VictrolaBK Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enough I live in New York City, which is a pretty rich and superficial place. What you’re doing to yourself is neurotic.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 08:56 PM
8	I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enough You’re seeing what you wanna see. This is all confirmation bias. I have never dated a man who had larger thighs or arms than me and I’m a small woman. Skinny men get plenty of dates.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/26 07:13 PM
11	17M about to be 18 soon, struggling with virginity Being a virgin at 18 is really normal.	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/26 03:29 PM
5	Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years? È la decisione giusta. La red pill è pericolosa.	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/26 06:08 AM
2	Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’? 25 vs 29 is a reasonable age gap. 22 vs 32 is not. The main issue with a 24 year old dating a 30 year old is how different you are in your life stages. At 24 you’re trying to get established in your career, enjoying your first post-college independence, and figuring out what kind of life you want. A 30 year old should already have done those things. So that dynamic ends up with someone settled, and someone who’s still figuring things out — which leads to compromises on one or both sides that are…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/26 08:35 PM
3	Thoughts on male ‘epiphany phase’? People with healthy sexual adjustment are attracted to people that are age appropriate. Healthy and well-adjusted 25 year olds generally think that 40 year olds look old.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/26 08:23 PM
2	If I risk looking like a simp, my gut instinct says just don’t do it Why would you care about the opinion of someone you don’t respect?	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/26 06:35 PM
2	An extroverted woman can fall in love with an introverted or shy man. Bro, this has got to stop. You’ve asked this exact question a dozen times. Talk to your therapist.	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/26 06:59 AM
6	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? I mean this with kindness - you can’t know you’ve stopped ruminating after one day. I believe you can do it, but don’t count your chickens before they’re hatched. When you feel like you’ve succeeded, and then slip back into old habits, it can feel like failure and set back your growth. You broke the cycle today, and that is a win. Tomorrow might look different // be harder // present a different challenge, and that’s ok.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 05:47 PM
9	Do you know any man who has been mistreated by a woman, who has held a grudge against women, and whose grudge disappeared upon finding a woman who loves, protects, and supports him? There is a dangerous and pervasive myth that the right person can heal you. It’s not possible. It doesn’t work like that. You have to heal yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 03:32 PM
12	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? You’re obsessing and asking the same question every day. This doesn’t seem to be helping. In all seriousness - have you spoken to your doctor about medication? These obsessive thoughts can often be treated with a basic antidepressant.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 03:27 PM
2	The women I want don't want me If you’ve figured out how to name different styles, and can’t name your own, I can’t really help you with the vague descriptions you’re giving. “Vintage inspired” - what vintage? Does that mean shirts from good will? Or does that mean a specific late 70s aesthetic? Are you dressing like Charlie Chaplin? Vintage can mean like 800 things. The answers you’re giving feel like learned helplessness. I had to tell you how to take a body selfie without a mirror. Come on, man.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:36 AM
2	The women I want don't want me You have to do the work yourself. You don’t ask other people to tell you what your style is, you learn about style and then figure out the answer. That’s what I mean by lazy: you don’t ask other people for the answer, you should teach yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:28 AM
2	The women I want don't want me Angled down body shot of your outfits. You don’t need a mirror.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:26 AM
2	The women I want don't want me You’re not going to solve this issue without some introspection. Shrugging it off with “idk what to call my style” is lazy. Figure out what your style is, what styles you like, how to put yourself together. When in doubt, dress like a cool butch lesbian. I’m not joking. Their outfits are amazing.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:24 AM
3	The women I want don't want me I meant that more broadly - if you’re not dressing/presenting yourself like the men these types of women are attracted to, then you can’t expect them to understand that your interests align. The way we dress and accessorize isn’t just a shallow endeavor, it’s a means of expressing your interests and where you fall on the social and political spectrums. Alt girls stay away from men in Patagonia vests for a reason.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:19 AM
2	The women I want don't want me Show pictures of your outfits. Crop your head out.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:13 AM
2	The women I want don't want me So you want a big titty goth gf, but you’re not cool enough to get one. Step up your game. Or date the women that find you attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:10 AM
1	Do you think physical appearance matters? Yes. You have to be physically attracted to someone in order to have a physical relationship with them.	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/26 11:35 PM
6	What do you think about TikTok's relationship standards? What do you think about the idea that these standards should be respected? Look at actual couples in the real world. Go outside and look around. You’ll see plenty of variety. Curated social media content is not reality.	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/26 10:50 PM
2	Do you know any women who are protective of their husbands, not possessive, or who take the lead in the relationship? Remember that the original creators of the red pill were trying to sell you something (PUA courses, self help books, supplements). They were trying to make money off your misery - it was in their best interest to make you believe these terrible things. And now the ideology is self propagating because misery loves company. The people pushing red pill are depressed, lonely, angry men and boys, and they want you to be just as unhappy as they are. My ex-fiancée is a 5’6” scientist who had never been…	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/26 07:09 PM
