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| 0 | As a woman your best bet for finding a pleasant male partner is making sure he was your friend firstAh, gotcha. "Motivated" is easy to asses. "Emotionally intelligent" takes a bit longer, so I understand now why you wait so long. However, I don't think you could truly rule out being a degenerate no matter how much time passes. There are things that some men can keep a secret from everyone indefinitely, and porn is one of them. Even if you had full access to their phone and PC, they are still free to do whatever when you're not around. You'd have to check both the router history and his mobile … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 02:16 AM |
| 11 | As a woman your best bet for finding a pleasant male partner is making sure he was your friend firstit’s clear men don’t want to put in any effort into collectively becoming any better I'm curious. Lets say you snap your finger and most men who were crap are now "better." What about them changes, in your view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:00 AM |
| 4 | There is no place for men to meet womenit's extremely unlikely you'll be labelled as the "Creep" as long as you are respectful and don't act inappropriately. I disagree. While you probably won't be called a creep outright, it changes the friend dynamic for the worse and usually creates a schism between you (and anyone loyal to you) and everyone else. I have personally lost two good friend groups this way. The first one broke apart completely as a direct result of my actions, the second one just stopped inviting me out places. These w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?I've been dating my bf for 6 months and I still have no idea what his salary is probably not the best example imo. If you have a general idea, like he can afford dates, then you wouldn't need to know the exact number. If you truly have no idea and its possible he might be homeless, that is a red flag. I think its healthier to get base compatibility stuff out of the way early, but that's more personal preference. I love to ask him about his day and projects. Love to listen, give space, etc. Lets … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:37 AM |
| 4 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.OP should put in more effort than finding one video of a trashy lady as proof of a trend lol. For all we know, she gets divorced at 35 and dies alone after not finding anyone who will put up with her for another 60 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:27 PM |
| 26 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.This is exactly what I was gonna say. To add: you have another girl IN THE VIDEO POSTED denouncing said behavior, so its 1-1 and not 1-0. The original one got shared and dueted (or whatever tiktok lingo) a bunch because it is ragebait, not rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...Hmm, so you altered your argument slightly from responsibility resting on an individual basis to men as a whole, or you hold both views. I see your point, but don't you think it swings both ways? If you and many people think men have issues, that perpetuates a stigma against men. If most people are predisposed to thinking men suck at interpersonal relationships, they won't bother kindling them with men. You also get stuff like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceI think most people can interpret someone expressing negative attributes towards you as not being interested, therefore implying they don't find you attractive. Its a white lie, the world is full of em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person“average men are doing just fine, incel!” very negative shift in the dating experience for young men Are you sure you're not just on different frequencies or something? Both things can be true; the average guy doesn't struggle, and there is a negative shift in an extremely narrow age range, 18-25, that appears to go away with age. This correlates to the covid years, where many of that specific generation missed out on partying and meeting up. 18-24 year olds are 12% of the US. Despite already be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?they're expecting only humans during a small window of time will see their photos Then don't make a permanent record, a photograph, and post it online? Whats wrong with doing this kind of thing irl with consenting friends instead? Why does it have to be on the public internet with your face visible? If I made a 9/11 joke in middle school, everyone has likely forgotten it by now. If I instead posted a huge manifesto about how I want to blow up some building and then deleted it a few days later, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:47 AM |
| – | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allwanting You said it right there. They want to. I assume you'd like some context as to why? They find the one they want to be with long-term after dating in their 20's. Someone they keep coming back to, someone they went steady with. They save up enough money from working to get their own place and stop renting or living with mom and dad. They then look for someone who is compatible to live with and not just see on weekends. They have met many types of people and now know what they want in a part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:53 PM |
| 13 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.In other words most women don’t really care if future women get to experience these values. I disagree, based on the worldwide protests when the right for abortion was challenged in the US. catastrophic collapse in birthrates There are a lot more factors than just women choosing to not have kids. Do you really think birthrates can just keep going up forever? But this response also engenders ceding cultural dominance to conservative groups who by progressive liberal standards are anti-women. Bro … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 09:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadis just extremely picky about weight and want the skinniest woman possible I refuse to date someone significantly fatter than me. Fitness is important to me, and I am right in the middle of a healthy BMI, not that BMI is the be-all and end-all. I am not attracted to people who are significantly fat. The lady you posted is significantly fat. I think you are trying to justify your own attraction to "thicc" ladies, or your own size (?) or something else that would make you get this defensive. I'm t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:06 AM |
