Vicsma Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	Where did you meet your husband? I met my husband at his mothers house! Our moms are good friends and co-workers. They had been trying to set us up for a good year beforehand, but neither of us were into being set up by our mothers. Then, Christmas a few years ago, we were both home for the holidays, his mom had a big Christmas dinner, invited my mother and me. We ended up hitting it off right away! I like to count it as our first date- dinner with his family and then playing lego on the floor in his moms living room. I think i…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/15 12:42 AM
11	This hurt to read. Unfortunately, it's very very hard to change peoples opinions on the issue unless they truly want to be informed on their own time. I felt the same way as a lot of them until recently, because I never knew that there were different types of FGM, or how common they were. I never did my own research, all I had ever learned about it was what I learned from Oprah, and she only highlighted the worst type and made it seem like it was the only type there was. So many people (including myself, until rec…	/r/MensRights	06/05/15 11:31 PM
2	Do not get married! Warning to single guys ! While I agree that there are many reasons not to get married, the things he states in this video are none of them. Dude is obviously in a bad marriage. But his points are all either based off of his awful-sounding wife or tired old jokes about marriage: No such thing as enjoyment in marriage. The point of marriage is to savor suffering. Suffering is daily and constant. Women are extremely irrational once a month - they will stand you up and frivolously spend all your money. No sex ever again. If…	/r/MensRights	24/04/15 08:55 PM
1	Do all women want to get married? If someone is a working mom, they build a career, make their own money, and are able to support themselves should their husband leave them/cheat/die. A SAHM risks being left alone with no career, no money, no experience, etc.. Child support doesn't replace the money one would make having a career 20 years in the making. Having a working man, and a SAHM is a luxury for BOTH parties.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/14 08:07 PM
9	Do all women want to get married? You just need to find a career-oriented, child-free woman who makes decent money. Many women (myself included) don't need to get married just to be married. But in the case of children, especially if you were looking for a stay at home mom type, incredibly unlikely you'll find a smart, high quality woman who will do that without marriage.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/14 05:59 PM
1	Question for the Ladies who have embraced RP Might be me who doesn't understand the female group dynamics! I've never really had girl friends before, so this is my first go at it.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/14 06:50 PM
1	Question for the Ladies who have embraced RP No, I suppose it probably wouldn't start a debate. Possibly just anxiety telling me that they'll think less of me if I'm really gun ho about the SAHM thing. Just because they are very career-first, never want to get married, never want kids types. I don't want to risk isolating myself from the other women in the group.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/14 05:32 AM
3	Question for the Ladies who have embraced RP I usually just say "I know... " I just really want these women to like me, many of them are girlfriends of my husbands friends. I'm afraid to start any sort of debate, I guess. I only argue on the internet!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/14 02:59 AM
18	Question for the Ladies who have embraced RP I'm not sure if I've ever felt attacked by anyone.. However, I will say that the only time I have ever felt very judged was in the presence of other women. Feminism seems to have become "Women can do whatever they want to do in life, as long as they don't want to be a housewife or SAHM.". When I meet new women and we get talking about careers and goals and the like, I mention that I want to be a SAHM and homeschool, and the usual response is usually something along the lines of, "Oh.. But you ca…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/14 11:15 PM
8	Serious question from a third party male Yes, exactly this. TRP and RPW are different because one is for men and one is for women. It's about seeing the differences instead of just the "Everyone is exactly the same, male or female" narrative that we always see.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/10/14 04:31 PM
12	Serious question from a third party male I used to be like you, I lurked /r/TheRedPill, and thought they sounded horrible. Then I came here to see what kind of crazy women agree with those men. I still mostly lurk here, but I came here thinking I would hate these women, but they actually think very similarly to me. So, IMO the similarity is mostly in name. Taking the red pill is about living in reality instead of the blue pill fantasy. For example, men are told nowadays that women want someone who will put them on a pedestal and treat …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/10/14 04:15 PM
6	The Stigma of Being a Housewife: When it is no longer socially acceptable to be a homemaker has feminism overshot its objective? This was a nice read. I recently moved from a small town where you say you want to be a stay-at-home mom or housewife, and you get reactions like "Oh, me too!". Now I live in the big city and reactions are more like, "Wow.. You're really setting the women's movement back 50 years.. ". Now if people ask what I'm planning to do career-wise, Ive learned its just better to say things like, "I'm not really sure, thinking about going to school, but I haven't made any solid plans yet". Meanwhile, the h…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/14 06:39 PM
3	A 35 year old woman throws a tantrum on TXC because her boyfriend realizes he wants to be a father and that 35 is too old for a woman to give birth to a healthy child That's right gentleman, you heard it hear first. Women believe that scientifically proven facts are "ridiculous nonsense." No need to generalize. I think the majority of women on reddit are SJW/feminazi types, so of course this is what you'll get. Or it's just women comforting another, like when your girl friend gets dumped and everyone tells her 'you're too good for him' when you know she was the awful one in the relationship. I know plenty of women who are worried about getting baby making don…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/14 03:42 PM