VioletSongjatShariff Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What do you think the problem is with current women's media, and what do you wish it was like instead? My problem is the inherent political nature of many of women's media content. Often it's not explicit political but the implications are always there and underlying. Because somebody mentioned it here, I take booktook and Dark Romance as an example. Besides the fact that many of it is not well written, what is frustrating itself, I actually really like the explicit sexual fantasies and contents and the trope of dominant and morally grey or amoral men. What is enerving is the fact that so called …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/26 01:21 AM
3	How to feel less cringe about my femininity? (21F) I can understand you really good. Growing up I also had a phase were I really hated things considered normal for girls like the color pink or flower print. I was more alternative from my style since a young age (and still am) and my problem with dealing with normal things while beeing the only one I knew which weren't was a big part of my journey of finding and accepting my identity and growing up. This rejection of typical girly things stopped when I got more secure with my self and worked on s…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/23 08:41 AM
2	Arguments against Feminism Camille Paglia has some really interesting thoughts about feminism and the differences between men and women. She sometimes is called the antifeminist feminist, because of her criticism of both second wave and third wave feminist movements. I would recommend her book Sexual Persona.	/r/RedPillWives	05/04/23 04:26 PM
2	Book recommendations on the biological, psychological and emotional differences between men and women and how to grow in my femininity? The work of Camille Paglia offers a really interesting and good perspective. It's a great suggestion!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/23 11:44 PM
15	What are your thoughts on Domestic Discipline/Taken in Hand relationships? My partner and I are having a Dom/ sub relationship, so some negotiated punishments are part of this dynamic but more in a sexual way. We talked about such things early in our relationship and applying such kinds of physical dominance for solving serious relationship issues or daily arguments was a no go for me but this can be different for other couples who chose this lifestyle. If you're not interested in such kinks and don't get some pleasure from domestic discipline etc., I would personally …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/23 11:18 PM
1	how important is attraction? Personally I could never date someone, I'm not also sexually attracted to because a healthy relationship for me is both, emotional and physical. Yeah, it's totally normal that after years the physical attraction doesn't feel so new like in the beginning and you probably have less sex than in your "honey moon phase" but the basic things you were attracted to (it's not only about looks but also about charisma etc.) still stay the same. I would miss to have these things, if I dated someone just for…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/22 06:58 PM
16	What birth control method(s) has been highly effective and comfortable for you? I take a birth control pill and I'm really happy with it. It stabilizes my cycle, I have less cramps and less bleeding and if done right, it is one of the safest methods at all.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 09:05 AM
2	What do you think of men with tattoos? Personally I really love men with tattoos. For me a man with tattoos appears more wild and untamed, which are very manly attributes.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/09/22 10:57 PM
1	I went through my boyfriend’s YouTube history...and immediately regretted it. How can I get over these feelings I’m having? It's possible to look at aesthetic, sexy content without immediately masturbating. You can "save" some impressions for later or you just like to get a little bit turned on by a attractive person. And because it's Youtube there will be no real undressing (naked breasts etc. ), so there's barely something you can get off to.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/22 10:58 PM
7	He enjoys anime and it's slowly killing my attraction. Disliking things your partner likes is totally normal but when it gives you such strong feelings that he is having a hobby you don't share, you maybe need to seek for professional help because it seems to be a severe psychological issue for you, which you don't understand and don't want to ruin your relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/22 08:50 AM
4	What is the RedPill Women’s views on men wearing nail polish? It's the same for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/22 07:42 AM
4	What is the RedPill Women’s views on men wearing nail polish? Personally I like scene/ alternative guys or musicians wearing black nail polish when it fits their style but I don't like the trend of normal looking guys wearing colorful nail polishes. But I know this is not a typical opinion, just my personal preference.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/22 07:41 AM
6	I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sick I understand but I think this doesn't make her opinion less valuable. The anti-porn fraction here also has personal reasons why they dislike porn but no one is questioning their reasons here just because they're the majority in this group. Personal interests and believes have an important impact for ones opinions to certain things but this is very normal. It's nothing someone has to mention seperately through sharing the reddit activities of the commentator. This sub is for all kind of women who…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/22 04:33 PM
14	I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sick The OP is free to consider the advice which fits the best for her, so it's not a bad thing to hear advice from different points of view. The good thing of this group is that there many different kind of women which have in common that they want a certain kind of more classic romantic relationships to their partners but the opinions about controversial topics like porn and promiscuity can differ a lot. Let OP decide what could help her best. In my opinion it's good to hear how different women rea…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/22 02:05 PM
6	I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sick You don't know wheter he is following their OnlyFans and paying for it or if he just follows their IG which wouldn't be consuming porn at all. Also I think it's pretty normal for men and women to have the urge to look at other sexual attractive people. The brain gets excited from more looks than just the own partner and that's ok as long as the relationship boundaries are not getting hurt. In my opinion there's a difference to just watch porn and being porn sick. It's the same thing with others …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/22 10:33 AM
1	What feminine hobbies should I try to pick up? Yes, I do. I also got an own pole at home in our living room.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/22 10:18 PM
3	What feminine hobbies should I try to pick up? I do pole dancing since a few years and it's a really great hobby for so many reasons. It's a great exercise for strength, flexibility and generally knowing and feeling your body movements. It's also a good way to feel sexy and get a good relationship with your body. And last but not least your boyfriend/ husband will love it and a little private dance can spice up your love life.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/22 08:21 PM
2	How do you get over your boyfriend looking at other woman online My boyfriend and I follow both some erotic models or e-girls (sometimes we follow the same accounts) on IG and for us it's no problem because we both think it's normal and healthy wanting to look at others as long as it's just some pictures liking for fun and no searching for real contact to these people. Maybe you can understand the urge to sometimes look at attractive strangers but won't admit it to yourself. But if it's not so, it's also ok. Then you could try to talk to your man to understan…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/22 09:35 AM
23	domestic discipline and submission Yeah, my sexual preference for submission and the need of a dominant partner are big influences for my appreciation of more traditional gender roles.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/22 07:42 PM
1	Reason why i don't agree with many feminist motions. There are many reasons why the modern feministic movements, the radical feminism as well as the queer feminism, are highly critical. Some reasons differ a lot because these two feministic trends are partly contradictionary to each other but I think they share the same anti-individualistic core and the same hypocracy. The claim to fight against the oppression of gender norms but don't see the nature of norms in society, so that they just create their own norms which they try to imply with social …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/22 11:22 AM
2	What makes you think of yourself a red pill woman I don't know if I would call myself so but I share some values with this community like living and liking the traditional gender roles. I don't think they should be forced on people who choose a different life style because deviation from a social norm is as much a part of it as the norm itself but I think the modern feministic urge to destroy these norms is highly critical and won't make the majority of women and men happier. Also I think it's important to accept and embrace femininity because …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/22 12:06 AM