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Question For MenVexingTetrimino/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:01 AM
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but i haven't yet broached the subject of your face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:30 PM
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if you made a collage of your outfits i'd be willing to bet that you'd look indistinguishable from an undesirable prick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:53 PM
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because i'm a non-pornstar woman with enough experience to know first hand who talks to other non-pornstar women who know first hand. oh your poor pornified brain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:00 AM
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uh no. you're totally off base here bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:40 AM
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glad you feel that way. you change your name then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:39 AM
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And who even cares about last name? i do 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:37 PM
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great! it would be great if you can hit up ALL the churches. can't wait to hear how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:00 AM
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gosh in this whole thread so far there's been no mention of religion. remember religion, that very widespread and influential thing that teaches that women are to be help-meets for men, to be the protectors of virtue, that they are chewed bubblegum/bad locks/torn paper/worn shoe/flower with no petals/used car if they had sex once, that controlling men's lust is women's responsibility, that they only real women if mothers, that women must be submissive to men, women can never be leaders, etc. bru…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:20 AM
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sure, there shouldn't be any marriage-ending secrets within a marriage. agree with you there. affair, another child, destructive addictions. ok. i think that perhaps the crux of our difference in viewpoints is the word "secrets." what if it's not a secret, though? what if it's thoughts or feelings that don't yet have words to them, or that still need further processing time? what if it's just none of my business? what if i don't think he needs to know something? for the record i do trust him. bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:16 PM
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but we don't live separate lives though. been married for 17 years, happily, successful business, 2 strong kids. we are very much connected. maybe even more than other married couples. i frequently get comments from friends, acquaintances, and people i met at the beginning of the night on how they notice our solid connection. come to think of it i've been pulled aside multiple times by people to teach them how to dougie. i don't have ownership over his inner world nor am i entitled to know all h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:33 PM
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what an assumption on your part. being a significant other can actually serve as a conflict of interest depending on the topic. between me and my husband i truly believe there are things about him that are none of my business. and vice versa. if he wants to share things with me, great. if he doesn't, i have no issue. we respect each other as individuals who, even though are married, are walking our own paths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:47 AM
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do you hate companies that use child slaves? what do you think of them? i don't hear these companies being widely denigrated, shamed, and vilified even a fraction of what gets thrown at women who do porn. these women are widely dealt harsh contempt IN ADDITION to being widely consumed. and too often the point is to show women being degraded and humiliated DURING the act of consumption, so to speak. this is what men like to see. even normies sometimes. it's like they love to hate women given the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:09 AM
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almost. perhaps the more accurate metaphor is hating the child slaves that make the phones. why hate the child slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:16 PM
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i'll invite him to do stuff, but more as hangouts and less hookup-y. i would expect him to invite too but if he doesn't then i'll stop. i guess i prefer this format because the idea of a date may put too much pressure on either party. "date" strikes me as more formal. in this format, though, there is definitely room for dates. but dates are more special occasion-y, if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:30 PM
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making personal connections, going on an adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:57 PM
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most people like to be self-sufficient. they may not like their jobs all the time but it's clearly worth it to be able to live as a competent adult. definitely a point of pride. most people like being competent adults. given the choice, this includes the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:55 PM
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but now they have to strap on the mental armor and go out into workplace i fucking love it 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:03 PM
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my 2 categories are: 1) let's see 2) let's not see people get demoted and promoted in a dynamic process. the main factor in this is what comes out of his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:34 AM
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So I don't protest. Duh. this is where you lose credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:40 AM
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Because men in very female dominated jobs are seen as less manly. Also not about women, but about intra-sexual rivalry in men. gosh you're so close. your first sentence is correct. the second sentence is a word salad. edit: captured your comment in case you try to change it after the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:18 PM
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while that also happens, then why are male nurses made fun of? after all, nursing is not low qualification work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:15 PM
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but that's not disparaging of the work a man does though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:53 PM
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women's work has always been undervalued and disrespected. why would anyone want to do women's work just to be denigrated, disparaged, and looked down upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:09 AM
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many many more women have been lost to childbirth and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:54 AM
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sir, your writing--vivid and poetic, paints quite a picture. you have a skill that most do not. thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:15 AM
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juat celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary. still gives me butterflies. can't get enough 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:17 AM
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good for you guys. the pill failed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:28 PM
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i think she sounded great and that there needs to be more voices like hers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:04 AM
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i thought men were supposed to be smart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:32 AM
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good company, fun, competent in adulting (or his stage in life), socially competent, has friends, secure (as in not insecure), actively cares for his family/friends, funny, brave, has critical thinking, self aware requirements that i realized i have that are kinda unusual: has to be able to dance, must not be an idiot the wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:47 AM
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they bring whatever you require them to bring
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:03 AM
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strawman. way to conflate having a working mom to being in an orphanage 🙄 the kids go to preschool for socialization and education during working hours. the other 16 hours are with one or both parents. that's plennnty of time. everyone wins, too. the parents each get to do stuff for themselves in peace, and kids get socialized, exercise, interact with different things, and learn in different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:08 AM
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men have no reproductive choice or power men have full control of where they nut. period.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:12 PM
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thanks for the food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:58 AM
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ngl when i saw that shit my blood drained from my body. i betrayed my inner, immediate despair and calmly asked him what he thought of tate and if he could send me some links to some of his videos that he liked. he told me that although tate gets a bad rap he thinks he is a good guy 🫠 please share any tips you have for heading off this horseshit at the pass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:32 PM
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💯. i've had a few conversations about it so far, and will continue to do so. he seems to get it 🤞🤞 trying to also get his dad in on the conversation so there will at least be a "true north" in terms of a source for empowering messages from men my husband didn't even know who tate was so he is learning about the topic now to get ready to jump in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:21 PM
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yes, BP woman here. i'm sex positive and very liberal. i don't know if my daughter, or son for that matter, is going to be conservative or liberal in their dating lives. what i want is for them to do what's right for them. i wish for them to stay within their boundaries and not carelessly hurt themselves or others. i do accept that there will be pain along the way but i hope that it won't be too traumatic and that they learn from it. if my daughter dates casually and can handle herself, more pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:34 PM
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my son is not yet a teenager but, rest assured, i'm raising him in the same manner. we are like 2 peas in a pod. although a few weeks ago i noticed andrew tate videos in his youtube videos feed =/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:36 PM
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RP: women can be shallow and/or shitty (like men can be) BP: RP is 99% BS with the 1% non-BS just regular ol' common sense; women and men are more alike than different--that there is more variation within the sexes than between them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:24 AM
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you're too kind, thank you. hope it works 🤞🏻 i'm her mom that shifts between blue pill and light purple pull, depending on the day. these days i'm pretty darn blue. hope that doesn't sour your perception
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:37 AM
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i'm raising my teenage daughter to love and respect her family, her community, and most of all herself. good grades, has had great success in sports, lots of friends, is loving, dutiful, and funny. she says she wants kids someday and i told her that's great. as long as she does what's right for her. i teach her to listen to that voice inside, the one that is happy when she accomplishes things and annoyed when she doesn't make good choices. that the number one person she should seek approval from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:08 AM
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terrible analogy. no fish wants to be caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:36 PM
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she should walk her path, know herself, live and learn, and most importantly live her life for her--not for her parents, not for social media likes, and most definitely not for the egotistical whims of an asshole who will insist on looking down on her no matter what she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:15 AM
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but i don't want my daughter to marry men like you. hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:47 AM
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funny for you to think men ever liked women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:27 AM
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more stabs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:23 AM
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he is so far from hitting the nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:22 AM
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y'all really lack imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:20 AM
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the husband starts treating her worse, especially since she can't leave so easily anymore. he becomes disrespectful, mean, controlling, and lazy. lazy in the house AND IN THE RELATIONSHIP. babies do a number on a woman's body, focus, and energy. men tend to diminish and/or not see this. look, in your post you don't even mention this as an option as you examine the universe for other possibilities smh the end of foreplay ='( a lot of (4+5+6) be happening bro after doing #4 he pulls the wifely dut…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:17 AM
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consent is just so inconvenient isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:31 AM
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the responses to your comment are hilarious. scrotes are mad. good job 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:31 PM
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rich folk can afford to have a parent not work. poor folk can't afford to have both parents work. men hold fast to the provider role because, as you so eloquently stated, it is emasculating not to work. but weren't you and i discussing why women shouldn't have careers? most career women are capable moms. even better, career moms can afford child care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:34 AM
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you wrote: career woman wont have enough time for childrearing this is what is strange and out of touch. well, one of the things anyway. kids 6 and under this is just a small portion of our adulthood and does not preclude anyone from having a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:48 PM
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career woman wont have enough time for childrearing the bureau of labor statistics say that as of 2022, 72.9% of moms work. there have been much more working moms than SAHMs for a couple generations now. the great majority of adults today were raised by moms that worked and not only are we (collectively) fine, normal, and well-adjusted, but we also had full and fulfilling childhoods rich with love, attention, and encouragement. i have a great and lucrative career where i'm at the top of my field…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:57 PM
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1.3 + 1.3 = 2.6 which is 3 if you properly round the sum the problem is your overly simplistic pov
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:36 PM
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agree 🤝 and that it generally applies regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:47 PM
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there are two general rules i've come to realize in my life. they apply to friends, parents, friends, work, kids, and romantic partners. they are: people want what they can't have people don't value what comes easy the second one is actually just a variant of the first, but is significant to call out on its own
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:49 PM
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lol what are you on about m8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:29 PM
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ok so you're not actually debating in good faith. got it ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:08 PM
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as i have stated in a parallel comment, i understand post nut clarity and am actually fine that it happens. people, regardless of gender, can change their mind at any time and this is totally acceptable. but that's not what i'm talking about. what you and i were discussing is the deception that some men employ to trick a woman into sex. it usually takes the form of a woman wanting more than just sex and the man pretending he likes her for more than just sex. if she had known his true intentions …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:29 PM
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geez it's not that. i love orgasms and sex but i don't want to be tricked into it nor feel like the guy ended up ignoring or working around my boundaries. it's about consent. when i was single there were times i didn't want a man for more than friendly sex, but that didn't mean it was ok for him to trick me or act badly. it's funny how consent is so inconvenient for some of you and the ease you have with finding ways to bypass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:15 PM
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i think you should do what your user name says and stay out of debate subs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:37 AM
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so glad that you agree that dudes totally would stick their dicks into people they don't like (don't worry, i won't tell anyone that you were wrong after all)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:24 AM
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i understand what post nut clarity is and it's fine with me that it happens but i'm not even talking about that. are you really gonna sit there and pretend that dudes don't lie and deceive to get into a woman's pants? i knew an unattractive woman who had a crush on a guy and he made it clear he wasn't attracted to her. but he did let her suck his dick a few times. he sent her spiraling into a dark place but he didn't care. yes she shouldn't have done that but she liked him and he took advantage.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:10 AM
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then how do you explain how more and more women are content to be alone than to put up with disrespectful men? how men nowadays are not competing with other men, but are really competing against a woman's own peace and the quality of life she has afforded herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:15 AM
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rejecting a woman is an absolute nightmare largely because there are few social consequences for women your line of reasoning makes sense and i'm curious to learn more. i'll ask my guy and girl friends about it and keep an eye out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:55 AM
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totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:08 AM
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some women do want to fuck and that's it. but far more men want that in comparison. and therein lies the problem. maybe as society continues to shift women will get more comfortable with their sexuality and the gap will narrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:04 AM
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they're both true though 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:36 PM
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it's not the first move as traditionally defined, but technically and literally it is the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:29 PM
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I'm specifically talking about in terms of approaching great. i was trying to get you to expand on the topic of female ego because it wasn't clear what you were getting at. generally, if a girl likes a boy she'll let him know. it usually doesn't manifest in hey baby what's your number. she will let him know by being physically near him, making lots of eye contact, flirting, touching him, saying i like you, etc. that should be considered a move, shouldn't it? but is your question why doesn't she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:24 PM
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Women can still hold the same standards as when they approach. They can directly tell men they aren't looking for a sexual relationship i like this line of thinking. it would work in a more utopian society. but for the reasons i stated above it would still result in women enduring even higher levels of risk and abuse. significantly. problem mostly comes to ego i see that you've been frequently bringing up the female ego in this post. let's talk about that more as it is a little vague. yes i agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:21 PM
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i wish we did live in a world where women made the first move as much as men. but it won't happen because too many men will take advantage of a woman liking him, pretend he likes her just fine for just the exact amount of time it will take to get in her pants, then he will ghost. a large enough percentage of men are too thirsty and unscrupulous when it comes to sex ALREADY as women screen for users/deceivers today. how much easier would it be for these men if women made the moves? men will throw…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:24 PM
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there are some men who see women as things to fuck and supporting characters who will tend to domestic duties. these men may not take women's voices and viewpoints seriously because they see women as silly and honestly good for only one thing. these men dismiss their wives/gf's requests to make their relationships better. they hear women's voices at work and automatically assume the content of their ideas is lesser. do you think these men would magically take a woman seriously in bed? men are th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:26 PM
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there's a lot packed into "act like a lady". off the top of my head: act like a lady = you need to be beautiful + you need to be well-behaved + you need to keep your legs closed + you need to be pretty + you need to be innocent + you need to be docile + you need to be thin + you need to be pleasant + you need to be sexy + you need to be accommodating + you need to be society's protector of virtue + you need to have nice manners + you need to be visually appealing + you need to hide your body + y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:00 PM
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triggered all over this thread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:33 AM
