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I can't really respond without a clear definition of this term "purposeful living". Especially since I try hard not to fall into the fallacy of romanticizing the past, while still learning from it. I saw an interview with a CEO of a small tech company discussing how weird it is these days to manage younger people (like, 35 and under, not just 18-year-olds)--the example he gave was of great employees coming to him to quit after a year or two because they weren't "making a difference". Like they t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:07 AM
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Now now, no one likes a sore loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:51 AM
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It's astonishing how difficult this is for you to grasp; the advice is to focus more on personality, less on looks, but you focused on neither and had a bad experience. Following HALF the advice doesn't work, no shit. Please don't tell people not to prioritize personality because you failed to prioritize personality--that's stupid and unhelpful, although it is sort of amusing. But Viking beard guess what? You can come in and tell people to follow that advice and use ur experience to explain to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:50 AM
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Never said you were. Glad you've conceded the debate though, it was big of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:27 AM
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Eh, this sub is FOR tangents. In my opinion, the problem with expectations is key, yes. Once upon a time, nearly all men and nearly all women were raised with clear, consistent expectations; it was stifling for many, yes, and I am glad we've moved beyond that, but at least we were all on the same page. Now, though, people have wildly different expectations and views of what's "normal" and, indeed, do not communicate well. They don't even realize they need to communicate because they just assume …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:26 AM
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I’m not blaming anyone I lowered that preference to try out the advice on here "I'm not blaming anyone, I'm just saying, I only did it because people here told me to and now I'm saying they are all wrong and I wound up talking to this awful girl I never would have if not for the advice here, and no one should listen to them because of it." But you're TOTALLY not blaming the sub, yeah, okay. As a guy that means lowering what you want in looks and I also lowered other things and looked the other w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:17 AM
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No, I didn't. Nor is this a defense of your argument. You're really bad at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:04 AM
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No, it's a fair point. You can't just ignore physical chemistry; it IS important. But the thing is, in increases over time as you get used to your partner and grow attracted to their other attributes, AND if they work to look better, AND sex itself gets better as you and your partner get to know each others' bodies and minds. Too many people think "If I am not insanely horny for them right this second, I never, ever will be" and it's just silly. Hell, not only is this an over-emphasis, but it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:01 AM
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Uh, no, I didn't; pointing out that your argument is circular is not "semantics". But instead of trying to demonstrate that it was NOT circular, you merely objected to my use of the word "so", capitalized specifically to emphasize it's sarcastic usage, and did nothing to advance the discussion. Then I made fun of you for your hypocrisy, hoping against hope that maybe you'd get the hint and I wouldn't have to risk looking condescending by explaining this to you directly, like I would a child. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:52 AM
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Okay, you're just lying or you have very poor reading comprehension. No one here told you to fuck a lying, ugly, unlikable alcoholic on a hookup app. But you did, and now you're blaming everyone else and using it as an excuse to have unrealistic expectations again, so when you're alone and miserable in 10 years, you can continue to blame everyone else. The only lowering of expectations being pushed is to stop expecting to date millionaire supermodels who are virgins but practice giving blowjobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:46 AM
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Well, even back in like the 50's, it was still a radical minority that made sex seem SO terrible that women struggled to have sex even with their husbands. It's inevitably religious zealots (and not just 1 specific religion).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:36 AM
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A deep, intimate connection with another person? A feeling of closeness, trust, and security that your dildo will never give you? And I'm sure you're going to tell me you have alot of great friends, and I'm happy for you, but that's still not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:35 AM
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This doesn't say I'd like her to be attracted to me. Or satisfied with me. Actually, it does, because it was in reply to the OP, which is about precisely that. Context matters. I agree wanting a woman who is attracted to you is good. But let's be real here. Most women would prefer it if their men looked like their celebrity crush. Uh...did you not actually read my comment, where I already addressed this argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:33 AM
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But the topic is about whether sex is "that important", not merely "important", so if we're going to go fuck in the semantic weeds, neither of us is "on topic."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:26 AM
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Yes, exactly--most of the time, it's not the sex that men are wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:22 AM
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So is survival and reproduction. I mean, what relevance is there if I make a baby? What does it matter in the grand scheme of things, in the motion of the spheres?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:22 AM
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Exactly. If a reasonably attractive girl walked up to a man she was interested in and said "Hi, I'm--" and then got interrupted when he barked "No tits, GTFO," she'd be sad, angry, and indignant. But many men get this all the time, essentially--too short, stupid hair, ugly shirt, bad pickup line, or the woman is just not interested right now but decides to call him a creep instead of politely declining. Everyone is allowed to have maybe 1 or 2 things they absolutely cannot stand in a partner, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:19 AM
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Could be. Some women also are still scared of sex, especially if they came from a family or community that viewed it as "dirty" and never emphasized the positive aspects of it. Or maybe it was too soon but she didn't want to say no (not that I'm blaming you, just saying that she perhaps wasn't quite ready yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:14 AM
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"I hope women die cold, miserable, and alone, rather than adopt some realistic expectations." Reminds me of the wise man who once said "Don't try to understand women; women understand women and they hate each other."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:12 AM
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Okay, but you just said you didn't like her personality--this is exactly the opposite of what anyone here is saying, which is to lower your superficial physical standards and focus MORE on personality. We're telling you to find a smart, fun, kind girl who maybe isn't a looker, rather than a hot and stupid bitch (or waiting for the perfect woman who is amazing in every way and also a supermodel).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:09 AM
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I don't follow your logic; so the fact that women, when handed a stack of pictures of men and told to rank their attractiveness, consistently put 80% of men at 5 or below, is false because most people lose their virginity as teens? What does that have to do with anything? Just because you have sex ONCE at 16 doesn't mean a large and growing percentage of men aren't being completely ignored in their 20's and 30's. People change, people have sex with folks they maybe aren't real attracted to, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:07 AM
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I don't see how you got that conclusion from what he said. I have the same answer he does; I'd rather be alone than date a woman who really didn't find me attractive at all and would cheat on me or leave me at the first opportunity to shag a more attractive man. This is not the same thing as saying I demand any woman I date to find me to be the sexist man on earth. You can acknowledge that someone else is physically more attractive than your partner, but still be attracted to your partner, happy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:59 AM
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That assumes "will" is like a static resource or potential within each person that cannot change. For an extreme example of why I don't agree, look at stories of average women lifting up the front half of a car to rescue their baby; they would have never, in a million years, thought they could do that, and would not have even tried. Even if they had "tried", they would have failed. But in that moment, their will surges (I am carefully avoiding any Green Lantern jokes here) and they perform the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:55 AM
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Very good question. Yet, consider what happens when, as recently happened, a post goes up about how women reject men based on height; heated denials, personal anecdotes to the contrary, etc. Why the discrepancy? It's the difference between judging men's attractiveness at a purely superficial level after 10 seconds, and judging men's attractiveness after speaking to them and getting an idea of their character, intellect, and personality. The problem isn't, contrary to many in the RP crowd, that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:48 AM
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There's alot of truth here, but not all of it. We are having less sex (men AND women) because fucking a stranger off Tinder twice a month is way less sex than making love to an SO 1-2 times per week, yet the former is celebrated and sought after while the latter is snorted at (it's literally become a meme that, say, holding hands during sex is the "kinky stuff" due to how casual it's become for most). It is not, in and of itself, a problem, but it's a symptom of a problem; we are lonelier, we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:32 AM
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I find it sad that that is all you get out of sex. And I don't mean that sarcastically; I hope you get more out of it someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:21 AM
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Whether or not most people agree that it's SO important is precisely the issue being debated; you're begging the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:21 AM
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Elliot Rodgers was a deranged narcissist; if he had been getting laid regularly, he still would have been a threat to others. If not getting any action simply made people murderers, we wouldn't even remember Elliot Rodgers because he'd be one out of hundreds of thousands of identical cases over the last 2 generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:19 AM
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Hi, I'm a human being, not a fish--I care about things other than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:17 AM
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If they wanted it THAT much, they'd do more to get it, e.g. hire prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:16 AM
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Okay. There are some people who want to deny all the differences between how men and women naturally behave and act, and claim that absolutely everything that is different between men and women is due to social factors, outside of things that are 100% rooted in physiological differences (like pregnancy). On the other hand, there are people who think that our biological differences are insurmountable, that EVERY woman would be happier barefoot and pregnant, and any woman who says otherwise is sic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:13 AM
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It's usually an accident or the result of sloppy thinking; even in technical fields, competing experts will level this charge at each other. But these days, yeah, we've absolutely reached a semantic wasteland where folks deliberately hijack and twist and misuse words near-constantly, to the point that the average person does it unintentionally and on a regular basis. I do indeed hate the word "creepy" at this point. I was once told, by coworkers I got along well with, that my new glasses were cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:50 AM
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Absolutely true and nothing I said was meant to imply that no short man in history has ever been laid. But while height is an asset, lack of height is a liability, and that liability is an absolute deal breaker for many women. So when women try to say "Nuh uh, it doesn't matter!" they are either saying they don't care about height and therefore no women do (aka, ignorance) or they are lying, and it's a little annoying, especially when they are basically telling short men, to their faces, that al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:46 AM
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By being the exact same thing; men like younger, nubile women, women like older, weathered men (obviously there is a limit to both, we're not talking about children or women boinking senior citizens).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:40 AM
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Decades of research into "happiness"--women THEMSELVES report being less happy when single. We're obviously talking aggregates here, exceptions certainly exist, but family cannot be replaced with "social networks".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:37 AM
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BDSM is not a "kink", but outside of that slight error, you're asserting the same thing I said as being correct, while saying it's wrong when I said it. Yes, BDSM allows for anything; the fact that men are generally more dominant than women, and women more submissive than me, is celebrated and promoted. But at the same time, men and women who are the total opposite of that are celebrated and promoted. Also, people of any gender and any kind of relationship are celebrated and promoted, so long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:25 AM
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"When I waste time on the internet by hanging out in communities that I have no knowledge of or interest in and fucking with distressed people, it's totally fun and okay, but when other people hang out in communities of like-minded people to discuss their actual issues and blow off some steam about their real-life problems, it's obviously bad and contributing to their difficulties!" Okay pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:06 AM
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Older, attractive men? Haha, okay, I don't even know how to respond to something so self-evidently wrong. Next you're going to tell me that men don't find younger women more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:02 AM
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Glad we agree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:58 AM
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It is, objectively, superior to a take that says nothing but "you're wrong." I may be wrong, but you have done nothing to show why or how.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:57 AM
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Except it is, because that's just a heaping helping of cope 99% of the time. Women talk about being content on their own, when they are able to easily NOT be alone, but when they reach the age where they CAN'T just pop out and pick up some boyfriend for a few months on a whim, suddenly they are quite desperate for a man. You're probably right about the social networks, they do it already, but they will still be substantially more miserable than they would in a long-term marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:55 AM
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I don't agree with some of your points, although I agree with others, but I'm not going to dispute them because I really don't understand your thesis--what exactly are your points supposed to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:52 AM
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Being "bigger" (but not FATTER) gives you a dominant edge, ceteris paribus. I've known men who got into arguments, while sitting, who ended the argument merely by standing up and revealing their physical size, causing the other party to leave. Meanwhile, short men are constantly belittled and shamed by men AND women, and so tend to be more submissive and quiet (or develop a Napoleon complex).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:22 PM
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Maybe, but then we'd have THREE different definitions. Even something like "incel" is a bit confusing, but you certainly won't confuse it with everyday words since it IS an internet term. Even "beta", a term I don't like, is slightly more useful for what you're looking for. I don't know, I like words and proper terms, but sometimes we pigeon-hole too much with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:19 PM
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This entire thread is counter-productive shit-posting. Which I'm all for, but getting offended that someone shitposted in your shitpost is the definition of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:17 PM
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If you've hung out in RP forums, you should have come across a plethora of advice and recommendations for people, by the very people who run the forums, so yes, hanging around is helpful to get actual advice not based on lazy stereotypes. But also, sometimes it's fun to just sit around and bitch and argue; after all, you're doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:16 PM
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That's still mostly the views of religious conservatives and yahoos; I've never seen any other community widely adopt such views. MGTOWs, unfortunately, tend to attract the most broken of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:12 PM
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There is some truth here. But also, consider this; "toxic femininity", where women excessively emphasize their attractiveness and act subservient to men, is also because men traditionally selected for that. It is in the nature of both men and women to select for certain things, on average, and this is what women naturally like. It is, like any other primitive monkey-brain baggage, something that people have to work to keep at a manageable level; countless men have been miserable with a stupid bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:11 PM
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What a bullshit question, and I'm plenty red-pilled. You may as well ask when women stopped beating puppies with baseball bats. If you're not going to actually discuss, what's the point of posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:05 PM
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Since lesbians are the most domestically violent, I'm not sure this is helpful for women. Meanwhile, gay men are pretty chill but the rampant STDs from all the casual sex isn't great either. I dunno, I just think the genders need to start admitting that there ARE biological differences and therefore we behave differently, but also that one is not confined by biology and there is room for all sorts of people to live together and find partners. Really, if you want to know which community is less b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:09 PM
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I'm glad you did. My only point is that it's a complex mental and emotional problem, and a social issue, not just "Well, if you feel this way, you're fat, hairy, smelly, and never go outside, so just do those things and it'll solve your issues!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:01 PM
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Well, I wouldn't, but your point is exactly what I was saying. Questions or accusations are often thrown at "men" by "women" without the "women" realizing that many, many other women have different views. I had one lady friend who thought a man grabbing her butt and making out on a first date was just normal and didn't actually "mean anything", then she wondered why all the ass-grabbing guys got "the wrong idea." She's over 40. I'm very glad we don't all have to date and marry according to outda…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:59 PM
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I get the feeling this isn't FDS and men can post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:55 PM
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It's a problem intrinsic to such a term--most people know what a "nice guy" means, that it's meant to be ironic, but taking a perfectly positive description and using it to denote a negative group really poisons it. And then that does indeed confuse the minority who don't get the difference, or who legitimately hate men and use it as a Kafka trap; are you an asshole, or a "nice guy" stealth-asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:54 PM
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You have valid points. Just remember that it's not "women" versus "men"; plenty of women get this, and plenty of men are just as bad, if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:50 PM
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Except women cheat as much as men; in fact, current research trends suggest women cheat MORE than men. And women commit domestic violence as often as men. Traditionally women were expected to take care of the home, yes; when my great-grandfather came home after his 12-hour-shift in the coal mines, which killed him in his 50's due to blacklung, he did indeed expect my great-grandmother to have cleaned the house and cooked a meal. In other words, she got the easier job and lived 40 years longer. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:48 PM
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Yes, more of that "advice" that doesn't work for a problem that doesn't exist for people who you mostly only know about through your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:40 PM
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Yes. Because they are. As proven by them saying they are, and then dating men old enough to be their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:38 PM
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In all my time in MRA circles, I've never seen this kind of madness as a "main topic", I've seen crazy people, yes, especially in MGTOW or black pill-type communities (or very religious communities), but MRAs are usually arguing about legal inequality or dating double-standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:35 PM
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Except that they don't; so many end up alone and disappointed because of their unrealistic standards. Which is not me knocking women; I feel terrible thinking about it, thinking that so many women (and therefore men, since we're roughly equal in number) end up alone because women expected far too much, never got it, then gave up on the whole endeavor or were too old and dysfunctional to change when they realized the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:33 PM
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So, because apples, therefore oranges. Makes sense. And no, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:31 PM
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Tell that to short guys who are outright told "You seem great, but you're not tall enough for me." Or tell it to tall (but otherwise totally average) guys who admit that women approach them regularly, while their very similar, shorter friend never has that happen. Also, saying it's only important that a man be taller than the woman is, well, not all that helpful to short men, because that still means a metric fuck-ton of women will not even give them the time of day purely for a superficial phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:24 PM
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I don't know who is a "coffee date queen" or where to find them, nor do I choose my dates based on that. If I really like a woman, I'm okay paying for a nice dinner. But if I just recently met a woman and there's just barely the beginning of a spark, and I ask to take her out and she immediately wants a $100 meal on my dime, no alternatives, then she absolutely is either a gold-digger or just has a sky high opinion of herself. I can afford to take her out, but why would I? I'm looking for a life…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:17 PM
