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HealthVioletteToussaint/r/MensRights16/06/25 08:57 AM
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Meanwhile I can't even fathom not loving a child I'd bring into this world, even if it was a boy born from rape. And some women who can't have children would be overjoyed to have this little boy... But maybe it's for the best. I don't think she's as emotionally intelligent as she believes.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 08:07 AM
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I wasn't referring to the Bateman's Principles, but to the difference between all-female clone parthenogenetic populations versus those with males. Sex is a huge evolutionary advantage, whether males and females find their differences "fair" or not.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 07:38 PM
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Jesus would tell you to forgive though (but not to forget )
/r/MensRights18/04/26 07:31 AM
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Yeah, whatever the gender, it's not great... But I think this entire post is very much about the insane USA healthcare system. Where I live we don't pay to give birth.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 12:07 AM
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What a horrible person... I'm so sorry for your loss. If we had gone through something like that with my husband, I'd have bit her head off...
/r/MensRights09/03/26 11:45 PM
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Are you somehow saying it's good behaviour?! I wouldn't want to be one of these kids honestly.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 11:38 PM
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Search for another one nonetheless, you are at risk of being gaslighted if you talk, and this is going to drive you to depression and bitterness. You need a fresh start, they won't change. Also, you might actually get a better pay in the process. :)
/r/MensRights25/07/25 03:55 PM
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You're bang on. Mother Nature doesn't care about her children's feelings. She just wants them to survive and reproduce. 😬 BTW, I haven't been banned from anywhere because I post here. I suppose it's because I'm a woman. 🫣😅
/r/MensRights12/07/25 08:47 AM
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Thank you. Yeah, life is unfair and I'm still thinking about it to this day... In the US, you shouldn't marry without a prenup. Unless you're Catholic of course (it nullifies the religious marriage because it assumes future divorce).
/r/MensRights20/06/25 01:52 PM
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... Yet?
/r/MensRights20/06/25 12:16 PM
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Yeah, my parents divorced and that wreacked our life as children. They didn't co-parent, they co-unparented. Life was much better for us before our parents focused on fighting each other instead of taking care of us and before we had stepparents who saw us as rivals in their relationship with our parents... All this because my mother was chronically unsatisfied in spite of everything we had. You're not wrong, my father lost a lot, and didn't even defend himself while he absolutely could have: he…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 12:01 PM
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I do believe it's hardwired... As much as women know it's problematic (or not). No one chooses their kink. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Feminists will usually shame this, but what can people do against their innate desires?
/r/MensRights20/06/25 11:52 AM
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Depends which point of view you choose. From some men's perspective, maybe, but you still include females in your plan, it's not all male. From the species' perspective, it just wouldn't work.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 08:16 AM
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Human beings have an inherent value.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 08:06 AM
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Yeah, but they don't have the genitals of biological men, so until and unless they go one day through a full genitals transplant, they don't have access to the full experience. I mean, even if they did, their chromosomes would still mean they will experience their biological sex physiology and diseases (ex: the Loss Of Y chromosome related ones, see my post a few days ago) I thought I was clear about what I meant, and you exactly described it when you said I think what you are trying to say is t…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 07:42 AM
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It's also an insult often used against autistic women who complain about not fitting with other girls and being relentlessly bullied because of it. The moment they say "I don't feel like I belong, I don't feel like a 'normal' woman", they're accused of trying to appear "not like the other girls"... Because yeah, they're not, and it's been made abundantly clear to them throughout their childhood, adolescence and even adulthood, because women have been everything but nice to them. Some bad men can…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 10:01 AM
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I think it's because the loss of any chromosome in a cell dysregulates its whole function. A normal cell is in a state of balance between gene networks, the moment 1 gene gets damaged, you're in trouble already, so an entire chromosome missing is bound to wreak havoc, which at the cellular level tends to mean either cancer or degenerative diseases. And yeah, this expression sounds awful, but it just means that you can exploit knowledge to find a treatment for conditions in which this LOY is invo…
/r/MensRights16/06/25 11:17 PM
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So she admitted to lying at 10 years old but suddenly her testimony wasn't valid anymore?! WTF?!!
/r/MensRights16/06/25 10:27 AM
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She was 9 years old though, and clearly she's been manipulated and threatened by her mother to say this. I'd blame the adult here, she's the one who should be held legally and socially accountable, both for the lie and for the manipulation. Children are easily brainwashed and can struggle to back off after such a lie. She destroyed her husband's life but also deprived this child from her father in the most disgusting way.
/r/MensRights16/06/25 10:21 AM
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I think it's because we only know how it feels to be born on our side of the fence. It's impossible to really know how it actually feels to BE the opposite gender unless you experience it 100%. And even trans folks only experience the social aspect of it, they will never know how it feels to have testes or a uterus, not knowing if your child is really yours, or getting pregnant after a rape. So we are bound to fantasize about how much greener the grass is on the other side, not realising we have…
/r/MensRights16/06/25 09:12 AM
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Which percentage though?
/r/MensRights15/06/25 02:29 PM
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They get bullied at school from boys as well, like virtually all autistic children... Don't always put everything on girls, boys can be assholes by themselves as well.
/r/MensRights10/06/25 09:39 AM
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Meh, at least a penis is less likely than an object to lead to serious injuries... It can lead to pregnancy or STIs though (but some objects as well, potentially). I suppose you would add charges in case of injury, but still, even without any damage, I don't see why using an object is somehow considered less serious. In France, rape is defined as "any act of sexual penetration, of any nature whatsoever, committed against another person by violence, constraint, threat or surprise". But because of…
/r/MensRights30/05/25 09:07 AM
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Then it's completely possible, although I still believe that men would end up in the most dangerous positions...
/r/MensRights30/05/25 08:49 AM
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Ah OK, but still, why separate the two then?
/r/MensRights30/05/25 07:54 AM
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About conscription, how would it work, practically? In another conversation on this subReddit, we were talking about the weight of the standard pack, which can be impossible to carry for many women (not all, but still). You'd have to make adaptations for this, clothing, protection equipment, and for situations like periods (hard to deal with such hygiene needs in certain training settings) or for example pregnancy. You'll also probably need separated dormitories etc. So would they all be conscri…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 09:50 AM
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WHAAAAAT?!! So basically using an object doesn't count??!! WTF?!
/r/MensRights29/05/25 09:46 AM
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You need to rely on your gut, be candid about what you want and don't want, and maybe don't go for sex until you know her well enough? Many women DO look for a long term committed relationship with a man who would be an involved father. A sperm donor from a bank or a one-night stand will never bring the same to a child, who will fare far better with a father than a single mother. Money doesn't bring love and support.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 07:42 AM
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You don't know what you are talking about, clearly.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 07:37 AM
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Shutting off people with insults like that is just ad hominem/personam fallacies, it only shows a lack of sound arguments. I tend to ignore these and either refocus the discussion on the relevant topic, or simply leave. Sometimes, I receive private "potentially offensive messages", according to Reddit, so I simply publicly inform the sender that I ignored it. As my father says: "just disregard them".
/r/MensRights28/05/25 10:12 AM
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Hey! What do you have against cats?! I'm a very happily married cat lady 😂😸 But yeah, on the internet as on the street, you only hear the loudest minority.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:45 AM
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To be fair, it's possible to be married and a misogynist/misandrist, it all depends on how you treat your significant other.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:33 AM
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I don't think it's like that for them. They just look for someone who wants children so that it doesn't become a major incompatibility later on, months or years later. You would probably appreciate it if a woman who absolutely doesn't want any children at all told you upfront, so you wouldn't waste your time.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:23 AM
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I think it's actually fair of them to inform you immediately about their desire for children, so in case you are not looking for the same thing, you don't waste each other's time! Just be similarly honest, and you can then both decide whether you want to continue dating or not. You only have one life, and time is limited, especially for women, in terms of reproduction.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 09:18 AM
