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Where's Milo when you need him?
/r/MensRights08/06/18 07:05 PM
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I find that the forum will side with one person and then the other is Adolf Hitler. Only 1% of posts there cut it down the middle and are actually fair about anything. There is a lot of progressive bullshit but most of the time I find they're fairly even handed to who the villain is I'm terms of gender (even when both op and the person they're talking about are being compete tools). Maybe that's just me, still infuriating tho.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 08:37 PM
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Well, the when I say the wage gap, I mean earnings. Side by side, all of men earn more than all of women. Once you control for all those factors, we start to see why and as you say, it's true that another factor to why this is is because women leave to raise children. As Jordan Peterson said (paraphrased by me); "law firms cannot keep women in their 30s. Because women tend to date across or above in the social hierarchy, they already have a partner that is successful so money isn't a problem. Th…
/r/MensRights29/03/18 12:20 AM
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It would be an interesting comparison to put those sports figures against tickets sold/interest or opposing occupations such as modeling or porn.
/r/MensRights29/03/18 12:10 AM
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Personally I'd use google as my primary resource checking articles and research papers. Don't neglect google images! They give you a direct link to where the image came from and can make your life tons easier. Gotta say, I've never tried researching it myself at any great length. Might do it just cos I've got some free time this week.
/r/MensRights29/03/18 12:08 AM
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You know, I never thought of it being a part of toxic femininity. That's an interesting observation.
/r/MensRights29/03/18 12:05 AM
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I would start by saying that the wage gap is indeed real and there's no getting around that. However there are reasons it exists and asking why and trying to figure out a way for equality should be on everyone's agenda. (you can frame this in a very "I'm for equality" kind of way, that you want women to compete on equal footing as men. You can go as far as to say you're a second wave feminist - something that the men in this subreddit probably wouldn't disagree with. You could even say that you …
/r/MensRights26/03/18 03:37 PM
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That was a really interesting read, ty bro. The statutory rapes are specifically collected ones which were "consensual" and they were only rapes because the law specifices they cannot cosnent. Didn't know that, that definitely adds some of the variables I was looking for, thanks. After doing a little digging, I found that there are actually multiple research papers done on the gender disparities in sentencing. In answer to my original question, the reason being "men" seems a bit more likely.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 11:01 PM
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I was just using the wage gap as an example of why you can't control for a single variable. The gap is just too large, this doesn't appear to include charges with aggravating circumstances, making the crimes significantly more serious. I'm not asking you directly for the data, but I would love to see these results controlled by type/severity of crime. You imply that the lack of those two particular controls is a problem and I agree that it is. A 2:1 ratio is just too high for this to be controll…
/r/MensRights03/03/18 02:03 PM
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Okay, I gotta ask some questions; by this graph, male perpetrators of a crime against a teen (average age 15 and 1/3) get almost double the sentence. A fair argument against the wage gap is that no-one controls for a single variable (in that case, gender), and it's fair to ask why women get paid less. So, using gender for a single control for these results doesn't tell me enough. Why do men have nearly double the sentence for these crimes? If supporters of the wage gap can't get away with saying…
/r/MensRights03/03/18 12:31 AM
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This is horrendous advice and the worst thing you could possibly do. It's combative, undiplomatic, nonconstructive and down right stupid. She wants to be listened to. She is using indirect language. This isn't about logic, it's about feelings. If OP approaches her feelings with logic, it's going to cause irreparable damage to the relationship. Doing what you suggest serves no purpose other than to prove her wrong in what she's saying. It's undiplomatic and the subtext is "you don't matter to me.…
/r/MensRights13/10/17 02:47 PM
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I agree with everything you've said here but there's a caveat to that. The way men want to be unconditionally loved - that love does exist and it does come from a women. However, it doesn't come from a wife, girlfriend or lover. It comes from a mother. We're trained from day 1 as children by our mothers that this is what love is. Your mother does love you unconditionally as you represent her legacy - her DNA. With the finest example of love under our belt, we see women with this grand design in …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:37 AM
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Worthy reminder that I stole this post off of a AskMen post, it isn't my work. I'm glad that my eye for detail and useful information is appreciated however, I'll keep posting.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:27 AM
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Sums it all up quite nicely. If you don't look at women in relationships (as in, relating to their partner) as autonomous responsible adults and more as someone with an infantile-like mentality that needs to be lead and looked after, it all makes much more sense.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:24 AM
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I don't know why it was so alien to me but when I understood, it started to make sense. Women are just as sexual as guys and are into it just as much - they just have to hide it because doing work for charity makes you a slut.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:21 AM
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Does she often say sexist things that are condescending and patronising about women?
/r/MensRights16/07/17 02:19 PM
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32 Resonated strongly with me. You’re not allowed to express any emotion besides happiness or contentment People want to know what's going on in your head but what they really want is to help and when they realise they can't help, their self-involved interest goes away, your feelings become a burden and they lose interest. This inability is not unique to men or women; it's like general emotional dexterity is a rare trait. People don't know how to say "that sucks" and to be empathic. This is one …
/r/MensRights22/05/17 07:53 PM
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I think your idea of TRP is somewhat 2 dimensional. It might be a means to an end for you - sexual success, but there's much more to self improvement and TRP than just that. If you're here to use it to get laid, more power to you but redpill ideas, can be stretched and morphed into something that gives you meaning. Being more assertive, having a wide variety of friends, making money, experiencing things, building a body and mind that are both sharp and capable of being a vehicle for meaning and …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:09 PM
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They cut all their hair off, dye it pink and claim their fat bodies are beautiful and should be accepted. Hyperbole, right? Maybe a little. Not 100% sure what you're referring to.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 02:53 PM
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(I replied to the above commenter but thought you might find it interesting) TL:DR in bold. At first I was ready to downvote but then thought about it this. This is like the inconsistency that Owen Cook from real social dynamics comes up against. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFebWgqUtRY (Happens within the first 5 mins) He talks to pretty women at the club who complain about "all guys are cheaters" and he say's they're not because she's just getting a skewed sample - that most guys won't chea…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 12:56 PM
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TL:DR in bold. At first I was ready to downvote but then thought about it this. This is like the inconsistency that Owen Cook from real social dynamics comes up against. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFebWgqUtRY (Happens within the first 5 mins) He talks to pretty women at the club who complain about "all guys are cheaters" and he say's they're not because she's just getting a skewed sample - that most guys won't cheat on her. She disagrees and he asks about those "disgusting" guys online that…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 12:53 PM
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Don't mistake where this anger comes from. It comes from realising you've been taken advantage of. That something has been taken from you without payment. That you've realised that you've had this contract in your head the entire time that if you treat people one way, they MUST treat you that way. You've realised that you're worth something and YOU decide what the price is. What I'm trying to say here is freely learn to use the word no. It comes hand in hand with indifference. I.e, instead of gi…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 11:41 PM
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Ah, ye olde glass of wine problem. This is how I discuss the RP topic with friends. How many glasses of wine (men) does she have to drink (fuck) to become an alcoholic (slut)? The answer isn't a number. The answer is: She was drinking (sleeping with tons of men) to fill that dark void inside herself. It nurtured her. It made her feel warm, wanted, complete and validated. This was something she chose to do and took pride in the fact that her choices were indeed her choices. Her adult choices. Tak…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 12:31 AM
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Sometimes I like to paint myself yellow and pretend I'm a banana.