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initially, see how he handles my boundaries. look out for signs that he's seeking to control me. look for signs that he's needy or if he is a hater in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:07 PM
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once upon a time i was pursued by a guy with noble intentions. he was kind and smart, but unfortunately our dynamics really put me off. when i wanted to go home after hanging out he would pout and say pleeeeeeease. the first time i let it slide as a fluke but by the third time i had had enough. it wasn't cute. it made me not wanna hang out with him. there was no other dude of equal attractiveness in competition. he was still a good guy though, i don't doubt that. so why didn't he win?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:56 PM
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good people turn other people off all the time bro. normies have been on both sides. i've been on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:11 PM
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all people buy into these principles for many things in life. there's even a law made after it called supply and demand. it doesn't necessarily mean that it's applicable to all scenarios at all times though. happy to read that your love life is fine. not sure, though, what you mean by the last sentence. a good person can be too available and turn off other people. that doesn't make either side bad. it just means that the seeker failed to make the sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:44 PM
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the first step when you find yourself in a hole: stop digging
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:35 PM
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your inability to answer the question speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:35 PM
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you and i are talking about 2 different things, but let's see where your logic takes us. so let's talk about handsome men who are born with good social skills where pussy gets thrown at them left and right. surely you assign them a low value then since they don't have to work hard for it, correct? simple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:09 PM
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true especially for men. think beyond the conquest aspect. you may want the sex but it doesn't make you value the person. or the sex for that matter. you may have "appreciated" it at first but if she keeps bugging you then you will just want her to go away. nobody wants someone that's too available. and stop with that dumb body count bullshit. people who think what you wrote don't respect women under any circumstance, whether she fucks or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:20 PM
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unfortunately, yes. someone might change when they realize they can't have what they want, but only if it's something they want bad enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:01 AM
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💯!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:52 AM
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growing up i figured out 2 main principles that apply widely, especially to dating: 1) people want what they can't have 2) people don't want what comes easy the second principle is actually a version of the first lol but these apply to all genders, all ages, all classes. i use these principles with my parents, friends, work, and kids. and, yes, also with my husband. edit: i am not RP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:55 AM
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OP wrote I just want to try to understand so i gave him some insight to help his understanding along not every man thinks the exact same way thank goodness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:49 PM
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this is purple pill dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:45 PM
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she has looked up divorce lawyers a few times and we've rallied around her in strong, unequivocal support... but ultimately she just could not bear the shame of being a divorced woman. patriarchy.exe takes up too much of her processing power
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:36 AM
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wow, how'd you know? if the wind blows the wrong way he takes it out on her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:11 AM
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i knew that his teachings were wrong since the moment they landed on my tender ears. strangely enough, we have a great relationship. it was a rough upbringing because of his extreme rigidity. he beat me until i was 17 even though i was a good kid who "followed the straight and narrow" (honors student, top athlete, never once got detention, elite university, never got pregnant before marriage). we argued about gender roles a lot. but we've always loved talking to each other, even when disagreeing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:31 AM
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i just asked my husband what he thinks about my participation here. he said "i don't have a damn opinion about it. wtf."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:25 AM
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i'm here because my dad did his best to raise me with the right values. from when i was a little girl, he tried to teach me that i'll never be as good as my husband, that it would acceptable for my husband to hit me, that a man is not considered a man unless he has a mistress, and that if a man really loves a woman he should abduct her, rape her, and she'll eventually learn to love him. also, it can be entertaining here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:06 AM
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Or when they are sleep, which for babies is most of the day. you just lost all your credibility here bub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:51 AM
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IS UNDEFEDATED i think you're onto something. the wall... is incomprehensible. like your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:12 AM
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so a man who is easy should not be appreciated then (by your own logic)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:28 PM
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if you desire the strongest bond with the lowest chance of divorce, you and your future wife should marry between the ages of 30 to 34 Divorce is 50% less likely for someone who is 25 years old when they wed, as compared to someone who gets married at age 20. Until now, this dramatic decrease has been seen as the beginning of a downward slope that keeps on decreasing, though at a somewhat slower rate, through our 20s, 30s, and beyond. The idea that getting married older is less predictive of div…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:26 AM
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press X to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:30 PM
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sounds like you've cracked the code. you should totally stay far far away from all women!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:02 PM
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welp, i certainly trust that you will get what you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:16 AM
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oh that's not the communist part. if the BB just thought to himself "we aren't right for each other" and moved on, that would be totally reasonable. but RP men like OP don't do that. look at their intent. they demand that they must be given sex QUICK because that's FAIR in their mind. "stacy fucked tom in an hour, so it's only fair that stacy fucks me in an hour. anything else is disrespectful to me." and somehow he seems to miss an important detail: HE IS NOT TOM and then now it's her fault tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:11 AM
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i thought your goal was to avoid divorce? that's been THE justification you've been repeating ad nauseam throughout this post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:30 AM
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you are mistaken Statistical trends do suggest that it's best to wait a few years: Divorce is 50% less likely for someone who is 25 years old when they wed, as compared to someone who gets married at age 20. Until now, this dramatic decrease has been seen as the beginning of a downward slope that keeps on decreasing, though at a somewhat slower rate, through our 20s, 30s, and beyond. The idea that getting married older is less predictive of divorce also makes sense: It’s likely that couples are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:22 AM
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even a broken clock is right twice a day. people who marry young are more likely to divorce. how do you account for this in your wife quest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:24 AM
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a poor one at that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:37 PM
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women are not food though. and a woman's love certainly is not like cake. in a healthy relationship love grows. cake doesn't grow, friend. what you said sounds like church talk. women being likened to bubblegum, door locks, cars, and other various inanimate objects. the inexperienced and controlling trying to dehumanize women and put them in their place. but i see that you're choosing to double down on your highly illogical and self-damaging philosophies. good luck with that and your dwindling c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:33 PM
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but i didn't ask you to decide that on behalf of women. i simply asked if you can please explain what leftovers are and why they are so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:54 PM
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your changing of the subject is noted ✅ most men get gfs and wives. and people have been marrying later in life which means (almost) everyone is someone else's leftovers. this also implies that young people who take each others' virginities do not really intend on marrying their devirginizer. mostly because they're too young to get married. and if they're old virgins then they're probably lacking in those market requirements i listed earlier which you continue to ignore. finally, doesn't this al…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:44 PM
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omg if only he spent as much energy on improving his skill set than whining about it. if you remember from earlier bob said, "but you hired tom so you have to hire me! nevermind that i have less experience, worse people skills, and a shitty attitude. you hired tom so you must hire me and pay me the same as him." the market has deemed that relevant experience, people skills, and a healthy attitude are what is valued. why does bob ignore these requirements? the first step when finding yourself in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:23 PM
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because bob is less skilled. a fact proven by the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:14 PM
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that's the problem, though. if only bob was playing on his own strengths! but alas, he is not. instead he is telling everyone that he should get what tom got, even though bob doesn't bring to the table what tom brings. how is this not sex communism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:07 PM
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i 100% agree with you that bob should go with a company that will give him what he wants. but if bob is seeking actual respect, do you think he will find it by looking down on people who hired tom, whining about what tom got, and then trying to force people to give him what they gave tom even if bob is lesser? people worthy of respect do not behave that way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:56 PM
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all people want to feel desired and special. period. it's completely natural and fine as long as it is contained within reasonable boundaries. also natural and fine is figuring out what works for you when you're younger, then having your needs change as you move through different stages of life. happens to everyone. then enter RP which twists this idea into AFBB, which became a tool for bitter men to shame women with--to limit her life in order to serve his. additionally, if a man deems himself …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:42 PM
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easy. in real life the behavior is natural, and reflects growing through different life stages. but in bizzaro RP world it's called AFBB. i'm merely addressing it as an RP concept. just because i like live on earth today doesn't mean i can't talk about how things are in the land of make believe. This picture you painted makes the husband material guy seem to be getting the short end of the stick. in my scenario, how so? well if you mean it how i think you might, it seems to me like the husband s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:08 AM
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figuring out what works for you when you're younger, then having your needs change as you move to a different stage of life: nope not morally wrong at all. not only is it not wrong, it is also normal and healthy behavior. for any gender. but somehow RP twisted this normal thing and slapped on the AF/BB label so they can have something else to demonize women with. additionally, why must a man penalize women for the idea that he's a BB? that he must get her "at the same price" as the AF? it's like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:21 PM
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i’m assuming there isn’t an answer to “ what do women provide besides sex “ you're right, homie. stay far far away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:50 PM
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no, silly rabbit. i did not say that misreading social clues equals disrespect. i said creepy behavior is caused by willfully ignoring social clues AND being disrespectful. go back and read what i wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:46 PM
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you can't get mad at someone for not understand the social language but i'm not mad though. you asked earlier how to learn social cues and i gave you a legitimate, non-angry answer. YOU are the one that's being hostile YOU are the one showing disrespect disrespect is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:05 PM
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And you learn social cues by doing what? maybe you can start by putting yourself in the other person's shoes while removing your own biases from how you interpret their experience. get yourself out of your own way. it can be hard to do, yes, but will take you far in business, love, and life in general. this requires a certain level of respect in the other party, an openness to different viewpoints, and a sincere interest in learning what it's like to be that person. this in turn requires mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:55 PM
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being creepy is not for lack of flirting skills my dude being creepy is caused by a lack of respect for the targeted individuals and also by the willful ignoring of their social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:02 PM
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as a filipina, please don't. we know that sexpats are pathetic and not man enough for us either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:31 AM
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wow you almost ruined harrison bergeron for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:04 PM
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haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:56 PM
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"men only want one thing" <--- taught since the beginning of time edit: word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:38 PM
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i don't talk to any exes. no clue what they're doing or if they have families. don't care. my husband has sparse contact with a couple of his exes. i don't care about this either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:43 AM
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omg you guys OP made this same post in the jordan peterson sub and in there the sentiments are "troll", "high octane neck beard," and "no way anyone is this fucking stupid lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:35 AM
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if you're doing so fine why did you delete your comment saying that you feel completely entitled to know a woman's ex's dick size? did you change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:58 AM
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someone refraining from talking about an ex's genital characteristics is common sense. you're really going over people's heads here with your underlying assumption that this is appropriate information to share. it reveals that you're out to control and punish women, even those who's n count is 1. these are major hangups that are going to hold you back in life. kinda like you drinking poison and hoping other people get hurt from it. you're only hurting yourself. a better use of your time would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:35 AM
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lemme let you in on a little secret: it's not the cock. it's the man to whom the cock is attached. it's the man that turns us on. but if you're a man who doesn't bring very much to the table i can see why you would be insecure. if you can turn your woman on, you're fine bro. obsessing about other men's dicks will get you rightfully self-selected out of the dating/gene pool so it'll work out either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:17 AM
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ok so what if a woman has an n count of 1 before you, and that dude had a thick 9 inch cock. do you feel like you're entitled to know about his dick size? would her exclusion of this information qualify as lying to you about a relationship-ending fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:11 AM
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i don't deny that a more neutral version of this interaction could ever take place. it's just that i don't have awareness of it. i mean, it is an uncommon saying. in the scenarios i've heard this exact phrase, it was unwelcomed by the woman. both cases were colleagues of mine (who did not know each other) whose respective older male bosses used to say this. the women didn't say anything or react because, well, they didn't want to get punished by their bosses. you didn't give context so i went wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:39 PM
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It's not different well this is your gap then. the former can be seen as benign, the latter too forward. why do you insist on erasing context? social interactions NEVER occur in a vacuum. Do you think modern women are sexualized so much by guys on Tinder and in the media that they immediately view interactions through a more sexualized lens ? women, both today and throughout history, have been sexualized so much by men. to the point that lots of men think that women are only good for that and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:59 PM
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nick, i've heard of this saying before and it's always from a man to an unrelated woman. never have i heard of it going from a dad to his daughter. so, yes, you are correct in that it can be technically said in that context but you are incorrect because that is never the context in which this occurs. have you asked yourself why you are applying this interaction to a scenario in which it does not occur to make a point? also, it's not just calling someone sweet. "thank you you're very sweet" is ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:25 PM
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what a bunch of basic twats. reminds me of: The Narcissist's Prayer That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:49 PM
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it happens on reddit all the time bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:53 PM
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responding to your weirdly aggressive question: we fuck each other's brains out. his balls are empty and he keeps me satisfied. i disagree that love, respect, and support are the absolute basic, though. these are the goals, not the starting point. there are too many relationships that don't have those things. it might be interesting to you, though, that i'm financially supporting him, our mortgage, and got a house for his mom, too. over the course of our relationship we both became high earners …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:46 PM
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i would say that i'm about 70% FDS. i do have high expectations for him to love, respect, and support me. in return, i look at his dick once in a while. just kidding! i give him oodles of love, respect, and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:51 PM
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are you lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:38 AM
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yes she will. weiners are usually attached to people and those weiner-life-support-systems usually make up the lion's share of reasons of what makes the weiner enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:32 PM
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i only have contempt for the contemptible ones i promise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:09 PM
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strangely stated question. let's start here: is my evaluation of the 2 of them together going to see a glaring situation where he is being pathetic and likely to be used or hurt by her? then no, not ok. this goes against knowing himself and enforcing healthy boundaries per my original comment. or am i going to see my son who is secure in himself and his gf who loves him properly? then, yes, that would be ok with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:47 PM
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hell no i don't want an asshole for a son. i would like him to be a BP who knows who he is, exercises compassion, and enforces healthy boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:36 PM
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disrespectful degrading easy to give up on my orgasm ignores boundaries cares about his experience more than mine not having natural fuck talent no curiosity on how my body works does not improve not in touch with me or the situation isn't friendly isn't fun has terrible assumptions on how sex works has a fuck-a-bitch mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:53 PM
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good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:55 AM
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lol these men in a q4w
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:02 PM
