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| 2 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?So the thing i see is opportunity and lots of it. Note people. This is the winners mindset. My brother is a multi millionaire and this is what he says all the time. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?As a 6'5 guy I don't believe that is true... I believe the part about the dating coaches because they are all ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?I'm not hot lol. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?I would speculate he's just not giving safe vibes out and that's why. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?Guys don't get that. I'm just under 6'5 and I'm 230. I haven't trained in a good while. I'm not a Chad like dude but somehow women gravitate to me. I've never had a bad night out. I've gone out on my own a good few times. I think you have to be really observant individual then you can see the multiverse of opportunities. Back in the day my friends would always say all the girls are staring at you. Every day I talk to women sometimes interjecting on their conversations and never getting any negat… | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?Being relaxed means that words come easy to you and you can think coherently. I'm told I'm naturally funny as well. It's all about vibe. I'm tall but I remember after a really bad bout of sickness I was completely deflated for a month. During that time I noticed no one would smile at me be talkative because I had completely lost my vibe. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?You need to hack your own environment first. Once you do that you are golden everywhere. I could go to any Asian country any ME country, any African country and find women. I'm told I'm naturally funny. It's all vibe. Women like vibe. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:35 AM |
| 1 | The Hesitation That Came BackIs it purely by luck though? If it was me I would say "are you stalking me?". Then say " I've always wondered what it would be like to stalked by an attractive lady" then ask her out. Simple. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | 23M body count 16 but really wanna get that upYou want STIs ?. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 04:38 PM |
| 15 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?You seem to have made your own mind up on the nightlife scene. I have no issue in bars and clubs. I hadn't been to one in a while before a lads weekend in Poland. I went into the nightclub and a group of girls appeared out of nowhere. I personally am neither dtf on a night so it doesn't bother me. Meeting for a date is just fine. I can tell which women are into me. Finding women is no problem for me but some of the other guys had issues. Out and about every day I'll notice women checking me out,… | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Got somebody to go forThere is only 1 problem. How far leauges go, she is out of mine. You don't know that for sure. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageI knew a guy who was a thalidomide baby. He taught me that when you own your self perceived imperfections other people don't notice either. He had absolutely no problem finding attractive women by pure non chalance. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Excluding touch, in what ways do you subtly flirt? What are some things you'd do for a girl you're interested in and not for a girl you weren't?Saying something that pisses women off and makes them intrigued at the same time. It's very funny to do it with very feminist girls challenge their position and see how they react. Here's a good example: https://youtube.com/shorts/0JnCq8Zj25E?si=V1EDFjI32aHHe4wF | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 08:53 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys approachApproach when you are relaxed that's more important. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 08:38 PM |
| 21 | What are flirty signs guys miss?Fake bump. I used to assume it was pure accident. I watched a video demonstrating it which lit a lightbulb in my head. From that day on I seized the opportunity. Also there's the dinner doggy bowl look at you not very subtle. Another one busty girls do is purposely lean into you while talking and brush their boobs against your hands. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling to find out how to get girls to like meI think girls call it golden retriever energy. You need to become edgier. I think not smiling as much could do that. Even every now and again setting boundaries with people could do that too. You have a lot of currency in that by your own admission people seem to like you being around. Change your clothes do what it takes to put you in the mindset of a successful ladies man. This whole not wanting to brag is bollocks. You don't have to be obnoxious about it but always signal to people you are do… | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling to find out how to get girls to like meThe way you stand the way you dress, everything physically and behavioural about you. The way you relate to other people in your world how they perceive you etc. Your status comes from other people, for instance if you walk into a room and a group of girls turn to see that's status. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling to find out how to get girls to like meThe way you move in the world. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Really struggling to find out how to get girls to like meI hate using PUA language but for exhibition purposes I'll make an exception. You're probably building to much comfort and not enough intent. That being said too maybe you just can't identify the girls who are fixated on you. If you are as good as you say you are then you probably aren't observant enough. When I was younger I used to get the I can't believe you're single line. Most girls would set me up with their friends and even now if I meet girls who have boyfriends they will try and match m… | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Really struggling to find out how to get girls to like meMost guys get success by accident. Thats me age 18. I only knew girls liked me because other girls used to make snide remarks about "my girlfriends". Allegedly I had a group of girls who liked me. I knew these girls but I barely talked to them because I was a shy nerdy boy. It was a revelation to me. As I got older it became more overt and recognizable to me. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 09:36 AM |