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Why don't they make smaller packs then? You cannot both complain that only men are conscripted while expecting women to carry packs designed for male bodies.
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:31 AM
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Nowadays, many military roles do not require so much physical strength, with drones, etc. so maybe if a military service is reinstated, it won't only affect only men?
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:28 AM
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Exactly. There are dissident voices trying to reverse this ideology though, but it's extremely difficult not to be instantly attacked and shut down. This is in French but I think you can easily get it translated: https://www.sudradio.fr/bercoff-dans-tous-ses-etats/feminisme-la-maternite-rappelle-constamment-que-nous-ne-sommes-pas-des-hommes https://www.editionsartilleur.fr/produit/leffacement-des-meres-du-feminisme-a-la-haine-de-la-maternite/
/r/MensRights27/05/25 09:10 AM
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Yes, I was separating war and military service. Nowadays, we only have a professional army. About the US... From where I am, it looks like it's sinking into authoritarianism, so it could happen.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 07:57 AM
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Think about the Arabic names, that's even worse! 😂 https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMiddleEast/s/2U5ZqF0kVq https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arabic_name#Arab_family_naming_convention
/r/MensRights26/05/25 04:38 PM
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Not sure I want to say her name here! It can be something like "Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez" (lol) or "Penélope Cruz Sánchez" (Penelope Cruz full name), look at the examples here: Spanish Naming Customs (wiki)
/r/MensRights26/05/25 04:14 PM
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She only has her father's father's name (left) and her mother's father's name (on the right). So you get: Grandmother 1: A-B (A is from her dad, B from her mom) Grandfather 1: C-D --> Father: A-C Grandmother 2: E-F Grandfather 2: G-H --> Mother: E-G ===> Child: A-E It still follows the male lines overall.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 01:29 PM
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The Spaniards do something like that, actually! My SIL is from Catalogna, and if she had changed her name, her family would have perceived this as a rejection. So she didn't, but it's not because of she's trying to "resist the patriarchy". I mean, she's an Opus Dei Roman Catholic.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 12:03 PM
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That's true. A lot of feminists actually do not support women who choose to have children and want to take care of them. They accuse them of being "subservient to the patriarchy". They oppose every "pro-family"/"natalist" policy, as if helping out mothers and recognising their contribution to society would somehow reduce women to incubators. If you ask me, this shows hate towards the reproductive side of femininity, and that's sad. I also find the "ecofeminism" ideology akin to a misanthropic de…
/r/MensRights26/05/25 11:32 AM
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I wasn't really arguing for her side, merely giving nuance and using real-life examples for this. Obviously my question about who gave birth to you was rhetorical. I agree that being conscripted and drafted into a war is scary, horrible and akin to slavery. That's why governments tend to impose martial law and remove civilian rights in times of war. Freedom is over. I find this comparison between pregnancy and war inapt, because you cannot improve on the "unfairness" of biological reality, where…
/r/MensRights26/05/25 11:27 AM
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Hey! That's my hobby and I like it! 😅 I have a strong special interest in sex and gender differences, hence my presence here, inter alia. I like to understand the topic from every angle. But don't worry, I learn Japanese in my free time, and I have a family to take care of, so I'm busy enough. Maybe I spend too much time on Reddit.
/r/MensRights26/05/25 10:12 AM
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My bad, I'm French, I didn't check the dates because I know my father wasn't conscripted and didn't go to war, but you're right about this. He's 78yo and was studying in a military Grande École (l'X) so he didn't do the usual military service. I remember now that my uncle did, however, but that was after the last war (Algeria). After that, we stopped compulsory conscription for young men. There are always noises about bringing it back, obviously, arguing that it mixed social classes, gave people…
/r/MensRights26/05/25 10:09 AM
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See my other answers.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 06:30 PM
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I just feel that indulging is such a discussion because some girl made an inapt comparison is a massive waste of time and energy. Just ignore people like that, don't let them affect you... I mean, putting fingers in her ears?! My gosh, this is so immature! All you get when giving any importance to such opinions is negative emotions and stress. Most women don't say stuff like that because we're not in a suffering competition.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 06:27 PM
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That's democracy. Not saying it's right, it's just how it is. Women in the US states where abortion is banned are exactly in the same situation. At least you're consistent, I'll give you that.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 02:31 PM
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The Swiss decided for themselves 🤷🏻‍♀️ That means that a majority agree about it. My country didn't. Abortion is banned in several US states. If you believe that women choose pregnancy when they have sex, I assume you are ready to become a father every time you have sex with a woman?
/r/MensRights25/05/25 01:27 PM
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People can absolutely vote against conscription even when they're not at risk for being enrolled into a war. We can all militate against conscription and war, whatever our age or sex is. You assume women are fine with sacrificing men and I'm telling you it's not true. I'd absolutely be against my husband, brother-in-law, cousins, or friends to be slaughtered in a pointless war. Everyone loses when this happens. Young men more, obviously, but there are tons of people who love them. Again, no, NOT…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:28 PM
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I know people who became househusbands because their wives earned more, or just because they wanted it. Nothing stops you, just be clear about your desire with women!
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:31 AM
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I never said war wasn't horrific and was a privilege. I just said comparing pregnancy and birth to war makes no sense whatsoever. You wouldn't be alive without a woman giving birth to you. You can advocate for peace and the end of conscription. This is not an absolute rule.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:16 AM
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This is true, but it is not universal, and not always only reserved for men. People from these countries decided these rules for themselves, they always have the option to change these rules. Throughout history, a lot of women never had this choice. Also, you don't always get pregnant "by choice", it happens because you have sex with a man, whether you chose it or not. Some children are born from rape, even incest. Some places forbid contraception and abortion. Some people use contraception and …
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:11 AM
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You didn't get my point. Were you born from a woman? Were you conscripted, did you go to war?
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:25 AM
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That's not comparable. War is optional, birth is not. War is not all the time, conscription either, you can have long stretches of peace. My country has not had any conscription since 1939, and now there are women soldiers (although there was resistance to let them enrol). In Israel, both sexes have to do their military service. Meanwhile, women have given birth to every single child since the end of WW2 (and forever before).
/r/MensRights24/05/25 09:46 PM
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That's very good advice. He should defend himself, going back to India as advised in another comment would only reward her behaviour, destroy the life he worked hard to build and make him look like he's running away because he's guilty. He probably cannot leave at the moment anyway.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 10:28 AM
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True for the human species, that's right, but you literally need 1 man to make tons of babies and repopulate, whereas with only 1 woman, you'll struggle. In the case of parthenogenetic species though, males are not required for reproduction. Also, you underestimate women's ability to fight, especially against other women. If there were no men, women could still fight between themselves and predators. Our best attribute is not our rather weak and naked body, which has no claws, no sharp teeth, no…
/r/MensRights22/05/25 01:18 PM
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But still, a species without any women would get extinct.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:48 AM
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I'm not sure anyone can tell "why", but I'd say it's exactly that: make more men so enough of them survive to keep a sufficient genetic diversity? In reality, it's not understood at all, how this slight imbalance occurs. Maybe it's simply a coincidence, because XY sperm is slightly lighter and therefore faster than XX sperm? Maybe we're reading "intent" in Nature where there is just "life being messy", "just because?".
/r/MensRights22/05/25 06:31 AM
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Yeah, they compare things that cannot be compared, it's just bad data
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:09 PM
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I'm not. Read the topic. We are talking about an imbalance between males and females in the human species. If you're troubled by the fact that we are animals, that's on you. I'm simply talking about facts, I'm not putting any moral value in what the reality is. Stop overinterpreting stuff I say, be a little bit more rational and a little bit less emotional, maybe? What do you suggest? Denial of reality? Is it my fault if biology is a bitch? We are human beings, how can this biological reality be…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 09:14 PM
