VicPinto_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Learning how a conversation works could help you in your interactions		VicPinto_	/r/seduction	21/05/16 02:38 AM
0	How introspection can help improve your interactions		VicPinto_	/r/seduction	23/05/16 07:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Disagreeing with woman Whenever i'm meeting new people, I always state my thoughts and opinions from my standpoint. I think they're crazy because they remind me of... etc. It's hard to disagree with someone when they present opinions in that way. I'd recommend trying that. If she continues iterating that she likes the candidate and/or disagreeing with you (which I doubt because that becomes awkward for both people in the conversation), then I recommend you add humor to it to lessen the seriousness of the topic. I do t…	/r/seduction	04/05/16 03:02 PM
1	What do you find attractive in a girl? When a girl has a fun personality/attitude; meaning that they don't take the interaction so seriously. They tell their own jokes, are accepting of your jokes, laugh frequently, and are an equal contributor to the fun.	/r/seduction	28/03/16 04:05 PM
2	Need wingmen in Miami? This might help you find someone	/r/seduction	08/02/16 06:22 PM
13	Stop Being Boring: The "F#ck It" Philosophy (x-post from r/HowToNotGiveAFuck) I love this article so much, that it made me question my writing abilities; even tempted me to stop. But that's boring. Fuck it, i'm gonna keep writing. Types away on a old school typewriter. Laughs maniacally	/r/seduction	03/02/16 03:00 PM
8	[FR]0 to 100... back to 0. Biggest learning experience I've had so far. I agree with you about improving your ability to stand your ground when threatened. It is not only an attractive trait, but a useful life skill. But how are you so sure that she decided to distance herself from you because of that incident?? Because she was weird after? what if you were being weird because you were in your head? Just seems like such a fickle thing to be soo turned off about. Maybe it's just me. I think you should/should've asked her why. There's nothing wrong with asking as long…	/r/seduction	01/02/16 11:40 PM
1	How do you feel about girls who "only like black guys" or a specific race? One time I was talking to someone and she told me "I only like white guys." (I'm Hispanic). But I didn't take it personally because I don't think she was truly trying to reject me. I reacted by saying, "Yeah, I'm like that too! My type is very specific. I like pale straight black hair eastern European looking girls." (This is not what she looked like). And we just keep talking. I simply used it as an opportunity to keep talking about each other. The reality is that we all have types. You have on…	/r/seduction	01/02/16 07:18 PM
5	[FR]Power of Insta-Dates Yes! meeting someone outside of a social environment like a bar or club is powerful. They didn't expect to meet you today so your impression is stronger. Going somewhere with them works because your dynamic changes from 2 strangers in a place to 2 people arriving somewhere, together. It does wonders for helping them feel more comfortable around you. Good call on her maybe feeling worried about you being a part of a social experiment. Keep it up. You've got momentum now! I hope you get a second i…	/r/seduction	01/02/16 07:07 PM
22	Older guys of seddit that have a success with social life and women, how did you do it? Idk if I qualify as an older dude. I'm 27. But I'm out of college and feel like I have success with my social life and women. My answer: It took a lot of work. I practiced constantly. I pushed myself and embarrassed myself way too many times. But after a awkward stage, I overcame it and it didn't just became easier, it became fun. Meeting new people is a passion. I love the people in my life and use my relationships as a source of self-esteem and happiness. Look into what your problem areas are …	/r/seduction	30/01/16 08:12 PM
3	she annoys me but hot as hell.. You create a kind of a shortcut. You skip tackling the ego, by enforcing it. You create a way of understanding that still let's you think or feel that you're better than a shallow person, but doesn't interfere in the conversation with alarming you that this person is not worth your time. I never thought of it like that but you're absolutely right about that. Mind blown! (seriously) to understand that the shallow conversation is just something that has to be endured in order to achieve his goal. …	/r/seduction	30/01/16 07:45 PM
2	What's sexier to you in a woman? I think that it's a mixture of both. Men expect to take the masculine role and be the initiator of things. But I think that this is worth it once a mutual attraction has been communicated. A coquette that has me chasing for her attention is frustrating and a turn-off but a coquette who is confident enough to express her attraction and desires towards me openly will have me happily jumping through hoops.	/r/seduction	30/01/16 06:54 PM
27	she annoys me but hot as hell.. I respectfully disagree with you sir. I encounter people that say stupid things all the time. But I don't let that interfere with how I feel about them. 2 Reasons: When I go out and talk to people (anyone), I convince myself that EVERYONE has something amazing to offer. Once I get this frame going, it's easy to ignore stupid comments bc I usually see other more positive traits in them. And the other reason is empathy. I know I say a million absolutely retarded things every night. But I still get…	/r/seduction	30/01/16 04:52 PM
3	Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respond A girl will keep you around if you continue to provide what she wants. In this case it looks like you're giving her attention and a feeling of being desired, without her having to do much. She seems inconsiderate and I don't see anything good coming out of it. Take the loss and walk away. There's plenty of over great girls out there that would be much more engaged and only so little time.	/r/seduction	30/01/16 04:41 PM