| 11 | Really struggling to find out how to get girls to like meConfidence is going into a room and not comparing yourself to anyone. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 09:31 AM |
| 46 | I Tried 100 Pickup Lines, These 3 Will Get You DatesOverthinking | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Pull-Pull Primers?One way you can figure out the flirting is watch James Bond then assume the alter ego of Bond. Or create an alter ego of a man to who is really good at flirting. Your image of your self must be congruent with a man that women find attractive. That may be true or false but the more you own that reality the easier it is to convince people that you are that person. All flirting boils down to is: Making the target feel good. Being 100% relaxed. Flirting isn't just romantic either, you can complement… | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Pull-Pull Primers?I purposefully said that to elicit a direct response from you. I don't know you therefore I'm speculating. Ok let's assume you are interesting. It's not at all helpful to think that you are bad at anything, that's you programming your mind with something that isn't true. Everyone can flirt. It's not always possible to be a a brilliant athlete due to physical constraints but it is possible to become better at flirting. The problem with flirting it's really a very complex action that relies more o… | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Pull-Pull Primers?The problem is you aren't interesting. Push pull is just one technique and it will only get yourself so far. The guy recognized you're interaction was weak and possibly she made eye contact for him to come over. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerAbsolutely not true. If it's happening to you you're giving off some signs that make her feel unsafe. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 12:24 AM |
| 4 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?They do like guys other women like. You can date a 20 year as a 50 year old man if you are relatively handsome, charming and tall. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Anyone experience women coming up to you just to be mean/rude and then randomly being nice?My brothers wife was originally his manager and she used to give him dogs abuse at work. The bottom line is women act strange when they're into you the main thing is learn their baseline. The odds are that girls baseline is that she's ok to be around but then again some are just arseholes to everyone. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 06:54 PM |
| 5 | having multiple women isn't just a choice it's a necessity.You're right. As a man it really is harder to move on regardless of how many options you have. When I see that I know straight away that guy isn't an incel in some basement because that is the truth. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you separate the cow from the herd?It's not as difficult as you think. In fact a group gives you a lot of options that you didn't previously have. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 07:54 PM |
| 12 | having multiple women isn't just a choice it's a necessity.I missed that part. I would interpret that as a call to action . | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 06:01 PM |
| 71 | having multiple women isn't just a choice it's a necessity.A woman who respects you doesn't say things like that to you. That's not a shit test. I've never had a woman say that to me and if she did I would say good luck, off you go. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Do women actually prefer "older" guys?Keep in shape. I recently found a journal from when I was 33 documenting my exploits and I amazed at how many dates I went on. I'm 50 and when I go out I get girls always coming on to me maybe it's because I'm 6'5 but I have younger friends from work that are taller and they don't get the select man treatment. I think it's energy really. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Input on age difference resistance from daygame approach / number?Where exactly did I say I entertained her?. That aside She was a 6 ft catwalk model actually and not an innocent girl. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Reality CheckYou should care, especially if you first language is English. Ability to communicate ideas is a prerequisite to success. Maybe it's a cognitive reason with me but that section makes no sense logically. If you are ever writing it again explain as a formula because that's essentially how it reads. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Feeling lost in a new country as a international studentYou haven't given any context whatsoever. It's hard to advise when you don't know where people are at and where they want to be. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Reality CheckThat's why a tall guy with a great build and a sharp jaw with green eyes and great hair will clean up and have girls apporahcing HIM etc. He can do no wrong. They laugh at his shit jokes etc. I'm a 6'5 bald guy with good build and girls laugh at my shit jokes but people say I'm naturally funny. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Reality CheckThis way you make your perceived preselection congruent with your actual preselection and her subconscious feels you can easily do better and her safety senses are satisfied and will desire any type of relationship you want. What kind of nonsensical babble is that?. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Reality CheckShe sees right through you. You for once in your life have discovered a quality woman and unfortunately for you it won't happen. I hate to say this but when you bang other men's wives the stain attaches to you and good girls can see that. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 12:12 AM |