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basically suggesting is TRP TRP, except not traditionally masculine and not demeaning to women and for actual healthy relationships. so... not TRP? haha men can't really be bothered that's unfortunate. they will have to make way for those that can compete better. however, nice normal men are socialized sufficiently and thus shouldn't have issues connecting with nice normal women, irl at least. perhaps when you say men can't really be bothered you mean those men that, uh... maybe should be cut fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:56 PM
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well the difficulty is two-fold, i think. the lower hurdle is actually putting the work in, which may be harder or easier to do depending on the person. and to your point that could be a lot of work. but keep in mind you don't necessarily need to be conventionally attractive to be sexy. i'm afraid that the higher hurdle may be for men to want to work towards being sexy and alluring, because those traits are denigrated as feminine or gay. decidedly unmasculine. just as we've seen james bond becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:43 PM
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there are those who makes things happen, others who watch them happen, and finally those who wonder what the fuck happened. it sucks to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:48 PM
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out of your choices of adapt or die you've chosen death. suit yourself. we'll gladly leave you behind. darwinism at it's finest. chef's kiss 💋 the way off pussy island and out of the gene pool is <---------------- this-a-way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:27 PM
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being supportive or "nice" is just one aspect. it's not enough. especially when the niceness is a two dimensional performance to get women to owe men something. i've mentioned in my other nearby replies that men's evolution should include to be sexier to women. how to achieve that? work smarter, innovate, be more socially competent, and be more competitive. shouldn't these things come natural to men? aggression and baiting with resources are yesterday's game. it's on it's way out like PS4.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:20 PM
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no i'm not saying that at all. i think a gap we may here is i don't think women are particularly hypergamous. i think it boils down to the fact that some men and women are just more prone to bailing on a partner, regardless of n. what i'm prescribing is that men be sexier. how? work smarter, innovate, be more socially competent, and be more competitive. shouldn't these things come natural to men? if she finds you sexy you don't need to out achieve her. if you look around you may notice that ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:11 PM
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they want domination whoa. if this is your read then you have a long way to go bro although a minority women are into that dynamic, the exception does not make the rule. are you really trying to solve the problem, as OP posits he is trying to do, or are you just selectively choosing to see the bits and pieces that only support your facile depiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:52 PM
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going to need clearer messaging i'm curious to know what your thoughts on what the messaging would look like. or is it still fuzzy because perhaps you equate bring "nice" with not getting sexually rewarded? thusly "justifying" the need to treat women with disdain and disrespect. it's really not that difficult: 1) be sexier, especially when not out for LTRs 2) stop with the hate already 3) profit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:44 PM
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well that's a pretty simplistic, reductionist, and dense take. one that signals poor socialization. the picture you paint is of a cartoon, not of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:20 PM
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i thought we were talking about women providing pregnancy/childbirth per the OP, not sex acts. if we are talking sex acts then the evolution path is a little different. maybe less emphasis on being likeable but definitely more on being sexier. and being disrespectful and demeaning is usually not sexy to a normal woman with healthy boundaries. please see my other response for more on likeability
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:12 PM
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was your OP not about women providing pregnancy/childbirth? my post addresses this dynamic and LTRs. however it appears that your response to me assigns a different value to the female side of the equation, where it is now sex acts. are you asking about a woman ready for LTR/pregnancy/childbirth, or a totally different woman that is not ready for that major and important phase in life? because they are different people. moving on i'm puzzled as to why you default "better, more supportive partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:17 AM
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going to repackage an idea that came up earlier today we've gone through the ages of agrarian, conquest, imperialism, industrial, world war, analog, digital. we are now in a knowledge economy and not in a "might = right" age. our recent evolution has brought about advances for girls and women in that they're able to do/be/achieve more than previously allowed. however no one seems to be telling the men that they have to evolve, too, right alongside the women. to not be controlling and demeaning d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:57 AM
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i guess i was wrong about you wanting to have a discussion. and instead of choosing adapt you choose die. oh well. we will gladly leave you behind then. on behalf of womankind: thanks for doing us the favor, mr. betamax.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:36 PM
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so you do want to have a discussion then. i couldn't tell. well you know how women have evolved--100 years ago most women were not interested in voting and 50 years ago most women were not interested in going to college and even then it was to find husbands. girls and women have been told they can do more and be more than what has been allowed in the past blah blah blah great fabulous but what happened to the boys and men? no one told them they needed to step up and adapt too. this is why the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:58 PM
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Mute point "mute" 🤭 With that said, the results of the great 50 50 is straight trash so we're back at square one where you're wishing for the days women couldn't leave shitty husbands. more breakups compared to the 1950s mean that women don't have to put up with shitty treatment anymore and can take care of themselves. apparently this is trash to you. fortunately your trash is our treasure. you know, respecting women and being in healthy relationships with them is really not so bad. but if you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:43 PM
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there are so many things wrong with your response holy moly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:25 PM
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Men: We are going to treat you like shit Women: No Men: Ok we are going to treat you less shitty but still shitty Women: Gosh darn it Men: Where's my prize bitch I hunted the mammoth for you now get on your knees Women: Thank goodness we don't need to be with men who look down on us and treat us like shit. Bye! Men: Relationships are in the gutter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:18 PM
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hey you're the one who said it, not me. how advanced it is for you to acknowledge that it was men who: wouldn't let women vote wouldn't let women get educated beat women say that women cannot be trusted to make decisions have kept women from advancing in professional fields did not allow women to open their own bank accounts created religions and cults to keep women/pussy in their place ....and as such made it so women really couldn't leave their shitty husbands. even the good husbands were fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:01 AM
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oh ffs with your repetitive cringey comments and emoji sounds like you prefer it when women couldn't divorce their shitty husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:27 AM
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married. you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:36 PM
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hi there, what does your comment have to do with mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:56 PM
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i fantasize about robbing banks, revenge, what i would sell my soul to the devil for, driving my car into oncoming traffic, what fortnite would be like irl, talking all kinds of shit to friends and family, getting into fist fights, getting into knife fights, getting into gun fights, getting into missile fights, blowing up klan members, being in a dance battle, being in a zombie apocalypse, fighting off an alien invasion, fighting in WWI, violence and bad actions in general. and yes... i might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:55 PM
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first of all, marge desires homer and is not disrespectful to him. second, i don't know why she would be so good to him. he's a buffoon and totally not fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:46 PM
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this word salad needs thousand island
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:07 AM
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bingo bongo bang-a-rang and they want us to feel bad for them HAHAHA. it's like no dude bro please by all means resist evolving/adapting and continue getting left behind and self-selecting out of the gene pool. the system is working by design. insert dr evil pinky meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:20 PM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:13 AM
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Men don't steamroll HAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:59 PM
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it's unwise to make this part of your life strategy, especially if you're not already popular with the wimminz Women tend to let themselves go and expire after 26 is this what helps you sleep at night? ok buddy. follow your own advice then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:26 PM
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ooh sex pillows fun fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:06 PM
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men are totally tied to women's biological clocks. it's tied to at what age a man can not only find a willing woman of child bearing age, but also having enough time to go through the necessary stages to get to baby time. so let's back into this. a pregnancy is considered high risk if the mother is 35 or older. so let's say the target maternal age at birth is 34, which means she is 33 when she gets knocked up. a couple will typically try getting pregnant for a year, which means you guys start tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:39 AM
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"I am a hater that admires other haters." -u/Mr-X1
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:16 AM
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yeah ancient men didn't look down on women at all. 🙄 or maybe you mean to say that you think men keeping women down is wise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:15 AM
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adam and eve is a fictional story written by men. do you believe otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:30 PM
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men are thirsty and have decided that their thirst controls them instead of the other way around. they buy into the idea that this thirst renders them unable to have decent standards in women/partners/companions. other factors in play: the idea that women are good for one thing (hole) the idea that men are better at women at everything so why bother thinking about women's contributions low quality men who can only attract low quality women men who only value beauty/youth/physical factors hater m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:19 AM
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Women Should Be Expected To Be "Fuckzoned" you could've just ended your title there bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:56 PM
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do men feel like they need to cum when they fuck? i do give head every now and then where hubs doesn't have to lift a finger, but if we fuckin which means i'm into it and i better fucking bust one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 09:00 AM
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an adam's apple is a secondary sexual characteristic that signifies sexual maturity. try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:48 PM
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can you imagine the abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 07:31 AM
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Normal folks: No thanks Losers: Right gimme my tight virgin teen who can't leave me no matter how stupid I am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 07:20 AM
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10 years old. standard old guys leering, older boys groping my behind, cat called on the street walking home from the school bus stop or while walking with my parents even, cars pulling over to holler at me while walking around my neighborhood. oh almost forgot when i was 8 an older relative put his boner on me. on, not in. i didn't even know what a boner was. to me it was a scientific curiousity, not sexual assault. ugh. predators preying on the vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:35 AM
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sure. by why the contempt and disrespect? you can have casual sex and not be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:57 PM
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i always dreamed of being in an equal give and take relationship and that's what i have. depending on the situation, sometimes i let him make the call and other times he lets me make the call. usually though we can talk things out and get to an answer together. i would absolutely hate to have someone make calls for me that i don't like. not even my parents can do that to me now. why would i want to go back to such an arrangement? submission has never been on the table for me. ever. same goes for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:31 AM
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100 years ago most women were not interested in voting. 50 years ago most women were not interested in going to college. these things TAKE TIME. believe me i wish it went faster too! me and other women i know take the responsibility, love that we have it, and are thriving. yeah it's hard to juggle everything. it's a bitch to have to work so much harder to prove yourself at work yet still be expected to take the lion's share of housework and child care at home. but somehow some of us are figuring…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 10:38 PM
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but the key here is consent. women were forced to live that life and be subservient. and the structure was gilded if they were lucky. but since you think marital rape is bullshit i think you probably don't have a good grasp of the idea of consent, nor do you care to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:14 PM
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potato potahto. how nice for you to be able to make that choice. that's freedom. why take the choice away from women on how they want to live their lives? why are you trying to impose on me to live my life in a subjugated manner? women did clamor to work in factories (rosie the riveter) and they've always died in them. and even today women voluntarily work in sweatshops and slavery conditions. but it appears that you just want to count the times when women were barred from working with men to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:09 PM
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i addressed it here: and when the cage door opened for the first time in the history of humanity the scope of women's lives suddenly became as big as our imaginations would allow... and some probably had some big expectations that the world hadn't yet figured out how to fulfill. this is consistent with and complimentary to the arguments in your guardian article.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:30 PM
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i attribute the conclusions of the guardian article to growing pains, an adjustment period. what an exciting time to be alive, to bear witness to the dawn of women's lib. perhaps the 70s are when the cage was effectively unlocked. and when the cage door opened for the first time in the history of humanity the scope of women's lives suddenly became as big as our imaginations would allow... and some probably had some big expectations that the world hadn't yet figured out how to fulfill. kinda like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:19 PM
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the guardian you posted states that women are unhappy when they compare themselves to men. i mean yeah everyone knows that men occupy a disproportionate amount of positions in power but this does not make me and the female workers i know unhappy. kind of a strange and awkward connection of ideas in the guardian article. this is the study that resonates with me. thanks u/EnrichedBee Ensuring women have choices in how to lead their lives—economic, social, and political—can signal a net increase of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:59 PM
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how are you pro woman exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 10:00 AM
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cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 09:42 AM
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I'm pro woman as fuck you believe women should stay home/not work and be subservient to her leader husband. how are you pro woman exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 09:40 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 09:07 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:43 AM
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an HR department exists to protect the company from legal liability. they would NEVER admit to something the company can be sued for. as for the 4X hard, it's simple really. so the saying says that a woman works twice as hard (2X) for half the recognition (0.5R). to get to my 4X number, i factored in that i actually get more than my share of recognition. but for the sake of simplicity let's just say that is equal to 1 Unit of Male Recognition. to get to 0.5R to 1R mathematically i also had to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:42 AM
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i could give a shit about being a rebel. i just wanna live life they way i want to. i have the luxury of having a good moral compass that i can rely on to help me in that goal. and i didn't call you a misogynist bro. i was just talking shit about them. go ahead and reread it i'll wait but now that you've revealed yourself, here's a better question: why do you shy away from being called a misogynist? why not just own it? why are you shy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:40 AM
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What they certainly dont do is claim how would you know? i know because we actually do talk to each other about it. even with OTHER MEN i know it's so crazy right? no i lie. it's really not that crazy. shit the source of the phrase came from my executive bosses who tossed it around like it was common knowledge! somehow i doubt you have a relationship with a successful woman wherein she feels comfortable to discuss it with you. hm i wonder if there's something about you that would make her feel s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:31 AM
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so do you think the actual successful women you cite experience sexism? they do. and as you allude to in your post above, they power through it. and you would prefer to keep these women quiet on their experiences. what a shocker. it's a great way to stifle conversations and hinder progress. i'm not crying about it. just making observations. i'm still sitting pretty on my bags of gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:11 AM
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no questions asked i don't know where you got that. shitty men have been pushing back on feminism every step of the way. power isn't given like a gift. it is taken. and feminists have taken power from people like you. it's so nice to be alive today and to see feminism working despite shitty, dismissive misogynists throwing temper tantrums as women no longer need to be dependent on men and the old way of life they fantasize about are in the throes of death. i understand. it's hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:01 AM
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so you're saying that women are happier when we cannot open checking accounts in our name? and during a time when marital rape was not recognized? would you rather have the freedom to realize yourself or would you rather be kept in a gilded cage? i get that some might like the gilded cage but it is wrong to force everyone into that way of life. men built the things they built while standing on our backs. men are the ones who built the cage. if you think that's so great then please, my friend, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:50 AM
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my gfs, female co-workers, hell even my sister. all happy as shit that we can get out there, take risks, make names for ourselves, get paid, come home to men who are happy for us, and get our fuck on. like i said earlier. we get to engage in the pursuit of happiness that our mothers were excluded from. if i were barred from participating in the pursuit i would be deeply unhappy. there are lots of us bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:18 AM
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just trying to engage in good faith. best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:04 AM
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some have it harder, some don't. it's true what they say though that we have to work twice as hard for half the recognition. i've worked twice as hard as that even. i have a lot of grit so i'm usually fine with powering through but there are those 2 days a year when i am just sick of the bs. women's competence is under intense scrutiny and men's competence is not under enough scrutiny. but it's slowly getting better. but i'm happy that i get to play ball and that bags of money get thrown at my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:52 AM
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damn there's hella dudes answering a question for women. i'm legit happy btw. it's weird when the men here insist that i'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 04:51 AM
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the premise is an over-exaggeration because hyperbole is part of TRP's design. the women on this sub seem to be romantically successful in general. this means that the market supports what the women get for what the women have to offer. i wish the men here could say the same bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:33 PM