| 20 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?Yes, almost identical. Society hates virgin men, I agree! Society hates when men go after virgins! Its fine to be a virgin and prefer virgins, but it will be harder to find one as you get older That is the crux of it every time. A lot of the overlap between the two pills, or points that one side doesn't really want to argue, get megaphone-blasted here without any resistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:56 AM |
| 12 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?We exist together in the same society that made a movie called "The 30 Year Old Virgin" and many similar works of media. I think the sentiment is clear. Society also hates single moms and certain races as a whole, and a bunch of other things, but they are in a weird state of denial over hating virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:47 AM |
| 8 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?Isn't this sub also a hive mind, at times? The n-count discussion has come up every 1-2 weeks for the past decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:41 AM |
| 10 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveThis is a space where a lot of ideologies get dismantled and opinions change. You're not going to change anyone's minds by calling them names and immediately stomping on them when they provide their own opinion, however warped it may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveYeah pretty much the sub /r/pussypassdenied proves the "virtually no women" claim wrong. Tons of women get knocked down several pegs. It doesn't happen as often as men, but it is still common. Side note, I think of that sub when people say "PPD" even though I don't go there often. Its stuck in my brain as the official term for that acronym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:27 AM |
| 9 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveThe concept of a woman pining for an abuser shatters the already bruised ego of a man who struggles with dating. Doing everything "right" with no success while some women keep coming back to a guy who is doing everything "wrong" is upsetting. This is why you see people here lashing out. Please don't call people losers for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:23 AM |
| 5 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveDo you think the reason women are not the abusers is because men always make great choices on who to get with? Or is it because the typical man is stronger, taller, and is at least one weight class higher than the typical woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessIf you think the housing crisis exists because of inflation and zoning, you are in for a rude awakening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:25 AM |
| 20 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessthe youngest generation is garbage, This is hardly an original idea. I am sure that your generation was hated at one point for the same reasons you hate gen Z. The school issue is another entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship?I think someone who is living that kind of life would never bother posting about it on reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:35 AM |
| 5 | How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship?After reading most of that War and Peace comment above, I am too invested in this and want to know if he is totally delusional or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:08 AM |
| – | Why is almost everything that criticizes transgenderism censored?Yeah its like 1% of the population? Who here has been personally affected by anything relating to trans people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentNobody owes anyone sex, and nobody owes anyone a continued relationship. Keeping a dead bedroom situation "alive" (undead?) is a symptom of bigger issues - poor communication, lack of confidence and being unable to compromise (or end it). Like a few other people have said - the moment one person is profoundly unhappy in ways that are significantly harder to fix than finding someone new, the relationship is "totaled." Prolonging it is like driving a car with no windshield, missing a wheel, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | At what point is 'improve yourself' no longer good advice?If I were a woman, I'd date him, so no. The person I replied to seems to view this as a more universal thing. They'd probably take that position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:36 PM |
| 5 | At what point is 'improve yourself' no longer good advice?So there is nothing wrong with my friend? Women should want him, then. I'll have to tell him quick before GQ wants him on the cover :) My point is that you can have a totally acceptable, normal lifestyle and appearance and even existence that just isn't sexy. I'm not going to wag my finger in my friend's face and say, "you need to change who you are because women don't want you!" - he is fine as is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 06:30 AM |