| -1 | Input on age difference resistance from daygame approach / number?When I was 32 I had a 17 year old girl who was really into me. She asked me out for coffee which was cute. She made numerous attempts to seduce me. In my experience age difference isn't really a thing if girls are really attracted. Girls will play games with you and string you along for their own entertainment. I used to do it willingly because more than often she would find me someone in her circle to date. The trick is not to play the game if you do you are just wasting time. If she wants you … | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 07:11 AM |
| 1 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?Talk and handsome. Interesting. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?Yes totally different. London is strange to Irish people. It's like comparing Americans to Canadians. The vibe is totally different. Irish guys and girls are extremely charismatic. If you really want to learn game just hang with Irish guys. The problem is they go out to drink and women are always an afterthought. The girls are hilarious and quite a few are gorgeous. I really like talking to a Irish girls but at this stage I can elicit nearly the same response from say an eastern European girl. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 11:25 PM |
| 24 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?Watch Craig Ferguson old clips on YT he's a master of it. You have to have a certain personality to pull it off and because you're asking for advice I can postulate this is not you. | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 10:04 AM |
| 28 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?This response proves american guys cannot flirt. | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 07:57 AM |
| 24 | The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak PowerThis very post is a manipulation tactic. The vast majority of women are actually very sweet and don't act like that. | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Good Books to readThat's actually a very good list. I like psychology of persuasion. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 08:50 AM |
| 1 | For those who have done cold approach, have you had women be mean and immediately tell you to go awayI've never experienced that either. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | There is a girl on my train. Tell me what to do or say to her.Safe looking or socially adjusted. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 09:19 AM |
| 1 | I need helpYes | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 09:15 AM |
| 2 | For those who have done cold approach, have you had women be mean and immediately tell you to go awayNope. I had one instance where a girl walked away but women do not scream at me. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | What Flipped the Switch with Cold Approaching for You?Self hypnosis | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of advice about conversation but I'm confused which one is rightFair enough | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 10:54 PM |
| 2 | I've read a lot of advice about conversation but I'm confused which one is rightBe funny and confident. Do you realise that to a socially challenged individual it's a pointless comment. I'm saying that as a person who is social. Being funny requires a high degree of self awareness, intelligence and observation skills. If you are nervous you are not going to have any of that. | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of advice about conversation but I'm confused which one is rightAll that is boring if the truth be said. | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game.A man who is selected by women. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | The theory on "Non-neediness" in practiceThat's you just projecting your own worldview. I'm most definitely not a weirdo. I know how to talk to women. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I flirt at work?Nooo9o | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game.If youre a select man that won't matter. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 08:34 AM |
| 5 | The theory on "Non-neediness" in practiceJust imagine a hot girl, gets approached by 100s of guys and probably only accepts 1, That's a dreadful mindset to have. It's just you and her. The reality is if you look around you properly there's very few guys to compete with. Also is the book itself still relevant this day and age? All models is a 101 on dating. If you haven't gone on a date and you need a guide that's it but i still struggle to find the correct balance. Overthinking...... | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 08:23 AM |
| 2 | What would a guy with good game would say instead of the typical lines that others use?Study psychology and practice talking to people. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 08:15 PM |
| 18 | What would a guy with good game would say instead of the typical lines that others use?Just saying random disconnected lines isn't going to help you. You have to bundle it in a framework of social intelligence by having the ability to talk to anyone. I'm naturally funny. It really doesn't matter what I say. It's my voice tone and timing. That's what takes a lot of practice and it's what I do every day. I use every opportunity to meet new people so much that I have it down to a fine art. I'm an introvert in reality who thrives on studying and practicing the art of social engagement… | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 06:51 AM |