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True, but some of that actually is sheer sex paranoia of the time. Like, Morgan le Fey, who was originally written as a morally upright goddess, was gradually turned meaner and meaner until the French were writing about her as sex-obsessed evil witch. This was about the time monks were at their peak, and they were the ones doing most of the writing...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 06:03 AM
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Gay men calling out the ladies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:53 AM
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Or they literally only intended to have sex and leave to begin with, as so many men and women do. She's all like "I'm going to get Prince Charming by being an unpaid street whore!" and the men are like "Free street whore! Score!" and then leave thinking they both got what they came for. I can't help but like how all the mind games and innuendo and shit that women love to do, and brag about doing, is biting women in the ass. It's like swapping the contacts of the person who is about to drive you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:52 AM
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A business...how? The only way this metaphor even works is if she is literally saying "Your love as a couple needs an initial investment of all this cash on HER finger to grow into anything substantial" which would literally mean it's 100% based on materialism. But even then, it doesn't quite match what she says, as she seems to be implying even MORE investment is needed--I realize she is actually a gold digger, but I am trying to figure out what she even thought she was saying that, in her head…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:45 AM
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That's the first I've heard that diamonds aren't rare. What amazes me, though, is that artificial diamonds are so damn good that even professional laboratories struggle to tell the difference; the local jewelry store certainly can't. Also, to me, diamonds are just boring; why do you want just a plain, clear rock? At least get a ruby or emerald, something with brilliant color.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:41 AM
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I don't think Asians are greedy; they are just cheap. I'm fine with "frugal", that's good, but I've seen so many Asians take that to extremes, like arguing over a $5 service charge on a $1500 bill for an hour.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:39 AM
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You sometimes look at a painting and go "Wow, that's amazing!" right off the bat. But sometimes you look at a painting and think "Meh", but if you look at it more, notice the details, the colors, the artistry, you can come to find it a beautiful and arresting piece. You may even like it more than the superficially attractive first painting that, upon further investigation, is sort of shallow and mostly caught your attention with bright colors. Very, very rarely, you might get a painting that doe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:30 AM
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My job isn't "deep throating 16 inches of silicone for a $4 superchat" so my job actually IS cooler.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:18 AM
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Tu quoque.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:09 AM
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As fucked up as things are, if the alternative is the world pre-Christianity, I'll take the current situation, thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:09 AM
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Tu quoque.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:02 AM
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So while I agree it's good to not spend every second of your single life lamenting your singleness in misery, for many reasons, I don't understand this notion of being totally happy single...but wanting a partner. If a lady tells me she is completely satisfied being single, then I have zero interest in her now, because where else is there to go from there but down? Any attempt at a relationship will inevitably, basically by definition, fuck with her "happy and single" life, so she'll be less hap…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 05:01 AM
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Well, not if she isn't a slut. I mean, I'm not saying anything about THIS girl, but most decent women who are attractive and seeking a man are NOT out getting drunk at clubs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:55 AM
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I doubt it's the religious community, though. Especially Catholic, who are not nearly as strict as, say, Southern Baptists or WASPey evangelicals. I think it's the opposite; it's the message she gets from fucked up society and media telling her that she's ugly for not being a movie starlet, that all the religious men want to use her as a baby factory at best, that her relationship with the right man will start with romance-movie levels of adoration and love-drunkeness. The average WAATGM showcas…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:52 AM
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Probably because no one told her that growing up; or if they did, it was completely drowned out by the rest of society. Amazing how the alleged "female liberation, make up is bad, don't sexualize women!" side of society is the same one putting hot teenagers in tiny outfits to dance and shimmy on camera and make all the regular girls out there feel like dump trucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:45 AM
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Too picky or perhaps has low self-confidence and so she sabotages her own efforts, assuming any decent man would "resent" her for not being 19 and smoking hot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:43 AM
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Her age WAS mentioned. 3 times. "Mid-20's." At the risk of being rude or causing dissent, posts like yours are an understandable but unhelpful knee-jerk reaction; no matter what a woman says, it's automatically "She's on the CC!" even when you immediately followed up with "there's not much to work with." Not saying you are WRONG, just that there's no reason to think you are right either. She could be uglier than she thinks, or maybe she's really awkward, or maybe all the work she puts into tryin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:41 AM
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Uh, even at the height of Latin Christiandom, most women (aka, not noble women) were not married via arrangement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:28 AM
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Irish is, in my experience, one of the worst-spelled languages, compared to pronunciation; I'm sure some linguist can explain how this developed, but oftentimes words are absolutely NOTHING like what they appear to be. It's baffling. I've heard it's similar with Norwegian.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:21 AM
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Hmm, but does it really matter if the very men that women ignore are no longer really trying? I mean, it's gotten to the point that a man approaching a woman who doesn't like him can be called a creep and thrown out of the bar anyway, so the woman can focus exclusively on getting Chad's attention, so I'm not sure they really care. Pre-wall, I mean, of course. It used to at least be an ego-boost to have men constantly trying to buy you drinks, but now women see it as eye-rape, so I don't think th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:16 AM
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I said "not up for very long." They go up and come down quickly. There was one I sort of liked and wanted to see more of, but her videos wouldn't stay up for more than a day or two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:12 AM
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Yes; I listen to and empathize with other people, people with different thoughts and experiences than my own, and recognize that they still have worth and aren't defined solely by outward appearances. I'm guessing that is all very foreign to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:11 AM
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I'm not sure the moon is large enough of a screen for the amount of projection here. Baseless accusations, weird conspiracy theories, angry rants, personal insults, egotistical attempts to psychoanalyze total strangers, deep-seated hatred of different views; basically, assuming I am you. YOU should definitely see a therapist, work those things out; you actually DO have the kind of problem a licensed professional can help with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:08 AM
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Yes, I have met strippers who married accomplished guys. The ENTIRE world isn't on fire yet, just most of it. And I don't consider a woman who only plays with herself or has sex with one consistent partner to be a whore just because it's on camera; not a woman I particularly want, but I'd take a cam girl over an actual prostitute (if I, for some reason, couldn't just stay single).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 04:02 AM
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Setting aside the pregnancy aspect, even...she wants something "real" but all she can do is list the hobbies of my 11-year-old niece. No person, male or female, who has nothing more to say about themselves other than "I consume mass media diligently," is even CAPABLE of something "real". This 22-year-old hasn't mentally aged in a DECADE. Even shrieking banshee Karen in HR, as terrible as she is, is at least mentally able to do more than watch the idiot box, even if it's just enforcing bullshit r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:37 AM
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I think this lady works for IMAX, considering how good she is at projection. Like, she got every single thing wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:32 AM
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Which is one thing, one common knock against "men", that I sort of agree with. Dude; for $25 bucks you get a device that blows you while vibrating, while watching porn of hot women; why, oh why, would you put your dick in 400 pounds of turkey gravy that can legally sue you for child support or get you charged with rape? Men do need to stop putting their dicks in everything--it just makes it easier for women to control them, or at least, ruin them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:30 AM
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And that'll be her epitaph; "Died waiting for Mister Perfect, the only man she deserved!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:15 AM
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Implying anyone besides the Irish can pronounce these words, especially just based on the spelling alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:15 AM
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Many OF creators engage with their fans; they have a discord, they have fan polls about what kind of vids to make, etc. And since they each serve a much smaller group, they can tailor their content to that group; it's sort of like Indie games or bands versus slick mainstream productions that need millions in sales and so have to appeal to the masses. Which leads to alot of these chicks making very different content than mainstream porn. I don't support a single chick on OF, to be clear, but I do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:13 AM
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Not so much, actually. Their armies of fans tend to troll those exact same sites, sending in DMCAs for those videos, ensuring they are not up very long.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:08 AM
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I find that odd since I know many of them, like Belle Delphine, have had boyfriends for quite some time, or at least have always seem to have a guy around to fuck them for videos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:07 AM
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I agree; millions of young men have been thrown aside by the vast majority of women except, maybe, the most desperate land whales, and finding themselves alone, attacked, neglected, and confused, they seek something to ease the pain and uneasiness. So some of them watch porn, or even things like "Erotic ASMR" or weird role-playing or whatever. It doesn't make them "weak" when they don't really have alot of better options; be alone and miserable, be a doormat, be a loser who acts exactly like tho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 04:05 AM
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Sounds exactly like my former sister-in-law; roped my brother in (whom she had "totally loved since we were teenagers) while he was recovering from a bad breakup, seemed decent at first and really worked to join our family, but eventually made everyone of us dislike being around her, because it's a never-ending litany of complaints, excuses, whining, physical health problems, mental health problems, bitching about all the other people who left her life over her bitching, etc. The only one who st…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 03:30 AM
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Oh yeah, absolutely. Look at the women who legit think that if the guy they voluntary fucked last night turns out to be, in the morning light and when viewed soberly, to be sort of unattractive, they can call it rape. Or the trend of calling it rape when they choose to get drunk off their asses and then have sex (with equally drunk men, but somehow they are still at fault). And then, of course, everything under the sun is sexual harassment or assault...which they sometimes want and get mad at yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 03:22 AM
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For the most part, I see less "red flags" and more "basic bitch". There is just absolutely nothing here to interest a dude beyond not being the ugliest woman on the planet. She chose "most meaningful tattoo" as a prompt--how fucking boring do you have to be to choose that (unless you have a tattoo from when you were 19 commemorating your mom after she was kidnapped and murdered, or some such)? Most of her phrasing is just woo. The big red flag, to me, is the protest bit and saying "I truly love …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 03:09 AM
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Sort of like fat-phobic or whatever; I'm not AFRAID of fat people, I just don't want to fuck them (I stole that line). They append a negative connotation to everything to try to shame you without actually having to identify anything shameful you have done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 02:56 AM
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Meh. Hasn't happened in my whole life. Most people don't train their dogs all that well, sure, but you'd have to actively train them TO bite every stranger who comes by for this to be a real problem. Because realistically, if your dog is that violent, the police would have been called and your dog would have been taken and put down long ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 02:54 AM
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It's like that movie trope of the "strong woman" who, I don't know, scares off some gangbangers with lecturing and finger-wagging; it doesn't actually fucking work with those people, and the people it DOES work with ALLOW it to work--they are too nice to call you a stupid cunt and have security throw your ass out. The only "intimidation" is fear that a Twitter mob will get them fired because you claim you were "assaulted" when you went ballistic because the barista put the wrong kind of milk in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 02:51 AM
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I don't even understand what you're trying to do now; you seem to be disputing my distrust in her account, but your only argument is women think illogically (because fuck "male point of view" or whatever, there's logical and there's not-logical), so...you're saying she's right but too stupid to explain it? Or wrong because she's stupid? I don't follow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 12:07 AM
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I'm still not seeing much evidence here. I'm not asking for a bibliography, but can you give me some specifics about some other societies that collapsed in this manner? And if a "slow decline" doesn't count, how many collapses are there (since most of the ones I know did in fact follow a decline, leading to them either breaking up or being conquered)? I only ask because, like I said, I see this regularly but never see any examples besides Greece and Rome; I'd even dispute those, but even if thos…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 12:04 AM
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My thoughts exactly, but alot of folks don't seem to agree. "Here's pictures of my trip to France!" and it's just them in a generic nightclub getting drunk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 11:54 PM
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Fair enough. But that's still assuming they have specific teachings. When they just teach "Be nice!", that could mean ANYTHING. Every ideology says that. That is what I was referring to, what many Christians today are recoiling from; even if it's not hypocritical, just saying warmed-over platitudes is not a religious sermon. So I guess it's both; any ideology that hopes to survive has to have solid rules and positions, and then has to actually stick to them. There's really no such thing as being…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 11:52 PM
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This is all sort of a non-sequitur; you said they did the opposite of what I said, and then said nothing to contradict it. What I said is true; pagans were given two choices, convert or die. Jews, Christians, Mandeans, a few other various related faiths, were allowed to exist if they paid the jizya and followed some rules, but pagans, like Zoroastrians, were hardcore targeted for extermination.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 11:46 PM
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Well, without any specifics, I can't say I am giving the benefit of the doubt to anyone or not. I didn't see the example you say you gave. Certainly some people play up their religion to get religious voters, but that's true of literally everyone, if you consider "religion" to just be another ideology--every politician panders an ideology that's popular in their country or city or district to get votes. As for the "plots", not really; it's usually the other way around, that folks who get elected…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 07:12 AM
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Idea: we need to find a way to get tramp stamps moved from the small of the back to the face somewhere. It'd really save everyone some time when they see women like this one. Maybe we could pay some Tik-Tok hos to popularize it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 06:52 AM
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Going through OLD profiles is absolutely mind-numbing--they are basically procedurally generated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 06:50 AM
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Women confused "cool" for "technically impressive". Grown men never thought it was cool to see a man talk the pants off of women, breaking up marriages and seducing young maidens, but they were certainly impressed by someone with that kind of charisma. It's sort of like being fascinated by Charles Manson or Jim Jones; you don't have to like or respect the people to find it amazing they managed to get people to follow and obey them like they did. But it was just lie #482 that feminists sold to wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 06:48 AM
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Male or female, I'll never understand the mentality of people who want to travel...but do the same fucking things there as they do here. "I got drunk in Madrid, I got drunk in Tel Aviv, I got drunk in Tokyo, and then I got drunk in Dublin." Except for that last one being legally required, I don't get this. If I go somewhere exotic, I want to see what's unique there, I want to learn about their culture, see their landscapes, learn about their history. You can smoke a blunt, get drunk on cheap vod…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:30 AM
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"My job pays well and is located nearby but I fucking hate it and could easily find another; should I stay there the rest of my life?"--A woman. "My boss made unreasonable demands so I told him to go fuck himself with a broken beer bottle and got another job, even though I had to move 3 states away for it."--A man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:23 AM
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And fighting/competition is toxic masculinity! Anything bad in any circumstance is male! I wonder if black guys will ever realize that "We dindu nuffin'" was invented by women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:13 AM
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Well, I don't want to get all political, but since you come from a European perspective (and I am admittedly making assumptions here), I want to point out that policies which YOU THINK are punitive on the poor WE THINK are not, in many cases. I'm not trying to say who is correct; I am just saying that oftentimes those conservatives are not being hypocrites at all, they just believe that entirely different outcomes will result from specific policies. A simple example would be the minimum wage; ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:10 AM
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I always remember that Rhonda Roussey could kick my ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:04 AM
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Yeah, it's the same with kids; you have to remember that kids don't see "toys all over the floor" as a problem unless you raise them to see it as a problem (usually, anyway). And we were all kids once. If our parents let dishes stack up for 3 days then washed them all in one go, that's what we might do--we're not "too lazy" to wash every single night, we just never think about it until there's a pile of them. But these days, women control pop culture and at least the perception of normality, so …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:03 AM
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That's entirely possible. But I personally doubt it. And it's not just because she's a woman, or something; it's the way in which she whines. If she was the reasonable one, she would give specific examples of her issues, list the excuses the men gave, and explain why those excuses are bullshit. That's what mature, intelligent adults do; think of a manager explaining why they fired an employee, listing the expectations the employee failed to meet and their endless excuses. But she doesn't do that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 03:51 AM
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"Don't be looking towards marriage, that's too much pressure. But don't be having sex, that's not Christian. Just date to date, because these women want dates so you're shitty for not giving them what they want." This isn't even "modern prostitution" where you get sex in exchange for your money; this is straight up "Spend your money on a woman because she EXISTS." Fuck you, pussy-begging advice columnist--my money isn't on tap for every "saved" ho on the block, and stop reinforcing their delusio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:34 AM
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Well, they can be. Like, .00001% of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:28 AM
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"He's all dirty and his hands are rough and look at his robes--you know he doesn't make much money wearing coarse wool like that! And you know what we are on our last date? Loaves and fishes he just pulled out of a basket! What a cheapskate!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:28 AM
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Yeah, we're in a cycle of increasing fatherlessness because women either drive the fathers out, don't tell the father he's a father, or don't even know who the father is. Which means boys are raised by single, exasperated, moms with poor impulse control, which doesn't lead to strong, righteous men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:25 AM
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"Someones needs to care for this child! He needs a rolemodel! Wife her up!" "Okay, give me the child. I'll be the rolemodel instead of his slut mom, who will send me some money to help and otherwise stay away; young, healthy, and free of the kid, she can get a decent job." "..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:20 AM
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There was a time when a letter-writing campaign from nagging, Bible-thumping housewives would make Hollywood execs shit their pants; now it's on the other foot. "Institutions" keep trying to guess what the future zeitgeist will be and appeal to it, instead of just...doing their fucking jobs. Churches, too, are trying to be more "relevant", which makes them less relevant; Pope Francis regurgitating every freshman paper on why capitalism is bad isn't making those freshmen rejoin the Church.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:16 AM
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I'll add a little observation; most couples have a more dominant partner. Traditionally, it's been the man; he doesn't have to be a control freak, but he'd tell his wife he expected the house presentable and meals cooked and the kids clean. But strong whamen don't need a man to tell them what to do, right? No, they tell the MEN what to do! So alot of men have said...okay. It's not even quite a D/s thing, although it sort of overlaps with it. And I'm actually okay with that; there have been plent…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 08:13 AM