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previous bfs were a bunch of fuckers. controlling, egotistical, terrible at sex, angry, no substance, shallow, inconsiderate. it's gonna sound cliche but being married restored my faith. at about 9 years in. up until then it felt like he was largely working for his own best interest and that i was left having to figure out how to best maneuver through it. but i knew what i was getting into and was confident in my skills on how to deal. i had learned well from my previous bfs and was up to the ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:22 AM
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last time i checked videos games are these things people play that allows them to pretend they are cowboys, soldiers, super heroes, action adventurers, race car drivers, athletes, hedgehogs, italian plumbers. and look at you trying to gatekeep musical taste. this whole post is in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:29 AM
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for the folks that post in this sub, i could see how that's probably accurate. the women that write in here can generally walk the walk and their leverage is fine. better than fine, even. i don't get the sense that women who are bold enough to argue with worked up, vitriolic misogynists here are the loser type. but don't get it twisted. every woman here has experienced wanting a dude more than that dude wanted her. in those cases it's definitely HIS time that's more valuable. economics. but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:21 AM
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it doesn't depend on gender. it depends on who has more leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:08 AM
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the person whose time is more valuable is the one who has more leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:04 AM
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is it though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:08 PM
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aka please let me still blame mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 08:46 PM
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my reasons exist. not sure what you think you can do about that. the men who do not initially extend to me the same respect they offer other men are not the same people who sign my checks. thank goodness for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 07:47 PM
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good for you, if that's how you've defined it for yourself. reading that is kinda weird for me because i imagine trump being in a definite state of success--yet i would bet a large sum of money that he has countless things to complain about. oxford defines it as: suc•cess the accomplishment of an aim or purpose; the attainment of popularity or profit to me, success is being independent, excelling in my craft, enjoying my work, living how i want to live, and making enough money so that my family …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 10:18 AM
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wow you went from thoughtful comment to DICK CHEESE just like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:22 AM
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not me. at a loss as to how you came to that conclusion. i've merely stated an observation. something i've learned along the way to success. would you rather not hear it, or prefer that i just be silent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 11:21 PM
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my role has a niche technical basis. i am referring to the tendency that i will not be initially believed over male colleagues, even when they are much junior to me. the new folks usually come around after they learn. well, except for the haters in the room who end up begrudgingly going with my judgement anyway but will insist on attempting to punish me going forward. i'm just pointing out that there's a pattern. but yeah, every man replying to me in this thread will deny deny deny that this beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 10:18 PM
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for both of your questions i don't think so, although it is notable that men are usually at the top of women's fields anyway. cooking, fashion, education, porn....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 09:37 PM
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your logic doesn't compute. if i am successful i can't complain. or if i complain i can't be successful. dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 09:29 PM
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well i am doing it. did i give you a different impression? but i understand why you might wanna change the subject at this point. but i'm flexible, so i'll follow your lead. so then, by your very own logic, would you say that attaining success is as easy for black women than, say, gee i don't know... white men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:32 AM
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ok sure. but who gets your vote of confidence between a regular-looking dude and a regular-looking woman? EDIT: or between 8 ugly men and 1 pretty woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:13 AM
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i'm a knowledge worker and i build things for clients, and am not in sales where my value can be tied to how much i bring in every month. i do get paid a salary that is supporting the whole family, as my hubs has been transitioning careers. he is in sales and the ramp up time for his new career is about 2-4 years. it's nice to be able to support someone's dreams. we live in a notoriously high COL area. i support my MIL too, who lives in a house i paid/am paying for. but when i meet a new set of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:47 AM
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i spend a lot of time with men. i've had a lots of guy friends and am close with my dad. heck, i even worked in a video game arcade for several years. i'm at the top of my male dominated field, only to see time and time again how men who are new to working with me will assume i know the least in the room. women have to work twice as hard to get taken half as serious, if they are lucky. the scrutiny on us is very high. you must not have a lot of experience in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:40 AM
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men get listened to and are taken seriously by default. women don't. plus, they are subjugated by their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 04:48 AM
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wow your questions are kinda all over the place. look, having a personality that has earned you female friends is a good start. when i think about guy friends that have a hard time getting a girlfriend it's usually because there are 1 or 2 major, um, opportunities for improvement. one guy was smart, cute, but pretty dull and timid. he didn't find success with women until professional success gave him more confidence. and, no, it wasn't a money/betabux thing because the women had their own money …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 06:17 PM
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so if you don't make sense it's your guy friends' fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 10:58 PM
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i think you're forgetting about something when you associate blond with femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:15 PM
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PPD = Home of the Armchair Gynecologist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:10 PM
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blonde is associated with femininity really now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:56 PM
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hmm well his comments did originate from this sub. so.... purpleception?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:49 PM
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"pH levels must be carefully monitored so most women don't bother to clean their vaginas... i'm gagging again"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:39 PM
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hey weren't you the one i saw that made it to /r/badwomensanatomy talking about the PH levels of vaginas and how it's virtually impossible to clean them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:32 PM
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you said it better. but thinking about it now, it seems like there is a secret ingredient in the soup. because when mankind has been interested in something, their curiosity and drive to learn and achieve can be so strong. why climb everest? because it's there of course! har har har the mariana trench? let's build a vessel that can withstand mind boggling pressure so we can study it. the moon? one giant leap for mankind. the clitoris? fuck those bitches. it's such a bummer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:01 PM
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this is just so crazy!! it's baffling to see that on one hand, mankind has been obsessed with pussy. controlling it, regulating it, building laws and religions around it. on the other hand their obsession and drive for it somehow did not translate to research and learning. in fact, more energy was spent hating on the clit. like WUT i think it's been about 5 years for me since i learned about the 3 dimensional structure of a complete clit. yeah it's better late than never but DAMN.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:29 PM
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feeble arguments are useless anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:16 PM
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careful now--your arguments are getting limp and ineffectual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:45 PM
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a force of nature wouldn't make up pseudo science on why it can't make women orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:10 PM
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yeah if mother nature = your penis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:57 PM
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for the Red God-Emperor of Slut Country you sure have a poor understanding of pussy like I said, it will look too much like a chore and not like sex. maybe you're just the Assistant to the Red God-Emperor?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:53 PM
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non sequitur. thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:44 PM
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I had like 3 people misunderstand maybe the 3 people aren't the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:32 PM
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and why are you focused on that distinction? the topic of this particular thread is orgasming in 95%+ of fuck sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:29 PM
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from PIV can you please cite who said the orgasms had to be purely from PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:15 PM
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me, u/Idonnawho, and u/NarniaFox are samesies. as are most women in my circle. so not rare as you claim. seems like folks like you love to insist that it is rare so you can absolve yourselves of the work to learn. why bother to learn the impossible? and that this completely supports TRP's misogynistic tendency to mistreat women and devalue their experiences. why work so hard for a slut who's just dreaming of chad's cock anyway? don't be a simp because in the end it just doesn't make sense for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:49 PM
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generally public space but that day had an adult theme
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:56 AM
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i once saw a beautiful woman walking down a promenade. her posture dignified, her movements elegant. i saw that she led her group through the crowd, who was more than happy to part for them. in her hand were the loose ends of six or seven tethers. my eyes followed the scene and to my surprise the origin of each tether was a man in a harness, each one shirtless, obedient, and judging by their expressions, utterly devoted to the woman. these men made up her stable of stallions. i had never seen an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:10 AM
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exactly. it was double standards city. i had to behave at the utmost pinnacle of behavior, whereas the boys just had to show up with their penises attached and they got passes on shitty behavior. my dad tried to teach me that wife beating, male infidelity, and rape was justifiable. it was sad to see that my dad didn't really have my back. who he did support was a man (my future husband) whom he didn't even know. i was being molded into what he would've wanted for himself and it was extremely dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:55 PM
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my dad was like that too. sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 06:30 PM
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this thread is hamster city
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:46 PM
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it may or may not be ok for her to be friends with an ex. it's not ok that you will twist arms to get her to comply. you can make the request, sure. but don't try to control her like this. it's not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:03 AM
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wow to your last paragraph. your approach is so miserable and limiting. so you think your wife getting older means she'll be worth less to you. what a pity. anyway.... i have not said that once in our now lengthy exchange that being fuckable largely is attributed to being physically attractive. beauty fades. for all. and then what you got? my hubs has had major surgeries in recent times and i certainly don't expect him to be benching and squatting his way into my pants. but yet i can't get enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:48 AM
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love this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:46 AM
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i love slutty looking chicks. the world would be so boring without y'all. i appreciate you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:23 AM
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Would you decide to stop trying if the effort became too much for you, or would you keep trying harder and harder? if he's worth it to me and i'm down, then i keep going. would he be worth it to me if he twisted my arm or guilted me into doing sexual acts? NOPE. there may be another gap in your thinking. you talk about being fuckable to your spouse as pandering or that the cost outweighs the benefits. do you acknowledge that effort is required even just for maintenance? if maintenance is not kep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:09 AM
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That's largely the reason why people get together in the first place i guess this is where we differ. you describe settling for your mate in lieu of constantly having to chase a variety of women. the "easy" path as you call it. i'm describing cultivating a great relationship and sex life with my partner. it's so easy to run game on people who don't know you very well. running game on my husband is some next level shit. it's hard but something i'm into. to find new ways of delighting him, turning…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 10:23 PM
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whatever dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 10:14 PM
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what's your point, that ugly people are ugly? is that what you're mad about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 09:23 PM
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dead bedroom scenarios do not afflict men disproportionately. in fact, if you look at the DB sub you'll see more women in DBs than men. so there really should be no change in the relationship unless there's a change in them do you know who you're gonna be in 15 years? do you truly believe that people are static? and that relationships are static? you don't see people letting themselves go after marriage? do you not believe that spouses have the responsibility of keeping themselves fuckable to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:44 PM
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there are PLENTY of ugly people, both women and men, who find mates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:44 PM
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there are different reasons people fuck. you would think the main reason is to bust a big screaming nut. i've learned that sometimes CONQUEST is the main reason and have seen it in both women and men. in women, however, this reason can totally sideline said nut. other reasons women do ONS: sex is a form of self expression, likes his company, likes the connection, wants to keep the good times rolling, is feeling self destructive, is feeling celebratory, feels like maybe this can turn into somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:57 PM
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did it ever cross your mind that the husbands i described dropped the "great guy" act after the wedding, became more mean/selfish/controlling, and/or became complacent to the point of unattractiveness? look i'm not saying all men are bad and all women are wonderful but you pretend like either men can do no wrong or that men don't need to do anything after the wedding. what a huge hole in your rebuttal. you've conflated your argument to an unrealistic scenario. women don't expect their men to "pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:06 AM
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for me the casual guys get less. much less. there's less comfort around them, i'm less free. i also know that i can't ask for more than a certain level of effort or attentiveness. and this is from someone that's had zero ONS and a handful of long term FWBs as far as casual sex goes. even with a FWB where we are really friends with a healthy level of mutual respect there's a disconnectedness in the fucking. from both sides. something like "you're not my bf/gf and i'm going to reserve more the adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:32 AM
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different people bring out different things in us. there are friends i want to hit vegas hard with, others i'd rather not drink with at all, some i want to play video games with, some i want to talk about politics, and others definitely not. the guys i've been with did not get everything i have cumulatively ever offered to previous ones. with one guy it was fun to do it in semi public, with another guy fucking while stoned was our thing, with another our adventure was my teaching him about my bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:34 AM
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try again homie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:47 PM
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you're the emotional one here buddy. can't you take a joke? or is the ability to laugh at yourself not part of your superiority complex? well, reading your comments i guess logic isn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:05 AM
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"please answer with a simple yes or no, sir. do you still beat your wife?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 01:52 AM
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you're so right! we like to gossip about how trash you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 01:35 AM
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i have. and none of them say jail black people longer for the same crime. conservatives on tv don't even say this. they may say that blacks commit a higher percentage of crimes, but never sentence them longer for the same exact crime. that's totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:31 PM
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i've never heard anyone argue that blacks should get longer prison sentences than whites for the same crime because blacks commit more crimes. never ever. non-sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:51 AM
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maybe, maybe not. depends on what the person wants out of life. casual sex is not for everyone. in my case casual sex resulted in my now 12 year marriage. he's as high value as they come and we tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:26 PM
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nope. i usually see that taken men are painfully complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:03 AM
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what were you doing? establishing and enjoying my adult life on my terms (cue control by janet). making the most of the stage of life i was in, just as i do now. and what were YOU doing besides being undesirable on several levels? if YOU weren't living for ME in your "prime" then why should i do it for you? why couldn't you be better and come from a position of strength instead of sniveling from a position of weakness? (i don't mean you as you and me as me obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:49 AM
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in every way she's smarter, proven to be adaptable, displays ability to learn, has more respect for herself and knows better the value of a good thing wow you're pretty terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:05 AM
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what the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 08:41 PM
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I’m also the intelligent kind of men, an small piece of what makes civilizations happen sounds like you shouldn't even be in charge of making street signs much less making "civilizations happen"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:09 PM
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i'll just leave this here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:35 AM
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i have never lied about it nor have i ever felt compelled to. actually i think it's fun to talk about it with friends, both male and female, if they're down like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:03 PM
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treated her body like a sex doll, for guys that treated her like shit what if the woman did something much more likely: have a normal amount of sex in a few relationships where the guys treated her just fine? is that cc?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:53 AM
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how does it make me feel? sad. but it's good for me to see that they're out there and that i'm just not imagining the undercurrents i see out in the world. it helps me not get lulled into a state of complacency. kinda like how watching the true crime shows remind me that there are a lot of fucked up people out there among us and that i shouldn't be too trusting. how does it affect my view of men? makes me disappointed in them. i thought they were more noble and not so spiteful and small minded. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 11:45 PM
