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She’s wasting your time. Move on and pursue more mature women that won’t string you on. If she really has stuff going on right now , she’ll hit you up when she’s got stuff together
/r/seduction14/02/18 02:32 AM
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You’re acting like you gotta shovel coal to get to her. It’s only desperation if you’re at her mercy. Stop giving her all the power and just Drive to her! just say; hey I’m picking you up Saturday. Be ready Women like a man who takes charger.
/r/seduction14/02/18 02:03 AM
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She’ll probably say no , I’m Dutch. Does this actually work for you?
/r/seduction12/02/18 09:19 PM
1

I just want you too be healthy lmao 🤣 . Not jelly People be having nasty shit in them so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:31 PM
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And that’s how he got AIDS! More than 20% of the population have Herpes and may more have HPV etc. don’t be surprised when your d*ck falls off. Also you have now violated her trust. I knows it’s the rage for some men to do that , but unless you’re what aids or kids with unknown women think twice .
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:13 PM
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Not bad , but Coffee and a play won’t really let you engage physically. Unless you go in for a hug , and a kiss after the play; yes you can do it. If you hug her , hold her ass and she holds you. Go in for the kiss. It’s all about her feedback . After this ( even if you don’t Kiss, which you should ) ask her out for a movie at your house/ her house ( not theater ) make her dinner and you’ve done 98% of the work .
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:01 PM
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That may just be your area. I live in a major college town with 4 more colleges within 50 miles. So I’d say increase your search area to 50 miles or even 60 miles. It wouldn’t be bad to drive to meet a quality woman. You can pm a link to pics so I check out your tinder. Something has to be off somewhere ( either your pics/ or your profile) ?
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:54 PM
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Get out for here with that bs OP , you’re a beautiful man lol. Seriously though, glad that you got into your powerlifting hobbies again. Keep at it , as it makes you happy . As for the ladies: You’re a good looking guy , who takes care of himself ( or at lest you’re working at it) One thing I would is : Get in on the online thing ( Tinder /Bumble/Clover) and make a good bio, just 5 pics should be good . Don’t link your Instagram. And really just try to meet girls on there , that’ll help you get …
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:47 PM
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Depends on what the date is. Like if you’re going bowling and stuff it’s easier to make grub if her loosing / giving her a hug coz she’s awful at bowling vs a bozo coffee date where you interview her like some news reporter lol . Take her bowling / get froyo in some warm little ice cream place and seat next to her. These her about her hair / small hands etc etc. Or is the date at your house ( like a movie date ) or something along those lines?
/r/seduction09/02/18 03:41 PM
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Walk up to her , slide her a note and say hey , you’re really cute . Text me . Do this in front of her friends and you’ll b ether shot forever . The friends will make her text lol. I did this multiple times in college,it’s fun and her friends approve of you immediately
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:36 PM
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The girls are probably just trying to be polite . But is still a shitty thing to do .
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:03 AM
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Take her to you house for a couch casting lol . For real though , just saying you’re a photographer/DJ won’t get you laid . Maybe take her on a mini photo shoot- hike thing. You get to spend time with her and see if your energy vibes . Maybe it’s just me , but I don’t bang girls I don’t have a good energy with . Just makes shut awkward after .
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:31 AM
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This x2! OP needs a lifestyle change
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:10 AM
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While you have a good career , and you take care of yourself , I noticed you still mentioned your physique . So I’d say ; Get in shape , and start seeing the greatness in yourself. Finding activities that bring you happiness will help you meet people who have similar interests . Edit : the 40+ crowd seen uninteresting because they probably aren’t living an exciting active lifestyle . The only way you beat that 40+ vibe is to be defferent . Because right now , you describe your life and it sounds…
