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Update- Reunifying therapy refused- kids alienated, stepping back now Yes it is a ridiculous system. Pitting parents against each other then they are supposed to magically coparent. Wtf? I have come to the conclusion it's divide and conquer to extract money. I think it's by design. In what universe do you accept allegations without evidence, then take A YEAR plus to get to trial, and if you are lucky, go through the allegations to prove them wrong. By that time children are turned against father…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 09:04 AM
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Petition https://c.org/MV42XMhVgM
/r/MensRights13/06/26 03:21 AM
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petition
/r/MensRights13/06/26 03:20 AM
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It's crap because my partner hardly drinks, doesnt take drugs, never found to be a risk. Pays his child support. Tried so hard and been careful. Allegations accepted on face value until trial. If genders were reversed probly outcome would be different which I find really frustrating.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 05:46 AM
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My partner will get more legal advice but I see no solution. I feel like we should walk away but there is still the unnacceptable risk of emotional harm by the mother. Do we just ignore that now and walk away? I have no idea
/r/MensRights04/06/26 05:41 AM
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My partner successfully contested a family violence order and won. Mother commenced proceedings family court, they got a consent order to start supervised time, graduating to unsupervised and overnights. Mother subjected kids to emotional harm by continuing to instil a false belief in kids that father was abusing them. (Took to dr and psychologists, trying to bring up memories- practice which has been discredited.) Father did everything to prove he is not a risk. Had a risk assessment done- low …
/r/MensRights04/06/26 05:37 AM
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Also look up Alan Blotcky. A professional who describes the signs of false CSA allegations in divorce.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 02:34 AM
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Yeah, I'm Australian and I find Australian guys pretty passive. No way have 1 in 3 perpetrated domestic violence. However there is a problem with alcoholism with both sexes. The only Australian man I've met who I considered coercively controlling was an alcoholic. Women can also quite easily ruin a man's reputation and life. And that may be on par with physical violence tbh. There needs to be a distinction between emotional abuse and violence though. However, everyone is taught that men are the …
/r/MensRights01/05/26 12:55 PM
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How is making someone anxious violence? I understand fearful. But people could feel anxious over all kinds of stuff. Maybe the partner has anxiety that's higher than normal. If they just left it at fearful they probably would get better data. I don't know.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 12:44 PM
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Make sure you document everything you do for the kids and stay child focussed. If she is mentally unwell she may falsely accuse you of something. I would focus on the kids as much as possible
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 02:59 PM
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Family court does not have a good way to deal with child psychological abuse (parental alienation). It seems that the court only act on physical or sexual abuse allegations (that is abuse to mother or child). As the lawyer said maybe the father if he gets in first- though I have never heard of that. Living with a controlling/disordered/psychologically abusive mother and losing a safe father (or vice versa) can be just as damaging to children. I've heard of the kids suiciding when they grow up an…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 04:48 PM
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In Australia something like 80+% of family court matters contain allegations (mainly that the father has been abusive to mother or child). Most are unsubstantiated. I'd say half would be false. So maybe 40% of family law matters contain false or dubious allegations. Which is insane. They ALL have to be investigated, but if they are false no one is punished. We have taken out 'rebuttable presumption of shared parenting' out of our legislation. The top thing to consider is now 'relationship with t…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 05:50 AM
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Best interest is status quo prevailing and no physical abuse. Doesn't seem to matter if the child doesn't see a safe father.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 05:37 AM
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Yes there is no morality or fairness in it. If you go in expecting that you will be disappointed. Ultimately it comes down to the judge. Yes a big part is patterns over time. And it can take them a long time to see patterns. I also think there's no real logic or common sense. The court goes off status quo, physical abuse accusations towards child, and maybe after a long time, proof of alienation. If they live with the mother, the only thing that would lead to change in residence is probably phys…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 05:35 AM
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At this point courts should just- Accept every allegation as true.(except women abusing men. Obviously that's false lol). No investigation necessary. Immediately get man kicked out of the house. Primary care to mother plus child support. Automatically divide assets with a percentage commission going to the court and lawyers for their (mainly administrative) service. Poor fathers will get no time. Richer fathers will get supervised time so the supervision centres will keep being funded. Also psyc…
/r/MensRights16/03/26 09:15 AM
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Why on earth wouldn't I when my partner is going through something extremely unfair? Even before I met him, I knew men going through obviously stressful times just trying to SEE their children. Broaching this subject with other women usually causes an uncomfortable silence and quick change of the subject. I have felt this way for the last 10 years.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 03:57 AM
