| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | Able to attract but fumble closing | Inner Game | VinnieVegas3335 | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 10:13 PM |
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| 1 | (from a woman) what do very requested men look for in a girl?Oh yea narcs do they tons of poon but they never happy in the end they in a suffering cycle on its own that you dont want to envy. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 03:28 PM |
| 1 | (from a woman) what do very requested men look for in a girl?Wtf is a narc in this context lmao | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 03:16 PM |
| 3 | (28m) scared to talk to women.Exposure therapy. Just keep shooting ur shot this is about getting reps in for your nervous system to not freak out. Just be social with everyone guys girls uncles aunts bad bitches tortas etc. After that convos with hot chicks will flow like any other convo | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | only attracted to women who are as fit as I amBruh just dont gaf let them judge theyd do the same shi if they could. No shame in two adults going on a date. Also not like ur exclusively looking for college chicks anyways | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 8 | Recovery from a cringe textPut this shit on the back burner for now. Let he respond and get busy doing other shit like friends and other chicks. It could or not come back but the less you care the better off when it does come back. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Actually having amazing results. This is what I changedWell yea i am calling him out on it cuz one shag even multiple shags wont stop ur limited beliefs. As someone going thru a rough patch atm and having his limited beliefs come back as a side effect i shouldve never let the momentum slip. I am happy for anyone who is able to get past it. Ive done it before but its easy to slip back to old conditioning unfortunately. So yes in the end it was not that deep lmao | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Actually having amazing results. This is what I changedNah not even really its called banter. I did say he was cookin. My point being you gotta run with those revelations or your limited beliefs will come back. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Actually having amazing results. This is what I changedRight bro got one shag and now he thinks hes superman. But ges right thou, you have these revelations often when breaking dry spells and its best to keep up with that momentum and mindset switch. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Anyone in miami willing to help a beginner?Bro you can solo dolo shit too. Im not in miami but if i were to solo dolo a spot i think club space would be perfect. Go out there dance, drink and socialize. That will totally bring you out of ur shell and edm crowds are a lot friendlier than traditional clubs. Talk to chicks talk to dudes try to find a friend group. Ive done it before and its fun. Ive made friends and hooked up this way. Fuck it lifes too short to not take it by the balls and do what you want alone or with friends. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:31 AM |
| 13 | No polarity with most girlsLmao fr bro just made up a catchy title and provided no explaination | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:24 PM |
| 42 | Isn’t nightlife 95% women sticking to their groups?Yea having a little bit of rhythm and fun can get you laid pretty easily | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 01:59 AM |
| 6 | Authentic or Confident?Real confidence is authentic otherwise its fleeting confidence | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How to filter out gold diggers?Just make a girl laugh and feel good and have some financial literacy so you can pay for the date and thats all that really matters. Now marriage and having a family is different. My point is not about cheaters thou if someone is dating you for money they clearly not that into you… its about not putting weight on being rich to be successful in dating. Girls just dont want to date bums with no ambition and thats totally fair. Energy is everything. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 05:02 PM |
| 0 | How to filter out gold diggers?You should find women that like you for your personality and energy thats the best fit. Someone that dates you for your wallet wont see your value just your networth. Hence why rich guys act broke. You should get rich to fund a lifestyle you like that makes you confident and happy. Chasing money for bitches is backwards. You can get those bitches now without money. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 04:52 PM |
| 8 | How to filter out gold diggers?You do not want to date people that date you for your money. Thats how you get cheated on by the yoga instructor. Girls really dont care about money as much as you think. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 04:42 PM |
| 43 | Can you date if you live with your parents?They are turned off by your insecurity about it. I am also 25 and had the same issue until i became secure about it. Times are tough there are a lot of people living with their parents, as long as you arent being a bum at home there is no reason to be ashamed of it. But yea most of my hook ups have met my dad first day 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Should you be open with your intentions?Id start with just getting comfortable with eye contact with everyone regardless. Itll become second nature and then use the mirror to lock down the looks you like. The key really is practice and it doesnt have to be your crush | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Should you be open with your intentions?Get comfortable with eye contact. The rest should follow cuz the eyes dont lie. Looking in the mirror and practicing the facial expressions you like can help a lot cuz then you subconsciously know when you have the look down in a sense. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 05:56 PM |
| 28 | Should you be open with your intentions?Subtly is key. You can flirt with just ur eyes and keep convos light hearted. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Stand on businessBetter tbh its all about self respect, knowing when to walk away. That has helped me tremendously, if they dont give you the attention you want or they bread crumb you talk to other girls and put them on the sideline and let them chase you. Casting a wide net of girls to casually talk and interact with definitely helps. Change ur belief systems you are the prize, shoot your shot and know itll be alright regardless cuz you are the prize. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How to wingman a man (being wingwoman) as a girl?Part of the fun is just fucking around and finding out with that | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 03:07 AM |