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I don't "want" that, and I'm not making any "argument" for or against a reality, I'm just stating a fact. My intention is not to dehumanise anyone, simply to talk about us as a biological species, which comes with inherent unfairness, because nature has no concept of morality. Is it "fair" that we inherit all of our mitochondrial DNA from our mother only? Is it "fair" that only women get pregnant and give birth? Is it "fair" that men can reproduce for longer than women? Is it "fair" that men are…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 08:54 PM
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Yes indeed...
/r/MensRights21/05/25 03:16 PM
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😂 Well, Mother Nature will survive with or without us! Unless we completely sterilise the planet, that is.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 03:16 PM
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Well, I'm a biologist, I know all of that.😅 That's why I say it makes perfect biological sense. In a way, males are a strategy designed to help females to make more genetically diverse females. Mother Nature sure doesn't care about our feelings! Not sure why I keep being downvoted for facts though. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's not like I'm putting any moral value in what is "natural".
/r/MensRights21/05/25 02:19 PM
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Ah, someone else did then. It would be constructive of them to explain why. I don't have a good solution either... Apart from sharing women (for now), but I'm not sure if either party would agree 😅 or trying to increase the number of women (for later) 🤷🏻‍♀️ But you're right, what is going on with Russia and Ukraine (or maybe Israel and Gaza?) could escalate very quickly and "solve" the problem in a blood bath... 😬 You'll always find people who believe that the youth need "a good war" (sic).
/r/MensRights21/05/25 01:48 PM
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You seem to agree with me, why the downvote then? Do you think it's a good thing to slaughter an entire generation of young men in pointless wars?
/r/MensRights21/05/25 01:39 PM
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This hypothesis makes perfect biological sense to be fair. You only need 1 man to make 10 children in 9 months (for example), but the opposite isn't true. Women always have been the reproductive limiting factor.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:42 AM
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There are places where it's much worse because of selective abortion/infanticide of girls... https://youtu.be/FFGmt6gXtKE?si=E4BEWiDwnA9vPEPf But yes, biology seems to have found a way to compensate for the higher in utero and infancy death rate of boys, and in our modern times, that leaves many men searching in vain for a partner. In the past men died a lot in fights/wars/other dangerous stuff and women during pregnancy/giving birth. Surviving men and those with higher status routinely had more…
/r/MensRights21/05/25 11:39 AM
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Well, "In January 2017, Russian lawmakers voted, 380–3, to decriminalize certain forms of domestic violence." ... So you can legally beat your wife. Doesn't seem very matriarchal to me. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_Russia#:~:text=In%20January%202017%2C%20Russian%20lawmakers,120%20hours%20of%20community%20service.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 06:57 PM
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Wasn't it in Russia?
/r/MensRights16/05/25 01:14 PM
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Yep. What the actual hell?! O.o "She was convicted of 'violent acts of a sexual nature committed against a person under 14 years of age', and was banned from teaching for ONE YEAR after her release."
/r/MensRights15/05/25 07:37 PM
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This is awful...
/r/MensRights15/05/25 07:16 AM
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I know 2 guys who were falsely accused. One was 100% innocent, and that was confirmed to me by the alleged victim (she wasn't the accusator, another girl who was jealous because she fancied her was, she probably did this out of spite). He still lost his entire friend group, and I was given a lot of shit for refusing to join the braying crowd and ostracise him. In fact, I was so disgusted with the group that I left altogether. One was not 100% innocent because he cheated on his fiancée, lying to …
/r/MensRights09/05/25 05:40 AM
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I come here mainly to read, not to upset or mock guys. I sometimes comment but only if I think I have something relevant to say. As you said, I have men in my life and I care about them, so since I'm not one I thought I could get insights from places like here. Sometimes I disagree but it's bound to happen.
/r/MensRights07/05/25 08:37 PM
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But that doesn't change the fact that ovocytes, even old, don't get DNA mutations as women age. Sperm does however. Then the egg goes through a reprogramming process during fertilisation, which allows all of us to have a full human life expectancy regardless of the age of our parents' gametes.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 03:08 PM
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OMG I'm so sorry for them and for you! Hopefully you'll live a better and longer life.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 03:04 PM
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No one does. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/MensRights06/05/25 03:03 PM
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Thank you!! 🥹🙏 I hope you'll also have your little one soon! We used the PreMom app and LH strip tests, and it was really helpful.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 03:02 PM
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You are right about the advanced maternal age. However, advanced paternal age also reduces the chance of conceiving and increases the rates of miscarriages, diseases, etc. This is because while women's eggs become less good at doing meiosis, increasing the rates of trisomy, they don't undergo mutations, because their stock is complete by the time a girl is born. However, mens produce sperm during their entire life, and accumulate more and more mutations as they age. Their sperm quality and quant…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:34 AM
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There are no genetic mutations in eggs (only increased rates of trisomy as meiosis becomes a bit more difficult), there are genetic mutations in sperm though. Check it out. Source: I'm a biologist with a BSc and a MSc https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg22129570-800-testicular-time-bomb-older-dads-mutant-sperm/
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:24 AM
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I agree with that. I wanted children but didn't know if I still could when we got married (both 38yo). Fortunately it's been very easy for us, but we were ready to struggle or not be able at all, even with my eggs frozen 5 years before.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:20 AM
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It also depends on men. Many just don't want children in their 20s, so women wait.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:18 AM
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Well saying this shows ignorance, but some are just lucky!
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:17 AM
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I have a friend who was 46 and a mother of 4 when she got accidentally pregnant with her 5th, and the pregnancy was perfectly normal. I'm also pregnant with my 2nd at 39yo (1st at 38yo, just after we got married), and it's been very easy... But we're both pretty healthy, with good genetics on the maternal side. I guess it depends on genes and lifestyle.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:16 AM
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They get tons of genetic mutations in their sperm though, while ovocytes don't (the only thing that becomes more likely is trisomy), so advanced paternal age does have effect on the baby's health.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:12 AM
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They also tell us that having kids will basically ruin our lives, body and future, and that we should study and work first, then only think about a family... As if it was that simple. Society makes it harder for women to first have kids, then do this stuff, with maybe adaptations to family life (I'm thinking university degrees not closing their doors to people above 25yo, nurseries in university grounds, part-time studies, evening courses, etc.). We are also discouraged from looking at maternity…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:09 AM
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They passed away at 63 and 64?! That's young.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 07:57 AM
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Thank you for the book reference, I will get it.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 11:02 AM
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Best answer. It's a Nature Vs Nurture fight.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 11:01 AM
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I think it's worse than that. I think it's in our human DNA... Nature doesn't really care about our feelings, and I suppose it served some evolutionary purpose. Not sure how much women can change this, even by trying really hard. I guess it requires a form of reprogramming.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 10:57 AM
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Well, yes, but somehow it's a very common stereotype, women in the kitchen, isn't it? Yet in the real world it's not like that at all.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 02:54 PM
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I don't think it's the same at the highest level though. For example, most high fashion designers and Michelin star chefs are men.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 11:08 PM
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Everyone is flawed, but some are more willing than others to admit it. Pretending to be someone else doesn't work, because you need someone who likes the real you. That said, striving to improve oneself is beneficial, not only for others, but for oneself. It gives one a "wider" life, if I may say, it makes one's comfort zone bigger, and tends to help with relationships. In a couple between someone on the spectrum and a neurotypical (non autistic person) however, most of the efforts tend to be do…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:19 AM
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Threads are the whole point of Reddit FYI. But I see that you prefer finding problems instead of looking for solutions.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 10:22 AM
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"He already made it" Who already made what? I'm not trying to make any point other than saying exactly what I said. I don't understand why this guy is being downvoted for saying something pretty logical.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 12:17 AM
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Well, I'm a woman and I don't care for superheroes and videogames... I found Black Widow utterly boring and completely unbelievable, borderline ridiculous. Some women enjoy this stuff but I doubt it's the majority.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 12:10 PM
4

