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It’s easy to escalate through text when a girl is sending you nudes
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:11 PM
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Literally the only good response in this entire thread. Listen to this guy OP
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:10 PM
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Yeah wtf is this thread, never seen such collectively poor advice in trp
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:10 PM
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Haha there’s no boundary discussion to be had because 99% of people who respect their partner know that this is a standard boundary. “Don’t hang out 1 on 1 with other guys” is common sense, the fact that you need to have a boundary discussion about this is pathetic. Best case scenario she didn’t cheat but clearly doesn’t respect your relationship.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:24 PM
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I get it I really do but think about the mental anguish you've just put yourself through for no reason. She ended up texting you no problem and in the 5 hours you sat there so struck with anxiety that you made a post here. Here's the thing, if she's gonna cheat on you she will and there is nothing you can do about it. You can't possibly worry about things you don't know are happening cause you'll drive yourself crazy and push her away with your insecurity. You should be more worried about yourse…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:57 AM
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lol christ dude its been 4 hours, chill. She's busy at a work conference/out with a friend, you shouldn't have texted her. You need to be more indifferent
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:23 AM
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Valid points I do agree with you minus the oneitis, if it works out that she becomes a plate great if not that’s okay too cause I have other plates here I’m trying to play the plate game with her not the pump and dump game. If the only way is pumping and dumping these types of girls then that’s all I need to know but if there’s a way to handle these types of girls that I’m unaware of for plate game that’s what I’m curious about cause I’m I feel like I’m failing at it
/r/askTRP15/08/18 05:25 AM
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Globalization, mass immigration, one sided justice system, loss of traditional values, feminism, endless validation through social media and technological advancements, and most importantly the war against the nuclear family
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:48 PM
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you're overthinking, it's not even that bad of a joke. just leave it and see what happens. don't message her again though unless she responds
/r/askTRP21/09/17 10:03 PM
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lol you are nowhere near fucking her, good response though. make sure you don't apologize and let her be mad about it, continue to not watch her stories and approach other women, this girl has you as an orbiter
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:41 PM
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you're already considering this girl for an LTR after one date and cause you assume she's only been with 5-6 guys?? oh boy this girl rejected your advances and gave you a pretty shit response to your text that you shouldn't have sent. your next move is to wait for her to contact you, you've pretty much put the ball entirely in her court. if you text her again after saying "hit me up when you're back" you look super desperate. if she hits you up then great but tone back the attention seeking beha…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:08 PM
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First of all LTR'ing a girl that you've only known for a few months is mistake number one. I have no idea why guys are giving away their most valuable resource (commitment) the second they meet some girl that is interested. If you would've waited a bit this issue would've come up and then you could've made a more informed decision about LTR'ing her. Anyways it's a typical low level slammie thing to say, she's trying to make you jealous. Dread game is the best way to deal with situations like thi…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:22 PM
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Since she nexted me earlier I was hesitant to be aggressive towards her b/c I didnt want to seem eager. Yes normally this is right but this changes once she opens you with the "married yet" text, she's opening to you and you want to make sure she's not going to use you for validation by being direct, I would've said "the wife won't notice if you're over" if she deflects no response, if she reacts positively you go from there and get her over. Nuclear option is hitting up Jane for a booty call, h…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 05:46 PM
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Good thats the response I wanted to see. It would just be awesome to handle this in such a way I can fuck the friend AND turn the tables AND get another turn with her. Okay now this is a tough one to pull off, you're talking about an unlikely situation here, at least in a short amount of time. The reason I say that is hooking up with girls who are friends with each other is definitely possible but in my experience its been over a longer period of time and rarely at the same time. Is the Jane the…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 02:46 AM
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Seems to me you seem set on Jane, careful of oneitis with her. Facts are Jane ditched you for some other guy, Jane got ditched by other guy and fell back on her safe option which is you, she tries to draw you in by pulling the booty call but goes back on it once she knows you'll still fuck her. She gets her validation and keeps it open for future validation. You may still be able to fuck her again but keep these things in mind, if it was me I wouldn't give a fuck about Jane and would for sure me…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 11:06 PM
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Are you making payments to these debtors regularly? If so, whats the interest rates? What do you mean by spending it on self improvement? what things would you buy to do this? What is your bachelors degree in? I would disagree with the failure talk, while its good to be realistic about your situation so you can take action you shouldn't giving yourself that level negative self talk. Failure = irredeemable which is not even close to the case if you're in you're 20's with a bachelors degree. Don't…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:52 PM
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yeah except you need to hear it because you're pedestaling women and making it your top priority when it shouldn't be. Women are a compliment to your life not the purpose of your life. if pussy and girls are your main source of fun and all that you crave in life then expect to have a shitty time
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:59 PM
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what are you expecting to find a wife off of tinder? come on man, dating services like that are for plates, 95% of the girls on there are trash like you said. You shouldn't be expecting more. Also you're expecting quality when you go on dates with at the wall 29 year old single mothers? wtf OP obviously she's trash... You either need to be more selective with who you're going with on dates or you need to get over your fear of gaming women in person, there is literally zero risk I don't know what…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:20 PM
