VibrantCanopy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Wife moved out a month ago and now is trying to get a no contact order on me so I have no where to live. Thanks 🙏	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 08:03 PM
1	Wife moved out a month ago and now is trying to get a no contact order on me so I have no where to live. What kind of debt? Real estate? Burritos?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 01:40 AM
1	How to survive silver bullet divorce I don't mean to be vindictive, I mean to head off any of these kinds of false allegations. If she says it too, it just looks like retaliation.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 05:53 PM
7	How to survive silver bullet divorce If there's no requirement for evidence and no consequence for lying, then should men just preemptively do this to women? Would that work?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 06:17 AM
3	Three years after divorce - alternative point Wiring? Do you mean wifing?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 05:29 PM
2	Seeking advice from divorced men Great list. Sadly, due to the cultural "enrichment" of feminism, people used to be on the same page about most of these things, and you didn't have to fill out a 100-item questionnaire with a potential spouse. Now, it's a minefield, and getting married is like playing Russian roulette.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/26 12:07 AM
1	Seeking advice from divorced men Also prenatal and postnatal depression can be major sources of marital dysfunction. You can get married without involving the government. Just get religiously married in a place that doesn't have common law marriage or palimony.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 11:39 PM
10	Why do men seem to always try and heal and be on there own and woman just instantly jump into dating or monkey branching? Men survive on the landscape of nature. Women survive on the landscape of men.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 08:51 PM
3	A discussion about the culpability and accountability of men for the family court system This may sound like a good thing, but it's not! Anywhere between 90-95% of divorces are settled before trial, and the vast majority of those settlements are bad deals signed by men endorsed by their attorneys. The truth is that men are far more likely to throw their cases away than women are. Can you give examples of bad deals that lawyers recommend? It's a well known axiom in the divorce system that men are much more likely to blindly follow the advice of their attorney than women are. Men are …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/26 06:34 AM
–	Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gap Upvoted just for 'effort gap'. Love it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 06:37 PM
2	Unconscionable? - Ex and mediator put forth the idea that she is entitled to 102% of the marital estate. Why does that work? Aren’t the tricks used by the other side to delay and draw out the process allowed to prevent even the appearance of unfairness?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/26 04:10 AM
3	Something I read from Schopenhauer’s “On Women” essay that has me questioning my entire life. Not all women, but enough, unfortunately.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/26 12:05 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Sure, ignore the actual point, if that makes you feel better. The OP is about assholes and players, and the women who choose them. Just don't do that. It's that simple. Men who lead with their wallets get played by gold diggers and fakers, and they are just as responsible for being taken advantage of. Just. Don't. Do. That.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 04:31 PM
–	Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomes Aren't women responsible for their own actions? It doesn't matter if there are people willing to take advantage. That's always the case. You might as well blame the universe for being rained on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 04:17 PM
5	Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others? Unfair rights and unfair autonomy are (part of) the root cause of the problem. Sorry, in my experience, writing much about this on Reddit is a waste of breath, but if you're interested and engaged, I can go into more detail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:23 AM
1	Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others? “Is there a way to solve the problem without solving the root cause of the problem?” When something was working before and then stopped working, you look at what changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 08:58 PM
1	Alimony in family court Civil marriage, you mean. Religious marriage is just fine outside of common law marriage jurisdictions. We need to stop thinking of civil marriage as THE marriage. Civil marriage is a government-established religion.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/26 08:31 AM
1	Pro tip for distribution of assets. Do not let your lawyer and the judge screw you. Learn from my mistake. No, I'm just pointing out that it isn't bad for men in every case. I do think it should be split by percentage, since the division probably can't be done immediately after the judicial order.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/26 12:22 AM
0	Pro tip for distribution of assets. Do not let your lawyer and the judge screw you. Learn from my mistake. It could go either way, depending on how the market is doing. If the shares had gone up in value, it would've been a good outcome for you and not your wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 05:23 AM
2	What kind of woman calls your own mother a piece of shit. "Lady" used to mean something.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 11:40 PM
4	Anyone else getting bitter towards the idea of marriage? Christian marriage has been outlawed by no-fault divorce and domestic violence laws. You literally cannot have a Christian family anymore, it's forbidden. It's not even opt-in. All you can do is keep the government out of your marriage as much as possible. Get married in a church, but it stops there, no civil marriage, no common law marriage, no communal property, no palimony, no alimony, no spousal support, no shared finances, yes enforceable prenup, yes cohabitation agreement. Sadly, "child" "…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 06:54 AM
2	If hypergamy is real why do you think that listening to men is useful? Because the advice is given by the apex males. Men don’t sabotage other men the way women do to other women. “Cockblock” is a term for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 08:32 PM