| 8 | At what point is 'improve yourself' no longer good advice?I have a buddy who mods fallout 3 in his free time. I play his mods. I love him to pieces as it seems most people have pretty much forgotten about fallout 3. You try making that hobby sexy. There is nothing wrong with him, and I would totally hang out after work every day with him and watch him work if he lived closer, but he can't get a date to save his life. Imagine saying what you said about a woman. Everyone would jump in and say a woman's worth is not based on how sexy men find them. Someho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 06:22 AM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Also of note: you will find many women who see no issue with getting hit on at work if you have tact. I talked with my sister in law about dating and I said there were a few single people on another team at my job and she said "go for it!" without even giving it a second thought. I am in an extremely liberal area. Here I was considering all the possible things that could go wrong, and having to work with them being somewhere around, and the awkwardness - but if you talk with them a lot, take the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 06:08 AM |
| 1 | "just be skinny" doesn't workI'm sure everyone's ideal partner would be a little silly. Ideals don't actually exist irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:32 AM |
| 3 | "just be skinny" doesn't workYeah and swimwear is meant for swimming and pajamas are meant for sleeping in. All those categories also happen to be revealing or form fitting at times and draw attention. What is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | "just be skinny" doesn't workEDIT: Being able to get into a relationship doesn't mean they're attractive (plenty of ugly people are in relationships. Being able to get casual sex doesn't mean they're attractive ( A lot of men would sleep with anything). So then what is really the point of attraction? Bragging rights? This is like saying someone who won the lottery isn't wealthy because they still have the same low-paying job. OP, once you get it, you are done. That is the whole game here. Who cares if you are unattractive w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatHuh? Your partner also has work and responsibilities, and they're not always gonna be available, even if you live together. During the times where your partner is free, likely 5pm to 9pm and weekends, you can easily schedule fun with friends instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatI would think most people here fall into one or more categories: They have problems dating They are in awe of and want to discuss the clusterfuck that is modern dating I am 2/2 personally. Its really easy to tell how unhinged any reddit community is by their sidebar rules, which means the behavior happens so often that they have to specify not to do it and frequently ban for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatPeople here think all women are like that, that's part of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatNot having a partner is far from alone. I know reddit kinda warps things, but most people do have irl friends they hang out with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatIn the modern era, from around 2008 or so to now, people of all genders have wanted their partner to 'do all the work' at an increasing pace. Ladies want their date to schedule it, pay for it, buy gifts, clean the house, etc. etc. without reciprocating. Guys have spun their own version of this as a form of inceldom. The main difference I've seen is that women get as far as engagement and even marriage sometimes, but it almost never lasts. Men don't even get in the front door when pulling this sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatHow would you describe the average woman? And you're probably seeing where I'm going with this; is she invisible to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Long hair, thick, but no beard? Really? Damn, ok. I always thought the lumberjack oglers were looking for the whole package, beard and all. Maybe I'll start to turn heads if I keep building muscle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Ah, thanks for sharing, that makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?What was the tipping point of attraction between you and him? When did you consider him a romantic partner? I'm curious if it was like instantly from across the room or after a few dates or even after you were living together for days or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?If you have no emotion on your face, I can only assume nothing is happening in your life and you just exist You know how when a woman starts crying for a damn good reason, and some idiot asks if she is on her period or tells her to stop behaving like a child? That is what happens to men, maybe times 100. I was told to stop crying at my uncle's funeral when I was 8. My school counselor said I cry a lot when I first encounter a major problem, and that it doesn't help. My first girlfriend left me b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?We know, bro. Thanks anyway :) and have a nice Friday What does it mean to not be an npc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:00 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?You know, if you start building muscle, I am sure many people out there would compliment and validate you. I know not everyone wants to be a gym rat, and I'm sure you have other qualities that are more worthy of validation, but you know how people are. It may be easier than you think to get positive attention if there are no filters on who can provide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:37 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?I think you should see like ~1000 or so of the typical messages women get in general, even outside of dating or dating apps. It is a mix of reddit-tier humor, phrases that sound like they're straight outta J-roc's stoned mind, and "hey nice tits" style messages, over and over and over. Barely any are unique or personalized, like, "hey you like jewelry making, that is so cool!" or they can even start with that and bizarrely segue immediately into, "you have a fat ass, lets fuck!!!" It truly feels… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:28 