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Name a movie about war from a female perspective and I'll show you 50 more from a man's why do you think this is? always based around their vaginas firat of all, ever think for a second that some women's identities are wrapped up in sex because everyone is taught that sex is all women are good for? and sadly a lot of women believe it too. you clearly also believe this. your confirmation bias is strong. per my OP, the male gaze as the default causes: Women only seen as sex objects Women adopting …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:18 PM
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A story about the horrors of war is more relatable don't you think it's interesting how you equate a story of war with a male pov? that it hasn't even occurred to you that war stories could be told from the female pov? And yet the most popular movies among men are not smut like the most popular movies among women ok now you're just arguing in bad faith. a 10 second google search shows you are WAY off the mark here. i think you actually made that up. not to mention, smut has largely been a man th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:03 PM
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they can't feel the female orgasm thanks for invalidating your own argument. requiring actions outside of mutually enjoyable sex it's not mutually enjoyable if i don't cum. i'm better off not fucking in the first place than fucking without cumming. you think it's "extra attention", i think it's the price of admission. fucking without cumming will guarantee that i won't want to fuck that guy again. and if he thinks that it's unfair to make me cum then it all works out beautifully, don't you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:22 PM
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so i have to not eat? much less satisfying sexual experience you're making shit up now. a great majority of the time men are one nut and done. one nut and satisfied. like can't-go-again satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:53 AM
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those things are not relatable to men because men are not interested in seeing from outside their pov. because men have lots of their own shit that satisfies their needs. those examples have to do with sex. and we all know how much hetero guys just LOVE watching male strippers, or fantasies that are not theirs. next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:44 AM
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my orgasm being crazy better than theirs you're reaching and speculating here. but ok let's do it your way. let's say that your idea is true. then this is more like "Whenever you eat you eat the finest 5 star meals. I only eat fast food. Because your meals are of higher quality than mine and that's not fair you can chew food every day but swallow it only once a week." well you know what, buddy? i am not going to do that. that's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 05:29 AM
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i have small orgasms and big ones and everything in between. same for my partner. morning quickie vs prolonged i-miss-u session vs drunken sloppiness. anyway-- would you be alright with having sex without orgasm on a regular basis? sit there for a moment and picture it. me, no. i just can't do that. i'm down for a lot but not this. it has happened and it is no bueno.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:46 AM
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women have learned to see things through men's eyes because we've had to. men don't do vice versa because y'all can totally get by without having to do so. and not only is women's pov considered niche, we actually have to consume men's cartoonish, flat, and way oversexualized interpretations of what they think women's pov is like. see pillow fights during slumber parties, r/menwritingwomen, girls' shitty toys, excessive pink stuff, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:35 AM
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because this is how we've been socialized. the default view is the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:05 AM
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dick is preferred. it feels better than anything else and is more satisfying in general. plus, you get to romp around with a playmate! earlier you were right in that i can bring my own self to orgasm, but don't get it twisted: if i'm having sex with someone else i EXPECT to have at least 1 (one) orgasm with this person. this is my requirement. what i can do on my own is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:46 PM
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orgasm solo <> orgasm with a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 09:23 PM
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you totally got me, smart dude! i expect orgasms in exchange for sex. it's in my dna.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:53 PM
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i think that the male gaze totally has it's time and place. the problem that i have with it is that it's the default view. this causes: Poor understanding on what women want/not want, like/dislike Women's stories are not told, seen, paid attention to, or valued Women's goals, accomplishments, hopes and dreams not taken seriously The othering of women Women are second class Women only seen as sex objects Women adopting this thinking too because it's just so normal and deeply rooted =( and this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:59 PM
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kind of a weird rebuttal since older women are not trying to be in competition for that older guy because he tends to be a creep. again, this is not a narrative. your OP is making the case that billy is a better partner than chad. if you look at the guys on this sub with their pathetic hangups we can see that this notion is laughable at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 07:36 PM
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i concur with wic. men talk like that. women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:26 PM
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why are the guys here always pushing the narrative that so-called-betas are good people and make good partners? chances are ugly guys and late bloomers are even bigger assholes than good looking ones because the ugly ones are not as well adjusted. false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:05 PM
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why? i've had the sex life i've always wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:46 PM
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the most i tried is juggling and even that wasn't for me. more power to those that can. it's just so much more fun for me to get caught up with one. i admit i did do way too much when i was young but i learned that that was stupid and i cut it out. so although i'm a one-at-a-time type but that doesn't mean they get everything from me early on. plus, i've always had guy friends that i would hang out with and a very active social and party life. the guys i talked to always knew that although i was…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:45 PM
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on the contrary i have a high sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:29 PM
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she sells sea shells by the she shed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:21 AM
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lmao someone who says things like "manlet" and "positive canal tilt eye sockets" coming to the conclusion that personality doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:02 AM
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what kind of guys did i talk to? ranged anywhere from 6s to 9s. each one had something good to offer. worked out great! what i learned is that people will act as badly as you will allow. not just in relationships but also in friendships and at work. you set the bar and people will meet it. those that don't can move on. took me a while to learn and figure out how to put into practice, especially since i was the cool girl type that would buy my bf video games, cook for him and his friends, organiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:43 AM
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i totally understand that until some agreement is reached on exclusivity that all bets are off. sure. however, my style is such that i like to focus on one at a time. in the beginning getting to know you talking stage i found that it's really fun to do that. that's my preference. and if i ever got a whiff that i was not the apple of his eye from the beginning then i next him. it's just really not for me. so long story short yes i do expect him to focus on me and me only because i do the same. is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:48 AM
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The rest of the “male thirst” is actually wanted NEWSFLASH: if you have a thirsty dude he's gonna be thirsty for more than just one woman. that's a hard pass for me. can't stand thirsty guys. they're childish and REEK of desperation. and boring. not good company at all. they can barely even think straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:08 AM
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no one said you should stop projecting confidence and getting your fuck on. that's different than being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:57 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:39 PM
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bored as shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:52 PM
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depends. of all the good time guys that my social circle interacted with, 2 attained FWB status with me. i kept them around to ensure a reliable source of orgasms on tap between seeing guys who i really liked. these FWBs were decent enough but it was important that i wouldn't get hung up them to keep things nice and neat. now that i think about it it is quite a skill to select for, set up, and maintain a long term, beneficial FWB. well there were actually 3 but the last one convinced me he was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:52 PM
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good time guy is someone i don't get hung up on. there's something wrong with his personality like he's too shallow or his social persona is an act. when he runs out of rehearsed lines he ends up being uninteresting, somewhat mean/shitty, and/or just plain odd. he's only able to make social connections that are not deep. he's someone i don't really respect or take seriously or wanna spend extended periods of time with. no need to sit across a table from him sharing a meal. more often than not he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:53 PM
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i've never been concerned with it the only thing that i don't like is if he doesn't know how to act, which can be a likely a side effect of a very low n. something something chicken and egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:11 PM
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not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:22 AM
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then why aren't men the ones wearing makeup, high heels, and undergarments with wires in them? i've always loved those shows, too, and have been impressed that human males have managed to flip the script on this part of the mating dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:17 AM
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how would you know what a high value male would do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:53 AM
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first of all this is a Q4W and you're a dude second, the number of times i've been asked for my N count = zero. and of the guys i spent time time with, 75% talked marriage with me (even if i wasn't thinking about it) and that includes the 3 proposals i got. real proposals with diamonds and shit. your comment = fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:03 AM
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hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:39 AM
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alpha females don't need to be old. they can be any age. OP's question was: Do you believe alpha females exist? And if so, do they enjoy the same sexual and relationship benefits that alpha males get? and i gave examples that show that they do exist. but ok let's talk about them in the dating sense: an alpha female has her pick of whomever she damn well pleases. she's the best looking wherever she goes, well styled, charismatic, and most of all confident in herself. probably mean at times (a dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:09 AM
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there usually is a dominant one or two in a group of women, or in a group of extended family. like the movies hustlers, devil wears prada, and crazy rich asians. the borg queen ftw! the shot callers. the decision makers. the leaders. just because you choose to only see "fecundity" doesn't mean that what's everyone else does. what about women that are aged 50+ (non child bearing age)? those women all of sudden do not lose whatever power they've amassed. that's just silly. unless you only see wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:32 AM
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it helps me appreciate and love my husband more. the cringey guys on here offer a sharp contrast that make the hubs look so freakin GREAT plus i find arguing fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:48 PM
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(1) People want what they can't have (2) People don't value what comes easy People = Human Beings Of All Ages From All Walks Of Life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:26 AM
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it's not that your "perform the action" is icky you ding dong. it's just very unflattering to you. it tells the world that you are not a winner. but suit yourself if you don't wanna believe me, it's you that it betrays not me. you have a problem with my saying that there are men who don't how to fuck. why are you so stuck on the technicality of adding "like i want them to"? why can't i mean "like their partners want them to"? i don't deny that this does include me. but so the fuck what? it seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:18 AM
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hey you know i think i'm gonna go do that thanks for the tip (ha) and thanks for caring about the fine and nasty sluts you jerk off to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:51 AM
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i made no such claim. HOWEVER it is YOU who admitted to believing that knowing how to "perform the action" was sufficient. (this is so yuck btw i suggest you never repeat it) you have a loooooooong looooooonely road ahead of you i do recommend therapy and sex workers to ease your hateful discomfort. if making meaningful improvements to your hateful character is out of the question one can only hope that you are old and hence mercifully near death so you won't have to suffer for much longer. just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:37 AM
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so you cannot refute literally any of my many points? your response is basically no u hahahaha you really should've gotten the fuck out while the gettin was good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:07 AM
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by "knowing how to fuck" i am not talking about the basic act of inserting a penis into a vagina until the tapioca sprinkler starts to go off. i'm not talking about men knowing how to perform the action fucking yuck bro YUCK newsflash buddy--most men don't listen. they tend to be too freakin sensitive about any feedback that implies that their sex skills need improvement. (but muh manhood) so they're either too sensitive, are in too much denial to really learn, just don't really care to learn mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:39 AM
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first, some background. i do love me some porn. i've always loved it. i've never ever minded if my partner watched porn. i think watching it with my partner can be a great time. i especially love how porn is getting better for people like me. that more porn is being made for the neutral or female gaze. now i have my own that i enjoy on my own terms and don't have to do mental gymnastics to watch like i've been doing this whole time up til now! hell motherfucking YES hallelujah i never thought i'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:57 PM
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is this really for real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:49 AM
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difference in testosterone as being only a few milligrams never heard this one before "here have some liquid expressed from a skunk's butt glands cmon it's only a few milligrams"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:14 PM
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(1) People want what they can't have (2) People don't value what comes easy People = Human Beings Of All Ages From All Walks Of Life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:05 PM
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the premise of your OP is right. i was giving underlying reasons why some men don't wish to be friends with women. because some men think that women are only good for one thing: Use Of Their Holes a base level of respect is necessary for friendship and these men have ZERO respect for women, my friend. this thread is chock full of examples! these guys hella suck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 09:59 PM
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let's take a moment to look at the clauses separately: (1) women are only good for one thing (2) does not respect women as whole human beings (3) sees her as an inferior animal with a wet hole do you think the three different clauses are hyperbolic? because you can't get to believing #1 without believing #2 and #3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 09:26 PM
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the men that see women as only good for one thing will not value any friendship from a woman because he does not respect her as a whole 100% human being. he sees her as an inferior animal with a wet hole which he needs, unfortunately. it's ok with me that these men self-select out of interactions with normies, thus greatly reducing their opportunities to fuck. it's the best kind of WIN-WIN
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:13 PM
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oh haha no that's backwards early 20s he didn't know how to act
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:31 PM
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hi are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:18 PM
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trend where women are letting their behavior be guided by their nature without proper consideration of the consequences because of some changes in globalized culture leading to overall market unhappiness and some real bad trends for it what specific behavior and what specific consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:58 PM
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hm. got cited for circle-jerking. let me try again. They don't hate women. interesting choice of word, "They". what about you, mr "workaholic"? what do you think about women? are women as smart/noble/capable/respectable as men? are you red or black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:16 PM
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cringe cringe cringe cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:39 PM
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raised red. am usually blue but will be purple if i need to be. why? because i found that red folks are full of shit and morally bankrupt more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:29 AM
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aw man. i have a PhD in FWB. i've had 4 of them from between high school to my current relationship, which started out as a fuck buddy. the first one was an exbf out of high school. lasted on and off for a few years until i had a 3some with him and his friend. the second one was the friend. dropped the first one because i wanted to try out a new playmate. lasted a couple years, on and off. only hooked up if we were both between relationships. what can i say.... i needed to always have a reliable…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:13 AM
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you're choosing to see only the talking shit part and "judging" in a misleading manner that this is 80% of what FDS does. i pointed out verbatim how FDS reciprocates but you choose to ignore that. you're choosing to willfully disregard the good and how all parties benefit. you're choosing to not hold men accountable. fortunately, this process will weed out the willfully ignorant and obtuse so it'll all work itself out. and don't worry about the lines of men forming. they always have and they alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:01 PM
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you gotta act shitty and disrespectful for FDS to wanna shit on you. or are you insisting that men NOT be held accountable for being deceiving, shitty, and disrespectful? and what does being deceiving, shitty, and disrespectful have to do with fatties exactly? "no fatties" isn't even a controversial idea here on PPD. non sequitur. just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:47 PM
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without the bitter snarkiness and hate look you gotta come with something better than just tone policing. FDS doesn't teach hatred of men like TRP teaches hatred of women. per my previous post, FDS teaches women how to steer clear of men who are out to deceive them. expectations are out in the open. FDS employs no deception. it's actually welcomed when a guy who doesn't like her as much as she prefers just takes off. wouldn't you agree that this is good for everybody? furthermore, FDS states: We…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:24 PM
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look, i don't agree with everything they say (like 15% disagree). but this doesn't stop me from recognizing their general value. just like i can objectively evaluate an opponent's skill, or a rival's strong attributes where i may be lacking. unfortunately you are either not honest with yourself or not engaging in good faith. FDS never set out to lower guys' standards of women. FDS says that a woman should raise her standards, enforce them, and find peace and love with herself in the process. nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:42 AM
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hoowee it is salty as fuck in here guys, guys. the disparity lies in your minds and in your minds alone--in your inaccurate read of FDS. but i guess we shouldn't be surprised as inaccurate reads are kinda your thing in the first place. and here's a helpful tip: stop conflating ideas to their fictional extremes in an effort to discredit the ideas. it really cuts into your credibility and looks bad to anyone reading your toddler tantrums when they're just out to make sense of the world. it's so fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:43 AM
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debate has been a thing since before reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:33 AM