/r/MensRights24/08/16 01:02 AM
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There's only 4 aces in the deck, motherfucker. Play the hand you were dealt. Makes me wonder, if my life was a Texas Hold 'em poker hand, what it would be. British, 6' tall, white, male, BMI of 24. Emergent middle class, above 100 IQ, have disposable income. Own & play musical instruments and expensive gadgets/toys. Have a university degree and have 20/20 vision. Presentable but won't count income for genetics in this case (degree counts because educated). I'd rate myself as perhaps pocket Jacks…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 12:34 AM
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Just so you guys know, if you're name isn't Project_Thor, 666mafioso or DoubleTappp and you've commented here, you might want to check if you're shadowbanned.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 08:07 PM
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I found it on kickasstorrents under audiobooks.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:47 PM
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If you haven't already, HIGHLY recommend The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. You can get it on audiobook.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:07 PM
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Listen to Archwinger, he know's what he's talking about. It might come across as quite abrasive, cold and dismissive but there's no easy way to say that it's over. Do you want to be second best to this other guy she's messaging? The obvious answer is no. There are plenty of girls who will give you the respect you want in a relationship. It's a hard lesson to learn; you will be lonely when you don't depend on other people to take care of your emotional needs. However, what it DOES do is drive you…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 08:01 PM
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I don't know if it's refreshing to see another Brit give testament, or if it's depressing. TRP tends to be (from what I've seen) dominated by Americans (no problem with that). Of course it gives a bit of false hope to the uninitiated that women from different cultural backgrounds are different. I suppose a lesson here is the nature of people is universal as far as mating strategy goes, but we all knew that anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:08 PM
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TRP uses the bell curve of men and women to form it's theories and conclusions. Most men are unassertive nice guys who don't understand the unwritten rules of social interaction. Most people will gravitate to what makes them feel good even if it has long term consequences. This explains the "slut". TRP is not for men who are successful. As /u/archwinger put it in one of his posts, "We're here for the losers." I think some of the most valuable piece of information TRP has taught me since I've bee…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:30 PM
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He specialises in helping people recover from narcissistic PD abuse. He's very smart and what he talks about is pretty relatable to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:37 PM
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A few things; Depression starts with bad feelings. This is a reaction to the environment you are currently in; I don't have enough money, I'm a burden on (whoever supports me), I cannot fulfill my current task (job, study, relationship) and I see no way out, I do not know how to escape and in 5 years time, things will possibly be the same as they are today. Then, rot sets in. Those bad feelings you feel on a daily basis become normal. You remain in the environment that's causing it and you becom…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 01:06 PM
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It's worth noting that this is an atypical account of someone's life. I know a fair amount about bi-polar and borderline and this sounds more like the latter (although the two cross over). The take away from that is she is clinically speaking, insane. Perhaps should could be helped but this is not every woman or every womans motives "under a magnifying glass". I think it's still a good study because you can learn what someone is like if they're nuts as opposed to normal.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:44 PM
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I think everyone should have their hearts broken at least once. It will wipe the naivety right out of you.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:40 PM
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lol wtf. I read the letter & response and I'm baffled. These women are looking to solutions to problems that don't exist. He wants to get in shape? Fucking good for him. He's found a focus. 90% of this is whining. Just complaining. Is she annoyed that she has to do more work? Perhaps she could mention that to him and definately not take the advice from this nova-feminine woman mewing about objectification and 1950's housewives. Her advice boils down to; My suggestion would be to stop with the dr…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 12:43 PM
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You know, as fucked up as this sounds, I think it would work and could potentially be a good idea. (Fucked up because un-PC, not cos I'm the moral think police lol). Women look for affirmation from the men around them, even in their echo boxes that are their friendship group - insert 1 alpha like guy with a "matter of fact" based opinion and it all comes crashing down. I think the reason saying "men are better than women at basically everything" is so offensive to "ma feelz" is because it's kick…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:35 PM
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There's a lot of cold-blooded things on TRP that I agree with. Killing nievity bring at the top of the list. Treating people (women) like adults a close second. There's a lot I disagree with such as finding dark triad traits desirable. I'm not saying you shouldn't hate her, or you're not allowed to be angry, I'm saying you should seek to understand her motives, objectively, even if that means knowing you fell short in some ways. If you make moves in anger then you are making yourself your own en…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:35 AM
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Not a perfect analogy but I like it. You said you didn't have the finances! "But darling, the government has a scheme set aside just for this kind of situation! I mean, I signed your name on the contract so your'll be paying for most of it, but that's okay by me. For me, I just want this car and the government consider it a valid lifestyle to be a car owner, driving around instead of having a 9 to 5 job like everyone else. Look! Here in the contract it says they will pay me if I choose to be a f…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:14 PM
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I got really drunk last night and tried to explain AF BB to my friends girlfriend. She's the most sweet, decent young lady I've had the white male privilege to meet. My point to it was actually to do with her birth control as I remember reading somewhere that once women go off the pill, their preferences for men change and because of the hormone upset, they are no longer attracted to the guy. Although you could be being massively racist and she is so agreeable she wouldn't say anything, she reco…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:04 PM
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This made me feel ill. Women condemn men for "underhanded" or "manipulative" tactics in game when we want a woman who's slightly neurotic - one that needs you and relies on you to fit her emotional needs, the kind that will get slightly jealous but fail to realise that having something to lose instills a sense of loyalty. They don't have anything to lose because beta chumps will give it to them free of charge for nothing more than a wink and a smile.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:14 PM
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Interesting upload. Especially interesting from the BBC's pov about how the intrenchment has changed the view of the interviewer. Little bit of a mixup for the uninformed, MGTOW, Redpill (TRP) and MRA are 3 branches of a family, with 3 different core philosophies to do with championing men. All 3 overlap, all 3 are slightly different. MGTOW overlaps with TRP ideas of cutting out your own path and worrying about women later - in some extremes disconnecting from society altogether. No marriage her…
/r/MensRights19/03/16 03:58 AM
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Social skills come heavily into play when dealing with women. Of course, they also fold over into a normal social existence. You are not there to take care of anyone's emotional needs. That's a boyfriend's/mothers' job. Don't be overly concerned. No one is there to take care of your emotional needs. Talking about how shit you're day has been is needy. If someone wants to spend time with you, they will - they won't give excuses like they aren't "feeling well" or are "tired." Create opportunities …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 06:54 PM
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Do you know what's more important than lying as many have suggested here? Authenticity. I'm not suggesting being truthful in every part of life or lying at the aforementioned event to save face (although if I discovered that lie, I would've understood and kept that secret to myself) because "playing the social game" is about what you don't reveal about yourself waaay more than what you do. Part of being authentic is owning your shit and taking responsibility for it. Pick whatever way you want to…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 09:42 PM