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Beat me to it. Women care more about that. But. BUT. I bet you $500 that when those men got in her car, they grimaced at the dirt and garbage in and on the car--they'd never let their car get like that. My parents actually worked this out; my dad asked why my mom cares that the couches match, and she asked if he'd drive around, for longer than he had to, with one car door painted a different color than the others. He got it real quick. But she tried to keep her car reasonably nice and clean and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 07:49 AM
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I've been seeing more articles lately calling out modern Christians for completely losing sight of Christianity. I'm not even religious myself, but I understand their argument; Christianity is NOT whatever nice, moral, vague thoughts and ideas you have, it's an already existing belief system, with rules and expectations. Churches are trying to, they think, stay relevant by diluting the message, but the result is making their message unpalatable and no one cares.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 07:42 AM
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Holy shit, I can't believe she spelled "audacity" correctly. And telling me I "have the audacity" makes me think of myself as a modern He-Man, though even Skeletor wouldn't fuck that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:16 AM
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What do you mean "will"? She looks like she already hit an ACTUAL wall!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:13 AM
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"How did you get yourself out of the rut?" Hope you brought water and a change of clothes because YOU AIN'T FUCKING LEAVING.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:12 AM
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Yup. Because we have no real moral code anymore. People stand for POSITIONS but not for PRINCIPLES.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:09 AM
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So Greece, Greece, Greece, and the successor to Greece that largely emulated Greece and stole alot of their gods and festivals and culture and outright conquered them. That's not a very comprehensive list. I'm not saying the assertion is WRONG, but I've never seen much comprehensive evidence of it. Is that how Persia fell to the Abassids? Why the Incans were already collapsing when the Spanish arrived? Did Sumer or Egypt reach a critical mass of hookers? Is that why China ossified and eventually…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 06:07 AM
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While some are that deep in denial, most of them are well-aware of this fact. Most men who are "losers", in the popular sense of the word (as opposed to ACTUAL losers--criminals, liars, politicians), know what they are, how they are seen, what they "should" do about it. But they just lack the willpower; not because they are just weak (though they certainly aren't strong) but because they feel like no one gives a rat's ass anyway. Change your while life around and you MIGHT be able to attract a w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:59 AM
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Not exactly true. Alot of what the OF crowd does is very different from mainstream porn, or even your typical camgirl/amateur porn. Not ALL of it, mind you; of course there's alot of basic fucking and sucking. But the ASMR and roleplaying and the touchy-feely content is certainly not something you are going to get from Brazzers. And some of those content producers actually engage directly with their fans; maybe it's all cynical manipulation, sure, but at least it's direct contact as she hops int…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:51 AM
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I will second that therapy will not do shit as that is not the problem in most cases. I'm actually fine socializing, but I don't like it with 90% of people--have you MET people? And that's just talking; finding someone to be intimate with...well, what "less toxic" methods are there besides "managing to find a decent woman around somehow" or "mail-order bride whom I keep ignorant of American family courts"? Fucking diseased bar wenches? Outright prostitutes? Making myself go gay? Or did you mean …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:47 AM
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While there's no reason for anyone not seriously disabled to be a fatass slob, there is some logic in asking, why should I work so hard for those particular women who will only give me the time of day for looking good enough? I get a minimum standard, but if all they want is for me to have a six pack, well, fuck 'em, they aren't WORTH the effort to get a six pack.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:41 AM
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When the Arab armies of the 7th century poured out of Arabia and began converting people at sword-point, telling them all about their new god and his 8 million rules and insane ramblings, the pagans they targeted must have been absolutely flabbergasted to a degree that I, as a young man, couldn't imagine was possible in the modern day with modern education and pop culture exposure to other ideas; feminists have proven to me that those victims had it easy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:33 AM
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It's not just "these women"; like all the rest of it, it has become a religious position with no heresy allowed among any leftists. Even when they contradict themselves, even when it changes week to week, even when they don't understand it or how their own belief came about, it's just CORRECT. They call actual transpeople "transphobes" for not considering people who aren't actually trans to be trans--this is "you can't make this shit up" level of delusion. Whatever one thinks about specific posi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:23 AM
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"I've worn out 3 Bad Dragons while watching interracial porn; where are all the decent men who can satisfy a totally typical woman?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:13 AM
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Ha! This procedurally generated NPC thinks she could be a unicorn of any sort. Seriously, if they want to make an AI indistinguishable from a human online, posing as a woman on OLD would be the way to go for, like, the prototype stage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:11 AM
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"Administrator". Outside of clown world, I hear HR departments, instead of going thought your Facebook to fire you for not using a rainbow flag avatar in June, go through your dating profiles and fire you for admitting to being unstable and untrustworthy, especially when you have a job with responsibility over others. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go cry into a beer or 12...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 05:05 AM
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So who wants to bet her car cost 100k+? Anyone?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 04:54 AM
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Well, he did, so...yes, he can. And determination of parental rights and responsibilities is not a federal issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 04:15 AM
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Sure, I'm not saying you're wrong about the stereotype, just that it's a stereotype conservatives AND progressives agree on. The difference is that progressives are contradictory about it, while conservatives are increasingly obsessive about it. I didn't notice she had a female avatar but I'm old-school enough to still follow the rule that everyone on the internet is a dude until proven otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:53 AM
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"I don't want anything serious." "I don't want anything NOT serious."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:49 AM
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"Never used any prescription drugs"? Never? Anyway, this is batshit and I fear it may be satire, but who the fuck knows anymore?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:47 AM
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Didn't she go all holy roller/sex negative or something?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:45 AM
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Or South American or Central American...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:45 AM
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True, but when one youthful mistake (like trusting a crazy bitch) leads to 18 years of wage slavery...it's still terrifying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:43 AM
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Don't ruin Highlander for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:41 AM
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On Tinder? I dunno.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:40 AM
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My brother surrendered all parental rights in Colorado, so...yes, you can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:38 AM
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I'm not sure I'd call them "modest", but there is certainly rank hypocrisy in this issue; men need to "keep it in their pants" but whamen can do anything, and even the men who keep it in their pants after cutting off their balls STILL have to pay taxes to raise the kids of those irresponsible women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:35 AM
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Yeah, but fraud for 0 dollars (or Marks, or Euros, whatever).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:33 AM
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No, that's still being a dishonest asshole. But that shouldn't be illegal and she should be responsible for being a moron.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:32 AM
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Yeah, but the letter of how "impregnating a woman" works requires you to finish inside of her. If she knocks herself up with your trash, well, she knocked HERSELF up, not you. Oh, but suddenly the judge isn't so literal anymore...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:30 AM
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Hmm, where? You're link mentions only one such case, where the exact opposite outcome occurred. I have no doubt some whackadoo feminists want this, but so far, that's too extreme even for our current culture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:27 AM
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That is literally what "age of consent" stops.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:19 AM
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He may not be woke; this is one issue where I see folks from both sides of the political spectrum sometimes have knee-jerk reactions to what should be a sensitive, nuanced topic. As a kid who was very mature emotionally and was the dominant one in a relationship with a mid-20's woman when I was 16, I laugh at people who think it's so black-and-white.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:18 AM
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Incorrect; helping someone gets you paid, failing to help them does not. If you are incompetent and people stop coming to you, leaving terrible reviews of how awful you are, you will not do well; if you are good, and you help people, they will recommend you and send more patients your way, leading to continued business. This is like saying restaurants have an incentive to give you tiny amounts of food so you'll come back hungry very soon--sure, that sounds logical, until you realize people would…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:11 AM
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But you also said therapists have no incentive to help people, which is incorrect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 08:09 AM
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And I don't think a real woman is the size of 2 women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:34 AM
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It's because they didn't actually have pictures of the dicks included. Although it is funny when you combine them with the whole pitch of telling kids how books can take them on fantastic adventures; well, if books are so damn good at that, we probably shouldn't leave 44 pages of detailed description of coitus lying around. Oh, and "Breasts are natural so we shouldn't have to cover them up!" but we can't put them on page 3.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:33 AM
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No but she probably IS dumb enough to run into an outboard motor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:30 AM
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It's ironic, maybe, but I find big boobs are better when women are clothed, in that it fills out tops and gives them curves, yet when a woman is naked? Too big and almost certainly saggy and funny shaped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:29 AM
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Define "controversial"; it's certainly "controversial" to hypocritical women, but all the rest of humanity understands it just fine. Now, the exact weight limit is debatable because women don't all have the same builds, obviously, but at least weight is something relatively manageable, especially for a young woman who has never had the body-wrecking experience of childbirth. Height is even worse because there is literally nothing to be done about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:28 AM
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Well, not always. I am getting better NOW, but for a large chunk of my life, I was the opposite of motivated. I just felt like...why bother? I just coasted, almost like I was half-awake, for years. It's not the worst thing ever, but it's a kind of tragedy all in itself; the potential of a life wasted because a person feels that there's nothing they can do anyway. This is the real "incel" problem; all that other shit about incels is bull, but it's true that so many men just check out, work medioc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:23 AM
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I'm lucky enough that I got all the way to university without having to study; when I reached my limit, when I could no longer just coast along listening to the lectures and understanding everything first time around, it was a fucking disaster for me. I had no idea how to study!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:19 AM
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And is it even superficially beneficial? Height is nice but we're reaching a point where women want men who are so tall it's unhealthy, as their hearts and joints struggle with the load being placed on them. So it's not even good genes they seek. That'd be like saying big boobs are good genes, but selecting for absolutely ginormous ones that cause back problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:16 AM
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True, although having that initial boost also makes it easier for them to then develop the right kind of personality and confidence. If women start flocking to them in middle school, it will give them a massive ego boost, and they start working on how to be appealing to all those women; men who are blatantly ignored by all women have their self-confidence knee-capped, and never get the chance to develop the right kind of interpersonal and dating skills needed. It's the start of the cycle ladies …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:14 AM
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As a short, bald man, here is what the dating landscape looks like; absolutely nothing. No interest, ever, unless you count obvious gold diggers or women so desperate they'll fuck anyone. That said, at least on dating profiles, I swipe on 99% of them anyway, even 99% of the attractive ones, for being sluts, bitches, or morons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:09 AM
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Unless she was beaten into the ICU and can never walk right again due to her severe internal injuries, yeah, that's BS. Maybe she's just so distraught over how she was treated she put on 79 pounds of ice cream fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:01 AM
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As someone who went to therapy to deal with issues and got help, I wish folks would stop saying this here. Don't blame professional psychologists because alot of women are broken whores who use them for validation instead of advice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:59 AM
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True. And this is true even for women who are NOT (yet) cum rags; your husband should NOT ever be your best friend. That's basically a downgrade, or even an insult; your one and only life partner should be the one person who is a level above even your best friends, aka, the highest level. Because no matter how close you are to a friend, they are still people with separate lives and goals and plans; your partner is the one who is sharing his life, goals, and plans, with you. Your best friend can …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:54 AM
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Not all high-school grads; you also have the career women with no kids but an even larger ego who thinks her job makes up for her fading looks and bitchy personality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:48 AM
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Or "Dual-dating strategy." Find the most desirable men for banging until those men finally stop giving you attention, THEN turn to all the good men you've blatantly ignored all your life and guilt/bait them into providing for you and your fatherless children. Or even just you alone, sometimes, but the principle is the same; treat 80-90% of men as "second-rate" that you "settle for" only when you literally have no other option besides being totally alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:47 AM
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Give it a few more years, and we can all just claim we identify as women too. Who will there be to blame when all the men somehow cease to exist?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:44 AM
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The former, actually. Like, their reviews are usually phrased as "I TOLD them I demanded these 15 things that only a fraction of a percent of men meet, none of whom are using a service since women line up with their knee pads for them daily, and they failed to deliver!" Like, we have to filter through alot of dating app profiles to find those few that just outright list this level of delusion, but the reviews I've read are basically one post-wall dingbat after another. But the icing on the cake …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:41 AM
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Gee, and I wonder why all dating apps had to get rid of the ability to message people you hadn't matched with yet. I bet it had nothing to do with men politely telling these women they are trainwrecks and how to shape up, and them taking that as "hate speech" and, you know, the usual litany.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:30 AM
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Not off hand, but I read an interview with the woman who made it, a feminist trying to describe the, you know, bizarre and unearthly phenomenon of men who can't get laid and get a little grumpy about the situation. It was as erudite and sagacious as you imagine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 06:44 AM
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Egh. Especially black women. Black women already have an uphill battle physically and culturally; they are the last group of ladies who need a superiority complex on top of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 06:36 AM
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I too recently came across someone getting very mad at the "loose vagina" joke. It's a joke; no one actually who knows shit thinks that is how smooth muscles work. Of course, the joke is ultimately on me everytime I fail to understand how someone is triggered by a joke these days, because obviously they are, it's the cool, hip thing to do now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 06:35 AM
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2 thoughts; 1 is that she is suing for bullying despite also saying she's never gotten any response back from the company. That's...not how bullying works. But the other is, yeah, try looking up reviews on Yelp for matchmaking services; they are HILARIOUS. It really is all women just listing the failures of companies at not genetically engineering them a mate--all the ones I looked up had a rating of 2 stars or less. Since it's not actually a dating profile, they are even more honest there, and …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 06:29 AM
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No, I've seen women get with a guy in a relationship, get him to break it off and come start one with her...then he cheats on her too, and she's all "OMG how could I have known!? There were no signs at all! I literally could not have ever guessed this would happen, it's 0% my fault, I'm a good, innocent girl victimized by mean nasty men and their delicious cocks I can't stop chasing!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:38 PM
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They pursue and accept that kind of superficiality because it makes them feel emotionally secure. It's all predictable; it's a known pattern. There is very little anxiety associated to it. The charming guy, even though fake, takes away self-consciousness on her part. It's all easy. She just has to show up. There is personal investment or emotional risk. She is all safe and in control. Right, so again...stop arguing with me when you agree with me. I know I am not, but I will not argue. When one d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:36 PM
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Her k/d ratio is atrocious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 04:16 AM
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I broke out the crystal ball to see what future posts she would make; they include "Why do my kids like their dads more than me?" and "Why do all of my friends fuck my boyfriends and key my car?" and finally "Why do the men I got promoted over for having a vagina not kiss my ass?" "I'll take Inspin Tears for 500."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:45 AM
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That is a very true statement. More than even you might realize, because I have learned that most people think that way. We've become excessively polite, qualifying all of our statements, asking for things that should be reasonable requests or even expectations. It's a pet peeve of mine, at this point, even though I do it too so I can keep my job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:41 AM
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Hey now, she's 6 foot tall, so she's willing to date men as much as 2 INCHES shorter than her! She's basically a walking charity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:37 AM
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So I must own a home, but not live in it? Ah, I see; I need to be living in my 10k a month penthouse apartment in New York, and own a vacation home in Malibu, got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:31 AM
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Right up until they start slicing off the clitoris...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:23 AM
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But I have seen them care, too, and it's just hilarious; fucking pattern recognition, how does it work!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:22 AM
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Even outside of the precise scope of this sub, it's another example of "Therapy is a magic goddamn spell that'll cure what ails ya!" mentality. I went into therapy as a teenager, and I remember my dad telling me something like "Well, go get cured, or whatever." Sure, that's how it works; shoot me up with the happy juice, nurse! We went from stigmatizing mental illness to treating it like a nutritional deficiency you just need a pill for, with the occasional visit, not having to work to realign y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:20 AM
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That's what Mattress Girl said; she's fucking Republicans now. All the causes in the world won't wash out the taste of soy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:14 AM
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Pretty sure she's swiped on more men than I've shot in videogames. Good god, does she just sit there and swiping for hours and hours at a time? If I didn't know how messed up women "secretly" were, I'd assume she was legitimately a nympho who ALSO had OCD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:12 AM
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All that you mentionned is being a slave to external validation. You're exaggerating, but yes, that is largely the very point I am making. Young women, being shallow, chase the young, shallow men who then focus on being superficially attractive to women; it ends up being shallow and meaningless, big shocker, but now they are used to it, they expect it. It's Pavlovian. Men who never did that, they deride and avoid. That's sort of the whole point of the sub, but I was just emphasizing how it's an …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:07 AM
