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2	The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incels Bullying is inexorably connected to western culture, especially under capitalism and patriarchy This is so wrong. I came from South East Asia and bullying in the US is a joke compared to our bullying. A boy got thrown out of second floor stairs, another boy got glassed. Some left blinded. A lot of these bullying is sanctioned by the teachers. Look at ritual hazing that happened in different countries. Even when government tried to put stop in it, it still continues. You want to know why? Look at…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 02:38 PM
6	Men, how've you gotten over being cheated on? Well, I am a woman, but the advice was given to me by a guy and it worked so well. So in short, I was cheated on by my very first partner many years ago. He was my first in everything, including hugging (my family does not do hugging and I came from a conservative place where men and women just do not really touch each other.) I was broken-hearted until a friend of mine (M) told me that with seven billion people on this earth, me being betrayed is nothing special at all. His words was that, "wha…	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/21 01:48 PM
4	Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD I just want to say that not only I read everything, but I read it multiple times. I also will translate it to my mother (because her English is not so good), because she was you. But she is luckier because she was adopted by her aunt when she was 8. So she 'escaped' my biological grandmother. Or grandmonster I would call her. Can I pm you to talk about it further? I saw the end of my grandmonster's life...and it pained me to say this, but there was no closure, zero, zilch, nada, for the men and …	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/21 01:40 PM
5	What is your opinion of TRP's view of men peaking in their thirties; women their early twenties? You know what else peaked at 30s - 40s? Suicide rate for men. Many attempts to talk about it has been mostly drown with 'Lulz lone wahmen are all cat ladies at that age!!!' meme. It is rather frustrating.	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/20 02:15 PM
7	waiting at the finishline New concept to consider: men should raise their standard instead but also be ready and be fine with it if it takes them a while or never, to meet that person that fulfill their standards. I have two real life examples and I am interested to know, according to you, which men you'd respect more: Example A. Benny 40 y.o. afraid of being alone, he went into one relationships after another with women he does not really have interest for. Just as long as he is not ended up alone. Last thing happening …	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/20 07:24 PM
4	Divorce courts Negative narrative exists on both genders. There are plenty of guys who think women are users who are unable to be loyal and loving also. While there are plenty of women who do. I was just talking if a man does not want kids, marriage, living together, there are plenty of women nowadays who do not want all those too. So they have option to get into LTR with them. Marriage, kids and living together are no marks for happy relationships anyway. Plenty of people of both genders are unhappy in those …	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/20 02:12 AM
1	Divorce courts Can solve this problem by having LTR specially only with childfree, non-marriage and non-living together woman. We are out there. Honestly, I feel that more men want the whole marriage, kids and white picket thing nowadays than a lot of women I know.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/20 01:02 PM
8	What's your true view on marriage as oppose to the red pill's? I am not for it. It turns a monogamous relationship between two people into a threesome relationship between the couple and with the government. Maybe a gathering, private oath taking with each other, etc without government's hands in it will be better. But you see, being together with someone, combining wealth, raising kids...can do all those without that piece of paper. Saying this as a woman too. The gender that stereotypically being depicted as one wanting it more than other. Don't see the p…	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/20 04:56 PM
2	I actually feel sick because of the redpill OP, it is good that you are being introspective, but sometimes, even when both partners are doing things right, relationship can still end. And that is not the end of the world, often nobody's faults. It just...runs its course. And that is just how life is, dude. It is not about tying to float a sinking ship by using redpill or bluepill or any pill buoyant. Sometimes the best thing is evacuating yourself from that sinking ship, reached solid soil and enjoy it for a while and then going into anot…	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/20 06:57 PM
1	How Much of The Red Pill Is Just A Grift Meant to Take Advantage of Vulnerable Men? If there are people buying 'gamer girl bath water', you know there are people who will shell out money for something that they think will change their lives and finally bring them happiness. Another example: GOOP still exists and even makes profit.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/20 01:10 PM
5	Dealing With My Irrational Emotions For me personally, it will be doing some deep thinking about two things. First, say your GF's name is Allie, you have to think of her as Allie. Not as a group, not as AWALT. Allie as in she is the person you feel comfortable with, perhaps she has this way of smiling that you likes so much, perhaps she chews food with her mouth open which you detests, perhaps she has really smelly fart and leave hairpins everywhere, but she can also makes you feel comforted when you needed to. AND she is also som…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/20 01:49 PM
8	Dealing With My Irrational Emotions I personally feel that we should be able to break up with our partner for -any- kind of reasons. Sometimes for no reason. But if you do not want to break up with her, you have to find a way to be alright with it. So you said you have a slutty phase yourself. What does she think about that? And you sort of putting this girl on a pedestal. Your sweet, innocent, able to share everything little princess. Don't do things like that. Rather see her (and everyone really) as human that they are. Able to …	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/20 01:24 PM
5	What’s the deal with platonic (female) friends So according to your post, we should press F for Bisexual people. The loneliest people on earth without ability to get closer to any human being without wanting to fuck them :/	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/20 01:12 PM