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Women love attention & love to flirt. Your job is to escalate where necessary. If she shuts you down, she likes the idea of you and all the attention and validation you give - she doesn't actually like you.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:52 PM
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It might seem like a negative because it feels horrible but all of this is a good thing. In killing your nievity, you are becoming a man. Men do not live in a fantasy world of best case scenarios, they are aware of the dangers and the implication of what is unsaid just as much as the overt message. Every boy needs to have his heart broken in order to become a man and learn the true nature of people. I didn't say women deliberately here because weak men, the neurotic ones, you think of as your fr…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:50 PM
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This is something I learned the hard way. When you improve, people will hate you. When you get a prettier girlfriend or a raise at work, they will hate you. When you succeed, you give off the covert message that you are better than them. All you can do is be consistent in being a decent human being - spending your time with people who mean something to you because they will appreciate that vulnerability and respond in kind. That's how true friends are gathered - ones who are secure enough in the…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:43 PM
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This is one of the glaring red flags no-one really notices because they're caught up in the "magic" of the moment. The whole "my past doesn't matter, he meant nothing to me", Yet they still get pissed off if he doesn't call the next day. Why? Because they were invested. They did want more and can't take the rejection. It's childish on every level. I would have a fair amount of respect for girls like this if instead of saying "it was a one time thing, my past doesn't matter!" they just said; "All…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:50 PM
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FYI she did it to piss him off, not because she wanted advice.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:09 PM
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I'm a firm believer in preventative medicine and think we gotta educate guys to soul sucking harpies. Sorry for the stream of questions but I gotta ask; Was there a turning point from her? Outside of plausible deniability, did you actually do anything wrong/worthy of her resentment? Were you guys ever actually happy together?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:13 AM
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I'm a firm believer in preventative medicine and think we gotta educate guys to soul sucking harpies. Sorry for the stream of questions but I gotta ask; Was there a turning point from her? Outside of plausible deniability, did you actually do anything wrong/worthy of her resentment? Were you guys ever actually happy together?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:10 AM
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I'm a firm believer in preventative medicine and think we gotta educate guys to soul sucking harpies. Sorry for the stream of questions but I gotta ask; Was there a turning point from her? Outside of plausible deniability, did you actually do anything wrong/worthy of her resentment? Were you guys ever actually happy together?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:08 AM
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I'm a firm believer in preventative medicine and think we gotta educate guys to soul sucking harpies. Sorry for the stream of questions but I gotta ask; Was there a turning point from her? Outside of plausible deniability, did you actually do anything wrong/worthy of her resentment? Were you guys ever actually happy together?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:07 AM
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I'm a firm believer in preventative medicine and think we gotta educate guys to soul sucking harpies. Sorry for the stream of questions but I gotta ask; Was there a turning point from you mother? Outside of plausible deniability, did your dad actually do anything wrong/worthy of her resentment? Do you know if they were ever actually happy together?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:06 AM
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Lol this is dumb. Perhaps be a little more cunning and do the whole social skills 101 thing and tell her what she wants to hear: "Oh! You're lovely but I have a girlfriend". You're on TRP and know how dangerous women can be but still try to claim the moral high ground. You've got to be more tactful and calculating. If you did lose your job, what good would it do? That it's just solidified in your mind even further what women are like? This is TRP, we know. And if you did lose your job, you would…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 01:26 PM
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That video would be funny if it wasn't so tragic. 26 minutes of Grossman complaining.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:26 PM
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Would love to know you you solved these problems, Archwinger.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:15 AM
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Law 35? Any man caught sniffing the bicycle seat in the woman's gym will be discharged without trial. Hmm. It's an important law but I'm not sure how it applies to Milo.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 09:40 PM
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I've discovered that a lot of the hate, bitterness and anger I see on here is mostly projected. They don't hate women, they hate themselves and are pissed that they've been lied to and that the world is unfair. Most people (esp the woman) who stumble across the sub don't have any context to be able to draw this truth as a conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 01:19 PM
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I feel you brother. The big theme that's been enveloping my life of late is "take action". What brings me to anger for the most part is the energy I have to expend on a daily basis just to be a decent human being (a man) is beyond hard. It's organisation, discipline, endurance. Some days I can't do it and the world gets on top of me. Some days I can sit down and be okay. It's a constant uphill, daunting battle. So, what I've learned is it doesn't matter what you do so long as it's something. Tak…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:35 PM
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Not sure how to fix this besides just not being around a girl for lengths of time. TL:DR in bold. Good post. My take on this... I feel this has a lot more to do with the girl than it does with yourself. I'm all for long term relationships. Fuck spinning plates. A lot of women have become consumers in a relationship. They move from tinder date to okcupid date to simply consume; be it the free meal, your interesting personality or your money. Sometimes they pay for it with sex. So, we've come to t…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:43 PM
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This is a tough one and in a strange way, you heard something she didn't say, too. Let's try to decode some stuff here... You're just going to leave me down here? Translation (what you heard): Are you not going to give me attention? I don't know what to do with myself right now! I need orders! So your response was... I'm not your boss (you are, actually). I don't care about you. What she actually said (subtext): Do I captivate you? Do you desire me? Am I important? So, when she asks the next day…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 04:40 PM
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TRP drew me back from a horrible depression. When I discovered it, I was somewhat lost. "I feel like I'm a boat drifting in an ocean" I said "I have no idea where to turn, where to go or what to do. And no-one is helping me". TRP gave me sign posts & a direction. It said to me; "You're on your own. They will not help because they don't know how. They're too busy with their own stuff to care. Even your friends don't know how to listen. Here's your first sign post: buy clothes that fit. The second…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 11:47 PM
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We're dealing with guys who are in pain and so I have time for their derogatory comments, bad language and shitty attitudes. Even the downright woman hating because I, fundamentally, believe it to be misplaced, projected hatred. These guys don't hate women, they're just lack introspection to see the that they are the ones who caused it and they are the only ones who can fix it. They hate themselves and don't even know it. I feel TRP's logic is sound however. Would your wife find you less attract…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 11:34 PM
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I think this story is a fair shout for an exception to the sweeping generalisation. Yes, TRP says don't get married but I could show you happy functional marriages alongside failed ones. My problem is that TRP is geared toward getting laid, not having relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 10:06 PM
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Well, shit test is a tactic that is done inadvertently. She actually shit tests me a lot but would never be aware she was doing it. She wasn't asking because I'd found out "the secret", I mean, it's not proven science or anything. She was asking because it was an interesting thing to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:48 PM