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Muslim men who rape a woman and then blame her for "seducing" them because she had no choice but to break one of their rules like no leaving the house without a male family member escort? Oh, wait, I'm sorry; we're not allowed to point out sexism in the most sexist countries because...I'll get back to you when I find out. It's certainly one of those things where every person needs to be held responsible for their own, direct actions, but we also need to ask how we got there in the first place. P…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 05:54 AM
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Uh, no, that is not the "attractive" I am talking about at all; I am talking precisely about being "sexy". Getting positive attention from women encourages men to seek more of it; they put in more effort on how to groom nicely, what clothing style is hot, being "hip", talking and acting in whatever way seems to work. It's not necessarily conscious, like a plan; it's just that if women go "Oooh, I like your beard!" you'll work on keeping your beard nice, but 5 years later, if beards are out of st…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 05:47 AM
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Could be. But again, stories I've seen of people in lockdown in some places are pretty brutal, folks who live in tiny apartments and got yelled at for leaving them just to go for a walk. Lots of COVID pounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 05:29 AM
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On the one hand, I agree with you, they certainly have. I've seen men do it too, in the stupidest contexts (like, "The fanbase for this movie is toxic!"). Like damn near every word used by the modern woke crowd with their Newspeak. But on the other hand, it's a pretty well-known fact that women ARE excessively attracted to toxic men, which are certainly not ALL Chads, but is over-represented in the Chad demographic, because having all the young, hot chicks begging to suck your cock will do that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 06:32 AM
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So what IS my fixed interest rate on a 20-year mortgage in the downtown Houston area? What? Dating?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:20 AM
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"Okay, women are obedient domestic servants and sexual playthings; you're good with that and will sign a prenup if I want you too, right?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:17 AM
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I've known women who were told to stop dating for a while. I am pretty sure "cock carousel" is not in the DSMV (although that'd be pretty awesome).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:11 AM
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Why else would you come here if not for disgust?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:07 AM
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True, but on the flip side, with men dying more than women (and I'm sure this was even more extreme back when wars were constant and physical labor was dangerous as fuck), we likely had a surplus of women, and it would make sense for the wealthiest men who could afford it to have more than one wife, provided he also raise her children (pretty sure this was common in the Middle East, South Asia, and even in China; not sure about other regions). But that was a small percentage of the men; I agree …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:06 AM
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I was just confused but I didn't want to misrepresent you. I don't see "Not sharing my personal information to anyone who wants it" as "deceiving" anyone. I do agree that a lie by omission is a thing, like if you deliberately skip an essential detail, but...well, for example, if any sort of sensitive topic comes up at work, I just say "I don't feel comfortable discussing this at work." I'm not fooling anyone, or tricking them in some way, I'm just avoiding the Karens in HR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:02 AM
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I know women in therapy who get told what they are doing wrong. I mean, I guess that's not exactly a representative sample, but I am curious what you're drawing from too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:57 AM
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Okay, I don't want to put words in your mouth, so I want to be clear that I am legitimately not sure what you are saying, but it appears to me that you just put words in MY mouth. I THINK, and maybe I'm confused, you just said that telling the truth is "designed to deceive", and that I apparently admitted as such, even though neither of those claims are accurate. I hope I misunderstood. As for your side note, well, see what I said about about so-called loved ones who can't tolerate an honest rel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:36 AM
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Sometimes. Or they will stop taking your money because you are wasting their time and they don't want to be associated with stories of failure. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, just that absolute statements like "therapy doesn't work" are incorrect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:14 AM
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??? Because the only reason he asked is because she asked and then they had a whole conversation about his past (or lack thereof); if he had simply demurred and changed the subject, she'd be suspicious of him, and he's be unaware of the contradictions and hypocrisy which he now knows about. And I really don't even know what you are referring to with "this is exactly why you don't disclose it"--what is "this"? Nothing here indicated she saw him negatively, or that that was something he is now wor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:12 AM
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I can't really agree or disagree about "people", as it's not specific enough of a term to allow me too. So is "lie all the time"; I assume you don't mean that literally, but I don't know how often you mean. But I will say, you can just stop lying, it's entirely possible. I've learned to just say things like "I don't want to discuss that" if I don't want to discuss that, instead of making up a lie. To the extent that "people" still feel the need to lie to the people they love, it's a bad thing th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:01 AM
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At least she's a virgin, so there's a slight chance this really is just a case of low self-esteem. Her last sentence is awful, but that might be a war between what she actually feels is right (not being a whore) and what society is telling her she wants/needs (to be a whore). Also, this is the COVID times, and depending on where she lives, her last year and a half might have been forced isolation anyway, actively preventing her from developing social skills (but if it kept her from getting fucke…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:54 AM
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I actually know of one girl who did, quite a while ago, despite not even doing nudity. Surely if you have an army of simps, one of them will keep up a website for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:44 AM
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Am I the only one reading this completely differently? To me it looks like he IS the guy she is seeking, who ghosted her after a one-night stand, and is lying about it, so she gets all passive-aggressive in response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:43 AM
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Okay, so...you're on her side, is what you're saying? Because everyone else here is objecting to her dishonesty, while you're advocating FOR dishonesty; I can't exactly see why you're surprised. If you have to hide basic information like this to make your relationship work, your relationship is a pool of watery shit and you are, for some reason, attempting to prolong your swim. To me, this story shows the exact opposite; if he had followed that rule, it would have done the opposite of "helped", …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:36 AM
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That's what the police keep telling me but I did NOT kill those hookers... deliberately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:31 AM
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Possibly. But personally, I don't care if it's actually just 4; the fact that she's being a lying, hypocritical bitch about it is enough to justify walking out. She could be doing that over almost anything and I'd say the same thing, just like this poor bastard is saying; if she's fucking lying to you, and hiding things from you, she's probably doing it more than you know, and fuck that shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:30 AM
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Couldn't you just ask them if they like Amy Schumer? Seems like a shorter test!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:26 AM
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Fair point, in that I lie at work when the alternative is being bitched out over something that is literally outside of my control (like suppliers fucking up). Or if you lie to protect yourself or your family from a crazy man with a gun, sure, that's fine. But this sounds like you just being an aidspig; you know perfectly well what was meant here, and it's something I 100% support. In fact, your partner should be the one person on earth you can be the MOST honest with, so if they fail at this on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:24 AM
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I have literally never had a psychologist say that, and I've been to several. Every one of them wanted the opposite, in fact; let's set a goal, get a plan, work towards it. Patients who go out saying "Doctor so-and-so really helped fix my life!" are going to generate more income than a patient who goes "I've been seeing Doctor so-and-so for 20 years and...he's nice..." That isn't to say there aren't assholes, cynical psychologists, or outright frauds; same goes for doctors, lawyers, accountants,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:15 AM
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And the number one predictor of an abusive man is...if his mom abused him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:08 AM
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We won't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:03 AM
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Every society was a religious society, and basically everyone that evolved beyond "primitive tribe in straw huts" has had rules governing sexuality and marriage that didn't allow for too much fucking around (although it certainly varied in alot of specifics, like societies that had sex as a form of religious rite). But it generally applied to men too; Islam may allow a man to have 4 wives, but that's 4 WIVES, not 400 girlfriends, and that also required him to support them, and all their children…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:03 AM
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Eh, I wouldn't go that far. I have absolutely seen with my own eyes outright abusive men and the women who stick with them because "He's so hot! Grrrr!" Until finally, with a broken arm, she leaves him...until it heals enough to swing to the next branch and there's another douchebag waiting to steal money from her for weed. The constant chasing of the top 20% isn't going to produce only attractive, well-adjusted, immune-to-bullshit men; it's going to definitely create some condescending, my-shit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:59 AM
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I'm curious why you say that about the mental health field. Certainly it's not, like, a red-pilled group of folks, but I don't see it actively promoting this shit; if anything, it seems to tepidly recommend against it. But that's just me, I am wondering what you're seeing (and I want to be clear I am talking actual psychologists, not pop bullshit puff pieces in women's magazines where they take a study out of context and use it to promote metaphorical vagina heroin).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:54 AM
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Well, the bigger incentive is "keep a steady flow of new patients to replace the old ones, created by positive results and word of mouth", so a bunch of losers who never improve is a poor long-term strategy, especially when reviews are a thing. Therapy CAN work, but it's not guaranteed, and it certainly doesn't work for patients who refuse to try.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:52 AM
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Except women are also complaining about men going bald, not being unnaturally tall, etc. While basically every non-fat (and I mean FAT, not thicc) woman who doesn't have outright birth-defects or is a burn victim is considered attractive enough to the average man, so long as she just tries (aka, bathes, styles her hair, wears something nice).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:48 AM
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Working for decades will definitely develop muscle, but there's different kind of muscle; it won't, without proper diet, result in visible muscle, like big biceps, nor will it make you cut, so you have a nice 6 pack. It will make you wiry and strong, but you'll still look slim, and you'll either be gaunt (if you're outright underfed) or develop pudge around the abdomen (as that is where men biologically store extra fat). Nice that your family is so muscular, but look at Civil War photos and you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:46 AM
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There's also the long-term point; when only some men get attention from women, those men focus on getting more attention (aka, being and looking more attractive), while other men, already starting further down the list, continue being the same, NOT learning how to look and dress and act in a way that women like. So it just perpetuates. This isn't the fault of any single woman but women need to realize that alot of "meh" looking men CAN become more attractive, if you give them a reason to. But th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:37 AM
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"Incel" was invented by a feminist, actually. And "nice guy" is "a guy who is nice"; it wasn't a "term" anymore than "good man" or cool dude" until women MADE it a term to denigrate men who weren't asshole enough. Men don't invent bullshit word salad like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 02:32 AM
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So...are we even going to believe her husband is really a husband and not a provider/validator/beta? If it took 138 dates, that means less than 1% of men are worthy? Uh huh--she lives in a feminist mental hellscape where nearly every man is a rapist, doesn't she? And she managed to find one of the unicorns that shit ice cream there. "It can happen to you too, girls! Buy my fucking book my friend is plugging for me with this fake article!" Women would have better luck just walking into a sci-fi c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:48 AM
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Good post. I almost wonder if she's taking the piss though. So hard to tell in upside-down land now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:35 AM
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You make good money, congrats. But since you make significantly more than the national average, your experiences don't equate to the average. If the bill for a kid was that high, my brother and I would have died as children. Going to public school is the norm for like 90% of kids, most of us at Kraft mac and cheese some nights, and most kids get clothes at Walmart or, at best, Kohls, not Neiman Marcus or better. That is actually the average experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:33 AM
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I see no reason for her to stop, honestly. What good would it do now? Once you've fucked up a knife with rough handling, you may as well continue to use it to dig out weeds and pry shit open, because it's not going to get un-fucked just because you pet it and sing it lullabys. So let her be a lay and eek out whatever happiness that gives her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:22 AM
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IF she's 29 and has been looking for years, there is a chance she didn't ride the carousel, but still drank enough kool-aid that she spent the last decade working up to her "good job" or whatever. I see men do this too, even blue pilled men; they don't want to grow up "too fast" or something, they want to stretch out every stage, make college take longer, spend more time as a post-graduate kid with just getting started, drag out everything until he's ready to have kids at like 40. Just a society…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:18 AM
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While I hate banks, if we fucked them that hard, and it happened to put them in a bad position, we'd just directly subsidize them anyway. And I don't think idiots who borrowed 6 figures to learn how to cry about colonialism should have their debt forgiven--they've been demanding it for years, and the last thing we should do is give them what they want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:13 AM
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How? Disney's properties lately have made absolute gangbusters; Star Wars, Marvel, the live action remakes, all making mad money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:11 AM
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That came out YEARS ago and caused a feminist backlash because teaching women how to avoid rapists is soggy knees--we need to just teach men not to rape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:10 AM
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I mean, she was trapped and he regained his humanity; it's not like she set out with that goal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:09 AM
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Have you seen school teachers lately? Bat-shit crazy harpies doing things like telling kids they are not ALLOWED to tell their parents what their homework is. At least a woman with some kind of real, business job is working in reality. At this point, I'd rather have a woman who stocks shelves or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 08:07 AM
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They've already proven they are ass. The Trump sub-reddit was already in total lock-down where only mods could post freely, and everything else had to be approved before even going up, and it STILL got taken down shortly thereafter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 05:16 PM
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I will add that even "I keep myself in good shape" can be a problem, when it's excessive. Some women are so obsessed with their bodies and sexual appeal that they dedicate all their time and effort towards it; strictly vegan, only organic food, they work out hours every day, never eat junk food even at like a birthday party, obsess over their looks, etc. If you look like you go to the gym, good; if you're posting pics of yourself at the gym, even if you're not dressed like a slut, I am at least …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 05:11 PM
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I hear that alot myself. Like, I swear, when it makes sense, but I'll see a female YouTuber drop F-bombs in a way that makes me cringe (and I generally hate that overused term). It's so forced--they are deliberately adding in cuss words and vulgarity, instead of it just being a natural part of their lexicon. Unless they're from New York or served in the military, it almost always sounds like what it is; bad acting. I don't really like MEN being overly vulgar, as it is often the crutch of the ina…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 05:07 PM
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Doing something for other people, for once, might grant them just a small bit of internal peace.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 05:02 PM
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You may be right. I wasn't really concerning myself with the correct nomenclature at that point, merely stating that it's possible she was trying to say "I am not more interested in you just because you make alot of money." Not saying I believe her, it was just so I could point out that even giving her the benefit of the doubt, it's still a meaningless tweet that really doesn't make her look as good as she thinks--it just tells me she's probably okay with Chad having an average income, so long a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:52 PM
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I see those too, but in my experience, most of them are just lists; here's every movie I like, and every band, and every Netflix series. Which is very different from listing 2-3 passions and then WHY you like them, so we actually get an insight. In my hypothetical dating app that will never exist, I'd have prompts that have to be answered in detail, such as, "What is your favorite hobby and why? You can only pick one. Minimum 500 characters." It's fine if they love Harry Potter, but why? My MOM …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:36 PM
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All YOU'VE given are emotional anecdotes; you're just a person who hasn't read Pew Research polls on what faculty actually identify as, and how widespread fear of retaliation for wrongthink is. Even taking that out, you're basically saying "My experiences, as one individual person, have more weight than hundreds and hundreds of other people's experiences." Also, your argument fails basic logic; so business and economics schools still have a few conservatives...how does this invalidate the argume…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:29 PM
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Mmm, okay, it's entirely possible to read this as either "I don't care if he's filthy rich, as long as he's at least upper-middle class" OR "I don't care if he's rich, that's not relevant," so MAYBE she's not lacking self-awareness herself in that department. But still, the thing with Twitter is, and always has been, that it's not possible to say shit of any value in such a short character limit; what does SHE mean by "compassion" and "accountability"? Those words are very broad and basically me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 04:19 PM
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He was responding to you by basically saying "Duh". Yes, impressionable barely-adults, churned through our pathetic public education system that itself is increasingly indoctrination, are easy prey for being indoctrinated by the overwhelmingly one-sided and out-of-touch elitists who run universities, trained to just nod their heads to spoon-fed stupidity before being let loose to drink, smoke, and fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 03:38 AM
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That's weird because, for me, they don't write jack on OK Cupid questions, even when they give weird answers. But, OK Cupid is a good example because most women barely even answer any questions; typically they answer about 20, usually the stupid ones. Beyond that, I meant in their profiles; typically they either write little OR they write burbling sash, which isn't helped when the "prompts" dating apps give are mostly garbage. I want a dating site where you can't just list your favorite bands, o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 03:33 AM
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No, you're just a person who isn't conservative who hasn't experienced what conservatives have. Even just looking at the political makeup on campuses, we've seen it go from majority liberal but lots of conservatives to many colleges have literally not one single faculty member who identifies as conservative, while "extremely liberal" has become vastly more common than it is in the broader population, aka, it doesn't represent America at all. Then you look at how liberal mobs have literally chase…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 03:26 AM
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What do YOU mean "you people"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 03:18 AM
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Alright, I'm willing to say that doing porn, 1 time, is not the worst thing ever, and if that was ALL there was to this story, I'd not care that much--all she needs to do is own her shit, and take her punishment. And we don't know (I mean, with proof, although we can make almost certainly accurate guesses) that she was otherwise a slut. BUT, even granting these assumptions for the sake of argument, the fact that she spends more time complaining about the mythical incel and asking what her option…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 01:21 AM
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Statistically, nearly all of those men were doing exactly that. Now, to be clear, I am talking about a mature adult opening up about his insecurities, his fears, or just allowing himself to be vulnerable, not a man-baby crying about stupid shit. Men very rarely open up to other men, like their friends, outside of a catastrophe (like, their kid dies of cancer, or something). They open up to female family members but taper off of that as they age; usually their significant other is basically the o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:57 AM
2