2	I think redpill broke my brain. I am here looking for help as well Have you ever had a parricularly bad experience with multiple women? There is a guy here who grew up abused as the only guy in the house (grew up with a mother and sisters) and I can understand his resentment. And for something like that, it will take much more than a sibreddit to undo years of abuses growing up. What is your background story? And I am open for pm, but I will be busy for the next few hours. For the record, I am a woman and there are things (ver…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/20 03:25 AM
2	Am I less valuable? Yeah! I grew up in a conservative country and sex is taught as something for procreation only. Finding out that I like to penetrate more than being penetrated was an eyeopening experience. And luckily a lot of guys are into that too. Well, I might be more into being penetrated if I have prostate inside me, lol. G-spot could easily accessed with finger cause the position is so shallow.	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/20 02:13 PM
2	The red pill constantly cherry pick clips of women freaking out and say "HaHa MeMe GeNdEr! ThEy ArE cHiLdReN!" Here's a gif of a man in his thirties who plays video games for a living and throws his controller when he loses. ManChilds are real too. What kind of change are you talking about here? If it is anger issues, I believe that some people with that problem really needs professional help and even prescribed medications. Not just some internet forums/ideologies. The self-confessed incels who ended up murdering people are usually having problem way deeper than just needing red, blue or whatever figurative pills.	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/20 02:10 PM
5	Am I less valuable? As a woman who loves to peg rather than being penetrated with cock, this is really weird to read. I am going to ask the next guy I penetrated if my fake cock feels intrusive too. I've never thought about it before.	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/20 01:58 PM
1	Getting past the constant feeling of putting pressure on yourself to be both an attractive successful man and a good person; over-riding the feeling that female friends see you as inferior to other men and failure to produce'value'=abandonment Unfortunately I do not touch KH anymore because of...motion sickness. Of all games. I am still playing FF, last one I played was XV in PS4. The bit about screwing millionaire is less true in a richer country where women are also working. I am fortunate enough to be raised in a third world poorer country and then moved to richer one. I read somewhere in your post history that you are planning to teach English overseas? If you go to poorer (more conservative countries), you will find more wealth o…	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/20 08:58 AM
7	27 yo M, is it true i should not get in a serious relationship before my 30s 40s? I feel that you should never date anyone, men or women. Look OP. I know that you love your mother. You want her to be happy. If she was single and dating again, and then showing you that her future serious partner has written the very same things you have written and believed in the past, will you be okay with it? Or will you want your mother to be with a better man?	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/20 02:26 AM
1	Getting past the constant feeling of putting pressure on yourself to be both an attractive successful man and a good person; over-riding the feeling that female friends see you as inferior to other men and failure to produce'value'=abandonment Hopefully this does not sound strange, but I remember your username. I think I had my account around the same time where you made your account too and at that time, you were still deep in anger phase. I remember you because of your username. I (used to) play Kingdom Hearts too and I like Xemnas and wanted to chat about that game with you, but I read your posting history and worried that you might blow up on me, because I happen to be a woman. I am glad to read that five years later, you are much…	/r/ExRedPill	18/06/20 09:08 AM
12	4 years ago I found the red pill and it warped my perception of women. I’m here to warn other young men. You’ll look needy if you spend too much time with her, show her that you don’t need her. This is not exactly a bad advice, for men and women. No one wants to be with a clinger or someone who just has only you as their sole social needs fulfilment. However the practise is wrong. Nobody needs to do an extra demonstration of 'not needing you' mentality. It will be like 'NiceGuys' opening door and expecting a thank you, instead of just...opening door for opening door sake because they want to open t…	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/20 09:48 AM
2	I [28M] am trying to leave nine years of RP beliefs behind The first time I dated was online D'oh! That's some baptism by fire over there. It is good to actually feel anything again. Dating always felt like a strategizing game wherein I was faking it. That is the thing, though. It depends on what you want. Just ONS or a short term relationship? You can fake personality. But then anything over 2 years, let alone with living together arrangement? Holy... That is like acting&strategizing 24/7 for two whole years. Even professional actors who work 16 hours …	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/18 01:19 PM
1	I [28M] am trying to leave nine years of RP beliefs behind That is fine, my man. That is the great thing about modern relationship (unline forced marriage), modern relationship is all on voluntary basis. You know the risk and can choose to try it or not.	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/18 01:09 PM
15	Ex-feminists of the MRM, what was the straw that broke the camel's back? Maybe it is too late to chime in...and I am mostly a lurker here, but here it goes. I am a woman from third world South East Asian country and we do not really have feminism there. I think because we are busy with class war. Poor people stick together, men or women. So do rich people. I was never, ever felt marginalized or being oppressed because of my gender back home. Then I found myself in the West, and feminists talk bad about men in my country. Including my dad who used to walk 2 hours to w…	/r/MensRights	02/02/15 08:51 PM
1	What to say to women who find it infuriating when a man wont commit/propose? I proposed my husband, even gotten him ring. He blamed me for pushing him into commitment ten years later. I think human really are not meant to be commited to something for too long.	/r/MensRights	26/01/15 02:38 PM