| 2 | I fucking hate YouTube dating advicebreaks up with you, or cheats on you. You have to be detached from any outcome. That's a typical fuckboy attitude however if you have ever been in meaningful and even short passionate relationships it's very difficult for every man. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | I fucking hate YouTube dating adviceIt wasn't always like this. It went from helpful dating tips to full on weird rules. A lot of dating advice is not usually helpful. A popular issue is anxiety. People here say approach a lot of girls etc. That's actually a huge roundabout way to mitigate this. The problem is state control. You can control your states by self hypnosis relatively easily if you're hypnotisable. You'll never get rid of anxiety you'll only reduce it so small that it won't affect you. Every now and again you'll feel i… | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 06:35 AM |
| 3 | You dont need to learn about GAMEGame = Talking to women. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Can’t pull girls from cold approachI'm not suprised. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Small win today & wanted to share it and to get some adviceSelf hypnosis works for that. State control is the key. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:15 PM |
| 4 | They consider me attractive but I don't flirtPractice makes perfect. Find out the traits that make you unique. Go for the women who really like you. Some women will play with you for entertainment out of pure boredom learn to recognize that. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | lost on why I can’t pull girls – need some perspectiveThat's good but drop the weed. No prolific weed smoker ever was successful in life and I don't mean snoop. It's great you are getting those opportunities that means you don't have a lot to fix. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:05 PM |
| 3 | lost on why I can’t pull girls – need some perspectiveWomen may not see you as a sexy guy. Tell the truth has a woman ever indicated any sort of interest in you?. I was and still am a naturally funny guy but girls would still present themselves in a way that would make it simple for me to move things romantically. You can try by saying " I really enjoyed our conversation I think you and I should go on a date ". If you get a lot of no then you aren't where you need to be. I would advise start doing this immediately. If you get acceptance then you ar… | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Advice for situation with girl I met at the clubDon't worry about trying to be cool or what sone clown masquerading as a dating coach said. Go with your gut feeling. It's rarely wrong. Just keep it very simple. No silly emojis. Try things and see if they work for you. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 05:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you pull someone’s leg without sounding grumpy or whiny if they’re late to a date or forget something they were supposed to remember?It depends on the context. I'm a master that actually. I don't do it to shame but to be funny and it works. Usually being funny requires taking a mundane situation and exaggerating it to extreme proportions. I found that people who are late have that habit and if it's something that bothers you, you need to deal with it. Constantly nagging wont fix the problem. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | A positive attitude = attractive?Absolutely. I found that out after a very bad month of Covid. I was totally depleted coming back and I just didn't get the same energy from people. Thankfully I'm back to my previous self but for that period of my life things we're strange. I don't smile much either. I would argue not smiling is more attractive to women. In eastern Europe smiling without a reason was considered a mental illness in the perestroika era. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it outThere you go again confirming it. Shhhh | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it outYour ex?. I guess he's not around anymore. I said a certain amount of alpha you obviously missed that point. I purposefully did not clarify what the other attributes were. Your precious statement and that crazy non mathematical formula made no sense in English. Your passive aggressive attitude projection is hot, said no one ever. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it outIt is better to remain quiet and be thought of as a fool than to open your mouth and confirm it. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it outWhat are you shiteing about?. That's up there with my top 10 idiotic responses. If you've never experienced it then you wouldn't understand because it's not in your ability to do so. It's not your fault and I definitely won't judge you in it. I never stated I'm alpha nor tell people got to be. I'm 6'5 @ 230. A certain amount of alpha comes from physicality. I merely stated what I'm found to be true in my experience. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it outAnybody who tells you they are alpha and want to teach you is not. It's not a tangible thing. If you make women submissive in your presence and men respect you and listen to your word your alpha. If you lead from the front youre alpha. It isn't something broadcast explicitly to the world. Dating coach is a stupid pursuit. I do advise guys and I've helped guys get what they want but they were 90% there. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 07:15 AM |
| 2 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionI knew a guy who was a thalidomide baby. Seeing him just ace life changed my whole perspective. He just owned the fact he was the way he was developed a fantastic humorous personality. Girls and guys loved being around him. He married a very attractive woman and he's happy. Genetically I'm 6'5. I have that V taper from swimming as a teen. I would speculate I'm ok looking because women look at me and indirectly approach me all the time. They're always receptive to me talking to them but I think i… | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 07:04 AM |