"while other women get the benefits of eating out, going to the movies, or just spending time with the guy." This is what she's missing, according to her. Not love, commitment, support, honesty; she's missing out on consumerism and over-priced food. I have to assume she has no friends, or she'd just do those things with said friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:37 AM
1

I love the irony of not liking "slut-shaming", but totally loving "non-slut shaming."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:35 AM
1

Twatter is more like the gallery for displaying cancer. Like the Holocaust museum, only more depressing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:33 AM
5

What makes you think he had any morals, beyond the very basic "don't kill people"? Most folks today, male or female, think "being nice", a vague and amorphous concept, is literally the definition of good, ethical behavior. And I get it; I too used to think "Don't be a dick" was a great summation of how to be a decent person. But no. Sometimes, to be a good person, you need to be a dick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:32 AM
4

Hey, he may have no father, but I bet he has an exorbitant number of "uncles".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:27 AM
2

While I don't think "mental health" isn't a real problem or thing, I'm willing to bet her work involves either medicating the fuck out of teens for normal teenage behavior (especially boys), or pushing this radical trans nonsense to try and get children on hormone therapy (you know, not actual trans people, just confused kids struggling with their natural hormones and teenage drama).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:21 AM
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I'm not saying it's fake; I'm just saying that I can't process that some people actually exist and it's not the Matrix glitching.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:07 AM
1

Both. I didn't see that the arrow was pointing to his abdomen and his hand; I only saw the one going to the hand and thought "What the fuck is that sexy about making a V with your hand, except to Trekkies?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 12:03 AM
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Ironic-but-not-really flip of that; women don't really like interesting men, I notice. They don't want to hear about your hobbies or passions, they don't want to participate, they outright denigrate the more typically male ones (whether it's fishing/hunting or video games), they have strong political opinions but state they hate talking politics (aka, shut the fuck up and agree with me), etc. They want you to like what they like, do what they do, think what they think...at least, that's what the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 11:59 PM
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Don't forget indoctrinati--I mean, "higher education."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 11:52 PM
9

"Don't objectify and sexualize us!" "Why would you sexualize an object, or objectify a person who turns you on where objects (like Real Dolls) don't?" "...muh soggy knees!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:58 AM
1

So you're basically telling me I was spot on by calling it "pseudo-intellectual", eh? Jesus, why the fuck are there graduate colleges of social work or professors in management anyway? Even their jobs are word salad. I bet she's never managed so much as a sno-cone stand and knows dick all about society and the work therein.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:54 AM
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They won't let themselves be happy. And this applies to alot of men. Hard to blame them; our entire culture now is about "deconstructing" things and finding new and asinine ways to be offended. Can't even watch what should be a popcorn action movie without it shitting all over something or other. Being happy is considered to be supporting all the bad things in the world. No wonder more than half of white women have mental illness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:50 AM
2

I'm just bitching because I see it ALL the time on dating apps; their entire profile is just "shit I like." Well that's fantastic, cupcake; I totally came here to find someone else's interests to make central to my life, sure, that's what I wanted. But even people of reasonable intelligence will go "Well, you need some kind of common interests or hobbies!" Yeah, sure, but tens of millions of other people like Metallica, that doesn't mean I'll fuck any and all of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:44 AM
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I don't see any reason to assume women only respond to criticism from men OR from women. Like any sort of debate or advice, it's never going to be adopted by the mass of the target audience overnight, but it can slowly change things. I would happily give advice to help others even if it won't benefit me in any way. HOWEVER, feminism has taught women that men simply have nothing to teach them, that "advice" is hatred and sexism and proof that said man is a bad person. But it's not just to women; …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:40 AM
1

Well sure, some bitches lie. And I don't get the appeal anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:30 AM
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"For a blowjob I'll drive you to the Planned Parenthood; for anal I'll cover half the cost of the abortion."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 04:28 AM
2

Where's the arrow pointing to his wallet saying "holds debit card for account with minimum 6 figures deposited, and credit card with 5-figure limit"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 07:06 AM
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I swear to god, I'd take a chick with a dick if, as impossible as this is, she was the lady 95% of women today fail to be. I'm fine with anal and oral only if that's the sacrifice I have to make. Of course I know it's more likely I'll get struck by lightning cast by a unicorn ridden by a leprechaun delivering my winning Powerball ticket, but hey, I'm leaving my options open.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 07:04 AM
1

I'm lost on this one. What is this "V-thing"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:59 AM
1

"Ma'am, your DAUGHTER is almost too old to be wearing that skirt."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:56 AM
1

But are you a decent fucking person, lady? Because that's the most important thing; you can be hot, rich, friendly, with a pussy like a vice, but if you're a shit human being, I don't want any part of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:54 AM
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Meanwhile, every other ladies' profile says "Don't just say hello in your opening message, make an effort!" But yeah, it's probably the politics thing; it's not just that she's liberal, but that she's SO liberal that she can't not talk about it for 5 fucking minutes while making her profile, that it's literally one of the first things she tells people is she's liberal and hates Trump. I don't care what your politics are, but if you can't but them on the shelf from time to time, you're going to b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:52 AM
1

"And stop trying to tell me how elipses work..bitch"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:47 AM
1

"And stop trying to tell me how elipses work..bitch"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:47 AM
1

That's...not what your source says.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:45 AM
1

That's basically the Female Dating Strategy guidebook, ain't it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:42 AM
1

AKA, all the little girls want ponies, but some never grow up and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:39 AM
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Because they can afford it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:36 AM
1

Going to agree with those challenging you; I've read the news articles saying exactly what they are claiming. Men who have become the "father figure" have been forced by the courts to pay child support, because someone has to. Oh, but they don't get the same rights an actual father would. I'm sure a better lawyer would help alot in that department, but it still happens to regular guys with regular lawyers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:34 AM
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Sure, I think most of us do. But I was just granting that EVEN IF she was speaking the unvarnished truth, she STILL looks like the bitch, and it says alot when someone doctors their own history and is still the bad guy in it--she's either kind of a bitch, or a MEGA bitch, depending on how much she lied.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:28 AM
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"Authenticity is not something that we have or do not have. It is a practice, a conscious choice of how we want to live. Authenticity is a set of choices that we have to make every day. It is about the choice to show ourselves and be real. choice to reveal our true selves." I have no idea who she's quoting, but this is some pseudo-intellectual garbage right here. Anyone who spends their time "consciously choosing" to be authentic is being inauthentic, as an honest person just IS, they don't go a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 06:25 AM
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Having flown a ton, I'm wondering why you think flight attendants are more attractive than average. I guess you can argue that you can't be one if you weigh 400 pounds, but otherwise, yeah, they don't really stand out; they aren't, like, booth babes. But between this and the other post, it basically sounds like "Here are all the reasons X women MIGHT be bad." We could sit here and do this about basically all women outside of a convent. And men. No examples, no stats, no studies of anything, just…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/07/21 06:19 AM
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Oh, so the snitches are left out.,,meaning there are alot of people not involved, so it's not really any worse there than anywhere else.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/07/21 06:10 AM
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"Check for local Facebook groups for outdoor recreation (kayaking, hiking/backpacking, photography, bicycling, geocaching) the list can really go on forever." That doesn't get you away from drinking and partying--those people go hike Saturday morning and get smashed Saturday evening.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/07/21 06:06 AM
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No, it's MEN'S libidos that are supposed to die off in the 40's; women supposedly just get hornier at middle age.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/07/21 05:59 AM
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I read those studies. But I also read a bigger study done explicitly to test that, and it came up negative. So it's hard to say.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/07/21 05:58 AM
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Now now, there is indeed a proper, gentlemanly way to play with tits. And that's to pay her first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:53 AM
1

The lack of punctuation literally makes me think of a small child, sitting on Santa's lap, going "I want a pony and a Barbie mansion and a bigger TV and new pink shoes and a tiara and..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:51 AM
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Depends where you live; lots of fit chicks where I am at, but they are fit because they are self-absorbed and there's really no room for a man in between shopping for organic groceries, preparing everything from scratch, and 3 hours of exercise per day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:47 AM
3

Eh, liking the same shows and movies is pretty damn shallow too; that's like one step beyond judging entirely by attractiveness, and still a far cry from judging on things like "moral character".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:45 AM
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"Women"? Yes, don't put 51% of the population on a pedestal. YOUR woman? Treat her like a queen, and she treats you like a king; that's a good relationship. Treating her the same way you treat a stranger would be an odd choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:40 AM
3

Hey, she could actually be that dumb--never underestimate human stupidity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:39 AM
10