5	Do you know any women who are protective of their husbands, not possessive, or who take the lead in the relationship? My husband is too nice to return an overcooked steak at a restaurant. I can, and do. I make a lot more money than him. I handle most household decisions. He does all our laundry and cooks most of our meals. He spends more time with my sick, elderly mother. He is obsessed with our tiny dogs. He plays a lot of video games. We both have close friendships with people of the opposite sex. He enjoys clothes shopping and decorating. He spends a lot of money on his hair. We’ve been together 13 years. He…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/26 11:23 PM
4	I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me. They’re both good for sex, but you only want to see one of them again.	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/26 10:10 PM
9	I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me. How do you define extroverted? Being extroverted doesn't mean being the center of attention in a room full of people, it means being able to talk to the person sitting next to you at a dinner party, in line at the store, across the floor at a gathering... Are you able to do those things? Are you hoping that someone else is going to take the first step and reach out to you? How are you making yourself available to meet people? People often use the word protective as a euphemism for "controlling".…	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/26 09:41 PM
9	I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me. Aggressive can also mean outgoing, outspoken, and confident - they may be putting themselves out there, and therefore having more interactions with people they're interested in. This could simply because they feel they have something of value to offer, and are confident in their approach. Or do you mean aggressive, as in the type of guy who bullies you? You're going to be have to be more specific in defining "distant" and "problematic" because those mean different things to different people. Wha…	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/26 09:22 PM
13	I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me. How do you define “bad boy”?	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/26 09:01 PM
9	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? Maybe you’re better now than you were then? Maybe you’ve experienced growth and become a more desirable partner? Do you feel like the same person you did when you were nine? Would nine-year-old-you have been a suitable boyfriend? You’re not the same person you were three, five, eleven years ago... Maybe you’re just better looking, smarter, and funnier now than you were when she went out with those other guys? Maybe she was too nervous to go out with you back then? Maybe she’s grown up and sees y…	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/25 05:00 AM
29	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? Why is therapy a last resort? Therapy is a mature response to unproductive thought patterns.	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/25 12:03 AM
11	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? This line of thinking is just as damaging. It’s just more red pill BS.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/25 11:33 PM
17	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? If you can’t control your irrational thoughts then you should break up with her. Don’t subject her to behavior motivated by something completely out of her control. She deserves better.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/25 11:30 PM
68	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? I just don’t understand this. You’re 21 and you have your first girlfriend. Do you think you’re going to marry this person? No? What happens to her after this? Is she just damaged goods? What if you meet the most beautiful, virginal woman, and you’re her first everything? But you breakup because of logistics - like going to different colleges. Is she now ruined? You were good enough for her to sleep with, but now she’s just trash because you happened to break up? She was perfect, but now she’s r…	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/25 10:56 PM
6	I think my boyfriend has gone red pill Get out while you can.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/23 01:44 PM
9	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. I encourage you to show this post to your therapist. You should be focusing on making positive improvements in your life, not obsessing over your penis or how you believe women are responsible for it — because they are not. Circumsision has been the American cultural norm for a long time, and only recently has that culture begun to shift. Your mother is not the architect of your misfortune.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 06:49 PM
21	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. Bruh, you’ve got a problem and it isn’t your dick. You have some really messed up ideas about women, and you’ve developed a complex about the attractiveness of your penis. You need to talk to someone. These views aren’t rational or realistic.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 06:24 PM
3	I’m trying to stop thinking that all women do “shit tests” . This sub is for people who have seen the flaw in red pill ideology; and the advice should come from those who understand its dangers. If you are still struggling with your position then you should not be commenting here.	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/20 01:05 AM
4	I’m trying to stop thinking that all women do “shit tests” . Why are you commenting in r/exredpill when you’re currently active in the redpill community?	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/20 03:29 PM
5	What do women think of the whole alpha/beta male concept? It’s utter fucking nonsense.	/r/ExRedPill	03/01/20 02:06 AM
6	If "Game" doesn't work, then what does? People aren’t normally good at something the first time they try. Talk to a girl; it might go horribly, but that’s ok because it will go better next time. Women have just as much insecurity as you do. When I was [an objectively attractive 20 year old woman] I was plagued by insecurity. I never talked to guys because I was afraid of rejection. I never knew when someone was interested because I couldn’t see why they would be. It’s not just you. Talk to women you know through friends, at social eve…	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/19 06:26 PM
11	how do I overcome the view that women are gold diggers? I make more money than my long-term partner. In fact, I’ve out-earned every long term partner I’ve ever had. It’s not something I think about. What kind of women are you dating? Where do you meet them? What kind do work do you and they do? What are your ages?	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/19 02:29 PM
1	Equality in a nutshell [Facebook bullshit] I dunno. Caitlyn Jenner is a pretty attractive for a woman her age. Makeup can't "roll back the years" so much so that a woman in her 60s can pass for a woman in her 30s. Not without extensive plastic surgery; and that shit doesn't come off in the shower.	/r/MensRights	11/01/17 12:06 AM