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:04 AM
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Ging een paar keer naar Utrecht. Nederlandse meisjes zijn levendig Took me 10 minutes to write that lmao . I love Holland man .
/r/seduction04/02/18 05:36 PM
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Plenty of hot girls to go around . Don’t stress . I’m from Portugal, but live in the states . Go to Lisbon if it’s too hard in your city lol
/r/seduction04/02/18 04:50 PM
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Point made .
/r/seduction04/02/18 04:38 PM
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Don’t know where OP is at , but if it’s Europe girls are out every day in the square . Even if it’s the states, girls are out there too .
/r/seduction04/02/18 03:43 PM
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Still , move on . Double texting her won’t get her any more interested. I know it sucks , but even NASA had to give up the space shuttle bro .
/r/seduction04/02/18 03:40 PM
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Next time start scratching your crotch . She’ll get interested then . Real talk though , the girl was probably into her studying . Don’t fret and go fishing again
/r/seduction04/02/18 03:39 PM
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Don’t b nice lol . It’s called Hoe evolution Every hot girl is a hoe , just like every guy that gets a new tinder lay every weekend is a fuckboi in a girl’s eyes . I get called a fuckboi, and I take no offense to it . Tinder is the shit by the way
/r/seduction04/02/18 12:04 PM
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Eh , you should have to drive hours for a Sheila bro . Get a local girl .
/r/seduction04/02/18 12:00 PM
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Just make it a chill vibe thing , you don’t want to be that back up guy after a girl gets dumped . If it was me, I’d just be doing it for the lay , but I’m an asshole🤷🏾‍♂️. I usually date girls after first just hooking up with them anyways . Either way can work , but just don’t be perceived as more of a friend .
/r/seduction04/02/18 11:48 AM
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It may be that you’re giving them the nice Boi vibe bro . You can be a good looking bloke , but not get a Sheila if you seem to nice . Women like a Alpha guy who can be a nice Boi , but still hit that shut righty like a raging African lion . You gotta alternate between mr nice Boi and Fuck Boi.
/r/seduction04/02/18 11:42 AM
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Hoes will be hoes lmao . Just plow and move on.
/r/seduction04/02/18 11:39 AM
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Girls like like that require a bit of watering tbh. You seem like a nice bloke , and you probably shouldn’t just invite her over and back the shut out of her tender heart lol . But it’s getting to the optimum stage , her friends obviously like your nice Boi vibe , so don’t wait too long or you become the nice Boi in the friend zone . Invite her out for gelato Or even better take her cute ass bowling. That’ll make her more comfortable and confident in your presence. Once you get her bowling , she…
/r/seduction04/02/18 11:38 AM
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Let me elucidate in simple terms ; There’s no secret handshakes to get with a girl bro . You just have teen anxiety and that’s not the end of the world . Approach girls and stop worrying about getting laid for now . After all you can’t get laid without talking to a girl first lol . I know I get flack fro suggesting this on here , but it works . Start hitting the gym with your homeboys . If you don’t have homeboys, get some . Work that stress and anxiety away and get swole in the process . Workin…
/r/seduction04/02/18 11:22 AM
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Have your Friend drive a Range Rover , while you drive Ford pickup and you’ll quickly learn that your rig matters a bit more than you think . Women are attracted to success , or the perception of it . Work hard , and you’ll never have an issue plowing any women you want .
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:07 AM
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Now that you put it that way , it makes sense . But as you yourself have said ; females won’t act this way “unless they don’t actually care about you and are just using you. “ She clearly doesn’t care or respect OP . But I guess it’s not a bad thing for OP to be the adult and end things right .
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:13 AM
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That’s some beta move right there . From what I’ve read it’s clear OP has been the one putting in all the effort . Her actions already prove that she doesn’t care . Females only do this when they think you care too much about them , giving them this farce confidence to treat you like shit . Ghosting her will show her that she is indeed disposable , and you can move on with your life without her dumbass .
/r/seduction30/01/18 04:04 AM