Even assuming the story is true, the answer to your questions could easily be; that awareness is out the window BECAUSE HIS CAT JUST DIED, and who knows if he even has friends available at that exact moment? Maybe he just moved across town, maybe they are all at work, who knows? At least be NICE to the guy, and decline further dates LATER.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:37 AM
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Last time my old man put down a dog, he came home to mow his lawn, drinking the entire time, and finally sat down on his porch about noon. Next thing he remembers, the neighbors finally came to check on him because it was evening and he hadn't moved. Anyone who doesn't feel sad that a pet died (at least a dog or cat, not a goldfish, unless it belonged to a 5-year-old) is instantly written off as trash in my book, in every context.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:34 AM
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Not every woman on earth is trash. Not yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:31 AM
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Well, when it's a "Tinder date", that might just mean "we fucked on my couch."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:28 AM
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Yeah; "I got tired of just sex; now I'll settle for equally good sex AND pampering!" Because that's how "settling" works; you ask for more than you were able to get in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:28 AM
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Trendy for people who know better and deliberately act that way, but people born and raised in "ghetto culture" literally think that's normal. It's basically a dialect to speak like an immigrant fresh off the boat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:24 AM
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When did "PAWG" become obese? I've always seen it to mean "big, meaty ass", and some guys love that. Lots of PAWG porn stars.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:23 AM
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To add to that, it basically means men giving up on relationships with women. Some go 100% celibate, others will allow short-term flings, but no marriage, no co-habitation, no children--it's just too risky. Or that's their view; I'm not quite that cynical yet (we'll see what the future brings).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:21 AM
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And now they try to spread it to others; blacks, gays, trans, etc. Basically, everyone gets to be shitty except straight white guys, who are OBVIOUSLY garbage people no matter what they do, because slavery existed once or whatever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:19 AM
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Agreed. I've seen black guys say they got shit from women who took them home when it turns out, gasp and shock, they DON'T have a foot-long dick just because they are black. They literally think Blacked.com makes documentaries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:16 AM
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I'm surprised it's that high, actually; I'd assume more than half the men are either married or senior citizens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:14 AM
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Probably because BMI goes from underweight to average to overweight to obese, with no consideration for fitness level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:13 AM
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No, it isn't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:08 AM
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Probably has a good profile that turns out not to be representative of her after 5 minutes of talking, but the men are too polite to be like "Wow, you're awful! You should work on that." And why are men like that today, that is, less blunt? Because women decided it was mean and rude to be masculine like that and call a spade, a spade. So congrats, ladies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 05:04 AM
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As soon as I read "There may not be enough educated men to go around" I checked out. That just destroys the entire article; it takes, at face value, the assertion that men NEED to be educated to date an educated woman, and everything after that is based on that lie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:29 AM
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Didja see the study from Pew Research (released last year but in the news only recently) that found that well over half of white, liberal women have mental illness? Like 58%! And you know there are always more undiagnosed, so basically it's 2/3 white ladies at university or any major city have fucked up minds. Men did it somehow tho.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:26 AM
2

But then you have to work for Google.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:22 AM
10

I had a...whatever you call them that teach at community college (not really a professor), a lady with 4 degrees and working on a doctorate, who didn't know what a Patriarch was in Orthodox Christianity. She was teaching Western Civ. Fucking embarrassing. My younger cousin (still 30 years old) asked me a question last year about spiders that I answered, then I reminded her that her older sister has a degree in biology; she told me sis still wouldn't know the answer to that question, and then pro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:21 AM
1

About 2% of workers make minimum wage, so I don't think the average guy is making that, or merely "slightly better".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:14 AM
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"get a useful hobby." "Invested in...calligraphy." Whatever you say, cupcake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:05 AM
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Nah, she's just shitting on most men preemptively because she thinks she's the greatest thing since sliced bread. She likely NEVER dated such a guy at all--she just dated dicks, that happened to be attached to handsome assholes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:02 AM
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Glad I could clear that up. It seems obvious but it's amazing how many people don't get it--casual or committed, pick one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 03:37 AM
1

How do you know that she would have discovered his "true nature"? I mean, it could be true; it's entirely possible it was obvious as fuck to everyone but her from day 1. But sometimes you can't tell; fuck, sometimes people don't even realize their OWN true nature, not until push comes to shove and everyone sees what they are, or are not, capable of. Some people turn into superheroes when shit hits the fan, even people with no real training or obvious signs of it; others turn out to be garbage as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 03:01 AM
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My point is, if a man gets into a "casual relationship", he can't turn around and bitch about "games" and "jealousy". Same for women; that's the definition of a "casual relationship". You're banging some slut on the weekend, you can't expect her to act like a proper lady at all times--if she was a proper lady, she wouldn't be fucking you with no commitment. It's the exact same lesson for women; you can't bring home Chad from the club over and over again, and wonder why he remains a man-whore who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 02:54 AM
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I agree. It's not really that bad of a post, at least compared to what we normally see here. It's hard to actually write a dating app profile that ISN'T drivel. Because what do you do? Brag about yourself like an egotistical bitch, or list all the things you want like a needy bitch, or name all the things you'll do for affection like a desperate bitch? Don't mention sex and men think it's off the table; mention it and you da ho. Don't mention your body type and it seems like you're hiding it; me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 02:50 AM
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For once, I am going to say that's not as wild as it sounds. Ironically, this is especially true for women who are submissive, quiet, trusting, who marry their high school sweethearts...who are men that, after a few years in the real world, can't handle it. They don't budget, they can't make good decisions, they can't grow up, but she keeps on trusting him, having his kids, keeping the house, assuming everything is okay. Eventually, she starts asking questions, and he turns angry, blaming her, m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:54 AM
1

It is especially ironic when the same women claim to be "demisexual". O rly? Then why are you still single and have fucked 34 men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:42 AM
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From the article; "A man must never EVER tolerate such games - even in a casual relationship." Oh, so a man playing games shouldn't tolerate games? I don't get it; play stupid games, like fucking skanks, and win stupid prizes, like emotional bullshit. If a woman is interested in a casual relationship, THAT should already be a huge ass red flag to never touch her, because obviously she isn't going to act committed in a non-committed relationship, by definition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:32 AM
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Not only that, but they can't imagine someone can simply be wrong. Anyone who disagrees with them MUST know the real (progressive) truth and is just saying the opposite because they are horrible people--there's no way someone could ever be mistaken or just convinced of a bad idea but still be a good person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:26 AM
2

Welcome to 10 years ago, when the old conservatives started being pushed OUT of the GOP, while extremist progressives started taking over the Democrats. The moderates are all on this side now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:24 AM
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Indeed. I see this alot on dating apps; women want to wear the pants...except when they don't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:20 AM
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That's assuming feminists got those gains.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:18 AM
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Hey, remember "Don't teach women how to avoid rapists and abusers; teach men not to rape and abuse"? That worked out well. Just so I am clear, I'm not blaming men; I'm saying society not teaching women not to be fucking retarded hasn't helped the women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:15 AM
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Yeah, no argument here. I've met some women who were feminists and not like that, just like some men, but it's usually those who know nothing about it beyond "They want, like, equality and stuff!" Anyone who feels like they are "well-versed" in feminism and doesn't hate it is almost certainly going to hate men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 07:21 PM
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I know. But it's still fucking terrifying, in an existential way. Like when is a human, not a human?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 02:54 AM
0

Okay, so in response to my "unsupported arguments", you link to...two posts of unsupported arguments. That you wrote. And you condescend to me for no reason. Is that supposed to...do something? I never tried to; in fact, I never even mentioned "the tone". I don't know what this condescending attitude about something I never brought up is supposed to accomplish, but it's not accomplishing it. Great, then you'll stop telling me I'm wrong. I won't see you post further down that I'm wrong and living…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 02:53 AM
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I am replying to myself to give a global answer to the many comments I've gotten, but most of what I am seeing is the argument that wanting sex for different reasons is the same as having a low libido. I get hypergamy, I get the emotional aspect, but just because women seek out different partners and get in the mood for different reasons doesn't mean they don't want sex pretty consistently, just like men. I'm just really baffled this is a discussion because that's basically the whole point here;…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 07:13 PM
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I don't have anything clever or deep to say here, just...fuck. Because the thing is, she's not an angry, screaming bitch, she's not a super-villain twirling a mustache, she's not even being an overly-emotional person who can't decide what she wants--she is coolly and calmly asking how to keep lying and backstabbing a man (possibly 2, though 1 much worse than the other) the way one might ask how to keep the bundle price for your house insurance if you drop the car coverage. You know, just a simpl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:59 AM
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Because they do? Isn't that one of the open secrets of the red pill--women are absolutely as horny as men, have more partners than men, cheat as much or more than men, spend as much time chasing sex as men? Because that's pretty much all I see, looking at the data. It'd be weird if women were not actually all that interested in sex yet somehow we were awash in sluts--where even the seeming "good girls" have double digit body counts in their 20's. We also wouldn't see mass sales of dildos and vib…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 05:48 AM
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"Greetings human males; my uterus is fully functional, as shown by repeated stress-testing. Please submit yourself for mating evaluation by birthing unit #406. Caution: Do not climb or tip over birthing unit; serious injury or death may occur. Mating partner is responsible for all damages. And expenses in general. For faster transactions, please sign here to let us deduct charges directly from your account as-needed."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 01:34 AM
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Any extreme political stance. I can disagree with people on politics and still get along, but these particular women are the ones Orwell wrote about; the most insane, fanatical, close-minded, shrieking harridans are the cultural foot soldiers of authoritarians everywhere. They will admit they don't even like talking politics; just agree and obey, peasant. Going back to school at 34--they dicked around, got nowhere, and now want to feel like they didn't waste their whole adult life by getting a d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 01:27 AM
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Well, she can expect whatever she likes. I expect Gal Gadot to wake me up with a blowjob each morning--doesn't fucking happen, but I expect it. Funny how the universe doesn't much care about what we expect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 01:04 AM
1

Yes, I am saying that the trans people who have the easiest time, on average, are transwoman who pass very well. Transwomen who do not pass at all are the ones who get thrown out of bathrooms, and transmen, well, they just get treated like men; ignored (especially since most, but not all, transmen obviously look like small, effeminate men, so not Chad-like at all).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:16 AM
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I remember "skull fucking," but this stuff has been going on for years and has gotten to the point that it represents mainstream porn, not just fetishes created by specific sites. Vid after vid is interracial, cuckold, femdom--even when a video is totally unrelated to that, they will STILL throw in, for no reason, that the girl is cheating, just so you know. It's the biggest names and the biggest sites, not niche sites hiring new girls trying to break into the industry. Definitely, it's because …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 08:40 AM
2

Eh, I see it even with women who have money. Even if she manages to overcome wanting to be financially cared for, she still wants FWB but claims not to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 08:23 AM
2

It sort of looks edited to me, but if not, I don't see how the angle matters here. There's no way her arm is far enough back that it's only appearing to be half it's real size or less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 11:15 PM
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Maybe. I hate calling anything an "agenda" when it could just be a natural consequence of existing worldviews and circumstances. It's hard to say how much is some kind of plan, how much is just people with batshit insane beliefs taking them to the next logical step, and how much is people just taking advantage of a trend with no deeper thought on the subject.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:35 PM
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Or she just won't accept any man less than a model.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:29 PM
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Yes, but let us not forget that many women like to go "Waah, I'm so UGLY!" so that everyone will say "No no, you're beautiful!" even if they are actually fine looking. I believe that she's flat-chested (which many guys are into anyway), but she may very well be average looking, and if she's thin, she's fine. She could easily be a 6 and just mad she can't get an 8. But she has options, unlike men in the same boat--both options for men, but she could also save up, get a boob job, learn how to do m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:28 PM
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I'm not sure if she wants to friendzone a man or if she wants a best friend with benefits. Increasingly it seems like people literally can't tell the difference between that and a spouse. Looking at dating profiles for women on non-hookup sites (well, they are all somewhat hookup sites, but you know what I mean), I find that MOST of them seem to want that, from 1 of 2 angles. Angle 1 is they want a new activity buddy and friend who likes everything they like; they list all their hobbies, passion…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:23 PM
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It is not possible to just "happen to be pregnant". Someone knocked her up--who was it and why is she not with him? Was he a one-night stand or something? Then she's an irresponsible idiot and now wants a more responsible man to help deal with her mistake. Or was he a bad boyfriend? Then she's perhaps not as irresponsible, but an idiot who is a bad judge of character, or who outright prefers shitty men if they make her horny, which makes us doubt that she could be loyal to a decent, respectable …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:17 PM
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Even better, I want to see what a predictive AI does with these dating profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:06 PM
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Hey, he probably had a job, so he could buy her that drink, and a car, to bang her in the back seat of before using it to get outta Dodge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:05 PM
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I don't think so; birth rates and hookups were down. Lockdowns did mostly succeed at keeping people at home. Or do you mean that, now that we are allowed basic human rights like freedom of movement and assembly again, we're going to start to see an explosion? Because I could see that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:03 PM
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Yes, that pisses me off. Like, I don't know why THAT in particular gets under my skin, but it does. Findom, abusive femdom, racist fantasies, cuckolding--I'm not saying it's a conspiracy, but it's definitely true that mainstream porn is increasingly telling (mostly white) men to get off to being degraded, used, and ripped off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 06:01 PM
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If that isn't shopped or old, her arm is indicative of a skinny girl, so she's at least not actually eating all that cake. Yet. But yeah, she wants to be looked at with base desire, not love and respect--her riding days are not finished.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 05:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/o7mi7j/sugar_daddy_chadsbeta_orbiters_only_apply_terms/ https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/o3409h/correlation/ There are two recent ones. I kindly did the leg work for you. Besides, how can they be tired of having sex if they weren't having sex? And if they were having sex, why would you think they didn't want sex? What, they all had sex reluctantly just to bag a man? Okay, but then why are they overwhelmingly going for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 05:27 PM
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Oh, it is now, but that's why I said they keep whittling it down in size. They keep carving out exceptions, supposedly cutting off all the good parts of the apple, until, they think, all that is left will be the rotten core. It's why we have this incel angle of attack; they've taken out all other races, genders, sexualities, religions, etc, so what's left is this ball of supposedly all the bad people who ruin society (because 25-year-old white virgins are totally the Illuminati). Now they are ad…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 05:13 PM
1

I don't think that's what it meant; I think it was "Don't start dating if you aren't ultimately looking for a wife", aka, don't call it dating when you have no intention of committing no matter what happens. Which I agree should be the way things go; no hookups, no friends with benefits, no long term kinda-sorta relationships that never go anywhere. But, since I am an eternal optimist hoping to find a unicorn that farts rainbows and shits gold bricks, I still spend a lot of time on OLD, the ones…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 05:00 PM
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While I was being hyperbolic for comedic effect (I was also drunk), I don't think it's as bad as you say, unless they live somewhere like Alabama, which seems unlikely based on the original story. To be clear, I am not talking about actual people with legitimate gender dysphoria. I am saying that in many places now, if a man can pass as a woman with even modest success (like, enough that everyone can tell that's what he is attempting to do), and he decides to claim he is trans, he can immediatel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 04:52 PM
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I just think their own worldview is causing them to run out of people to blame. Since they look at the world in terms of groups, and they keep adding more and more groups to the "victim pile", which also means they can't ever do anything wrong, or the can but cannot be blamed for it, and they are finding that there just aren't many people left to be accused of causing the problems. So it's increasingly young, white, straight, cis, sexless, men that are doing ALL the badness, unless they are simp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 04:35 PM
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Why would you post something, twice, that's so blatantly wrong, and that everyone KNOWS is wrong? Did you just step out of a timewarp from the Victorian era? I mean, even if you are this ignorant, just read some of the posts on this sub from women who are saying "Well, I'm finally trying to date a decent guy, and he's so great, but he's not giving me mind-blowing sex with a massive dick, so I think I have to leave him."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 04:20 PM
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Fine advice really, but yet again, double standards are their only standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 04:24 AM
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"Clingy, desperate guys" are "eager to please men who aren't sexy". We know this, lady. Likewise, we know "feeling a connection" means "feeling my panties flood"--you can "feel a connection" purely from text over the internet, so that's not the same thing. Contrary to what 50 years of stand-up comics have said, we have translated most women-speak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:33 AM
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Most men do. Yet most women and even men don't believe it. Even men who get into fist-fights one day will typically just move past it by the next. Sometimes TOO flippantly. It's women who typically have to harbor ill-will forever. No one has made a "Carrie" knock-off about men, because it just wouldn't work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:27 AM
1