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this is especially true for the RP guys that post here. they're mad that the world doesn't revolve around them. then they larp here that the world revolves around them per the OP's premise. then they lose their shit when we confirm that the world does not, in fact, revolve around them. it's hilarious anyway irl, insecure people tend to care too much about the approval of people who don't matter. happens to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:43 AM
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i've always enjoyed debating in general and taking down delusional RP guys for sport is hella fun. this sub provides a nice steady stream of he-man woman haters that would be hard to find irl that can be engaged with on this level with such frequency. and there's the add bonus of taking their flimsy logic around how misogyny is justified somehow and dismantling it in front of a live studio audience. i get to toy with shitheads plus there's an actual benefit to society? HELLS YEAH MY KIND OF PART…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:35 AM
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hell yeah but i don't know if we would have stayed together long. he was kind of a dick, and by kind of i mean huge, and i was never really down with taking disrespect from guys i dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:19 AM
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hell fucking no. and i was actually engaged to one of them, too. would've been the biggest mistake of my life! left him and never looked back. and i didn't even leave for someone else. he fucked up all on his own which was the best thing he could've ever done for me. no ragerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:13 AM
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nice guy when I was young but secretly those guy like being treated like shit and will only respect you if you do that You can treat hot alpha guys like shit too. But at least those types their hidden secret side is the side that actually wants to connect. i have found these to be true, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:07 AM
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not if those "good girls" stay with their men without the men having to work for them. remember-- Behavior Driver #1: People want what they can't have Behavior Driver #2: (at a distant 2nd) People don't value what comes easy this idea is true for men, women, kids, and everybody in between. young, old, rich, poor, up, down, left, right, select start. distilled down even further: people love the chase yo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:51 AM
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i advocate for both. but there is a but. i used to be a supporter of MRA until i realized that it's a fake movement. what do i mean by fake? MRA doesn't care about raising up the community. they just employ reactionary misogyny and are more interested in blaming women and feminism for all their problems. other men's groups that actually do help men not only exclude themselves as part of MRA, but they are also allied by feminists. and who aligns with MRA? TRP, MGTOW, incels. hopefully the real me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:40 PM
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that is what you were talking about. alone. what we were talking about was the core tenet of the OP itself, which is that baby yoda/groot is really about BABY STUFF. you should read the OP some time. there was some talk about people's relationships with baby stuff and how neonotenous things may or may not play into that. but then there was this strange person telling us that this is not, in fact, what we're talking about, and that we have it all wrong. conflating our ideas in a wildly inaccurate…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:48 AM
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who is this "we" who is trying so hard to move the goal posts away from the topic of baby stuff when it is perfectly relevant? who is this "we" that stretched the idea of not being into baby stuff into not liking cute things? what a dumb argument. oh yeah that's you, alone, dying on a stupid hill. by extension? cmon man. human babies are different from puppies. babies are different than baby yoda. are you telling me that if i love puppies i have to also love baby groot by extension? does this me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:38 AM
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her logic makes perfect sense. yours makes sense in bizarro world. and your accusing her of dodging is seems oddly aggressive for such a weak stance. people who are into baby stuff like baby stuff. people who are not into baby stuff aren't drawn to baby stuff. what's so difficult here geez
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:47 AM
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so what if they're hardworking? does being hardworking equate to: being good company being presentable having good character not being an insufferable buffoon not needing to get it together in other areas is being hardworking an excuse to make shortcuts? like that ridiculous guy from yesterday who claimed women don't like hard working young men because young women are undisciplined but it just turns out that people, who happen to include young women, tend to not be drawn to people who are judgy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:55 PM
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i thought i understood your comment but now after reading it again realize that it's difficult to understand. oh well. turns out your writing was dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:22 PM
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you sound like that guy yesterday who claimed women don't like hard working young men because young women are undisciplined. turns out people, who happen to include young women, tend to not be drawn to people who are judgy and stuck up. in your case, why do you assume that hard work in business is transferable to hard work on your physique or interpersonal skills? this is highly illogical. yesterday's snotty guy couldn't be bothered with the notion of going to the gym and insisted that his dilig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:15 PM
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you sound judgy, inflexible, and stuck up. don't conflate this with "good", or that women who don't find this attractive are lacking in discipline. and men think they are so logical. just own it and find other women like you who are judgy, inflexible, and stuck up. "serious" even. there are plenty of women like that. it's funny that you think all young women are out to party. it really reveals your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:28 PM
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wow this thread sure is cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:43 AM
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exactly. like these guys are falling over themselves to give respect to a woman! "oh the wind changed and is now blowing NNEasterly at 7.74 mph and well, it is a gibbus moon tonight. and hell, the barista got my coffee order at just the right temperature, just a tick south of scalding, you know? and i thought to myself, ok, i think i can now entertain the thought of giving a woman my total and sincere respect. but then i saw my bitch coworker sally and that dumb ass annoying voice cunt makes me …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:54 AM
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As a woman whatever dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:50 AM
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sounds like it might be a coping mechanism for you, to try and protect yourself from getting hurt somehow. are you able to articulate what's scary to you about success in the context you mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:48 AM
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it's a form of self-loathing. bingo on the "if you want me you can't be that great." "i refuse to join any club that would have me as a member." -Groucho Marx i've seen both boys and girls do it, which for the girl part is probably the root of the RP claims "women have no clue what they want" and "watch what they do not what they say". another way to explain this are the notions that people want what they can't have, and at a distant second, people don't value what comes easy. this idea is true …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:37 AM
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like these guys are falling over themselves to give respect to a woman! "oh the wind changed and is now blowing NNEasterly at 7.74 mph and well, it is a gibbus moon tonight. and hell, the barista got my coffee order right and it was actually the perrrrrrfect temperature, just flirting with scalding, you know? and i thought to myself, ok, i think i can now entertain the thought of giving a woman my total and sincere respect. but then i saw my bitch coworker sally and that dumb ass no talent cunt …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:50 AM
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OH PLEASE -100 years ago not many women were interested in voting. -50 years ago not many women were interested in going to college, except maybe to get a MRS degree. -for a long time my own mom was not allowed to open her own bank account. this was in her home country as well as here in the U.S. after she migrated. -up til 20 years ago my dad used to force my mom to vote exactly how he votes -i work more overtime than any guy i work with. it's been like that for as long as i remember. i still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:49 AM
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this is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:08 AM
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if i go to a guy's house that means that i wanna kick it with him. like hang out kick it. love me some good, fun kickin it. the only time when it meant that it was time to fuck is when i had already been making out with him beforehand, on that same day. or if we had already talked about it. i won't kiss a guy i wouldn't fuck. just not my style. maybe my kissing someone is the equivalent of your going to the dude's house? one of my best friends is the opposite. she loves kissing and making out ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:58 AM
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men trying to woe them yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:45 AM
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all you had to say is, yes, you are incapable of distinguishing between the two. the women's porn sub i listed earlier doesn't reflect your theory. but i guess you will continue to ignore it. and you're doubling down on your delusion. i guess i should not be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:46 PM
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wow you are really into wishful and deluded thinking first the degredation thing and then my agreeing with you thoughts do not equal wanting to do it in practice. or are you unable to distinguish the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:54 PM
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first, rape fantasies are not the driver behind day-to-day sex. sure, women have them but i doubt they manifest regularly in our regular fuck sessions. i may have fleetingly had some variant of rape fantasy from time to time but i have had no desire to incorporate it in the bedroom. like if i'm watching tentacle monster porn and i get turned on by it somehow, but i'm not ordering octopus costumes for hubs to wear or buying octopus to do god-knows-what-with. come on. i just admitted to getting tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:02 AM
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i don't think it's common unfortunately i think lots of guys like to take comfort and license in the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:27 AM
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"we just needed some guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:15 AM
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four sounds like a good, well thought out number. but keep in mind that you gotta keep the pipeline stocked because of turnover. maybe shoot for 5 or 6 to hedge for flakiness and ones you see infrequently to get to a true 4. good luck to you on your quest!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:18 AM
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it's strange that they've chosen to see these behaviors as gendered then get all self-righteous and mean about it, although the guys in this thread don't seem mean-spirited at all. i wonder where the meanies went. gosh i love reading FDS messages of support. it's really been missing. i was surprised to see how strong a reaction it caused here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:41 AM
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low IQ post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:35 PM
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the source of RP is rigid and does not teach nuance. besides, i'd rather discuss this with live people in this appropriate sub. suit yourself. you know don't need to participate here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:30 PM
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this makes total sense. there are really too few people out there that help me retain faith in humanity. but the fact that they are out there is reason enough for me. i would just give up otherwise. good things do not come easy. and when you do find a good thing then the real hard work begins. what is your deeply fucked up view of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:23 PM
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the options i laid out were not done in bad faith. pinky swear. they are a reflection of what i've learned about RP, not male desire. these are RP's various flavors, are they not? was hoping to learn about the nuances on how RP is actually being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:06 PM
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ah i see so it's for mechanical maintenance for you. as someone with a strong, distracting sex drive believe me i get it. but judging from the wide range of thoughtful responses from men in this thread, frequently there's more to it than just being a squirrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:47 PM
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yeah people will be as shitty as they can get away with, unfortunately. do you think the discoveries you wrote above are only applicable to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:35 PM
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ah FWBs yes. these have been a big part of my life now that i think about it. it was important to me to have a non-disrespectful boy on reserve that was well versed in my body and could get me off. i never had a ONS because of the high risk of not having an orgasm. i'd just toggle the FWB on/off depending on our respective relationship statuses. and wouldn't you know it i ended up marrying one. we very well couldn't tell that story of how we met at our wedding reception haha that would've been o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:26 PM
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hm that does sound dreadful. have you not found trustworthy girls out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:47 PM
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sexual satisfaction is kinda broad, though. what sexually satisfies you more, having ego-validating ONS or fucking a high value girl for a while? i get that a nut is a nut but there are so many kinds out there. perhaps this can be easily answered if you think about how you approach women. do you mostly look to say whatever you need to say or be whoever you need to be to get in her pants as quickly as possible? as you go through your process are you on the lookout for a good thing? or can you giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:41 PM
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what you said is even truer than you think. i've found the same thing true when applied to dating men. for the first half of my dating life i was the kind to cook, clean, fuck, buy him shit, be good company, drive him around, be as cute as possible, not be a burden, just be the best partner i could be. it felt like it was so clear to me, what to do and how to be. but not one boy appreciated it. in fact, the way they treated me grew worse over time. i came to realize that boys didn't truly value …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:21 PM
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interestingly enough it was feminism that did exactly what you wrote for me. and it was feminism that led me to men's rights (not sure though if i'm using the right term here). they are the same shit at their cores.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:41 AM
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i'm in a similar place at work. where i'm realizing that it's ok or even good to manipulate your coworkers. a male mentor has been coaching me. they call it "people skills". it makes your job easier and hopefully is what's best for some greater good. i know that "greater good" can mean a very wide range of things but it does bother me that it can't just be that. this has been a hard pill for me to swallow. but hey here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:38 AM
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thoughtful post. it's neat you were able to use RP as a means to sharpen your edge and figure out how to get what you want. i'm pleased to see that you don't hate women after all that. would you say you used it as a guide and that you continue to use it, or was it more a jumping off point for you? as for your last sentence, though it's funny, i frequently find myself telling people around me that men and women are more alike than we are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:25 AM
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i don't know if you hate women but if i had to bet money i would put it on SHITTY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:32 PM
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it's much nicer when you guys don't try to pretend you're not shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:27 PM
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i do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:28 PM
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good for you, bro. but as much as you try to shout down the OP as BS, there's buttloads of evidence here on this thread that you're wrong. a link to OLD stats doesn't prove shit. read this thread for yourself and enjoy the taste of crow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:30 AM
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hater
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:03 AM
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nope. not for me. i like it when he notices the interactions and sees me anew through the eyes of someone who doesn't know me well. seems to help remind him of what he liked about me when we first met. i admire him from afar too and love noticing how women respond to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:05 AM
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sometimes people get together under weird circumstances that doesn't transfer over well to a LTR. like an extra-marital affair that carries over after the married couple divorces, or a relationship of convenience like an office affair that can't stand the light of day when the couple brings it outside the office. or when the lights get turned on at the club at the end of the night. HA just kidding had to bring levity to this depressing thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:38 AM
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the other person gets easily irritated by you and generally tries to stay away
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:25 AM
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whatever dude. good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:07 AM
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help desk folks on the phone is them doing business. and for certain tasks it is far more efficient to do it over the phone rather than through email or chat. faster = better. also, my poor wrists from all the typing! a big part of doing business and being successful at it is building relationships. you need good relationships to be successful in doing business, because you need people's support in order to get ahead. is it a fair assumption that you are not in this life stage yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:50 PM
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no, it's not. it could lead to cheating but it's not cheating. there's also different kinds of flirting: harmless, innocuous, with a salesperson you're never gonna see again, with your coworker you see daily, with your friend's spouse which everyone knows is all in good fun, with your other friend's spouse which is never appropriate because he sucks with boundaries ... and then there might be the kind of flirting which is done to fill a void someone might have in their current relationship. and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:52 PM
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there are scenarios where email is too slow and disorganized. are you suggesting that phone conversations are not needed in business?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:53 PM
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the problem is that phone conversations at work are primarily for doing business, with the social aspect a distant second in purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:49 PM
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people in front of a screen not only miss out on learning how to read social cues but they also don't learn how to improve and refine their own non-verbal communication. having to do this in real time, in front of real live people with no anonymity or editing could be a set up for a bad time. i've encountered young people in the office who are uncomfortable with just talking on the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:53 PM
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that is such a false equivalency. please read this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:19 PM
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me and my gfs have encountered guys like this and they're stubborn, dumb, condescending, and disrespectful as shit. a man like this will then go on to complain that his wife won't fuck him like how he imagines she fucked chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:20 PM
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sometimes the suggestions and requests i give before, during, and after sex are ignored outright. there are many men who think that they know better than what i'm telling them. or maybe they have tunnel vision on their own experience. or maybe they don't put great importance in my experience. or maybe they listen to the porn scenes stuck in their head rather than me. or maybe they take my requests as an affront to their manhood and how could they possibly be so wrong? this bitch just doesn't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:24 PM
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people are not discussing sexual preferences before sex. first, doing so may be awkward, premature, or can come off as demanding. second, there is a theory and practical aspect to these things. for example, you could read instructions on how to drive a car but you wouldn't really know how to drive without getting behind the wheel and practicing irl. and even with a certified instructor seated next to you in the passenger's seat giving you live, real-time instructions it takes time for someone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:33 PM