I don't understand why you're downvoted. If women put pressure to get into men's stuff, why couldn't men do the same?
/r/MensRights27/03/25 12:05 PM
1

Well, it definitely should be made illegal, just like FGM. I understand that it would create frictions with some religions, but who cares? If they really want to do it, then they can always wait until these boys are adults and able to decide whether they want to follow this religion and consent to such an operation...
/r/MensRights25/03/25 07:33 PM
1

I thought it was in America because I missed the part about Somalia and read "In the US, 80 percent of men 14 to 59 are circumcised. Complications from circumcisions are usually manageable, mild, and relatively rare. The typical rate of complications after circumcision has been recorded in children of all ages. In a systematic review, this rate was found to be 1.5 percent globally, though rates vary by region. In the US, it's around two percent." In any case, now reading the article entirely inc…
/r/MensRights25/03/25 07:10 PM
1

I see that from an European perspective, where circumcision is the exception, not the norm, with rates from 1% to maximum 15% in certain areas where you have a lot of Muslim or Jewish people. 55% is insanely high.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 12:27 PM
1

I wouldn't, but that's a different story. My question is: how do you make sure you only date 99% heterosexual women? Do you ask them if they're also attracted to women? Do you believe they would always tell you if they were?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 06:41 PM
1

How would you know?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 03:30 PM
0

Why "should" she? Well, I don't know, it seems like men's standards are lower, otherwise she wouldn't, would she? I mean, a "fat sloppy woman" cannot FORCE a "quality man" to want to have sex with her, can she? He's a grown up, if he manages to be sexually aroused by her, then he can decide to go for it, but then he shouldn't go and complain about it. Otherwise he can keep his physical appearance standards high, but then he might need to have something more than sex to offer to get a "quality wo…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 03:09 PM
-1

Because their priorities change I suppose. It's often the same for women. That's what I experienced personally, even more since we have a child.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 10:38 AM
1

I agree with you, I think this a posteriori narrative about women "choosing" to date women because "men this" or "men that" is BS. Otherwise men would do the same.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:38 PM
1

Thank you for the bibliography!!
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:26 PM
1

I think women have always been more bisexual/fluid than men, I remember a study about same-sex arousal... https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-34744903
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:24 PM
1

How exactly? Unless men choose homosexual sex obviously.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:15 PM
1

I do too :)
/r/MensRights20/03/25 11:35 AM
1

Good question! :) I still haven't found the answer. I was wondering what his/your definition was here. So far I have not been able to pinpoint anything specific to one gender.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 09:35 PM
1

So what is true masculinity?
/r/MensRights18/03/25 03:09 AM
1

Well, having being highly suicidal as a teenager and having tried to unalive myself several times (I'm much better now that I am approaching 40yo), this just doesn't compute. When you suffer too much, you tend to want it to stop.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 08:45 PM
1

