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Did I write this???? My husband incorporates sex toys in bed but before this I swear I could’ve written this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:06 AM
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Same!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:53 PM
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Yes I strongly suggest you talk with your obgyn or find a plastic surgeon who has vaginal surgery experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:11 AM
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First sentence is already 🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:33 AM
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It’s helped me get rid of my guilt as to why past relationships haven’t worked. I was gaslighted and manipulated into thinking there was something wrong with me, and even though I have a HV husband it’s helped me to uphold those standards, ask hard questions I always thought were impolite (mostly financial questions) and gave me drive to go from stay at home mom to working part time again (after I have this baby I’m pregnant 🤰🏼) so I could have independence and not a huge gape in my resume if I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:33 AM
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The way he went thru her phone?! Toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:44 AM
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I always start work meetings off as “ok team,” but we were also bartenders so maybe too casual for some work places? But we are a team I never put much thought into this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:35 PM
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My HV husband lived with his parents and sister who was 28 when we met he was 32, they are from hongkong , speak Cantonese at home, and split bills. I moved in with them and my two kids from a previous relationship and we never had any real problems, I was a stay at home mom and his parents helped so much with the kids loving the kids as their own grand kids including making them bilingual . BUT he was paying the majority of the bills for his parents, never expected anything financially from me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:27 PM
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Also my child was born 2013 Northern California, so it’s not some medieval practice, yes they do it with no consent! Also I only tore because he kept having the nurse assistant wipe my (ok yes TMI) “goo” away with a scratchy hospital towel and while taking midwife and CNA classes I found out that you need to leave the goo alone !!! Yes it’s dripping gross and smells like blood and bleach (when your water breaks it smells kinda like bleach) but it’s our natural lubricant! My dr was a misogynist a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:05 AM
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It really does not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:59 PM
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Yes my dr did it without my knowledge and I had no idea I couldn’t have vaginal sex until I met my first serious boyfriend after my son was born (3 years later) and we tried too have sex, Sex was extremely painful and I had a scar under the vaginal opening where it looked pinched shut, a plastic surgeon was able to help me allot thankfully and make me feel and look much better and after that I had my second son without stitches or anything. My obgyn at my 6 week postpartum appointment had said “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:57 PM
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As someone who’s had plastic surgery to fix the “husband stitch” just so I could have pleasurable sex again, after being a single teen mom ... Fuck you . Fuck you hard in the ass with an iceyhot covered shovel. 😡😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:13 PM
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Same like I wouldn’t let my sons not just do what needs done around the house, or to want to be thanked like wow it’s so crazy to me that even her mom laughed at her for asking husband to do one chore “it’s be easier if you just did it” , I never even have to ask things just get done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:03 AM
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Oh god it’s only one thing?!?! This made me sooo grateful for my husband who does all our Costco runs staying on top of what we run out of and writing his own lists and makes dinners and works and never says shit about it like this guy....shut up dude nobody is going to thank you for feeding THE DOG especially when you have kids, like honestly?!?! Just be a grown up, I’m tired of these “haha men are children” trophs it’s not cute it’s annoying and pathetic. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ I can’t even name…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:16 PM
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Same same and I love my heels! 🥰🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:47 PM
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Right like every war has been men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:13 AM
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(Sorry I ranted my ex was just like this and I left him because he was basically a permanent 14 year old and now have a HVM husband who I love dearly!) Ok but Men who are raped are also mostly raped by other men!!!, it’s still men being aggressive animals and we need to change society to let men have emotions (I hate “man up” don’t be a girl comments to children) Little girls are not more mature than little boys we are held to higher standards and expected to cook clean ect younger than them, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:30 PM
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Exactly low value men hate women with standards!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:20 AM
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I personally am not a fan of negative emotion inspired tattoos, my friend got one to show love to her child that passed away but now everyone asks about it when she’s wearing a tank top and it ruins her fun night out having to be like “oh my daughter died”. I used to want that one quote “you can be the juiciest peach in the world and there’s still going to be someone who hates peaches 🍑“ with a peach emoji on my hip/side thigh area but decided not to because when I’m wearing a bikini I don’t wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:20 PM
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I’m married now but I think I’m just too polite lol I used to just try to make it thru the date after realizing that I’m really not going to talk to this man again. And I have some horror stories 😩like once had a man destroy a 40$ desert and one time a man creepily took photos and videos of me all night and I told him to stop multiple times and why he kept saying “your just gorgeous” (It because he was a wanna be pimp and used them to advertise strippers on Craigslist it’s a long story) I’ve bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:46 PM
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Yeah or the “I’ll venmo you my half later” or “you picked so you pay” or the 50/50 thing. Which always made me laugh because I’m a pretty girl, they are so delusional...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:18 PM
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90% did ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:12 AM
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I told him I dint feel a connection and your welcome for lunch at the end. Never seen or heard from him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:41 PM
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It was over the coarse of four years or so but yea allot of just complete wastes of time 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:34 PM