| 12 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?It is all about momentum fr motion is key for attraction and everything in life. Anyone can have it, it just takes work | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Why women reject even the most attractive men and how romance fixes itI hope so but you cant really be sure in this subreddit fr lmao | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Why women reject even the most attractive men and how romance fixes itThis is about after you bang her. You shouldnt even be thinking about sending a dick pic prior 90% of the time | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Why women reject even the most attractive men and how romance fixes itWhen you treat her like a gf then when other guys try to hook up with her she will always compare your actions to theirs. Being a douche isnt game | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I am really bad when I'm first meeting someone. How can I improve?Its okay to be nervous just be or show less nervousness than your date. Or this works pretty well but you can call out the nerves on your date. She will usually empathize to it cuz shes just as if not more nervous. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | CologneThis is facts you just have to try a bunch. My best colonge is not well known | /r/seduction | 12/03/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How Can I Flirt More Confidently Without Overthinking?This really is the game get comfortable with yourself and the rest will fall into place. But getting comfortable with yourself means getting comfortable with uncertainty. Ever girl ive slept with the main foundation of it was i wasent chasing her validation i was entertaining myself and in turn entertaining her. Something i still struggle with with some girls tbh | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever created an alter ego and completely changed their approach or the way people treated you?W ty for this | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 03:45 PM |
| 19 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.Use a moisturizer thats spf 30+ i use khiels 30 spf tub lasts forever doesnt leave any residue and barely smells. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 04:37 PM |
| 9 | How Nice Guys can be more mysteriousW advice | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Disturbing patternShocker no one likes condoms | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 05:45 AM |
| 2 | In game seduction is great among swingers and ministers but terrible around normal women even in collegeHow did you break this cycle? | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 10:35 PM |
| 16 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?Night game is all about body language more than anything else. Making the main goal about having fun with friends over getting laid is how i get laid going out. Because this mindset allows you to just fuck around and see where the night goes. Instead of prowling and awkwardly approaching women you focus on dancing and enjoying the night which attracts the huzz. Ive piped out a couple girls by barely even saying anything just by having a good time on the dance floor and locking eye contact at the… | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 02:58 AM |
| 35 | Bad news: Wanting her back is the ultimate turn off | She would only want you if you truly moved on.Beautifully said i needed this reminder | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | In light of valentines coming soon, what is the most seductive date idea?Wendies dumpster picnic | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 12:15 AM |
| 36 | What do you do straight after a one night stand not at your place?Lmao why is this girl code ive always enjoyed the cuddles from ONS | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Stand on businessFuck man going thru the same exact shit. After a 3 year relationship my game has gone to shit and so has my standards and respect that im trying to garner back. Ive let girls i wouldnt even give attention to prior to my 3 year relationship walk all over me idk wtf has gotten into my head but im cutting that bullshit out this year. Let me know any solid insights in how your handling it id appreciate it | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Valentines meetup group adviceJust go out and have convos with as many people as possible. Dont even aim for a valentines from this just go and have convos and grab igs or numbers from the people you vibed with. You are there to mingle and so is everyone else | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Okay so deed is done for first date. tomorrow i have dinner date with girl and later bar hoppingThis really is the game lmao | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 01:47 AM |
| 1 | "lets get to know each other before meeting"You go from tinder texting straight to the bedroom? How everytime i try to tease or hint at skipping the date and going to my place it fails. Ive always been better at landing on the second or third date but first date is a giant mystery to me | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?How do i fight the self doubt in my mind sabotaging me? I have no problem socializing and attracting women. But when i notice they are starting to really dig me i become austistic. Like theres one girl i regularly flirt with (regular customer) and i pussy out to ask her out on a date every damn time even when shes finding every excuse to stay in the store. It like ik the vibes are right but i dont want to ruin them | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Might be the wisest words ive seen on this subreddit | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Every woman who tries to get with me has a boyfriend. Why?This is a canon event for a lot of us | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:47 PM |
| 6 | I don't understand what flirting isBe patient with flirting. Tease and escalate slowly shell pick up the pace if shes really feeling you. This is why a roster or hobbies helps with the patience you can switch ur focus when you feel the need to pull away a bit | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 03:24 PM |
| 8 | Girl contacted me through insta, fastest way to hit it?Fym by casual surface level | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 10:57 PM |