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?I think the male equivalent is a group of 5 very aggressive gay guys who want to date you and won't take no for an answer. For the sake of this metaphor, you are straight and very much not interested in any of them. They aren't stalking you per se, but you see them when you're out and about in your home town. Sometimes you see all 5 at a social event and you're just dreading them seeing you because it means you won't have any space to actually meet other people. They follow you on runs around yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveRiiiight, don't be superficial, lower my standards, never heard those before. I think nearly everyone believes they are a decent person, for what it's worth. I'm gonna do you a solid and assume "a combination of things" means every basic hygiene practice, watching guides on how to dress well, owning your own house, car, and professional career, being interesting and passionate, going out on 2-3 dates a week and not getting burnt out, being active on social media while also being active in real l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveI agree with your first and last sentences. I'm a bit tired of people saying, "just be a good person!" to get dates, as though the bare minimum will magically open all doors for you. It also kinda assumes the reader isn't currently being decent. When I receive such advice irl, it is usually from someone who has a lot more going for them than being a good person. Maybe humility is in there if they think being good is all they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.CMV? Can I disagree with the title? Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Only like 10% of people haven't had a sexual partner in the past year. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066?widget=personalizedcontent&previousarticle=2767063 Yes, the number has bumped a little higher in the past few years, but a pandemic will easily cause that. A lot of the rest of the post actually makes sense if you didn't start with the pretense that MOST men are not having sex at al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYIt is far from being one-on-one and ending there. A lot of the stuff OP said, like Even mens wives are being contacted telling her he’s a creep because he sent a sick pick 5 years ago before he was married. can still happen when rumors spread, even without the internet. It happened back when I attended a highschool of ~4000 people, it happened in uni, and that kinda stuff gets talked about in my neighborhood a lot, both on nextdoor and in person. Speaking of highschool, one year everyone wrote '… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 07:56 AM |
| 6 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYask for details about the guy, and other women are posting pics of their exes and making accusations It’s all one sided Even mens wives are being contacted telling her he’s a creep When women talk about men or their partners to other women, what do you think they talk about? Did you think it was non-stop gushing about them? Maybe in the honeymoon phase. Men and women trash talk members of the opposite gender to fellow friends of the same gender. Is this some revelation? Even my mom will trash ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 07:21 AM |
| 25 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movement/r/fatepeoplehate nearly got half a million subscribers and about 150k active members all hating fat people before it got shut down. Do most people hate fat people that much? Well, not really. They did a survey and found out most members were very young girls. Would you care about what 150,000 highschool girls have to say about dating and gender issues? I'd be curious, but I wouldn't expect an incredibly detailed, sourced and well-structured argument. Reddit is kind of this funhouse mirror of so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsI'm a white guy in the opposite boat; listening to all of reddit saying how I have to be getting relationships left and right when I haven't gotten past the first date in years. I have probably been about 200 people's lunch money since 2018. I have a few minor disabilities so I could say something about how non-disabled white guys have it better, but then I'd just be reduced to the same incel-lite 'three minutes hate' that so many already contribute here. Like you said, the world is a bit less b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsThis forum asked women what they wanted This REDDIT forum asked REDDIT women what they wanted. Of course reddit women said it doesn't matter - lots of reasons for that. A good chunk are probably not even lying. I assure you, there are many hicks who would never consider dating outside their own race who have never heard of reddit, or got banned for saying that exact thing elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:33 AM |
| 3 | The Purge - AnnouncementsYou dunderheaded Hannah Montana Linux user! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:25 AM |
| 3 | The unspoken rule about sex with womenYou're pulling the "young women very vulnerable" card Not at all, I'm saying they lack experience. What part of not knowing what kinda sex you like makes you vulnerable? I didn't date virgins so that argument is out of question. Would you ever truly know? How many posts are there on this sub that explicitly say never to tell anyone your virginity as a guy? Its not like there's a foolproof test you can take. many young people rack up sexual encounters in the 2 to 3 digits numbers in their early t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 05:26 PM |