All right, I get that, but even though, this doesn't answer my question. It's very difficult to tell from this thread what men would really want had they total choice on the matter, so I was asking to men here what their personal need/preference/personality is, what they want, regardless of the situation with women.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 08:43 PM
3

Well then, if life is ONLY suffering, why are you still alive?
/r/MensRights16/03/25 10:45 AM
1

On the contrary, what men want is very much relevant and matters quite a lot. A healthy couple cannot be built on unhealthy premises, and happiness should be shared by people who care about and love each other. I certainly don't want the men in my life to be miserable, and if I have a son I really hope he'll find love, a purpose and happiness, and that will certainly come with respecting what he needs and wants.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 10:34 AM
1

No, toxic femininity is not being "too nice". It's being manipulative, narcissistic, using the victim card, gossiping to hurt, pretending to be friends, seducing to get what you want, a twisted form of "soft power", using men against each other, whether it's for self-gratification or darker design (you often see that in true crime, a wife lying to her lover saying her husband is abusive to push him to murder him), using sex as a weapon, children as a shield, etc, etc. This is definitely not "nic…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 06:00 PM
1

Definitely write your book, man. Not only will you help men, but you'll help women as well, because they don't find men like that anymore.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 12:48 PM
1

Even if she was Miss Universe she shouldn't act like that.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 12:44 PM
2

She's an immature idiot. Yes her statistics are correct about marriage and men's life expectancy... but it's the same for women and no, it doesn't mean women don't need men. This is ridiculous at so many levels. For example, the best predictor of how good a mother you will be is how much support you will get... And guess what? It usually is from your husband. Mine and his family are a godsend. There is a study about women gaining weight and men losing weight in a couple, maybe that's why she got…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 12:30 PM
0

Same here to be honest 🤐
/r/MensRights09/03/25 12:15 PM
0

But then, what should men do? You say "I don't buy the idea that women want a man [who cries]"... But that's not really what matters, is it? What do MEN want for themselves? Do they want to be able to cry, or not? Do they want to do it in front of their male friends only, or also their female ones? Do they want women who want "traditional" men who don't cry, or women who want emotional men? Do they want to be tough men or softer ones? I'm getting a bit confused with this thread.
/r/MensRights07/03/25 09:44 PM
1

Yes but not really, because both men and women do this to men... It's not only men having these expectations, it's everyone, the whole society. Also, they are not necessarily "misandrist", because they can set high but positive expectations on men. For example, men are supposed to be "dominant", "strong", "brave", "bold", "inventive", "good at science/math/mechanics/DIY/sports", "resourceful", "confident", etc. So even though this can absolutely cause suffering, I would not call this "misandry" …
/r/MensRights07/03/25 09:29 PM
1

Toxic masculinity is forcing men to be a certain way, otherwise they are ridiculed, treated like shit, etc. It's the "man up syndrome" that leads many men to suicide seemingly out of the blue because "boys don't cry". That's all.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 01:02 AM
0

Your abortion stance is insane... So no protection AT ALL for the unborn child??!!! They're not things, you know? Laws exist for a reason. They also protect the mother, who can be forced to undergo an abortion... You need to rethink this a lot deeper.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:09 AM
7

Same here. I find circumcision abusive, because it removes bodily autonomy from these innocent babies who can consent to undergo what I can only define as a genital mutilation. But I'm European so to me that's something I've only seen Muslims and Jews do. I cannot fathom doing such a thing to my son if I had one, or expecting a man to have done just because... Awful.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:06 AM
43

As a European, I've never understood this practice. Why do Americans inflict this to perfectly healthy babies who never consented to being cut?! >.<
/r/MensRights04/03/25 11:57 PM
0

She was a radical feminist and a lesbian. That's a very specific group.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 06:42 PM
0

I doubt it will even really happen. Society goes through some pendulum ideologies if I may say. When it goes too far in one direction, it tends to create an opposite reaction. When we're talking about something so unnatural, it cannot be long-lived.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 03:46 PM
1

So I searched and I found this on her Wikipedia page: "While living in San Francisco, Gearhart began writing feminist science-fiction novels and short stories that highlighted her utopian ideals for a wider lesbian audience. In 1978, her most famous novel, The Wanderground, was published, exploring themes of ecofeminism and lesbian separatism.\3]) She wrote two books as part of the Earthkeep trilogy, The Kanshou, published in 2002, and The Magister, published in 2003. Both stories explore a dyst…
/r/MensRights27/02/25 11:35 AM
2

Well I believe you, I'm just shocked.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 11:32 AM
5

WTF?! It's one of the most dystopian shit I've ever read. First time I hear about it.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:25 AM
1

I've been in this forum for a while, and that's not what I do.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 02:58 PM
-1

I read yes, and I'm here because it's a public forum and it interests me. Free country, you know? And yes, that's an appalling and unfair situation, but I still think the title and the following assumption are terrible. The thing is, if the cops (who are usually men) cannot believe that a woman can run amok and try to kill a man, that tells a lot about THEIR own prejudices, but in no way does it mean that people ALWAYS assume that women cannot go crazy. That's a wild overgeneralisation.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 04:25 PM
-1

No one assumes that 🤣
/r/MensRights12/02/25 12:43 AM
5

I've not seen the ad so I cannot comment, but I am breastfeeding, and I joked about it saying "I've had these all my life and I'm only using them now, it's about time!" 😂 Also, I was a small B cup before, but I became a D immediately after delivery, and I am a C now. I'm not gonna lie, I enjoy feeling a little bit more feminine up there, and so does my husband. I'm also very grateful I have both of my breasts for my little one. It's an amazing experience, being a mother on that bodily level.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 11:04 AM
1

Was about to say that.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:59 AM
2

I'm sorry for your disease, it sucks. Melanoma can be aggressive... Not my business though, but if I was your grandma, I'd like to know about it, so I can support you and spend more quality time with you.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 10:57 AM
7

I have 1 mother, 1 stepmother, 1 mother-in-law + 1 from my sister, 2 great-aunts, 3 aunts, 2 aunts-in-law, 2 sisters, 3 female cousins, 4 sisters-in-law, many female cousins-in-law and at least a dozen (close) female friends. I also had 2 grandmothers and 1 aunt who are deceased. None of them believe or believed that. I don't, BTW. My husband is the last person I would be worried about. If anything, I am more aggressive than he is, even though he's much stronger than me. Statistics are what they…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 03:18 PM
2

