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Meant to say should, not could 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 06:58 AM
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Yeah you’re probably right about this not even applying to me but at any given time some woman may not be in “the market”, so to speak, but still seeks friendship. I guess I would have preferred to not have developed such a deep friendship but out of your options the way he did it was more honest I suppose. Fucker could have shot his shot that first year lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 04:47 AM
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Anecdote warning: I had a friendship that lasted for a decade. Recently he tried to initiate a romantic relationship despite the well known fact that I don’t do that. He said he can no longer be my friend or at least not right now. He told our mutual friends I “friend zoned” him. It hurt like hell and felt like he was devaluing my friendship, which is my chosen family. There is no greater loyalty and love I have to anyone but my friends. When he needed a place to stay I gave him one, couldn’t af…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:47 AM
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I always thought womens higher standards and being valued in general came from our parental investment? You know, that whole evolutionary trivers theory bullshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:59 PM
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My standard for a wealthy person is any salary over $300,000. That’s probably relatively high. You doubt my lack of bias? Idk what you mean by that. Because I’m a sex worker I’ve come to terms with realities of attraction. Why would I care if our sexual attraction is more visual or auditory or contextual or more abstract altogether? What purpose would denying the reality of it serve me? It’s not like being visually stimulated is any better or worse right? It’s just not true what you say about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 11:09 PM
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We’re talking about what makes pussies wet no? When I read the thread that’s what I see. That’s what I’m taking about—sexual stimuli. My point is that if women’s sexuality is more contextual you have a decent chance of arousing her aside from your appearance. There’s a lot of reasons people choose mates—resources definitely being one. Wealthy dudes get their pick of partners. Even if you’re not in the top 20% of physical attractiveness you still have ability to make. That. Pussy. Wet. Because ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:38 PM
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Here’s a neat little review & an additional study. Women’s sexuality differs from men’s being that it’s less prone to objectify/less visual you could say. This is widely acknowledged in the literature so idk what you’re going on about. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2739403/ https://www.nature.com/articles/ijir201247
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:19 PM
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I don’t think you know what makes a pussy wet. Most of the time we don’t just look at an attractive dude and get wet. That’s moreso men’s sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:49 PM
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I’m not stopping him from dating anyone so I don’t know why you’d say I’m not letting him. Nor did I criticize anyone for dating out of their age range in general. You’re reading wayyy too much into someone pointing out a contradiction, not a criticism of having a dating preference. You seem to be the only offended person here in this conversation.
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:49 PM
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A comment framed as a question is a rhetorical question. I was pointing out that age does indeed matter to folks per the posts sentiment. I don’t see how the contradiction of the post isn’t clear. Not everyone who recognizes that is bitter or even old lol. It’s a simple observation.
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:35 PM
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It’s clearly a rhetorical question.
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:58 PM
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If age doesn’t matter why do you exclusively go for 18-21 year olds? Lol
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:04 PM
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Exploit has all kinds of negative connotations. And sure, if we want to reduce someone to their labor then yeah I am a service. What’re alternative reasons women take painstaking effort in their appearance? Other than personal gain why do they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:25 PM
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I consider myself a service provider rather than a commodity. I said it was an aside because the benefits I’ve gotten from modifying my body definitely extend beyond my sex work which I was not considering when I made my initial comment. If I were not a provider I would still have gotten my procedures. I would still wear makeup. I would still dye my hair. I would still remove body hair. All that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:00 PM
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To be clear I’m speaking on the benefits for my other jobs, school, and interacting with people in general. Obviously it helps with escorting but that’s an aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:46 PM
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Breast augmentation, blepharoplasty, surgical scar revision, cool sculpting (not surgical but dope af), and highly considering a bbl right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:40 PM
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I did it (a decent amount of cosmetic surgery) to get more opportunities. It helped me academically, vocationally, and otherwise. It so happens that appearances are a great predictor of happiness. This is empirically demonstrated. I dont date and have never desired a partner but augmenting my appearance has benefited me in ways I didn’t even know it would at the outset of this journey. That’s probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:41 AM
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And it is hot af to rinse ‘em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:44 PM
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Absolutely. I can’t justify spending time with a man without payment. The possibility of miserable companionship just isn’t worth it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:43 PM
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You definitely shouldn’t date for free. Charge these motherfuckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:50 PM
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Hell yeah. Very few men would ever consider the gruesome elective surgeries I’ve gotten 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:24 PM
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This sub is littered with that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:01 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:50 PM
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What part? That women don’t primarily go for appearances in a relationship? This is validated by data homie. I’m not going by anecdote but by peer reviewed studies. I don’t date lol. I’m an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:27 PM
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Men refuse to believe women downgrade in appearance for other traits. They think women are like them where attractiveness is the primary attribute we seek. We are not like them no matter how much they want to believe that to justify their own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:24 PM
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No. Awareness makes you better. It’s not an excuse 😂. It doesn’t mean you can’t improve. It’s best to acknowledge limitations. That’s how you compensate for them. My point was we have more to filter. We simply have more options and more danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:39 AM
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Why did I say word to Malcolm Gladwell? Because im referencing a host of research that indicates people in general aren’t good at feeling peoples intentions or attributes out with little information. He wrote a popular book about it recently. I don’t online date or date in general anymore but I’m surrounded by women who do and they surely lack this ability and they know it. No hubris there. This would be the majority. Besides, arguably women have a lot more to vet. Men are less discerning becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:36 AM
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A lot of people use dating apps but of course this is a poor tell before meeting—even if you’re “good at it”. When I used to date, I met people when I was out—generally brief encounters where I’m asked out right? I didn’t want to date anyone too close to my day to day. Going into a first date people often don’t know much about the person. Even if we think we do. Word to Malcolm Gladwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:02 AM
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What is happening prior to the first date that lets someone vet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:32 PM
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I think women are under the impression that if they delay sex a man is more apt to consider them LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:27 PM
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Hell yeah. I’m an escort. Gotta make some change out this sexuality if I’m not gonna put it to use elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:58 PM
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Just playing with ya cause of the third paragraph lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 05:37 PM
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That’s right OP never give it away for absolutely free, much less remotely free 😂. Not hundreds of men. Not even one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 04:48 PM
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Women are typically very social and have larger social networks that they are very close to. Its easier to make male friends as a woman so perhaps these women are just socially rejected or reject other women (internalized misogyny and shit).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 06:47 PM
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Wealthy or even middle class women don’t care if a man can provide although they generally like someone in their own class or with similar ambition or beyond. Seeking out people with no life experience because you think they’re the only one who will love you is really sad to me 😕. How rejected must one feel to consciously employ this strategy? I’d rather be alone than set what sounds like a dependence trap for a naive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:32 PM
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Our generation is abandoning the idea of marriage as most people know it. For good reason. I feel bad a large portion of my gender has been hoodwinked into the institution of marriage but it’s really hard when it’s engrained in you from childhood as central to your identity and purpose. They’re just waking up in our new cultural context. I certainly dont blame them for freeing themselves from those shackles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:05 PM
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I prefer when a man doesn’t put too much effort into his appearance. I associate this with stereotypical femininity but like the sad and unfortunate aspects of it. MOST men would not get the invasive surgical procedures I’ve gotten to be more attractive. The daily maintenance. It’s just not your priority and it’s not too important to begin with unless you’re solely trying to attract partners-which in itself is not attractive for either men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:42 PM
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Fuck yeah. That’s what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:06 AM
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Figgidy 📠
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:25 PM
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