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Just treat her like you’d treat a straight 10 bro ,and get laid .
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:27 AM
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You don't ask a women to be your fwb. It just happens , if she knows you're not wifing her, and she still wants to fuck. Thats a fwb Just don't catch feelings
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:02 AM
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Hahaha. Theres local girls with better P*ssy bro. Stop that stuff haha
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:01 AM
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Bruh, unless your ass is trying to go to Cali don't waste your time. SnapChat famous is the new thing hoes like to be. How many guys do you think she snaps with that are just like you. Get a local girl and stop snapping with her. Unless you want to go to Cali
/r/seduction30/01/18 01:00 AM
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You're probably trying too hard on the text game bro. I've posted a few screenshots below for you to see. Pm if you're interested. link http://vincentboi.imgur.com
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:55 AM
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Your Tinder better be It-Boi status bro. When you DM her , you're already at a disadvantage , so your profile has to be levels up. But I say fuck it and hit her up. You loose nothing anyway
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:54 AM
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Thing is girls can get dick everyday if they wanted . If you use Tinder, Bumble , or even clover. You'll realize the ratio of guys to girls is in the girl's favor. Just as others have said, you need to be bringing something more than just your massive dong bro. The emotional capture is what brings a woman coming back .Make her feel understood, wanted, but don't do it too much to where they start catching feelings lol.
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:36 AM
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Pick up isn't painful bro, like real talk. Its just life, some women you will fuck, some you wont. Don't get worked up over it. Try the next girl
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:16 AM
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Let her go brush, she flaking and she's wasting your time. Ghost her too and don't say shit.
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:14 AM
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Don't mess this shit up Boy. Get plowing
/r/seduction30/01/18 12:12 AM
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Everyone is horny and ready to fuck . Real life is harder , people actually have shit like work and other commitments . Just finding time to meet is a hustle . If you can’t w in college , you’ll have a hard time after
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:19 AM
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Others have already touched on the lack of depth and personality stuff, so ill leave that. But based on your post, You're being too clingy, and it scares the girls. Leave the clinginess and overly emotional aspects to the women. After the 1st date, maintain a level on intrigue. Don't text here back and forth, make it seem like you actually have a life (obviously you need to now start having a life lol, like get out and get some hobbies even if it means going to volunteer at a local soup kitchen)…
/r/seduction27/01/18 11:54 AM
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I’m already a fuckboy for all these girls haha . The Indian girl is kinda cool , so I wouldn’t mind dating her . She wants a relationship . It’s cool to be fucking a new girl every two days , but it’s getting pretty blah right now . You just get tired
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:31 PM
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No , she’s Indian . White parents typically don’t care once they find out I’m studying engineering and will be going to med school in a year . I guess they think only Engineering black guys are acceptable to Pipe their daughters 😂 The girls always find a way to my apartment regardless, so I don’t really care .
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:24 PM
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It’s all good bro . We will succeed and get laid regardless 😂. Parents might be a pain , but girls don’t really care . The P*ssy ain’t racist . D is D . The parents not liking me , just made me more attractive for the girl , so I had her over plenty of times .
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:58 PM
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No shit Sherlock . Being white gives you an huge advantage. India has a huge racially stratified society . E.g I’m a Portuguese black guy , Engineering Premed major , and this girl’s parents wouldn’t let her date me . For no other reason , but my blackness . Just be normal and ask her out .
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:43 AM
1