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Nope, from my experience. I support men and I know other women who do, but it doesn't seem to be many. I know if I speak about men's issues women tend to ignore it or look at me like I'm strange. So I'm careful to bring it up.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 03:52 AM
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You are right, I don't think there are many but they do exist.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:51 PM
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The latest issues are 'emotional labour' and 'mankeeping.' Which could be defined as being a responsible and good person. I know they have to keep manufacturing issues to advocate for but it's such a waste of time and that really pisses me off lately. Devote that energy to, I don't know, women who actually need help.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:48 PM
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Correct. I have lost one friend over it. There are certain subjects (including false allegations- which I've known a few good men trying to deal with in family court) that I talk about extremely carefully or not at all with women. That being said some women are willing to listen and are really cool. There are some things that cause men suffering that few people acknowledge. I try to in my way. By the way, I'm a bit left wing. And I don't think talking about men's issues should be 'something only…
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:42 PM
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I actually think some of the allegations are just to cause some kind of reaction to say 'look he's abusive!' And also hurt you by withholding kids. I reckon there's so much revenge in it. And their hatred just gets absorbed by the kids too. This is a huge issue that people ignore. US has time 'taken time back' in some states. I wish it was here also.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 12:10 PM
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In Australia after judicial proceedings, mothers get sole custody 45% of time and fathers get it 11% of time. 39.8% of the time it's shared custody. In all of separations -, mothers have sole responsibility 27% (9% father never sees, 18% father sees daytime only). - fathers have sole responsibility 2% (1% mother never sees and 1% mother daytime only) *Australian institute of family studies So in almost 1 in 10 separated families, kids don't see father at all.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 09:20 AM
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I do realise it was probably worse 50 years ago, ie mother would always have full care of children and father wasn't required to see them at all. But I feel like it's heading in that direction again. As we don't have 'rebuttable presumption of shared parenting'' anymore so there is no incentive to really keep the father (or non resident parent) in the children's life anymore.
/r/MensRights13/03/26 08:59 AM
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It depends if the mother gets influenced to make a false allegation or exaggerates something. She doesn't need evidence to do this, just saying she's afraid or the children are afraid is enough. Sometimes they can have a paranoia that the father is abusing the kids somehow (especially if the mother is a controlling, neurotic person.) Sometimes the child abuse allegations could be true but in divorce proceedings I've read it's more likely to be tactical (Alan Blotcky). In Australia, if a mother m…
/r/MensRights13/03/26 08:54 AM
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Yes, humanism. I used to call myself a humanist when I was growing up. Didn't hear much about feminism in 90s and early 2000s as we had basically won equal rights by then and any perceived unfairness was more cultural. There were the girl power bands in the 90s but I don't remember them criticising men that much. Maybe in a romantic sense? Now though it seems if you aren't feminist you are evil. It seems to have this moral high ground. Which doesn't make sense as their are many ways men are disa…
/r/MensRights13/03/26 08:27 AM
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Yes it's propaganda to get more funding into the organisations. They need the problem to be serious/getting worse to justify their existence
/r/MensRights13/03/26 08:15 AM
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There are a few points- I get their concern as men are generally stronger than women so hits from a man are generally going to do more damage. (Though this doesn't square with feminists believing that the genders are the same?) However this is just hype over something that has been on a downward trend since the 90s. Domestic violence has been DECREASING since the 90s - there's graphs online showing number of female deaths DECREASING. The media will whip people into a frenzy over it. And DV organ…
/r/MensRights13/03/26 08:13 AM
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They look at who the child is most attached to, not the quality of attachment- ie is it controlling or out of guilt. And if primary parent is just going to fight everything then the courts will just end up agreeing with them as the easier option. It's sad because if the children lived with the father in most cases they would definitely have time with the mother. But courts leave them with the mother (as they don't want to disrupt them) and then they end up having no time with the father. So yes …
/r/MensRights10/03/26 05:37 PM
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I don't think the court particularly cares. If someone makes an accusation it just doesn't really matter if it turns out not to be true. If the child is safe (as in safe from physical harm, emotionally unsafe is irrelevant) with primary parent (ie mother), even if she just makes constant, absurd allegations, they are not that interested in keeping father in the kids life. I used to wonder why courts, judges allowed lies, perjury, tactical allegations, delays etc. They don't look at behaviour tha…
/r/MensRights10/03/26 05:29 PM
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I don't think it matters if they are tactical. The result is it keeps the other parent away. Then the court won't want to disrupt the status quo for the child, so it's very hard for the non primary to get any time back. Even if they get time, primary parent can keep breaking orders. It's so sad.
