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You over eager and made a bad joke. It happens. My bet is it wasn't even the joke it's self (although I wouldn't recommend going that route, even for banter sake). If girls sense neediness, they will dip. It's pre selection thing
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:48 PM
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I struggle with approaching women because in my mind I don’t want them to think I’m hitting on them. I don’t know how to make an ambiguous introduction That's the thing. She needs to. So much shame has been put into pickup that guys feel guilty for doing so. Do not. This will just limit your dating options. Girls know dating and gender rules so they know they will be approached. Hiding it will only make things awkward down the road.
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:37 AM
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Libraries are only good situationally, not for volume pickup. You have to whisper and all someone has to do is complain and you will get kicked out.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:15 PM
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"Just wanted to say hi" is a bad open because it cuts you off. Also, girls have an idea that you are interested, so the longer you take to approach, the more put off they will be.
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:48 PM
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I've linked this before but pretty much this
/r/seduction18/05/24 05:34 AM
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Give girls more credit. They know being asked to your place, a sexual encounter is being implied.
/r/seduction14/05/24 09:49 PM
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I dig the positivity, but no girl is going to respond to "explanation texts." Just being realistic. If anything, the OP is dodging a bullet since this girl sends way too many mixed signals
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:50 PM
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I can tell you from personal experience; once you are in the phase of an explanation text after a first or second date, it's probably over. For future reference, you're better off resetting the frame and asking her out again rather than being apologetic for something that goes wrong. Girls don't like to be reminded of something awkward that happened during a date. If you really want to salvage, give it a day or 2 and reengage normally. If she doesn't reply to that, it's more than likely done. If…
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:31 AM
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I hate to say it but, being over introspective through text is a no no. Girls see that and instantly hit "block".
/r/seduction01/05/24 12:33 AM
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Sounds like she was giving you all the signals and you blew it. It may seem unfair, but you as the guy have to read her actions as women can't just say "hey jump my bones" because she will be shamed for it. I personally think it's silly we still have to play these games on 2024, but here we are. Take it as a lesson learned.
/r/seduction30/04/24 09:27 PM
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It means being comfortable with "you". So many guys try to do "personas" on a date only to fizzle out. Essentially be yourself, but make yourself more interesting too.
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:37 PM
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Maybe it's me but it sounds like a classic shit test. She pushed to see if you were committed to the approach. I would 100% approach again and close, but it's hard to match up with girls you don't close on again. I guess you will soon find out.
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:53 PM
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I'm thinking that was a shit test, you should have went for the close. Edit: who tf is downboating?
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:38 PM
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Another thing: his reply implied that she was "too pretty" to be on the app and she was out of his league. That's an almost impossible frame to come back from.
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:55 AM
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Probably obvious, but you asked a negative question. That will kill the conversation almost instantly if you don't have a good follow up.
/r/seduction23/04/24 09:16 PM
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Re engage with normal follow up, if she doesn't reply, move on. I would not block her since life happens but chasing at that point makes you look low value.
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:52 PM
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As with everything, it depends on the girl. Some girls lose interest instantly if they detect bad game or she sends a strong signal and you don't pick up on it.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:28 AM
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I say focus a physical hobby like strength training and something personal and spiritual like meditation. Experiment with dedicating a day to both and doing both in one day to see what works best for you. I'm going to recommend a YouTuber that deep dives in the type of thing you are probably looking for internally (he is smaller, so no I don't get money from this nor do I know him). He focuses specifically on social anxiety but I feel like a lot of his concepts apply to this.
/r/seduction19/04/24 04:48 PM
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You are more than likely coming off as too needy. I would move on focus and on other prospects.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:20 PM
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She married you, so just try to get better in the bedroom, don't try to change everything to be someone else. As the saying goes, if it ain't broke, don't fix it.
/r/seduction10/04/24 05:58 PM
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Not ignore, but ones that don't put them on pedestal? They respect the hell out of that.
/r/seduction09/04/24 12:38 AM
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This is very true. A nice income opens up your options, but it alone will not get you laid. At the end of the day, you still need to keep her interested, engaged to remain someone she wants to hangout with. Those who teach "just get money" are either trying to get you to chase something else while they pursue or they are just flatout delusional.
