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It sounds like you're trying to skip the hard work and lock in a girl "forever" so you can relax. It's not going to be like that. In order to attract the girl you want, you need to learn to attract girls in general. I'm a programmer like you, and I've been going out to bars and clubs for a bit over a year now. I can't imagine what my life would have been like without doing that, it's been the single best thing I've ever done. Online dating is good as a supplement at least, but as you've seen, yo…
/r/seduction11/07/14 04:33 PM
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You seem to be just shouting anyone down that doesn't agree with your thesis that Owen can't game sober girls. I've watched a lot of his videos (including a hotseat) and never once did I notice a girl that was sloppily drunk. I have full confidence he can game sober girls, I would suggest he even prefers the girl be sober because he doesn't drink, and I am certain he has as amazing day game as he has night game. As the other guy you shouted down suggests, hating on Owen won't help you get better…
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:44 PM
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Don't get discouraged. It took me 20 dates before girls started to like me. There's nowhere to go but up.
/r/seduction27/06/14 01:45 PM
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Yep, you got him. 12 years in pickup and he can only talk to drunk girls, and was found out by some guy on the internet. Good job.
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:22 AM
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I think you missed the part where I mentioned that I -did- that. OP can do it too.
/r/seduction30/01/14 03:42 PM
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Wtf, your advice is "don't even bother OP"? I was like OP. I learned game. It was a harder start position but I learned, and now I'm infinitely more confident and happy with myself. I wholesale reject the idea of "work on x first". You can ALWAYS work on talking to girls.
/r/seduction30/01/14 01:55 PM
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"Just go out". Just go to bars and clubs and hit on girls. They'll reject you, probably for months actually, but you'll get better at it. Eventually the odd girl will start to like you, and then you'll fuck it up. Then it'll happen a bit more frequently and you'll fuck that up too. Eventually something awesome will happen and you'll realize that you've changed. Then you'll get more and more results. If you do this you'll get the lifetime of social experience you missed in a couple of years. Or, …
/r/seduction31/12/13 10:36 PM
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Why is this guy being downvoted? He hit the nail on the head. We have to lead, but it doesn't mean we have to be GOOD at leading. I've had to do this for my first few times, I just lead, announce "I'm so bad at this haha" and continue leading, badly.
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:17 PM
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Tyler has approached tens of thousands of girls. He is completely unfazed by rejection, etc, because of progressive desensitization. This is what happens when you go out consistently. It doesn't take tens of thousands, only hundreds for a basic level of unreactiveness.
/r/seduction21/09/13 10:05 AM
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Guys I feel like this is the wrong message. "/r/seduction, how do I get good with women? /r/fitness" Pinning your self worth on whether you're ripped or not is a limiting belief, OP will gain more benefit improving himself in general, then he'll probably want to lose the weight anyway.
/r/seduction19/08/13 06:02 AM
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Now you have the reference expreience that "you are enough" and you took massive action and conquered your fear, you can begin to work on your game one specific thing at a time, and get into state, you can be polarising and be the silverback gorilla deluxe!
/r/seduction16/07/13 11:33 AM
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I can tell from your responses that you will likely try to micromanage the texts far too much, so your best bet might be bare minimum texting, basically only to organize meeting her. I used to feel the need to "keep the girl warm" with texts, but after a while I jut couldn't be bothered anymore, then girls started doing it TO ME and I was super turned off by it. The role of a text message is to meet, ONLY THAT. If you do need to keep her warm due to a long delay between seeing her, just send val…
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:02 AM
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Basically I have little relationship experience. It's kind of like I am pretty damn good at the first half of a mario level, but as soon as I get to the half of the level I haven't played for hundreds of hours I suck again. I felt that the girl was perfect, I would never find another girl as good as her (personality is the differentiator here), etc, and became an emotional firehose and tried to share everything with her basically the first night, which of course is a super bad idea. I'm actually…
/r/seduction16/07/13 04:47 AM
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Don't get ahead of yourself. I was in a very similar situation recently, I fucked my perfect 10 (looks and personality) and instantly went into scarcity mode and fucked it up. It was extremely valuable as a reference experience in so many ways, but I didn't graduate, I just reached level 2.
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:28 PM
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Now you have the reference experience that "you are enough" for that kind of girl. Keep that in mind for all future girls. Of course you will fuck a hotter one, unless you stop improving.
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:09 PM
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Or maybe they really were bad?
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:51 PM
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QED
/r/seduction18/08/12 08:52 AM
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