test. Read them! They are very interesting especially how to hold frame and shit test, basically they teach how respond to someone who is trying to make you feel bad!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:44 PM
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Just learn it, it s not difficult, it only seem difficult at the beginning! Take the license and then you can still use public transit so you can tell to others that you can drive but you don t enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 06:44 AM
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you are a commodity, like a car, a very precious object, they don t want to lose you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:15 PM
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The last time i checked TRP subreddit had more than 300000 people, in my country there is a site of pua with the same stuff and they have tons of people, they sell their course of seduction at 400/600€
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:01 PM
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They have tons of strategies, these are 1%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:58 PM
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I think it s bad for my health too, but now I know all their tricks and i belive now i m good at recognise toxic men really quick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:08 PM
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OMG!! totally true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:55 AM
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Smart narcisists DO loving things!! At the beginning of the relationship and when they feel that the partner want to leave them!! They are not stupid, they give you 10 % to get 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:44 AM
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Try watch this https://youtu.be/Al8bKaYplH0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 09:07 AM
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Hi! I wrote one of the two post you have quote, i met a lot of guys, just one of them was a 100% liar, the others were normal people. I wrote that post to remember to watch actions not words because selfish people are really good with words, i didn t mean all man are garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:31 AM
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I was 24, i think a lot of women are naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:06 PM
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I think storytelling is one of the basic of pua tactics, he also told me that he stopped to see a girl because her personality didn t match his and beauty was not sufficient for him (he told me she had the most beautiful face he ever saw,later i saw her but she was just a pretty girl) i think 30% of men use this tactic of storytelling to pretend to have a more interesting life, today i don t think he cares about personality at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:05 PM
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Remember apologies do not mean anything, even if he apologizes he would never treat you with love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 11:44 AM
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Make new memories, they cancel the bad ones. Or Make something little to make you feel proud of yourself, i start to draw and make me feel good, you can learn something new like an instrument or succed in a sport goal like run for 40 minutes 4 times a week for two months, give yourself little goals to reach and shame will decrease and pride will increase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:32 PM
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(Sorry for my eng) this are not "just neg", neg are the attempt to low the selfesteem of the other person to controll her and make her belive she is not enough and make her a people pleaser, so she gives up boundaries and self respect. No good person use neg, i could use neg with men but i won t do it because inflicting pain to controll a partner is wrong. Abusive people use an alternance of good and bad behaviour, so they use kindness not because they are kind but to keep the person in love wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:54 PM
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I love that book!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:27 AM
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Ahahahhhhhh superfunny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 10:00 PM
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Matthew Hussey, he is pretty wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 06:46 AM
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