VictorEsquire Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
97	Social Signaling	Building Power	VictorEsquire	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/25 02:50 AM
72	Triggering Anxious Attachment in Women	Red Pill Theory	VictorEsquire	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/26 12:32 PM
68	Why control doesn’t work	Red Pill Theory	VictorEsquire	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/25 11:49 AM
63	Stay Distracted	Building Power	VictorEsquire	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/26 02:17 AM
34	Information Became a Skinner Box	Building Power	VictorEsquire	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/26 12:11 AM
27	Game Theory: The Incentive to Keep You Stuck	Finance	VictorEsquire	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/26 03:36 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Triggering Anxious Attachment in Women The real goal of the post was in the ending. About focusing on yourself, living a busy life. The rest was describing why the dynamic works. The dynamic really putting itself into place as a by-product. Not really trying to manufacture a treatment. Also even humble and loyal women can lose their interest over time.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/26 09:23 PM
-1	Triggering Anxious Attachment in Women It's kind of sad, the botox and surgery. Some of them go so far they become straight up ugly. It's sad, really. I've had very deep conversations with some about it. That they had a history of being bullied. Creating a self hatred about their bodies. Which also resulted into them being very sensitive and terrified of rejection. Making them very humble and loyal too.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/26 08:22 PM
1	Triggering Anxious Attachment in Women Will comply with your rules	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/26 10:48 PM
0	Triggering Anxious Attachment in Women Thanks for expanding on what was already said in the post.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/26 10:46 PM
1	Social Signaling Good feedback. I hate bloated posts too. Call it a skill issue, hoping to get better at it.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/25 12:08 PM
4	Social Signaling Yeah I do completely agree. Prideful behavior can signal insecurity too. My stance against humbleness is personal. Growing up surrounded by overly humble people, I learned to feel bad for expressing pride or satisfaction in my efforts. Success was often met with indifference—no genuine acknowledgment, just a sense that others weren’t happy for anyone’s achievements. It felt emotionally stunting, like nothing I did was ever enough, as if showing pride was bad, maybe due to underlying envy. It’s n…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/25 12:37 AM
2	Social Signaling I completely agree—even that most of the qualities aren’t inherently bad, and this post is about highlighting them used at their worst. When used from a place of strength, they can foster growth, connection, and respect. But when they come from a position of weakness, they’re often twisted into tools for self-preservation, ego-boosting, or tearing others down.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/25 01:03 PM
3	Social Signaling I agree and would also say most of these qualities aren’t inherently bad—it’s really about where they fall on the spectrum. Humbleness, for example, can be admirable, but when someone is overly humble to the point where they can’t feel pride or satisfaction in their own efforts, it becomes emotionally stunting. It makes things feel unrewarding, and honestly, it makes me think, “Stop being such a loser and just own your success.” As for humor, I’m not talking about regular humor or making people …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/25 12:49 PM
3	Why control doesn’t work What I would say about that perspective is that the teachings of Christ don’t just aim to solve the problem—they also play a big role in creating a heightened sense of guilt and shame in the first place. A lot of what’s taught revolves around repressing natural desires and feeling bad for having needs at all. The message is often, “deny yourself to be good,” which can make people equate their own happiness or ambition with selfishness and sin. That’s where something like the red pill resonates w…	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/25 06:46 PM
1	Why control doesn’t work if you're a man and you can't tell your woman... If you can't communicate your thoughts or speak your mind, you're already a lost cause. Women love the sense of ownership and control When men talk about “owning” or “controlling” the dynamic in relationships, they often don’t realize they’re playing right into the feminine narrative they think they’re resisting. From a woman’s perspective, that “sense of ownership” often translates to commitment, which benefits her. The more a man invests in “mai…	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/25 05:22 AM
3	Why control doesn’t work Compartmentalizing is really just burying the problem, not fixing anything. It's pushed it out of sight until they resurface in ways you can’t control. Can you imagine that some high-performance folks don’t even feel that domineering sense of shame or guilt at all? That there’s simply nothing to compartmentalize because, in their mind, there’s no problem to begin with? Their focus isn’t stuck on the past—it’s on progressing further and moving forward. When you experience enough pain, it starts t…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/25 12:48 AM
2	Why control doesn’t work Without religious moral beliefs and conditioning, we don’t suddenly turn into amoral beasts or lose our sense of right and wrong—it’s part of being human, not something exclusively taught by religion. Humans are social creatures—we don’t really need to overthink every action to figure out what’s right or wrong. Cooperation and empathy are kind of built into us because they’ve always helped us survive. Those who lack that are exceptions more than anything. At the same time, we all balance selfish…	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/25 12:53 PM
2	Why control doesn’t work I can live free from shame and sin independently from Christianity. The belief both instills the problems and portrays itself as the solution	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/25 11:46 AM
14	Why control doesn’t work Christianity may present monogamy as a voluntary commitment, but the “choice” is often shaped by heavy moral conditioning. Christian morality frequently relies on shame and guilt to enforce behavior—instilling the fear of sin, the threat of eternal punishment, and the risk of social shaming for stepping outside prescribed roles. People are taught that failing to adhere to these expectations makes them morally corrupt, unworthy, or destined for hell. When the fear of consequences outweighs true a…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/25 03:08 PM
22	Why control doesn’t work True, but an “alpha” often gets investment without actively trying to control anything—not afraid of competition, not showing desperation by trying to steer them away from other men. Women are drawn to and willingly choose them. The moment you feel the need to actively control someone’s behavior, you’ve already lost that dynamic.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/25 03:06 PM