1	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 03:28 PM
1	What was the Craziest Moment In your Divorce Story? What I meant is that your attorney is supposed to do whatever you want as long as it doesn't violate their professional ethics (lying to the judge, betraying their client, etc.) It's not their job to judge for themselves the merits of the case; that's what judges and juries do. It's their job to take their marching orders from you and make it happen. That's why he sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 10:01 PM
1	What was the Craziest Moment In your Divorce Story? "It all went downhill from there" What did you do, since your cover was blown?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 08:44 AM
2	What was the Craziest Moment In your Divorce Story? Wow, your attorney sucks	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 08:43 AM
–	The UN’s Gender Inequality Index was designed to discriminate against men Ah, yes, questioning the motives of the person making an argument, an ad hominem attack: the last refuge of someone who doesn't have a good argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 07:42 PM
–	Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised. Agreed. Most men are still blue-pilled anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:58 AM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from Feminists not understanding how to compare apples with apples? Shocker. Just look into the wage gap myth. You'll never trust feminist statistics and analyses again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 07:46 AM
14	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there Sour grapes Traditional women are in short supply in the west	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 10:49 PM
1	Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own Fault It depends on the species. That's generally not true for humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 06:18 AM
-1	Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to. As long as we live in a society where hetero sex is seen as devaluing to women, and a status boost to males, women have no choice but to be picky. That isn't society, it's biology. Men and women have unique reproductive value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 06:12 AM
–	Love and sex is not a right I agree with you in principle, but plenty of things that shouldn't be rights are rights. Frankly, this is low on the totem pole of things I care about; women already have so many privileges and advantages compared to men. Try first fixing the right of freedom of association, guaranteed in the first amendment (US). By the way, what do you think will happen when most young men can't start and keep families? Things are trending that way, and it's becoming more and more obvious that it's happening. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 01:39 AM
3	Regret You let her think she was right for you. You were lazy and didn’t try to find a better fit for you. Now everything has fallen apart, and it was completely preventable.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/25 02:05 AM
3	Regret Did you stop lying and taking shortcuts? You treated her badly, but you treated yourself even worse.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/25 12:41 AM
3	How do I get the courage to leave her Have her convince you by establishing boundaries, telling her about them, talking to her when she violates them, then when she does it X times, tell her it’s a dealbreaker, and if she doesn’t turn things around, you’ll have to move out. Demote her over time. If she keeps violating your boundaries, move out and demote her (don’t describe it in those terms) to a girlfriend. Then demote her to serious dating. Then casual dating. Then hook up. Then nothing. Don’t announce the demotion, just change y…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/25 06:14 PM
1	Divorce Law Reform There wouldn't be legally-enforced divorce. Divorce, if there were any at all, would follow the contract agreed to by both parties, as was done in the past. If a marriage was religious, then people customarily followed the practices and dictates of their religion or risked being ostracized. This is why divorce was so rare throughout history. Marriage was never about love, it was about finances, safety, and reproduction. Making marriage about love today is why it's failing. Briffault’s law states…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/25 01:20 AM
1	Divorce Law Reform In my opinion, civil marriage is government-established religion, and should therefore be abolished for the reasons that such a thing is obviously bad. Christians and conservatives got greedy when they created civil marriage. They assumed the society would always be Christian, and that the definition of “Christian” wouldn’t change. Instead, the society shifted, and the institution of marriage was subverted through normal means of government change. It’s a classic case of the Tower of Babel: you …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/25 08:27 PM
4	Social Media to Men: Abusive Wives are HILARIOUS!!! Physical abuse from women was normalized back then too. How many times have you seen depictions of women slapping men or throwing drinks in the faces of men. And emotional abuse from women has always been normalized. According to the CDC, women are more physically abusive than men. Most physical abuse from men just corrected bad behavior, physical or emotional. Now the state has inserted itself into policing marital behavior, except it’s not enforced equally for men and women, which effectively …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/25 09:47 PM
3	How do you get over the unfairness of a 50/50 financial split when you spent your entire marriage supporting her medical career? My point was to minimize the risk of her wanting to divorce in the first place. Obviously don’t do civil marriage either, just religious marriage. Then there is no risk of alimony or community property.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/25 09:31 PM
8	How do you get over the unfairness of a 50/50 financial split when you spent your entire marriage supporting her medical career? Lesson learned: Don’t ever invest in them financially.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/25 07:42 PM
6	Those of you who had wives who “changed” after marriage or children. Your situation isn't typical.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/25 04:34 AM