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Big fan of Bob green and the 48 laws of power. Be careful of even recommending that book to people too, they see "leadership" as one man on top of a pyramid dictating to others what to do as opposed to what leadership actually is - being willing to take responsibility for others.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 01:13 PM
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Had to stop myself short of giving an explanation to a girl recently. after I explained what a shit test was, she demanded to know how I knew that. At that point I remember; pick up artistry is a nuance point, the whole American "self help culture" on how to be attractive is a nuance point. Even to men, they simply don't live in a reality where it's true and you look like a tool for talking about it. They sit down and believe what they are told about the world completely naive to the fact they'v…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 11:24 AM
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Dread game 101. Good write up Archwinger.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 04:58 PM
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Pretty ugly shit test by using plausible deniability to strengthen it. You can't say anything because if you do, you look like a controlling dick. The counter is simple and standard: agree and amplify by talking about your ex. Although, I foresee a more insidious approach from her if she's doing it deliberately, that is, it never stops and she continues because it's irritating and she knows it. In this case, like Archwinger said, it's simply a matter of respect and the only thing that will win t…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 09:29 PM
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Reminds me of a story from my first real girlfriend. The long story short was, she used to constantly give me friction about sex. Sex happened sometimes and I remember the anxiety frequently about trying to go for it because it would be a semi-aggressive shutdown from her. Looking back, it really did feel more like a "shit-test power play" than something your girlfriend does because she's into you. I mean that, if I pushed it a little, she would've given in. Of course you can put this down to a …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:27 PM
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Good story, well written. I like the way you acted like an adult and in doing so was calling him out on his bullshit and when he realised it, it humbled him in the kindest way and gave him a reality check.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:17 PM
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No body came because he's a dick most likely.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:14 PM
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I like this post very much but think it needs to be brought down to earth a little because in a social setting, how likely is it that someone is going to outright try to destroy you like this? Something I've discovered is someone is much more likely going to try and slowly erode your self worth with bullying behaviour and passive aggressive insults, looking for a rise from you whilst playing the victim card. (There's an underhanded social tactic called the bait-and-switch where they ask somethin…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:13 PM
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I think it's quite shocking for a normal person to realise that 95% of people are generaly shit and lack self reflection. As someone else said, hypergamy just is. If it shocks you that shitty people do shitty things then you need to take your naivety into a dark corner and beat on it some more. Working in retail will probably help kill it, too.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:39 PM
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I liked her talk but it stopped short of the very simple adult message: You have a responsibility to your husband. When he's asking you if you want to have sex, it's not really a question. It's a statement that you are failing your husband and the partnership by turning him down. This is not about you, it's about that partnership. Women cannot be expected to understand the sacrifice men make in the time we spend at work or personal time with them. That cannot understand the strength involved in …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:16 PM
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Julien was always a dick. He was a mediocre teacher at RSD who never gave a fuck about anything other than himself. If this apology sounds even the tiniest bit sincere, it's because he's been told to act that way by his PR guy. That being said, he didn't deserve all the hate that was thrown at him and definitely didn't deserve to be kicked out of or banned from entering any countries purely because he hadn't and hasn't been convicted of committing any crime - other than perhaps being politically…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:49 PM
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A healthy dose of dread game goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:56 PM
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This is a good opportunity to do the whole introspective thing and recognise your nativity to your own nature in this context. A practical take away by recognising the mistakes you made and learning what you could do differently. This is TRP alternative way of thinking - what did you do wrong? I remember talking to a friend after a breakup where she was moved in with a guy (who had a kid from another woman) and I asked her: Now that the relationships over, have you thought about what you've lear…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 11:16 PM
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Everything people say or do has a meaning and a reason behind it, even if it's subconscious. Why would she mention anything about her pants? Why bring her sexuality into the conversation at all? Why would she pre-emptively try to disqualify him to you? I bet you never even asked her, right? Did she just came out with it? Rhetorical questions of course.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:47 PM
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What I'm describing is basically a high-value guy who has his life together. That's 50% of dread game. It's next to impossible to fake being high value, and dread game is something you do to a girl who's interested in you AFTER you have sorted out your basic needs as a man. The other 50% is game that is fine tuned to subtlety give the aforementioned message to her. So, you shouldn't focus on dread game as much as you should sort your life out. Some important things that I would personally priori…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:42 PM
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Good question. Dread game is giving your girl (that you're either sleeping with, dating or exclusive with/married to) the impression that you are valuable and a wanted resource by other women. The desired effect is that she will want to please you to keep you. Did you know that (scientifically) blowjobs are a mate retention tactic? You give this impression by simply being attractive, taking care of yourself and being valued by other women. You lift, you're in shape, funny, interesting, can cook,…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:56 PM
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Fair comment. I was thinking more from the position that now, 5 years on, I would be left with a fun memory. One thing I learned from (PUA) Zan Perrion is: "Pursue actions that will give the best experience and memories. It'a all you will have in the end." The girl I'm talking about cheated on her BF repeatedly back then. They're now engaged to me married. I didn't fuck her out of some misplaced desire that I was "doing the right thing" and "being honourable", for all it matters now (spoilers, i…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:48 PM
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Dude, fuck r/relationships. People do whatever pulls them toward pleasure or whatever need isn't being met. There is always cause and effect. Why else would these hoes still "just be friends" with their ex's out of anything other than keeping some sort of backup?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:33 PM
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I wish that wasn't true. I always thought this was down to needs not being met - after all if her BF was tall, fun, smart with great boundaries and a healthy dose of dread game like Chad, she wouldn't stray. Women who shut down desirable male attention that makes them feel like a goddess don't exist, sadly.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:30 PM
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That definitely satisfies the masculine desire to be honourable. In reality I look back at the girls who threw themselves at me when they had a boyfriend and regret not having fun with them because their relationship wasn't my responsibility. If it's not you, it will be another guy. You can't turn a whore into a housewife.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:29 PM
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Some of the replies on this post are disgusting. People are flat out telling her to lie and how what might matter to Barry simply isn't his business. There are quite a few sane replies on there about her dishonesty and how she should tell him, especially as she knows it will matter to him, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:28 PM
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I'll definitely agree that this is my problem, perhaps THE problem. I don't feel that I think of of sex as a power game, more something you do when you care enough about someone. I know it's quite sensitive, maybe overly, so it's good to identify that. Any tips in how to sever my idea of caring about what someone things like this?