That's sort of the opposite of yin-yang, where neither side is "all".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:25 AM
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I agree. I think that's a point some of us forget. Even DOGS can be trained to get over their nature with positive and negative reinforcement; women are not 100% animalistic and beyond control, we just live in a society that refuses to control them. We used to shame both loose women AND men--we can do it again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:24 AM
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It's possible but I have seen many OLD profiles demanding equal or greater education.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:22 AM
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This gets me thinking...so we all know how marrying MUCH younger women was a thing in the past, sometimes child brides the husbands would have to wait a decade to be intimate with. And I'm not FOR that. But why did it happen? I'm wondering if it was because the difference between women and children was literally seen as fairly small, and it was just better for everyone for her to be RAISED by the man who would eventually boink her. I don't think it HAS to be that way, just like I think mankind i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:21 AM
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If that were true, it wouldn't be so bad; it's precisely that they DON'T consciously decide that, or recognize it, that's the problem. They THINK they will run the show, and a precious few can handle it, but most want to be a man yet also be taken care of like the woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:15 AM
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You see it with "incels" in general; they are somehow ALL the bad things. They are total pussies, but also willing to die in a blaze of gunfire. They are scared of women, but will attack them head-on and try to rape them in broad daylight. They are "nice guys" sucking up to women and white-knighting, while also being the very same men those nice guys are white-knighting against. They are the men who dislike "female sexuality", aka, being a public slut, while also being the men who take full adva…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:09 AM
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It's not so bad for those two kids; one of them will just become a woman and find life surprisingly easier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:03 AM
5

Haha what?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:00 AM
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And that...is probably where you're going to run into the real pushback on this sub, or red pilled people in general. To us, if I may be so bold as to speak for others, most people are NOT generally good. Most of them are "not terrible"--they aren't murderers or kidnappers or pedophiles. But few of them are good. Because we don't teach "good" anymore, once your age reaches double-digits; we just teach "follow the rules and shut the fuck up". Even with all the noise in society, it's mostly people…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/21 12:32 AM
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Anyone else find it funny that after getting abortion legalized, and decades pushing to expand the range of abortion, making it more accessible, subsidizing it (not to mention mandating birth control on insurance plans)...we have like half the abortions we did in the late 70's and instead preggo THOTs cluttering up the internet? I mean, look, we even gave you the option to trash the fetus, without our knowledge or consent, and you STILL can't stop popping them out?! Yeah, I know, there's no limi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 05:19 AM
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Or even with birth control; men are supposed to "keep it in their pants" but not the women whose entire body will be irrevocably altered for failing to do the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 05:15 AM
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It is? All I've seen lately is how the birth rate has been through the floor the last year. But miscarriages are down too; it's almost like strong, independent wahmen aren't supposed to be working full time jobs when knocked up and instead maybe, I don't know, at home, slowly preparing dinner? Crazy idea, I know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 05:11 AM
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Access to therapy is great, or getting men to accept therapy I should say; but in many ways, therapy has become a solution peddled by the same people causing the problem. It's fantastic for people with very significant issues, people with crippling phobias, people who need to learn how to manage BPD or some kind of neuroses. But this explosion in just general therapy, where it seems like EVERYONE, at some point, pays to go talk to a stranger to just spill the beans and get some boiler-plate resp…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/06/21 03:23 AM
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That is very interesting and not something I've ever studied. For me, it was reading Rand when I was young. She doesn't write like a textbook but her whole deal is developing ethics out of epistemology and metaphysics, which in turn informs politics and social order--and then, when that is done wrong somehow, she talks about the consequences, how people start with conclusions and then modify the premises to work, for example. Or how people find their own beliefs in conflict, and eventually are f…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 03:13 AM
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Studies have shown that young people today think "capitalism" is just "rich people", not "functioning, privately owned businesses". Poor education shared by many, even some conservatives (Tucker Carlson, who I often like as the most red-pilled guy on mainstream TV, makes this error).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 02:30 AM
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Nah. Prostitution is going in the other direction; it's being more strictly cracked down on. For example, they re-defined "prostitution" so now it's called "sex trafficking". All of it. A woman invites a man into her own personal bedroom to fuck for a $100, and he's a "sex trafficker", no different than a man who enslaves a woman and pimps her out. So every year, there are mass "sex trafficking busts" that are just men who hired a local whore. And they put those men on the sex offender registry-…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 02:27 AM
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That's a common theme, especially mothers with untreated BPD or something similar (not blaming women for their genetics, but just like men get more autism, women get more emotional disorders). It's also common to believe most people are good; even with the evidence in front of our face, it's still hard to dump the view of just a few generations ago that, ultimately, most people are decent people who share our values. 60 years ago, even a rapist or a murderer would, at the very least, KNOW that h…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 02:13 AM
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To give some answers to your fair question; 1) First off, men and women are wired differently. Even 1-day-old babies show differences; girls move their mouths more, boys are more interested in "things", things that make noise or move. And you see in every age bracket that girls are better communicators. I'm sure they taught you at some point that while you can directly question young girls (in a therapy setting), boys often will not give any real answer like that--you need to play games with the…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 01:51 AM
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So if she doesn't give you free counseling on demand, she doesn't care about men at all? What kind of silliness is this? This kind of hyperbolic and childish argumentation is what makes it so hard for many men to take the red pill. Telling men the situation is stacked against them, that the stats show they are getting fucked, showing them the trends, teaching them to see the bellwether, this is all great--but then you throw in something a grade school could see is illogical and it makes him doub…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 01:23 AM
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I certainly agree about avoiding the seductive trap of trying to use the government to mold society OUR way. But there is nothing wrong with saying "Society needs to do X." We GOT here because of influence, because generations of trouble-makers convinced people to turn the world upside down for one Quixotic quest after another, while their parents and grand-parents only half-heartedly objected and mostly only to a few select issues at a time. As long as they weren't using FORCE, it was all okay,…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 01:14 AM
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I get all that. I mean, I'm a dude, but I too was rail-roaded into university when I didn't see a path forward to anything besides debt. And some of what you said is, ironically, the problem with hyper-conservatism; not letting women even be around men and get to understand them (not fuck them, just be around them, talk to them) is not helping them become wives, anymore than it'd help someone become a rancher by never letting them near a cow. Of course I can't solve your issues for you, and the …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 01:09 AM
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Of course. This always happens. Look at communism, like the actual policies and rhetoric of the government in communist countries; even as they stripped away everything from people, all reason to live, they only beat the drum more and more to tell those same people to work harder, sacrifice more, work to death. But I will agree that the conservative movement is just not doing shit, because they won't go the full mile, they won't truly go all the way to stand up against it; they speak out against…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 12:55 AM
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It's a good phrase. But it's not just love; Candide by Voltaire explored the same sentiment, where the lesson was laid out that what is good in life is an honest day's work for an honest day's pay. Civilization was not, despite what many think, predominately built by generals, or leaders, or lawyers, or even by inventors; all of that shit is worthless without a fuckton of people (read; men) getting up at the crack of dawn every day to WORK. A good life is a life of respectable labor, honesty, in…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 12:42 AM
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At the risk of putting words in someone else's mouth, I'm going to guess he means, because this is what I would say, that women are far less likely to teach their kids uncompromising morals. Being able to compromise is good on lesser shit, but on major issues, it's men, and has always been men, who walk into a hail of bullets and fire to uphold what's right. Women tend to be more in the "mushy middle"--never quite wanting to take a stand and attract negative attention. They don't like direct con…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 12:35 AM
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Unless that was cropped funny for posting, what a weird profile picture. Not enough to be slutty, but doesn't show anything else either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 02:01 AM
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I don't think so. At least, not where I live. My friend was an RN and he couldn't prescribe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 02:00 AM
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Isn't that what I said? ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 10:53 PM
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I feel like many, probably most, men would support it. Just not Chad or his conquests, aka, most women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 10:34 PM
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At least these women just give us all the info we need to know up front; she can't even afford toilet paper.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 10:11 PM
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I'm not 100% sure if this is the same woman, but when I was at university, my sociology professor had her friend come talk for a day about her research and book, and I think this was her. Or if not, she basically did the same thing. Her conclusions were basically, well, this sub--ladies want to party and have their fun, and don't want to settle down until after that's over with. But low-income women in particular get lonely, and want something to give them a sense of purpose, so they deliberatel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 09:53 PM
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I have noticed an evolution in the "Chad" meme; originally, Chad was just desirable to women, usually a dude-bro who asks "Do you even lift?" Somewhere along the way, we got that Chad vs Virgin meme, and Chad gradually got reformed to be not only physically desirable, with the right kind of confidence, but also competent and successful. This was, as far as I can tell, due to Chads, wanna-be Chads, or just men who aren't Chad but still want to shit on "incels" to distance themselves from, you kno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 09:45 PM
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The thing is, with how she looks, meaning both extremely unattractive but also mentally handicapped, I really have to wonder if she went and got herself knocked up, or if someone else manipulated her into that. I know, I know, I'm tip-toeing dangerously close to white-knighting, but when the woman might actually have the mind of a 13-year-old and literally, physically can't think and act like an adult, I feel like an exception is permitted. Of course, we don't know, but I have actually seen stor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 03:18 AM
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Which angle? The angle of "the homeless are mostly men because women have 500 different ways of getting bailed out that men don't"? Because yeah, that blows, but "here" is like one of the few places that DO consider that angle, so I don't understand your comment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 03:08 AM
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You could research Sufi mysticism or the schools of jurisprudence for some major examples.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 02:51 AM
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I...don't know where I asserted otherwise. I'm just saying, I'd be far more willing to marry a rich chick, because at least I wouldn't have to worry about her leaving and taking everything I've built up with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 02:27 AM
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It's not, though; if you look into the history of Islam, you'd see all the extremist bullshit from the last century involved dumping out 1200 years of Islamic history, law, philosophy, etc. It looks traditional from our perspective, since it sort of lines up with "Victorian" values in some ways, but for the Muslim world, it's a radical change from tradition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 02:23 AM
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THAT'S the lady I want therapy from, yeah.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 03:54 AM
2

Well, unless she makes more than you...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 03:50 AM
3

B-b-but pattern recognition is HARD!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 03:50 AM
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Yup, sure do, though probably not so much on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 02:43 AM
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Hey, look; she wrote the forbidden words. Where she meant to write "the guys never liked me", she actually wrote the full thought of "the guys I liked never liked me." You're not supposed to say that part, lady; it makes it look like you just pined after the wrong men like a fucking lovestruck teenager, implying it's somehow your fault, and that can't be!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 01:26 AM
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But I don't need to, she just did. That was my point; I want more post-wall women to write "For the love of god, don't do what I did!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 11:40 PM
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I guess I can understand women being annoyed when they get 50 messages in a day that all read "Hello! How are you?" It probably is overwhelming, and even if she's a legitimately great catch, she might shut down or get frustrated. But as is basically always the case, they never stop to think about the other side the equation; it's pretty damn exhausting to SEND 50, specific, well-crafted icebreakers a day, period, especially when 49 of them never get a response. Especially if your profile is so e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 10:27 PM
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Only got halfway before boredom set in, but I find it funny that she's mostly whining about something incredibly petty instead of actual "Christian" issues that I expected to hear. It's like she's no different than any other woman, except she doesn't even want a man who has the "outlet" of porn. That is indeed scary levels of narcissistic control there--she wants a virgin who can't even look at bikini pictures, while she's already had her fun, and can bail at any time. I did like the guy making …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:32 PM
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"I've made alot of poor decisions in the dating market, so I deserve a lifelong reward now." Why? This would probably be my response to her, if I spoke with her in real life--why do you think making 15-20 years of bad decisions means you now deserve the reward? Like, normally, if you fuck up for a decade+, that means you're a decade+ behind the curve and now have to play catch up. You put off school for 15 years, they don't just hand you a degree, or a job that requires a degree in a good field.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:00 AM
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Either that, or she managed to line up a date with Chad who was then frustrated at her trying to make it, you know, an actual DATE, and not a preliminary screening before a fuck session.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:47 AM
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I've never seen that sub (as I don't hang around Reddit much), so I looked at it--3 posts down and I'm smacked with delusional cancer. Just, smack-bang opposite of reality. I feel like we should tell women to read it and then believe the opposite of whatever they find.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:46 AM
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Eh, it is the kind of article I want to see younger women read, though. To actually see other women tell them that expecting to snag Bruce Wayne is likely only going to get them run-of-the-mill muscular, violent men scarred by childhood trauma. We might know the author is fucked, but the young ladies don't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:41 AM
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Well, but it works. I mean, if all you want is to get laid, anyway. Because that's what most women care about now--they set the rules, and most men just fall in line or quit the game. Business isn't perfectly predictable either, but you can tell you're making progress and have a plan to earn business; with women, nope, trying to EARN their respect is now manipulation, sexism, NiceGuy behavior, so ironically, all we can do is actually manipulate them or just hope for the best. Meanwhile, there's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 09:20 PM
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I mean, they have all that education and mid-level desk jobs, many of them are able to put in effort; there's just this huge blind spot in relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 08:55 PM
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While I don't care for 50 Shades, I do find it funny that, like, the one weird chink in the armor of women that has been constructed of feminism is BDSM; they are not supposed to be submissive, that's muh soggy knee, but they ARE supposed to be allowed to have whatever sex life they want, which includes finding a dom to spank their ass, and I see some women in the BDSM community who, through this bizarre process, wind up being more feminine and traditional (outside of the leather whips and whate…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 02:07 AM
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"I've found that people who spend their time developing skills A, B, and C, are not as good at skills X, Y, and Z, as compared to the people who instead spend their time developing skills X, Y, and Z, although they in turn suck at skills A, B, and C! Has anyone else noticed this revelation!? And what's that? TEACH them? Like, men can learn things? I had no idea! I've now had my mind blown twice!" Fucking galaxy brain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 02:00 AM
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Both sides tolerate dissent...when they are losing, or at least think they are losing. When winning, or when they think they are winning, it's time to bring the hammer down and smash dissent. This isn't restricted to any country or time period, it's just how groups work, led around by extremists who always set the tone and the agenda.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:27 AM
3