| 5 | The unspoken rule about sex with womenI see a possible situation nobody here is addressing. If you exclusively date extremely young women (18-22), they likely have no idea what they want in the bedroom. When asked, they would give generic answers. If you are their first sexual encounter (or the first one that was just typical and didn't have ED or other problems), they may come to see your brand of lovemaking as "normal." From my experience dating guys, older guys are more often into butt stuff and potentially demasculinizing acts. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually unreasonable that 'below average woman' want to be treated like ' 10' ? Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?"Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?" Let's talk about that for a second. I don't speak for everyone, but for me, the answer is no. I have had a few dates and even a longtime friend who would try to say what they thought I wanted to hear. When I talked about how I prefer chinese knockoff knives or thrift store clothes, they would say things like, "That's ok, you're young - you'll keep building wealth until you can afford the real stuff one day." When I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:29 AM |
| 20 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?I'm a Marine vet in my mid 30s and there is zero chance I'd show up for a draft if the US wasn't directly invaded. Yeah this is a common perspective with my air force friend too. A lot of people don't get that the draft isn't gonna make you a Marine or fighter pilot or terminator; its going to make you a boot or a clerk. If we actually had a draft, we'd need more of both. You're gonna be doing the exact same thing an amazon warehouse employee does but with people yelling and sometimes shooting a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:19 AM |
| 13 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Bro struck a nerve so hard it got severed. It is not xenophobic to point out that sex tourism is exploitative lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:09 AM |
| 38 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Poor ones too for the same reason. Dates are expensive! Nobody wants to chill in the forest or get fast food or coffee anymore, either. Although most people didn't prefer low-rent activities pre-pandemic, I get it, but now it has bottomed out at zero. Seems the only thing that will pry people from work/netflix is a really high quality meal that I pay for entirely. Can't blame them ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:04 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.All kinds of people value their partners' income. Your wording makes it seem like you are holding women to the standard of never caring how much their partner makes. Real human beings are always going to be more superficial than that - men and women both. Sure, it would be great if true love could foster between Aladdin and the princes or whatever, but its not very realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 07:35 AM |
| -4 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.This just sounds like wishful thinking. I'm not saying it is impossible to be single and happy, or rich, or enjoying freedom and independence, but it just seems like lip service. I bet it feels great to get free massages all day - I don't dwell on it, because it will never happen for me. If it works for you, sure, congrats. This feels like that one TMZ moment where Kanye went off the rails and everyone told him that he is unrelatable and living in a completely different world since he is so powe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Its odd. I can point to one company I like, where everyone seems intelligent and they value said intelligence. They use their extra wealth to better themselves, they're all fit, they look great even at 60+, and they seem to have the best chemistry with others like them. I can point to another company that, while possessing very talented individuals, it is wholly... I dunno, arrogant? Feudalistic and seniority-ruled? Misogynistic at times? It seems to be a collection of capable people who were mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughat age 23 Totally agree, but when would you say is the cutoff point? I had to move back in with my parents because my dad is newly disabled, but I also stopped dating in the meantime. I'm thinking like ~30 is the hard cutoff barring illness, but I'd love to hear from anyone. At 30, I think the vast majority of people could at least afford rent after saving for... what, 8 years post-college? Prob done with any extra school programs too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Why should average or below average men approach women anymore?Dude you do realize despite any of the answers on this specific forum or what Women complain about online you literally can actually just do whatever the fuck you want?? You're correct, but this is not what OP is looking to hear. I've been in OP's shoes. I dated casually for 4, 5 years, something like that - all through college and for years after since I was a transfer. Every friday and saturday night - never made it past the first date. When you spend your student loan money taking people out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:11 AM |
| 6 | Why should average or below average men approach women anymore?Sometimes it takes. Then you are not ugly, silly :) If you send your resume out 300 times and just one bites and you get a great job, you've made it. Same with dating imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 5 | There's nothing wrong with valuing something in a partner that you do not possess.Why do people get addicted? Gamble? Fight back during robberies? They think they know better. Some may not even be aware of how much power a 40 year old can wield over a college student. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 07:29 AM |
| 3 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himIn a perfect world? Yes. In our world? No. Put another way: a man chasing after you when you are both in jogging attire and running at night is not an indicator that he is gonna attack you. Despite this, your adrenaline should be at 100 because of the context you're in and a reasonably preconceived notion that something bad is about to happen. We don't live in an ideal world where people of all backgrounds can jog together at night or compliment without assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:28 AM |