/r/askTRP01/08/15 04:13 PM
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I know this isn't exactly RP, but I don't want to use someone or be used by them. The former being kind of a big deal for me as my first ex started an eating disorder and starting self harming after I broke up with her. Was pretty fucked up. I'll admit though that one reason I don't really feel that drive is because I have my sexual drive on lockdown with porn or my vivid imagination. I imagine if I do stop, it will pull my sex drive through the roof which might help.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 08:26 PM
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Will report back with results.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 07:39 PM
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TRP tends to lean toward the idea that men are wired to be leaders whereas women are great at supporting. Not that women can't or shouldn't lead, that men are better at it. Not to put words in your mouth but do you feel this is saying that women are inferior as opposed to different?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:53 PM
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I definitely think TRP is an American dominated philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:31 PM
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In a lot of these replies, the common theme seems to be dishonesty. She blew him before they got married and now she doesn't. It's like she misrepresented what she was about to trap him and now he can't get away she doesn't have to do something she hates. She was being dishonest through her actions. Of course that raises another question about previous partners and the common problem that comes up - If she says, even prenuptial, that she "doesn't do blowjobs" but he somehow finds out she loved d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:34 PM
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I find it interesting that in these replies, the door swings both ways. So, credit where credit is due: Where TRP teaches it's a great idea to get girls and have sex with as many as you like/as possible, they have a problem with a womans partner count because of the potential for dishonesty. I.e, saying she's had 10 men when she's had 20. Now, isn't it a certain kind of guy that just sleeps with a bunch of women instead of committing to one? I'm not saying any of these things are good or bad - t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:29 PM
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A number of the replies here point toward dishonesty being more of a problem than the past itself. I always thought that someone could suck 100 dicks and still be a decent person/girlfriend and you raise the bigger point here about the misrepresentation of who they truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:25 PM
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Just a comment to say I like your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 01:22 PM
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Thanks. Questions, tho. What's so special about marriage that it's worth waiting for for you? Is there a world where you would sleep with a guy because you were comfortable? i.e you loved him and were in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:51 AM
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I understand all on hypothetical levels. Great! Then you should answer it. Do you ask about the parner count?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:40 AM
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What you write is reasoning that I've seen before and agree with. Do you you ask about the partner count? Why? Why not? In all honesty, do you feel there might be an insecurity there for yourself about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:34 AM
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Just to be clear, you're saving yourself till marriage because you feel promiscuous women are gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:32 AM
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except the rules men break land them in jail while the rules women break land them in pro female divorce and custody courts. Agree. Isn't it interesting that a womans primary weapon - covert psychological assault is "understandable" because "she's hormonal" as opposed to the overt male agression "me angry. Me smash" is like swearing - directly damaging and therefore unacceptable in our society.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:59 PM
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Too right. When the entirety of it was added to netflix, I was looking forward to some nostalgia. Now all I get is a childish lack of integrity from 6 tools that are supposed to be the same age as me. People give me funny looks when I say "no-one can possibly be living their lives like this..."
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:54 AM
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Now that, is more than perfect in what I was looking for from this thread. Of course "biological imperative" won't stop them calling you a hypocrite (not that I am).
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:03 AM
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I'm still trying to figure out why it is I find a woman having previous sexual partners so repulsive. Even with TRP's philosophy of "accept her as a slut" it still doesn't sit right with any guy I know that a girl will have fucked like 10 guys.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 10:59 AM
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What I like to do at parties is toss a psychological grenade or two. Makes for a fun evening: (Ask with sincere interest to pretty girls and or to/in front of their boyfriends...) Why do you think women go for bad boys? Who should pay on the first date? What's more important in the guys you go for - looks or money? Do you have a "list" of celebrities that you're allowed to sleep with? Who's on it? So, if they were here RIGHT now, genuinely, you would sleep with them if you could? When do you thi…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 06:09 PM
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Enjoyed the write up, good post matey.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:35 PM
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I agree you cannot fix broken, neither should you try and that you should be empathic but pragmatic. If she cannot come back on her own, you have a duty to your own wellbeing. I say that because the way you write it feels like: "A happened, therefore B" which is not always the case.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:43 PM
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Whilst there might be a small element of AWALT here, AWALT refers to a womans hard wired nature to trade up. Although women have child-like reasoning skills, they are not socially retarded enough to just forgo an resource analysis of a situation and cheat for no good god damn reason. What does that mean? AWALT =/= all women are cheaters. The big element here is her damage, which is far greater than the influence of AWALT. This woman suffered serious PTSD and it fucked up her head. Then her thera…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:39 PM
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What TRP hates is the dishonest, manipulative "under the radar" mentality of women. It's not really their fault. I mean, if you got everything you needed covertly by subtly probing someone who provided a precious resource with sexualised plausible deniability, it would fuck you up too. This is not written in defense of women, but to understand why these people are the way they are. It all revolves around one simple principal: Women are weak. They are weak emotionally and physically. They HAVE to…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 12:43 PM
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I don't think it's a secret that feminism is widely regarded as a bit of a joke. What people don't understand is that "equality" means "the same". This symbol: "=" means the same. Men and women will never be equal because we are not the same and will never be the same and that's a good thing. The sentence "equal but different" doesn't make any sense and is a contradiction.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 12:36 PM
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You're totally right and that's a really interesting observation. At any point this interaction could end if she just said "Yeah, I did cross the line a little didn't I? Sorry man, I didn't mean to do that." She shows him no respect so he shows her none. I like Rogan a lot - especially as with stuff like this his manor is very "matter of fact". There are no random insults, just truth of how he sees it. Always maintain the moral high ground.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:05 AM
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I like this one. TL:DR: "Douchebags" like Tyler show you how low you are on the social totem pole, that's why you hate them. I used to find Tyler really irritating and obnoxious until I realised the reason I did was because I couldn't generate that amount of energy or be that successful with women. Now I see a guy who see's what he wants and has the guts to reach for it. I like him. You know the classic douchebag, standing in the corner of the pub, looking for his next victim? This guy is an ars…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:01 AM
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I think this is actually 2 fold. I agree that it's a tactic to keep you as hers because if you get in shape other girls with desire you but I think it's not a conscious thing. She will always like muscle tone regardless. So, I think that she believes what she's saying. Shit tests are subconscious, remember. She wants you to accept yourself for "who you are" like she does. She picked you (beta guy) because that was the option that suited her needs at THAT TIME. Ever wonder why women don't really …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:04 PM
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Is that the final boss from doom? The icon of sin?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:55 AM
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I'm out.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 12:04 AM
