ViolentCommunication Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-5	No words Nah, it's clear as day.	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 08:40 PM
-4	No words I will follow the advice of this thread and teach my son (9) to violate female's boundary's at his own discretion. You guys are so helpful!	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 08:32 PM
-36	No words How do you know she denies him all other contact with her?	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 08:11 PM
-26	No words Respecting boundaries, and holding the language that builds this ethic all throughout his life. And he won't turn out to be someone who thinks they can do whatever they want to women. I like to think this is more behavior reinforcement for her though, which is also important. Some women don't know how to say no.	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 08:10 PM
-4	No words When she says don't touch her, you can touch her, son. No worries. Thanks!	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 08:08 PM
-7	No words Yes, respect his demands and ignore her boundaries. I get you. Parent of a 7 and 9 year old here. Learning as I go, of course, but maybe I should buy the best-selling manual you published?	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 07:55 PM
-18	No words hold boundaries with a fucking infant!?? Clearly you've never breastfed a baby who would squeeze and pull and twist at your other nipple. The mother is using a language that can be carried through as he ages. As long as the tone is gentle, he gets it.	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 07:44 PM
-38	No words There is a lot of speculation in your comment (ie would not reject a female, motivation, knowing the baby's thoughts). In fact, I'm curious if you are projecting; possibly angered by a woman trying to (1) not only establish and hold boundaries but also (2) trying to teach a young boy to respect boundaries.	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 07:23 PM
-51	No words What's the problem?	/r/MensRights	14/05/23 07:09 PM
–	Our biological imperative is to multiply and spread, (the great reset) is trying to corrupt and control that via rainbow colours If our biological imperative is to procreate, then, for you, what is our spiritual imperative?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 11:22 PM
0	Louder for the misandrists in the front. That doesn't seem accurate based on the op or the source links, but thanks for sharing your opinion.	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 04:45 PM
2	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? Of course this depends on how you frame your thinking, but I am curious: are you saying pregnancy, labour and parenthood are not burdens/consequences?	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 03:32 PM
-1	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? You always have a choice. First, it's to have sex or not. Second, it's to pay or not. Third, it's to try and change the culture system so (A) people aren't having frivolous sex, (B) women aren't solely strapped with the burden of pregnancy, labour and parenthood or (C) the state/community pays for the fall-out of your frivolous sex. As a radical, I vote A.	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 02:10 PM
-1	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? It isn't about a binary of pro-life/pro-choice. There is a gray area of nuance and circumstance that must be considered. I have a consistent life ethic, and have no problem explaining it if necessary.	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 02:07 PM
-2	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? It ought to be, yes, but he committed sexually, and there are consequences for our choices.	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 01:06 PM
-2	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? Are you giving all your money to your ex? Or a portion of it to cover the responsibility of sex?	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 01:01 PM
-3	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? Well I guess the logical extension of this would be to outlaw abortion!	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 02:14 AM
-5	Louder for the misandrists in the front. Is this post saying that feminism needs men because feminism (in some non-shitty iteration) is actually a worthwhile political campaign?	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 02:03 AM
-17	If a woman has the right to abort her child, shouldn't men be allowed to opt out of parenthood, as well? The woman has the greater decision choice because it's happening to her body, not his. If this male were gestating the child, then they would be privileged with the authority to ultimately choose.	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 01:41 AM
5	I'm no longer accepting cis as a word meaning the opposite of trans. I am a typical male, not a cis male. Trans people don't get to call "typicals" some word [cis] that died in Latin 1500 years ago, for this application. Thanks! Clearly we can't argue with science categories!	/r/MensRights	14/04/23 04:18 PM
2	Does anyone else experience lack of willingness to have productive conversation and blatant bias from feminists? In the past, I could see how this could be true. It sounds like your saying the male-to-female vector of violence doesn't exist anymore. Yes?	/r/MensRights	09/04/23 12:01 AM
4	Does anyone else experience lack of willingness to have productive conversation and blatant bias from feminists? My experience has been those women who have (1) been burned hard by men and (2) who have not healed from that burn, are the ones far less likely to have productive conversations.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 09:42 PM