Thank you, I'll have a look :)
/r/MensRights23/10/24 07:17 AM
1

That's a completely different field of study, but some do, what's your point? I'm asking for sources.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 05:46 PM
1

I'm not sure, that's why it's actually very difficult to have real female friendships. The rivalry is real, and covert, so it feels like an exhausting mind game. If you're on the spectrum, you're screwed: you'll spend your life feeling heartbroken and betrayed when you realise that those you believed were your friends actually didn't like you as much as you liked them, that it was all superficial. It seems to me that at least men are more forward about it. No "Oh Darling you look gorgeous, I mis…
/r/MensRights02/10/24 06:53 PM
1

Women are in competition
/r/MensRights01/10/24 03:26 PM
1

Sources for these claims? Asking as a neurobiologist...
/r/MensRights01/10/24 03:26 PM
0

But the word "incel" was literally created by a woman about herself?!... 🤨
/r/MensRights01/10/24 03:18 PM
1

That's my point. Men have forgotten that for women, pussy is mainly for children, not sex, because they are the ones going through pregnancy, delivery, breastfeeding, etc. Why give sex to men who don't understand that?
/r/MensRights22/09/24 11:20 PM
1

Could you give an example of such a conversation?
/r/MensRights22/09/24 11:15 PM
1

You're 18yo... Most teens are extremely immature, give it some time. I'm not sure what being a pedophile has to do with treating women with respect to be honest, this is bizarre.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 11:11 AM
3

This is just plain wrong. Population genetics studies demonstrated that monogamy is a modern novelty. For thousands of years, only 5% to 50% of men got to pass on their genes, while almost 100% of women did. This means that throughout (pre)history, sexually successful men had between 2 to 20 "wives", harem-style, while the others either died (wars, fights, risky behaviours...) or were barred from reproducing by the dominant men.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 11:08 AM
1

"Pussy" is originally for procreation though. You know, giving life, children, families? Problem is, many men conveniently forget about it, what it means for women, and only see the pleasurable sex aspect of it. Contraception certainly blurred this fact even more, for everyone involved, but it's a shame that something so vital to the species survival is considered so trivial.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 11:02 AM
2

This is an Indian airline company. Remember India is not the USA so you cannot simply transpose US mindsets there. There is an Indian mindset at play here, nothing to do with the US zeitgeist. Their reasons for doing this are probably very different for the reasons a US company would have had.
/r/MensRights31/07/24 04:45 PM
1

Who are you talking to?
/r/MensRights15/07/24 02:50 PM
3

That's exactly the problem, calling a boy a girl, as if it was a slur, just because they're human beings expressing emotions. That's what is so fucked up in these so-called "natural" gender norms. They're not natural, they're violent arbitrary norms enforced through shame and coercion.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 01:09 PM
1

Probably the best advice I've seen here.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 11:57 AM
2

In fact women are those who want less children because it impairs their career and it's hard on the body. What I noticed is that in our Western societies, it's actually more advantageous to have kids if you are a low income or unemployed woman than if you have a good salary. Don't get me wrong, I'm married and pregnant and really happy to build a family, but that's still a sacrifice, even if it's one I decided to do and do not regret. I'm in a lot of pain because the baby kicks me from the insid…
/r/MensRights15/07/24 09:55 AM
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You mean modern progressive Western societies with modern progressive Western ideologies such as feminism?
/r/MensRights15/07/24 09:08 AM
2

If you have to explain that to anyone they're a lost cause. I mean, seriously?! Either she comes from deep trauma and is not in her right mind, so she needs help, and/or she's full of hate because she's been brainwashed by some very damaging ideology. In any case, it is self-evident that saying that all people from a particular group should be murdered is wrong... If you are of sane mind. I personally have been abused by men... mainly, but also women. It doesn't make me hate men as a whole, not …
/r/MensRights12/11/21 09:55 AM
1

I say, just be kind and courteous, but find an excuse and don't go, stay out of this. Whatever the deal is, you don't want to get into a potentially harmful relationship, especially at work. I'm not saying the girl is bad, or has evil intentions, but you are not in such a great place, and you might prove vulnerable to becoming entangled into something you certainly don't need. It could hurt everyone, you, her, her boyfriend, the girls at work... So just protect yourself and everyone else.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 08:33 PM
9

This is sick... As a French I just don't understand why baby boys are circumcised in the USA in the first place. It only happens to Muslim and Jewish children here, and I already think that religion will never be a good reason for mutilating infant genitals (without consent, but children cannot realistically consent to this)... We know already that the hygiene argument is bullshit.. So WHY?!!! Women here are perfectly fine with normal men's genitals, they don't have this stupid idea that circumc…
/r/MensRights25/08/19 09:20 AM
1

Well at least here we can see that people can be deeply angry at a brand. 😅
/r/MensRights25/08/19 07:34 AM
1

There are plenty of male-only clubs in the UK...
/r/MensRights13/07/19 01:03 PM
1

The words "boy" and "girl" are not only used for children. I'm called a "girl" all the time and I'm 34.
/r/MensRights13/07/19 01:00 PM
5

Well done, bullies need to be given a lesson, gender is irrelevant. Mine (girls) only stopped when I became brutal.
/r/MensRights06/07/19 10:36 AM
0

OK, this T-shirt is awful and I really hope it will disappear from the surface of the planet. However if your point is that humour can be harmful (which I believe is true), and that in consequence misandrist jokes should be banned, then you should also forbid all the sexist jokes about women, which are often extremely violent! I don't advocate for oppressive humour (including against "dominants" valid white straight cis men) and don't like it, but freedom of speech must be protected. You cannot …
/r/MensRights02/07/19 09:12 AM
1

I was attacked twice by men with knives in the street while I was just minding my business... But somehow I still don't feel scared by men, probably because most of my closest friends are actually male so I know that most of them are fine people who don't spend their nights prowling for women to assault. I'm just mindful of 3+ groups when it's late and that I'm alone. I read once that showing fear attracted attackers, whatever your gender is.
/r/MensRights24/06/19 09:44 AM
1

Well, we don't need them.
/r/MensRights19/06/19 04:36 PM
2

I'm starting to get my faith in humanity slowly restored... We definitely need to build this new mixed gender equity movement, and fucking listen to and take care of each other. Enough of this war.
/r/MensRights19/06/19 04:35 PM
1