Like what?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:19 AM
4

Women talk about the pay gap, but, you know, I have to PAY for my "one hour per week" partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:08 AM
1

I feel bad for her in the abstract, like I feel bad this shit happens and it's not just 1 person's fault, it's a cascade of societal failures over decades. Still, at the end of the day, she made her bed, now she can get fucked in it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:05 AM
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Yup. Something I harp on is the need to surround yourself with good people--no matter how good you think you are, you can't just bathe in toxic waste and expect it not to affect you. I have had very few close friends in my life, but I am okay with that, as most people I know have had countless friendships that ended basically the same way as the relationships we talk about here; backstabbing, being emotionally unavailable, etc. I've lost one that way too, and it's a similar story; her younger co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:03 AM
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And then there's the effect of their fantasies, media, and stories from other women; even if they've never had a man do THAT or who looked like THIS, now they want one. I don't know what to call that, phantom-Chad or something, but I think Sex and the City-style group comparisons aren't helping them. Those used to be considered improper for a lady, or at least something reserved for a group of housewives who have all been married for a decade. Now, shit, I had a guy friend who quit being a nurse…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:48 AM
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True, and I wish more folks would extend that logic to men, like you did. It might sound cheesy as hell, but telling people to only fuck someone they are in love with and at least hope to be together forever with is the way to go. Especially with fancy-pants blowjob machines and VR porn, you can get your rocks off without fucking a nameless bar wench. Or go to an Asian massage place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:43 AM
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Because most of the mainstream internet, like most of Reddit, has been purged of anyone being mean to women. You can be mean to men, but we banned all criticism of women as "hate speech" and "threats", so women can just cry and moan and pat each other on the back. They don't learn because they rarely get called out, and if they do, it's usually downvoted to hell, deleted, and the poster banned, while 50 other people go "Don't listen to the totally anonymous person who I am 100% sure is a male ne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:39 AM
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And while studies on infidelity are showing that women have recently "caught up" to men in rates of cheating, studies on genetics have shown much higher rates of fathers who aren't actually the father but don't know it...somehow...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:31 AM
1

Thirty seven!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:30 AM
9

Ladies think men just come off an assembly line, and if there's a problem, well, it's a manufacturing defect and it's stuck forever. I see in dating profiles (yeah, I don't know why I waste my time on them either); women will say things like "I want to learn how to do X; teach me?" or some such, but their expectations are always "You must do X well." She gets to grow and learn and change; he needs to be perfect right fucking now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:29 AM
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You could replace "one pump chump" with so many other things, though--yes, there are certain minimum standards it is reasonable to have. The problem, then, isn't that an imperfection exists, it's that she's not handling that fact properly, meaning that no matter WHICH issue he has, she'd be angry and ungrateful and it would poison the relationship. Even when my parents got divorced, which actually was as much my dad's fault as my mom's, it was still surprising how much I learned afterwards about…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:26 AM
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That's basically the origin story of Karen right there--no one ever DOES anything about Karen, that's why she just gets worse and worse. Even at an adult age, Karen used to be rare, because her father, brother, or husband, would literally smack her if she got completely ridiculous; "Wife, SHUP UP, go back inside!" I'd also say it's beyond just a parent debate, because I think it's more of a gender fight--the way MEN handle issues, which is threats and, if necessary, force, has been constantly at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 04:16 AM
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Most men throughout all of history?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 03:59 AM
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And people will support a woman doing it, telling the angry, hurt man to "stop being so controlling, you don't own her!" while a man who does it is still seen as a lowlife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 03:56 AM
2

Yeah, it certainly wasn't perfect in the past, there were hang-ups and imperfections in the moral order and I'm glad some of those got fixed, but not if it means fucking up all the rest. I don't give a rat's ass about people being gay, for example, do whatever you want in your own bedroom, but I'd rather go back to oppressing gay people if it's a "package deal" with lying and cheating and destruction of the family, which seems to be opinion of...certain groups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 03:53 AM
2

I mean, they DID put chemicals in the water, pseudo-estrogens ultimately, that were causing frogs to act gay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 03:49 AM
2

We are where we are as a race DESPITE hypergamy and similar, primitive tendencies; overcoming our most basic primal urges is precisely how we built civilization. All of them. We'd be cavemen if it was impossible to overcome. And one way we've dealt with it is what we teach women (and men) to find attractive. A well-groomed man in a suit with a modest car and a decent house who had a respectable, if not particularly high-paying, career was once considered highly attractive and desirable, whilst a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 03:47 AM
3

Indeed. It's more of an American thing, too; the average European lives in like 3-4 domiciles in their life, while the average American lives in 12 or more. Not that there's anything wrong with moving to where the jobs or anything, but there's nothing wrong with staying home and saving up money until you actually have a wife to move in with so you can then have kids. Why piss all that money away on a 1-bedroom apartment for years and then be too broke to get a house?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 05:09 PM
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Beyond just the delusions, and feminism, I'm going to sound like an old man and say this is what happens when you stop prioritizing good morals as the first and most important lesson you teach kids--be good, and seek others who are good. Take that out and it gets replaced with, basically, hedonism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 05:06 PM
1

The responder "Polly" seems like a bitter, angry shrew who dated bottom-of-the-barrel men with the IQs of a linen closet and is now basically telling women not to marry because she has shit taste. Doesn't even seem like she rode the CC so much as went all in on the first guy to smile at her and spent 15 years before realizing he was a deadbeat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 03:03 AM
1

It really blows because online dating COULD be fine. But every fucking site and app is becoming Tinder; the restrict your ability to message, restrict how much text you can put, encourage you to put up tons of pictures, even FORCE you to put up X number of pics while there are no rules requiring you to write anything, and the result is everyone just swipes based on how good the pics look. It's much worse for men, but even many women get screwed by it, especially if they are average looking and d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:58 AM
1

I find the woman asking the question to seem, you know, fine, maybe just a little oblivious, while "Polly" is an angry, raging lunatic. I mean, she liked Trainwreck, she's clearly suffering from severe psychosis. She should be the one writing in for advice and the first lady should be dispensing meaningless fluff answers. Who the fuck hired her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:45 AM
3

I remember getting butterflies in my stomach with my first girlfriend, and she was sweet and great. I think that's pretty much universal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:33 AM
3

That actually mirrors history; many of the old, bitter, ugly spinsters who championed and, with daddy's inheritance, funded hardcore progressivism 100 years ago were, almost certainly, lesbians. But not, like, born lesbians--they were just so repulsive to men that the only people they could find for "company" were other, awful women. And some of them ran "schools for girls"--girls of age, but...yeah, they'd find themselves some poor, naive barely legal whose parents encouraged her to join one of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:30 AM
8

When did single women become the happiest people? It used to be married women--now I'm pretty sure it's actually single men. Women are, across the board, less and less happy. Can't imagine why.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:22 AM
3

Except that's all just people reacting to the bad trend in the first place; it's more and more people spiraling the drain, getting sucked in, even though they didn't want it and didn't ask for it. People are "more mature" later on because they are refusing to grow the fuck up; they are more "financially secure" because they finally move post blowing all their money on bullshit and racking up the credit card debt; they "know who they are" because they are tired, drained, and lonely, from years of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:21 AM
4

That just sounds like she's being a man, wanting to find a man to give her what women typically give men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:12 AM
2

I kinda hate the society-wide anger at "men living in their parents' basements". I get that it's not literal, and I understand the general idea, but...women out-earn men under 40, because women out-number men 3-to-1 on universities, and because many of the basic, decent, blue-collar jobs are gone. And then throw in the outrageous cost of living in many places, and trying to have your own place or even split a place on a working-class income can be prohibitively expensive. Meanwhile, your parents…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:06 AM
8

Not just man-hater; that's basically listing "Narcissist" as a character trait. Anyone says that in any situation, try to get away from them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 10:52 PM
6

I assume, with those women, it's a status thing. Sure, they still want you to be handsome and tall and strong, but you're also smart and stuff, so that makes me a better woman for getting you! It's Poke-cock and I got lucky! I guess that makes sense if the woman is, perhaps, not actually that sexual, even just alone, and looks at relationships like a Baron trying to figure out who to marry his daughter off to for the most geopolitical advantage. But some women are just borderline retarded but we…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 10:41 PM
2

Oh, I don't know about that. Nothing says Chad can't have a boat and pick up a little hussy to fuck in it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 10:34 PM
1

I will concur with nateh11; this seriously needs to be archived and pinned somewhere here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 10:31 PM
1

The problem is correlation and causation being difficult or impossible to separate. I'm not real keen on the "pair bonding" hypothesis for that reason. If you look at sluts and say they can't stay loyal because their slutty behavior has damaged them, how do you know it's not just because they are sluts? Maybe they would never have been able to settle down even if you had two enunuch bodyguards with her at all times to ensure she never got into any funny business before marriage. On the flip side…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 10:29 PM
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Hmm...just throwing it out there, but I wonder if she's talking about lacking arousal, or lacking any kind of connection. And if he shares her interests, is smart and funny and kind, and she still doesn't click with him at all despite actively wanting to, she might also just be a boring-ass basic bitch with the personality of toothpaste who can only connect with people when drunk or high. I think that happens alot too; it's not always the CC that does it--sometimes being told they are a special …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 05:08 AM
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So I shouldn't contact if I DON'T miss leg day? Oh good, I qualify then, I totally miss leg day. Anyway, I'm not sure she's smart enough to understand the Simpsons. Also, why did she put "sexual identity issues" together with "misogynistic"? Like, does she think bisexual men beat women more or something?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 04:55 AM
2

What's funny (or I guess predictable, in the long run, but still), is the most recent dating app I wasted my time on is full of medical professionals, even alot of doctors. You're actually educated lady! I mean, a real education, not liberal arts/communications/gender studies! You're probably smarter than me but you still have the personality of a sock drawer, and not the one you hide your vibrator and lube in. I know, as George Carlin pointed out, that half of people are below average. I get it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:54 PM
3

Not the worst article ever; it'd be nice to think at least one young lady ready and took it to heart. But I can't help but laugh my ass off that the only 2 "threats" she saw were pregnancy and failing to orgasm. Really? Not cumming is a threat? But what isn't a threat are STDs or abusive men who take advantage of a woman's naivete to hurt her and take things much too far (not to mention potentially rob her, kill her, whatever)? Sure, herpes is much less of a problem than not getting your rocks o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:48 PM
7

No, it just means you have a paycheck and will take care of her. She's still sleeping with those other men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:39 PM
1

Alright, so I am going to let you in on a secret; I agree with you. However, you apparently still haven't actually read my initial post and understood my question; this view that you oppose, that manliness=dominant=making the plans and calling the shots, is repeated on this sub quite regularly, and I wanted to know why, then, anyone would post the exact opposite of that as being a problem. "Men need to be dominant and women need to submit to them!" "Yeah, right! I'm trying to submit to my man, b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:37 PM
3

Eh, just call it like it is; they are whores.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:28 PM
5

They just don't know. No one will let them see. It's like, dare I say, certain minority groups in some countries; they've driven their own neighborhoods into the gutter, shame anyone who works or tries hard, they vote for the same people for decades on end, but can't even consider that they've just made the wrong choices, because the whole world tells them it's not their fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:25 PM
2

Indeed, people seem to be legitimately shifting over to believing all the shit they see in porn. I normally am very skeptical about anyone claiming that media brainwashes people, but man, alot of people really are coming to believe that black guys are just naturally over 6 foot tall, 8 inches long, with 3% body fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:20 PM
6

I partially disagree; I think they hate anything that men tend to like, just because men like it. Look at superhero movies/tv shows; these things were for total losers (men) for decades, even those who liked it kept it quiet, but now regular people (women) watch the Marvel movies, so it's totally cool now. 100+ years ago, women hated alcohol and the tavern/bar/pub, because women were generally not allowed, it was where men went after work to let off some steam and say things that would get death…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:14 PM
4

Tell me about it. 99% of dating profiles are awful (to be fair, dating apps literally make it hard to be otherwise). Oh, you like a popular show? What a special fucking snowflake you are! You like to eat food, drink alcohol, and engage in outdoor activities that are popular in this geographic region? Well pinch my ass, what a dream catch! Like, I swear to god half of them are made by an AI Stanford is testing to mimic human behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 10:09 PM
0

So I'm seeing like 3 points here to respond to, and I'll try to be brief. 1) But...he IS less manly, at least according to the definition I see used here. He's failing at like one of the main planks of manliness, so much so that his girlfriend is having to do it for him. Is it only bad when she says it, but not us? I mean, I see comments going "He deserves it, I have no sympathy, he failed as a man!" here, and that seems much worse. 2) She's also acknowledging his positive aspects and trying to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 07:30 AM
1

Yes, I agree completely. I am all for professionals existing for pretty much anything, but you can't just off-load personal problems or the need for a meaningful connection onto someone you pay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 06:55 AM
1

So...someone help me out here. I'm new. I've seen posts relating to women who do NOT want to be submissive, and the comments are "Women need to submit to their men, that's the natural way of things, that's how it works". So a woman says she DOES want to submit but her man is downright passive, and...that's also a flaw with her, why isn't she happy to not be submissive, to have to take the initiative herself? I'm not trying to argue, I just find it odd that there doesn't seem to be a consensus he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 07:13 AM
1

I'm just picturing her starring in those sad pornos where the wife is not just cheating, but insulting and belittling the guy as he sits there and cries the whole time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 07:04 AM
1

I guess I'm still too soft for this subreddit, because when I see this, I think she deserves it, but I'm also hoping it's what makes her pull her head out of her ass, however unlikely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:57 AM
1

Mo roommate is lesbian; yes they do. Especially since the percentage of lesbians or bi-sexual women who also want to be poly is exceptionally high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:53 AM
1

I'm not sure on that last point. I see women all the time listing that they want "assertive" or "confident" men and I'm convinced 99% of them mean "Will pick me up and bounce me on his huge dick". A woman actually saying "I want a dominant men" is saying something that makes the average feminist froth at the mouth--you're not supposed to ever admit a man could top a woman, much less DESIRE such a thing! So to me, it's actually a breath of fresh air that a woman is even willing to say those words…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:51 AM
1

That was standard in the US until the last century. Marrying even first cousins is actually not that detrimental to genetic variety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:44 AM
1

It depends, actually. Other studies show differently, but those are studies in business--women who run departments and have to make budget and show results hire men as much as men do. Women in government or academia, however? Yeah...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:38 AM
2

Weird; disability normally scares employers AWAY and is why disabled people are less employed now than they were before the ADA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:36 AM
1

This woman is apparently from opposite world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:22 AM
3

Because he's incorrect. Men will chase just about anything with a pulse, if she's pleasant and not a timebomb; only the hottest or richest or dumbest ones will actually turn down all other women to pursue a 10. Meanwhile, women overwhelmingly pursue the same few men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:19 AM
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Nothing wrong with therapists--not their fault that some people treat them like some kind of miracle drug.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 06:11 AM
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