-6	Eco-men’s rights: Are men or women destroying the planet? Male culture is turning the biosphere into a technosphere which can only end in a necrosphere. https://youtu.be/WnNIBYqPUNk Women do not have control of the type of energy to heat or cool their homes. EVs are not sustainable. There is far more to planetary destruction than climate change.	/r/MensRights	06/04/23 01:33 PM
3	My thoughts on the idea of 'real men' women say it usually to be derogative and men usually say it empowering My experience has been mixed. Some women give feedback to control, others to give empathy. Same thing goes for some men.	/r/MensRights	04/04/23 07:47 PM
2	My thoughts on the idea of 'real men' So it's the tone of delivery that bothers you?	/r/MensRights	04/04/23 05:45 PM
2	My thoughts on the idea of 'real men' Whose ideal man? The boss on the construction site? Or the wife?	/r/MensRights	04/04/23 04:52 PM
7	My thoughts on the idea of 'real men' Sounds you simply don't like it when women or feminists compare your behavior or personality to that of the ideal man. But when another man does it, no problem. Do I have this correct?	/r/MensRights	04/04/23 04:35 PM
2	A New Age This utopia will include legalized pornography, prostitutes, brothels, and total control over procreation, right?!	/r/MensRights	31/03/23 07:00 PM
1	57% of women - including 70% of those 18 to 24 - identify as feminists in Canada, the highest number in decades It's liberal feminism, so really actually quite useless.	/r/MensRights	18/03/23 01:20 AM
1	What advice would you give to males today at these 3 stages: Pre-teen (shortly before being a teenager), teenager, 20s Stay away from porn. That's it.	/r/MensRights	17/03/23 04:05 PM
2	Happy International Women’s Day! Good man. Today, to celebrate, I purchased five beers at 1130 AM, and then two more beers at 6 PM. As it is late tonight, the beers are now all drunk and my family is happily, gratefully full of pancakes.	/r/MensRights	09/03/23 01:29 AM
-1	Woman rapes 13 year old boy and receives no prison time. What is the point? I don't see one being made by OP.	/r/MensRights	05/03/23 02:33 PM
0	Woman rapes 13 year old boy and receives no prison time. Yea that's wild eh	/r/MensRights	05/03/23 01:30 AM
1	What do you think about radical feminists nowadays? OK thank you	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 11:29 PM
3	Woman rapes 13 year old boy and receives no prison time. Guys, this is just the way the system works sometimes; no bias or impartiality: https://tdn.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/no-jail-time-for-kelso-man-who-pleaded-guilty-to-sex-crimes/article_70f3a96e-888e-11ed-af82-ffd349eda107.html https://www.ctvnews.ca/world/no-prison-time-for-u-s-man-who-pleaded-guilty-to-rape-and-sexual-assault-of-four-teenage-girls-1.5676301	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 11:28 PM
1	What do you think about radical feminists nowadays? For the rest of the names, I've never heard of them, but clearly they have no reason to hate men, some men, or all men.	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 11:13 PM
1	What do you think about radical feminists nowadays? So I haven't read Ice and Fire, Dworkin's first piece of fiction, and I can def tell you haven't either, but thankfully for us, Paul has: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/478361 I think he adequately fills in the blanks. But I did read a bit of Intercourse and Men Possessing Women, and I admit her writing is abrasive but exceptional. I can sense a hatred of men in those words, for sure, and given the context of the piece, provided by Paul, it doesn't seem misplaced. The Dworkin quote remin…	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 11:13 PM
1	What do you think about radical feminists nowadays? By socialist ethics, you would be okay having all but $1500 per year forcibly taken from you and given to people in other countries. Right? Or do the rules suddenly change when it's your money that is being stolen... I fully support taking from the rich - me - and giving to poor. Yes. This is fairness. Dworkin did not hate men, but was brutally - and honestly - critical of male culture in the 70s and 80s. Both Greer and Bindel do not, to me, espouse chauvinistic or misandrist ideas. Maybe you co…	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 09:32 PM
1	What do you think about radical feminists nowadays? The hard left believes in the forcible redistribution of wealth. You say this as if it's a bad thing. ALL women share this belief and by nature are already far left. Your biological essentialism suggests it's almost like compassion and fairness are heritable qualities of one's femine dimension. As a bloc, feminists DO NOT allow women to be held accountable for their own suffering Correct. They correctly blame modern culture's iteration of gender. Also correct: feminists hate being accountable fo…	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 07:28 PM
2	What do you think about radical feminists nowadays? You can't say all of them are any of that. The majority are still left-leaning, historical materialists with a strong class analysis, also who do not pin the suffering of women on all men - just damaged, vulnerable, or mentally unstable men. You can read Meghan Murphy who leans a bit right now, but still actively dates men. Or you can read Robert Jensen who presents a very strong argument against pornography. Or you can read Lierre Keith who positions the death culture of men (a la hyper-competi…	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 02:50 AM