We still have to try.
/r/MensRights19/06/19 01:57 AM
2

We can start here, don't we?
/r/MensRights18/06/19 11:11 PM
3

It should be like that in theory but unfortunately that's not what we see, otherwise this group wouldn't even exist. I spent some time in feminist groups and men's problems were not addressed in a so benevolent way, or not at all, and some even really point at males as the source of all evil and fail to see their suffering... Let's face it. At the same time, many men's right advocates can't stop themselves from hating feminists, or even females, LGBTQI+ etc. I'm still waiting to see a mixed grou…
/r/MensRights18/06/19 07:50 AM
6

I disagree, cartoons have a huge impact on children's representation of the world and shouldn't be dismissed and overlooked.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 07:14 AM
10

You're right, let's build a new gender equity movement taking care of everyone, and let the haters hate.
/r/MensRights18/06/19 07:12 AM
1

Here is the data. Enjoy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_shooting https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_school-related_attacks
/r/MensRights18/06/19 01:37 AM
1

Who, "we"?
/r/MensRights17/06/19 02:13 PM
1

Yes, fanatic Muslims, but I was putting the stress on their number and "understandable" motivation: they followed a particular ideology, which was extremist Islam, while the other guy was a lone wolf which motivations stay a complete mystery.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 02:10 PM
1

This is not what happens normally don't confuse everything and become hateful. Lesbians don't do that, psychopaths do, it doesn't matter if you're a man, a woman, straight or not.
/r/MensRights16/06/19 02:12 PM
12

No they're not normal, normal people don't mutilate, torture and kill children.
/r/MensRights15/06/19 04:52 PM
0

These women are horrible psychopaths! How is that relevant to normal lesbian women or to feminism?! This has nothing to do here IMHO. They won't last very long in prison, everyone hates child torturers and murderer, men, women straight or LGBTs. Everyone.
/r/MensRights15/06/19 04:51 PM
1

You're hopeless.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:32 PM
1

You're lazy and of bad faith. YOUR kids die because of people like you. Your choice. As long as I don't have to live along with you guys, I don't care.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:28 PM
1

Are you interested in the truth or just in protecting your preconceptions, beliefs and ideologies?
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:23 PM
1

Read. Don't be lazy, I took the time to gather this information just for you and already answered your question, in your language. You cannot possibly have read and checked all the sources I gave to you in the short time you answered my message. There is no worse blind than the one who refuses to see. Stop burying your head in the sand like an ostrich and wake up.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 06:17 PM
2

Our school system is much harder on the kids, we almost never get A grades, we're never said we're special and praised for everything (like just participating) like your kids, we have no diploma ceremonies etc. Also it doesn't matter if you're more numerous, we still never had school shootings and the proportion of mass murder is still a tiny ridiculous fraction of what you have in the USA. The Las Vegas shooting, perpetrated by 1 lone killer for no known reason, was much worse (Nvictims/Nkiller…
/r/MensRights14/06/19 05:42 PM
3

You badly misinterpret numbers here: we never had any school shooting, and your number is as it is because of the rare terrorist attacks we had (Bataclan)... Number-wise we don't know this phenomenon at all, and the only cases were committed by fanatics, never kids, because we have no guns.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:06 PM
2

Terrorist attacks, yes, same for children abduction, rape, murder etc. It's never been so low in History. But school and other mass shootings... Well guys, the USA is the only developed country in the world with this phenomenon so there is a real problem there unfortunately. :/
/r/MensRights14/06/19 03:49 PM
1

You see women love and value you, guys... Don't let the noisy minority make you feel unwanted, useless and evil; you're not.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 03:40 PM
1

I do.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 05:38 PM
2

Good, enough of this myth of female purity.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 05:36 PM
1

I know, that's exactly what I said.
/r/MensRights02/06/19 09:24 AM
1

Well, I met my cousin again for the first time after 5 years recently. He's about 20, 14 years younger than me, and a student, while at the moment I am doing quite well financially. So when we met it was obvious for me that I should be the one paying for him, especially as it was not a date at all but a family reunion. However I almost had to fight to pay for both of us and prevent him from giving me some money back! So if this is so deeply rooted into even so young men, it must be the same in w…
/r/MensRights01/06/19 12:53 PM
1

Things are changing... It's not remotely enough that's true, but I believe that at some point people will see the light.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 12:42 PM
1

Indeed, this is a very messy argument... So much that I am not sure exactly what you are trying to say.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 12:38 PM
1

Because it is her body AND she will have to care for it for 18 years, usually with poor support from the man who put it into her body.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 12:33 PM
2

Well I don't see the problem, there are plenty of male shitty movies, what is the big deal?
/r/MensRights06/03/19 01:55 PM
36

"Barrett CDH Adventure"?!! 😑 As if this newborn was living something thrilling and fun while in reality he's mutilated for no other reason than his parents whim... 🙄 Poor baby, one day I hope we will enforce children's right to their body integrity. Children are not the property of their parents, their body belongs to themselves, no one else. 😔
/r/MensRights03/03/19 01:50 PM
3

Yes I know about the effect of testosterone on horniness and visual-spatial tasks. I never read anything about its effect on logic however, I'd be very interested to know more about it. Also about the emotional state, females experience mood swings as well when their oestrogen level is abnormally low so it could be a different phenomenon linked to the loss of a previous physiological hormonal balance rather than to the level of testosterone per se. I would add that the X and Y chromosomes also c…
/r/MensRights29/01/19 04:49 PM
3

I agree with most of what you said, you cannot predict the sex of a person based solely on his/her personality. There are no psychological traits specific of a gender. However as a neuroscientist I know this legend about testosterone is pure BS. Testosterone alone doesn't make a personality masculine. "The testosterone element tends to be the defining difference and this produces people who are emotionally different (less sappy and sentimental and more even-keeled and aggressive)" This has never…
/r/MensRights29/01/19 03:57 PM
5

To be honest I don't think that you need to be a [insert category] to define what a [insert category] is. Definitions of a category shouldn't be dependent on the appartenance to this particular category. On the other hand, who can give a precise and unambiguous definition of "feminity" and "masculinity"? Gender is a very fucked up and vague concept IMO.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 11:49 AM
2

Poor baby boys...
/r/MensRights24/01/19 07:13 PM
5

I know about the USA, and I still don't understand why surgeons accept to operate newborns while their duty should be to protect the children and fight these superstitions.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 02:50 PM
23

Completely off-topic but still a very touchy issue... In Europe men are not cut in general, unless they are Muslim or Jewish. So whenever you say "Hey, maybe it's not ethical to mutilate a baby without his consent for no medical reason" you get into a shitstorm as if you were actually attacking religion. Well... To me the body integrity of babies matters a thousand times more than their parents' beliefs. Children are not property, their body belongs to them alone, no one else.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 01:03 PM
-1