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If anything this says to me the way she (and many women) approach sex is corrupted. You want a girl whos wild and unrestricted but the reason she's wild and unrestricted is because she doesn't value sex very highly as an act. Doesn't surprise me when she goes and does it with the nearest fucktoy because her primary guy isn't around. Makes her a whore through and through and it's a good thing you found out at 5 months before things became more serious. I like your pragmatic nature as you detailed…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:46 PM
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Reminder because you effectively said glasses = bad. You can pull anything off if you have enough confidence or if you just own it. If you can't do something properly, don't do it at all. Can't grow a proper beard? Try designer stubble instead. Can't goatee properly? Trim that shit right down. 50% of being attractive for guys is just standing up straight (good posture). Have conviction in what you say. Use "I" statements instead of vague "we" or "you" statements. "It's something you usually do, …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:34 PM
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I have actually. I'm can handle my emotions although I'll agree that you meet a lot of stupid people.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:53 PM
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Replace "love" with "need". I'm referring to her needing you and the satisfying masculine vibe that her need brings.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:36 AM
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Not going to argue with that. I replace "love" with "need" and everything seems to make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:32 AM
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One question for MGTOW's - where are you going to go to get away from women? Have you become so jaded and cynical that there is no solution but to run and blame everyone else for their "destructive" natural desires? Replace that fear with curiosity, destroy your naivety and replace it with responsibility. Disregarding the flawed idea of love; why do you see it as bad to deny your biological desires? Love is not a biological desire, it's some shit disney invented. I desire to hit my customers I w…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:29 AM
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Isn't it funny that a man's identity can revolve so heavily around the existence of women? No matter how much you run, hide and repress your want and love for them, they are a constant source of beauty and frustration. Frustrating because they're beautiful and beautiful because of the feeling of completeness and masculine content they bring. Also partly why I find MGTOW ridiculous - to deny yourself the love of a good woman is denying your own biological desires.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 06:49 PM
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I thought it was going to go a completely different way when he was lead back to the blonde girls hotel room. I thought he was going to spend his life with one girl then go back and spend it with the other and learn that it didn't make a damn difference who he spent his time with, he would've been just as happy. My problem with the film is that you could remove the time travel mechanic and have the exact same film. Need to watch 500 days of summer again.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 12:07 PM
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Valid point of moderation I feel. I do mention that eventually you will not need emotional support (I refer to therapists or counsellors, but fail to clarify that it's in extreme cases.) With that being said, if someone is suffering from depression for example, that's a very different reality to someone just letting off steam and getting their head straight by talking to their mother. My point is that some sort of emotional support in your life is a good and healthy thing, and of course that sup…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:34 AM
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Change is painful and everyday life is an uphill struggle for some. Acknowledging that you need to retreat or talk about things that are bothering you is a strength. Not to burden your woman with your worries but learning how to express them appropriately is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:28 AM
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That was a good read. Pleased to hear you're making progress.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:23 AM
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I think it's because they're taking his feelings - which he's brought to them in sincerity for help - and thrown them out the window. They don't care, they just see him as repulsive.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:29 PM
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Gotta agree with that. He's not flexing his muscles with pride here, he's trying to convince himself that he's right.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:36 AM
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Jesus Christ all these responses make me feel ill. I think of it this way - no woman just cheats out of no-where. There are tell-tell signs being thrown up all over the place but the guys are far too needy and absorbed in their own little worlds to realise it. My point is that there are warning signs before this shit happens. Most of those bullets can be dodged by having self respect and not letting people be rude to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:07 PM
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The short answer is you are injecting a nuance point that most will not accept because it differs from their reality and therefore are hostile to it. The long answer is your thinking is soo different that it challenges people's little perceptions of reality. They want to be told what to do and think and now you're saying that you don't want to live like them because you don't agree with it, it's indirectly saying "you're wrong. The way you're living your life is wrong. The way you think and feel…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 12:24 AM
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You're absolutely right. It's not that society has lied to us when we're told "it's what's on the inside that matters", it's just that it's taken in the wrong context. A brilliant body, or a skill that has produced fruit from labor, refined over years, is a visual representation of what's on the inside. So, in a way it is what's inside that matters, just not in the motherly "unconditional" feminine verson of "even fat people need to be excepted" way.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 11:01 PM
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Gotta agree with this. The key is to be non-judgemental and a big part of being non-judgemental is not caring about her sexual past - aka, not asking. whether or not it's safe to go without a condom. Spoilers - it never is.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 01:34 PM
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It's a fine line. On one hand I don't want to know any of her history but on the other I want her to swallow for me. Here's something to take into account: Everyone lies. The only reason she would lie is to get her own way because she's corrupted and is telling you a half truth because you're not Chad to her. You just aren't that hot to her. I guess a solution is be with a girl who thinks of you as a man as opposed to her Beta-bucks. How would you know if she sees you as a Chad? She does stuff f…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 01:32 PM
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The bot keeps deleting the link. Seach for the "Poker with Black Widows" field report.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:37 AM
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There was a post a while ago about a guy who was spinning 4 plates and met an ice queen. She was an 8 and he considered this good sport. So, he saw her a few times. Her rules were that she will not sleep with anyone unless she is the only person they're sleeping with - but she can sleep with who she wants. A double standard? Who gives a shit. If she can pull it off, more power to her. So, over dinner this guy asks her; "why should I give up 4 (plates) for you when you won't even put out?" He's p…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:27 AM
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You think the game is rigged in their favour until you learn to play it. Attraction is non-negotiable. If you're an attractive guy, simply talking to other women (soft dread game) will work a treat. So, become attractive. Learn how to be interesting (have opinions), always hold frame, always hold the moral high ground and HAVE FUN. Learn how to self-generate fun, which I'll admit is not easy. Women need a man to appreciate them and desire them. This is our part of the game. Being desirable is a …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:18 AM
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One reason she might like you and "put herself in your way" is because needs are not being fulfilled elsewhere so she can see you fulfilling them. Perhaps it's a case with this woman better the devil you know than the devil you don't. She feels in control and doesn't have to take ownership of the homeless guys shitty emotions.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 01:19 PM
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Happy? Getting there. I've discovered more what I'm about as a person, what I find gratifying, interesting, desireable and so on. Happiness is not really what I'm looking for I feel, but more of a sense of identity that precedes peace. It sound pretentious, but to me being happy I associate with being content in not knowing and having no desire to know - about everything but for the most part, about myself. For me to be at peace, I have to know all those things about myself in paragraph 1. To kn…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:07 AM
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Men say "women can get sex so easily!" as if that's what women want. There's a reason you have relationship value and she has sex value. The problem is when people assume that everyone wants what they do. People are different and want different things. There was a post on the front page about how your relationship value matters and you shouldn't undervalue yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:53 PM
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Yeah, was going to say this too. I think it's important to acknowledge the real reason she's doing this passive aggressive bullshit because the real reason is likely to be something like "he doesn't help enough".