| -1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsThat is just as good an indicator as if they lie and say they're a virgin though. None of that is conclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsOh come now, I can farm responses here by giving all the wrong advice and having 500 people reply to correct me. It doesn't mean they're butthurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealYeah and self defense is a legal defense, whereas beating your wife is a crime. Both involve throwing punches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Idealand today the coercion is primarily through social media in the form of public shaming I think this is the root of the problem. 30 years ago, a sexually aggressive straight man would just keep meeting people until he found a woman who wanted to be completely dominated. There are ZERO people who would have filmed him with a camera phone and called him out to all his friends or got him fired from his job. Nowadays you see people being called out by a very small group who sees an infraction, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealI don't think the only categories you can fall into are 'only violent' (able to defend yourself but also attack others) or 'only passive' (unable to harm anyone). If you had a hammer, people would love it if you hammered jewelry for them. People would hate it if you struck them with the hammer. Both actions are not cut from the same cloth just because it is the same action (striking motion) with the same tool. You demonstrated that your own martial arts experiences allows you to switch between '… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach?I'd say it counts, otherwise you'd be hard-pressed to find "true" cold approaches. You will always have something in common with the person you are approaching; if you go to the same gym, you may have worked out with a mutual person there. If you are in a park, hey, maybe one of you is friends with someone in the general area who is friends with the other. Its a '6 degrees of separation' thing. He was a friend of a friend. That friend could have vouched for him to OP (or for her to him) but its … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.I applaud you for looking into this, OP, even if the theme has been done here before. The one thing that doesn't track for me is comparing real life statistics to a reddit-based perception of the world. I see 'Woe Is Me' posts all over reddit. Let's abbreviate that to WIM posts. They often appear to be legitimate cries for help, so I humor them when I have a minute to kill. The differences in the quality of WIM posts across communities is staggering, though. On the red pill subs, you have posts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.I'm in this post and I don't like it. Now hold on and let me finish my weekly 1 hour shower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Hypergamy exists - and it will get worseWhy is dating autistic nerds worse than dating sociopaths who beat and rape women? Neither of those types of people are perfect for most women, which is likely one factor of why a lot more women are staying single now. A few decades ago, they would be married off before they could Why are sociopaths who are rapists and wife beaters more appealing to women than autistic nerds? Have you considered that sociopaths act "normal" (non-sociopathic) at first and are very convincing? Autistic nerds act l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Redpill seems to be exploding in popularityMore popular than ever... Really? More popular than caveman times? More popular than pre-feminism or when we had sodomy laws? I don't think so. If you consider men to be largely redpilled, bluepilled, or inexperienced, then being bluepilled itself is a 21st century thing and it would stand to reason that the blue pill has never been more popular now than throughout history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Do you think most men are incels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menTo mentally rank human beings based on past sexual experiences is a bit bigoted if its not for compatibility reasons. I don't mean compatibility like someone wants a virgin or, in your example, someone can't stand the idea of a penis ever touching their partner in the past. If they want those things for the sake of wanting them, then those are arbitrary and have no tangible benefit to the seeker. If they want it because they are terrified of STDs or have a past trauma, that is more understandabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.Thanks, boss! Just don't make me walk too far in the heat, I'm dyin' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Yeah, I disagree with OP's statement, and you pretty much summed up why. Most guys shoot blindly - that is why there is such a backlash against shooting at all. Some even keep "shooting" after their "target" said they are married lol. I see it as a branching option tree to weigh the pros and cons for every case, and "does she seem interested" is always the root of the tree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 42 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.A long time ago, 'comedy' and 'tragedy' took on different meanings. Comedy was where bad things happen to bad people and good things happen to good people, and tragedy switched them. Comedy was said to follow the "natural order," as though good things happening to the blessed and foul things happening to the wicked was all part of some grand design of nature. Tragedy made people feel bad because it went "against the natural order." From my perspective, life is mostly a tragedy. People try their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:28 AM |
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