That’s how you get the power back . Now she knows she ain’t shit lmao 😂. You got her in your palm now bro . Hit her up when you’re ready to get plowing .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:50 PM
1

Sure it is . There’s no single right way for a date to go . Take your time , and the kiss will come . Have fun
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:38 PM
1

Exactly what I’d do.
/r/seduction23/01/18 07:35 PM
1

Not hating on the coffee date lol , but unless you want to interview her or go read the bible , don’t do it . Bowling , trampoline park , hike , fruit picking . Anything where the two of you could laugh , bump into each other... Or you could just go get froyo , some bomb ass Mexican food . You get the idea
/r/seduction23/01/18 12:50 PM
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That’s goals bro .
/r/seduction23/01/18 12:18 PM
1

I totally get you bro . I’ll probably seek a relationship too ,only subconsciously haha . It’s just really hard for me because I live next to my college (75 000 students with et least 56% women ) and I have 3 other colleges within 50 miles of me . It’s hard to stay focused on one girl
/r/seduction23/01/18 12:01 PM
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Bro , you only get laid if you act like you’re a top-tier-boi or thevaginator . Don’t play games , get laid and be merry you lucky bastard
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:42 AM
1

Fair enough. We might well be interested in deferent types of women . But I’ve met and banged all types of women on tinder , from the crazy party girl doing communications , to the timid girl that writes “no hookups” or the ones that say I’m a Christian/conservative etc etc . For reference, i am an engineering Premed major , so I don’t really fit in the douche or nerd /anxiety laden box . I’m just well adjusted socially . And I don’t limit myself .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:35 AM
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You’re not getting laid , but you don’t sound like you’re willing to do anything outside your normal routine of asking where women bought they’re fur jackets . For all she knows you could be one of those animal activist weirdos wanting to beat her up for wearing fur. If you see a girl as a giant walking pussy that you want to grab within minutes , you probably still won’t get laid
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:31 AM
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Your approach weird asf bro . Like don’t ask about where she bought her Alligator skin bag . That’s just weird and creepy . Just approach her like you would anyone else .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:29 AM
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You got this shit bro . The girl is obviously into you .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:23 AM
2

Nah bro . I doubt she fucked him . But even if she did , you can still fuck her .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:22 AM
1

Lay that pipe bro . Don’t over analyze the situation , go watch the damn movie . Take a couple of condoms and your ass better not seat on the opposite end of the couch
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:16 AM
1

Its good that you’re feelings shitty . Rejection sucks , but thats the law or the jungle . Get your wallet and cut your losses . There’s plenty of Sheila’s in the wild . Be the plow and get laid , that’s how you forget about Megan who ghosted you .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:12 AM
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Sounds like you’re Confused. Nature decorates that Men chance . Men are the alpha . Don’t believe this neoliberal thinking that Brenda is gonna come ask your ass out for a date . Sure it could happen , but the chances of it happening is as my old of banging Rihanna . Be the plow and get laid like nature intended
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:08 AM
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Hey , I like those kicks . Whats your name . I’m Daquan . Something like that . Be natural
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:04 AM
1

Don’t go I planning for a kiss and sex . You want to make talking to women a natural to your mind . Go on a couple of dates , have a girl over for Netflix and drinks . Seat on the couch with some dim lights , play the I’m cold game and get in a blanket . Once you guys touch / cuddle what ever nature will take over .
/r/seduction23/01/18 11:02 AM
1

Your spending too much time and mental capacity on her bro . Live your life and if y’all connect again , then it happens . People want what they can’t have . Make yourself rare and show her that you don’t need her
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:59 AM
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The best way to learn is to get rejected. So don’t worry about being nervous , it goes away
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:56 AM
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I don’t know about y’all. But I go to tinder to slay and get laid . Granted I’ve dated girls I met on there . If you go there to meet a girl you want to marry and have kids with it’ll be hard . Why not just have fun and then if you meet a Candace that you really like , then you actually date her. When you expect to find a relationship, you’re automatically putting pressure on yourself and will approach the girl like a guy desperate for a relationship.
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:55 AM
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Fuck other girls bro . There’s plenty of hot Sheila’s to go around . Get tinder and get smashing x The thing is she knows you like her ,and you have now given her the power dynamic . You need to show her that you don’t need her. Women want what they can’t have . So make yourself rare . Get her snap and post as you live your life , ha going out with other girls and shit like that .
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:51 AM
1

Meet women just for shits and giggles . The sex will come naturally after that . You want to make meeting women a normal thing . It’ll make it easier to get laid
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:47 AM
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Get the number already and hit her up when she’s I ain’t in the environment. You’re talking like that environment her entire life . Chat her up , go hiking with her and get a lay . Or if you want to date her, same thing applies . You want to get her out of the environment.
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:46 AM
1

Gets a gym buddy and start going to the gym bro. I know it’s dawned upon , but the gym is a good morale booster and it can o it do you good. You’ll fall in love with your physique and your mental health gets a boost too . Then you’ll also start getting the foxes . You don’t want to need a women to feel better . Pm me if you need to talk to someone . You got this bro
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:44 AM
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Don’t be too invested into this girl bro . If she’s a fox , she’s got 5 Charlie’s doing circles around her . If she’s still checking your snaps , she’s still knows you exist . Do other shit , so she knows you got a life you live . Girls like what they can’t have . Show her that you don’t need her .
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:41 AM
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It’s Fake for a reason lmao . Ignore that shit like it’s a plague
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:36 AM
2