I'm embarrassed as well, even annoyed... But many comments here are not much better unfortunately. :/
/r/MensRights24/01/19 12:57 PM
5

Just sent it to a misandrist male friend, let's see if it appeases his self-hate...
/r/MensRights21/01/19 11:07 AM
1

I couldn't agree more... This concept has been so distorted and twisted. -_-
/r/MensRights21/01/19 10:47 AM
3

Now THIS is toxic masculinity. You're telling all men that they have to fit some particular expectations of virility or they're worthless. And you wonder why so many men commit suicide. Cunt.
/r/MensRights21/01/19 10:29 AM
8

You're mistaken. Toxic masculinity is not about men being toxic at all! It's about men being harmed because they're told to "man up", mocked if they don't fit the typical virile male model, etc.
/r/MensRights21/01/19 10:21 AM
1

Not sure about that... Actually I know many names of public figures accused of rape. It is forbidden not to say that they are ALLEGED rapists, innocent until proved guilty.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 03:48 PM
12

I agree. There are rapists on campuses but there are also liars who get away with it far too easily. Men accused of rape should have a fair trial, not have their lives destroyed on the basis of words only. I wouldn't like my male friends, brothers or sons to go through something like that.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 12:26 PM
1

So much anger... I didn't belittle their sacrifice at all, or called into question their manhood, on the contrary. You're being a bit paranoid here.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 06:58 AM
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I think you're just willing to disagree whatever I say because of my name.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 06:42 AM
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It's their personality... Also they may be afraid to end up being the one accused of domestic violence.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:49 PM
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Haha 😂 No answer, no argument, just a dislike.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:46 PM
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Funny how when you disagree and give facts, numbers and references some people simply disagree without giving any argument.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:39 PM
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I have a male friend who is a riot policeman... But also a misandrist who believes that men are terrible people... Eventually it's me, the so-called "feminist" (not sure if I should use this word anymore actually, not after the Red Pill) who actually loves men, who ends up trying to get him rid of this self-hatred. -_- I've been raised myself by a mother who kept belittling men and saying that she was very happy to only have given birth to girls... And who didn't like my "tomboy" nature. I often…
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:32 PM
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As a child I was extremely rarely hit by my father, very often by my mother... Until I became stronger than her. For some reason people keep believing that violence is a male specificity because of the testosterone etc. but I am not convinced at all. I just watched a video about a mother killing her 9 babies (!!!!) one after the other by suffocation. She was eventually caught and sent to jail for the last one, and the physicians said that when they see a mother rushing in the emergency unit with…
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:03 PM
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I never said it was good or bad, I was just talking about physiology. Of course they are physically old enough to fight, of course they will lose their innocence, suffer and mature quickly as a result... but you don't need to be a fully developed adult to do that, sometimes even children are sent to war, in particular in the old times when our life expectancy was less than 40 years old. If anything I find it sad that so young people are hurt and I fully appreciate their sacrifice. There are many…
/r/MensRights16/01/19 08:43 PM
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Biologically men are not 100% mature before ~25, their brain in particular but they keep growing and becoming more masculine while women's body mature a bit earlier (for their brain is roughly the same). So they're... Very young men or old teens.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 04:26 PM
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It's not just free of course, I explicitly said that it was CHEAPER... It doesn't matter which percentage it is, it is still much less than what the Americans pay, for a service which is still 37th while ours is 1st. My point is still valid... And my bad for the nationality mistake, but this rant about socialism sounded very much like the typical American refrain. Also here what actually mattered was the example of the USA with a very privatised healthcare system which is very costly and ineffic…
/r/MensRights15/01/19 06:29 AM
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Fathers not wanting to stick around in general is a myth; that's the exception not the rule. Do you have references to back up your claim? From what I know, when fathers ask for children custody in court they get it fairly if they were the primary caregiver. They just don't ask for it and/or are not the primary caregiver. https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/divorce/for-men/divorce-for-men-why-women-get-child-custody-over-80-time Also you have all the teen fathers, accident fathers, etc. who usu…
/r/MensRights14/01/19 08:30 PM
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How comes then than France has the best healthcare system according to the WHO while we pay actually much less than Americans for it? They're ranked 37th. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Health_Organization_ranking_of_health_systems_in_2000 To me you have a very strange opinion of what "socialism" means. For example I am very amused when I hear Americans say that France is" socialist". 😂 To me good public services are just basic solidarity and efficiency. To you "solidarity" seems to be a …
/r/MensRights14/01/19 07:55 PM
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Sorry but all this is just a messy hasty interpretation of numbers on a complex social issue by very sensitive non-scientific people just making up explanations without even checking the actual numbers... Also you need to demonstrate the origin of the bias if you find discrepancies between your expected and observed populations. You can't simply say "That's because YOUR PERSONAL OPINION", that's useless. Please give references or you won't be better than the hardcore dogmatic feminists you're (r…
/r/MensRights14/01/19 06:56 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights14/01/19 06:48 PM
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So should women stop caring for these boys and let men do the job?
/r/MensRights14/01/19 06:45 PM
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➡️ Why do you believe that men don't commit more crimes? ⏺️ Even with a biased system, 97% of the prisoners in France are men while ~50% of the population only is male so there must be more than discrimination happening here. In the US it's 93% for 50.8% females and 49.2% males. https://www.bop.gov/about/statistics/statistics_inmate_gender.jsp ➡️ Why do you believe that blacks commit more crimes? ⏺️ It's forbidden to file people according to their race, religion or sexual orientation in my count…
/r/MensRights14/01/19 06:33 PM
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Just wear a condom guys. 😂
/r/MensRights18/12/18 10:33 AM
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I don't think it's very helpful to make these men feel even worse by saying they should "man up" and that it's basically their fault if they're beaten and abused... That's one of the major reason why they don't dare to speak up. Yes it's true than in average men are stronger than women, however sometimes it's not the case, also no one acknowledges that women can be extremely violent as well, and some men can be very gentle, shy and end up being quite submissive. There is nothing wrong in them, t…
/r/MensRights28/08/18 07:15 AM
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Female collaborators were killed as well. They shaved the head of women who slept with Germans soldiers.
/r/MensRights28/08/18 12:04 AM
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(I'm French so please don't mind the English mistakes) I'm a woman, a "feminist"... and I really understand how upsetting and horrible all this must have been, especially as I have also wrongly accused of rape by a spiteful woman, along with my (and her) ex, who is a man (just in case you wondered 😅). I really hate people who lie about this, they're just fucking pieces of shit and they would deserve to be really punished. In my case the consequences were not as terrible but it still escalated qu…
/r/MensRights27/08/18 11:37 PM
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