| 1 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionI knew a guy who was a thalidomide baby. Seeing him just ace life changed my whole perspective. He just owned the fact he was the way he was developed a fantastic humorous personality. Girls and guys loved being around him. He married a very attractive woman and he's happy. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 06:54 AM |
| 2 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionThese metrics will apply to you of you believe they exist. Go about the world not caring and you will do fine. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionAnother stupid pointless rehashed post. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 06:45 AM |
| 2 | These 4 things determine 80-90% of attractionIt's not an analogy. It's the basis of all social engineering and precisely why we are where we are now. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 06:39 AM |
| 2 | I will solve your problems with women in one sentenceIt's the man his experiences in life, the energy he radiates and not the game. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I will solve your problems with women in one sentenceIt's the man hid experiences in life, the energy he radiates and not the game. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?Lol | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manI don't know if you're a bot but I am not. I'll tell you a secret. All tall guys are not created equal. Not all tall guys get glances or interest from women. Energy is huge. If I was a dating coach I would be a great one. In the early days height would be the main thing because I was socially awkward but now I really know how to rapport with people. I learned charisma from a short guy 5'7 who was a salesman. He was very successful with women because he owned it. Charisma and likeability is my se… | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manI know for a fact that is 10000000 times untrue from my experiences. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenGreat response. In the same way when I hear people talking about people I can't actually take their spin in it until I actually experience it for myself. Guys will say that girl is a total bitch. I will see the same girl different because I want to know why someone thinks that and in that discovery phase I'll find out shes actually very sweet. I don't experience bad reactions from women yes some will walk away some are very sexually aggressive which I ignore. Guys on the Internet will say it's s… | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLI'm glad you agree your post is a just a low IQ opinion. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLI'm sorry but thats no high IQ take. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLThis is arguably the most brain dead post in a long time. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenBe attractive That one does my head in. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 02:02 PM |
| 10 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenIt's a call to action. Some people will read that and be motivated others will read it and say nah not possible. A sculptor will look at lump of marble and visualise it as a beautiful statue others look at it and think it's just a lump of ugly stone. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 01:58 PM |
| 21 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenEven you did exactly what he does I can guarantee you wouldn't get the same results. It's something else unquantifiable. | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if she is down to f***?I would disagree with the very last point. It's not my experience but it could be in true for other people. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over the fear of approaching girls.What is conceivably the worst thing that could happen to you if you are rejected? | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 08:29 PM |
| 32 | How do you know if she is down to f***?She will say that sex is not going to happen that night. It's amazing how quickly they change their mind.. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2Everyone does. It's called observation. If people would take their mugs away from screens and be in the present then they would see these things. | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Approached a group but the friend talked too muchVery simple. The loud girl says something you ignore it and say to the other girl "you're very quiet over there what's your name?". | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2If you're doing this you are better off ignoring her and be preoccupied with your to own existence. Only pay attention when you are ready to make the move. That way you don't signal creepiness. | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2It's not a sixth sense it's just not looking at your phone and observing the present. | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 12:25 AM |
| -1 | Approach Journey: Logging Every Interaction - Day 2The more ideal situation is where she moves into your proximity rather than you move into hers. | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | High status male vs Low status male?Correct risque is a subset of risky. | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 12:12 AM |
| 0 | How do you “just do it?”Your problem is you can't insert yourself into social settings easily. You need to talk to people and work on your social aptitude. Once you can talk to a multitude of people regardless of age or race then you find it easy to meet women. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you “just do it?”Good point. It's like an exam, the closer you get the day the more anxious you become because you become more acutely aware of what you don't know. The same can be applied to that scenario. Then when it comes to the last 30 mins you are like, I'm not fully prepared fuck it I'll go in and whatever will be will be. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 07:10 AM |