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:04 AM
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If a woman likes you, she will put herself in your way dozens of times before she gives up. She will give you the benefit of the doubt, give you a dozen do-overs etc. If she likes, she will walk through fire to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:11 PM
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Yeah, it's possible. I've had a number of females friends that I've had a lot of fun with. I'll tell you what I've learned and counterpoint some of the arguments here. You both need to be aware of the elephant in the room: attraction. If you both simply acknowledge that attraction between you both is a thing, or is not a thing. It's as simple as telling her you aren't looking to date anyone (not just her, just no-one) she agrees with you. You know when you talk to a girl and she says she's looki…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:01 PM
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Hi Karen, love your work. British guy here. Few questions, would like to know what you think about; Esther Vilar's book The Manipulated Man? How do you feel about the use of "Game" within a relationship? Why is everyone in western culture so insistent we accept everyone for who they are and is that a feminist idea? Why do you think feminists are so obsessed with rape? Big love.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:16 PM
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The only problem I had with Mad Max was at the start of the 3rd act the older women are at first hostile toward Max and Nux purely because they're male. That being said, I felt that fear and hatred was justified within the world as the reason Max & Nux were good guys was because they were going against "the man" and had no real sexual interest in the women. I had no problem that Furiosa could shoot a sniper rifle perfectly and for some unknown reason Max couldn't. I had no problem that the older…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:58 PM
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Okay firstly, is there a chance you could've overlooked them? I've looked for my phone before only for it to be in my hand. I'm not saying you did, but is there a chance you did? We know the answer is yes. Don't go accusing her of anything even though you know you're right. Anyway... Don't put something down to malicious intent if it could be explained by stupidity. The easiest explanation here is that she took/borrowed them and didn't tell you. She didn't forget to tell you, she just felt entit…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:33 AM
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Ah, the nuance point. I've caught so many downvotes for simply trying to understand the other side of the argument. TRP in itself is a nuance point which I guess is why it's so widely hated. They hate TRP because they don't understand it. Their reality bubble can't cope with those ideas and "it's 2015 for christs' sake!" whatever that means.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:18 AM
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I'd have trouble justifying dating a girl who was borderline, but I think it's unfair to paint anyone 100% by saying they would be unworthy of a relationship. I mean, if we were dating for a month and then she told me, I wouldn't just drop her then and there although that does raise other questions. I'm mildly dyslexic but have overcome it and so it doesn't effect me as much as it could. It'd be unfair to paint others with a similar brush. I know there are varying degrees of BPD and if someone h…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:13 AM
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Keep an eye out for truly selfish behaviour. i.e - "I feel shitty therefore you should feel shitty". They take their bad mood out on you. They cannot control their feelings. They never apologise for upsetting you. They brush off issues that you consider serious. They constantly raise their voice or consider screaming matches "normal". That's how they were raised apparently. They frequently sulk. They use tears to get their own way. They have double standards. ("No you can't talk to other girls. …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 11:47 PM
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He does mention in the interview her crazy behaviour was happening before they got married. I think it's impossible to hide borderline crazy traits either way. Perhaps he was just a little naive that people could fuck your life up. I mean, I doubt he would've gone into marriage if he knew what this woman was willing to do to him - in this case maliciously punish him to the full extent of the law.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 11:35 PM
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Pretty insightful, I like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:38 PM
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People who have mental illnesses' have symptoms that manifest themselves in unhealthy ways. After all, if they could function normally they wouldn't be described as ill. Looking for things that someone does that isn't normal is a good way to isolate those things so they can be mentally taken notice of. If someone is mentally ill, they will have a laundry list of things that are "not normal" that range in how they interact with people to little habits they have. To answer your question, in terms …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:36 PM
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Whilst this is a good study, it's good to keep in mind that this chick had borderline personality disorder (batshit fucking 110% crazy) and so was basically psychotic. Furthers my theory that we need to teach men to recognise and avoid bad personality traits in women/people rather than avoiding marriage altogether. You don't need to be interested in psychology to be able to get the basics, knowing what you want and applying a standard to the people in your life - i.e if she cheats with you, she'…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:04 PM
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Big fan of Karen. I like people who are well read and have time to think through both sides of the argument. She describes herself less as an MRA and more as an anti-feminist.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:35 PM
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You're a good writer and this is a great little write up. I'm working my way through The Rational Male right now (thanks, Rollo) and one of the paragraphs I just passed was the observation that monogamous relationships are basically men forsaking their sexual nature in favour of (yielding to) women's sexual nature - i.e only fucking one woman for the rest of time (she wants the one single best alpha, resources included, he wants as much pussy as he can get). I'm not saying this is good or bad, r…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 10:19 PM
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Steller write-up Archwinger. Makes perfect sense and puts the concept of frame in a new light.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:02 PM
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Yeah I noticed this too. The number 1 thing I've found that's been pulling the friendship group apart is we no longer share the same interests. They drink, talk about poo (urgh) and take the piss out of each other. Eventually I found reasons not to spend more time with them as if I needed to. I do my best to be funny, easy going, interesting and make myself presentable but some of these guys are childish and make no effort. I did find too that being better than someone will make them hate you. B…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:00 PM
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There are good people in this world and women are some of those good people. They are not the cause of all or any of your problems just as men aren't. They (people) are not against you - they are simply not for you. You have to own your own destiny in this life. You have to go to the effort of creating and nurturing a personality that is revered and loved. You cannot blame anyone else for your short comings. You must take responsibility for your health, needs and desires and understand that even…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:09 PM
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if your the female slut at least you are getting laid. It boggles my mind how guys can look at women in awe and say "but you can have sex any time you want!" as if that's desirable for them. If you're a man worth his salt with women, you can have a relationship with one anytime you want. Do you want to? No. Some girls are emotional vampires who have no sense of humour and aren't fun. I'm not just talking about dating or exclusive relationships here - if you are the kind of guy a woman would cons…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:05 PM
