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| 2 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleYou ever notice how many nurses are married to cops? I wonder what the connection is here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:26 AM |
| 11 | The truth hurtsCope, with enough makeup and clothes, most men can become pretty boys. It’s just that most men hate any man that looks feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looksBasically, men in big liberal cities aren’t called gay but if they dressed that way in some small rural town they would be called gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looksEvery “fab” male musician since forever has been called gay. Backstreet Boys, One Direction, David Bowie, Prince, etc. all got called gay. All had sex with lots of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 16 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Women have inherent value based on appearance and fertility markers. Men must prove themselves worthy by having good genes, or by acts that demonstrate higher value. Women are the choosers, so they don't have to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?That’s because stores like Forever 21 started selling band shirts as a trend. Mostly Metallica, Slayer, Led Zeppelin, and Nirvana. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Is modern day homophobia just a hatred of weak/feminine men?What about it makes it off topic? Is it that all posts have to be specifically about dynamics between men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Yeah, it’s actually better to appeal to a niche than to be average for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Yeah, metal musicians do it for the passion. It’s the SoundCloud rappers that do it for sex/money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?The ones that like meth and have tramp stamps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 4 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Why is being in a subculture always seen as a “phase” to grow out of? Why is it not socially acceptable to be emo, goth, skater, etc. when they’re older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Is modern day homophobia just a hatred of weak/feminine men?That’s my point actually. Feminine men can be any sexual orientation. Plenty of feminine men are heterosexual. But the stereotype of feminine men is that they are gay, and that gay men are feminine. Straight feminine men still get called gay, and gay men who act masculine aren’t seen as gay (to people outside the gay community). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Is modern day homophobia just a hatred of weak/feminine men?In the case of Japan, is homophobia less of a thing than in developed Western democracies? How do lesbians fit into this idea of social ordination? Women are expected to have children even more than men are, they’re seen as the sex that bears the child and takes care of it. So wouldn’t a lesbian be violating norms even more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Do women find alternative men attractive?It might actually be beneficial since the average man is average to everyone, but the goth man is a niche preference and thus can get some women much easier, in exchange for turning off a lot of women in the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree?And of course you have a Death Grips profile pic lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Baldness is a death sentence to younger women. Never seen a bald guy do well with college girls before. Or even date one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 01:48 AM |
| 11 | Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree?Straight men that get called gay by other men often get a lot of women in liberal areas. A skinny guy who cares about how he dressed and is artistic will have many options in big cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 12:58 AM |
| 14 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenWomen don’t want to have casual sex with bisexual men either. It’s more about the disgust toward men that are seen as feminine. And people see bi men as feminine and submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:59 AM |
| 0 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Dating a conservative man will draw a lot of “ewww”s from a liberal woman’s friend circle. Women care much more about what their friends think of a potential partner than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?What would change about your interactions? Did you change more or did he change more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:42 PM |
| 39 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?We’ve never had a time in human history where so many women are primary providers rather than men. So this is all new territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?I see. So high earning women often end up being “beta bucks” much like high earning men end up being too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?Here you go: https://www.asanet.org/sites/default/files/attach/journals/jun15asrfeature.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?By skilled, you mean he had game? Like he was a smooth talker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?It seems that a lot of those couples live sexless lives. I know a couple where the woman worked full time and the man stayed at home with the kids. She refuses to have sex with him and calls him disgusting all the time. I wonder if they’d have sex again if he started earning more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?This would make sense. Men who make less money are more likely to be blue-collar “macho” types of men that work in the trades or some other job that promotes a rugged masculinity, and are more likely to be muscular types. While a man that makes more money may be seen as a nerdy type that doesn’t have the confidence to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?To therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Why some women like feminine looking men: it’s an indicator of social classAt the end of the day all humans are animals. We want to choose the best mates for ourselves just like every other species that reproduces sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of makeup?Can you expand on this? As someone who wants to get a sleeve, I’d like to hear more on how women treat men with tattoos vs without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Race and attractiveness is not a big thing among gen z, anyone of any race can be attractiveIt’s cool to be interracial now. Every TV show has an interracial couple. Kids will do anything that makes them look cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Race and attractiveness is not a big thing among gen z, anyone of any race can be attractiveCope, it’s quite common in Gen Z. Not for Indian men though, they’re still at the bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Race and attractiveness is not a big thing among gen z, anyone of any race can be attractiveIf you did a study with Gen Z teens that grew up on Tiktok you’ll find a massive rise in interest in Asian men. Asian media is very popular these days. Not Indians though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Ever notice how common this is?Lmao are you talking about Seattle or Portland? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Ever notice how common this is?Not really. I do notice that black women tend to be an exception to the graphic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Ever notice how common this is?Leftist women are dating white men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice how common this is?What race did those non-white women tend to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 41 | Ever notice how common this is?Everyone but especially true for East Asian women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Has this tactic ever worked on any girl ever?Brazil? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 01:51 AM |
| 3 | What is it that makes “ bad boys” so fun?People with BPD are hypersexual. They have more sex and this more chances to reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorKey word here is Finland. Finnish culture is a lot less violent than American culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Why does the manosphere have an aversion to women with tattoos?Who did all the tattooed up alt girls hook up with? Guys that looked like metal band members? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Why does the manosphere have an aversion to women with tattoos?Not Asian women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:42 PM |
| – | You are not getting sex because people don't want to have sex with you, the rest is just noiseSan Francisco? It’s wild out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.Did you have a preference for goth guys? Were there very few “alt” men on OLD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The future of dating is casual and direct pay/sugarLove is a recent invention. Before civilization, women would get with the top males of a tribe. Then we had a few thousand years of monogamy, mostly arranged marriages. Only recently has love existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Are they Asian/Indian living in the Bay Area? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?https://www.jstor.org/stable/2963239?seq=1 This study on the black gender gap claims its due to black men being more susceptible to the forces of inner city poverty. I think as you said, the expectation to be macho plays a big role in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Black Americans have the highest gender gap in college degrees, where black women have twice the degrees of black men. Then Latino Americans, then whites. Asian Americans have about the same number of men and women with degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 75 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?In terms of income, true. But in terms of social class, a college educated woman will see a teacher making $60000 as more in her league than a plumber making $90000. It’s not just about income, it’s also about status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 21 | Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle?Actual goth (like The Cure / Siouxie) type goth is rare these days. I think a lot of people confuse “e-girl” with being goth. It’s a more sexualized aesthetic so it draws in men thinking that the women will be freakier of whatever. There is a link between goth and BDSM, but most of the time goth women aren’t anything unique sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 11 | Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle?Yeah, most of the goth women I’ve seen go for other alternative looks. Lots of goth girl / industrial guy pairings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle?Punk has a more edgier look, with lots of shaved heads and piercings, while goth is more more on a flowy, more traditionally feminine look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you?One of the Colorado STEM shooters is a trans man so the rules are different. And yeah, the looks of the shooter matters. The Virginia Tech and Sandy Hook shooters don’t have groupies while other shooters and serial killers hog up the attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:38 AM |
| 5 | [Q4ALL] How big of a factor does location play in dating/romantic success?Yeah, a good example is NYC vs SF. NYC has all the women going there to try and live the “Sex and The City” lifestyle, while SF has all the men going there to work at tech companies. NYC men do much better than SF men in dating. And race matters a lot. A stereotype about SF is that all the nerdy white guys date Asian women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about men wearing makeup to increase smv?Korean pop stars and actors have been on that male makeup wave for a while already. They seem to be doing very well all around the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Dating in the country is so much easier for menThere’s no engineers at anime conventions? What’s the demographic like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the state of the sexual marketplace will be like in 10/20/30 years time?It’s more like only more desperate women would use a lesser known app to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/20 11:13 PM |
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