/r/seduction11/09/23 02:36 AM
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For me it's always been when she looks up and she smiles. From there, you have your open.
/r/seduction17/04/23 03:06 AM
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Women tend to be attracted to extroverted traits more than anything, even girls who are introverted themselves.
/r/seduction02/04/23 11:31 PM
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Interested
/r/RedPillBooks01/03/23 11:15 PM
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Thing is, guys are NOT being taught this stuff by the time they're 20, not by their parents and certainly not other women. If they are lucky, they'll meet a good wing man who will show them the ropes. While women who are anti dating information will say "don't learn this stuff, it's sexiest!" if they encounter a guy they are attracted to that doesn't know how to advance things, she'll lose attraction like a fart in the wind. I don't see anything wrong with learning what the opposite sex wants to…
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:50 PM
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Yes, the whole "don't date and acquire currency" thing is literally a lifetime worth of bad advice. Not even accounting for the fact that is hard to get rich, and broke men get laid all the time, even if you become a millionaire, it doesn't happen overnight. so you'll be some old rich guy who still can't hold a conversation with a woman. No one's saying don't work on success of course, but telling a guy to try to become the perfect man on paper is just setting them up for complete failure
/r/seduction10/10/22 08:52 PM
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Damn, you just brought all the clichés out lol. All I'm saying is that for a lot of men, this type of simplistic dating advice is not going to cut it. You don't want to over complicate things, but you don't want say it's easy either.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:53 PM
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Blowouts are part of the game, if you can't take that, you won't be able to take when a chick throws a "shit test" tossed at you even during a successful pickup. It did not kill you, absorb it and move on as quickly as possible. I recommend intermittent fasting and Keto as quick way to slash weight. And I don't know who you watch as your pickup guy, but I have a guy I found who I think is one of the better ones, PM me if you're interested. Edit: and hopefully my original post was not too harsh. …
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:31 PM
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Exactly. If it were that simple, over 30% of men wouldn't be without any type of romantic relationships. I know people like to simplify things, but guys especially need to be prepared for "no" and value self improvement+ communication skills which I think is easily the most powerful teachings in pickup. Telling a guy whose a neck beard to just "ask a girl out for a bottle of wine" with zero build up honestly does way more harm than good and it's pretty much worthless advice.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:38 PM
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When you step back and "just try to have fun", you have to step back and make improvements. Just like a football player in the off season, of you don't practice and hone your skills, they will visibility get worse. A lot of guys when given this advice will simply step back, do nothing, and sauk for months (and even years of they're not careful) which is where this advice, if not detailed and given correctly, truly misses the mark.
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:23 PM
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Cold approach is no easy task for anyone. Why do you think a shit ton of dating coaches got caught staging a lot of their cold approach? Because 90% of the time, it can go south quick. Also, getting "blown out" as they call it, is part of the game. Your best bet is to try an app like Tinder if you must find someone in your ordeal, and list your height in your bio to flesh out people who might have a problem with it.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:01 PM
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In my experience, it's usually not as pure as "making the guy wait". It's usually she's involved with someone else and feels guilty outright cheating. I would easily wait for the right girl, but randoms on a dating app? Forget about it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:56 PM
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Not the women they should I mean. Edit: No idea why anyone is acting offended. She screwed a teen girl ffs. If it was a guy, they would be saying that he's not worthy of having a wife and rightly so. It's just as disgusting and should be treated the same regardless.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/21 03:36 AM
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Men never leave. I guess women aren't as easy to find as they use to be...
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/21 06:37 PM
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Because society/women ( But also some other men) view men as expendable and less worthy The real irony of this? Men are also a smaller part of the population. So we're the minority too.
/r/MensRights17/07/20 07:36 PM
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Absolutely deplorable. but if she's even mildly attractive, she can just become a twitch/e-thot. There are some betas out there who will these biches rent every month. I just wrote her article better.
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 01:55 AM
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A cam wh0re that doesn't show anything and the mofo is risking being homeless. You can't unteach stupid.
/r/MGTOW25/04/19 01:48 AM
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