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| 3 | The Argument Against Cold ApproachOLD, IRL, IGM. It doesn’t matter! If you see someone you think is cute grow up and go see what’s up! Be a man of action | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Attractive guy but I’m terrible with girls8/10. Well damn, you don’t need anyones help. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | My BF doesnt wanna get married ever25M, especially in our digital age, can be very immature. The difference between 25 and 29 is remarkable with men. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Will having a lot of sex make me happier?To me it’s a short term bandaid. Pretty therapeutic, but crazy short term solution. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you have have sex even if it was going to be bad?This is why I have ED medication just in case. Just having it put me more at ease. If the first time isn’t good, lot less likely there will be a second time. Every advantage helps. One thing I learned is women love to tell their friends about great sex. So if you deliver the first time, they will sometimes come back around to tell their friends again. Awkward going to the doctor but it’s been fantastic to have around in case it might be needed. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:02 AM |
| 10 | What have you done that improve your overall success with women?Caught my fiancé cheating on me. Took me about a year to do this- I drastically upgraded my apartment. Got more space and moved to a area walking distance to a ton of bars. Bought nice furniture, decorated the walls, put smart lights and Alexa speakers around. Put up a huge TV on the wall. Bought a awesome bedroom set. Put rugs down in different spots. For the first time in my life actually cared about my apt as a experience. Changed absolutely everything. Best decision of my life was being hell… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Why are women so attracted to confidence and fun.It seems like a lot of women are attracted to trivial, unimportant traits. Confidence is kind of understandable. I grew a beard a 6 weeks ago and it’s been a massive hit. Im the same guy before the beard. Other examples I see are driving a truck, certain taste in music, and social media presence. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Getting #s at bars but struggling beyond that. How to improve night game follow-through?I will text them when she is with me but not just my name, something like "Brad tall attractive pretentious attorney" or something like that. I don't want to be just another name so I make it personal | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I need help with thisListen to womens dating advice and do the opposite. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | What are some things I can do to be around more women?Orange theory | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Getting #s at bars but struggling beyond that. How to improve night game follow-through?I by no means am a playboy, but have found waiting a 7-10 days is more effective. Not the next day. The success rate didn’t skyrocket, but it definitely improved. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:28 AM |
| 4 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youThe specific situations being used shouldn’t undermine the truthfulness of this principle. Proximity is very good. Regardless, when your trying to meet women, don’t believe in coincidences. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 0 | What 99% of you actually need to experienceNot buying it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I let this one go?Simple rule is mixed signals is a no go. Often easier said than done. With mixed signals I typically delete their number so I can’t even text her if I wanted. If she texts me and it sounds serious she will get a response. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How to make a compliment not friendly to let her know you want more than that?Or just read the book Models because that’s where the “context matters” statement comes from | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Is it a good thing for girls to see you with other girls?Women’s dating advice to men: Bad idea because this makes you look like a player. Reality: The best thing you is having attractive women around you flirting. Even better when they see you leave together. Countless times I have been turned down my women. They then see me strike up a engaging conversation with another woman who’s interested and the first woman suddenly can’t take her eyes off us. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsI’m 35. I don’t avoid early 20s but typically the immaturity is too much. Mid to late 20s are the women I typically date, but it’s all personal preference | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?Probably need more information. What is our intention? You looking for another casual encounter or to date? Rough ages? Same city? Were you on a date or was this a one night hookup? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsSpeaking as a male- If you take care of yourself and have your shit together, the market does nothing but grow with age. I am having more fun being single at 35 than I did 25. So I am approaching more frequently. The rejection percentage is still the same but the number of TIMES I approach women has gone a ton up. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to approach cute girl in my apartment complexI have had many friends who met their now wife at their apartment complex. I have had several relationships I don't regret from meeting women at my complexes. Your in a good position because seeing a person several times over the course of some time can establish a level of trust. In my experience: This is one of the few places the slow game has worked much better for me. I kept seeing her, making small talk, then inviting her to a hangout that was going on at the complex. But always be prepared… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Advice on cold approachingEinstein: Smart people simplify things. I have found a majority of the time the best cold approach has been with a smile and saying, "Hi, my name is Ryan." No cute lines, immediate compliments, nothing crazy off the bat. Unless there is something very specific or relatable to say, that has been highly effective. That doesn't directly answer your question but whenever my thoughts complicate things, I focus on simplicity. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 03:58 AM |
| 8 | Don't take rejections to your heart.The legendary self-help guru Dale Carnegie studied successful individuals for a large chunk of his life. When asked about the single most important takeaway from studying successful people, Carnegie responded: “If I knew what you think, I would know what you are, for your thoughts make you what you are. By changing our thoughts, we can change our lives.” I struggled with rejection until changing my thoughts. I now view rejection as a badge of honor. In a odd way I now embrace rejection. I think … | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I’m now starting to realize why you not text too long before meetingPhysical distance. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | I’m now starting to realize why you not text too long before meetingA few thoughts in no particular order: Texting is to meet in person. If she flakes or doesn't seem excited about meeting up, never been worth the energy If she loves to text but won't meet up, she just wants attention The longer we text, less likely it is we meet up in person. If i ever actually last long enough on a app, I give the number at most after 2-3 message exchanges The only time playing some light texting games works (for me) is when there is a distance. Some light games and sexual inn… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I wait for her to hit me up again?Personally, I would at least pursue one more time. I would text her Wednesday or Thursday once you have the plans locked in. If she does NOT respond, do not text her. If she responds, follow up accordingly the day of the event or closer to the event. The text the day of is more personal preference. On the surface I believe you have several things going right: She texted you Sunday evening. This is not a small gesture. The analysis is shorter and conclusion is different if she did not text you. T… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Should I shoot my shot at this girl that works at my college gym?Assuming everything you said is true, I don't think sleazy applies because: She has apparently moved closer to you while working out (proximity). In my experience, this alone occurring several times is a absolute green light, regardless of whether she says anything. In my experience the woman will rarely something but create closer (even slightly) proximity. She has looked at you. Another excellent sign. The gym is unique in that you sometimes you are far enough away where she feels comfortable … | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask my friend to set me up with her friend?My favorite line is, "What is XXXX's story?" I find this vague question delivers the point. If not insulted or stand offish (which sometimes occurs when the friend has jealousy issues or secretly likes you), the friend often tells me her relationship status. Another common response is immediately scrutinizing your compatibility with her friend. Regardless of her conclusion, the analysis is potentially helpful insight. This questions shows you 1) are aware of this individual and 2) you are intere… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 4 | How to approach people at a party?If it were me: When you arrive, do not scan the environment for her at the party. This is difficult more many so you may need to make a conscious effort Building on #2, do not approach her/her friends immediately Get a drink, find a group you get along with and hang out w them for awhile After you do approach and chat, leave her for awhile. Mingle with other people. The reasons are at least threefold. First, her friends will ask her about you. Second, leaving after awhile shows you are not needy… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Why I feel so nervous while talking to girls and run out of words to say?If it were me, I would contact a person(s) you think does a confident job approaching and speaking with women. See what places he chooses (and not just bars), see how he approaches and how he selects when to approach. Ask him his thoughts about encounters afterwards. Do this as often as he will have you. You can travel lights in 4-5 weeks with this. If nothing else, it might help you because as the Navy Seals say, “Calm is contagious.” | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:17 AM |
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