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This was close but missed the mark. Women do want nice guys. They don't want neediness. You know, the kind of sex a needy slut will give you. She NEEDS the validation and attention. She's not fucking you because she likes you, she's fucking you because she needs the validation. Neediness is the ultimate turn off for women. It is the reason sex fails in long-term marriages. It's no longer about desire and passion, it becomes about routine and something you need. Arseholes aren't needy. How does t…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 03:57 PM
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I agree with all of this. You can make claims for or against marriage but it doesn't to change what you want or what she wants. I'm not saying you have to get married just because she wants to or because you're "doing the right thing". Those are dumb reasons. I'm just saying that for some people it works really really well. If you don't want to, don't get married. I'm personally undecided.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:52 AM
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I agree that children should not be given dynamite to begin with but it's not going to change the fact that they are going to be put in places of responsibility at some point and therefore need to be supervised, praised and motivated accordingly. I'm in the camp that instead of blanket statement that all women are incapable of being good wives and therefore we should destroy marriage as an institution all together, that we should red-pill men so they can recognise the trains of a bad woman who o…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:43 AM
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Wholly agree with you point right there. As a red piller I feel like I should personally argue the point even when the point is a nuance and would be perceived as hypocritical if made from the other side. Keep calling them like you see it. I mean, it doesn't change the fact that she should get nothing and that she's denying the experience of happiness that she must've gotten on the journey of building a life with someone, but the point that is a fair one.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:32 AM
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Sad irony is he's married now. He didn't want to die alone and cba'd to keep gaming women. From that standpoint I can see why it would be appealing. I'm in the camp that marriage can work...if you find a horse with a horn on it's head to share it with.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:18 AM
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Funny, if you remove the red pill language from the information they would all agree with it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:56 AM
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Jesus, America's laws are fucked. Someone in this post said it's a good idea to take a camera with you and get the house wired with cameras just in case. I really cannot see that level of paranoia being healthy. I can understand having a phone that can take video just in case but if you're going to take this MGTOW stuff seriously, you gotta go live on a desert island. The alternative is to learn to look for signs of craziness in women and have a low tolerance policy for bad behaviour. Perhaps I …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:14 AM
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Engaging in this sort of discussion with anyone is a mistake. Do you think their arguments would ever be enough to change your mind? Of course not, but it's the other way around too. Your arguments will never change their minds either. You're playing a dangerous game telling someone that they're wrong and making them feel less than. Vigilos Law: If you ever make someone feel less than, some day they will come for you. Be aware that arguing is a bad idea. Law of power 38: "Think as you like but b…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 12:33 PM
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Being on her period has never been a good excuse IMHO. I don't give a fuck. Call it out for what it is: an excuse.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:38 PM
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Great little article, well written too. What's really going to blow your mind is when you discover an advanced state that is above the perception of frame. It's a place where you acknowledge whatever is true and are unreactive to it and you use the concept of frame to springboard into it. From there you can create this persona where you are congruent and authentic. What I'm trying to say is that when you start to learn about "holding frame" you know you're faking it. You know you're bluffing. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 12:57 AM
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These women might hold value but that doesn't mean they're happy. In fact, I'd say that lack of boundaries and a sense of any accomplishment in ones life might make someone incredibly unhappy. They will never be truly respected by anyone. When they lose their good looks and people stop taking notice of them they will so discontented that they will destroy everything valuable to them and divorce their husbands. They will become bitter and simple. Great men are forged in fire through toil and torm…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:56 AM
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It's a horrendous greeting.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:45 AM
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Yeah, it was what he said. Despite his knowledge of the game, he was and has always been commander blue pill. Apparently he puts quite a bit of effort into dating. He recently found a girl on okcupid that said to him: "you've taken me out a few times now, let me take you out" and she arranged an evening for date #3. They're officially boyfriend and girlfriend now, been dating a month. I haven't seen her shit test him once so I hold out hope that there are still good women out there. How's that f…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:44 AM
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I heard a story from my BP friend about how he (26) was "dating" this women (31) for 9 months. They didn't sleep together in all of that time. He wanted to, of course, but never pushed it because she was never "ready". I'm sure you can guess what happens next. She's visiting another country and is away from him for 2 weeks. He gets a phonecall from a remorseful her saying that she kissed a guy last night when she had a bit too much to drink and was partying. "We all make mistakes". He reminds me…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:50 PM
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hamstered herself into believing that I'm too alpha and since she can't control an alpha lol. You need to get that "too alpha" shit out of your head. All it's going to do is feed your ego in a bad way. Arrogance isn't a good thing, contrary to popular belief. You want to be a member of the "fun club" and when you meet a girl like her that is also a member, you can jam. You had a chance but you fucked everything up. She wanted you to fight for her. Like, take the lead and show some initiative. Th…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:05 PM
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I always recommend mushrooms to everyone. The stuff I learned from removing my ego and looking objectively at myself was stunning.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:42 AM
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Every single interaction you have with another person is based on an exchange of value. Even with meeting up with a friend - if that friend didn't respond with laughter or interest for example (2 different values) that make the whole interaction worth it, then you're wasting your time. TRP says: "Women don't care about you, they only care about how you make them feel". I believe this to be true. The catch is, it's true for everyone, not just women. The closest you will come to selfless-sacrifici…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:27 PM
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A few of Vigilios Life protocols: Social skills 101: Tell people what they want to hear. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. And finally... "If you ever make a tribe of people feel less than, some day they will come for you." When you are better than someone, it will push those buttons in their heads that activate disrespect, flippancy and emotional backstabbing. People will always feel exposed when you are better than them. By being better than them they will feel bad because the…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:31 AM
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Really decent to read this with my tea this morning, love it mate. To reiterate; Men take care of women > Women take care of children > children take care of puppies. "Take care" in this context means to make sure her emotional needs are met. edit (Making yourself attractive so she finds you attractive is one of her emotional needs btw. Remember, women can't take responsibility for finding you attractive so you have to do it yourself. They are not adults.)
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:36 AM
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