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Way to go; good luck on the relationship!
/r/seduction03/04/24 09:09 AM
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Yep this. No doubt hard to resist since this a dream scenario for any straight guy, especially if she’s anywhere halfway pretty, but you would be best to make a joke to humorously stop the escalation in this case. Then you can perhaps say it’s best to do that off hours with you if you wanted to continue.
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:43 PM
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You were rooming with two girls? This sounds like a Three’s Company episode geez 😆
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:48 PM
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Dude, don’t do that; totally not worth it. If you split up with her that is forever out there on the web until you’re deathbed. She still might show her friends anyway and yeah they’ll probably laugh over it just because you sent it. Send her a pic of Dick Van Dyke as a joke and tell her she can come by and hang out to see you in person instead.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:07 PM
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They lack confidence or they meeting an old friend perhaps? Also most guys would like a wingman to help break the ice or have their back if they fall short conversation-wise.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:58 AM
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What are you interested in? Fitness, hiking, music, church, etc? Try to find a group where both men and women get together to participate in that activity. It’s organic and worse case scenario you’re there doing what you love anyway. You do have to put yourself out there some unfortunately but if you plug into what you love that helps a bunch.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:12 PM
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Were you stood up or did you actually go on a date and she didn’t text you afterward? If she stood you up, you can probably text her about how you don’t appreciate her not showing up and how you’re time is valuable and she should have let you know if she couldn’t make it. Say “Not cool” or some text like that. If you went on a date and she didn’t respond then I would just move on.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:55 PM
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So you ask younger women out straight up at the gym? Wouldn’t word get out among the other regulars that this older guy keeps hitting on the women around here and hurt your chances? Because I asked a twenty/something waitress out at a restaurant recently and when she turned me down, it made it impossible to ask any of her co-workers out next since I looked foolish for asking a younger woman out.
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:14 PM
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Congrats bro. I’m actually close to your age and messed up my 20’s and 30’s being either the nice guy, or in my 30’s the socially inept guy following movies on how to attract women. Which of course is made by a bunch of nerds who have no clue how real attraction works. Also my career was floundering doing odd jobs. Now that I’m a few semesters shy of getting a masters and with no debt finally, I’m getting a new lease on life with my career. And I don’t want to blow it with women like I did in th…
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:57 PM
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He’s a celebrity and he has a high profile dating history that’s why. If he was working at Wendy’s he wouldn’t be attracting women any prettier than his co-workers.
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:34 AM
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This was an issue for me for years. A lot of stuff improved from trial and error, and reading/watching Corey Wayne’s materials was eye opening too. A couple of tips that have helped me was too be as laid back as possible and let her do most of the talking. Ask her questions and kinda of ricochet off of her points. When she asks you, try to not give a long speech but just a simple answer and try to put some humor in there. Then put the ball back in her court. If you talk too much you dissipate a …
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:08 PM
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A ton of stuff actually. Depends on how much making it is but let’s say $2 mill. I’d pay off my parents mortgage, Invest in song royalties, high rise hotels in Dubai, Palau, Belize and index funds. Probably get a second portfolio of Bitcoin and cybersecurity stocks going. Start a company that produces quality family and faith based films. And then if there was money left I’d get a stylist, trainer, etc to get my dating game up lol. So I definitely have an idea of what I want if I came into a ton…
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:05 AM
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Ultimately every woman is a little different; there isn’t a one size fits all approach to courting successfully. I’ve heard dating coaches say wait a few days to text after getting a number since that makes you seem less needy and more busy. Then some others say to text or call the next day, since women know you have a phone and aren’t under a rock when they text, plus you want to build on your attraction while the iron was hot. I remember I got this cute waitresses number once and even though m…
/r/seduction16/11/21 10:09 PM
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I’m a 6’2” dude and I couldn’t help but chime in, but one advantage taller women have over the shorter is the LEG game. And I’m a leg man so I really think tall women are pretty hot and sexy if they accentuate the gams and are in decent shape. Turn your minuses into a plus and work on your strengths as a tall woman.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 04:07 AM
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Damn, good job; all the points are very valid. Hurts to hear from us introverts who feel robbed of beautiful women by the a-holes but it’s true. Hard to break your mind and habits though.
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:23 AM
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Have you had success with hot women? I’m curious because, not to sound vain, but I’ve noticed women checking me out sometimes or brushing back their hair and smile when I catch their gaze. The minute I try to do something about it and approach and try to start conversation, I tend to blow it. Either I’m too corny with “I had to come over and say hi” or start asking questions about her job and become too nice. One time I tried to break the nice guy pattern and be “seductive” while talking and rub…
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:08 PM
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I’m 6’2”, have an okay physique, chiseled face, dark hair and it’s hard too for me to get a date with a quality woman I’m genuinely attracted to. I can get fat, unattractive women that easily want to date me at the drop of a hat but can’t often get the women who have a pretty face and decent physique. And I’ve had women co-workers tell me they don’t see what the problem is based on my looks. So yeah looks matter little when it comes to women for sure.
