Victordobado Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Is a good physique overrated when it comes to attraction?	Discussion	Victordobado	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/25 03:26 PM
2	Do you text right after hooking up?		Victordobado	/r/askTRP	06/04/21 07:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy She wants a guy with a slim, athletic physique. Like a soccer player. Not a big bodybuilder	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 12:45 PM
1	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. More women actually prefer the swimmers natural athletic physique than the big bodybuilder 🤷‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 05:06 PM
1	Is a good physique overrated when it comes to attraction? My standards for a good male and female physique is a physique that’s not high in bodyfat, where you can see some muscle, size and definition. The guys I saw were built like this this and their partners were built like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/25 04:59 PM
2	Quick question do red pillers actually believe that hot women in 30s with kids can't get hvm to wife them up and even play step daddy? Women want immediate chemistry if you are in VHCOL area with a lot of competition. This right here, if she is conventionally attractive (Fit/slim, cute face, pleasant etc) your gonna get rejected very quick if you didn’t give her the tingles after the first date, because she has endless of options which she knows. They friendzone the vast majority of dudes on the regular	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:47 AM
–	Attractive man have lots of situationship Or you could just level up in every way so you also can enjoy hookups and situationships. You don’t have to be very attractive to live that lifestyle. Or stay unattractive and go for unattractive women, the choice is yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:40 PM
6	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. Yup. And the better looking the woman = The higher the looks threshold is gonna be, because generally speaking couples tend to be close in attractivness. You rarely see a woman who is maybe a 8/10 with an average looking 5/10 guy unless he brings something extra to the table. The behaviour threshold is fairly easy to pass. If a woman finds you really attractive you don’t have to win her over with ”game” or by being very interesting, charismatic, funny etc. Just be a friendly and chill guy, that’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:31 PM
2	Men dont struggle to get relationships Its easy for men to get relationships if they're a decent person because all they need to do is be kind and genuine, talk to women and have a job. You forgot the most important part, they have to be attractive enough to turn her on aswell. These stuff don't matter if the man doesn't pass her looks threshold, which is high since women generally don't find 80% of men attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 01:17 PM
2	Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman? Slim, fit chicks are in high demand and get attention from pretty much every single dude so it obviously makes it harder to get a date with them, especially in america. In america obesity is a problem so a slim, fit chick is gonna stand out. You would probably have better luck matching with your type in a country in europe where obesity isn't a normal thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 04:24 PM
4	Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman? Most men try to match with any woman who isn’t obese or very ugly. An average guy would commit to an average looking woman with a healthy bmi in a heartbeat, if she shares his values and is friendly. An average looking woman is a 4-5 in this rating guide IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 02:02 PM
3	Only telling men to self improve is bad advice A 6 figure income is a bigger flex than a 225 bench	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 12:32 AM
1	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women ”Why would you? Women want a guy around their age. Sure most women like an older guy, but like a year older, not 10 years older, look at the average relationship gap, it's like 1-2 years.” Yeah, this is what I’ve noticed. I do get attention from women in their late 20s but rarely younger than that. ”You could have stopped your hair loss, it's too late now though. Losing your hair definitely makes you a lot less attractive to women.” I tried regrowing my hair using minoxidil, but should have mayb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 12:53 PM
2	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women Yeah, when I was in my early 20s in college I was pretty very skinny and not in shape and broke, but was still sometimes sleeping with thin, healthy weight college girls who were attractive. Now at 30 I’m in the best shape of my life (lean, visible abs, good size etc), I make plenty of money in a great career, and I never get attention from young attractive girls. My hair was also thinning in my late 20s so I decided to go for the shaved head + beard look. Older women 30+ love my look and what I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 08:18 AM
2	Why haven’t more men quit the market? Which is still fucking depressing to think almost 1 in 3 men haven't gotten that. I know two guys in that group who say they haven’t gotten laid in 2-3 years. They arent ugly by any means. They are tall, well dressed, in decent shape and have well paying jobs. The reason they haven’t gotten laid has to do with the fact that they don’t put thenselves out there. They don’t use dating apps and they don’t approach or flirt with giris when we are at parties and events because they don’t want to be cr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:46 AM
–	I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight Men Yup. A decently attractive white and slim girl is gonna have a lot of men be on their best behaviour because they don’t want to mess things up. When a woman is obese and looks generally unkempt guys try to make things sexual real quick because they could care less	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 09:14 AM
–	Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him? You don’t even need to have great social skills at that point. Just be normal and don’t act like a total weirdo	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/24 12:07 PM
1	At what body type/shape did you get the most girls/success? Being 6ft in itself is automatically a huge benefit Yeah, everytime I walk around downtown I see tall chubby guys dating cute/attractive women. Don’t often see that with short and chubby guys	/r/seduction	23/03/24 02:02 PM
–	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? If you’re a physically attractive guy with high quality pics on IG, have a decent amount of followers, have something going for yourself and live an interesting life then IG will allow you to date baddies with ease	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 01:47 AM
17	Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating? All that self-improvment working on your career, getting an awesome body, getting your money up etc just to end up with a chubby single mom lol. Would rather stay single	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 03:39 AM
1	How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder? Surely you’ve gotten at least some matches with those stats and gotten laid?	/r/seduction	13/03/22 09:04 AM
1	How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder? None of these stuff matter if you’re 5’0” though lol, except for maybe wealth	/r/seduction	13/03/22 09:00 AM
1	How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player? True. A female friend of mine also told me when they do find someone they find attractive and who also happens to be good in bed (Lasts for a long time and doesnt cum in 1-2 minutes, not a selfish lover, funny and sexual compatibility is very good) they tend to reach out and stay contact with him whenever they wanna have sex instead of adding a new random guy who they don’t know nothing about to their bodycount	/r/seduction	09/03/22 02:43 PM
1	Your clothes play a huge role in seducing women! Lmao. Being funny, laid back and flirty is the best combo though.	/r/seduction	24/06/21 06:09 PM
1	Do you text right after hooking up? That’s a good way to look at it. Thanks for your input! 👍💪🏾	/r/askTRP	07/04/21 12:11 PM
1	Do you text right after hooking up? Good point. Yeah, I don’t want to do a bunch of meaningless boring small talk over text, but at the same I don’t want my silence to have a negative effect.	/r/askTRP	06/04/21 07:25 PM