/r/MensRights10/03/26 05:18 PM
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https://www.warpnews.org/human-progress/domestic-violence-decreases-in-australia-2/ Yep, has been decreasing since the 90s with a very slight uptick in deaths recently. Not exactly a crisis. See above link. Yes while it's good to have awareness, media is now sensationalizing this. Meanwhile, violence against men is simply ignored. There is too much propaganda not based on evidence Australia recently. Have to detach sometimes for sanity.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 08:58 AM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights08/03/26 04:17 PM
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This is correct. They have an ideological bias and take allegations as true. Which makes everything much more complicated and can end up being harmful to the children. I think the court mainly over focuses on protection of women and children, to the exclusion of any other possibilities (at least initially) The allegations that are automatically taken seriously/believed straight away are: -woman alleging violence from man -anyone saying child has been abused I have heard of lawyers discouraging m…
/r/MensRights08/03/26 04:14 PM
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Oh God this makes me sick and I'm a woman. I'm so sorry. I mean I can say I was technically overpowered once and a man didn't listen to my no's which were constant and ongoing for minutes. However we were both drunk tbh and I thought there is some grey area here as I didnt physically fight that hard. I mean, he was a prick though. That was early 2000s. And I write it off as drunken mistake. But this? Are you fking kidding me? I thought women had agency to leave. Jesus Christ. It makes a mockery …
/r/MensRights05/03/26 09:48 AM
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For instance, one of the allegations in my partner's case was so bizarre and ridiculous he laughed at it, the family report writer criticised him for laughing and interpreted that as abusive. It's completely against common sense.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 09:30 AM
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I'm a woman and the above is complete and absolute truth. Guys who are separating need to know this. Have known quite a few men who went through this. It's gross.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 09:19 AM
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I have heard 'parents don't have rights to their children, only responsibilities' which in my opinion is kind of a scary statement. Like the government could come in and snatch them and you can't do anything. Sounds a bit like the stolen generation to me. And I agree, it men are deprived more as they usually don't start off as the primary carer. And there is no 'aftercare' in family court, to make sure orders are complied with etc.
/r/MensRights05/03/26 09:13 AM
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You are speaking about your experience of men who have been convicted with evidence. Yes men can probably inflict more violence than women due to their biology. And it's a problem. I wouldn't deny that. However, there are some issues in the training in social work, human services etc. it's not acknowledged that women can be physically and/or emotionally abusive to men It's probably not acknowledged that children could make false/wrong disclosures? (I'm assuming here). Also I'm wondering if peopl…
/r/MensRights05/03/26 09:04 AM
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Do you see your kids after all that? I'm a woman so probably shouldn't be on this sub, but I think family courts treat fathers horrendously. Smart of you to film and record. Yes it seem like there's some kind of dvo industrial complex going on. What annoys me is people/women face no consequences for lying/obstructing time. It's appalling.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 04:29 PM
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I think a percentage of these women have borderline personality disorder (or narcissist). They can't believe you won't do exactly as they say and therefore you deserve punishment. I am a woman and I'm more scared of women then men currently. Most Australian guys are pretty laid back. (There is some issues with alcoholism.) Some women (not all) are downright scary with their accusations and game playing. They make you doubt your sanity. I absolutely have sympathy with men.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 01:08 PM
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People go on and on about domestic violence, but not one word about it being used advantageously in family court. Also I think withholding children when there is no issue is a form of domestic violence. It's a form of child abuse. I wish that would be added to the dv statistics.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 12:58 PM
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I'm so sorry. This is rampant in Australia. There are a few good judges that at least recognise it. Whether they actually do anything is another matter. I feel for fathers because they start off at a disadvantage (mother is primary carer and chief brainwasher). I don't know if it's by incompetence or design
/r/MensRights03/03/26 12:53 PM
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