That’s what tinder us good for . Smash till you get tired OP . You’re now fukboi status . Welcome to the club .
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:36 AM
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A friend zone is a mental state mate . Don’t worry about being friend zoned . Worst case scenario you become fwb.
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:31 AM
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Don’t do that waiting game nonsense . Hit her up , and just say hey . Had fun eating with you , I got this thing going on Friday . You should come And then take her on some Kind of surprise date : go bowling , ices skating and stuff like that . Don’t do coffee dates and other stuff like that. It’s cliche You want to be deferent .
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:30 AM
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You don’t ask to have sex . Spend time with her: have her over to your house or her house for a drink ( if you can’t drink yet), a movie works . Seat on the couch , with dim lights and it’ll come Nationally . Just hold hands ,and tease her . Point is to get to the touching stage where it’s kinda natural . You’re already dating her, so you got 50% of it done already .
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:27 AM
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Like for real haha. I’m doing engineering, and I’m lucky to see a girl walk by my classes . All the guys in my class would have a wet dream from seeing a girl’s knees 😂 Op you meet tonnes of women. And your lucky ass even does yoga with tonnes of hot girls ( yeah , I’m talking about Candice on your right) If you are like me , most of the girls I meet in classes aren’t the typical to have fun at raves ,so you might need to invest more time in getting to know them ( most engineering/Premed girls a…
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:24 AM
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Wear rejections like a battle scar . Op won’t lose anything by hitting her up one more time. Invite her to a bar a block from your crib , or where ever . I’ve had girls say they’ll hit me up when free , and they just kinda think that you’d not probably not wanna hang out after all those days . The fear is experienced by women and men .
/r/seduction23/01/18 10:19 AM
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If she’s walking opposite direction , plan to approach her as she is coming . Not after she passes by . That’s just mad creepy and scary for a girl . If she’s seating by a bench , or on the beach . Just walk up to her. Be like ; hey , you know I don’t usually do this , but I thought I’d come say hi . You’re hella cute . My names Trey . Something simple , make it natural . But don’t linger , strike up a convo for like 2 minutes . Get the number and be like I gotta go but I’m talking you out Frida…
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:59 AM
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Ignore her bro . Sheila’s like that are toxic , your ass going to end up falling for her all over again . Ignore her , and only talk to her if you wanna get laid . Show that you don’t need her. Girls like what they can’t have . Channel your inner Chad , or Even better your inner Trey . You know that black football player banging all the girls at school , be that .
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:57 AM
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That’s the key . Don’t pay her too much attention , talk her up dance a little and leave . Start chatting up some other Sheila’s . Show herthat you don’t need her , you can vibe with other girls . That’s what builds the attraction . Most guys clown up to the girl and just hang there like a tentacle. That won’t turn the girl on . Just like guys , girls get attracted to what they think they can’t get . Be the guy who doesn’t care . Be chill , but also a little asshole . Like bring out your inner f…
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:51 AM
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Happens to all of us bro . I once had a chick over at 11 , we talked till 3 am before my dumbass started kissing her . I kept 2nd guessing myself . For me I get some wine , or a beer . And really just talk , look at her . Always look at her cute eyes . Ask for her hand , make fun of her small hands . Something along the lines of , girls with small hands are always the craziest. Then you hold her hand , boom ice broken . Key is to get you two to touch . You have your own place , if A girl is comi…
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:43 AM
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Just get her some flowers , but you better get laid that day too .
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:37 AM
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Witty banter . You don’t want to come off like you’re trying to make her your best friend and shit . But it really depends on the girl and her vibe ( the profile tells you her vibe ) Example : this chick is fine, parties and she obviously takes care of herself. She know her way around a selfie 🤳 and is pretty much a basic college white girl you want to bang . Her name is Kaitie , and her booty obviously 🔥. I can tell she squats and gets down to Kodak black and G eazy . Me : I feel like we could …
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:35 AM
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The Sheila was definitely trying to get it on bro . Don’t beat yourself up for not nailing her . She invited you over to smoke , watch some Netflix and talk . She curved other guys / friends so you two could hang . When she mentioned the other dudes , you should have been like “forget those losers , I’ll show you some love” . She wouldn’t be bringing other guys up for any reason but to chuff you up and see what you do . Once you get to the couch , and the movie reaches that middle section where …
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:26 AM
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