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it's not so much that men suck in bed, although a disappointingly high number are. i have been fortunate to have been with some who are very good actually. the problem is that none of them were able to get me to cum in our first fuck session. this is because: 1) they did not yet know my sexy ways well enough. there is a process of trial and error and this takes time. 2) for casual sex they seemed to go into the encounter with the expectation that my not cumming was alright or acceptable but as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:56 PM
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it's never happened to me because the following is just so horribly unacceptable that i make sure to recognize it rearing it's ugly head and make the appropriate adjustments Being vulnerable to disrespect Chances are I won't even have an orgasm because he doesn't know me like this ..... so i'll end up with an irritated pussy, the feeling of being looked down upon somehow by the person i welcomed into my body, and i didn't even get to bust a fucking nut for it?! not even a teeny tiny one? HARD FU…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:02 AM
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yes yes yes i would NEVER in a million fucking years want to be with someone who wasn't excited to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:37 AM
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first of all, i'm not hamstering as much as you are willfully ignoring the world outside of your imagination and doubling down on twisting this into the fault of women. what you're describing are one-sided relationships, where Person-1 likes Person-2 significantly less than the other way around. read the scenarios you wrote again with this in mind. it happens all the time and is not gender specific. this sucks and is a shitty place. i've been there more than once. and what should Person-2 do? ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:07 AM
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please read this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:21 AM
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really now, you're going to argue that this is not hypocritical? that it's ok for a man to have a high count but a woman better not? it's also in a lot of people's biology to be stupid, insecure, and violent. so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:49 AM
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i agree that being with a person who uses sex as currency is whack. it's unhealthy and manipulative. however, i have had enough in-depth talks with married people (both men and women) to know that there are quite a bit of clueless husbands out there that don't make themselves appealing to their wives, wonder why she won't put out/initiate, then tell her that she needs to do her wifely duty. that shit ain't cute and close to impossible to recover from. ok onto the next topic-- different people br…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:39 AM
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let us watch these haters eat their hateration since that's all they got
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:24 PM
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yup and we are free to ridicule you as a source of delightful entertainment please don't stop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:17 PM
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kinda like how RP men want to have great sex with lots of women then want to settle down with one with a low N count? i don't find this offensive at all, btw. hypocritical but not offensive. like how people, both men's and women's, priorities change as they progress through the different phases of life? you mean like that? or do you mean you worry that you don't turn your woman on the way other men may have done in her past? i like questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:11 PM
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this is a fantastic post. thank you for this. alright PP that's a wrap!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:14 PM
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this is some made up bullshit invented by some on this sub to whine their way into women's anuses even though after trying it before she's decided she's really not into it i have never heard of any woman complaining about "men's exotic vacations with an ex" so contrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:48 PM
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"sarge... da billayj wass clirred...." [CUE NECKLACE OF EARS] i have watched that movie COUNTLESS. TIMES. "Look for something hard."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:22 AM
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this popcorn is delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:26 AM
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this is fucking funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:55 AM
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biology what now? i'm gonna try to flesh out your logic. if you mean that a penis or having more muscle or testosterone equates to reasons why you must have dominance/superiority to women then please report to the nearest prison yard and tell those guys that you are dutifully checking in for bitch duty. it is biologically mandated, after all. evolution let's step back here. we've gone through the ages of agrarian, conquest, slavery, industrial, world war, analog, digital. we are now in a knowled…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:16 AM
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at least it is crystal clear that the stew is so not gay we can all rest easy tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:15 AM
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it doesn't happen frequently and when it does its usually an appetizer and not the main course an appetizer less like coconut shrimp and more like a bread basket but i do prefer cock as the main so the "2" represents when it is the main or one of the mains in a multiorgasmic treat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:20 AM
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it's generally acceptable for a man to be in a subordinate position to other men. but not to women because reasons. flimsy reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:56 AM
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1) What's the shortest and longest a dude has lasted, and which do you prefer? 1 min and 3 hours (because ecstasy). prefer 10 min for quickie, 20 to 30 regular, 1 hr to all afternoon if i'm being festive. 2) How often / If ever do you orgasm during sex? Both PIV and oral? i go 0-1 infrequently but it's totally fine because sometimes i get 2-1. and sometimes > infrequently WOO HOO piv to oral ratio 150:2 3) Did the size really matter? not really. BDE is where it's at though. 4) Did his looks make…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:07 AM
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fuckin potahto dude fuckin potahhhhto
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:45 AM
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the ability to objectively assess someone's appearance and have an opinion equals being homosexual? fragile masculinity + lack of social skills = no bueno
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:07 AM
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we are out there! there are tens of us HA every system has its abuses. every system. be it capitalism, socialism, retail return policies, even the one at my office about who gets a cube by the window. feminism is no different. especially since it was born out of radicalism. plus, there are shitty people everywhere regardless of side. reality will rarely meet our ideals but we mustn't lose sight of them. because without our ideals how could we ever hope to make progress? edit: fixed typo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:29 PM
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this is a weird question to me because: 1) feminism at its core is about enabling opportunities for women that may have been difficult to attain in the past in endeavors where men have not experienced the same barriers. i don't really think it's about sacrifice. 2) is it really a sacrifice if it's something i want to do? but i'll try to answer. feminism has been the gateway for me to think critically about gender roles and how much of human behavior are choices and does not necessarily have to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:53 PM
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low IQ post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:51 PM
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self-determination without systemic oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:11 AM
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i love to debate it's a place where i can argue for both feminism and men's rights. they're both the same shit at the end of the day. i do feel strongly about the topic. if it probably sounds like i argue more for feminism it's only because there are a lot of He-Man Woman Haters around these parts. i'm a pervert who loves talking about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:20 PM
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so every empire that has fallen has been ruled by men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:59 PM
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They all have standards because they can easily get men more attractive than you all? not even close bub They will not want that from you haters gonna hate Good luck with that lol many have tried, many have failed if they have your attitude i can see why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:49 PM
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you won't get far with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:46 PM
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i'll keep shaking the ugly tree until an ugly, luscious, golden-hearted fruit falls into my arms. i'll tap the whole ugly orchard. there are ugly women out there that want to be touched (body and/or heart) and i'll be there for them. i'll find my market which, to my delight, won't have you negative fuckers in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:37 PM
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i'd start this way out the gate and be ahead of the game. yall's suckers can eat my dust while me and my girl with the two lazy eyes get our serious fuck on with her wearing a wench costume and an eye patch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:26 PM
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i'd be dying to see what carnal, animal behavior i can bring out of her and she out of me. just waiting there, dormant. uninspired, untapped, unacknowledged for so many years. oh man that's exciting. i can do that with my attitude. not with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:07 PM
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yup, woman. and i can't cum from piv alone. well to be more precise i guess i'm still trying to figure that one out. i just love orgasming. i hate having sex with the hope of having one then just kidding. not for me. god bless all of you men who have figured out how to prolong your fuck sessions. it looks so hard. y'all are treasures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:46 PM
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then i'll go even uglier. the only requirements are the heart of gold and a decent libido. this should be easy enough to find. we'll fuck our way to motherfucking nirvana with tantra and shit. study it and grow our freakiness together. fuck our frustrations away. hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:36 AM
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that's beautiful. me... i just love busting those nuts. i just can't not do it. i had a bf once that would assume i was fine if i did not. regularly. he was very selfish in bed. it made me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:15 AM
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color me impressed! come to think of it i did do that earlier today where neither of us came. it was a setup for later tonight. thanks for the reminder homie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:25 AM
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this is what fwb are for if i'm not in an ltr. i really hated the idea of ons because if i'm gonna fuck i better cum. it's crazy to me that people are down to fuck without cumming. it's bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:46 AM
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i would find my ugly girl with a golden heart and we would fuck like wild animals. in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:34 AM
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you're now 1 for 3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:22 AM
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you should really read the next sentence. here it is for your reference: it's only fair we do a MFM if we have a FMF but i know he would never be down for that. i just say it to fuck with him and crack myself up. we both know i would fuck him and another woman at the same time without him having to participate in a MFM at any time. try again. you're now 0 for 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:17 AM
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today you learned
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:05 AM
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two in the pink and one in the stink refers to The Shocker. index and middle fingers in the front and a pinky in the back. one-handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:56 AM
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dude your math does not check out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:47 AM
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me and hubs had done them separately before we got together. it comes up once in a while as a casual idea. no big deal. he was never really that interested in doing them after we hooked up. while out sometimes we would point at different women to see if the other would get down with her. that's a fun exercise, like a foreplay game. but i don't know if we both ever gave a thumbs up on a single person. we are both particular. but more importantly we are lazy. doesn't seem like we want to expend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:43 AM
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so this "anger phase" is a shitty excuse to: be deceitful spread hate champion gender-based discrimination give license to people who don't know how to act do you think normies are never given cause to be angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:26 PM
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i'll take a few of those if i outlive my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:55 AM
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i didn't feel like i was a real adult until like 25. felt like i needed adult experiences and wisdom to qualify myself as a relatively competent adult. adult experiences in this case was having some career success and being able to take care of myself. i had been dating since around 15. the notion of shuffling around years of schooling to make more room for additional dating wouldn't have really made a difference to me. and i didn't date older guys either so it wouldn't have made a hypothetical …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:29 AM
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clouded by penis emotions! HA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:09 PM
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me default filters quickly discern for the following: a good and healthy attitude respect for himself and others clever and funny because i'm into that shit, although i admit this criterion is a distant third in comparison to attitude and respect disappointingly this manages to filter out too big of a population of men. a cute face/good body/good style may get you in but it sure as heck won't keep you there. beauty fades you know. what are you left with after that? someone rotten polluting your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:31 PM
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agree. some women want to stay at home and some want to work. let them. some men want to climb the ladder and other men aren't down with it. let them. and also adulthood is kind of a long time. a person of either gender often finds themselves needing/wanting to fill different roles at different times in their lives. we collectively gain more with flexibility and support instead of forcing each other to do something their heart isn't into.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:34 PM
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doing it now. hubs left a lucrative position and started new career (his dream job!) and the ramp up time for the first paycheck is about 2 years. and he timed this move after getting major surgery so i played doting nurse first. i don't care what our arrangement is as long as he's happy. but i do care about working and achieving on my own for myself. i do have to admit, though, that being the breadwinner comes with an unexpected benefit.... he appreciates me a heck of a lot more now that he kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 03:48 AM
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i just attempted to unpack your reasoning and in doing so discovered that your argument is lacking. whether or not you choose to see this as a personal insult is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:54 PM
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it is clear now that you don't wish to open the pretty wrapping paper of your rationale to avoid seeing the turd it conceals within. again, this is not really about how many hours people work. you're so afraid of looking like a villainous oppressor bad guy that you double down on your pretty wrapping paper. and as numerous respondents, both men and women, have indicated on this thread--your arguments don't even even have the ring of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:25 PM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:02 AM
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do you believe that women are no longer discriminated against because there are anti-discrimination laws in place? I am against the pursuit of it since there is no consensus on what it is and what it requires ok. i understand why people can be against change. it's hard. it would be nice to make the world better together. and better for men, too, not just women. but life is more greek tragedy than fairytale. so we'll just continue to press on without you. hope you and your descendants will enjoy …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:49 AM
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the basis for your rationale seems weak. i think it would be more accurate for you to say that tradcon men want tradcon wives. but even then your basis falls flat because i've never ever heard asian folks say that UNambitious women are preferred. and they're hella tradcon already. they just expect the women to do it ALL, with effortless grace and elegance. hm. so then perhaps your true statement is that some men that want to work long hours wish to have a wife that will willingly accept a subord…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:53 PM
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rich, MC, UMC couples can hire drivers, cleaners, food delivery, whatever... leaving more time for parents to parent. so i'm still not seeing your vague point. how are children and the home not taken care of in two income households? families have been managing these things for a long time now and do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:26 PM
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you want women to sacrifice their self-determination for what need exactly? please expand on what "family's need" means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 07:29 PM
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is your point a thinly veiled attempt to say that men want women who will put his needs over her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:56 PM
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not sure what you're getting at. are you expecting the path to gender equality to be a worn path, smoothly paved with potted plants and solar powered LEDs lining the sides? it's inconvenient, uncomfortable, messy, unmapped. i don't wish for mistakes nor do i believe that the ends justify the means but mistakes are gonna be made simply due to the fact that we've never done this before. the best that we could hope for is that we learn from our mistakes and continue to make real progress. should we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:22 PM
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as an asian woman with immigrant parents i've found that women's career and achievements are definitely assets in the dating world. among asians, not the south asian variety, ambition in either gender is valued. this is particularly interesting to this discussion as the root cultures are fairly misogynistic. EDIT: word
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 04:50 PM
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yep. that system was put in to level the playing field for those women who sacrificed their self-determination to support their husbands who left them for their secretaries. it's outdated now that women have a much better mechanism now to build careers and have less societal expectations holding them back from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:19 PM
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why do some men feel they have the sole rights to noble acts and tuck that in under the guise of "masculinity envy"? i never claimed to be a great hero though i did save my bff's car from being carjacked and stopped a pickpocketer on a crowded bus, but i do regularly help old people get around, go to the ends of the earth for my friends, and open doors for all sorts of folks. i do what i can. but according to the likes of you i do these things out of masculinity envy, not because i strive to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 10:32 AM
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well it is a good question. let's review the answers thus far: because people have trauma anyway because rp guys are appreciative (news to me) because rp men act and react differently better than nothing and will impose order great for self-loathing women! because rp men have self-respect (not because they respect the woman) they're good matches for self-loathing women because women can't get a better choice rp men make self-loathing women's pussies tingle rp men will rightly sees women for thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 09:27 AM
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and the sun orbits the earth. it's goal is to not to have women compete with men. that is merely one of the results. holy shit. gender equality is about enabling self-determination without systematic oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:27 AM
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they may fool some of the people some of the time but not all of the people all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:45 AM
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brilliant question. crosses my mind regularly. (am so totally not calling myself brilliant in a roundabout fashion)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:27 AM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 06:13 AM