/r/seduction22/11/20 11:46 AM
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So can you “uncreep” yourself if you’ve already made too many stupid moves or have stared too long at a woman before making a move, etc? Some guys are just awkward because they’re nervous but damage is done, and women spread the “creep” alert to all her friends, even if their wrong. Can you sort of undo that kind of social stigma, particularly if you’re in a small town?
/r/seduction15/11/20 04:00 AM
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I’ve never been in one but yeah that’s the door to have a group and date the hottest women. Do your research and find the ones where they don’t have that extreme bully mentality. There are some where they’re borderline thugs and that’s when they’ll slam a hammer on your foot when blindfolded or some sh*t like that; some though might be where it’s just them messing with you a little or stupid stuff like running down a dark street in the buff. But if you aren’t overly sensitive and shy I would def…
/r/seduction09/11/20 02:47 AM
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Thanks bro but easier said than done. I still put women on pedestals sometimes so it’s something I’m always working on. Plus I’m kinda lazy so it’s hard for me to be busy when I don’t want to. But women are women and it’s work; but when you’re finally snuggling on the couch with her and elsewhere, it’s worth it!
/r/seduction09/11/20 02:45 AM
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I should be asking you that, lol. Here’s what I’ve learned that has helped me: 1). Don’t put women on pedestals no matter how hot. You have to treat them like the nerdy librarian chick or the woman walking across the road. Women know when you’re kissing up to them and they’ll treat you like a fan or friend if you do. 2) Be in shape, and don’t have more than a slight gut/dad bod. If you’re overweight, unless you’re super wealthy or the funniest guy within 100 miles, you ain’t going to get the mod…
/r/seduction09/11/20 02:22 AM
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I think most of us; at least differently than we treat women we’re just friendly with. You have to treat them no differently than you do any other women, which is hard no question.
/r/seduction01/11/20 04:41 PM
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Honestly, unless he’s married now or in a really committed relationship, that isn’t a hard proposition for most red blooded guys to accept, if there’s a mutual attraction. Just text him flat out or highly suggest he come over to “warm things up” or something similar. He should take the hint quick and unless he’s in a cast he’ll probably happily come on over. But at the end of the day, is that what you really want? Go for it by all means if you want to keep things surface and physical, but if you…
/r/seduction16/10/20 06:25 PM
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Not usually going to happen; most women no matter how wild and free spirited I’ve learned eventually want a commitment. It’s in their nature, especially if they’re over 30. Let me know if you find a girl that’s attractive that will agree to that lol.
/r/seduction13/10/20 06:10 AM
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Damn, I need to have you give me advice through hidden in-ear monitors next time I’m on a date.
/r/seduction11/10/20 06:37 PM
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Oh give me a break dude; what are you the seduction grammar police? Please! Okay is it a crime just to get a snapshot of events summarized of a single effective pickup, from inception to being at the girls place. One story from beginning to end. Not asking for a three page report. Whatever, ban me then or block this lol.
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:55 PM
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That was illuminating for sure; thanks!
/r/seduction06/10/20 06:22 PM
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That’s true, women are just people. You have to talk to them like you would the grandma walking down the street. Hard part is doing that though when she’s freakin’ hot and you can feel her in the next room lol.
/r/seduction02/10/20 02:27 PM
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Well spoken; yeah you learn from your mistakes but what happens when your mistakes cause you to have a bad rep where no girl that’s halfway cute and chic wants to avoid you. One thing that hurt was Id try to hit up women on social media that I barely knew, like a waitress that waited on my table, and then wrote to them that it was good to meet them. Stupid stuff like that which is not welcome if a girl doesn’t initiate it. Also Im in my late 30’s and it’s a college town so I guess I’ve crossed t…
/r/seduction01/10/20 11:18 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:21 AM
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Listen to a woman and repeat back what she said to reinterate. You will be tested on this. I got invited inside a woman’s house to stay if her bed at the end of the night because I passed this test. On that note, if you get inside take your time trying to get physical; just talk and in a silence slowly reach over and kiss her. If she shows resistance, back off and act like your cool with that and keep talking. In a little while repeat until she’s comfortable with some small heavy petting. If she…
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:51 AM
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Hang out with your girl friends and talk it out. Go on all-girl trips and yeah, flirting with other guys and getting some attention will help. But mostly talking and hanging out with your girlfriends and do fun things with them is probably your best option, especially if you’re not up to talking to guys just yet.
/r/seduction24/07/20 10:02 PM
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Years ago, I remember my mom saying that there were short guys at the military gym whom she had found attractive due to them being buff and in shape (before meeting my dad of course). I’m over 6’ but I’ve seen short guys who get new dates every other weekend while I’m stumbling to get more than 1 date a month while single. And mostly again they’re pretty jacked, like the drummer in my band. To me, that seems to be the key for shorter guys who have an active dating life is that they’re jacked and…
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:27 AM
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I’m 41 but look 36; so does this apply to people our age? Im starting to get better at this but wasted my 20’s and early 30’s not going on enough dates.
/r/seduction09/07/20 07:40 PM
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