| 1 | How to find an "opening" to approach?First. Are you on her radar?. Has she noticed you?. That's number 1. You must flag in her attention. Otherwise she's just a fantasy in your mind. Being quiet, awkward and shy is nonsense. I used to be like that and women still chased me. You really come off as weak saying things like the class discourages relationships. Well maybe they do but I'm a fucking man and if I like a girl I'm going to go there. Also you're self image is hurting you. Seeing yourself as the quiet guy is destructive. You'r… | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Anyone do the mentorship program/ bootcamp with The Attractive Man (Matt Artisan)Believe me I've studied a lot of that material out of curiosity trying to understand how some guys get women and some don't . I've always been lucky to be attractive to women naturally. People who don't know says it's height and physicality. I've met guys like me who are tall and jacked still they don't have the X factor. I've been using PUA forever to learn human nature and what I've learned is that most of these coaches are clueless. My technique is to put me where the women are. I've got a to… | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I improve my statements instead of asking questions?I stated explicitly to be disagreeable. I choose words meticulously on purpose. Common sense should prevail as to the use of this as a polarizing method. If it is executed correctly then it should intrigue. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 06:30 AM |
| 5 | How to become a good talkerGet a train across eastern Europe. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone do the mentorship program/ bootcamp with The Attractive Man (Matt Artisan)Nope. Learn by doing like I did. A rotation isn't something I'm interested in. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | High status male vs Low status male?True. I can tell by the responses they're aren't a lot of knowledgeable people. All the lines are straight out of books and reverberated in echo chambers. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm a hot nerd...How do I make this work for me?I'm a hot nerd too. There's no down side here. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 05:23 PM |
| 2 | how to deal with cockblocking friends?The fridge protected the snacks. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Anyone do the mentorship program/ bootcamp with The Attractive Man (Matt Artisan)If you want to waste 8K give it to me. There isn't a person in the world worth spending that amount of money. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 05:19 PM |
| 41 | How to become a good talkerGet life experience. Go away and go out of your comfort zones. Do things no other man does. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 05:17 PM |
| 6 | High status male vs Low status male?Risky and risqué behavior are not equivalent words in English. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 06:19 AM |
| 39 | High status male vs Low status male?The echo chamber resounds with with incel viewpoints. All high status men do not get away with being creepy. Guys who are charming can get away with risque behaviour but it's frequently packaged with humour. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my statements instead of asking questions?Book stores are like a meme at this stage. You can elicit as well. The way you do that is for example you see a girl who you can't guess ethnicity. Instead of asking ask her is she an ethnicity that you definitely know she isn't. So for example say at you say are you Indian when she actually looks Pakistani. Most girls then will say no I'm bla bla then psychologically you've broken the shield she's put up. So it's say something ridiculous and then get her to correct it then she reveals a lot of … | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How do I improve my statements instead of asking questions?Whatever. You do you. It works. This is the main problem here in this sub. A man isn't afraid to say what he is thinking. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 03:59 PM |
| 8 | How do I improve my statements instead of asking questions?People are missing the point. The very FIRST thing is to make her aware of you. You essentially move within her field of vision to her front to evaluate if your approach is going to be successful. She has to look at you. Every single guy who is any good does this. We need to know if it's going to be work. Then there's the issue to tackle of having no creativity in conversation. The other day I walked into a place and I saw the girl at the counter reading a book. Now the normal standard way would… | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 11:29 AM |
| -1 | How to deal with the spotlight effect when talking to women?The last place in the world I want to think about women is in the gym. That's my time. There's a whole world of places to meet girls that aren't gyms. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | How to make someone comfortable with me ?Be a warm guy. Don't look for outcomes immediately. It's really hard to quantify what you are asking because it's innate to some guys so it's hard to explain. For me people have always trusted me. I was a childminder in my teens because people were comfortable with me. That translated to my relationships in that I've never been called creepy. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Idk what to think or make of this.It's the way girls give complements. I had a friend sister whose parents were originally from Hong Kong say to me once "You should go to Hong kong. I know a lot of girls in Hong Kong who would be interested in you". She was in a relationship but she was saying I was attractive in a non committal way. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Guys who find it easy to get sex on the first date -how?Find easy women. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsI never thought about it ever. I've always helped vulnerable people. I open doors for everyone. Women have helped me. In fact if I'm in trouble women help me every time. The whole objective of trying to figure out what type works in essence is being a nice guy which is someone who only does something to achieve a result. This renders your efforts to being null and void. Like another guy said here it's all about making her feel and adapting to her changing emotions. I have been described as being… | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 08:21 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsBravo. As always the best answer is on the bottom. The problem being solved is multivariate. Guys on here think women are monoliths. The takeaway is nice and even good guys can be boring but the bad boy can't. The objective here is to make her feel. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good convo starter?Where exactly did he find 100s of scripts and routines 20 years ago??. That's a ridiculous statement... | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel like being average height/below average is better for day game?You're absolutely right in that shorter height men don't invoke as much of the initital fear response because they're physically less of a threat. Nope. Not true. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like being average height/below average is better for day game?This is a Stoopid take | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Benefits of being a short manI'm 6'5. Women are not afraid to go home with me. It has nothing to do with height but your confidence and energy. Guys are afraid of me but women can just see through me. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳Happiness is emotion. What? | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 02:13 AM |
| 60 | I got rejected by a girl, but her friends still reach out.It's a very good thing. Someone in that group has been saying positive things about you. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 09:26 AM |
| 3 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳This is the mindset that completely sabotages every effort you make. How about going about life thinking getting women is easy and effortless. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.I can only say Poznan. Look at candid videos of YT if you don't believe me. My country is in chaos. I genuinely was crushed going back. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 10:38 PM |
| 9 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳That's correct no man has an idea what a given woman finds physically attractive but we can sure as hell tell if a guy is low value. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 09:59 AM |
| 25 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳This whole sub complicates everything. Getting women is not hard, you just have to get out there practice and refine yourself until you are a man that some women like. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.There are virtually no brown or black people. No Palestine protests. No chaos. No LGBT. No chaos. No police. The streets are safe. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.Explain what exactly?. | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.I don't know. I'm 50 so I don't specifically go to countries to meet women but I always end up getting them. They tend to be a lot younger than me. I heard great things from croatia. Romania is good too. I heard albania but I would never attempt to pick up there. As for available women 30 - 45 that's more of an American thing. In most countries outside the states divorce is not a big thing. I would just travel be friendly, self aware and things will fall into place. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.I'm European. In eastern Europe you don't see that many single women of that demographic they tend to be married or stay married. Receptive people - eastern Europeans dont smile in public and they appear cold. The thousand mile stare exhibited by girls is a cultural thing. Out socially there's an increase in vibe. Personally, I really like eastern Europe. I get all the eastern Europe assignments because my manager said they like me. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Berlin, Budapest, bucharest or where? 41M single traveler.You haven't defined what "good" means or where you are from and ethnicity. These things are important to know. For instance if you go to Poland it's just all white people they don't give a shit about wokeness so it can be a major cultural shock in comparison with the rest of the fallen world. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:33 AM |
| 2 | 20M Need Cold Approach adviceI love it when people watch. It means I'm doing something right. People are not that interested in random strange guys. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Eastern Europe is dangerous if you are not careful. It's a different world. People can get in a world of difficulty by not being self aware. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Luton 🙂↔️ | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 07:55 AM |
| 0 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeGreat rehashed advice for life in general. If you need it. Get an A4 and print it out. Read it every single day and let it become your mantra. This has been my mantra. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Agreeableness is Icky - We’ve all heard the adage, ‘Nice Guys Finish Last.’ Here's why...Guys that have no experience write these kind of posts. It's not about being an asshole it's about being competent, confident and standing out. In reality I've met about 3 people that I class as assholes in my entire life. Those people are rare. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 07:38 AM |
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