| 20 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)Its not about having ur life together. That definitely helps but its more about embracing the journey you’re on and accepting who you are at the moment while working towards something greater. The mindset you have will just keep pushing the goal post further and further you need to be happy where you are at too. Something i struggle with heavy but you deserve love now just as much as your future self my friend | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:33 PM |
| 48 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)I need to unlock this mindset god damn | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:48 PM |
| 5 | dealing with the 'manly' manSo become independent lmao otherwise this will always be a risk with anyone | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 03:11 AM |
| 18 | My (22m) girlfriend (23f) girlfriend forgot to text me last night. Advice?Nah man i wouldnt waste my youth on this. It seems like she isnt | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why would she be hot and cold toward me?Bro just dropped the biggest facts in this subreddit ive ever seen | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Input NeededSame problem lmao, but it sounds like it was good vibes def text her | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Me and her are almost never on the same vibe. Is it all about personal power?Are you not trying to make convo back? And maybe consider asking her out for coffee at some point lmao. Maybe shes a bit intimidated but tries to make an effort when she feels she can. Are you doing the same? Also consider if it’s worth the job. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Outer game vs inner game?Inner game is something im still working on while i think i have outer game mostly covered. I feel like the simpler you make things the better. To me outer game is just being able to have conversations with anyone and build rapport naturally. Inner game is self esteem mostly and thats driven by your own values and ambitions and mindset. Mindset is #1 imo when you have a rock solid mindset that no one can shake you are golden and thats what I am working on. Also imo everyone should just go out an… | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?This make so much sense for me as i always close on girls im whatever on but the girls im really into i always fumble probably because of some form of this. | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I played my life too safeFuck man that resonates with me heavy. Ty | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?If i cant think of anything clever for her profile i just say hey wyd or hey hows your day going. They usually say hbu back and then you just keep the conversation flowing from there and try to find something interesting to pick at from there. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:57 AM |
| 9 | going to a club give me tips ASAPLol you should not be asking any of these questions. Just go out and have fun. Make your sole purpose be having a good time the rest will follow. If you go in with the mindset you have rn youll come off thirsty. | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | New to Cologne - Looking for Wingman(s) or Friends (24M)It be workin thou | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | What to replyTell her she looks sexy lmao dont over think it. Shes already dtf basically. Personally me id compliment her body and then send a dick pic tease and then i mean if shes already sending nudes shes gonna respond positively unless u got a shrimpy | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Don't chaseI feel the same way and for some reason i cant turn that off with the women i like and fumble them over and over again smh | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Back into the game, getting coquettedYea act chill but damn man i wish i had gym game. I just be zoned in on my own mirror space 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Finding love…Facts same for me | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Intense SextYea if he leaves on read with a text like that its clipped lmfao. If a guy likes you hed be coming over that night. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 8 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.Its not about giving up at the slightest bit of resistance its about when they play too many games the longer you entertain it the less respected you are. Just nonchalantly stop giving them attention (dont be a dick). If they come back to you theyll drop the games. Obv show them a good time and make them feel good whenever you are around them but you should never chase too hard. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 08:34 PM |
| 28 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.Okay but he is spittin. Ive done both and hes right just politely killing your attention towards them when they start those artificial tests at first works way better than trying to pass them. You spend way less energy on her and if she does hit you up again you pretty much got it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 06:18 PM |
| 3 | help me understand why eye contact is such a big thingThe eyes never lie chico | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 10:36 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a thingDude literally fuckin same. Thank you for the reminder. To us shooting our shots 🥂 | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Able to attract but fumble closingThank you for this i def need to improve on the second part a lot. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Able to attract but fumble closingI should probs let it go then huh? She was joking about having me pay for her brunch. Ofc i didnt was thinking about hitting her up and saying “if you want me to pay fr youll let me take you out” but idk man im feeling defeated 😔. This feels worse than outright rejection cuz he have it dangling in ur face and then its gone | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Able to attract but fumble closingI feel like she was waiting for me to make a move and i just pussied out while sitting next to her. She was playing with her hair a lot and such. Idk i feel like i fumbled it good at brunch today | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Able to attract but fumble closingId like to add ive hooked up with a lot of girls that i just didnt really care about. But the cute girls that i do care about i always fumble and its killing me like crazy | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 10:14 PM |
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