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the point of making friends with women in a non-sexual manner is it's a good way for you to practice making connections face-to-face. plus your network grows. no one said anything about getting it by not wanting it. the skills you pick up from this activity will also help you in your career and in your life in general. it's good advice. but hey if you think you know better, ignore it and acknowledge that you're actively absolving yourself of the responsibility of leveling up your capability of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 03:02 AM
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make non-sexual friends with women IRL. this is key. you get better at in-person interactions and your network grows. win-win and don't be all weird and ulterior motive-y about them either. we can smell those guys that are constantly lookin to holler from a mile away. it's really tiresome. it's a fast track to a non-connection. there have been TONS of below average guys in the looks and/or heights department that get pussy. tons dude. just look around. just don't look at the internet because it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:28 AM
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check out the emotions on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 06:16 PM
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congrats on the first successful cold approach. was this in person and not through OLD? is your goal casual sex or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 06:03 PM
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yet women in finland still join the military and the police force. why do you ignore that? anyone, including /u/Reisiluu, can call out what she did. her argument is still perfectly valid. you don't need to be a chef to say that food is yucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 05:01 PM
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most things that make you fuckable aren't something you can earn. see it's this lazy approach is what's yall's problem. is this wishful thinking? so you can absolve yourself of responsibility and and spend your energy blaming others instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:39 PM
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You can't 'hunt' but you demand the biggest and best piece of meat, that the Alpha males killed? Then you get jealous, angry, and feel you're entitled to it? why do men, think they're entitled to things, they did not earn? this post in on point whininess intensifies my popcorn is yums edit: put my comment in haiku form
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:25 PM
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you mean to tell me none of you guys like White Chicks asked hubs if he likes any chick flicks and he enthusiastically rattled off Devil Wears Prada The Proposal Princess Diaries Wedding Planner (jlo is his fave) Sweet Home Alabama Princess Bride movies don't seem to threaten his manhood
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:48 PM
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like that's ever stopped men. and internalized misogyny ties it all together rather nicely. consider that 100 years ago most women were not that interested in voting. 50 years ago the main reason women to college was for an MRS degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:50 PM
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there is another piece. not wanting to be in a position to take any perceived blame or fault doesn't equal giving up our agency. i'd turn those entitled men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 07:04 PM
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because of men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:42 PM
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women fight bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:03 PM
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i think this officially sinks OP's men-only battleship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:00 PM
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you're reaching here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:52 PM
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on the larger, world scale it really does feel like our growth line is and should be flatter. we'd be a threat to ourselves if our population kept growing on a steep incline.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:43 AM
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you're totally right. i still feel bad about this particular thing though. it's a pretty strong feeling in me. i acknowledge it's a hangup but it's such a strong and immediate reflex that i make up my mind so hard that my evaluation process takes the HOV lane and completes faster than i'm conscious of it. then mind is hella made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:01 AM
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i'm glad you had those lessons. the messages that i got were opposite. perfect strangers would regularly tell me that how i need to talk to whoever bought me a drink. for at least 10 minutes. even if i was just standing there drinking a drink i bought for myself. even if i haven't even met the guy. even if i would never even want to talk to him on purpose. even if i didn't know which of all these motherfuckers bought it. the above-listed Terms & Conditions are a consolidation of individual conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 06:24 AM
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i've always split and took turns. have been working since 12, well before i started dating at 15/16. have always hated the notion of owing the other person something if they pay for me. i guess hearing my dad hold this over my mom's head had an adverse effect. he even used to force her to vote the way he wanted her to. attaining devotion or respect from any of my interests was never really an issue. despite my insistance on paying my way i still ended up with a generous husband who brings home a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:52 AM
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i have been tested in life and death attack situations and done well. there are also plenty of people with vaginas that have and continue to put themselves in harm's way today for the benefit of others. this is an undisputable fact. did you happen to forget that or are you just bent on being a big fat hater?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:53 AM
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it's internalized misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:56 PM
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learned helplessness. overvaluing beauty. being too trusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:08 AM
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hm let's see here... false really false hella false laughable at best that's quite a narrative you got going on in your head. maybe if you hold your breath longer and stomp your feet harder it might come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:01 AM
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is it difficult for you to believe that i would fight like a rabid wolverine for my son, daughter, husband, parents? even for my community. definitely for our freedom. i've been told i'm pretty good with our ruger bolt action. even for a guy. some women are suited to fight and some men aren't. why does this bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:21 PM
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enthusiastically? according to, what, your imagination? a flimsy and highly unreliable source of this type of information and you're using it to manufacture drama. who is she fucking? you. who is she not fucking? them. this is what should matter to you. but hey if you're bent on being a drama queen because of imaginary scenes in your head that's fueled by pettiness...by all means, expose your flimsy logic and eliminate yourself from contention for high value women. i don't mind. if "enthusiastic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:22 AM
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because men, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:10 AM
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i believe that some do, yes, have actual honest-to-goodness respect. it is a great and valuable thing. and i have also encountered those with all kinds of fake respect along with all kinds of indifference. is it difficult to imagine men having non-fake respect for me or other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:02 AM
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nice clarification, badgers! this comes to mind-- Men: Invents women as pets Women: Wut Men: WHY AREN'T YOU CLAMORING TO SUCK MY DICK YOU UNGRATEFUL HOLE FOR I AM A GREAT INVENTOR AND YOUR BENEVOLENT PROTECTOR
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:43 AM
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modern men FTW!!! i would open doors for men, fight in battle, and pay for their meals ANY FREAKIN DAY if it means my intelligence, integrity, and autonomy as an individual be respected. those things would be but a small price to pay for that benefit. EDIT: i realize now i didn't fully answer the question. modern men are much more secure in their worth and masculinity because it isn't based on something so arbitrary as the squishy bits in between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:58 PM
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kept as pets <> leeched off men my mom couldn't open a checking account in her name and you're saying be grateful that men built civilization? i'd rather have the freedom to succeed or fail than be kept as a pet. some men in this sub seem to think the latter is preferable. they even argue that being kept as a pet equates to having more rights. freakin' delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:20 PM
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i like muscles. a lot. always have. half of my girlfriends think they're alright but don't go after them, and the other half are indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:40 AM
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we do like sex for sex's sake. but you have to know how to set it up. i don't think the type of person who wrote/believes the bullets would even know how to get started. we would have to do a factory reset on your attitude. and whininess. especially the whininess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 12:51 AM
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have you taken the forbidden fruit effect into consideration? where the more you try to suppress an urge the more irresistible it is to indulge in it. it's less taboo now to engage in casual sex so folks are less enticed by the thought of it. perhaps they are able to see it more clearly for what it is instead of being all irrational pokemon about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:16 AM
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heard of it like i've heard of your lack of vanity and pomposity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:01 AM
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the deal breaker for me is if he sucks in bed. i have a high bar for this and i know it's higher than other women in my circle. my men don't need to be breadwinners but i do need them to satisfy me. i require creativity, enthusiasm, and sexual talent. these requirements don't necessarily translate into lasting long, but it is nice to have as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:48 PM
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i've had been physically pressured into sex and refused. my arms literally twisted and restrained. but thank goodness they did not force their way further than that. and i've never felt guilt into giving anyone an orgasm. i will not give head to a guy i haven't fucked. to me, blowjobs are invasive, uncomfortable, servile, and sometimes degrading depending on the dude/encounter. even after a sexual relationship has started, i am hesitant to provide oral sex until i feel sufficiently respected by …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:54 PM
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i don't blame you, seeing that you're a city council member in the Land of Make Believe. tell King Friday i said wassup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:48 PM
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you're conflating having a healthy relationship with being a dancing clown. mkay man was i wrong in thinking you were worth engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:16 AM
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your villainous ignorance is truly an inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:45 AM
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that's great to hear. if we were to talk outside of your marriage but within the topic at hand, do you see any validity to my earlier points?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:49 PM
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thanks for this! your notion is exemplified in movies, tv, books--anywhere we encounter men writing women, which is pretty much anything since writing or entertainment was invented. this is why movies from the 80s haven't aged well, Bechdel test be damned. thank you for demonstrating that men see themselves as the center of the universe. women only live in your Man-World, decorative and secretarial, breasting boobily down the boulevard. so difficult for some to fathom that we have complex lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:31 PM
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wut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:22 PM
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you wanting intimacy from sex could be putting the cart before the horse. does your wife: -feel happiness with you -get loving support from you -get shown your respect consistently -feel that you are thoughtful to her needs -experience nonsexual intimacy and closeness with you yes i know it's a two-way street where you should also be experiencing those things from her. i am pointing out that maybe she needs to have nonsexual intimacy and closeness first in order to be a willing and enthusiastic …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:17 PM
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i'm having a hard time with this post because it paints an incomplete picture. the context had been stripped to the point where it feels disingenuous. victim blaming has long been a fantastically effective, time-honored tradition to bring crushing scrutiny down onto sexual assault victims and AWAY from the perpetrators. it has been instrumental in keeping the creepers in business. and much of the people that have been in power are, in fact, creepers themselves so they have a vested interest in k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:52 PM
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nope, try again. people can change their mind at any point. even while in the middle of sex. what if: - she started coming down with a tummy ache? - her sibling texted that her dog died? - she just realized that this is boring and would rather be at home? and leaving a club or bar with someone does not equate to a contractual agreement to fuck. it's one step toward that destination and that's it. there are a multitude of situations that can derail things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 02:57 PM
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i have. lots. it didn't matter when i was young and poor. in college i inadvertently dated some guys who's families had money and eventually discovered i found that off-putting because they thought that they were better than everybody else. for me it was important to date within my age range and socioeconomic class for maximum relatability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 09:14 PM
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i'll believe that women are less attractive when they have a hard time attracting men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:18 PM
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I HATE THAT THOSE FUCKERS ARE NOT ABLE TO ACQUIRE THE GLOWY VIRGINS THEY SO JUSTLY DESERVE AND BY FUCKERS I MEAN THOSE THAT DON'T ACTUALLY FUCK FUCK THOSE DUMB MOTHERFUCKERS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:44 AM
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i was sure i wasn't going jump in during this "Purge Week". just the notion of certain behavior unchecked was unpalatable enough for me to physically recoil. but here i am. and to you, sir, i say: BWUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:09 AM
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he said: "They never ever ever ever ever want the truth or full disclosure. Women live in the lies. They wear makeup since 13!" i proved that men also live in the lies. nowhere did i compare him to a pedophile. what a dumb takeaway. you know, on second thought i was wrong in saying the subsequent reply was weak. what i meant to say is hella weak. and now y'all = WEAK x 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:39 AM
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i think a better question to ask is who is doing the repression and why? but to answer your question, i think the general notion of extremes are bad or unproductive applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:32 PM
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weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:45 PM
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you can fool some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:24 PM
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some women do but so do some men. would you deny that? the last i checked, men love the way makeup looks. feeds a fantasy, right? and all those men that got caught on To Catch a Predator said that they were just pretending to fulfill a fantasy and didn't mean any harm. fuck outta here with that feeble notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:11 PM
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be careful with that. molly prevents orgasms like nyquil prevents awakedness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:01 PM
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ah ok bad read on my part. forgive me. re porn, just giving ideas. didn't realize you've had some success in the bedroom! but you gotta give the next squirrels some nuts, yo. you'll get called back, especially since you sound like a decent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:25 AM
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hm. have you considered marijuana? that can do the trick to bypass whiskey dick. i would, however, recommend that you be already accustomed to being happy while stoned before folding this into your repertoire. ok my turn to be honest. i would be disappointed if the man i was with focused on getting me off with his hand only. cock/hand and mouth/hand are the way to go. and be sensual for goodness sake! maybe visit r/chickflixxx to see what women like to post there. some posts seem to be from dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:34 AM
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are you able to objectively rate your skills in bed? out of 10 encounters, how many result in your partner orgasming? these are the critical questions to be honest about because women are fucking you which is a fabulous segway into the subsequent categories. you know what would be kinda neat.... take a partner (either new or from the casual past) and ask her to teach you how to please her. it's a win-win for you because you get sex and level up your skills which will help further your goals. hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:35 AM
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is your goal to be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:34 AM
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their lack self awareness and disrespect comes out in their language and actions. i'm fine being acquaintances but dating is a hard pass for me. although i agree that some of RP tactics might work for short term gain, i find the school of thought ignoble and ugly. but hey i know that men/women who are bent for short term gain are gonna do what they gotta do. hope they find what they're looking for. i keep men/women with ignoble, ugly outlooks beyond the radius of my 10 foot pole. hell yeah i'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:17 PM
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also: would you take on those risks for the big chance that the you're not even gonna orgasm? the idea of fucking without busting a nut is offensive to me. who fucks without cumming? it's like great thanks buddy now i'm so much worse off than i was an hour ago with no good solution. not to mention the fact that now i'm HIGHLY irritated which makes attaining said nut almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:48 PM
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intelligence on its own is overrated. it's what you do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:13 AM
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that's kinda an extreme example but let's run with it. if one spouse were to bring in 7 figures annually isn't it perfectly reasonable that the other wouldn't need gainful employment outside of the house? the practicality that their time is worth more per hour than whatever mcdonald's can pay them is the reality. with such a large salary they could afford cleaning people, a nanny, and frequent restaurant meals, a bookkeeper even. highly doubtful that a 7 figure spouse married to a mcdonald's emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 02:28 AM
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what if she makes the same or more money? or her work was very impactful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:05 AM
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these guys responding to you are definitely better off not talking to anyone, really, with their rotten attitudes. they already know everything so what is there to talk about? they want sex flesh to poke with their peepees, not a partner/wife who is an actual human being with thoughts, hopes, fears, needs for sincere connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:09 AM
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early bloomer here. started at 9, increased to frequent groping at 10, would stop temporarily when visibly pregnant. changed when i figured out how to walk and look like i don't take any shit, but that's still not a guarantee. i still get caught off guard when i'm in a happy mood or forget to put on my don't-fuck-with-me mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:16 AM
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isn't it reasonable to put work into something that's important and worthwhile? and not just the work insincere people feel like doing for show but the real and difficult kind that will produce the desired results? golly, you know maybe i shouldn't be too harsh. i guess i would be mad too if i was banking on being gifted a sexual servant and then the sexual servant store told me they're fresh out of those when i get to the front of the line and when i say wtf they say sorry dude you're SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:11 AM
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oh and don't forget you can't give him too much devotion because that's boring driving him to cheat and you can't bring home too much money because that will also drive him to cheat. and they call women fickle. what a hoot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:10 PM
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shit being taken seriously at the office by default AND being guaranteed orgasms during sex sounds freakin great. plus, getting head looks like so much more fun if you're a dude. but i enjoy being a woman anyway and striving for those things in spite of it gives me something interesting to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:02 AM
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