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eh I wouldn't say that you and her texting back and forth a few times after the date didn't kill anything that wasn't already killed, especially if you were talking about setting up another hangout during this time. Overthinking that one a bit man
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:06 AM
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LOL wtf are you doing LTR'ing a post wall carousel riding whore? dump this girl you're only 25 jesus
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:51 PM
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take a break from girls for a bit and get your shit together cut out porn entirely, this is the main culprit especially if you've used it excessively cut down on weed consumption do what you need to sort out your anxiety and depression learn some stress management skills hit the gym if you don't already do so there is one other option but based on what you've written your life isn't in order and I cannot suggest it to you until you've completed these steps first
/r/askTRP05/07/17 09:44 PM
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the grandma thing was most likely an excuse if she dropped off like that afterwards, I wouldn't say thats specifically the spot where you went wrong. it was probably more along the lines of her being attracted to you initially [making out etc.] then her losing attraction as the date progressed to the point of her deciding that she didn't want to fuck you at the end and that she would pursue someone else instead. like others have said in this case the only course of action is to move on, work on …
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:48 PM
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bad move, careful you're getting oneitis. I would say 99% of the time it is up to the girl to bring up the exclusive question. If its working great right now why would you want to risk it by prematurely asking for exclusivity? especially if she hasn't given you any indication that she wants it
/r/askTRP26/06/17 09:39 PM
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doesn't sound like she's that interested, girls will make time for you if they want to soft next man
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:26 PM
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This is correct. However I'd be very cautious of FWB'ing girls that you would never consider for an LTR which it seems like the situation that OP is in. You'll be spending more time with her [going out for dinner, daytrip] which over time means its more likely that either you or her will catch feelings and get hurt since FWBs technically have no rules. That is unless you have a very strong mental state or abundance and can handle it, either way you're still playing with fire and are one step clo…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:58 PM
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ah I'd honestly say texting the "wear yoga pants for me ;)" after sending that first message is more cringe, the first message was stupid to say in this situation but then sending that after her uninterested response buried you, made you look extra needy. if she does come back realize that she's a flake and that it doesn't matter if she flakes or not cause you have important things to do either way, lots of girls flake don't take it personally, if she bails you say "no worries", if she doesn't y…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:45 AM
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Do not assume, remember AWALT, it doesn't matter if she's less attractive, younger, or the situation she's in. Yes you do, this is your first experience so its understandable but do not delude yourself with this girl. That is debatable and depends on what you're looking for. What is easy to distinguish though is extremely obvious red flags and this girl gave you the biggest one of them all in terms of what you seem to be looking for which is an LTR. She would probably be a nice plate but since y…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:37 PM
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but I don't think fucking on the first day is an automatic slut card oooo boy I don't think I was this naive even when I was full on BP... How you should be thinking is "hmm this girl fucked me after just meeting her a few hours ago, 99% chance if she's done that with me she has and will do that with other guys, the 1% chance that she won't is unlikely since she hasn't shown any actionable signs that would suggest otherwise [telling you that you're amazing, good connection, etc. means nothing, l…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 09:42 PM
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This is an excellent post, thank you for laying some of this out for me, makes me realize how much I still have to learn and to stick with the hard next. Any suggestions to be better prepared for situations like this in the future so I'm not noob level or how I could've handled the situation better?
/r/askTRP09/05/17 11:18 PM
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Not really, I did hook up with a girl at some shows early on this time around but nothing like seeing anyone else consistently at the same time or for an extended period of time. And yes I somewhat agree but the person who responded below you is right, I would never LTR this girl, she is strictly a fwb based off the red flags I've seen over the 4 years I've known her but I think you're right in that I didn't want to admit to myself that I was getting too invested. She asked me to be in a relatio…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:57 PM
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Yeah this is kinda what I've realized based off my reaction to the situation as well, definitely my fuck up which is why I have so far hard nexted, haven't brought up anything, and have just said I'm busy when I do respond to her bombardment of messages. Beta tendencies were making it hard to resist saying anything but seeing the responses in here have brought me back in line. Appreciate the advice!
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:50 PM
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Not much to argue, I'm not insecure about myself nor do I feel like I am inadequate therefore I disagree with your generalization about everyone here, not that hard to figure out
/r/seduction27/02/15 09:17 PM
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"A lot of you guys are in the PUA scene for the same reason. You are insecure and have feelings of inadequacy." 100% disagree with this statement
/r/seduction26/02/15 10:25 AM
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Agree with this, I got my job out of school just from making connections, didn't even have to interview. Build relationships with lots of people and you'll get offers sent to you
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:44 AM
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haha not racist at all I can understand that one, makes a bit more sense now but you should still be able to tell. And getting the number is super easy man, especially if you've already been making out with her. Its probably even easier in a loud club, you pull out your phone open contacts and give it to her, she'll know what to do unless she's retarded. You don't need an elaborate line, I usually just say "you should put your number in my phone." And if it was your tinder girl you could've blam…
/r/askTRP
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jesus you must have been slammie drunk if you couldn't recognize a girl that is an inch from your face making out with you... anyways your biggest mistake here was not asking for contact information from whoever "S" was on the dance floor, regardless if she wasn't in for a F close that night she made out with you for most of it and if you got her number you could've set a date up for later without her friends being involved which seemed to be the biggest roadblock this time around. Worst case is…
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