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Ok I got a horror story. Went on a date with a guy like this in 2015 after texting for two weeks he said “ we should meet up any ideas?” and I mentioned I actually was craving Panera bread for a lunch and if we could meet next day . Than (at the register?!) he said he expected me to pay because I picked the restaurant and he dint even really like Panera (despite him ordering a full meal and not expressing that the previous day via text) sooo I paid for both of us and literally blocked his number…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:24 PM
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I think laser hair removal for me was the best way I save time on my beauty routine, the hairs I have now are light/blonde/soft/grow slow so I shave every 5 days or weekly, . I’d say to prioritize this, also get a good Groupon to start with. I used to have leg stubble grow after 5 hours maybe, and used leg masks for strawberry leg AND waxing appointments, my Brazilian area I was shaving every other day with bikini cream every day to avoid in frowns and I’d still get a few Also I had my lips tatt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:00 PM
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He does. He did not even know my sons middle name until we were in court , it’s crazy and my son who is almost 5 hates him it’s honestly sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:07 AM
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Very similar to me. I’m so sorry ❤️ I love my son with my whole heart too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:46 AM
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Yea he had no contact from me being 6 months pregnant up until I was served court forms when my son was 3 . I dint know him that well, he even spat in the condom and had taken it off and put it back on, like damn I love my kids and my husband is so amazing with them but I hate that another human had that level of control over my life and I feel stupid for trusting him . I still get weird about doggie-style because that’s how he lied to me, literally behind.my.back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:44 AM
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Agree. I was lied too about a condom he took it off and put it back on after and admitted he even spat in it and commented how wet I was, I was suspicious but damn I should’ve just taken plan B just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:36 AM
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He’s been single since me so I wasn’t the problem 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:57 PM
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And I had gained aton of weight after baby/depression with him I lost 50lbs and my skin cleared like he is truly a blessing 💕💕💕 and my ex was telling was telling me how I don’t deserve love and how fat I had gotten and everything the entire time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:40 PM
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My ex took the condom off and lied about it, because I made good money and was “such a good single mother to the other son” he dint even want me... he just wanted me to have his baby and to tell me I was undeserving undesirable and unworthy of being a wife. I stopped talking to him when I was 6m pregnant he’s not on the birth certificate and my baby has my maiden last name., and when the baby was 2 months I met my now HVM husband. Baby and my my older son calls him dad and he’s an amazing dad. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:24 PM
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I’ve always hated that women are supposed to look like hairless dolphins, when I was growing up I had to shave every morning to wear shorts or my mom would say something but my brothers walked around shirtless with a full gorilla suit on 🙄🙄🙄 we are Italian/Irish with allot of body hair. so gorilla suit is very accurate description
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:08 PM
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He would’ve done so much worse behind closed doors 🥺🥺🥺 girl, file a restraining order and use that money to get a gun and move into a gated community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:03 PM
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Girl I feel this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:17 AM
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I was 16 he was 21, I was dropped out of high school and working as a model with an agency, I bought him a car and paid for his entire life he was literally a BUM. It was his 21st birthday. He had an 8am class so I called and got his phycology and human nature teacher’s email (important to note what class it was) and emailed the teacher arranging for me to bring donuts and balloons to surprise my boyfriend and his class. I show up with my 17 year old sister, first we tied balloons to his car and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:16 AM
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I see your point. luckily we have a house with equity a rental property and stocks that he can’t sell without my consent so he can’t leave me with nothing and I have experience working in the courts and can always bartend (we are in Las Vegas) like I was part time before covid. But I totally get it my mom was very similarly left the same way but never had access to their money my dad was a serial cheater and gambler.. but for me and my husband this works for us, I was a teen mom and struggled fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:30 AM
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Right!! I am a stay at home mom (I used to bartend two nights a week 5 hour shifts before covid and before that I went to nursing school and had a few office jobs I am pregnant and might never go back to work) my husband works full time while I’m with the kids. I am more happy and secure than ever. BUT my husband and I do not have any separate accounts. His paycheck goes into our joint account I transfer 20% to our savings, than I pull cash allowance for both of us for hobbies/fun like his motor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:55 PM
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I wish I had more to say because my husband is just amazing after having dated losers forever, I had become single while pregnant and had a 3 week old baby and a 3 year old with two LVM I was at my fattest I’ve ever been and was really feeling like nobody would ever want me again (mostly because thats what my ex and my mom would tell me) when I met my husband who was just incredible he dint care about any of that he loves me and my kids and my past. my friend however met her husband while out wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:22 PM
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My sons clean/cook (age appropriate for 4/8) and are very respectful. this is where who you married matters sooo much because my husband shows them how to be men and I hope they end up like him. I’m pregnant with a girl and she will have the same rules and expectations, Unfortunately my sister has two sons and is exactly like this, her kids are 3year 2year and they call her b**** and don’t clean up even a simple mess, because her boyfriend (he doesn’t want to marry her and is a ZVM) calls her b*…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:29 PM
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Not when that same man wouldn’t leave you alone until you show a ring, a woman’s “no” should be enough. It makes me sad men will respect a man they don’t know more than they respect the woman standing in front of them 🥺😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:39 AM
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“Best regards” Idk why but that sent me 😂😆🤣 Like oh man, throw that trash away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:07 AM
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I hate the whole “17 is so close to 18” I gag seeing guys my age (26) going for 18-21 year old girls... Going for 18 year old girls when your 21+ is like jobs paying minimum wage, if they could legally go lower they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:40 PM
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You don’t owe him anything. But that is not your friend, dump him and run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:15 PM
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