Vessiliana Archive

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2	favorite body part of husband Um, yes. That's my favorite body part on my husband! But aside from that... His butt is amazing. It always draws my attention. I could admire it for ages. His hands, especially his long, strong fingers. His lips... That Cupid's bow is heartbreakingly lovely, and his smile is just a little crooked. After 21 years of marriage, that smile still makes my heart skip. His eyes. Okay, I should stop now. I could go on and on about each bit of him.	/r/RedPillWives	14/06/18 10:53 PM
4	Welcome to RedPillWives!! Who are we? Who are you? Let's get to know each other :D I'd say 43 is a fair lot of years! :) But I do better with answering questions than with just saying (or typing) things, given that a lot of girls ... don't like what I have to say. The whole concept of men and women being different, as well as the buck needing to stop somewhere--and that needing to be the with the husband?--yeah, not too many girls I know in real life who are interested in that sort of thing.	/r/RedPillWives	14/06/18 03:04 AM
8	Welcome to RedPillWives!! Who are we? Who are you? Let's get to know each other :D I mostly just lurk here. I'm Vessiliana. I'm 43, and gracious, I've been married to my darling Sir for 21 years now. I'm pregnant with our eighth baby, and our oldest turns 20 this winter. I telecommute, and my darling Sir has two jobs, too. We enjoy writing (published novelists, writing together), playing Magic the Gathering, and listening to music. Also, sex. (Obviously. Hence the kids.) We are Catholic, too.	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/18 02:10 AM
1	How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings? Good bot.	/r/RedPillWives	15/10/17 11:44 PM
2	How do you move past your husband hurting your feelings? Good bot.	/r/RedPillWives	15/10/17 11:44 PM
1	Deal breakers in marriage I'm sorry to not have much help, but I think the lack of details is hurting the chances of a reply. In my own marriage, "deal-breakers" don't really exist. While dating, yes. Now that we are married? No. So we would have to work it out in some fashion. I don't know if that helps you, but it's what I would do in my own marriage.	/r/RedPillWives	24/08/17 12:49 PM
1	Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" Woman I found this to be an interesting idea. I mean, the whole idea of being "intimidating" as a barrier to getting dates... When I was young and "on the market", so to speak, I did not really have that difficulty, but now that I am married, several men of my husband's acquaintance have become quite intimidated. My husband laughs at them. He told me afterward it took him quite a while to understand it. He explained it like this. "You're a tigress, and I let you walk around unchained. It freaks out th…	/r/RedPillWives	28/07/17 10:38 AM
1	Michelle Duggar's sweet words for her husband Could you come up with 100 things you love about yours? Oh, yes! I actually did this for the first St. Valentine's Day after my darling Sir and I were married. I typed out 100 things I love about him, cut the papers apart into 100 individual slips, then folded them in half and put them into an envelope. Then for the next 100 days, he was able to pull out one thing each day to read a random thing I love about him. 💞	/r/RedPillWives	27/07/17 10:47 PM
1	Being your SO's "possession" Well, the steel collar around my neck is a pretty good indicator. 💞 I always speak highly of my darling, showing him respect to his face and behind his back. (Easy because he is an amazing man!) The deference some of the other posters have mentioned is a huge thing. The way I look at is this: my darling is out in the world every day, having to "battle" the world, so to speak. He is out there where no one will have his back, and he does his duty, no matter what that is, to support his family. So …	/r/RedPillWives	24/07/17 05:35 AM